Hi guys, thanks for all the comments! These are my tips on what I do to get ready for a date out. Please don’t take these as rules and ultimately do what makes you feel good inside and out 😊. It is important to be yourself and embrace your individuality. I had lots of fun filming this video with Alfred. Thank you so much for watching. Love you guys! 😘
Thank u very very much ❤❤ really u r so helpful and so cute and the way u make your video it's so good and funny and i like the final tip be yourself 😊 And i really ship your relation with Alfred hope one day you get married 😘
There's so many people saying you're beautiful if you're just yourself, while that is true, let's be real. People naturally prefer someone who takes care of themselves, go a little extra and do something nice and you'll probably feel extra special about yourself!
exactly!! for me, I have very sparse eyebrows, so filling them in is a must for me when I have to go to the store or anywhere. I helps me feel better about myself. I'm a very confident person, but I do like to make myself feel good about it. it's the little things that matter. my grandmother always told us to dress appropriately.
So I do nothing and feel really pretty like that! I wear no sexy outfits and also in my chill Sunday Pyjama I love myself and my boyfriend loves it too
Passion of the Moment if you feel confident and comfortable like that, then you do you! Personally, I won't go anywhere without my hair and makeup presentable.
Why do people always get upset when people say to work on your appearence? There is nothing wrong with keeping up good hygiene and putting a little effort into your face and hair, that's like common sense. Do you want to go out of the house smelling bad and looking like you just got out of bed? If you got offended by that maybe you should take those tips. Sick of people shitting on people who say tips like this, this isn't forcing an image on you, she didn't say do everything exactly how I did it or else you suck. Are ya'll that insecure that you can't even listen to someone saying to take care of yourself and your appearence, and to smile? These are just tips she finds makes her look nicer, no one is free of flaws and there is nothing wrong with trying to look a little bit nicer. Take that stick out of your ass.
Wow, I think people focus too much on finding stuff to be offended/critical about nowadays. This video isn't about changing yourself to fit a standard. It's about caring about yourself enough to make sure you look/feel your best! If you are looking nice and showing a positive attitude, doesn't it boost up your confidence? It doesn't mean you absolutely have to wear exactly what she is in the video, but just look put together, smile and be approachable - that's it! Show positive attitude and people will be attracted to you naturally. Stop being so critical about everything for God's sake. Great video, Tina, as always! Love you! 💜
I like her video. still some things she says are just in the standarts how woman should be but not everyone is like that or want to be. some feel great without all that. but feel bad because videos like this.
I like these tips. I have anxiety and depression. So when I dress up or do things to make myself feel more taken care of or when I pamper myself, i feel loads better!! Essentially, I fake it till I make it lol. Love this 😊 thank you tina
Laney B I am so sorry about your anxiety and things. Fake it till you make it is a good idea. I hope you're also being treated by a Dr and such. Counseling really can make a big difference. I'm speaking from experience. Take care of yourself. Pamper yourself often. You deserve it!!!
these are just her tips and opinions. Not demands. She’s just expressing what makes her appeal more attractive and portraying them as ideas and tips for others. She’s not saying you NEED to do these tips. I don’t know why people keep saying that she was shallow for doing this and not getting the message. They just have to criticize a good video and make it seem bad.
I think people are exaggerating. She just pointed out what you could do if you want to impress someone or enhance your beauty. She not telling you to change. It tips you don't have to take it. Be honest if your going somewhere fancy and nice- are you not going to put makeup or at least have nice clothes for a special event. For example prom, graduation,first date in fancy restaurant... Blah blah... Yeah right, so why are people whining?
Why the hate ? Do you guys not put in any effort to look good and feel good about yourselves? It is normal to want to look your best for your partner , dressing up to impress your partner on dates. If you go out on a date with a guy with bad breathe, sloppy clothes, sweaty scent, it that a turn on or turn off ? Also, this is just a fun video. Not in any way should this be taken as offensive or seriously. Some tips may help others, but if it doesn't seem useful to you, then don't be negative.
Although I’m 60 I loved this video!! The tips were so great and you are so funny! It’s obvious how much effort you put into your videos. Thanks so much!!🌝🌝🌝🌝💝💝
There's something to be said about people who take care of themselves and their apperance. Isnt it just natural for us to look for that in a mate to see "Hey! If they can take care of themselves they'll take care of me." Not dependence, just care. Like in a normal stable relationship. I dont think these tips are vain AT ALL
Oh good heavens.....so for a first date you should show up after you haven't showered or brushed your teeth in a week? Wear the same sweats and t that you've been wearing for 2 weeks? And slouch around, dragging your feet in the tennis shoes with the holes in them.....really people. All she is really saying is make an effort to look presentable when meeting someone. Dress appropriately for where the date is to occur. If it's at a 100 dollar a plate restaraunt, dress accordingly. If it's at an amusement park, dress accordingly. But make an effort. Show them that meeting them means something to you and you feel that person is important enough for you to make that effort. You don't have to pile on makeup or wear stilletos or a tight dress.
People are taking this too seriously, like really, this video does never tell you to follow these "rules". You get to choose whatever you are comfortable with, and it's not like if you don't do these you won't be attractive. You can rock your own style in your own way. Seriously I don't think Tina should be getting any hate over this video, just saying💓
I kind of foresaw that there would be many negative comments about the video once I started watching it. People, these are TIPS, they are TIPS, by no means you have to follow, and if you don't agree, just leave quietly. These are suggestions to "look" more "attractive", so obviously they are superficial. Seriously? Are you going to "look" at someone's thoughts and values at one glance? And since it's aimed to make you look more attractive, it's naturally going to give you advice on how to make yourself look "better" than you normally would at your home. It's not going to say, "hey, be in your t-shirt and sweatpants and wear flipflops, you'll definitely look better in that!" That's for comfort, not good looks. OF COURSE you can wear those if you want to, but it's not associated with being "more attractive" which is the title of the video. Also, most people (except one in a million natural beauties and teenagers) are not going to look better in their natural look. It's really a lie. Why do you think so many youtubers teach the "no makeup makeup look"? And so many viewers too. Makeup done right definitely still makes you look natural, just with your features enhanced. I don't mean instagram glam looks though. It's about not having too much. Guy who say they like girls without makeup really mean they like you with makeup that he can't tell what you have on. A little foundation for better skin look and color correction if you have any blemishes, definitely brows, cheeks, and a tint of light-worn lipstick is best IMO. Believe it or not, people do "look" better and more put together, when properly dressed-up. People who look good in gym outfit definitely still look better in other clothes. Though it's a matter of personal taste if you want to dress comfortably, and if you want your partners to look relaxed, this video applies to general audience, and definitely applies to East Asian countries (where I live). So many comments really don't make sense. I mean, what did you expect when you clicked on a video that says, "9 Ways To Look Instantly More Attractive "? And she did mention in the end that, confidence is important, and (once you get to actually talk with the person), you can be yourself and let your unique personality shine. P.S. Realistically, many guys won't even be interested enough to try to know you when you're not attractive.
Renn Li so true. Agreed with ya. I wonder who would want to present themselves in flip flops, messy hair, smelly (not a lot of people would spritz perfume smelling nice at home) and wrinkled larger than own body shirts to a date, or hang-out or a place where people gather or party? C'mon people, do know the differences between be yourself and look attractive. You don't wear 'house-clothing' to a date, or someone's party or a gala dinner/glam party/event. Seriously.
I would spend an hour to doll up for a weekly date with my hubby. The only time I'll be putting a red lipstick, Smokey eyes, stiletto and sexy dresses and J'adore parfum. and then back to comfy stuff working as a Nurse 😂
women also use dating apps for a "good time", the fact women don't pay but men do is quite sexist - assuming only men use for sex. that's a really bad message because women do the same :(
Suddenly everyone in the comments is like "we dislike this and we are beautiful the way we are" or hi Tina i kove you but i disagree" okay then why do you watch her beauty channel in the first place? her youtube channel is all about beauty what's new? i don't get it! applying makeup and styling your hair and wearing good clothes doesn't mean you are not attractive the way you are! she's just giving you guys tips to look "more" attractive" if you want! she also reminded you guys at the end of the video to "to be yourself , let your personality shines , emprace your flaws and imperfections" so giving you guys tips doesn't mean y'all aren't beautiful you need to chill lol
guys... tina is a beauty guru. she's not asking y'all to put on tons of makeup, style your hair and wear a dress. she's just giving tips on how to feel attractive and confident IF that's what you need help with. i personally feel more confident when i put effort into my physical appearance. this is a great video :)
People's sensitivity really blinds them from rationale. While I agree these aren't what define beauty, have enough common sense to see that she made this video for a dating app. She's giving you tips on looking attractive in the context of dating, not as "the way you are isnt good enough". And please, let's get real. You may already be beautiful naturally, but you can be/feel even more beautiful when you take care of your appearance.
pepper spray is a bit of a false security, but i would totally agree with keeping in touch with people! one of the reasons i love Uber is that my friends can track me all the way back to the apartment.
There's so many people offended by such a harmless and fun video. A lot of people on RUclips post videos on diet tips and tricks on how to lose weight fast but aren't health advisors or anything because ultimately those tips are what works for them and they just want to share their own experiences. If you wanna wear baggy clothes and no makeup on your date than that's all on you, no need to feel disappointed that she's sharing such no brainer tips lol
Being yourself is the most attractive thing you can do. I love your channel, but don’t really agree with the many tips you provided to make yourself look pretty. You were gorgeous with your shorts, simple tank top, hair and flip flops. 😂 High heels are pretty painful in my opinion. I prefer wearing my hair down and doing nothing to it while wearing what makes me feel like me.
Marianne Parker your point is totally valid! I saw it in a different perspective though. I saw these as tips to accentuate the natural beauty you possess. Like the straightening your back to look more confident, if you want to do your hair pick something easy that will flatter your face shape, etc. Right? They’re more like tips to flaunt what you’ve already got!
raaducay I totally get what you’re saying. But the way she words it is a little weird. It kind of sounds like you can’t be attractive unless you’re wearing high heels, a dress, makeup, etc. I think anyone can look beautiful, even in an old t-shirt and sweats. But of course that’s just my opinion, nothing against anyone. My thoughts aren’t facts. c:
Marianne Parker yeah you’re right you really get that vibe from her choice of words. I’m guessing she had to please the sponsor/fit that theme? Not sure, but I totally get you’re side too! The execution could’ve been different :P
Seriously, ugh, Tina means well by this. So what, if you have a interview to go to your just going to go dressed like a bum? Don,t think you'll make a first good impression. Looks are important if you don't take care of yourself then no one will want to talk to you if you don't look presentable. No matter how smart, nice, funny, etc. you are with people. I'm a true believer than ones personality should represented outside as it is inside.
Tina: Embrace all your flaws and imperfections because they weren’t seem like flaws at all to the right person. Me: thanks so much tina you’re so right 😍
I don't get people bashing her for making a video for tips to look attractive. I personally hate wearing makeup, high heels and virtually everything that could make me look more attractive but I really respect people that go through all that to look better!
OMG! THE LAST STEP WITH YOU & ALFRED HAD ME D Y I N G!!! YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER. & the smiles were so genuine ((((‘: I wish you both many more happy years together♡
Tina, love your channel and I saw what you were doing here especially at the end with the confidence and being yourself but the beginning is a bit counterintuitive. I don't wear heels, dresses or do my hair with heat tools and red is not my color and I know you still think I'm beautiful as I am but the steps in this video made it seem like if i don't do them I'm not beautiful
This is a good reminder I need to work on learning how to style my new short hair. It’s finally the length I can actually style it and not just leave it as is
how to be pretty: wear a bunch of makeup, iron your hair, smile a bunch, wear a formal dress and red lipstick, wear high heels, don’t be insecure and be yourself all at the same time!!!!
While u wish for an idealistic world where first impressions do not matter, it will never happen. Whether u like it or not, looks are important to most people. It doesn’t mean that you have to transform entirely, but at least put some effort into how you carry yourself.
bug listen to what she said St the start!! She literally said for a date or looking for someone!! But it's fine, you just criticise the tiniest thing your brain doesn't understand!
How to be more attractive: Be more confident confidence is the most attractive thing a person can wear you don’t need to dress up or wear a lot of makeup because to the people who matter who you are is the most attractive thing
“Embrace your flaws and imperfections because they won’t seem as flaws to the right person” that’s the best piece of advice I’ve ever heard and that instantly made me feel more confident 🥰 thank u Tina
In my opinion, I partially agree with your tips, Tina! With the hair, makeup, smile, and whatnot. But most of the time, I prefer wearing casual clothes and sneakers. As long as I look presentable but still being myself. 😃 Thank you for this video, Tina! I appreciate it so much! 😄❤ As for the audience, I'm sure most of us love being ourselves (already), but let's remember that there are also insecure people who mostly likely try to be somebody else they're not and probably need this video. 😉 Anyway, God bless to everyone and take care! 💕
I really enjoyed this video. The basic tips to really up your presentation game! People seem to misunderstand the concept of your video and take it as shallow tips but it truly isn’t. Going on a first date or any date means to really amp your usual look without hiding who you are. You can take these tips as a grain of salt and add your own unique touch. I hope none of these comments offend you! Love you!
wha's great about these tips is the one that make me feel confident , like having a neat and fresh haircut makes me feel 10 000 times better and more confident , and you know i like to believe that beauty is a lot of confidence so
Hey Tina! I love the concept behind this video, but I feel like it kind of holds an unrealistic standard that people have to be a certain way for others to like them or find them attractive. People can have their own individual style, and I see that at the end of the video, you said to "be yourself", but these advice don't reflect that. By no means am I attacking you, I just wanted to put a thought out there.
I think the whole point of the video was "How to be presentable". Wearing a nice outfit, having a flattering haircut and smelling nice doesn't turn you into someone else, it just turns you into your BEST self :)
yea for sure! i think she could've said it better tho. I appreciated the tips. However, there were some parts of the video that made me cringe because it seemed like there had to be a certain way people had to be in order to be more attractive.
So excited for this video 😍♥️ Thank you for the tips Tina, although I am already married these are still helpful too look pleasant to feel better about myself. Love the changing outfit part, lol! 😂😂😂
Hey Tina! I love all your videos! Never ever miss your videos. Just wanted to ask if you can do couple of videos on quality hair products for various hair related issues, styles and so on. 😊 Thank you
Love you and your videos tina but this video basically says if you don't follow these standards of beauty, you're not as attractive as you allegedly "could be". While this most likely wasn't your intention, I feel that the message being sent out here is really wrong. As someone who wears minimal makeup and baggy clothes to stay comfortable, I can say that I feel the most beautiful and confident when im true to myself.
Nicole Fluff it's all her own opinion, she doesn't expect people to follow everything she says, it's just basically a video on what makes her feel more attractive
I agree with your opinion on how the video comes across. But I also think that these things do make people more attractive to society as a whole. Even if that can seem wrong, in the end if that is your end goal, this is a way to go about it. Of course being yourself is beautiful, and it can be taken in a way of you aren't beautiful if you don't do that, and as you said that isnt the intention. I can see where both sides are coming from.
These are just rules of thumb. Like she said, the most important thing is to be yourself. And you know what? You're right. A lot of guys can be really turned on by baggy clothes and no makeup. It shows that you're comfortable with him and confident in your own skin.
I'm not sure what demographic this was aimed at but it seemed like something they play at middle school during health class so they know how to look presentable
Isn't it kinda sexist to make the men pay, but not the women? Why is nobody talking about this?! Like it's ONLY men, who do it to get a one night stand... come on..
I absolutely love your public self!!! When I saw the title of the video my first reaction was.....a smile makes ANYONE more attractive. I am so very glad that was 1 of your hints. You 2 make such a cute couple I love seeing him included in your videos!!! Keep up the great work!!!
Thanks for the advice haha, but I dislike an aspect of the app. That feature being that men having to pay as the creators stereotype the men being those usually playing around and messing with women. They may do mostly, but not all of them..
i think a lot of people, too, are not well versed concerning Asia's female population deficit. it would stand to reason more men would abuse the dating app than women because in some parts of Asia men _are_ desperate. Asia is also very much male dominated in most parts. due to high rates of female infanticide, India and parts of China are in a crisis concerning a lack of women.
Some people feel instantly fresh with a nice color lipstick, or maybe a new haircut/color or a nice outift...or all 3. If it makes you feel good and boosts your confidence then go for it. Our face and bodies are like a canvas that we can dress up or down however we wish. If I am going for a job interview, I will dress up a certain way, and if I am going out with friends, I change it up to reflect that. I think the main idea is be creative and have fun and explore. As long you are strong in your identity and know who you are, there is nothing wrong with changing the outside shell to reflect various shades of your personality (serious, sexy, fun, flirty...etc etc.)
Usually love your videos tina but I really can't get behind the message of this one. The way you presented the video felt sort of awkward too. I think the last point is the most important and you shouldn't have to go out of your way to do yourself up just for someone else. If you want to do all that, that's great! But you shouldn't have to everything to get a date. Just wear what you wanna wear and be yourself, if someone can't accept you then it's their lose!
SAME. i looove Tina, but this video made me uncomfortable. 'put on makeup' ? 'wear heels'? I myself love make up but know so many who dont care for it at all. I know she put the tip about 'being yourself'. But it still seemed a bit like sending a specific message.
Ben gamer Hi Ben, Im not hating on her, I still love her. Just think that she needs to make clear her directions again for her channel and hope she sees these comments. Don't have to get all angsty :) we're all on Tina's side still
So you’re telling me that as son as you get up, you go out? You don’t think to each your face or comb your hair or wear some clothes that make you feel good? She’s only helping us feel good outwardly.
This is incredibly superficial ☹️ I tipically like your videos, but definitely not this one. You’re a good content creator, don’t let colaborations or sponsorships change your channel.
Valeria C. This video is basically her showcasing what she feels like makes her attractive, something that others can probably relate to, this video is literally all her own opinion and isn't expected to be follow or seen as something as a "guide."
Seriously girl, ugh, Tina means well by this. So what, if you have a interview to go to your just going to go dressed like a bum? Don,t think you'll make a first good impression. Looks are important if you don't take care of yourself then no one will want to talk to you if you don't look presentable. No matter how smart, nice, funny, etc. you are with people. I'm a true believer than ones personality should represented outside as it is inside.
I love your videos they make my day! (: I want to know what lashes you are wearing? I know they are probably part if your eyelashes line but which one is it!! 🤓🤓🤓 I need themmmmm
I do not agree!! I think you should only feel confident and comfortable with yourself to look more attractive:D I mean if you think that tight dress doesn't suit you and you feel shy in it, just wear whatever makes you feel strong💪 even if it's your favorite large jumper. Go girl! You'll slay Edit: sorry I didn't read your comment!!! I'm so sorry
Thank you Tina for giving others a basic tutorial, on how to clean up. I have a 24 year old female roommate who would benefit from this advice greatly. Some people have no self identity and need a bit of excellent advice like this.
These are great tips! I met my current boyfriend through a dating app, and I always tried to look my best for our dates. It sure made an impression on him! My profile picture was one where I was smiling and had my favorite red lipstick.
The tips here are great and I love them but somehow the message and execution of it feels weird and almost old fashioned. Maybe a more appropriate description would be tips for quick touch up or tips to add more to your look?
Victoria Nemeth All she is saying is to take care of ourselves in order to look more attractive. Not to wear these specific clothes or shoes, but whatever fits us best. She is not telling us to do a makeover but to enhance our features and look our best. By saying be yourself, she is talking about our personalities, that we shouldn't pretend to be somebody else, because being yourself as a person is the most attractive. Plus this whole thing "no no don't wear that", was done in order the video to be more entertaining. Was this enlightening?
Be the best version of yourself in the context of dating. There are such things that wouldn't be appropriate to wear for a date for example and she's just pointing that out. Don't hate her when society as a whole functions like this
At the beginning of the video when she asked if her hair had been combed, I howled. I'll be at work for an hour or so and then realize I didn't comb my hair that morning. Literally in my Beyonce voice, "I woke up like this." 😂😂😂😂
Hi guys, thanks for all the comments! These are my tips on what I do to get ready for a date out. Please don’t take these as rules and ultimately do what makes you feel good inside and out 😊. It is important to be yourself and embrace your individuality. I had lots of fun filming this video with Alfred. Thank you so much for watching. Love you guys! 😘
Tina Yong
You don't know how much I love you. I love these tips, you surely know how to make me feel a little bit confident. ♥
Greetings from Mexico.
Tinaaa😁😁😁
Tina Yong ok, where'd u get those black heels from??
Even tho i am younger than you, you are so cute in this video
Thank u very very much ❤❤ really u r so helpful and so cute and the way u make your video it's so good and funny and i like the final tip be yourself 😊
And i really ship your relation with Alfred hope one day you get married 😘
There's so many people saying you're beautiful if you're just yourself, while that is true, let's be real. People naturally prefer someone who takes care of themselves, go a little extra and do something nice and you'll probably feel extra special about yourself!
Meikan Dahl i couldnt agree more..
exactly!! for me, I have very sparse eyebrows, so filling them in is a must for me when I have to go to the store or anywhere. I helps me feel better about myself. I'm a very confident person, but I do like to make myself feel good about it. it's the little things that matter. my grandmother always told us to dress appropriately.
So I do nothing and feel really pretty like that! I wear no sexy outfits and also in my chill Sunday Pyjama I love myself and my boyfriend loves it too
Passion of the Moment if you feel confident and comfortable like that, then you do you! Personally, I won't go anywhere without my hair and makeup presentable.
Meikan Dahl p r e a c h
Why do people always get upset when people say to work on your appearence? There is nothing wrong with keeping up good hygiene and putting a little effort into your face and hair, that's like common sense. Do you want to go out of the house smelling bad and looking like you just got out of bed? If you got offended by that maybe you should take those tips. Sick of people shitting on people who say tips like this, this isn't forcing an image on you, she didn't say do everything exactly how I did it or else you suck. Are ya'll that insecure that you can't even listen to someone saying to take care of yourself and your appearence, and to smile? These are just tips she finds makes her look nicer, no one is free of flaws and there is nothing wrong with trying to look a little bit nicer. Take that stick out of your ass.
Random Girl Amen! Nothing wrong with taking care of oneself.
Wow, I think people focus too much on finding stuff to be offended/critical about nowadays. This video isn't about changing yourself to fit a standard. It's about caring about yourself enough to make sure you look/feel your best! If you are looking nice and showing a positive attitude, doesn't it boost up your confidence? It doesn't mean you absolutely have to wear exactly what she is in the video, but just look put together, smile and be approachable - that's it! Show positive attitude and people will be attracted to you naturally. Stop being so critical about everything for God's sake. Great video, Tina, as always! Love you! 💜
Exactly.
Meru Telman sorry, but I don't agree
Meru Telman yeah I agree
Miku well, everyone is entitled to their own opinions 👌
I like her video. still some things she says are just in the standarts how woman should be but not everyone is like that or want to be.
some feel great without all that. but feel bad because videos like this.
Everyone keep in mind these are TIPS not demands
Tina means well and I found this helpful
I like these tips. I have anxiety and depression. So when I dress up or do things to make myself feel more taken care of or when I pamper myself, i feel loads better!! Essentially, I fake it till I make it lol. Love this 😊 thank you tina
Laney B I am so sorry about your anxiety and things. Fake it till you make it is a good idea. I hope you're also being treated by a Dr and such. Counseling really can make a big difference. I'm speaking from experience. Take care of yourself. Pamper yourself often. You deserve it!!!
Same sentiments here. 😊 I have social anxiety but dressing up boosts my self esteem and it makes me feel great.
Who eles learned alot but still prefers to look like a potato?😂👌
Arilertzy Gaeta well some seems to be in the group appreciated
I don’t prefer it but I’m way too lazy to take my make up off when I come home 😂
Arilertzy Gaeta we are besties now 😂😂😂
hello 👋
Me. I'm fine looking like a potato 😂
OMG this looked like those apps where you choose your foundation and lip shade and the image instantly changes! 😊😊Amazzingg
Limelights! are you free all the time although this comment is an old comment but you are everywhere btw no hate . i love your channel
YOU ARE EVERYWHERE!!!!
Looks like people don't understand the difference between tips and demands lol
Byrneay Johnson it's ridiculous how people get offended by every little thing nowadays!! 🙄🙄🙄
Yeah. People are both sensitive and insensitive nowadays.
Its not nowadays, being offended is a normal human thing(even if its stupid), not just a millennial thing
these are just her tips and opinions. Not demands. She’s just expressing what makes her appeal more attractive and portraying them as ideas and tips for others. She’s not saying you NEED to do these tips. I don’t know why people keep saying that she was shallow for doing this and not getting the message. They just have to criticize a good video and make it seem bad.
I think people are exaggerating. She just pointed out what you could do if you want to impress someone or enhance your beauty. She not telling you to change. It tips you don't have to take it. Be honest if your going somewhere fancy and nice- are you not going to put makeup or at least have nice clothes for a special event. For example prom, graduation,first date in fancy restaurant... Blah blah... Yeah right, so why are people whining?
Your makeup is so natural and glowyyyyy in this im obsessed
Sooah Joo ûi
Why the hate ? Do you guys not put in any effort to look good and feel good about yourselves? It is normal to want to look your best for your partner , dressing up to impress your partner on dates. If you go out on a date with a guy with bad breathe, sloppy clothes, sweaty scent, it that a turn on or turn off ? Also, this is just a fun video. Not in any way should this be taken as offensive or seriously. Some tips may help others, but if it doesn't seem useful to you, then don't be negative.
Although I’m 60 I loved this video!! The tips were so great and you are so funny! It’s obvious how much effort you put into your videos. Thanks so much!!🌝🌝🌝🌝💝💝
WHOA you look AMAZING for 60! I would have never even guessed! You're beautiful! :) ♥
you don't look 60! What's your secrets? I wanna share it with my 60 year old mom! 😁
You are stunning!
I saw your profile and oh my god! You look too good to be sixty!! Guuurl how'd you do it coz damn im 16 and i look old af without make up 😝🙈
FiftyPlusBeauty wow.. u look stunning 💖
There's something to be said about people who take care of themselves and their apperance. Isnt it just natural for us to look for that in a mate to see "Hey! If they can take care of themselves they'll take care of me." Not dependence, just care. Like in a normal stable relationship. I dont think these tips are vain AT ALL
Tina you actually nailed it this time 💖
Susila Thapa
Susila Thapa i
WHAT do you mean this time
what does that even mean
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Oh good heavens.....so for a first date you should show up after you haven't showered or brushed your teeth in a week? Wear the same sweats and t that you've been wearing for 2 weeks? And slouch around, dragging your feet in the tennis shoes with the holes in them.....really people. All she is really saying is make an effort to look presentable when meeting someone. Dress appropriately for where the date is to occur. If it's at a 100 dollar a plate restaraunt, dress accordingly. If it's at an amusement park, dress accordingly. But make an effort. Show them that meeting them means something to you and you feel that person is important enough for you to make that effort. You don't have to pile on makeup or wear stilletos or a tight dress.
Yeah! Just take care of yourself man!
You look like Colette from that animated movie Ratatouille
Red Wood love that movie 😊
Omg she does!!!!! 😱 Colette was so pretty just like Tina!!!! 💝
Read this comment when she said Ooh la la in the middle of the video😂
I was thinking this too!!!
Hi everyone be your self you don’t need to change yourself if you want 😊
People are taking this too seriously, like really, this video does never tell you to follow these "rules". You get to choose whatever you are comfortable with, and it's not like if you don't do these you won't be attractive. You can rock your own style in your own way. Seriously I don't think Tina should be getting any hate over this video, just saying💓
I kind of foresaw that there would be many negative comments about the video once I started watching it.
People, these are TIPS, they are TIPS, by no means you have to follow, and if you don't agree, just leave quietly.
These are suggestions to "look" more "attractive", so obviously they are superficial. Seriously? Are you going to "look" at someone's thoughts and values at one glance? And since it's aimed to make you look more attractive, it's naturally going to give you advice on how to make yourself look "better" than you normally would at your home.
It's not going to say, "hey, be in your t-shirt and sweatpants and wear flipflops, you'll definitely look better in that!" That's for comfort, not good looks. OF COURSE you can wear those if you want to, but it's not associated with being "more attractive" which is the title of the video.
Also, most people (except one in a million natural beauties and teenagers) are not going to look better in their natural look. It's really a lie. Why do you think so many youtubers teach the "no makeup makeup look"? And so many viewers too. Makeup done right definitely still makes you look natural, just with your features enhanced. I don't mean instagram glam looks though. It's about not having too much. Guy who say they like girls without makeup really mean they like you with makeup that he can't tell what you have on. A little foundation for better skin look and color correction if you have any blemishes, definitely brows, cheeks, and a tint of light-worn lipstick is best IMO.
Believe it or not, people do "look" better and more put together, when properly dressed-up. People who look good in gym outfit definitely still look better in other clothes. Though it's a matter of personal taste if you want to dress comfortably, and if you want your partners to look relaxed, this video applies to general audience, and definitely applies to East Asian countries (where I live).
So many comments really don't make sense. I mean, what did you expect when you clicked on a video that says, "9 Ways To Look Instantly More Attractive "? And she did mention in the end that, confidence is important, and (once you get to actually talk with the person), you can be yourself and let your unique personality shine.
P.S. Realistically, many guys won't even be interested enough to try to know you when you're not attractive.
Renn Li so true. Agreed with ya. I wonder who would want to present themselves in flip flops, messy hair, smelly (not a lot of people would spritz perfume smelling nice at home) and wrinkled larger than own body shirts to a date, or hang-out or a place where people gather or party? C'mon people, do know the differences between be yourself and look attractive. You don't wear 'house-clothing' to a date, or someone's party or a gala dinner/glam party/event. Seriously.
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I would spend an hour to doll up for a weekly date with my hubby. The only time I'll be putting a red lipstick, Smokey eyes, stiletto and sexy dresses and J'adore parfum. and then back to comfy stuff working as a Nurse 😂
women also use dating apps for a "good time", the fact women don't pay but men do is quite sexist - assuming only men use for sex. that's a really bad message because women do the same :(
Elise god glad someone actually said this !!! Love Tina but couldn’t believe the sexist comment about the dating app, and she supports it. 😳
Charliexoxo i was so shocked when i heard her say it!!!
LC i know it’s one app but it’s being promoted as if it’s a good thing? all i’m saying is that it’s a bad message and it’s sexist.
Exactly my thoughts !
guys do it more tho that's known don't act all innocent..
Suddenly everyone in the comments is like "we dislike this and we are beautiful the way we are" or hi Tina i kove you but i disagree" okay then why do you watch her beauty channel in the first place? her youtube channel is all about beauty what's new? i don't get it! applying makeup and styling your hair and wearing good clothes doesn't mean you are not attractive the way you are! she's just giving you guys tips to look "more" attractive" if you want! she also reminded you guys at the end of the video to "to be yourself , let your personality shines , emprace your flaws and imperfections" so giving you guys tips doesn't mean y'all aren't beautiful you need to chill lol
Abdulrahman Adel... This video is so wrong! Ask her if everyone who disagrees about this video should stop following her...
guys... tina is a beauty guru. she's not asking y'all to put on tons of makeup, style your hair and wear a dress. she's just giving tips on how to feel attractive and confident IF that's what you need help with. i personally feel more confident when i put effort into my physical appearance. this is a great video :)
I always get so happy when you upload!! Thanks for making my night. 💜💄
People's sensitivity really blinds them from rationale. While I agree these aren't what define beauty, have enough common sense to see that she made this video for a dating app. She's giving you tips on looking attractive in the context of dating, not as "the way you are isnt good enough". And please, let's get real. You may already be beautiful naturally, but you can be/feel even more beautiful when you take care of your appearance.
Don’t forget to bring pepper spray and keep tabs with your friends and family. Just Incase!
pepper spray is a bit of a false security, but i would totally agree with keeping in touch with people! one of the reasons i love Uber is that my friends can track me all the way back to the apartment.
Tip 8: Be confident
Tip 9: Be yourself
Ohh shit, I'm a shy person, what should I do?
There's so many people offended by such a harmless and fun video. A lot of people on RUclips post videos on diet tips and tricks on how to lose weight fast but aren't health advisors or anything because ultimately those tips are what works for them and they just want to share their own experiences. If you wanna wear baggy clothes and no makeup on your date than that's all on you, no need to feel disappointed that she's sharing such no brainer tips lol
Awesome video !!! Couldn't stop laughing at the last 😂😂
Thanks for sharing Tina 😍💕
Being yourself is the most attractive thing you can do. I love your channel, but don’t really agree with the many tips you provided to make yourself look pretty. You were gorgeous with your shorts, simple tank top, hair and flip flops. 😂 High heels are pretty painful in my opinion. I prefer wearing my hair down and doing nothing to it while wearing what makes me feel like me.
Marianne Parker your point is totally valid! I saw it in a different perspective though. I saw these as tips to accentuate the natural beauty you possess. Like the straightening your back to look more confident, if you want to do your hair pick something easy that will flatter your face shape, etc. Right? They’re more like tips to flaunt what you’ve already got!
raaducay I totally get what you’re saying. But the way she words it is a little weird. It kind of sounds like you can’t be attractive unless you’re wearing high heels, a dress, makeup, etc. I think anyone can look beautiful, even in an old t-shirt and sweats. But of course that’s just my opinion, nothing against anyone. My thoughts aren’t facts. c:
Marianne Parker yeah you’re right you really get that vibe from her choice of words. I’m guessing she had to please the sponsor/fit that theme? Not sure, but I totally get you’re side too! The execution could’ve been different :P
Marianne Parker that smile though
Seriously, ugh, Tina means well by this. So what, if you have a interview to go to your just going to go dressed like a bum? Don,t think you'll make a first good impression. Looks are important if you don't take care of yourself then no one will want to talk to you if you don't look presentable. No matter how smart, nice, funny, etc. you are with people. I'm a true believer than ones personality should represented outside as it is inside.
Tina: Embrace all your flaws and imperfections because they weren’t seem like flaws at all to the right person.
Me: thanks so much tina you’re so right 😍
These are TIPS NOT DEMANDS! Remember YOU DON'T have to do them if you don't agree with them! Tina is NOT trying to do any harm!
I don't get people bashing her for making a video for tips to look attractive. I personally hate wearing makeup, high heels and virtually everything that could make me look more attractive but I really respect people that go through all that to look better!
Tina, you are absolutely beautiful and I LOVE watching you always ❤️
CheeryGiggles amo
OMG! THE LAST STEP WITH YOU & ALFRED HAD ME D Y I N G!!! YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER. & the smiles were so genuine ((((‘: I wish you both many more happy years together♡
Tina, love your channel and I saw what you were doing here especially at the end with the confidence and being yourself but the beginning is a bit counterintuitive. I don't wear heels, dresses or do my hair with heat tools and red is not my color and I know you still think I'm beautiful as I am but the steps in this video made it seem like if i don't do them I'm not beautiful
This is a good reminder I need to work on learning how to style my new short hair. It’s finally the length I can actually style it and not just leave it as is
how to be pretty: wear a bunch of makeup, iron your hair, smile a bunch, wear a formal dress and red lipstick, wear high heels, don’t be insecure and be yourself all at the same time!!!!
bug u dont have to do any of those things..if a person really loves u they will love u for being yourself inside and OUT
bug u must be fun at parties
They're tips, not demands. Maybe if you watch the video properly or read the title, you'll see!
While u wish for an idealistic world where first impressions do not matter, it will never happen. Whether u like it or not, looks are important to most people. It doesn’t mean that you have to transform entirely, but at least put some effort into how you carry yourself.
bug listen to what she said St the start!! She literally said for a date or looking for someone!! But it's fine, you just criticise the tiniest thing your brain doesn't understand!
How to be more attractive: Be more confident confidence is the most attractive thing a person can wear you don’t need to dress up or wear a lot of makeup because to the people who matter who you are is the most attractive thing
You're uploading so much. Keep up the good work
Congrats on over 2m subscribers! That's so exciting! You look so pretty & love your channel!
I really like the way you did this video and I loved that message at the end
“Embrace your flaws and imperfections because they won’t seem as flaws to the right person” that’s the best piece of advice I’ve ever heard and that instantly made me feel more confident 🥰 thank u Tina
In my opinion, I partially agree with your tips, Tina! With the hair, makeup, smile, and whatnot. But most of the time, I prefer wearing casual clothes and sneakers. As long as I look presentable but still being myself. 😃 Thank you for this video, Tina! I appreciate it so much! 😄❤
As for the audience, I'm sure most of us love being ourselves (already), but let's remember that there are also insecure people who mostly likely try to be somebody else they're not and probably need this video. 😉 Anyway, God bless to everyone and take care! 💕
this is so different from what you usually do, i loved it! it was so fun and I loved that Alfred was in it, his parts were so cute, love you guys!
Hi Tina , I love your chanel so much , keep up the good work !
Tina in each new video you look more beautiful 💕 I loved your makeup and your hair looks stunning!
Hi Tina. U are doing great with new content.
P.S. It's great to see Alfred in ur vids
I really enjoyed this video. The basic tips to really up your presentation game! People seem to misunderstand the concept of your video and take it as shallow tips but it truly isn’t. Going on a first date or any date means to really amp your usual look without hiding who you are. You can take these tips as a grain of salt and add your own unique touch. I hope none of these comments offend you! Love you!
I'll stick with my cat, he doesn't care how I look.
wha's great about these tips is the one that make me feel confident , like having a neat and fresh haircut makes me feel 10 000 times better and more confident , and you know i like to believe that beauty is a lot of confidence so
Hey Tina! I love the concept behind this video, but I feel like it kind of holds an unrealistic standard that people have to be a certain way for others to like them or find them attractive. People can have their own individual style, and I see that at the end of the video, you said to "be yourself", but these advice don't reflect that. By no means am I attacking you, I just wanted to put a thought out there.
I think the whole point of the video was "How to be presentable". Wearing a nice outfit, having a flattering haircut and smelling nice doesn't turn you into someone else, it just turns you into your BEST self :)
yea for sure! i think she could've said it better tho. I appreciated the tips. However, there were some parts of the video that made me cringe because it seemed like there had to be a certain way people had to be in order to be more attractive.
This is all based on her own opinion, meaning that you don't have to do what she says, it's just what she thinks.
Yes I know, all I'm saying is that what she said could've sent a wrong message than what her video was actually trying to do.
Vi Duong it all depends on how people interpret it, it's not her job to make people think the way she does lol
You and Alfie are soooooooo cute I'm crying! Also I loved these tips! Hopefully you make more videos like this 💕
So excited for this video 😍♥️ Thank you for the tips Tina, although I am already married these are still helpful too look pleasant to feel better about myself.
Love the changing outfit part, lol! 😂😂😂
I just noticed the 2M subscribers! Congratulations Tina! ❤️ Been a subscriber of your vids for years already, keep it up!
I actually realized I was smiling really widely at the end of the video... when did that happen?
Hey Tina! I love all your videos! Never ever miss your videos. Just wanted to ask if you can do couple of videos on quality hair products for various hair related issues, styles and so on. 😊 Thank you
Where is the dress from 😍?
Very different from your usual videos yet so perfect. Love your effort over editing and the content itself ♥️
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I actually like that outfit if it wasn't for the glasses.
But what do I know i'm a college student
The makeup look you’re wearing at the end of the video is gorgeous! ❤️
finding what suits you and being comfortable makes you more attractive ;)
So much effort was put into this video!totally love this tina!
Love you and your videos tina but this video basically says if you don't follow these standards of beauty, you're not as attractive as you allegedly "could be". While this most likely wasn't your intention, I feel that the message being sent out here is really wrong. As someone who wears minimal makeup and baggy clothes to stay comfortable, I can say that I feel the most beautiful and confident when im true to myself.
Nicole Fluff it's all her own opinion, she doesn't expect people to follow everything she says, it's just basically a video on what makes her feel more attractive
I agree with your opinion on how the video comes across. But I also think that these things do make people more attractive to society as a whole. Even if that can seem wrong, in the end if that is your end goal, this is a way to go about it. Of course being yourself is beautiful, and it can be taken in a way of you aren't beautiful if you don't do that, and as you said that isnt the intention. I can see where both sides are coming from.
Nicole Fluff 🙄
She literally said it's important to be your own individual in the comments and also said it's just what she personally does
These are just rules of thumb. Like she said, the most important thing is to be yourself. And you know what? You're right. A lot of guys can be really turned on by baggy clothes and no makeup. It shows that you're comfortable with him and confident in your own skin.
U absolutely nailed this video! I see how much effort went into that.. keep it going ❤️❤️❤️
40 views, 92 likes and 22 comments....
EARLY SQUAD!!!!
I'm not sure what demographic this was aimed at but it seemed like something they play at middle school during health class so they know how to look presentable
Isn't it kinda sexist to make the men pay, but not the women? Why is nobody talking about this?! Like it's ONLY men, who do it to get a one night stand... come on..
lol it weeds out the broke guys 🤷🏻♀️
That's what I was thinking...it's totally unfair.
LC She was just saying her opinion damn.
LC - I do not need an app.. And I am "bitching" because I, would like to make it obvious, that there is a clear mistake made.
that's the app men are aware and still use the app so what do u care it's their shit and as long as both sides agrees on it then good luck for them
I absolutely love your public self!!! When I saw the title of the video my first reaction was.....a smile makes ANYONE more attractive. I am so very glad that was 1 of your hints. You 2 make such a cute couple I love seeing him included in your videos!!! Keep up the great work!!!
I LOVE YOU!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Tina your skin is soooo perfect u don't even need foundation!
Thanks for the advice haha, but I dislike an aspect of the app. That feature being that men having to pay as the creators stereotype the men being those usually playing around and messing with women. They may do mostly, but not all of them..
i think a lot of people, too, are not well versed concerning Asia's female population deficit. it would stand to reason more men would abuse the dating app than women because in some parts of Asia men _are_ desperate. Asia is also very much male dominated in most parts. due to high rates of female infanticide, India and parts of China are in a crisis concerning a lack of women.
Great video, Tina!!! So enjoyable and refreshing to watch. 😊👍🏼
Omg soooooo creative
You an Alfred are actually the most adorable couple ever! 😍
It looked like the dress needed a little fitting Or is it only me?
89krx who cares ?it’s just a dress that fit fine to me
Some people feel instantly fresh with a nice color lipstick, or maybe a new haircut/color or a nice outift...or all 3. If it makes you feel good and boosts your confidence then go for it. Our face and bodies are like a canvas that we can dress up or down however we wish. If I am going for a job interview, I will dress up a certain way, and if I am going out with friends, I change it up to reflect that. I think the main idea is be creative and have fun and explore. As long you are strong in your identity and know who you are, there is nothing wrong with changing the outside shell to reflect various shades of your personality (serious, sexy, fun, flirty...etc etc.)
Usually love your videos tina but I really can't get behind the message of this one. The way you presented the video felt sort of awkward too. I think the last point is the most important and you shouldn't have to go out of your way to do yourself up just for someone else. If you want to do all that, that's great! But you shouldn't have to everything to get a date. Just wear what you wanna wear and be yourself, if someone can't accept you then it's their lose!
bridie d LOL I agree clearly East meets West paid her a ton of money for this bogus video.
SAME. i looove Tina, but this video made me uncomfortable. 'put on makeup' ? 'wear heels'? I myself love make up but know so many who dont care for it at all. I know she put the tip about 'being yourself'. But it still seemed a bit like sending a specific message.
I loved this video and enjoy that you are venturing into different things/ filming styles lately. Your humour is so lamely hilarious 😅 i like it
Tina I used to love your channel but recently I feel like I don't know what your channel is about anymore
Ben gamer Hi Ben, Im not hating on her, I still love her. Just think that she needs to make clear her directions again for her channel and hope she sees these comments. Don't have to get all angsty :) we're all on Tina's side still
Your makeup looks so stunning😍😍 loved the video transitions ❤
i love you sm tina but everyone is beautiful just the way they are
Liv J their TIPS For anyone who wants
Liv J So? What's wrong with taking care of yourself and going that little extra mile?
So you’re telling me that as son as you get up, you go out? You don’t think to each your face or comb your hair or wear some clothes that make you feel good? She’s only helping us feel good outwardly.
wow lol chill she just didn't say in the video what should've been said
No. Everyone is not beautiful.
The makeup look in this is goals!!!!! So natural, and glowy, and gorgeous! Please do a tutorial on this, if you haven't already
This is incredibly superficial ☹️ I tipically like your videos, but definitely not this one. You’re a good content creator, don’t let colaborations or sponsorships change your channel.
i feel like she enjoyed making this, and as a fan i support whatever makes her happy!
Valeria C. This video is basically her showcasing what she feels like makes her attractive, something that others can probably relate to, this video is literally all her own opinion and isn't expected to be follow or seen as something as a "guide."
Seriously girl, ugh, Tina means well by this. So what, if you have a interview to go to your just going to go dressed like a bum? Don,t think you'll make a first good impression. Looks are important if you don't take care of yourself then no one will want to talk to you if you don't look presentable. No matter how smart, nice, funny, etc. you are with people. I'm a true believer than ones personality should represented outside as it is inside.
Completely agree Valeria. 100%.
she never said to change your face completely, she showed how to enhance your current looks
I love your videos they make my day! (: I want to know what lashes you are wearing? I know they are probably part if your eyelashes line but which one is it!! 🤓🤓🤓 I need themmmmm
Anybody else that really disliked this video? I don't know what it is, it's probably just the type of video I guess.
I do not agree!! I think you should only feel confident and comfortable with yourself to look more attractive:D I mean if you think that tight dress doesn't suit you and you feel shy in it, just wear whatever makes you feel strong💪 even if it's your favorite large jumper. Go girl! You'll slay
Edit: sorry I didn't read your comment!!! I'm so sorry
Thank you Tina for giving others a basic tutorial, on how to clean up. I have a 24 year old female roommate who would benefit from this advice greatly. Some people have no self identity and need a bit of excellent advice like this.
Alexis Arrizon lol hoping the roommate doesn’t see this comment 😂
These are great tips! I met my current boyfriend through a dating app, and I always tried to look my best for our dates. It sure made an impression on him! My profile picture was one where I was smiling and had my favorite red lipstick.
This video is funny, but i don't think you need this to be atractive
I was so upset before watching this video but you cheered me up. You are literally the best.
hope this was a joke, there are no rules for what makes a person attractive
She’s not saying that, she’s just saying you should accentuate what makes you beautiful
She’s not saying that, she’s just saying you should accentuate what makes you beautiful
its really different from your usual video and i really like it ! thank you Tina it might be help someday😄
The tips here are great and I love them but somehow the message and execution of it feels weird and almost old fashioned. Maybe a more appropriate description would be tips for quick touch up or tips to add more to your look?
Trust me! It was superb cuz of your funny inputs at times and also your tips. That creepy smile though😂😂
"ew, change this"
"oh no, don't wear this"
... "but be yourself"
???
Victoria Nemeth she's just giving advice smh.
You are clearly missing the point
Victoria Nemeth All she is saying is to take care of ourselves in order to look more attractive. Not to wear these specific clothes or shoes, but whatever fits us best. She is not telling us to do a makeover but to enhance our features and look our best. By saying be yourself, she is talking about our personalities, that we shouldn't pretend to be somebody else, because being yourself as a person is the most attractive. Plus this whole thing "no no don't wear that", was done in order the video to be more entertaining. Was this enlightening?
Victoria Nemeth good
Be the best version of yourself in the context of dating. There are such things that wouldn't be appropriate to wear for a date for example and she's just pointing that out. Don't hate her when society as a whole functions like this
At the beginning of the video when she asked if her hair had been combed, I howled.
I'll be at work for an hour or so and then realize I didn't comb my hair that morning. Literally in my Beyonce voice, "I woke up like this."
😂😂😂😂