technically true... (and it's also a very important tip) BUT she was talking about how to LOOK attractive, not how to BE attractive, that's probably why her mindset was focused on visual, not the other senses. Would be cool though for Shea to make a tip list of how to trigger attraction with all senses :P right?
@@yusranaz5172 brush your tongue too, after your teeth but wash you toothbrush thoroughly inbetween. also mouthwash and floss. if you wanna check you breath by yourself just drag a spoon across your tongue, wait for it to dry and yeah... y'know,,, s m e l l it
The points she mentioned- •wear nude heels •fill in your eyebrows •show off your neckline(decoltage) •when u put your hair down it's looks more attractive but if you're gonna put if up them make sure to make the area behind your neck tight. •have a signature lipstick
This is glorious, I have been researching "what attract a woman to a man" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my brother in law got cool results with it.
Why do vloggers always apologize for the content of their videos? It’s YOUR vlog. You don’t need to put disclaimers in and just stand by your material. If people are that damn sensitive, they can click on a different kind of channel.
Your Fun Sister Look at all the negative comments even with her disclosures. That is why they feel pressured to disclaim because some people always get critical no matter what the topic.
How to be more attractive: 1. Have a positive attitude. 2. Don't be afraid to show your smarts. Too many women are afraid to be strong and cinfudent. 3. Accept that you won't look the same at 50 as you did at 20. Sure, you can look good, but as you age there are some things that change, so accept it. 4. Pay attention to your hair color, no six inches of dark roots, no orange toned hair, and stop thinking that extremely long, shapeless hairstyles are the epitome of femininity. Get a style appropriate for your age and face. 5. Everything in moderation, never overdo bling, makeup or fashion trends. 6. Speak clearly and show respect to people. Too many young people act entitled and think they can say anything they want when in public. These are some if the things I've learned at 50 that I thought I would share.
1) wear nude high heels(designer) 2) fill in eyebrows 3) be skinny and show collarbones 4) have long hair down and not straight but bouncy 5) don’t wear makeup without lipstick 6) have long eyelashes 7) don’t look down at your phone 8) be confident
Your tips are well-preserved and "do able", but you asked if there might be other suggestions. .Here are a few from a 65 yr. old sucessful, grandmother..#1. perfume, men have actually stopped me and commented on my cologne. #2. French flats, same color tights and same color slacks, they too make a female appear to look taller, thinner and extends your leg length #3. Nice bright teeth, the older you get, the duller your teeth begun..(red wine, smoking, aging, artificial food coloring) #4. Spray in shine for that bouncing hair you mentioned #5. Clean natural nails, NOT dragon nails (scary) #6. Pedicure, for open toed-shoes evening shoes #7. Correct bra size, NO BACK FAT! (when your bra is the incorrect style your breast droop, cause back fat and force midriff roll) #8. Walking, pick up your feet, quit! scuffing and dragging your feet, walk with pride, purposeful, like your walking on the cat-walk, or a model.. hold your head-up! Your Right get OFF THE IPOD! #9. The correct size handbag.. the wrong purse size causes poor posture, gets in the way, and becomes an inconvenient focus of your outfit #.10 Speak like a lady, watch your vocabulary (THE WEALTHY DO NOT SPEAK COMMON, TRASH, STREET LANGUAGE ) ..and..VOICE TONE and CONTROL..it is not ATTRACTIVE to SCREAM for ATTENTION # 11. And treat the service help, with respect, your manners show, those with a old money or an extensive income, are polite, even in the worse conditions, we RISE ABOVE, the situation and pretend everything is "fine" then..Move-On"...Jacqueline B. Kennedy once said.."its, just as easy to Smile Graciously, as it is to Frown and Smiling causes less wrinkles"...All of the suggestion are free or inexpensive, teeth stripes can be purchased at your local thrift store and cologne is available EVERYWHERE!, even dollar store. Please, accept these few small suggestions from a "seasoned, experienced lady", who still believes in catching the man with our female gifts, all of these are easy, inexpensive and life-long skills...
Cynthia Daniel the only objection I would have to perfume is that you can REALLY overdo it!! And besides that, you may work around people who are allergic to perfume.
Okay, so.. -Take a shower everyday (OBVY) -Deodorant (especially on P.E days) -Neater hair - wash face every morning -Make sure breath smells good -where your cologne Thanks :)
So I took your advice and painted my nails and ended up spilling the nail polish in the bathroom sink and it literally made a whole painting and so I called my mom cause I wasn’t able to use my fingers to clean it up so she did it but forgot to use a sponge and got it all over her hands and couldn’t wash it off properly but now my nails are really pretty so thank u. U really influenced my life with that comment
I'm 62 and only this year discovered the wonder of darkening my eyebrows (mind you I am one of those who had great eyebrows - I remember my mother's friend saying that when I was about 12 :) - but as you age you do lose some of the fullness. I love a bit of dark shadow brushed on them and YES confidence is SO attractive in both women and men. It can override all sorts of flaws! I never knew that part of the eye was called the waterline. Learn so much from you Shea - your videos are wonderful. Joyful, informative and inspiring :)
Awe thank you so much Kathleen! I really enjoyed reading this comment!! And yes, eyebrows and confidence will do wonders :) Thank you so much for watching my videos. Much love to you as always!!!
Hi Anna - thank you! I did notice that - I use the lightest brown of my eyeshadows to darken them just a bit and I'm pretty careful about that because you're absolutely right - too dark and the rest of my face looks stark white :)
Daphne Feida. If you're not comfortable showing that area then you can try showing your back. That's another attractive and sexy area without being blatantly so. A woman never needs to show cleavage or t&a to be sexy, keeping it modest and just showing a bit of skin is more mysterious (and men LOVE that) while remaining classy. Also there's your neck!
Jules BJeweled i know what you are talking about but just to explain what i am saying : my neck has a scar that is visible if you come close by a thyroidectomy..also i am overweight and my claviclea are not visible...so you are right that i can show my back!i mean for me this is a more resonable choice!but let's not idealise only one part on a womans body!not everyone can be sexy showing back or clevage or legs...every body ia different
Jennifer Harris flipping your head over works best and if that makes it look weird its OK, your hair gets trained into it after a few days, it happend to me
Jennifer Harris double ponytail "hacks" actually do work for fullness. (Lots of videos about the tricks using different methods so I won't waste space poorly explaining lol) Also using a paddle brush and turning upside down helps the bottom. Trying to be too sleek and tidy is usually the difficult part with a pony that looks nice but keeps it's fullness. At least in my experience.
Brush your hair back. Put your head down making the hair go down, brush the hair on the back of your head holding the hair, and smooth the hair from the top of your head and put it in a ponytail and you can use hairspray to help flyaways☺
I love how all her responses to ppl in the comments are kind even if they don’t agree with her, Unlike so many other you tubers who are so sensitive to any form of feedback or criticism differing from their opinion. Thick skin and classy.
You’ve got that right! Stand up straight! Sit up straight! Whether you’re tall or short or somewhere in between, posture will instantly make you look better and more confident.
Well, a year ago i was sitting at school with an off the shoulder blouse and a man told me something like “look at your bones, you are too skinny”. That was so annoying.
Its early morning here in India. I have to send my kids to school by 7. Here i am watching your video....Just shows how much I am waiting for your videos. Keep up the good work.
I was like that at first with my first heels experience lol but then I got used to them and omg I just love heels now. But I know some people who still hate them which I get it xD
As a 57 year old woman I lost my fashion mojo over the years .. however..🤗... since subscribing to your channel I have really learned so much .. Thankyou.. you are an absolute Darling.. and a real testament to your generation .. and mine ... thanks again and their is NOTHING shallow about you .. sincerely.. Cathy 🥂🧚♀️💕
White isn't natural, no-one has perfectly white teeth and your teeth can be off white, or even yellowish (gasp!) and still be healthy. Just pointing this out. As long as they're clean, flossed, and cavity free you have good teeth.
My teeth are naturally yellow but perfectly healthy, it’s just the way they’ve always been and btw a lot of the time people with with teeth aren’t healthy they’ve just put chemicals on them
Heels do not create better posture, very much the opposite!! They cause your pelvis to tilt, your spine to leave it's neutral curve, cause excessive flexion of your ankles, etc.
i clicked on this becuz i was curious but i wasnt planning on staying very long. im totally impressed tho! thanks for the (suprisingly useful and not shallow) tips!
Such a fun ”list”- all tips are simple, sincere, and delivered light-hearted. Thank you. Refreshing to hear tips that all suggest we are enough. You didn’t suggest some surgery or ultra-expensive purchases - just tweaks and behavior consciousness that we probably can all agree are honest and true. You’re terrific 😉
Getting off your phone is probably the most attractive thing anyone can do , shows self confidence and awareness of your surroundings, not to mention people who are on their phone 24/7 are relatively brain dead!
Long wavy hair? I’m screwed. Actually I didn’t get “noticed” until I cut my hair shorter (between chin and shoulder length). Long hair dragged my face down. Some people look better with shorter hair IMO and I’ve never needed it to get noticed (good thing because it won’t grow long EVER from coloring). The few guys who told me I should grow it were clueless.
Wendy French I love long hair. I've had everywhere from a pixie cut to waist length. Long hair is so much fun but a little longer than chin length is the most flattering on me by far. And as far as men being most attracted to long hair, my husbands favorite style on me is pixie cut lol
My hair used to be just below my hips and I went straight to a pixie cut. I immediately loved it, no regrets. Since then I've gone a bit shorter to find my ideal style but I honestly believe it can look great on anyone! :)
Great tips 👌🏼Nude heels are timeless- I also suggest finding the right shade of nude heel for skin tone- it will do a better job of elongating the leg. A signature lip is a good idea- I love a nude lip and I keep my faves in my Mini Pochette that goes in all of my bags so they are always on hand. Another way that I feel more attractive is to wear my signature fragrance- just makes me feel more put together 💕
Thank you so much Jenni!!! I"m so glad you agree with me! And I TOTALLY agree about the signature fragrance!! I almost included that on my list!! Much love to you!
Silla Fromm- I have different shades in my closet- some for when I'm tan, some for when I'm super pale in winter. I find that pinkish nude heels look best with my skin tone in winter 👌🏼 The right pair is our there for you doll 😘
Jenni Lepp. That's actually the point of wearing the nude heels. It's supposed to match your legs and look like an extension of them, giving you the appearance that they go on for miles. Stating just a nude heel doesn't work for everyone, it needs to match your skin tone. I haven't worn a black heel with a little black dress in 30 years, it's always been nude. I'm glad you pointed this out so others will know that 1 shade doesn't work for everyone. 🖒
I've watched countless video's geared at all the how to's of makeup, hair - you name it. Your video (which I'll be honest I clicked on out of curiosity) is by far one of if not THE best I've watched. Ending it with qualities rather than a sigma brush whatever and the Mac paint pot in.....well you get the point. Don't get me wrong, I love a great product but all the makeup in the world can never take the place of a genuine smile, confidence and happy positive outlook. Well done! BTW - does the average girl really know what all the different numbered makeup brushes are for? Lord knows I don't and don't care. And one little trip to the high end makeup counter or store isn't something most average girls can afford except maybe once in a while. Sure, we should all want to look our best but real beauty begins inside. Your contribution to this topic I find very "real". Thanks! 🐾 please adopt a homeless needy loving animal🐾
Love and agree with all, but the last two are totally my thang! (I choose to carry a stupid phone, no text, no calls actually, emergency use only). Nothing is as important to me as the human experience. It is amazing what great service you will receive if you stow your phone/make eye contact/pay attention to the forgotten. I am referring to the teller, the checker, the bagger, the attendant all must do their job while waiting on calls to end, and being ignored by most. When someone actually makes eye contact and is in the moment, well they just light up. You get remembered and favored. Choosing to leave others better than I found them=listened to, smiling and uplifted is a deliberate article of my ensemble-not just an accessory to it. Which makes me feel attractive. : ) PS. You look so beautiful! Those eyes! Those eyes! Incredible. Thanks for all the tips!
B. Walker. So true! I only take my cell with me for emergencies. Who wants to be bothered when they're away from the house? It really wasn't that long ago when we didn't have cell phones and once you left the house that was it, people had to wait til you got home. I actually miss those days.....sigh
I'm sorry whenever I hear someone say they don't like perfume I want to say, Wow you've smelled EVERY perfume and don't like any of them ? Sorry I don't believe you ! It's time to check out the good stuff ! I mean yeah we do smell good with just lotion and body wash and such, but......
That shoulder/neck thing is true. I’ve never gotten more attention on a night out before, than when I was wearing a cold shoulder dress. It must be flattering
Something really simple I do is to make sure I always curl my lashes. When you're going makeup free it helps to refine your features and open up your eyes. When wearing make-up it is a great way to ensure your get the most out of your mascara and draw attention to your eyes which often play a huge part in physical attraction.
Nice tips! I would also add taking care of your bag (designer or not)! A grungy bag can really bring down a whole look. It's my equivalent of a man wearing sneakers with a suit. Yuck!
Thanks for all of the tips ! I am not young (59) but I always try to look my best and stay as young as possible. I am going out today and get some nude heels and urban decay waterline pencil, maybe even the lipsticks. You look great and confident ! 👍🌼
Shea: some people are blessed with.. perfect eyebrows Me: MOM! Mom: WHAT IM MAKING DINNER! Me: I AM BLESSED WITH PERFECT EYEBROWS! Mom: I want a normal child. I don't have one. My son is an emo gamer guy with no girlfriend and my daughter is a weird person. Me: I HEAR YOU MA!
omg! you are so adorable and authentic! I stumbled on to you kinda by accident! I have an hour b4 my next client, so I am going to go and implement all 8 of these INSATNT WAYS TO LOOK MORE ATTRACTIVE! Ive been feeling so ugly lately! I subscribed after 10 seconds!
Hi, I'm really tall for my age. I'm 16 and 5 feet 11 inches. Should I still wear heels? I have a pair of booties with a heel that love to wear, but I'm still wondering
To be honest some of this advice is pretty good. I do think her channel is nice but I like the idea of just being your self. Being comfortable most of this involves makeup. I believe how to be more attractive is personality and being comfortable in your own clothes and who you are. No heels,makeup and showing off your body to look more attractive. A smile and being your self I believe is the best way, so this video kind of aggravates me.
I agree with you. Maybe you didn't watch until the end, Brittany... I believe my last tip basically stated what you just said. I said the most important thing is to be confident and smile. I'm sorry you found the video aggravating :(
Have only watched two videos but I love that you have ended both with tips that were more about personality instead of just looks. It’s encouraging and refreshing, keep on girl! :)
If you like guys, you care. It's nice to be considerate to the opposite sex, just as guys should care what we think too. It's the dynamic between the sexes.
@@Serenadesong I like guys and I don't want them to see me as sexy because we all know that guys take it too far when they wanna have you, wether you want that much or not
LOL I don't really think she just ONCE says this video is about what guys want or like or think is sexy. She mentions that guys might like something, but she says several times that you'll just feel better and more attractive in general (or to yourself). It's a video about how to make oneself feel better?
I love your channel..even tho I’m 74, can’t wear heels cause I have 2 knee replacements. But! I love the lipstick hint as I can’t keep it on, I just eat it off right away. Plus I like that color. Also, where is your waterline?
Arlys Veen Hi Arlys, the waterline is that line of skin between the roots of your lashes and your actual eyeball! You can apply eyeliner to the waterline whether top or bottom. I hope that helps - It’s a difficult one to describe! xx
Awe thank you so much lovely!!! And your waterline is the top/bottom edge of your eye...almost like the inside lip of it. Google eye waterline and you'll see a picture!! :)
That doesn't mean you can't wear heels! However, if you prefer, there are some lovely flats available. I have several pairs of nude flats that I wear often :)
Oh god I know what you mean I'm tall as well so when I wear heals Iiturly feel like I'm huge around everyone which makes me feel like a bloody wrestler lol
Hi Shea! I’m a mom and a fashion lover too! LOVE LOVE all your videos!! I’m so glad I found your channel because there’s hardly decent people in RUclips that portray a more down to earth lifestyle and family life. You seem to be very genuine and kind. Hope you keep doing what you’re doing the way you’re doing it, please don’t ever change! Loved the tip about Bone Broth Protein in one of your videos! I have periodontal disease, so this comes really in handy ♥️ Your entire family is so cute!! Keep being such a great mom , person and RUclipsr!!! 🙋🏻
Awe thank you SO MUCH Karla!!! This is such a wonderful comment...it really really is. You are so kind and really made me smile!! I'm so glad you like my videos...and the Bone Broth Protein too! I have a dentist appointment this Thursday and I'm freaking terrified!! :( But again, thank you so much for your sweet words. Much love to you
Confidence is totally #1! Some of the most gorgepus girls I work with are just the most confident. And I LOVE that you look at the camera to "look us in the eye". It's such a turn off to watch a RUclips personality look at their reflection on their computer screen or whatever. I don't know how they don't realize we can tell if they are interested in their followers or just themselves.
Well it sucks you have to be confident because I am sort of insecure about things because yes I have had people tell me Im not worth anything or just ugly crap to me and I can tell my dad was sort of this way, I felt like I didnt really matter to him, he was never happy about what choices I made unfortunately. And now I have became insecure, I cant even keep a friendship like how everyone else can keep it for years. I am also very self critical for some reason and idk why. I just hate this world. Guys also think hoes have the most confidence in the world so, I guess we should all be thots and display "confidence." But anyways yes I do like confidence I just lack it in a way and sometimes I feel that people hate me and think Im not special
I just discovered you on RUclips yesterday and I love your channel. I liked what you said towards the end of this video, to be confident and positive and the rest. So important to do that on a daily basis. I am recovering from breast cancer and I have skin and hair issues and I get people looking at me funny but I don’t care bc I made it into the world again and nobody knows my story
I love your comments about getting off your phone and experience the world and people around you. Also, smiling, good posture, showing confidence and being positive is such a great message to young folks. (oh, and I like your beauty tips, too. :)
I literally cut my eyelashes when I was about 3 or 4. (Don't ask how I didn't poke my eyes out. I still don't know and I'm mad. My cousins would always tell me I have long lashes. After I cut them, they really never complemented me lol)
@@jfekfjfnr7830 try to prevent shampoo or conditioner from touching your back. It really causes acne. I'm speaking this from experience lol Or it might be because you don't shower as often as your body is trying to tell you to. Or it could be the opposite. You could be showering too many times per (day, week etc..) Either way, most times with body acne it is because of bodily oil or oil from conditioner and shampoo. Also, check your diet. You might be eating a lot of sugar or greasy food that can cause body acne
🤗👏👏👏I so appreciate your tips and advice. I love when women elevate each other to be a better them. I also love a nude heel. My version of a nude heel is one that is closest shade to my skin tone, that would be more of a caramel tone, which is so hard to find. Shea, you did it again love. 💕💕💕💕💕
I am so stupid. When she first said it I thought she meant like a pair of heels where the heel itself was transparent. I’m saying to myself I’ve never seen that before. Then she shows the heels and I’m like duh, I’m an idiot...lol Love those moments when you hit an all time low stupid moment. Why did I even think that at first?
she didn't mention this, but it is extremely important. one of her nude examples was the wrong color for her. louboutin has the nudes collection, and yes, you need to match your skin tone.
Yes, nude heels that is closest shade to the skin tone is best way to elongate your skin! But it’s really hard to find one , the only store that provides every shade of nude shoes is louboutin which is unaffordable for me
i disagree! i think women of all shapes and sizes look great when showing off their neckline. just because your collarbone isnt prominent doesnt mean it doesnt look good. I think showing off your neckline, or even just wearing a vneck shirt, really elongates the torso, which gives an overall slimmer effect :)
GabbyBear exactly. I recently gained weight and miss that part of my body. I’m glad I got bigger boobs and butt, but I miss my skinny neck and collarbone.
I think I personally look thinner and better when I wear crew or boat neck tops. Otherwise I'm so concerned about my cleavage coming out as I'm pretty busty, which makes me not look put together or attractive because I'm constantly pulling at my clothes. So the boat neck shows off enough without being too much
There's a lot more to life than just looks. You'll be a lot hapier if you understood you dont *need* any of these things. All you need is peace harmony and balance towards yourself and others.
Agree to some of these things, but just be yourself. I feel like these are very stereotypical things. It is ok not to be skinny and tall and have long hair. There is a man/ or woman for everyone.
Hi Shea! I’m new on your channel and of course I “subscribed” right at the first video. I watch a lot of inspiring RUclips videos with many other ladies but there is something so different about you as a person: simplicity, fun, reality, true and honest opinions, tips and tricks. I thought today:) ... I need a BFF like you are, lol. You are doing a great job being who you are, and shearing your experience & ideas about fashion, beauty and drop of luxury...💖👜👠👏🏼
@Beena David how does a vlogger make a specific tip about the decolletage and not know how to pronounce it?! 🤔 #9 prior preparation to ensure correct pronunciation 👌
These are some great tips! I have seen pretty much every ' How to look sexy ' video on YT but yours just stands out! No shading and bashing people ! Love it xoxo
If you want a little more confidence Potatoes turn to french fries, yeah it's common sense All you need's a couple more condiments And a hundred thousand dollars for some compliments It's such a waste When little girls grow into their mother's face But little girls are learning how to cut and paste And pucker up their lips until they suffocate -Mrs. Potato Head All the makeup in the world, won't make you less insecure -Sippy Cup
I love your look here! Like this video a lot:) totally agree about the phone. Do you have tricks for hair volume aside from back combing or teasing? I have thick hair but I feel like the bottom always pulls it down leaving the top flat.
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My tip is to have fresh breath. It's so annoying when you're talking to someone and all you can smell is their breath.
Great tip! Thanks for sharing :)
technically true... (and it's also a very important tip) BUT she was talking about how to LOOK attractive, not how to BE attractive, that's probably why her mindset was focused on visual, not the other senses. Would be cool though for Shea to make a tip list of how to trigger attraction with all senses :P right?
Yeah but can u hive some advice to people having bad breath without any reason especially when they are brushing their teeth regularly
Ikr
@@yusranaz5172 brush your tongue too, after your teeth but wash you toothbrush thoroughly inbetween. also mouthwash and floss. if you wanna check you breath by yourself just drag a spoon across your tongue, wait for it to dry and yeah... y'know,,, s m e l l it
The points she mentioned-
•wear nude heels
•fill in your eyebrows
•show off your neckline(decoltage)
•when u put your hair down it's looks more attractive but if you're gonna put if up them make sure to make the area behind your neck tight.
•have a signature lipstick
The French is décolleté. Decoltage is an industrial process ...
@@isabellejaquet621 What are you the word police ??
Are you a professor of English ?
Everyone reading knew EXACTLY WHAT WAS MEANT.
Get a life.
@@jennyjacques573 lol I love your comment
@@AG-vp1ok my exact same reaction.... She reacted as if you attacked someone when you just corrected a mistake... People these days ...
Thank you
DONT LIE *we came here because we be needing a glow up after lockdown/quarintine*
Cant lie with that 😅
I just wanna look unugly
@@user-vw1ir7fw8e same sis same
This is glorious, I have been researching "what attract a woman to a man" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my brother in law got cool results with it.
Ngl
Why do vloggers always apologize for the content of their videos? It’s YOUR vlog. You don’t need to put disclaimers in and just stand by your material. If people are that damn sensitive, they can click on a different kind of channel.
Your Fun Sister Look at all the negative comments even with her disclosures. That is why they feel pressured to disclaim because some people always get critical no matter what the topic.
A disclaimer is put so the creator can push the responsibility on the viewer not allowing any dangerous situations to happen.
I think RUclipsrs feel more comfortable and confident once they put on a disclaimer.
Your Fun Sister Well said ❤️
Exactly!! ! They should have expected it from the title
How to be more attractive:
1. Have a positive attitude.
2. Don't be afraid to show your smarts. Too many women are afraid to be strong and cinfudent.
3. Accept that you won't look the same at 50 as you did at 20. Sure, you can look good, but as you age there are some things that change, so accept it.
4. Pay attention to your hair color, no six inches of dark roots, no orange toned hair, and stop thinking that extremely long, shapeless hairstyles are the epitome of femininity. Get a style appropriate for your age and face.
5. Everything in moderation, never overdo bling, makeup or fashion trends.
6. Speak clearly and show respect to people. Too many young people act entitled and think they can say anything they want when in public.
These are some if the things I've learned at 50 that I thought I would share.
All good tips!
Learn how to spell.
thank you for sharing your thoughts!
But I naturally have orange hair? So I should dye it?
Adriabri you can dye your hair whatever color you want. But natural hair is always nice because that is your natural hair color.
"I need to take my advice more often"-- I love your honesty!
👁👄👁
1) wear nude high heels(designer)
2) fill in eyebrows
3) be skinny and show collarbones
4) have long hair down and not straight but bouncy
5) don’t wear makeup without lipstick
6) have long eyelashes
7) don’t look down at your phone
8) be confident
Not everyone can be naturally skinny and show there collarbone. I guess I’m kinda skinny but my collarbone doesn’t stick out🤷🏼♀️
taylor stone Same
taylor stone,
No one said anything about being "naturally" skinny. There is really no such thing.
Me Me There is though? I'm naturally thin and I have always have been thin. It's called high metabolism boo
Keira Holdsworth,
Are you asking me? Well, there is a thing called eating less calories, which causes a person to be so-called skinny.
Your tips are well-preserved and "do able", but you asked if there might be other suggestions. .Here are a few from a 65 yr. old sucessful, grandmother..#1. perfume, men have actually stopped me and commented on my cologne. #2. French flats, same color tights and same color slacks, they too make a female appear to look taller, thinner and extends your leg length #3. Nice bright teeth, the older you get, the duller your teeth begun..(red wine, smoking, aging, artificial food coloring) #4. Spray in shine for that bouncing hair you mentioned #5. Clean natural nails, NOT dragon nails (scary) #6. Pedicure, for open toed-shoes evening shoes #7. Correct bra size, NO BACK FAT! (when your bra is the incorrect style your breast droop, cause back fat and force midriff roll) #8. Walking, pick up your feet, quit! scuffing and dragging your feet, walk with pride, purposeful, like your walking on the cat-walk, or a model.. hold your head-up! Your Right get OFF THE IPOD! #9. The correct size handbag.. the wrong purse size causes poor posture, gets in the way, and becomes an inconvenient focus of your outfit #.10 Speak like a lady, watch your vocabulary (THE WEALTHY DO NOT SPEAK COMMON, TRASH, STREET LANGUAGE ) ..and..VOICE TONE and CONTROL..it is not ATTRACTIVE to SCREAM for ATTENTION # 11. And treat the service help, with respect, your manners show, those with a old money or an extensive income, are polite, even in the worse conditions, we RISE ABOVE, the situation and pretend everything is "fine" then..Move-On"...Jacqueline B. Kennedy once said.."its, just as easy to Smile Graciously, as it is to Frown and Smiling causes less wrinkles"...All of the suggestion are free or inexpensive, teeth stripes can be purchased at your local thrift store and cologne is available EVERYWHERE!, even dollar store. Please, accept these few small suggestions from a "seasoned, experienced lady", who still believes in catching the man with our female gifts, all of these are easy, inexpensive and life-long skills...
Cynthia Daniel 👏👏👏👏🙌🙌 amazing tips! I need to screenshot this. Thanks beautiful lady 💞
Wow! Respect💕
Cynthia Daniel the only objection I would have to perfume is that you can REALLY overdo it!! And besides that, you may work around people who are allergic to perfume.
Cynthia Daniel thank you for sharing. 🤗Respect!
thank you so much beautiful Internet nana 😇💅
Also
Wear a perfume
Have at good smell
Breath should be good
Neat hair
Neat nails...
Easy on the perfume. Really.
Okay, so..
-Take a shower everyday (OBVY)
-Deodorant (especially on P.E days)
-Neater hair
- wash face every morning
-Make sure breath smells good
-where your cologne
Thanks :)
「 Odd Otaku 」 I go to pe everyday and sweat a lot so u ESPECIALLY do need deodorant
So I took your advice and painted my nails and ended up spilling the nail polish in the bathroom sink and it literally made a whole painting and so I called my mom cause I wasn’t able to use my fingers to clean it up so she did it but forgot to use a sponge and got it all over her hands and couldn’t wash it off properly but now my nails are really pretty so thank u. U really influenced my life with that comment
Perfume is sickening
I'm 62 and only this year discovered the wonder of darkening my eyebrows (mind you I am one of those who had great eyebrows - I remember my mother's friend saying that when I was about 12 :) - but as you age you do lose some of the fullness. I love a bit of dark shadow brushed on them and YES confidence is SO attractive in both women and men. It can override all sorts of flaws! I never knew that part of the eye was called the waterline. Learn so much from you Shea - your videos are wonderful. Joyful, informative and inspiring :)
Awe thank you so much Kathleen! I really enjoyed reading this comment!! And yes, eyebrows and confidence will do wonders :) Thank you so much for watching my videos. Much love to you as always!!!
Kathleen Meadows Yes. Her videos are joyful! Good comment. Hope you're having a good day😊💕
Thank you Jamlisa! :)
Brows make the face! Remember as you age to lighten the color, not darker. Otherwise it is really harsh.
Very cute video and all very true. ❤
Hi Anna - thank you! I did notice that - I use the lightest brown of my eyeshadows to darken them just a bit and I'm pretty careful about that because you're absolutely right - too dark and the rest of my face looks stark white :)
I agree I feel like the neckline is the most attractive thing on a woman
Sassy. never.Trashy Yes but you are very beautifull and probably have great clavicles but mine are ugly so for me it does not do the trick...
Daphne Feida you're beautiful 💖
Daphne Feida. If you're not comfortable showing that area then you can try showing your back. That's another attractive and sexy area without being blatantly so. A woman never needs to show cleavage or t&a to be sexy, keeping it modest and just showing a bit of skin is more mysterious (and men LOVE that) while remaining classy. Also there's your neck!
Jules BJeweled i know what you are talking about but just to explain what i am saying : my neck has a scar that is visible if you come close by a thyroidectomy..also i am overweight and my claviclea are not visible...so you are right that i can show my back!i mean for me this is a more resonable choice!but let's not idealise only one part on a womans body!not everyone can be sexy showing back or clevage or legs...every body ia different
True😂
You know you’ve got issues if you searched up “how to be beautiful”
Yep
HA!!! jokes on you I searched “how to be more attractive”
Novyana M i searched how to be more actractive cause i want to impress my crush
@@katie6526 same here!
Thats a harsh statement, Having issues means change is present, not that youre in a bad place.
Compassion is beautiful.
I've never been able to pull my hair back into a pretty ponytail. Please do a tutorial showing how you do yours.
Jennifer Harris I second that!
Yeah! When I had long hair especially I had tons of problems with it and even now with a lob i still have problems.
Jennifer Harris flipping your head over works best and if that makes it look weird its OK, your hair gets trained into it after a few days, it happend to me
Jennifer Harris double ponytail "hacks" actually do work for fullness. (Lots of videos about the tricks using different methods so I won't waste space poorly explaining lol) Also using a paddle brush and turning upside down helps the bottom. Trying to be too sleek and tidy is usually the difficult part with a pony that looks nice but keeps it's fullness. At least in my experience.
Brush your hair back. Put your head down making the hair go down, brush the hair on the back of your head holding the hair, and smooth the hair from the top of your head and put it in a ponytail and you can use hairspray to help flyaways☺
1) Be attractive
2) Be attractive
Sonya Xo.... Mmmmmmmmm I'll try that out
3.dont be ugly
this is so true
3. *Go back to eating potato chips and watching vids about how to be prettier cause you failed 1. and 2.*
Well if that's the case I have absolutely no hope
Step one: be attractive
step to be: more attractive
step three: be super attractive
step four: be extremely attractive
Thank me later
Easy for you to say Levi. Nobody looks more stylish while slaying titans.
gangurogeisha. Lmao
Levi teach me your ways
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LEVI
@@foothecookie2160 sorry just genetics🤪
I love how all her responses to ppl in the comments are kind even if they don’t agree with her, Unlike so many other you tubers who are so sensitive to any form of feedback or criticism differing from their opinion. Thick skin and classy.
Thank you, Amber!!! I try to be kind :)
yessssssssssssss
wow Shea!.... you're a rare breed!,... a gift to your/ our generation for sure!. Inspiring! Well done!
Posture, posture, posture!! It should have been more emphasized!!
Totally agree that it's SO important!! Makes a really big difference!
Kathryn I always try to sit up straight during class lectures and I can feel myself looking better
Augh, you’re SO right. I can go from schleppy to kinda cute if I pay attention to my posture.
You’ve got that right! Stand up straight! Sit up straight! Whether you’re tall or short or somewhere in between, posture will instantly make you look better and more confident.
"let your hair down-"
me, a girl who has really short hair: *_excuse me?_*
defaulttpng when my hair is down I look like a boy
_l e t Y o u r H a i r D o w n M o r t a l_
Same HAHA
same i cut my hair and i was like ok ik i cut it and regretted it 🤣
The hair tricks do NOT work for people with THINN AF hair. I will suffer forever.
Ikr collar bones are so pretty and feminine😍😍 I've thought that for a long time but finally someone put it into words!!
Yessss!!! I'm so glad you agree!! :)
Same
Well, a year ago i was sitting at school with an off the shoulder blouse and a man told me something like “look at your bones, you are too skinny”. That was so annoying.
Melanie López wow that is so rude? Don't listen to him, you're beautiful no matter what!
Melanie López- and you said "that's your opinion"
Its early morning here in India. I have to send my kids to school by 7. Here i am watching your video....Just shows how much I am waiting for your videos. Keep up the good work.
Awe thank you Ansil!!! That's seriously so nice to hear! :)
Ansil George q
Always wear a smile! It's attractive and it relaxes others AND the features of the face!
When I smile men and women run
Away
From me
a smile must be natural. so better advice is: dont' be afraid to smile IF YOU FEEL LIKE IT
Exactly
i can't wear heels ill fall and die lol
Heels are not for everyone!! There are some lovely flats available, too!!!
I was like that at first with my first heels experience lol but then I got used to them and omg I just love heels now. But I know some people who still hate them which I get it xD
Hurricane Immortal &2
Hurricane Immortal lmao
Sameee
I.will follow all your tips about looking more attractive however nobody will notice me because they are all too busy looking at their phones!
That's so funny, Linzianna!! Let's hope people stop looking at their phones so much! :)
As a 57 year old woman I lost my fashion mojo over the years .. however..🤗... since subscribing to your channel I have really learned so much .. Thankyou.. you are an absolute Darling.. and a real testament to your generation .. and mine ... thanks again and their is NOTHING shallow about you .. sincerely.. Cathy 🥂🧚♀️💕
Where are you from?
@@julyamurisya8351 I’m from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
@@cathymartinmcgoey3855 Cool! Nice to meet you)
WHAT a difference filling in the eyebrows is!! It definitely feels odd at first, but it's unbelievable how much of a difference it makes!
Having good dental hygiene should be on there. Everyone looks more attractive with white/healthy teeth 😉😍
So true. I totally agree, Nicole Stanford!!
White isn't natural, no-one has perfectly white teeth and your teeth can be off white, or even yellowish (gasp!) and still be healthy. Just pointing this out. As long as they're clean, flossed, and cavity free you have good teeth.
Yeet. I got the whitest teeth in my grade. I guess one thing that is good. My eyes hair body bust size good.
But I have freckles oof
Do you need straight teetn to be beauiful?
My teeth are naturally yellow but perfectly healthy, it’s just the way they’ve always been and btw a lot of the time people with with teeth aren’t healthy they’ve just put chemicals on them
Her eyes are literally GOALS😍❤️
I can't make eye contact
*cries*
xxShadyPotato same I’m so awkward lol
Me too, I have social anxiety... *silently goes to the dark corner and cries*
High five lol
@@iwilldisappearforyou Same here!
Heels do not create better posture, very much the opposite!! They cause your pelvis to tilt, your spine to leave it's neutral curve, cause excessive flexion of your ankles, etc.
Aimee A heals are very unhealthy, and someone like me shouldn't wear them.
so true
Michelle Tsuchiya exactly how does not wearing heels relate to being butch?
Heels messed up my hips and my feet. No more heels for me unless for very VERY special occasions!
Yes. Yes! YES! To getting off the phone in public. You'll be an instant standout!
Totally agree with getting off the phone!!
Brooke Flood I like your last name
yes true but some people are shy and insecure so they need the phone
Brooke Flood I like neckline's but mine is like very invisible.....
Rita king just cuz your shy doesn't mean you need a phone. xD
Shy people existed before phones.~
Tess Nielsen same
i clicked on this becuz i was curious but i wasnt planning on staying very long. im totally impressed tho! thanks for the (suprisingly useful and not shallow) tips!
this girl is so gorgeous omg
Such a fun ”list”- all tips are simple, sincere, and delivered light-hearted. Thank you. Refreshing to hear tips that all suggest we are enough. You didn’t suggest some surgery or ultra-expensive purchases - just tweaks and behavior consciousness that we probably can all agree are honest and true. You’re terrific 😉
Wow - I really loved this comment!!! Thank you so much!! I'm really glad you liked this video! And yes, we are ALL ENOUGH!
oh my gosh your eye color is so insane!!!!
+Avalon Dinunzio awe thank you!!!!❤️
Yes, just nice to look nice people are so much nicer to you when you look and feel OK about yourself versus wearing your pajamas to town you rock
"let your hair down"
me, a hijabi: *excuse me?*
Relax! It's an American expression!! And as long as you're here, just accept them.
Gail Arneman she’s just playin she’s not actually mad
@@gailarneman4771 "here" where Exactly?
Gail Arneman bruh what
girl hahah 💀
girl you look FLAWLESS. I will take ALL your tipssss!👏👏👏
Awe thank you!!! :)
Getting off your phone is probably the most attractive thing anyone can do , shows self confidence and awareness of your surroundings, not to mention people who are on their phone 24/7 are relatively brain dead!
Shazeeda De Silva you just talked to me :(
Long wavy hair? I’m screwed. Actually I didn’t get “noticed” until I cut my hair shorter (between chin and shoulder length). Long hair dragged my face down. Some people look better with shorter hair IMO and I’ve never needed it to get noticed (good thing because it won’t grow long EVER from coloring). The few guys who told me I should grow it were clueless.
Wendy French I love long hair. I've had everywhere from a pixie cut to waist length. Long hair is so much fun but a little longer than chin length is the most flattering on me by far. And as far as men being most attracted to long hair, my husbands favorite style on me is pixie cut lol
I actually prefer shorter hair and I want to cut my hair as short as yours (it's currently a long bob) but I'm afraid I'll look bad.
This is so me lol
My hair used to be just below my hips and I went straight to a pixie cut. I immediately loved it, no regrets. Since then I've gone a bit shorter to find my ideal style but I honestly believe it can look great on anyone! :)
I looked shorter and fatter, and generally more boring with long hair... Short hair makes me stand out and look curvier (in a good way) :D
Be kind and positive and full hair, be a Disney princess lol
Emma Philomena 👑
Emmanuella Philomena i... i dont have full hair
Aye Ana
I don't either LOL
Well my bone is not like that ._.
Same
Doesn't mean it's not beautiful
Just lose weight
Tbh I think it looks kind of creepy like that 😬
Brisa Delrio just put glue on ur lips 👏
Great tips 👌🏼Nude heels are timeless- I also suggest finding the right shade of nude heel for skin tone- it will do a better job of elongating the leg. A signature lip is a good idea- I love a nude lip and I keep my faves in my Mini Pochette that goes in all of my bags so they are always on hand. Another way that I feel more attractive is to wear my signature fragrance- just makes me feel more put together 💕
Thank you so much Jenni!!! I"m so glad you agree with me! And I TOTALLY agree about the signature fragrance!! I almost included that on my list!! Much love to you!
Jenni Lepp great point about skin tones!! Because most “regular” nude heals just look whack on me haha
Silla Fromm- I have different shades in my closet- some for when I'm tan, some for when I'm super pale in winter. I find that pinkish nude heels look best with my skin tone in winter 👌🏼 The right pair is our there for you doll 😘
Jenni Lepp. That's actually the point of wearing the nude heels. It's supposed to match your legs and look like an extension of them, giving you the appearance that they go on for miles. Stating just a nude heel doesn't work for everyone, it needs to match your skin tone. I haven't worn a black heel with a little black dress in 30 years, it's always been nude. I'm glad you pointed this out so others will know that 1 shade doesn't work for everyone. 🖒
I have a medium almost tan skin tone, and my favorite nude is kvd Lolita II
You just became my favorite with this phone tip. You go girl.
I've watched countless video's geared at all the how to's of makeup, hair - you name it. Your video (which I'll be honest I clicked on out of curiosity) is by far one of if not THE best I've watched. Ending it with qualities rather than a sigma brush whatever and the Mac paint pot in.....well you get the point. Don't get me wrong, I love a great product but all the makeup in the world can never take the place of a genuine smile, confidence and happy positive outlook. Well done! BTW - does the average girl really know what all the different numbered makeup brushes are for? Lord knows I don't and don't care. And one little trip to the high end makeup counter or store isn't something most average girls can afford except maybe once in a while. Sure, we should all want to look our best but real beauty begins inside. Your contribution to this topic I find very "real". Thanks! 🐾 please adopt a homeless needy loving animal🐾
Well said, Flutter Bize!!
Love and agree with all, but the last two are totally my thang! (I choose to carry a stupid phone, no text, no calls actually, emergency use only). Nothing is as important to me as the human experience. It is amazing what great service you will receive if you stow your phone/make eye contact/pay attention to the forgotten. I am referring to the teller, the checker, the bagger, the attendant all must do their job while waiting on calls to end, and being ignored by most. When someone actually makes eye contact and is in the moment, well they just light up. You get remembered and favored. Choosing to leave others better than I found them=listened to, smiling and uplifted is a deliberate article of my ensemble-not just an accessory to it. Which makes me feel attractive. : ) PS. You look so beautiful! Those eyes! Those eyes! Incredible. Thanks for all the tips!
B. Walker. So true! I only take my cell with me for emergencies. Who wants to be bothered when they're away from the house? It really wasn't that long ago when we didn't have cell phones and once you left the house that was it, people had to wait til you got home. I actually miss those days.....sigh
And number 9: a nice perfume!
Yes, totally agree!!
I'm a guy and hate prefume! I smell it and walk away lol
Totally agree
I'm sorry whenever I hear someone say they don't like perfume I want to say, Wow you've smelled EVERY perfume and don't like any of them ? Sorry I don't believe you ! It's time to check out the good stuff ! I mean yeah we do smell good with just lotion and body wash and such, but......
all my guy friends love this signature scent : green tea + fruity perfumes. theyre always like : you smell so good
That shoulder/neck thing is true. I’ve never gotten more attention on a night out before, than when I was wearing a cold shoulder dress. It must be flattering
Something really simple I do is to make sure I always curl my lashes. When you're going makeup free it helps to refine your features and open up your eyes. When wearing make-up it is a great way to ensure your get the most out of your mascara and draw attention to your eyes which often play a huge part in physical attraction.
Great suggestion, Freya!! Thanks for the comment :)
Her eyes match her hair and it is so pretty.
Loved ur ideas,! All ready to impliment it!
Nice tips! I would also add taking care of your bag (designer or not)! A grungy bag can really bring down a whole look. It's my equivalent of a man wearing sneakers with a suit. Yuck!
Yes I definitely know what you mean!! I agree! Thanks for the tip!!
YellowBrickExpat I always buy cheap 50 dollar bags and ruin it in a few weeks, if I buy a designer one I probably ruin it even sooner.
YellowBrickExpat gulol
Idk used bag look fits with some styles like depends how you're dressed
Also your shoes! Taking care of your things regardless of the quality or expensive you're able to have makes a huge difference!
I agree with the hair part, my hair is straight and I always try to curl it when I can and I instantly feel more put together
Yes, I definitely agree!! Thank you so much!!
Can you share the links with the colors to the Bite Beauty and Kat Von D lip products? Thanks!
Thanks for all of the tips ! I am not young (59) but I always try to look my best and stay as young as possible. I am going out today and get some nude heels and urban decay waterline pencil, maybe even the lipsticks. You look great and confident ! 👍🌼
The glass tapping sound effect was so cute.
hahaha...Thanks!!! :) It's fun to edit!
what shade of lipstick is that?
Shea, your editing on this video is on point! :-*
Shea: some people are blessed with.. perfect eyebrows
Me: MOM!
Mom: WHAT IM MAKING DINNER!
Me: I AM BLESSED WITH PERFECT EYEBROWS!
Mom: I want a normal child. I don't have one. My son is an emo gamer guy with no girlfriend and my daughter is a weird person.
Me: I HEAR YOU MA!
Underrated comment
Also:I love you .... and I love your mom .
An emo gamer guy. Wow. What a specimen
give me your brother
My mother is never happy with me, either. She’s likes to tell people that I am just like her when I’m the opposite of her.
omg! you are so adorable and authentic! I stumbled on to you kinda by accident! I have an hour b4 my next client, so I am going to go and implement all 8 of these INSATNT WAYS TO LOOK MORE ATTRACTIVE! Ive been feeling so ugly lately! I subscribed after 10 seconds!
Hi, I'm really tall for my age. I'm 16 and 5 feet 11 inches. Should I still wear heels? I have a pair of booties with a heel that love to wear, but I'm still wondering
Yes you can definitely still wear heels! But you're lucky...you have great heigh WITHOUT heels! So you're a win-win either way!
@@Dranged2k WRONG! My best friend is 5'10" and her husband is a head shorter than her. They've been married for 30 years.
@@Dranged2k "most men’s type are girls around 5’6" men shouldn't date girls
Yes, you should👠👠
valleyrain huh??
To be honest some of this advice is pretty good. I do think her channel is nice but I like the idea of just being your self. Being comfortable most of this involves makeup. I believe how to be more attractive is personality and being comfortable in your own clothes and who you are. No heels,makeup and showing off your body to look more attractive. A smile and being your self I believe is the best way, so this video kind of aggravates me.
I agree with you. Maybe you didn't watch until the end, Brittany... I believe my last tip basically stated what you just said. I said the most important thing is to be confident and smile. I'm sorry you found the video aggravating :(
Have only watched two videos but I love that you have ended both with tips that were more about personality instead of just looks. It’s encouraging and refreshing, keep on girl! :)
You're gorgeous. You remind me of Elizabeth Olsen (very good thing!) Subscribed. 💓
Important message: who cares about what guys think is sexy? That should not be anyone's criteria for themselves.
If you like guys, you care. It's nice to be considerate to the opposite sex, just as guys should care what we think too. It's the dynamic between the sexes.
@@Serenadesong I like guys and I don't want them to see me as sexy because we all know that guys take it too far when they wanna have you, wether you want that much or not
"Who cares what guys think is sexy?" Errr....straight women.
Lyndz W Good job generalizing men’s behavior towards women
LOL I don't really think she just ONCE says this video is about what guys want or like or think is sexy. She mentions that guys might like something, but she says several times that you'll just feel better and more attractive in general (or to yourself). It's a video about how to make oneself feel better?
I LOVED this video! The waterline eye pencil, confidence, and the get-off-your-phone tips were my favorite but they all were amazing. THANK YOU!!
I love your channel..even tho I’m 74, can’t wear heels cause I have 2 knee replacements. But! I love
the lipstick hint as I can’t keep it on, I just eat it off right away. Plus I like that color. Also, where is your waterline?
The waterline is along the base of where your bottom lashes grow.
Arlys Veen Hi Arlys, the waterline is that line of skin between the roots of your lashes and your actual eyeball! You can apply eyeliner to the waterline whether top or bottom. I hope that helps - It’s a difficult one to describe! xx
Awe thank you so much lovely!!! And your waterline is the top/bottom edge of your eye...almost like the inside lip of it. Google eye waterline and you'll see a picture!! :)
Hahaha Lucy...it really is difficult to describe! :)
Arlys Veen you can wear nude flats if you want to- those are so classy too.
How am I supposed to wear heels when I'm 6ft tall??😂
That doesn't mean you can't wear heels! However, if you prefer, there are some lovely flats available. I have several pairs of nude flats that I wear often :)
Oh god I know what you mean I'm tall as well so when I wear heals Iiturly feel like I'm huge around everyone which makes me feel like a bloody wrestler lol
I can't relate because I'm only 5'2 I still hate heel's though they hurt your foot and that's a struggle for almost every girl😂
Hi! What rings are you wearing on your right hand?!!!
Hi Shea! I’m a mom and a fashion lover too! LOVE LOVE all your videos!! I’m so glad I found your channel because there’s hardly decent people in RUclips that portray a more down to earth lifestyle and family life. You seem to be very genuine and kind. Hope you keep doing what you’re doing the way you’re doing it, please don’t ever change! Loved the tip about Bone Broth Protein in one of your videos! I have periodontal disease, so this comes really in handy ♥️
Your entire family is so cute!! Keep being such a great mom , person and RUclipsr!!! 🙋🏻
Awe thank you SO MUCH Karla!!! This is such a wonderful comment...it really really is. You are so kind and really made me smile!! I'm so glad you like my videos...and the Bone Broth Protein too! I have a dentist appointment this Thursday and I'm freaking terrified!! :( But again, thank you so much for your sweet words. Much love to you
Confidence is totally #1! Some of the most gorgepus girls I work with are just the most confident. And I LOVE that you look at the camera to "look us in the eye". It's such a turn off to watch a RUclips personality look at their reflection on their computer screen or whatever. I don't know how they don't realize we can tell if they are interested in their followers or just themselves.
Well it sucks you have to be confident because I am sort of insecure about things because yes I have had people tell me Im not worth anything or just ugly crap to me and I can tell my dad was sort of this way, I felt like I didnt really matter to him, he was never happy about what choices I made unfortunately. And now I have became insecure, I cant even keep a friendship like how everyone else can keep it for years. I am also very self critical for some reason and idk why. I just hate this world. Guys also think hoes have the most confidence in the world so, I guess we should all be thots and display "confidence." But anyways yes I do like confidence I just lack it in a way and sometimes I feel that people hate me and think Im not special
I just discovered you on RUclips yesterday and I love your channel. I liked what you said towards the end of this video, to be confident and positive and the rest. So important to do that on a daily basis.
I am recovering from breast cancer and I have skin and hair issues and I get people looking at me funny but I don’t care bc I made it into the world again and nobody knows my story
I love your comments about getting off your phone and experience the world and people around you. Also, smiling, good posture, showing confidence and being positive is such a great message to young folks. (oh, and I like your beauty tips, too. :)
Amen sister. Everything you said in this video makes perfect sense. Glad that someone took the time to put this list together. Thank you!
What do you call or what is the name of the eyeliner that you use along your waterline and where can you buy it?
*idk why but I'm usually attracted to people with long lashes xD*
I literally cut my eyelashes when I was about 3 or 4.
(Don't ask how I didn't poke my eyes out. I still don't know and I'm mad. My cousins would always tell me I have long lashes. After I cut them, they really never complemented me lol)
I have acne on my shoulders lol
dude ikr no matter what i do it doesnt go away lol
Lol there ARMYs everywhere
Hiii
@@jfekfjfnr7830 try to prevent shampoo or conditioner from touching your back. It really causes acne. I'm speaking this from experience lol
Or it might be because you don't shower as often as your body is trying to tell you to. Or it could be the opposite. You could be showering too many times per (day, week etc..)
Either way, most times with body acne it is because of bodily oil or oil from conditioner and shampoo.
Also, check your diet. You might be eating a lot of sugar or greasy food that can cause body acne
@@nancy54379 thanks its prob cuz i bathe too much, i eat fruits and veggies whenever i can and i bring my hair to the front when i wash it
What eyeshadow are you using?! I love it.
🤗👏👏👏I so appreciate your tips and advice. I love when women elevate each other to be a better them. I also love a nude heel. My version of a nude heel is one that is closest shade to my skin tone, that would be more of a caramel tone, which is so hard to find. Shea, you did it again love. 💕💕💕💕💕
Louboutin's new stuff is for all skin tones, right? I'm sure there's knockoffs as well
I am so stupid. When she first said it I thought she meant like a pair of heels where the heel itself was transparent. I’m saying to myself I’ve never seen that before. Then she shows the heels and I’m like duh, I’m an idiot...lol Love those moments when you hit an all time low stupid moment. Why did I even think that at first?
she didn't mention this, but it is extremely important. one of her nude examples was the wrong color for her. louboutin has the nudes collection, and yes, you need to match your skin tone.
mindbodysoul try DSW for the caramel color shoe
Yes, nude heels that is closest shade to the skin tone is best way to elongate your skin! But it’s really hard to find one , the only store that provides every shade of nude shoes is louboutin which is unaffordable for me
Could you please do a tutorial on that makeup look?
I need to do a makeup video soon! :) Thank you!!!
I Love this!! What is the liquid lipstick name?!?
I love how you focus on inner beauty and kindness. Just love.it!
The neckline advice only works with skinny girls with prominent collarbones lol
i disagree! i think women of all shapes and sizes look great when showing off their neckline. just because your collarbone isnt prominent doesnt mean it doesnt look good. I think showing off your neckline, or even just wearing a vneck shirt, really elongates the torso, which gives an overall slimmer effect :)
GabbyBear highlight your cleavage... option #2
GabbyBear exactly. I recently gained weight and miss that part of my body. I’m glad I got bigger boobs and butt, but I miss my skinny neck and collarbone.
I think I personally look thinner and better when I wear crew or boat neck tops. Otherwise I'm so concerned about my cleavage coming out as I'm pretty busty, which makes me not look put together or attractive because I'm constantly pulling at my clothes. So the boat neck shows off enough without being too much
I hate when people use the word skinny.... There are people that are not skinny but healthy that have that S well... just saying.
What’s the brand for your lipsticks? They are gorgeous and so are you, inside and out! Love your humor!! Keep up the great work!
Pro tip to girls:
Be with the guy when he needs you the most and when he thinks no one else is with him. He will always remember this. ❤
Yep and then ditch you when he can find someone else or better
Not every girl is straight, though (no offense).
@@ak5235 😂😂😂😂😂yh
There's a lot more to life than just looks. You'll be a lot hapier if you understood you dont *need* any of these things. All you need is peace harmony and balance towards yourself and others.
You were blessed with a fabulous eye color....do you consider them green or hazel? They glow. So pretty.
Agree to some of these things, but just be yourself. I feel like these are very stereotypical things. It is ok not to be skinny and tall and have long hair. There is a man/ or woman for everyone.
Hi Shea! I’m new on your channel and of course I “subscribed” right at the first video. I watch a lot of inspiring RUclips videos with many other ladies but there is something so different about you as a person: simplicity, fun, reality, true and honest opinions, tips and tricks. I thought today:) ... I need a BFF like you are, lol. You are doing a great job being who you are, and shearing your experience & ideas about fashion, beauty and drop of luxury...💖👜👠👏🏼
Could you please let me know what eyeshadow you used for this video? Great tips, thanks!
Decolletage....Try pronouncing it like: Deckle-la-taj
@Beena David how does a vlogger make a specific tip about the decolletage and not know how to pronounce it?! 🤔 #9 prior preparation to ensure correct pronunciation 👌
I'm a guy, instantly after seeing the thumbnail I knew this video would be a load of crap.
Just be yourself ffs. That's all that really matters 🤷🏻♂️
I love this comment so much😊
Me too😘😘😘
yea but if a ugly girl tries to be herself and someone tells her that shes ugly then shes gonna try to look pretty duhhh.
Andria That’s why I don’t tell ugly girls that they’re ugly
the first thing she said was that looks aren’t everything
*immediatly trying all of your tips* Thanks so much they are not the regular tips everyone talks about so they are super helpful!!
What is the name of the kat von d lipstick colour?
Friedi144 Ophelia
Jessica Cox thank you:)
Friedi144
The best way to feel pretty is
Love yourself and don’t care what other people think
I mean, it's not bad advice but it ain't that easy.
These are some great tips! I have seen pretty much every ' How to look sexy ' video on YT but yours just stands out! No shading and bashing people ! Love it xoxo
I feel like wearing heels, even nude ones, would make me look as if I played dress up in my mom's closet😅
I feel like nude heels arent that attractive for some reason :P
If you want a little more confidence
Potatoes turn to french fries, yeah it's common sense
All you need's a couple more condiments
And a hundred thousand dollars for some compliments
It's such a waste
When little girls grow into their mother's face
But little girls are learning how to cut and paste
And pucker up their lips until they suffocate -Mrs. Potato Head
All the makeup in the world, won't make you less insecure -Sippy Cup
Melanie Martinez lyrics.
Vivien Lehne Oh, stop being such a crybaby! Lol
ILK Madison Haha good one 😂
abbi kivett wasn't proven
I love your look here! Like this video a lot:) totally agree about the phone. Do you have tricks for hair volume aside from back combing or teasing? I have thick hair but I feel like the bottom always pulls it down leaving the top flat.
OMG! Your collarbones are amazing!!!!! Totally girl crushing!! 😍😍😍
Thank you so much, Antonella Beretta!!!