Friends: Normal Me:ADHD Friends: like to hug Me: This is awkward Friends:get real close to my face when we talk to each other Me:This is awkward Friends:Have no problem with bullys Me:Bullied Friends:Love me for who I am Me:Love them too
me: Introvert her: Extrovert me: night her: day me: the dress is WHITE AND GOLD her: its BLUE AND BLACK me: violin is the best instrument her: drums are the best! me: I like dogs her:I like cats me: I hate trying new foods her: I LOVE trying new foods me: anime is awesome her: cartoons are better! me: My favorite animal is the majestic wolf her: My favorite animal is the powerful lion me: in the Myers Briggs test i'm an I.S.T.P her: in the Myers Briggs test i'm an E.N.F.J me: Oh My god these cloths are beautiful! her: HELL NO! me: I have black hair her: I have blond hair me: i have black eyes her: i have blue eyes me: I dont like HUGE groups her: I LOVE HUGE GROUPS WOOO! me: hey buddy her: HEY BFFFF!
This is like me and my best friend of 7 years. She's super extroverted and I'm 100% introverted. We've had A LOT of arguments, but it's all somehow worked out. I don't even know how we've lasted this long when we pretty much have nothing in common.
My BFF is totally girly-girl and I'm completely different, tomboyish.. Even a friend's mom saw us and she like, "You guys are SO different from eachother!" I feel like our personalities won't match up.. but I have been with my BFF since 2nd grade!
IKR! I have a friend that is exactly like this video, I am the one who is extremely outgoing and crazy, she is very mousey. The hug thing is exactly like us!
+Brisk AquarioHD i have a BFF since 3rd grade and we have the same interest. 2 years later, i changed cause of personal things and became a Dark,cold night while she's still the Bright,emotional day.
Me: fav color is black Friend: loves bright pink and sparkles Me: cat person Friend: dog person Me: Introvert Friend: extrovert Me: on computer all day Friend: At the pool all day Me: loves rainy days Friend: loves sunny days Me: loves to read Friend: loves to read Reading is the only thing we have in common, I don't know how we are still friends :/ (This year is the 6th year we have been friends)
My friend doesn't like baseball but I love it. And my friend also seems to be getting bored of Pokemon even though I still love it which is pretty ironic because he got me into it.
+Lemon “LemonPush” 2099 me too it makes me not want to eat so I stopped so I think when u don't take the pills it's harder especially if ur friend has a disorder
I must say, finding out our MBTI types has really helped me and my husband to communicate better. I'm INFP, and he's ENTP. We're lucky enough to be one of those couples that rarely argues anyway, but now if we do it gets resolved much more easily.
That's very common behavior, Emily. Some of us are very talkative with everyone we meet, and some of us become more comfortable the better we know someone. If you find you have trouble making conversation when you're around people you don't know as well, you should check out our videos "Party Survival Guide for Introverts" and "How to Break the Ice."
same scenario here, until one day we got stuck on the elevator and we have no choice but to talk with each other on how we can get out of that elevator, after that scenario we came back to normal because we feel in our heart that we truly care for each other .everytime we step in to that elevator she always hugging me tight and whispering THANKS FOR THE ELEVATOR :)
Ashley- That's a great question. Try having a variety of music... maybe ask a couple of your close friends to give some suggestions, and then bounce some of your ideas off of them. This goes for all elements of the party. It's a celebration of you, so make sure that it's a party that YOU will have fun at, too!
Love this! One of my closest friends is ESTP and I'm INFJ. While it can sometimes be difficult to understand each other (and I certainly lack her social energy) it's really great to have a friend who is much more spontaneous and in the moment.
I am in like this HUGE fight with my best friend, and honestly I did some $&@! But I really want our friendship back. I remember she asked "Why are we even friends? We are completely different!", and then I watched your video. Tomorrow we are going to talk, and I wish that all the steps will work... Still, thank you a lot for those things 😊
When my best friend and i met he did not even know what anime/manga was and he didn't want anything to do with it but know he watches anime like 24/7. He's most definitely crazy.
My best friend is the *complete* opposite of me. I'm an introvert, she's an extrovert. I love cats, she loves dogs. I like anime, she likes cartoons better. I hate sports, she loves sports. I like wearing my hair down, she always has hers up. I like almost all music, she's very limited with music. The list goes on and on.
For the arguments to conversations part...I have a friend that's completely different and we have the opposite problem. We constantly have debates and conversations about things even when we're mad at each other and we almost never just flat out argue...because we never argue, we never get our true feelings out and now a days...things are always tense between us
:D I actually have a opposite friend already! He's kind of violent... and loud... and less emotional than a regular human... while I am nice, quiet and cry whenever I see a picture that gets me in the feels.
It's okay to not argue, but be sure to try and express your feelings if you're angry or upset about something your friend has done or said. If you aren't sure how to do this in person, you can try writing a letter or an email with your thoughts.
I've had one of my best friends since grade 4. She transferred from Korea and I'm from Japan so we had some things in common. I'm in 6th grade right now and we're still best friends and we're in the same class. But, the summer between 5th and 6th grade, we started to become interested in different things. Well, mostly me. I became more into dubstep and RUclips gamers. While she still listens to Mozart and classical music. We started to meet new people because a lot of different people came in the middle school. We sit across from each other at the moment, but we can't talk as much as before. We try to Skype each other but the different clubs we joined don't really match up to good times to talk. Luckily, we're still as close as we were the first year I met her :)
Idk if it’s really weird but me and my friend is oopsite My name:Sunny My friend’s name:Moon =Sun and Moon My fav color:pink My friend’s fav colour:black =Blackpink
this reminds me of my boyfriend and i...we are opposites but you know what they say, "opposites attract." so we are going to me together for almost 2 years now and we are so happy together :)
honestly i can't think of a better channel that helps an emotionless tard like me to deal with this stuff. It's helped me connect better with my girlfriend who happens to be the opposite of me which is exactly why i chose her. thanks wellcast.
My best friend and I are COMPLETE opposites, but we have never, ever fought or been mad at each other...anything! Our moms always wonder how it works, but I'd rather not question it :)
Me and my best friend ARE DIFFERENT. For example, everyone sees her all sweet and kind, and they call me a crazy person. But, I asked why she was my friend since we were complete opposites, and she said "Because you are not like the rest, you're different. And that's why YOU'RE MY BEST FRIEND." :D
One of my good friends is a really big extrovert while I'm more of an introvert. We disagree on a lot of things. She always wants to go to that latest party or concert and have sleepovers a lot. Don't get me wrong,sometimes it can be fun but she doesn't get why I leave after a few hours or turn down her offer to sleep over afterwards. She thinks I'm trying to avoid or I don't like her when I say I'm tired or I just want to be alone. Even though we are very different, she introduced me to my best friend and I still love her company. She's helped me reach out a bit more and get out if my comfort zone. Can someone give me tips on how to help her see my side? She's always been loud and social and she doesn't get why I like being alone so often.
just tell her that you need to be alone for a while and then afterwards you can call her and explain or something. Idk I'm kind of introvert and extrovert, I can be either sometimes.
My wife is very very much an extrovert. While I am very much an introvert. The key to it is communication. Make sure your friend knows that sometimes, too much socialization is just exhausting and you need a bit of time to 'recharge'. It doesn't mean you don't like her or enjoy her company, it just means sometimes you need a bit of alone time. Wellcast has done some videos like 'The Party Survival Guide for Introverts' that really touches up on Intro-Extrovert interaction.
My best friend can be negative ( not all the time ) and is all about the electronics. However, I'm peppy, upbeat, hate most electronics, and love the outdoors!
I'm a Introverted Conservative Christian Chemistry major and my girlfriend is a Extroverted Liberal Atheist Literature major. This helped a lot (we're both huge fans of Sherlock though).
I have a friend and she moved to India. Some times I even stay up until 6 am trying to text her, (different time zones) but she never texts back. When I told her my mom died, she kept texting me, but time zone are annoying, because I text her after she texted me at 6 but I texted her back a 8-9.
I have a friend who I met in a competition, she was on my team, who happens to be very different from me. she's a short little girly-girl who loves soccer, purple, polka dots and pugs. she's an innocent person who loves dressing up and running around. whereas I'm an average girl, who enjoys "masculine" things and prefers being inside and drawing. I'm dirty minded and enjoy horror. =3 somehow it works. we don't even watch the same shows, but we get along.
interesting example with regard to estimating the steepness of hills. The groups of friends judged it as less steep, but were they more accurate? or less so? I'll take accuracy over optimism 9/10 times.
We're so glad you like the videos! The great thing about social networks like Facebook is they allow people to reconnect in an easy and organic way. Don't be afraid to send him a friend request with a message such as, "Hey, do you remember me? We went to school together at ____ before I moved. How have you been?" There's no harm in trying to spark up a conversation!
I'm incredibly short for my age with long, brown hair-one of my BFFs is really tall with short blonde hair, we look so funny when were out together but we make it work because we like a lot of the same things
thanks well cast this video is really helpful .....I'm introvert and i keep thinking about how my friends are different from me which sometimes lead to a problem between us .....but I'm gona try dese steps .....thanks again
My classmate is an extrovert and I'm a shy introvert. I'm not ready for a friendship yet, even though I know her for two years, I don't think it would work.
"...maybe you're both fans of sherlock... it's possible, alright? those people are out there. (our writers think this is possible, anyway)" haha, one of my besties and I have matching sherlock bags and have gone on tours of london and dartmoor because of it xD but, other than stuff like that, we've got a lot of differences. she's much more outgoing and gets involved with stuff, whereas I'm very introverted and withdrawn. we compliment each other and do learn from each other.
That is a good idea, but should I actually send that letter or should I use it to get as a reference for what I want to say? Its definitely a difficult thing to do. I want to get it out that I'm unhappy..and relieve the tension/end the friendship - but it keeps getting pushed back and avoided. Question: Do you think there is ever a time when it is better to end a friendship than to try to save it? If so, under what circumstances would that be and how would one do that as painlessly as possible?
I have bipolar depression and i have a exTREAMLY hard time making friends. Especially when it comes to the friends i know. They all dont understand me and they're all hyper. What am I suppose to do?
trust me? make them hyper, piss them off..when they r really pissed off, then apologize like a man they will feel gud. Now turn your conversation to the other side and end it by making fun of them again..again apologize..these r the nature of two best buddies or group whatever..:)..is this too much? ;)
lol, actually, arguments help fuel the friendship for me XD It really continues the talking since I always shut down conversations but I never close a debate unless I win. My friend and I consider each other "frienamies" and we are the complete opposite of each other, but we attract like magnets.
It's always good to diversify your friend group! Maybe your parents would be more comfortable if you continued to hang out with your guy friends but with other girls there as well?
It's really bad to be too much introvert, he was introvert and me extrovert, for 7 years I compromised and I was patient, but he never understood and never appreciated my thoughts and actions... Really hurts.
I struggle making friends who have mutual interests. I guess it's because I (am awesome) just like company and just them While those I have mutual interests are harder to maintain full stop
DanBot nature and animals are the best friend a "pet" 🐱🐭🐰🐸🐨🐷🐮🐗🐒🐴🐑🐼🐧🐦🐤🐔🐍🐢🐝🐞🐌🐚🐠🐟🐬🐳🐋🐀🐓🐃🐖🐇🐎🐐🐡🐁🐏🐄🐊🐈🐩🌳🌲🌴🌱🌿🌸🌻🌈🌍🌎🌏🌞, there are no friends, only when we were kids or friends with benefits =\
I have two friends(i mean i have more but im using them as examples) one friend is COMPLETELY different from me, the other might as well bey twin. I am better friends with the one that is my complete opposite! The one that is my "twin" were drifting apart as friends may do. So for me, i get along way better with my opposites than my "twins"
I have a HUGE question. OK- first you just practically showed our relationship with my friend.but we are both extraverted. so we usually get in fights when I get mad at her whenever I feel she's being a bad guest. As in, I get irritated when she randomly grabs food or gets something from a random from somewhere. (she comes over a lot). so, we get into a fight after that.
Hi Well cast team, This is a great video. Could you make a video on how to work with people who are different from you in school or at work? That would be awesome. Thx
I'm not going to make it though this one, I had a friend who was my opposite but then serious life drama happened and now we don't speak. I could maybe use an episode on how to be okay with someone you care so much about not wanting anything to do with you
I have a friend who's like this but its really hard to communicate with her because she's going through a tough time right now and how she's handling it doesn't make much sense to me because I would handle it completely differently which results in a lot of fights. How can we work through these differences especially with her being so sensitive right now?
But what if your friend is the oppisite gender? I mean, i am a girl but i'd rather be with guys instead of being with other girls, because of my personality and additude. But dies that has to do with the fact i like being with guys instead of girls?
I'm a girl who hangs out with dudes, it's better in the long run because no drama and you can give them dating advice and it wont be like a girl asking for it. I am so confusing but when I talk to guys its easier to carry a conversation.
i just am with the guys more because usually the girls complain to me if i don't do something, like, on school, we need to make our homework on school for a bit, but i don't do it, they complain and the guys don't complain, plus i have most interests of a guy, i hate make-up and girly stuff.
milaatje9 It doesn't sound so much like a gender issue, but a personality issue. Your guy friends just happen to have personalities that mesh well with yours, while you girl friends don't. Try using the tips in the video with some of your girl friends and see how things might change for you :)
I'm a tomboy. (Still a girl for the people who are reading this.. :U) My friends and I have the same interests, but they're outgoing, I'm shy... So that's why I go to watch the "How to be more confident" video.... **Clicks video**
Dear WellCast, I am having problems with friends no longer talking to me. I say hi to them and I get a hi back but when someone else says hi to them they get happy and excited and it hurts my feelings. I don't know what to do. I have asked her if she was mad at me or if there were problems at home but she said no. Please help. Your very close follower.
Hey Wellcast! Kind of at that time where all my friends are having sweet 16 parties. How do I have a party that my friends will enjoy that still has a little touch of.. well... Ashley (me)? Like feeling that I have to make all the music their kind of music and totally leave out the things that I feel are more meaningful than a song about partying and boys with "swag"? Is there a way to have both?
+Dean Winnster I do not get what you mean as we are best friends since we are 7. And what do you mean by filthy humans? Aren't you a human too? I am from Asia by the way.
Hey well cast, I've watched all of your videos and you guys are hilarious! I need some advise, a few years ago I went to a different school and met an amazing guy who stood up for me when everyone else was mean, he knew I liked him but it was too late when he found out because I had to move. Now two years later I can't stop thinking about him, I have his social network information but I don't want to seem akward or like a stalker when I talk to him, I don't know anything about him anymore
Being introvert and having an extrovert friend is not really that great. You don't like to have too many friends and so you rely on them for emotional support. But they have too many friends and so can't give you much time. It might be good if the friendship is already deep. But its very hard in the beginning.
Friends: Normal
Me:ADHD
Friends: like to hug
Me: This is awkward
Friends:get real close to my face when we talk to each other
Me:This is awkward
Friends:Have no problem with bullys
Me:Bullied
Friends:Love me for who I am
Me:Love them too
Same with me and my friend
She's the awkward one tho
my friends are crazy,
so am i.
one of em is a nerd (in a good way! :D )
so am i
TheSnowyDinoGamers ikr
me: Introvert
her: Extrovert
me: night
her: day
me: the dress is WHITE AND GOLD
her: its BLUE AND BLACK
me: violin is the best instrument
her: drums are the best!
me: I like dogs
her:I like cats
me: I hate trying new foods
her: I LOVE trying new foods
me: anime is awesome
her: cartoons are better!
me: My favorite animal is the majestic wolf
her: My favorite animal is the powerful lion
me: in the Myers Briggs test i'm an I.S.T.P
her: in the Myers Briggs test i'm an E.N.F.J
me: Oh My god these cloths are beautiful!
her: HELL NO!
me: I have black hair
her: I have blond hair
me: i have black eyes
her: i have blue eyes
me: I dont like HUGE groups
her: I LOVE HUGE GROUPS WOOO!
me: hey buddy
her: HEY BFFFF!
.....
Leslie Gibson ...... what? and did you actually read all of that XD
katherine guevara I relate so much to this..
Lovely Valencia Andersen who are you more like me or her
katherine guevara You!
This is like me and my best friend of 7 years. She's super extroverted and I'm 100% introverted. We've had A LOT of arguments, but it's all somehow worked out. I don't even know how we've lasted this long when we pretty much have nothing in common.
I heard if a friendship lasts for 7 years then it'll last forever.
Lauren Buss We're both starting university in different countries, but intend to keep in contact as much as possible :)
This is literally what my friend said! Although, we are still in a fight...
Yes! Some of the best relationships are the ones where two people balance each other out with their different strengths and weaknesses.
My BFF is totally girly-girl and I'm completely different, tomboyish..
Even a friend's mom saw us and she like, "You guys are SO different from eachother!"
I feel like our personalities won't match up.. but I have been with my BFF since 2nd grade!
IKR! I have a friend that is exactly like this video, I am the one who is extremely outgoing and crazy, she is very mousey. The hug thing is exactly like us!
+Brisk AquarioHD i have a BFF since 3rd grade and we have the same interest. 2 years later, i changed cause of personal things and became a Dark,cold night while she's still the Bright,emotional day.
SAME
Me: fav color is black
Friend: loves bright pink and sparkles
Me: cat person
Friend: dog person
Me: Introvert
Friend: extrovert
Me: on computer all day
Friend: At the pool all day
Me: loves rainy days
Friend: loves sunny days
Me: loves to read
Friend: loves to read
Reading is the only thing we have in common, I don't know how we are still friends :/
(This year is the 6th year we have been friends)
XD oh my gosh, i was a like
Be....
*video pauses*
Be what? BE WHAT???!!! *shakes the laptop*
patient
Me: oh..... heheh
me too haha
fitforsoccer000888 this is something I always suspicions of
Ikr, same! Lolz
Lol!!😋😋😋
Ray Norshine just like me
Me: what's wrong you seem upset? My friend: I got a 70% on my math test. Me: dude I got a 50% :| Me: (starts crying)
Check out our video Guide to Maintaining Friendships!
My friend doesn't like baseball but I love it. And my friend also seems to be getting bored of Pokemon even though I still love it which is pretty ironic because he got me into it.
me:ADHD
BFF:Bipolar
what to do?
Well I have adhd and my friends haven't noticed
Naomi nwabueze I told her I had it...
+Lemon “LemonPush” 2099 do u take pills
+Naomi nwabueze I don't like them
+Lemon “LemonPush” 2099 me too it makes me not want to eat so I stopped so I think when u don't take the pills it's harder especially if ur friend has a disorder
I must say, finding out our MBTI types has really helped me and my husband to communicate better. I'm INFP, and he's ENTP. We're lucky enough to be one of those couples that rarely argues anyway, but now if we do it gets resolved much more easily.
Her dynamic voice makes these videos so much more interesting :)
That's very common behavior, Emily. Some of us are very talkative with everyone we meet, and some of us become more comfortable the better we know someone. If you find you have trouble making conversation when you're around people you don't know as well, you should check out our videos "Party Survival Guide for Introverts" and "How to Break the Ice."
Every time my friend get's mad at me she just ignores me for the rest of the week, so I can't talk to her
same scenario here, until one day we got stuck on the elevator and we have no choice but to talk with each other on how we can get out of that elevator, after that scenario we came back to normal because we feel in our heart that we truly care for each other .everytime we step in to that elevator she always hugging me tight and whispering THANKS FOR THE ELEVATOR :)
When you are the opposite of your friends and you see this video, you will cry out of satisfaction and praise
RESPECT WELLCAST!
Wow, having friends seems like a really cool thing...
I KNOW THAT SHERLOCKIANS ARE OUT THERE!
HEEEEEEY~
I actually screamed at that part!
the many increases in volumes and sudden yells was really nice. Had me changing my audio output like a real DJ
Ashley- That's a great question. Try having a variety of music... maybe ask a couple of your close friends to give some suggestions, and then bounce some of your ideas off of them. This goes for all elements of the party. It's a celebration of you, so make sure that it's a party that YOU will have fun at, too!
Love this! One of my closest friends is ESTP and I'm INFJ. While it can sometimes be difficult to understand each other (and I certainly lack her social energy) it's really great to have a friend who is much more spontaneous and in the moment.
I am in like this HUGE fight with my best friend, and honestly I did some $&@! But I really want our friendship back. I remember she asked "Why are we even friends? We are completely different!", and then I watched your video. Tomorrow we are going to talk, and I wish that all the steps will work... Still, thank you a lot for those things 😊
Crazy Gurl since this was a month ago... did it work?
When my best friend and i met he did not even know what anime/manga was and he didn't want anything to do with it but know he watches anime like 24/7. He's most definitely crazy.
My best friend is the complete opposite to myself. However, we have been best friends for almost 10 years. He looks out for me and I look out for him.
My best friend is the *complete* opposite of me.
I'm an introvert,
she's an extrovert.
I love cats,
she loves dogs.
I like anime,
she likes cartoons better.
I hate sports,
she loves sports.
I like wearing my hair down,
she always has hers up.
I like almost all music,
she's very limited with music.
The list goes on and on.
For the arguments to conversations part...I have a friend that's completely different and we have the opposite problem. We constantly have debates and conversations about things even when we're mad at each other and we almost never just flat out argue...because we never argue, we never get our true feelings out and now a days...things are always tense between us
:D I actually have a opposite friend already! He's kind of violent... and loud... and less emotional than a regular human... while I am nice, quiet and cry whenever I see a picture that gets me in the feels.
It's okay to not argue, but be sure to try and express your feelings if you're angry or upset about something your friend has done or said. If you aren't sure how to do this in person, you can try writing a letter or an email with your thoughts.
I've had one of my best friends since grade 4. She transferred from Korea and I'm from Japan so we had some things in common. I'm in 6th grade right now and we're still best friends and we're in the same class. But, the summer between 5th and 6th grade, we started to become interested in different things. Well, mostly me. I became more into dubstep and RUclips gamers. While she still listens to Mozart and classical music. We started to meet new people because a lot of different people came in the middle school. We sit across from each other at the moment, but we can't talk as much as before. We try to Skype each other but the different clubs we joined don't really match up to good times to talk.
Luckily, we're still as close as we were the first year I met her :)
Great video, Great advice.
We have a video on dealing with bullies; it sounds like that might be what's going on!
I needed this a while back. ): But I'll know how to handle it if it comes back now :D Love you all at WellCast and continue making amazing videos.
Thank you so much well cast u guys make my life much easier and help me deal with my problems and give me a better life
Bff- preppy
Me- emo
Bff- normal
Me- mythic bitch
Bff- horror movies?
Me- hell yeah let's watch some horror movies
Why we're friends- anything scary, stranger things, and musicals
Idk if it’s really weird but me and my friend is oopsite
My name:Sunny
My friend’s name:Moon
=Sun and Moon
My fav color:pink
My friend’s fav colour:black
=Blackpink
Me:
RAINBOWDASH!
Friend:
APPLEJACK!
Other Friend:
WHAT ARE THEY?!
Both of us:
GO AWAY AND WATCH THIS TAPE!
this reminds me of my boyfriend and i...we are opposites but you know what they say, "opposites attract." so we are going to me together for almost 2 years now and we are so happy together :)
honestly i can't think of a better channel that helps an emotionless tard like me to deal with this stuff. It's helped me connect better with my girlfriend who happens to be the opposite of me which is exactly why i chose her. thanks wellcast.
My best friend and I are COMPLETE opposites, but we have never, ever fought or been mad at each other...anything! Our moms always wonder how it works, but I'd rather not question it :)
Me and my best friend ARE DIFFERENT. For example, everyone sees her all sweet and kind, and they call me a crazy person. But, I asked why she was my friend since we were complete opposites, and she said "Because you are not like the rest, you're different. And that's why YOU'RE MY BEST FRIEND." :D
One of my good friends is a really big extrovert while I'm more of an introvert. We disagree on a lot of things. She always wants to go to that latest party or concert and have sleepovers a lot. Don't get me wrong,sometimes it can be fun but she doesn't get why I leave after a few hours or turn down her offer to sleep over afterwards. She thinks I'm trying to avoid or I don't like her when I say I'm tired or I just want to be alone. Even though we are very different, she introduced me to my best friend and I still love her company. She's helped me reach out a bit more and get out if my comfort zone. Can someone give me tips on how to help her see my side? She's always been loud and social and she doesn't get why I like being alone so often.
just tell her that you need to be alone for a while and then afterwards you can call her and explain or something. Idk I'm kind of introvert and extrovert, I can be either sometimes.
My wife is very very much an extrovert. While I am very much an introvert. The key to it is communication. Make sure your friend knows that sometimes, too much socialization is just exhausting and you need a bit of time to 'recharge'. It doesn't mean you don't like her or enjoy her company, it just means sometimes you need a bit of alone time. Wellcast has done some videos like 'The Party Survival Guide for Introverts' that really touches up on Intro-Extrovert interaction.
D: I feel like you're talking about meee
My friend is E but I'm a I she really helps me out with my social problems and very grateful I have a friend like her!!! :)
My best friend can be negative ( not all the time ) and is all about the electronics. However, I'm peppy, upbeat, hate most electronics, and love the outdoors!
You should make a list of what you do and don't like about the person or good and bad things about dating each person and compare. That might help.
Dear WellCast could you make a video about learning to trust people and yourself?
I'm a Introverted Conservative Christian Chemistry major and my girlfriend is a Extroverted Liberal Atheist Literature major. This helped a lot (we're both huge fans of Sherlock though).
I have a friend and she moved to India. Some times I even stay up until 6 am trying to text her, (different time zones) but she never texts back. When I told her my mom died, she kept texting me, but time zone are annoying, because I text her after she texted me at 6 but I texted her back a 8-9.
I have a friend who I met in a competition, she was on my team, who happens to be very different from me.
she's a short little girly-girl who loves soccer, purple, polka dots and pugs. she's an innocent person who loves dressing up and running around.
whereas I'm an average girl, who enjoys "masculine" things and prefers being inside and drawing. I'm dirty minded and enjoy horror. =3 somehow it works. we don't even watch the same shows, but we get along.
interesting example with regard to estimating the steepness of hills. The groups of friends judged it as less steep, but were they more accurate? or less so? I'll take accuracy over optimism 9/10 times.
My friend is a
Gay
Femine
Confused
Male
And I'm
Lesbian
Tomboy
Not confused
Female
Info Chan try
Info Chan oops wrong comment,sorry
i don't get what you're trying to say...pls explain to me....i really wanna know...im not being sarcastic
Arch Angel Gaming me or the other comment I'm explaining that some people can be so different but still the best friends anyone's ever had
We're so glad you like the videos! The great thing about social networks like Facebook is they allow people to reconnect in an easy and organic way. Don't be afraid to send him a friend request with a message such as, "Hey, do you remember me? We went to school together at ____ before I moved. How have you been?" There's no harm in trying to spark up a conversation!
I'm incredibly short for my age with long, brown hair-one of my BFFs is really tall with short blonde hair, we look so funny when were out together but we make it work because we like a lot of the same things
Yeah there's a video about that is called Guide to Maintain a Friendship.
Opposites attract in temperament, like attracts like in values :)
thanks well cast this video is really helpful .....I'm introvert and i keep thinking about how my friends are different from me which sometimes lead to a problem between us .....but I'm gona try dese steps .....thanks again
Thanks this really helped with my relationship with the doctor!
My classmate is an extrovert and I'm a shy introvert.
I'm not ready for a friendship yet, even though I know her for two years, I don't think it would work.
Really relevant at the right time, thanks
"...maybe you're both fans of sherlock... it's possible, alright? those people are out there. (our writers think this is possible, anyway)"
haha, one of my besties and I have matching sherlock bags and have gone on tours of london and dartmoor because of it xD but, other than stuff like that, we've got a lot of differences. she's much more outgoing and gets involved with stuff, whereas I'm very introverted and withdrawn. we compliment each other and do learn from each other.
Me: Gimme a hug.
Friend: No >:c
me: *gives her a hug anyway*
My friend is an extrovert and i'm an introvert she helped me communicate with other people :)
This is helpful, with me being introverted and my cousin being THE LOUD PERSON SHE IS
That is a good idea, but should I actually send that letter or should I use it to get as a reference for what I want to say? Its definitely a difficult thing to do. I want to get it out that I'm unhappy..and relieve the tension/end the friendship - but it keeps getting pushed back and avoided.
Question: Do you think there is ever a time when it is better to end a friendship than to try to save it? If so, under what circumstances would that be and how would one do that as painlessly as possible?
What would happen if you take 1 friend of regular matter...
And had him hug his opposite friend, who is made of anti matter?
I have bipolar depression and i have a exTREAMLY hard time making friends. Especially when it comes to the friends i know. They all dont understand me and they're all hyper. What am I suppose to do?
trust me? make them hyper, piss them off..when they r really pissed off, then apologize like a man they will feel gud. Now turn your conversation to the other side and end it by making fun of them again..again apologize..these r the nature of two best buddies or group whatever..:)..is this too much? ;)
Could you do a video on low self-esteem/self image or depression?
lol, actually, arguments help fuel the friendship for me XD It really continues the talking since I always shut down conversations but I never close a debate unless I win. My friend and I consider each other "frienamies" and we are the complete opposite of each other, but we attract like magnets.
Thank you! I wish I saw this 20 years earlier, at the age of 30, I'm still learning
Im an ENFP and my best friend is an INTJ and we hardly ever argue
You should check out our video Party Survival Guide for Introverts!!
What if a person never compromise? Is that still possible to have that person as a friend?
That was a good episode! I learned how to make friends with opposite people! Thanks!
Thanks for sharing this important information have a great day ❤
It's always good to diversify your friend group! Maybe your parents would be more comfortable if you continued to hang out with your guy friends but with other girls there as well?
It's really bad to be too much introvert, he was introvert and me extrovert, for 7 years I compromised and I was patient, but he never understood and never appreciated my thoughts and actions... Really hurts.
I struggle making friends who have mutual interests.
I guess it's because I (am awesome) just like company and just them
While those I have mutual interests are harder to maintain full stop
I'm a Feeler while my cousin is a Thinker.
Me and my bff:
Me: Extrovert
Her: Introvert
Me: Cool
Her: Cute
My fave colour: Blue
Her fave colour: Purple
My fave animal: Powerful Lion
Her fave animal: Cute Bunny
Me: LightBrown Hair/Brown eyes
Her: Blonde Hair/Green eyes
Me: E-Girl
Her: VSCO
Me: HeeEeeeeEeeeEEEy GRACE!
Her: Hellooooooooooooo A!
bloody hell, did you just draw sherlock and john like. how.
I love this channel even more because of the BBC Sherlock references.
what if i dont have any friends
then u probably have severe social anxiety disorder like i do..:(
DanBot nature and animals are the best friend a "pet" 🐱🐭🐰🐸🐨🐷🐮🐗🐒🐴🐑🐼🐧🐦🐤🐔🐍🐢🐝🐞🐌🐚🐠🐟🐬🐳🐋🐀🐓🐃🐖🐇🐎🐐🐡🐁🐏🐄🐊🐈🐩🌳🌲🌴🌱🌿🌸🌻🌈🌍🌎🌏🌞, there are no friends, only when we were kids or friends with benefits =\
I have two friends(i mean i have more but im using them as examples) one friend is COMPLETELY different from me, the other might as well bey twin. I am better friends with the one that is my complete opposite! The one that is my "twin" were drifting apart as friends may do. So for me, i get along way better with my opposites than my "twins"
jclay251
opposites attract
Not a bad problem to have...
Alphys: introvert ,no self defense ,science , thinker , liar and anime lover
Undyne: extrovert, basically a master at self defense ,battle strategies,feeler , anger management and anime lover
I have a HUGE question. OK- first you just practically showed our relationship with my friend.but we are both extraverted. so we usually get in fights when I get mad at her whenever I feel she's being a bad guest. As in, I get irritated when she randomly grabs food or gets something from a random from somewhere. (she comes over a lot). so, we get into a fight after that.
Hi Well cast team,
This is a great video.
Could you make a video on how to work with people who are different from you in school or at work? That would be awesome. Thx
Thanks for the helpful tips!
I'm not going to make it though this one, I had a friend who was my opposite but then serious life drama happened and now we don't speak. I could maybe use an episode on how to be okay with someone you care so much about not wanting anything to do with you
I have a friend who's like this but its really hard to communicate with her because she's going through a tough time right now and how she's handling it doesn't make much sense to me because I would handle it completely differently which results in a lot of fights. How can we work through these differences especially with her being so sensitive right now?
But what if your friend is the oppisite gender? I mean, i am a girl but i'd rather be with guys instead of being with other girls, because of my personality and additude. But dies that has to do with the fact i like being with guys instead of girls?
I'm a girl who hangs out with dudes, it's better in the long run because no drama and you can give them dating advice and it wont be like a girl asking for it. I am so confusing but when I talk to guys its easier to carry a conversation.
i just am with the guys more because usually the girls complain to me if i don't do something, like, on school, we need to make our homework on school for a bit, but i don't do it, they complain and the guys don't complain, plus i have most interests of a guy, i hate make-up and girly stuff.
milaatje9 It doesn't sound so much like a gender issue, but a personality issue. Your guy friends just happen to have personalities that mesh well with yours, while you girl friends don't. Try using the tips in the video with some of your girl friends and see how things might change for you :)
I'm a tomboy. (Still a girl for the people who are reading this.. :U) My friends and I have the same interests, but they're outgoing, I'm shy... So that's why I go to watch the "How to be more confident" video.... **Clicks video**
Foxy Roxy You might be an introvert?
Have you seen our video "How to Ask Your Crush on a Date"? Let us know what you think!
Thanks! Dealing with this now, hope it works :)
Me and my best friend are almost exact opposites and yet we never had one fight and we get along well.
If only me and my BFF were like you guys...
Dear WellCast, I am having problems with friends no longer talking to me. I say hi to them and I get a hi back but when someone else says hi to them they get happy and excited and it hurts my feelings. I don't know what to do. I have asked her if she was mad at me or if there were problems at home but she said no. Please help. Your very close follower.
Hey Wellcast! Kind of at that time where all my friends are having sweet 16 parties. How do I have a party that my friends will enjoy that still has a little touch of.. well... Ashley (me)? Like feeling that I have to make all the music their kind of music and totally leave out the things that I feel are more meaningful than a song about partying and boys with "swag"? Is there a way to have both?
My friend and I are COMPLETE opposites. She is an extrovert while i am an introvert. But we are BFFs for 5 years.
+Dean Winnster I do not get what you mean as we are best friends since we are 7. And what do you mean by filthy humans? Aren't you a human too? I am from Asia by the way.
Hey well cast, I've watched all of your videos and you guys are hilarious! I need some advise, a few years ago I went to a different school and met an amazing guy who stood up for me when everyone else was mean, he knew I liked him but it was too late when he found out because I had to move. Now two years later I can't stop thinking about him, I have his social network information but I don't want to seem akward or like a stalker when I talk to him, I don't know anything about him anymore
Being introvert and having an extrovert friend is not really that great. You don't like to have too many friends and so you rely on them for emotional support. But they have too many friends and so can't give you much time. It might be good if the friendship is already deep. But its very hard in the beginning.
Do a video on how to deal with anxiety
what does it means by "tell me where you're coming from?" i literally dont understand its purpose , can u please define in details