You Don't Miss The "Old Days." You Miss This...

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2019
  • theantonioneves
    theantonioneves
    theantonioneves
    Have you ever found yourself saying, “man, i miss the old days” as you reminisce about the past?
    The truth is when people say “i miss the old days” what they’re really saying is “i miss the old me.”
    We miss who we use to be “back in the day.”
    We miss being bold, confident, optimistic, and more.
    Then, 10 or 15 years later, bam! We find ourselves somewhere we didn’t anticipate being based on the choices we did and did not make.
    Here’s the truth: the old you is dead. Gone. That chapter has closed.
    The problem about daydreaming about the past, is that means that we’re never present in the moment of today.
    The good news. Everyday is a brand new chapter.
    A great way to do this is to look at your life as if it was a movie. Now imagine the movie is halfway over. What would the lead character, you, do right now to start turning things around?
    You are the lead character in this movie. But it’s not a role. It’s your life that we’re talking about.
    The “old days” are gone.
    I don’t miss the “old you.” I didn’t know that person.
    I’m more interested in what you’ll do next.

Комментарии • 451

  • @chrizplzchill
    @chrizplzchill 4 года назад +775

    Pov:This wasn't on your recommendations, you searched for this

  • @ja18musik
    @ja18musik 3 года назад +511

    I miss the memories of being a kid and having no worries and playing video games with my friends and having a great time.

  • @lunakm764
    @lunakm764 3 года назад +245

    I wish I could go back in time

    • @mikmak3450
      @mikmak3450 3 года назад +16

      Same 😔😣

    • @Uppercounty760
      @Uppercounty760 3 года назад +9

      Same bro

    • @victortoll9392
      @victortoll9392 3 года назад +1

      Samehere

    • @laroja5221
      @laroja5221 3 года назад +8

      I would go back to late afternoon of June 14, 2019 and just suicide. Nothing happened after that day was good. Simple as that.
      And now with all the BS(corona, timeless deaths) I don't even give a flying fuck about present time no more, I'm not livin' in recent day. I don't mourn over lose of loved ones, I don't cry about anything, I just living in the past. I don't feel nor care about anything happening now.
      I think about things happened before the date I told and having day dreams and pretend like it's happening now ALL DAY LONG.

    • @blaze0052
      @blaze0052 3 года назад +7

      @@laroja5221 I can fully understand you. What’s the meaning of the fucking life. Miss the old days when man had no worries...

  • @arezoumoaiedi3739
    @arezoumoaiedi3739 4 года назад +268

    The problem is accepting that chapter is closed 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

    • @victortoll9392
      @victortoll9392 3 года назад +5

      I agree

    • @user-gh5ho2hz6l
      @user-gh5ho2hz6l 3 года назад +8

      That ganna make me worse

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад +10

      @@user-gh5ho2hz6l Truth hurts I guess

    • @dannyantoine8472
      @dannyantoine8472 3 года назад +4

      yeah you're right I cant accept it either

    • @djdndbbdalidndndbdnd4203
      @djdndbbdalidndndbdnd4203 2 года назад +15

      It’s honestly so hard to accept that chapter is over and it’s no use anymore. I miss the old days so much. Always wondering when did it go wrong.

  • @TheVCRTimeMachine
    @TheVCRTimeMachine 3 года назад +53

    I'm more optimistic and confident now than I was 35 years ago. I don't miss the old me, but I miss the OLD DAYS.

  • @josem793
    @josem793 4 года назад +116

    I miss the old me the fearless me and the fun me now I struggle with thinking about the past and dreaming things that will never happen also I struggle with some anxiety whenever I'm in public I don't speak as much as I used to, unless if I do something about it. He's right it's time for a new chapter every year is the same crap and I'm tired of it the new me will evolve. I used to have haters now it's time to bring them back.

    • @tuanvicta
      @tuanvicta 4 года назад +4

      Same bro

    • @vedernicovdaniel269
      @vedernicovdaniel269 3 года назад +11

      Man when i thought about the old me i started to cry no joke i miss the old me the careless me i was yolo mode and now my life is messed up let's talk sometimes send me your insta

    • @flowerssmile
      @flowerssmile 3 года назад +17

      i feel the same as you guys!! Does anyone also miss those times in the years 2009-2012 I miss those times so much but I think its just because I was more Confident and now I‘m so Insecure and my Life isn‘t so socially anymore! I want to change!! I also kinda hate this whole social media instagram stuff I somehow think it ruins our society. Old times were better! But I think positive and I will have a new Chapter in my Life now! 😇

    • @user-bn9hf9fz1d
      @user-bn9hf9fz1d 3 года назад +10

      This is literally exactly what im feeling right now, i miss the old me that used to manifest a great life, the fearless me, careless, confident

    • @victortoll9392
      @victortoll9392 3 года назад

      Is so true

  • @ShahGamingPro
    @ShahGamingPro 3 года назад +105

    Im 18 and 2 years ago everything in life was great and now im just stuck at home with no friends no social life and stressing over online college and overdue assignments 😔

    • @soedm3th837
      @soedm3th837 3 года назад +10

      same,
      I am 19 and have no friends but everything a year ago was different.
      I think that it's time to make new friends and move on

    • @dg85bk49
      @dg85bk49 3 года назад +10

      You are 18 man you are sooo young you got your hole life head of you trust me

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад +1

      You know you can change that right? You are literally the age where you can reinvent yourself and start over

    • @Davethegoat19
      @Davethegoat19 2 года назад

      Yooo samee

    • @pedro.cassis
      @pedro.cassis 2 года назад

      THATS EXACTLY MY SITUATION...

  • @auruka
    @auruka 3 года назад +115

    When I heard the word “nostalgia” I thought, what am I missing? What did I like about the past me? Then I realized...
    the past me was stronger and more excited to do new things, the new me can’t relate to the old me...
    but I can work on my self to do what I used to do, reading, searching, experimenting, socializing and many stuff, I see what have changed me, and I see what would fulfill my childhood goals, and I see what I can do about it...
    It’s not about not being able to leave the past, it’s about realizing how worse the current me is... I can fix that, in fact we all can fix that

    • @neoguy2809
      @neoguy2809 3 года назад

      True but it's really hard to socialize with Covid. And its like a vicous cycle of loneliness due to Covid and wishing to be able to do something.

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад

      @@neoguy2809 Maybe for you but not all, my social life really hasn't changed outside of having to wear a mask.

    • @oe670
      @oe670 2 года назад

      Same I literally suddenly miss the old me too I started realizing I miss the old me at 2020 till now now I understand what a good times mean.. I was so happy back then I don't need to worry about anything.

    • @Ousdoo
      @Ousdoo 2 года назад +1

      omg! u just gave me a new insight nd solution to the cause of my wrecked mental health
      😢😭❤️

    • @Dial8Transmition
      @Dial8Transmition 7 месяцев назад

      Good advice. Now that I really think about it, many aspects of my life back then was pretty shit compared to now 😂

  • @Eren-id6li
    @Eren-id6li 3 года назад +73

    "Old me was way better then this now, this depressing and angry and fearsome life"

  • @MrMohammed9000
    @MrMohammed9000 3 года назад +17

    when i see old me in any old picture or video i just can't believe this is me I was a positive person, I had goals now i just completely changed living alone for years not talking to anyone just work eat and sleep

  • @Jeffdraws19
    @Jeffdraws19 4 месяца назад +1

    I miss my old self. full of enthusiasm, enthusiasm not only for money, but enthusiasm to do anything and be happy. but I increasingly know why I am not happy in the present due to reasons and circumstances. and in order for me to be my old self, I have to solve my problems and get out of trouble. so everything has a way. life gets more complicated as you grow up.

  • @owwmyfood6768
    @owwmyfood6768 3 года назад +23

    We can move forward, and be successful but we can't deny that simple things make us happier and that's the reason why we miss the old us, we were just simple.

  • @itsvollx9684
    @itsvollx9684 3 года назад +32

    miss the old nostalgia D:
    nostalgic Minecraft

  • @bogosbinted836
    @bogosbinted836 3 года назад +61

    No, i really miss when covid wasnt a thing, the world is messed up and im going to cry now

    • @SkyWarrior100
      @SkyWarrior100 3 года назад +5

      It honestly gets harder not to as the days go on

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад +1

      Because that'll solve the issue...

    • @jaxaxx01
      @jaxaxx01 2 года назад +1

      @@bigbay1159 I do agree with you but please don't be harsh,
      Actually maybe it can help with speech incouragement,never mind though

    • @hkar4385
      @hkar4385 8 месяцев назад

      @@hamdaslays2 for me 2010-2015

  • @softdisney3.m757
    @softdisney3.m757 2 года назад +60

    My best years were 2018-2019 - I’d do anything to re live those years and still have the same spirit I did back then. I was so happy and excited about everything in life! I had so many hobbies! I spent some time before then figuring out who I am and it made me the best me in the end of it. Then covid came and it all seemed to go downhill again lol

    • @EDM_Ashir
      @EDM_Ashir 2 года назад +4

      Mine 2018 literally every good stuffs happened to me in 2018😭❤️ Those were the eternal happiness ever..

    • @mintexzzwinchester9252
      @mintexzzwinchester9252 Год назад +2

      Mine was 2020 and 2021 ironically the best and worst xd

    • @joeldeleon8599
      @joeldeleon8599 Год назад +4

      I would do anything to go back to 2018-2020. This will sound a bit cringe but playing fortnite with my friends and the winter times hit different and now I just miss it. Some People left my life my school and it just doesn’t feel the same.

    • @TSS08
      @TSS08 Год назад

      mine was 2020 to 2021

    • @user-vm6yj8mn6d
      @user-vm6yj8mn6d 8 месяцев назад

      COVID is the worst. It has ruined us for 3 years.

  • @claudespeed7641
    @claudespeed7641 2 года назад +11

    2010-2016 was the last great years in my life where I felt happy and had no worries now I'm bored and depressed with my life like a moving body with no soul I forgot what it was like to be happy for a long time I miss the old memories 😒😔

    • @Bamboozler2456
      @Bamboozler2456 2 года назад +1

      the last great year for me was 2016 too but only like till the end of summer vacation because after that 5th grade for me started and to this day i have no friends in my school/class. At least i had friends in elementary school

    • @hkar4385
      @hkar4385 8 месяцев назад

      2010-2015 for me

  • @SkyWarrior100
    @SkyWarrior100 3 года назад +8

    I still haven't accepted that the chapter in my life is closed, that my old life is dead

  • @Gabby-oi4dz
    @Gabby-oi4dz 3 года назад +13

    I miss when my mom used to be strict ,when I used to never quistion real life , when RUclips shorts didn't exist and when I used to enjoy real life then device and technology.
    Also when I used to play with my wii
    My mom used to be strict on how long I use my phone , what time I go to sleep,and my reading skills
    Now she is only strict on my diet and me being on my bed all the time
    I have no problem with my mom being strict about those but I want my more stricter mom back
    I also miss when I never have my "im not like other girls" mind I wish I can remove it
    I miss when I never quistion myself
    •If I am genuine or fake person
    •if I am only kind because I want to be in heaven
    •if i am going to hell or heaven
    •if I am a bad person for feeling numb when I watch news of people's deaths
    I also miss when I like to go outside with my family
    I miss going to real life school
    (Even tho it's boring)
    Writing this comment made me remember some of the memorys
    The more I edit and give more things I miss the more I remember what else I miss in the good old days
    I also miss when I actually never crave for old days
    I miss when I used to sleep with my parents because I feel safe with them
    I miss when my siblings visit
    Often
    I miss when my sister never went to college
    Rn she is not in college because of COVID-19
    In few months when she goes back to college I will be the only child in my house :(
    I miss when miss
    When my parents are never that old
    I miss when my mom used to be energic like one memory when she took me to the park while I was playing at the park she were running on the tracks of the park
    I miss when my parents are in their like
    Early or mid 40s now my dad is a boomer
    51 years old
    I miss when I am shorter than my mom
    Now I am taller than her
    I miss my old apartment
    (Tho I love my new house better than my apartment)
    I miss when I used to share room with my sister
    I miss when I never quistion my life
    I miss when RUclips comments are memes or over used comments
    Like: lets appreciate
    And I miss when the Samsung girl didn't exist
    Writing this let's me stop craving for old days
    I will edit this if I think of more things I miss in the old days

    • @niki-nx6qb
      @niki-nx6qb 3 года назад +1

      Hey! I also miss the times when my parents were really strict. I don’t think that you want your mom to be more strict I think you want her to give you attention? Even if you want your mom to be strict about stuff like phone then go and give your phone to her. Or spend more time with her, I’m sure she would like that. Go kiss and hug her. Say that you love her. Talk to her. As you said: you question yourself if you’re real or not, that’s probably because you spend most of the time on your phone. And you’re in virtual life not real. Be real. Do things that make you happy instead of being on your phone 24/7. Don’t worry about things like heaven or hell. Worry about yourself now. Don’t worry about your past or future, worry about you NOW. Do you get it?
      And I also have an older sister who’ll move to another city in 2 years and I didn’t realize that I would miss her as you do. I was mad at her yesterday and wanted her to move already. And we also sleep in one room :) thank you and don’t worry about other things

    • @hkar4385
      @hkar4385 8 месяцев назад

      you literally described my feelings. It seems like you are a religious person. I am a religious person too. I miss the past because of innocence. the feeling numb part about hearing news of people losing their lives happens to me too. I force myself too feel bad to not be a bad person. Now I am more stressed about what is good or not and how should I feel.

  • @pizzalover2007
    @pizzalover2007 3 года назад +30

    This is fairly long, don’t bother reading it..
    I miss the old days where I would just sit and watch my brother play gta 5 on the weekend until 6 am. I miss the old days where humour could be taken lightly and people wouldn’t get offended. I miss the old days where shows like Archer would give off a Hollywood sunset/party vibe making you feel as if it’s the 2008 again. I miss the old days where fashion actually made some sort of sense to me. I miss the old days where I would wake up in the middle of the night and crawl into my brothers bed and sleep with him because I had a nightmare. I miss the old days where my brother would make funny hand shadow stories. I miss the old days where I would sit and watch Christmas dog movies even though they were trash. I miss the old days where I would play with LEGOs and my barbies in the small little closet I had. I miss our old apartment. I miss my brother. I miss annoying him. I miss the people at my old school. I miss 7th grade. I miss my crush. I miss how light the world was. I regret thinking I was too mature to enjoy my childhood...
    I wish I could play gta 5 without my mom judging, worrying and behaving as if I’m him now IM NOT.
    I wish I could experience what he was going through
    I wish I was old enough to go to parties and enjoy the old music where party music was fun.
    I wish I watched Archer when I was younger
    I wish I could open up about what my sexual identity is.
    I wish I wasn’t so fat
    I wish I wasn’t so weird when I was younger so maybe I could’ve made some friends.
    I wish I didn’t let go of her
    I wish I could be reborn with all my memories up to this point.
    I wish I could restart my life and I’ve tried to change, trying to restart my life from now on but it will never be the same. I won’t ever have the same options as I had when I was younger and naive.
    I wish I could’ve spent more time with my brother whilst I still had him.
    I wish I wasn’t just a fucking brat when I was younger.
    I want to go back so badly.
    I don’t want anyone to die, I’m scared I’ll be alone forever without her.
    Even if I did go back it wouldn’t ever be what I wanted.
    There’s only two places I want to be.
    A world where it’s 2010 and it’s a nightclub with the sunset setting and neon lights are dancing around the sky. Where my brother is still there. Where my friends are having fun dancing to songs like Party in the USA, Who’s That Chick, Memories (by David Guetta) and Sexy Bitch.
    And a world where it’s just a void and I’m slowly sinking down into darkness . As if I’m drowning but not really.

    • @thesandeepsihag
      @thesandeepsihag 3 года назад

      Ok

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад

      Jesus, seems you have some demons that putting in a RUclips comment section is not going to help...

    • @epicmatrix2208
      @epicmatrix2208 3 года назад +1

      i feel you so much

    • @ciaranscl
      @ciaranscl 3 года назад +3

      We all miss the more simpler times

    • @avais8268
      @avais8268 2 года назад

      🥺😭😭 I am missing old days of mine.
      When I was in 6th std I was veryyyyyy happy
      But now I am in 8th I am very sad what I do. To whom I share my problem. If I tell to anyone my problem he will laugh or tell left it
      But I am crying now missing my old days 😭😭😭

  • @official_marked_one
    @official_marked_one 4 года назад +55

    old me was still better tho no cap

    • @SolidusLuigi
      @SolidusLuigi 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад

      You know you can change that...

    • @official_marked_one
      @official_marked_one 3 года назад +2

      @@bigbay1159 nop

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад +2

      @@official_marked_one Yes. Whether you want to, that's a separate matter buts that's on you.

    • @bigbay1159
      @bigbay1159 3 года назад +1

      @@official_marked_one "nope"

  • @shinigami117s8
    @shinigami117s8 2 года назад +12

    I miss having good fun and laughs in my childhood. Big house, pets, my mom being alive. My life has brought me so much turbulence after high school it’s nuts. I’ve been honorable, I’ve been doing what i had to do. I’m straight edge and clean . People around me are so toxic. I stay strong and lead myself to be the best. I do my best to stay out of the victim mindset because I know how dangerous it is. But at times like this …I can’t help thinking, I don’t know what to do. I want a good job so I can raise a family in a big house like I grew up in. Why am I struggling? When will I start winning in life?

  • @jciwallcrawler3673
    @jciwallcrawler3673 3 года назад +19

    I miss lockdown (I left it last August)
    On the first day, I started online school, and hopped on with the bois and had HEAR ME OUT: THE FUCKING BEST TIME OF MY LIFE, I NEVER REGRET ANYTHING, IT WAS OUT OF THIS WORLD. Everyday from March 23rd to June 16th. In April, I started watching Hermitcraft Season 7 on RUclips. I went out camping with my Dad, and when I woke up in the morning, I checked my phone and saw that my favourite Hermitcraft youtuber uploaded. On May 21st, I discovered my hobby of pier jumping after having Thai at a restaurant by the docks. Then, it was basically summer break, I could finally see my overseas family again, meet up with friends. Just, it was so much FUN. I’m not saying COVID Quarantine was better, BUT IM TOTALLY SAYING COVID QUARANTINE WAS BETTER

    • @Bamboozler2456
      @Bamboozler2456 2 года назад

      Yes i rlly appreciated the lockdown and online lessons especially because i am an introvert

    • @Ousdoo
      @Ousdoo 2 года назад

      i also miss the quarantine,
      because i learned a lesson too late that time passes by fast nd i could have worked on my physical health in past 2 years, but all i did was eat nd watched something on internet in whole freaking 2 yrs, i could hv done so fucking much.
      i literally think this every morning nd night that gives me some force to do the best

    • @tommyvercetti3736
      @tommyvercetti3736 2 года назад

      Yes my 2020 was also very great I miss 2020💔

    • @hamdaslays2
      @hamdaslays2 2 года назад +1

      Gosh I wish I wasn’t so emotional
      I literally cry every time I think of that time
      I really want that time back
      In online classes our teachers would get disconnected any we all would go chaos talking about bts and life and corona and bla bla
      Gosh I wish I wake up in the morning, see at the calendar and the date would be 27/3/2020
      ( that’s the date when lock down started for me )

    • @jciwallcrawler3673
      @jciwallcrawler3673 2 года назад

      @@hamdaslays2 literally pretty much mine as well. Although I think mine was the 23rd

  • @Chase-ck4vz
    @Chase-ck4vz 2 года назад +10

    I miss the days when I was younger and I lived with just my mom and my brother in our little town house. I love where I live now with my step siblings and love how I get to see my dad at least once a month most times. I just miss being young I guess. Now I stress over school and math and have been really having a hard time with my social life as it seems that no one wants me around. I can’t stop thinking back and it always makes me sad.

  • @angel0947
    @angel0947 2 года назад +2

    no one understands how much i want to live in this generation, everyone was happy, no social media, no cellphones or internet. People just had fun without having to check their phones 24/7. The world was fun, not toxic, kids could just be kids and especially no online school, quarantine or just fucking covid in general. We'll never get this life back...

  • @kennybranshaw7526
    @kennybranshaw7526 2 года назад +6

    I miss the old days, for real! My life has been miserable since getting married 5 years ago.

  • @alexglasgow5375
    @alexglasgow5375 3 года назад +10

    Yes I miss the old me and it's gone, I know I can't change anything in the past and I still haven't accepted that chapter is closed, and I want to be able to do things that are what the world would say is impossible. I want to be able to have a place for people who see themselves as Mandalorians to be and have a place where we all could go and just be a Mandalorian and I want to be able to make a metal as tough and strong as pure Beskar for my fellow Mandalorians

  • @yvettehuntleymusic1286
    @yvettehuntleymusic1286 3 года назад +8

    Covid-19 is out,now we all really miss the old days, Can't Go Anywhere,Can't eat inside, can't go to Disney world, museum, Zoo,or anything enjoyable,sad.

  • @rozaiinii
    @rozaiinii 3 года назад +16

    "wish we could turn back time, to the good old days when our mama sang us to sleep but now we're stressed out." - Twenty One Pilots

  • @_lil.diva_2933
    @_lil.diva_2933 2 года назад +4

    Rip old happy me 2002- 2018

  • @Aesthetic_leen
    @Aesthetic_leen 3 года назад +7

    I miss my class 10th days.... I had no friends but I was still complete.. but now I'm not the same ...... The education system and study pressure along with self doubt took away my careless happiness..... I miss the old me😞

  • @kaylibdebusscheree7614
    @kaylibdebusscheree7614 Год назад +2

    No. I miss having all my friends that turned out fake and stopped talking to me. Along with the best music n movies coming out and now none comes out.

  • @valerie1681
    @valerie1681 5 месяцев назад +1

    I miss 2014-2018 era in the UK 😢 university days and just being carefree and fun without overthinking so much… life hasn’t been the same since but it’s true, I definitely need to accept that this chapter is done

  • @oajoadk7049
    @oajoadk7049 2 года назад +4

    i know damn well that the chapter is closed but i just cant let go of it. Back then i rlly had everything that i need now. I lost every one thing of it. I tried many times to build something new but it keeps failing and i just lose my hope after every try. Its like i lost the motivation to keep going. I feel so damn empty. And i feel like, whatever i do, it doesnt matter, it will fail and things will only get worse. When i read old messages between me and my friends, it makes me feel something good and bad at the same time. I'm happy to see how less i cared about useless things, but at the same time i'm sad because the time is over and it'll never come back. I see all the opportunities i missed back then because i didnt thought about stuff like that. But i wish i'd see the chances my friends gave and would take them. I think i would be happy today if was more open to things back then.

  • @shandarboi
    @shandarboi 2 года назад +2

    there are many days i would die for live for .

  • @estiaancoetzee5533
    @estiaancoetzee5533 3 года назад +1

    Really needed this,thank you

  • @kouuuuwu
    @kouuuuwu 3 года назад +2

    ever since me and my parents left our grandparent's home (i used to live in a extended family) it was sooo fun like damn, then i realized that i wouldnt be able to make any more memories inside that house hold, we used to talk all night , me, my grandma, my mom, and my aunt .. those are nothiing but memories from now on , its so fucking hard i miss them all so easily even though i visit them every saturday and sunday its just NOT enough for me .. everytime i visit them i always think like "what if they're just gonna disappear without you saying goodbye??" i dont wanna fucking lose them i love them i never wanted to move out but my mother forced me to .. i just want everything back on how it was before.

  • @QuickSpitz
    @QuickSpitz 2 года назад +6

    I'm 13 man i haven't felt happiness in months

  • @moozinho8667
    @moozinho8667 3 года назад +2

    This video should have a million views

  • @mz6367
    @mz6367 2 года назад +4

    I’m 16 and I always miss the old days when I was 13 I missed the old days and I’m sure when I’ll be 19 I’ll miss myself when I was 16why this is happen to me ??

    • @Davethegoat19
      @Davethegoat19 2 года назад

      Yeah saldy I'm 18 and I miss being 15

  • @seanablemelillo7525
    @seanablemelillo7525 4 года назад +10

    Your right 😥

  • @whyrwehere
    @whyrwehere Год назад +1

    After coning back here I finally realized you were right all along. I've ruined my own life and I'll never get it back. All that's left to do is keep on going because there's nothing I can do. I don't miss the old times. I miss the old me. I got it memorized

  • @anonymus5316
    @anonymus5316 Год назад +2

    Exactly. Exactly. I have always figured that out. These feelings are even stronger while listening to a song that i used to listen those days when i was motivated, optimistic, young, energetic, hopeful. I couldn’t relate to the lyrics of love n heartbreak songs but the melody and the music depicted a phase in my life. Now I can’t help but sometimes tear up remembering the past version of myself.

  • @edvinlinden6804
    @edvinlinden6804 4 года назад +22

    I needed this, thanks bro.

  • @mari99lovesoccer
    @mari99lovesoccer 3 года назад +8

    You're right. I get so caught up in the past that I try to dissect it and understand it when it's wasting my new self's time and energy. I am at a new start, a new day and a new perspective on life. My views will change that doesn't mean I'm a hypocrite it means I'm seeing things in a new perspective that I didn't before. Be kind to yourself, growth takes time and effort each day💛 Sending virtual hugs and positivity(:

  • @ghastt2108
    @ghastt2108 2 года назад

    yeah, I searched for this at 4 am, I'm almost turning 17 and I think I'm no ready for the future and every single day I remember my happy times in 2019, 2018 etc and I just wished to go back that time when everything was simple, but u helped me to realize somethings, ik the video has 3years but thank you fr

  • @Brock-Lesnar-WWE
    @Brock-Lesnar-WWE 2 года назад +2

    I miss being 16 and college days when i was just messing around with friends and having fun with 0 care in the world.

  • @jankyvisuals
    @jankyvisuals 3 года назад +1

    Good to know I’m not the only one going thru there own storm. whoever sees this I wish nothing but a successful future for you. Keep your head up pain in temporary but if you give up it will linger around forever.

  • @Kenji17171
    @Kenji17171 3 года назад +2

    Exactly. I miss old me. He was social, passionate, fun. He tried new things for fun makes lots of jokes.

  • @chrizplzchill
    @chrizplzchill 4 года назад +1

    I needed this.

  • @thzippy8087
    @thzippy8087 3 года назад +3

    I don't know why everything had changed my life right now .. I feel so bored if I became older

    • @underaminute6355
      @underaminute6355 3 года назад +2

      millions of people are just like you and me :(

    • @Kbutcanufightho
      @Kbutcanufightho 3 года назад

      @@underaminute6355 knowing that ur not alone in this does help

  • @letttmeexplain
    @letttmeexplain 3 года назад +2

    You sound a lot like Dhar Mann.thank you for this video. Really needed this. Subscribed!

  • @lambsauce7984
    @lambsauce7984 Год назад

    Thank you for this video. I always kept remembering and reminiscing the past and know what, i kept doing this years over years until i realised i supposed to enjoy the current year i living in. If not, i will repeat the same mistake and keep dreaming about the impossible.

  • @CrypticSWLDN
    @CrypticSWLDN 3 года назад +1

    Great video man keep preaching homie

  • @damilbringas4230
    @damilbringas4230 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the video man :)

  • @jankyvisuals
    @jankyvisuals 3 года назад +1

    Not sure if this video is even active 2 years later but I needed to hear some words like this latley. Everything you’re saying is true but it’s all about what imma become. The past is the Past shit this message is gonna be in the past but thanks for putting this video out for people who might need shit like this once in a while. Now that Im Going to be a senior In August I have hella thoughts but I know that I’ll be good and I will find a way no matter what.

  • @AMLshoots
    @AMLshoots 4 года назад +2

    Thank you man

  • @EDM_Ashir
    @EDM_Ashir 2 года назад +2

    Anyone here who's missing the year 2018?? ❤️

    • @AloneInThePark
      @AloneInThePark 2 года назад

      I miss 2009-2017ish

    • @hkar4385
      @hkar4385 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@AloneInThePark similar

  • @Jwetbagger
    @Jwetbagger 3 года назад +4

    I miss summer 2018 😭😭

    • @iamdavid9391
      @iamdavid9391 3 года назад +2

      Jwet Bagger broo I also miss the summer of 2018 I remember watching the fifa world cup of 2018 and I played video games and soccer with my friends all the time and now it’s completely different, my friends play on different video games and most don’t play soccer anymore and It really sucks when good moments go away, it’s like you want everything to be the same forever

    • @Jwetbagger
      @Jwetbagger 3 года назад +2

      @@iamdavid9391 yea ikr I used to play Fortnite and the game was better and so many good memories and 4th of July shooting fireworks 😭😭😭

    • @iamdavid9391
      @iamdavid9391 3 года назад +1

      @@Jwetbagger I also miss the 4 of July I remember going to walmart and my mom buying fireworks and then me and my family were in our home parking lot shooting the fireworks and it was great times, I just miss everything and the people, but I hope we get better days to come or fun and great days like these again

    • @Jwetbagger
      @Jwetbagger 3 года назад +1

      @@iamdavid9391 yea ikr remember waking up in the morning eating breakfast on nice summer hot day then stay up all night playing video games and watching RUclips

    • @iamdavid9391
      @iamdavid9391 3 года назад +1

      @@Jwetbagger I did the same thing but I usually skip breakfast because it’s hard to find what to eat and I remember having sleepovers at my cousins house to watch the fifa world cup, I just really hope we can have days like these agains because right now it’s just boring

  • @arezoumoaiedi3739
    @arezoumoaiedi3739 4 года назад +6

    Yessssss:i miss myself of those days.👌🏻👌🏻

  • @noobsdzada1810
    @noobsdzada1810 3 года назад +2

    my story:
    man i rly do miss my old self.i had this feeling for like 3 years and i always feel im faking that i was happy around my friends and i strugled to make new friends it was rly hard feeling.and all this happened cuz back in 2014.i remember seing my mom got punched by my dad and i was so scared and yelling of how like my brothers handeled that situation.but thankfully i got healed so fast cuz i had many enjoyful things to do like watching adventure time,steven universe,playing cod zombies and cs 1.6.2015 was rly the best year ever cuz how i was that goofy funny litte kid and when i was 7th grade i rly made the worst decision.i went to a school that it was so bad.i got builied so much.however things got even worse in 2017-2018.my father was back to the house.and i was rly suspicious that i told my mother do not bring him back cuz i want my new home to be full of joyfull.but she didnt listen cuz she had to do it.so he can take care of us.and he was the same person yelling at us,threatining us,abusing me and i remember something that traumatized me to this day.in juill 2018.i punched my father so hard cuz how he ruined my life and my childhood.its like i was losing my self.i was injuring my self with something like a knife cuz i was so mad and angry so i can feel better.i also strugled with gay thoughts.i had a crush on a guy cuz he is taller and buffer than me.i had this crush cuz i hated my body and i wanted something to satisfie me.in 2019 i got better than before.but i had an anger issue and identity crisis.like for example i was acting like an other person that i didnt want to.i felt like my old self just died.and the things that used to enjoy me.rly they werent the same like before.i was so sad of how like things changed.i got sad when i saw my favorite show or server to end.its like seing your childhood dying slowly and now in 2021 i have a hobby but besides that
    i still enjoy some things.but not like they used to be.i remember before playing the same thing everyday and i dont get bored form it.but now doing the same thing rly is rly boring
    everytime i see my self getting bored from things.i rly get sad and cry cuz my old self wouldnt get bored.rip my oldself 2004-2016 and now im 17 years old and thx for reading :) my past was kinda tragic.

  • @bloofrozo
    @bloofrozo 3 года назад +4

    Life used to be so fun for me

  • @joshuamarshall7360
    @joshuamarshall7360 3 года назад +2

    I’m always attaching memories, aesthetics, music, places, people to certain months or years. I need to stop this, it’s only started this year because I’ve been very lonely for the first time, there is no excitement. But maybe that’s got something to do with my perception, which I’ve been working on for about a year. Any extra advice?

  • @Asher_Noel2012
    @Asher_Noel2012 Год назад +3

    My best years where 2014-2019

  • @waseemfaris8919
    @waseemfaris8919 Год назад +1

    I mean damn.. thanks u really said it bro

  • @ru001al
    @ru001al Год назад

    Thanks I needed to hear that.

  • @lamtien6184
    @lamtien6184 4 года назад

    i find myself in that story thanks for sharing this ,it helps me a lot to get through..

  • @CrypticSWLDN
    @CrypticSWLDN 3 года назад +1

    Things happen to you that will inevitably change you, Remember people every little thing happens for a reason

  • @Agc42
    @Agc42 2 года назад +1

    I miss living in georgia, and I've wanted to move back every day. I'm thinking of going back after I move out

  • @fik2303
    @fik2303 2 года назад +2

    Everytime he say "imiss the old" my brain be like I MISS THE OLD KANYE 🗿

  • @alissanavarro7117
    @alissanavarro7117 3 года назад +1

    I used to have it all I feel like but some drama happened and then covid, but tbh I'm glad the pandemic happened I needed time to recover from stuff that happened but now I just want it all over again it was so exciting and more people were around I miss them.

  • @vihailevagi
    @vihailevagi 3 года назад +1

    The good old days kind came back for me, then ended. I hope when I get older it’ll be like the good old days

  • @IlIiI2lilllI4illI9I6IllI1IlIlI
    @IlIiI2lilllI4illI9I6IllI1IlIlI Год назад +1

    I miss those nokia years
    💔
    Now everyone will relate with this.....

  • @werrutkyupnext
    @werrutkyupnext 6 месяцев назад

    I miss being naive & not caring too much, I hate being so aware of my shortcomings..

  • @niki-nx6qb
    @niki-nx6qb 3 года назад +1

    Honestly I’m here because I was disappointed in someone who motivated me to do stuff. I already forgave him but I can’t get over it. I feel like I’m tired of him. I cry everytime I think about him. I feel like not loving him is a cheating. I feel like I’m more interested in others than him. That makes me really sad and mad

  • @GRJLS.
    @GRJLS. 3 года назад +1

    One day at a time is the game.

  • @Zainab-sx3yd
    @Zainab-sx3yd 3 года назад +1

    i need this. thank you

  • @levji7928
    @levji7928 2 года назад +2

    Rip old me

  • @whyrwehere
    @whyrwehere 9 месяцев назад

    You were actually right and wrong at the same time. I've got the old me back, but I still don't feel the same. I feel happy for no reason. I feel like I'm not moving forward at all. I keep making bad choices, but I'm still on this new-old path. I didn't get it memorized

  • @binnymahendru5818
    @binnymahendru5818 3 года назад +1

    Still miss old me 😬

  • @Gym_firebrand
    @Gym_firebrand 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @DwaineQuaye
    @DwaineQuaye Год назад

    I like how he said the old you is dead and gone. It's true. Our past selves are gone forever

  • @yusuflad
    @yusuflad 3 года назад +1

    This person is amazing

  • @Bamboozler2456
    @Bamboozler2456 2 года назад +2

    I miss the days where u would go outside with my friends and play soccer and other things. I miss the days where i even had good friends. I miss the days where i didnt have bad grades and had to worry about school. I miss the days where i wouldn't sit all day long infront of my laptop to get some social interaction. I miss you 2010-2016, from kindergarten to the end of elementary school. I rlly want to go back so bad... 😓

    • @Saroj7-7-7
      @Saroj7-7-7 2 года назад

      Same bro

    • @hkar4385
      @hkar4385 8 месяцев назад

      2010-2015 good old days

  • @TirthJoshi-qy8mv
    @TirthJoshi-qy8mv 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much sir
    You inspired me a lot

  • @davidcolantuono3622
    @davidcolantuono3622 Год назад +1

    I often miss the aptly-named #GoodOldDays. I miss being a kid. I miss my family. I miss the way things used to be. In fact, I'm literally *OBSESSED* with my childhood! I keep wishing and begging to go back to when my life meant something to me.
    I went from a happy young boy to a miserable adult. I don't have a family of my own. I don't have a wife or even a girlfriend. I'm 43 (and turning 44 next March - if I live long enough) and living only with my dad. He and mom divorced when I was just a baby...or, so I've been told. I have no memory of this myself. I suffer from many debilitating problems that leave me homebound. I have no job. If my dad dies before I do, I will be s**t out of luck, as we know the use of the phrase.
    I'm also dreadfully terrified of death. I know it happens to all of us alive today, but the thought of taking my last breath and closing my eyes for the last time terrifies me beyond anything. Nothing scares me more than dying, and I fear many things out there. Is it any wonder why I keep wishing to go back to my childhood again?

  • @WernerHizenberg
    @WernerHizenberg Год назад

    thank you

  • @scarletflores1626
    @scarletflores1626 4 месяца назад

    I miss when i was 13 and 14 now im 18 . I miss when i was in middle school it was fun. I miss my old friends.:/

  • @josephrichardson2365
    @josephrichardson2365 3 года назад +1

    Thanks man

  • @moeballs3735
    @moeballs3735 2 года назад

    True I just needed to refresh my mind

  • @chrisgrui1993
    @chrisgrui1993 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much

  • @jademusic1211
    @jademusic1211 8 месяцев назад

    I miss when life was simpler.😞 No internet and a true connection to people. I miss that my mother isn't alive (she died very young), and I just found out that her last boyfriend passed four years ago.😔 I miss that her partner before him is no longer with us, as well. There's just been too much change over the past 30-40 years between deaths, technology and the state of the world, that I can't cope. I just want to be a child again.😞💔

  • @ctb3343
    @ctb3343 10 месяцев назад

    I feel a strong connection to the old days; ie transition days before I got a family and moved forward with stability and commitment. At the same time, those were some of my darkest days as well. I feel that the reason I value that transition period so highly is because it was the corridor to where I am today; where I am genuinely valued as a person.

    • @mathamphetamine
      @mathamphetamine 10 месяцев назад

      Everything just sucks now I can’t stay positive

    • @hkar4385
      @hkar4385 8 месяцев назад

      I am 19 now. When I was around 5-6 I remember there was a music I liked. Me and my parents were talking about the past and then I brought up the music. My mom searched it up and played like 3 seconds of it and I didn't want to cry but was teary after. The day after I didn't feel good and forced myself to listen to another music and think of another music if I think of the music in my childhood.

  • @avais8268
    @avais8268 2 года назад +4

    🥺😭😭 I am missing old days of mine.
    When I was in 6th std I was veryyyyyy happy
    But now I am in 8th I am very sad what I do. To whom I share my problem. If I tell to anyone my problem he will laugh or tell left it
    But I am crying now missing my old days 😭😭😭

    • @surbhisharma8674
      @surbhisharma8674 2 года назад +1

      You can share your problems with me..i will not laugh at you ❤️

    • @Ousdoo
      @Ousdoo 2 года назад +2

      hey, u still have time to make life good,
      i m in 2nd year nd i ruined my life in 8th to 12th classes . i made such fucking mistakes because i had no friends nd got no attention at school or home.
      plz dont think this way, i would literally say you to study very well nd focus on ur hobbies nd work on urself. u will thank urself if u passed the next 5 yrs of school being a disciplined teen.

    • @avais8268
      @avais8268 2 года назад +1

      @@Ousdoo yeah! But life becomes joyful when we are happy but I am not happy. I have many friends And I have a lovely family too. some people make fun of mine and insult me. Because of this my heart brakes. No one see the broken heart of mine. I have everything but not good voice. Many people make fun of mine because of my voice. I am a boy but my voice is different. No one cares. I don't like this people. I want to go out with my life. 🥺🥺 Because my heart is broken. Some people are Very good but many are bad too 😔😔. *There is no humanity now* 🥺😭

    • @avais8268
      @avais8268 2 года назад +1

      @@Ousdoo I need a brother Who will make my life more beautiful.
      I need A good voice who will make me more happy.
      I need my childhood for forever in which I will be happy always.

    • @hkar4385
      @hkar4385 8 месяцев назад

      I am 19 now. When I was around 5-6 I remember there was a music I liked. Me and my parents were talking about the past and then I brought up the music. My mom searched it up and played like 3 seconds of it and I didn't want to cry but was teary after. The day after I didn't feel good and forced myself to listen to another music and think of another music if I think of the music in my childhood. @@surbhisharma8674

  • @prithishmiglani7816
    @prithishmiglani7816 3 года назад +2

    i miss the time when this video was uploded on youtube!!

  • @michaellol9411
    @michaellol9411 4 года назад +5

    Man i can’t stop missing it i i just cant let go of The past idk why The things you Said was perfect but do you have Any tips to stop missing it

    • @tuanvicta
      @tuanvicta 4 года назад +2

      i start to focus and accept it.. before i accept it, it really killing me.. i keep missing my uni life crazy chaotic fearless and dont give a fuck about everything and anything , going to club and rave party evertime, doing lot of bad things but i like it (you might know what i mean) and it give me depression by looking back now everything change.. my friends have their own life even have their own kids.. bro, if I can do it, you can ! Sometimes during night when i want to sleep, i’m still miss that magical moments of my life.. but now I just put it in my head that I have to live my life now and start focusing for my future and just tell myself “okay it was fun but it’s already end”. It helps lot

    • @readdescsrs
      @readdescsrs 3 года назад

      2020 is still cool in pandemic cause we are free and dont get infected so i miss that year and i hope its just january february march april may june july.

  • @VonDutchNL
    @VonDutchNL 2 месяца назад

    This video was uploaded 5 years ago, and i miss 5 years ago.

  • @elizabethjoker6174
    @elizabethjoker6174 3 года назад +2

    😭😭😭 i miss old day

  • @shreyasyadav169
    @shreyasyadav169 7 месяцев назад

    Same, the past memories 🥺, this year i passed class, 10th and now school is over, but I can't move forward in my life, I am still there in those past memories, and doing nothing in today, upto 10th I was the celebrity kind in my school, bright student, topper+everything....
    And now I hate myself, I am just a passing student in 11th! I don't want myself to be this! But I can't do anything those memories makes me everytime to compare this present life with that past, I need help 🥺🥺

  • @millieatr
    @millieatr Год назад

    1:37 the relevant part starts here
    I have a serious problem with wanting to go back and living in the past ..If you live in the same house same town as you did in the past you want to go back to it can be extra hard .
    I watched two videos on missing the past before this one and it was obvious the speakers were more about "Look at ME" then about helping you with your issue .
    This guy here did (at my time stamp" start actually speaking to the issue of correcting your problem .

  • @hieverything123
    @hieverything123 3 года назад +1

    I slept n woke up with tears 😭😭😭