Random RUclips Watcher *salutes* incredible soldier. Now go. Go and hunt for confused girls in gay bars and scared gays in the streets *gives you a medal*
Lol I was telling everyone I'm hella gay because I'm pan and nobody cared, the only change was my brother now stopped calling me gay as a playful joke and now calls me straight as the joke
The one thing to always do when someone comes out is to *match their energy* If they're making it a big deal, act like it's a big deal. If they're making is passive, act passive.
Yep. It's the same with most things. Friend got their drivers license and they are super excited? Celebrate. They got broken up with and they are real mad? Be mad with them. It helps a lot in these sort of situations.
one time, my guy friend told me he would tell me a secret and then, conspiratorially whispered he was also into men and I for the longest time was like, ok? so? and *then i realized it was supposed to be a big deal so i went on to thank him for trusting me with this **_obvious_** news*
Just want to say, probs the correct response. That's makes them feel better. I've don't the same a couple weeks later I told her it's not a huge deal anymore.
I had a trans friend do that to me over text and I did the same thing lol. They reacted like the guy in the first half and only then did I realize that it was a huge deal to them.
fabian webstars there’s in my opinion some level of validity behind that. The disrespect is not towards bi people but straight girls who claim to be bi because they kissed a girl while drunk at a party.
lol ow, I just got the "red shirts" thing just now after reading the line said by 3 different people. Now I feel bad for those poor red shirts, (especially in this context of opinions of people who come out)
You know this is similar to my experience in college. Coming out in high school was a big deal and I got all the "you'll go to hell" speeches. I came out to my friends in college and got, "Ok, great. Want some Chinese?"
That's perfect. I'm also bisexual and my parents accept it, but I'm nervous about the rest of my family finding out. I don't know how my grandma will react to me be attracted to both sexes, it makes me nervous thinking about it.
Jane McKenney My mom had suspected it for a while and out of the blue asked me if one of the reasons why I was so depressed and digusted with myself was because I was bisexual. I got really embarrassed, but said yes and we then had a long discussion. My dad, on the other hand, also suspected that I wasn't straight and I came out to him after a psychiatrist appointment. Just take your time and make sure it's safe for you to come out. I wish you the best of luck.
I remember when my best friend came out to me, after I'd been planning to come out to her for MONTHS, so then I did too. I'm a lesbian and she's bisexual, and I don't think I've ever cried harder with relief from telling someone something
One time I told a friend that i was bi. She said “So you’re like mixed?” “Uh...Yeah.” “Oh cool!” Five minutes later: HOLY CRAP SHE THOUGHT I MEANT BIRACIAL.
I came out to my mom last summer and broke down in front of her. She was like: “ oh, that’s fine. I thought you were gonna tell me something bad like you were doing drugs.” She was way more chill than I thought she would be
I think that's because throughout the entire thing, they find that conversation about vests more "shocking" and crucial than whether Grant is into men or not. They could have talked about sports, but they made it about vests to show just how little they care about his sexuality, by making it about something as mundane as possible
Yeah I had a buddy in a similar situation. When I told him I didn't give a shit, it really took the wind out of his gay sails. So I had to pretend like I was really mad about it for a couple days. I did it for my buddy.
recently i heard some good advice for when someone comes out to you, match their energy, if they say like its not a big deal, do the same, if they are nervous, tell them its okay and you accept them, let me tell you its so weird when you've been in the closet for like 16 years and finally get te courage to come out and they just go "okay".
Yeah I know that's what you're supposed to do, fortunately all my friends know me well enough to know just how much I *do not care* and aren't generally offended when they tell me something they're super anxious about and I just say "Cool" with no real inflection.
As a straight dude with mostly straight friends, I have no story of me coming out as anything or friends coming out to me. I just wanna say I'm glad to be reading the comments and seeing so many people had a positive experience with coming out
@horrorvictim: Or how about babydoll shirts? They're big enough to fit adults, so why call them babydoll shirts? They're much too large for a baby doll!
AS a gay man, I cannot help but love this video. I do not recall how stressful it was for me to come out to people (then again, I AM currently fifty, so there are some things I no longer remember, and some things I no longer care to remember), but I doubt I AM the only one who found it hysterical that the other three were more interested by the topic of men's fashion. And I must admit, I never knew that some shirts had higher collars (smile).
I don’t know how y’all managed to be happy back then. I’m losing most of my family for being bi already. I think that I lived then I would have hidden it forever.
@@witchypoo7353 I can only speak for myself. My life has not always been a happy one, and I feel that my lack of Self-Love and Self-Esteem at the time contributed to that greatly. Personally, being older than eighteen years-of-age is one crystal clear reason why I AM much happier in the world, but I digress. Also, my mother had a lot of personal problems that contributed to my childhood being strained, to put it mildly. In my life, I have both created and found opportunities to be happy, and although my life is not perfect, I AM much happier. Granted, I cannot speak for every Gay man in his fifties, only this one.
@@RobertAlvarezThePsychicWitch I’m so happy that you found happiness. Thank you for opening up to me. I can relate to having poor self-love & self esteem. & having problems with my mother. You’ve given me some hope. & I too am much happier as an adult.
@@witchypoo7353 There truly is not enough good news going around, these days. I AM happy to know you are a much happier adult. Also, happier your Self-Love and Self-Esteem are much higher and stronger. I must admit, when I first saw your RUclips user name, I thought of a show I used to watch when I was younger. I do not recall the name of the show, offhand, but I believe it was a "Puff-N-Stuff production."
@@RobertAlvarezThePsychicWitch thank you so much. HR Puff n Stuff. My mother called me Witchy Poo because she said that my messy hair reminded her of the character from that show, she loved it
The usual reactions people give me when I tell them I'm gay are "Why did you wait until now to tell me?" or "You're not really gay. Trust me, I know when someone's gay. You don't act gay." What is that even supposed to mean? lol
Just from what I've seen in my area at least, a decent amount of people are starting to use 'gay' more in reference to the flamboyant feminine mannerisms that a lot of homosexuals display, rather than actually being homosexual
There's loving men and there's acting gay. The actors usually love men. But the men lovers don't always act gay. That's the just of it. Same kinda thing for women.
I told my best friend and she shrugged and was just like "ok, cool" and I was just like "you're not mad?" and she was like "wtf no" it was so weird because she was just so... chill. I'm really thankful for that
I told my friends i was bi and they were all like "We know." and i was like "Wait what??" and they were like "Dude youre like hella gay... like the in denial gay whos just really obviously gay.." I was like "You've got to be kidding me right now." Apparently all of my friends knew for years before i finally came to terms with my sexuality. My best friend was surprised that it took me that long to figure it out. I was in denial for a looooooong time.
Being bisexual is like being purple. You're not referred to as blue and red, but as one color. Some are more blue, and some are more red but they are still purple.
I did show choir and a musical in high school with a friend who ended up coming out. From what I understand his family was shocked and appalled. But I remember saying "Dude, we're in SHOW CHOIR. I don't know why I'M not gay."
@Mary Azuelo, yes, although the LGBTIAPlus portion of the comments is very important, I AM a shamelessly proud label whore and here for the fashion comments (fun fact: my life partner is NOT a label whore, proving that NOT all gay men are label whores). Anyway, as someone who has several v-neck t-shirts, YES, they are shirts. Oh, and the schools of thought that say they are not shirts, well, they are wrong.
Ashe Camille yeah my best friend to I was all dramatic cuz he's a guy and straight ofcourse. and he just said "pfft... I know! " and we just laughed it out... that's the most awesome thing ever
Yeah so I had friends guessing my crush and they were asking “Who is she?” Yeah that was really awkward. Update: So they found out... 8 months ago..... And were hella supportive im very lucky
I once told my mom I had a crush on someone from my class. She then proceeded to list every single girl in the class, and I denied having a crush on each one of them. Her response? “Hmm, I must be forgetting someone...”
Vests are a separate thing from shirts not because of sleeves but because of which layer they are traditionally worn as in clothing. I.E. over a shirt but under a jacket. There. Clearly the most important part of this video has been solved.
The Them That’s so unfair of them to get into all of those failed marriages then have the audacity to tell you that you can’t be attracted to certain people. What morality are they even demonstrating?
Aleksander Jokic it's not that people don't care. It's that some heterosexual people and some members of the lgbtq community dismiss bisexuals and act as though bisexuality isn't real.
The first person i came out to was a guy i met online who previously told me he was homophobic and even he accepted me for who I was which made me feel this vid so much lol
Well, maybe he said he was homophobic to try and hide the fact that he's truely gay, and to try and avoid gay people due to the people he has around him making him think that it's wrong to feel that way.
[Water]Dragon Games well we’ve continued talking and he got a girlfriend for a while so i guess hed be at most bi. But since we’ve been friends for some time now I can say that he indeed doesn’t like guys
I came out to my best friend as bi, she hugged me and told me she loved me A few months later, she came out to me as a lesbian Now we've been dating for almost a year :)
I eat more but not because I'm gay but maybe stress from being gay has made me eat more because I live down south in the us were all.the. hillbillys think that incest is fine and being gay is an abomination.
I came out to both of my parents as trans yesterday in the scariest way you can imagine... and they, even though i thought they were transphobic, were the kindest and most supportive parents in the world. I love them
I remember a similar situation in which in my art class we talking about avengers and marvel and a girl who sits at my table came and pronounced she was gay and were all like yeah we know Emma we don't interpret your life changing talks about superheroes with what is an accepted fact.
+tyler good I see you took a new spin on the famous quote "Never argue with idiots. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience" -George Carlin. I hope you feel satisfied with your false acheivement
A little irrelevant, but everyone's talking about their stories, so: My girlfriend, before she could admit that she was gay, she came out as bisexual to her family and they all said something along the lines of, "no, you're not. You're just confused and straight" (her family is very religious) but a while later, at least a year or two, she was talking to her new stepmom and said "I'm bi" and proceeded to only compliment women and talk about her attraction to girls when her S-mom went, "Jesus christ, you're not bi, Alex! You're gay!" And it was what my girlfriend needed and she realized that yes, she was gay. She told me that story last night and we had a good cry over it Edit: well, update. My boyfriend technically came out as straight, he just didn't know it yet (by which I mean he came out as trans last year!) I'll leave the pronouns for now (otherwise the story doesn't exactly work) but I've replaced his deadname. Many well wishes 😁
Awww🥺 When I was struggling to accept my sexuality I would tell people I was bi because I thought it was safe. But only people I knew wouldn’t care either way. But I finally came out to my entire family in February because I was drunk and didn’t give a shit and my grandma literally told me, “I know for some reason you THINK you’re gay...” Honestly I was expecting her to get mad at me, not just completely disregard what I said. But whatever, she’ll know when I get a girlfriend😝
When I came out as Bisexual and my parents were like "Okay cool" I started screaming because I was mad that they weren't mad because I had planned like an entire conv in my head and It was useless now xD
Yeah, it's really annoying when you plan out an entire argument in your head, only to end up not needing it. What makes it even worse is that you know you logically shouldn't be frustrated and should instead just be happy, and it's like "I know, but still..."
I too hate when my parents aren't biphobic but are actually supportive. Man, that really grinds my gears. I wish we could've have a long agressive argument about it
+KamikazekaitoKoki I've never met asian parents not cool with it, I mean my mom actually encourages me to get a gay asian friend because they "have good style." It's usually just white parents.
Rhiannon Brenner I'm asian and bi and know what I'm talking about. Do you know how looked down upon homosexuality is in Asian countries? Most asian lgbt people I know are really scared of coming out.
My friend came out as bi with a very wary tone and I was so shocked. Shocked that she had to admit that because I literally noticed the week we started hanging out together. I thought she was dropping hints on purpose? Basically, to anyone afraid of coming out, dont worry because your friends know you're gay or whatever way before you admit to it
True that. When I came out as bi (turns out I'm pan but I thought I was bi at first) I was the MOST surprised of anyone. My parents had thought I was dating my really close female friend, and a friend I hadn't seen for like 3 years just went, "oh yeah, you project gay vibes from a mile away" and I was SHOOK
When I came out to my friends they were like “no shit” or “I know”, so that kind of killed the moment until my mom said I could still choose to be straight so we have that
it's even weirder when you come out as trans and people are just like "uh ok." dkidvrkr i've been lying to myself about being cis my whole life and even when i found out that i'm trans i still denied it and you're just... okay with it?
I'm trying to figure myself out, and it's been driving me insane and I'm just so scared of everything and the idea that the people in my life would probably react the same way I did when my friends came out as trans to me...is simultaneously frustrating and comforting.
I’m a little behind on the curve of all the new social media business and such. What is a trans? Is it like another form of bi where you’re transitioning to that? Or is it something else entirely?
I get that it's comedy, but the comments really upset me. Biphobia is a real thing, and a girl once broke my heart because she didn't want things to become serious with someone who "can't pick a side". Gay people always argue that you can't choose your sexuality, but on the other hand, many expect bisexuals to do exactly that. I feel like this topic is made fun of too often and not taken serious enough... Bisexuals deserve the same acceptance as homosexuals.
Y’all should’ve seen my brother face when he came out to me and my exact reaction was. “Hm... cool.” Dude looked so confused and disappointed. He even did the same thing Grant did, like going into more detail. This shit hit me so hard lmao.
How I plan to come out *calls friend* Me:generic friend are you awake? Generic friend:what do you want it's four in the morning Me:ok sooo...........i'm gay Generic friend:wait wh- *hangs up phone*
You're totally valid in that! When you build up tension and turmoil over coming out and there's a different reaction than expected, it's normal and okay to feel disappointed!
same 😭 i had a best friend who taught me all about the lgbt community and we "pranked" our friends by saying we were bi. a year or so later, i realized i actually had a huge crush in her. i've been proudly biro-ace for about a year and a half now.
I love the conversation in the beginning about how “some shirts have short sleeves and some shirts have long sleeves?” and how vets are a weird middle ground, as a metaphor for the way people get confused about bisexuality.
the end made me sad because it's the sad reality society is more accepting of homosexualty but other things like Bisexuality, Pansexualalty, Asexuality and the list just goes on and on
I'm not asexual I just really hate everyone. If I could meet someone I like then my sexual preference is female. But I don't see that happening for a long time.
+Victor Dalloz Don't see why we should care. Seem's like a good thing that those kids no longer have such toxic people in their lives. To me if my parents reacted that way they would be dead to me. Good riddance.
Depends on where you are. Where I live in Portland for the most part nobody cares it's perfectly accepted but you can't say the same for some places. Remember all the local support that one lady got for denying a homosexual couple a marriage certificate?
When I came out to my best friend, they were the second person I came out to and they’re also queer, they just laughed and said they knew it already. It was a huge relief because I was so nervous even though I knew they wouldn’t care.
This video is such a mood though. I hate when people respond to coming out with "we already knew" or "yeah whatever who cares" because it makes it feel like you've been hiding and stressing out for years over nothing
That's how I plaNNED on coming out, but oddly enough it wore me down. I think it's because if you don't come out, people just assume you're straight. So even if I wasn't denying my sexuality, it still felt like I was living a lie. That's just me though, do what's best for you. :)
One time I came out to my friend as gay and she literally answered with “wait your not out yet” that was one of the Funniest moments of my life.
-Nerdygirl601 - Lmaooo similar to mine 🤣🤣🤣
I'm the 2500th like. Dont mind me. Just leaving this for January 1, 2022
@@lunarscorner2017 nice
I've told some of my friends they're gay, like they didn't know it, I informed them about it haha
I don’t get it
I came out *as bi* and got a mix of "I know that" and "I don't care."
'Twas GLORIOUS
Random RUclips Watcher *salutes* incredible soldier. Now go. Go and hunt for confused girls in gay bars and scared gays in the streets *gives you a medal*
Same
bro, same
That's awesome, I hope mine goes like that
@CheekyScrub REALLY DUDE
Lol I was telling everyone I'm hella gay because I'm pan and nobody cared, the only change was my brother now stopped calling me gay as a playful joke and now calls me straight as the joke
That's the best reaction I ever seen
"Lmao u straigh or what?"
Lin Q fellas, is it straight to like men? I mean, men literally like women and, I don’t know, seems kinda straight if you ask me.
I don't know, that's pretty straight
Zeus Yendor almost as if that’s the joke. But a stranger on the internet wouldn’t make one of those.
Zeus Yendor then why’d you deny it, as if I was being serious?
The one thing to always do when someone comes out is to *match their energy*
If they're making it a big deal, act like it's a big deal. If they're making is passive, act passive.
EXACTLY THIS! That way you don’t get a weird situation like this video
This! This advice should be SHARED!
This is an amazing advice!
Yep. It's the same with most things. Friend got their drivers license and they are super excited? Celebrate. They got broken up with and they are real mad? Be mad with them. It helps a lot in these sort of situations.
@@chribu_ thank you :)
one time, my guy friend told me he would tell me a secret and then, conspiratorially whispered he was also into men and I for the longest time was like, ok? so? and *then i realized it was supposed to be a big deal so i went on to thank him for trusting me with this **_obvious_** news*
Just want to say, probs the correct response. That's makes them feel better. I've don't the same a couple weeks later I told her it's not a huge deal anymore.
*_THANK YOU_*
Neil Brown ?
@Neil Brown wtf?
I had a trans friend do that to me over text and I did the same thing lol. They reacted like the guy in the first half and only then did I realize that it was a huge deal to them.
when i told my mum i was gay she called my dad and told him he owed her £10
Lmao
Ha that has to be the best response ever
Lmao!
tf ? that`s actually funny and a bit dusturbing at the same time
Best respond ... love it...
As a bisexual person who was told I was "just greedy" and "needed to choose", the ending hit HARD man
That sucks 😔 I hope you will find someone who accepts you for who you are!
X2
I mean in the end we DO choose, so-
Just be gay or what ever and don’t make a big deal about it
fabian webstars there’s in my opinion some level of validity behind that. The disrespect is not towards bi people but straight girls who claim to be bi because they kissed a girl while drunk at a party.
Not only does Grant like men, he likes being hated
... kinky.
No yeah he's into bdsm he even made a skit where he got kidnapped and was into it
@XDranzer000 What?
@XDranzer000 What?
@XDranzer000 What?
"Really, because some shirts can be red!" Made me absolutely lose my shit. Why was that so funny?
+JustAnotherOne i repeat shirts can be red
what really is triggering is seeing a fucking tunnel trogg.
Jordan Chig 5 mana 10/10 xd
lol ow, I just got the "red shirts" thing just now after reading the line said by 3 different people. Now I feel bad for those poor red shirts, (especially in this context of opinions of people who come out)
I am so confused
You know this is similar to my experience in college. Coming out in high school was a big deal and I got all the "you'll go to hell" speeches. I came out to my friends in college and got, "Ok, great. Want some Chinese?"
You're in a weird college. In my college no one offers people as come-out gifts, regardless of their ethnicities. Did you accept it though?
+Pedro Nascimento lol
Woosh
Your friends missed the perfect moment to say "I was going to suggest we order Chinese, but now I see you'd rather eat out."
Kutlu Mızrak I think it was a joke
Came out as bi yesterday to my parents and my dad said "yeah women are pretty cool too right"
Edit: my mom said "yeah we know"
Dad : *lol boobies right*
I am gonna be that dad when I grow up or I swear I will eat my own shoe
Yeah same, I came out last week and my mom was like, "alright"
yeah yeah i believe you
Omg my parents did the same thing
"You can't be bi! You have to commit to something!" said my Mom. She's lesbian.
She needs to be educated.
Just cause we like one set doesn't mean we have to hate the other, or not like it.
i call bs on this
I'm sorry. How are things going on now?
Well then.... I COMMIT TO BEING BI Is that better?
Btw I am not i just made something up for her
@@blurbutnerd8355 Why? It’s an attitude I’ve heard from some gay people before. It’s not that common but it does happen.
I was going back and forth between liking girls and boys for a while and my grandmother said "You like both. It's fine. So does Angelina Jolie."
What an awesome response
That's perfect. I'm also bisexual and my parents accept it, but I'm nervous about the rest of my family finding out. I don't know how my grandma will react to me be attracted to both sexes, it makes me nervous thinking about it.
+Gracie Beauregard how did u tell your parents you were bi? Cuz I don't know how
Jane McKenney My mom had suspected it for a while and out of the blue asked me if one of the reasons why I was so depressed and digusted with myself was because I was bisexual. I got really embarrassed, but said yes and we then had a long discussion. My dad, on the other hand, also suspected that I wasn't straight and I came out to him after a psychiatrist appointment. Just take your time and make sure it's safe for you to come out. I wish you the best of luck.
+TacoTruck I used to hate myself for various reasons, one of them being that I'm bisexual
I was wondering why he said "I'm attracted to men" instead of just saying "I'm gay" lol nice twist.
Dallas Delgado cause he isn't gay he's bisexual.
Yes, hence why it's a nice twist.
Yesterday, I did, to my mom, saying, "I like both genders!"
When I came out as Bi to my sister in law and sister I said "I don't just like boys"
Gay can also mean bi though
That ending though!
Omg I love your vids man
+Antoine Bandele oh I remember watching your videos WAY earlier this year.
Shit dude i love your vids
Oh shit Antoine
It was as satisfying as watching a man orgasm
What amplifies this joke better than anything else is how they're are making such a big deal over vests
Are they a jacket or a tank top, choose one
My mum asked me when exactly I was planning on coming out so she could set me up with a girl
Wouldn't it be awkward if you weren't gay tho-
@@mv9370 yes but also no
That moment must have been extremly akward
Fucking lol did you come out then or 😂🤣🤣
You’re so lucky
When i came out to my friends i said "i'm gay" and he just said "hi gay!"
Is your friend a dad?
Sounds like something I'd say
The guy named Gaylord:Yes me?
If my friend ever comes out to me, I’m gonna say that
@@sahiru7973 I wanted to ask the same thing lol
When I came out as bisexual to my best friend the first thing he said was ," I hope your not confessing love for me cuz i just payed for your food."
Well, were you?
@@randomviewer09 Lol no
omar sanderlin Bullllshiiiit
bro, i said the same thing to my girl friend who came out ... i was like...You cute, but im not sleeping with you.
oml i hate when people find out someones gay and they instantly think theyre hitting on them 😒
I remember when my best friend came out to me, after I'd been planning to come out to her for MONTHS, so then I did too. I'm a lesbian and she's bisexual, and I don't think I've ever cried harder with relief from telling someone something
Here’s the part of the movie where you fall in love ❤️
wow women crinyg, what a new story that has never been seen before.
@kowhaifan1249 you are the worst
@@SamanthaSerrano-p9n harsh but true
One time I told a friend that i was bi. She said “So you’re like mixed?”
“Uh...Yeah.”
“Oh cool!”
Five minutes later:
HOLY CRAP SHE THOUGHT I MEANT BIRACIAL.
Wtf ahahha
Ahhhhh hahahaha
LOL
Lol I’m both
@@anaisgrace7638 you could say i'm BI
I don't care about the vid. Get back to the conversation about vests
Like seriously what's with those, I get that they're neither shirts nor coats, but I'm sure there's AT LEAST VERY CLOSE relation to coats.
@GreatGamerGabe It's just another "fashion over practicality" shit. You have to really trust the weather to wear that.
@GreatGamerGabe Who cares about the vests? What about V-necks?
@@asperRader They aren't even fashionable.
@GreatGamerGabe the torso is warm but what about the arms?
I KID YOU NOT: I CLICKED ON THIS VIDEO THINKING IT WAS BUZZFEED.
2 good 4u
SAME
true lol
Buzzfeed would have made this about a victimized gay man being judged and rejected.
+DatcookieGaming Me too!!!!
I came out to my mom last summer and broke down in front of her. She was like: “ oh, that’s fine. I thought you were gonna tell me something bad like you were doing drugs.” She was way more chill than I thought she would be
:')
That fake conversation he walked into at the very beginning about shirts made me laugh for some reason.
I think that's because throughout the entire thing, they find that conversation about vests more "shocking" and crucial than whether Grant is into men or not. They could have talked about sports, but they made it about vests to show just how little they care about his sexuality, by making it about something as mundane as possible
@@cheydinal5401 I think the trick is it has to be inherently nonsensical
I came out to my mum today and this was literally her reaction
Good for you :D
Yeah I had a buddy in a similar situation. When I told him I didn't give a shit, it really took the wind out of his gay sails. So I had to pretend like I was really mad about it for a couple days. I did it for my buddy.
Stay for the peel porn Pls
That's just showing you that you aren't any different to her and that she will always love you
That's how it should always be.
Stay for the peel porn Pls 💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿💿
My friend came out to their dad and his response was literally "cool dinners at 7"
dinner is important
Not as important as breakfest
This guys got his priorates straight
When I came out all they said was cool go to sleep(it was very late)
what a loving dad
recently i heard some good advice for when someone comes out to you, match their energy, if they say like its not a big deal, do the same, if they are nervous, tell them its okay and you accept them, let me tell you its so weird when you've been in the closet for like 16 years and finally get te courage to come out and they just go "okay".
Was in the closet for around 28 years as i live in a somewhat homophobic country. Matching energy is definitely a thing people should do.
@@entitledOne cause it just feels weird or...?
Yeah I know that's what you're supposed to do, fortunately all my friends know me well enough to know just how much I *do not care* and aren't generally offended when they tell me something they're super anxious about and I just say "Cool" with no real inflection.
"I am attracted to men"
"You finally figured that out, huh?" "Yeah you were pretty much the last one to know that about yourself."
He... he was so pleased at the end. His look of satisfaction though...
The beginning is a metaphor. The long sleeved shirts are gay. The shorts are straight. Vests are everything in betweeen
Holy shit true
Oh my god
not really. actually: not at all
Waittttttt..... P!atd..... MCR..... BOTDF..... YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!
That_Weird_ Person365 Dont get me wrong I love Panic! At The Disco, My Chemical Romance, and Fall out Boy but what do they have to do with this?
As a straight dude with mostly straight friends, I have no story of me coming out as anything or friends coming out to me. I just wanna say I'm glad to be reading the comments and seeing so many people had a positive experience with coming out
3:00 "WHAT THE FUCK" That is the best part of the video
French_Bacon also the truest sadly
Any one that thinks bisexual people aren't a thing are idiots
The intonation of it is perfect for so many situations. It should become the Wilhelm Scream of What the Fucks. The Oyama WTF.
French_Bacon ikr 😂
YOU GOTTA COMMIT TO SOMETHING
I love how the shirt thing is a metaphor/ analogy for people's opinion on different sexualities :D
i never thought about the shirt thing. good point
Shirts do have different collars it's crazy
You know what confuses me? Dress shirts, they don't look like dresses now do they?
+KittyDahSavage :3 I've studied too much English XD
@horrorvictim: Or how about babydoll shirts? They're big enough to fit adults, so why call them babydoll shirts? They're much too large for a baby doll!
*_YOU CANT JUST PRETEND TO BE GAY_*
Ariana Khan *sigh*
I mean people pretend not be, some people cant decide, some go back and forth. To be fair you can't tell anyone how to think
I think that Ariana was writing a quote from the video...
@@jagodak.6867 literally xD
I had a gay friend that pretended to be bi cuz it got him more atention point on school. I stopped being freinds with him when i learned that
AS a gay man, I cannot help but love this video. I do not recall how stressful it was for me to come out to people (then again, I AM currently fifty, so there are some things I no longer remember, and some things I no longer care to remember), but I doubt I AM the only one who found it hysterical that the other three were more interested by the topic of men's fashion.
And I must admit, I never knew that some shirts had higher collars (smile).
I don’t know how y’all managed to be happy back then. I’m losing most of my family for being bi already. I think that I lived then I would have hidden it forever.
@@witchypoo7353 I can only speak for myself. My life has not always been a happy one, and I feel that my lack of Self-Love and Self-Esteem at the time contributed to that greatly.
Personally, being older than eighteen years-of-age is one crystal clear reason why I AM much happier in the world, but I digress.
Also, my mother had a lot of personal problems that contributed to my childhood being strained, to put it mildly.
In my life, I have both created and found opportunities to be happy, and although my life is not perfect, I AM much happier.
Granted, I cannot speak for every Gay man in his fifties, only this one.
@@RobertAlvarezThePsychicWitch I’m so happy that you found happiness. Thank you for opening up to me. I can relate to having poor self-love & self esteem. & having problems with my mother. You’ve given me some hope. & I too am much happier as an adult.
@@witchypoo7353 There truly is not enough good news going around, these days.
I AM happy to know you are a much happier adult. Also, happier your Self-Love and Self-Esteem are much higher and stronger.
I must admit, when I first saw your RUclips user name, I thought of a show I used to watch when I was younger. I do not recall the name of the show, offhand, but I believe it was a "Puff-N-Stuff production."
@@RobertAlvarezThePsychicWitch thank you so much. HR Puff n Stuff. My mother called me Witchy Poo because she said that my messy hair reminded her of the character from that show, she loved it
The usual reactions people give me when I tell them I'm gay are "Why did you wait until now to tell me?" or "You're not really gay. Trust me, I know when someone's gay. You don't act gay." What is that even supposed to mean? lol
Just from what I've seen in my area at least, a decent amount of people are starting to use 'gay' more in reference to the flamboyant feminine mannerisms that a lot of homosexuals display, rather than actually being homosexual
There's loving men and there's acting gay. The actors usually love men. But the men lovers don't always act gay. That's the just of it. Same kinda thing for women.
Obvious troll is obvious.
I wanna like,but your comment has 69 likes and I don't wanna ruin it...
ew a gay sonic fanboy
I told my best friend and she shrugged and was just like
"ok, cool" and I was just like
"you're not mad?" and she was like
"wtf no" it was so weird because she was just so... chill. I'm really thankful for that
***** lol exactly. I was just really nervous, i guess.
***** back at you. have a nice day, toodles :)
This was also my mom's reaction 😂
Elsa 😂😂
I told my friends i was bi and they were all like
"We know." and i was like
"Wait what??" and they were like
"Dude youre like hella gay... like the in denial gay whos just really obviously gay.." I was like
"You've got to be kidding me right now." Apparently all of my friends knew for years before i finally came to terms with my sexuality. My best friend was surprised that it took me that long to figure it out. I was in denial for a looooooong time.
Being bisexual is like being purple. You're not referred to as blue and red, but as one color. Some are more blue, and some are more red but they are still purple.
This is a great explanation tbh
you legit just made it more complicated than it was before
I did show choir and a musical in high school with a friend who ended up coming out. From what I understand his family was shocked and appalled.
But I remember saying "Dude, we're in SHOW CHOIR. I don't know why I'M not gay."
"Now are V-Necks Shirts?"
"There are few schools of thought."
LMAO
@Mary Azuelo, yes, although the LGBTIAPlus portion of the comments is very important, I AM a shamelessly proud label whore and here for the fashion comments (fun fact: my life partner is NOT a label whore, proving that NOT all gay men are label whores).
Anyway, as someone who has several v-neck t-shirts, YES, they are shirts.
Oh, and the schools of thought that say they are not shirts, well, they are wrong.
I love the conversations they have about the most random things before the subject of the video starts
oh this video they acyually go on with the conversation
Makes me wonder how sheltered you must be to not know about clothes, while wearing it.
This is the most innocent observation on the whole of RUclips. Like "I love this casual thing CH do, oh WAIT THIS TIME IT CONTINUES" What joy man.
+Dylan Bystedt don't travel so far, they were talking about clothes
+John Ploopy Haha so true
"I'm bisexual"
"You can't just pretend to be gay"
LMFAOOOOOO TOO TRUE
**WATCH ME FOOLS.**
are you saying that bi people pretend to be gay cuz that is offensive and not true bi people are attracted to males and females.
Dude, they said it in the context of the video. It's relatable that bi and pan people get a lot of shit because they don't "commit" to one side
Bisexuality isn’t fucking real
+art Bisexuality is real. You can like both apple and banana. So why not men and women?
that moment when your whole family thinks you're gay and is accepting but really you are straight and cant get a girlfriend
oof
that somehow seems more painfull
just imagine the look on their faces when u finally get a girlfriend xD
When I came out to my best friend he was like "Well, duh!"
I didn't know it was that obvious.
Ashe Camille yeah my best friend to I was all dramatic cuz he's a guy and straight ofcourse. and he just said "pfft... I know! " and we just laughed it out... that's the most awesome thing ever
Ashe Camille lol 😂😂😂
My best friend likes shirts with short sleeves
Asher C. Dude same
same
One of my friends told me she was bisexual, and I shrugged and kept doing what I was doing.
+Fried Keenan
Best response.
+Fried Keenan yeah, its mostly internal stress that makes it difficult, i had a much harder time trying explain that i'm a furry
+Fried Keenan I came out to one of my friends who was having an argument with someone and she told me to shut up and continued arguing.
+Fried Keenan Who even isn't bisexual at this point?
+ArtezzGaming
I'm not :/
Would've been cool but whatever.
Omg that is so weird
Vests.... right
Idk _ Kate 😂😂underrated comment
this comment deserves more likes xD
I know right aren’t vests so weird with their buttons and stuff...
Egg Meme - It's the sleeves
Had to like it cause it was 66 and another six
Yeah so I had friends guessing my crush and they were asking
“Who is she?”
Yeah that was really awkward.
Update: So they found out... 8 months ago..... And were hella supportive im very lucky
I once told my mom I had a crush on someone from my class. She then proceeded to list every single girl in the class, and I denied having a crush on each one of them. Her response? “Hmm, I must be forgetting someone...”
How it went for me:
* Sat knees to my chest *
Me- "mum, dad, I'm bi"
My dad- "so?"
Me- "errrrrrrr oh, I just thought you should know"
When I came out, my diva of a dad was so mad he FRIGGIN MOVED
@@surelock3221 Damn your dad and his skinny legs
Like… moved houses? Or "moved" as in he adjusted his knee or went to another room or something
@@rkt7414 Jake and Amir reference
Vests are a separate thing from shirts not because of sleeves but because of which layer they are traditionally worn as in clothing. I.E. over a shirt but under a jacket.
There. Clearly the most important part of this video has been solved.
Oh my god thank you, feel I don't know what all the ramble about being gay was I wish they would have just stuck to the point 😒
Damn, interesting.
What about the color. Why must they be orange? Why. Why. Why not purple. Why orange? This is agitating me.
Well am I in the wrong since I'm usually wearing a vest over my xc-skiing coat or does my statement make yours false?
I wear vests with nothing under them.... So.... Shirts....
Omg the bi thing at the end is so goddamn true
shhhhh
If you're bisexual but you aren't dating anyone, you aren't bisexual, you're bi-yourself
I'm in tears because of this comment.
Sad tears... ... ... of recognition.
bi-solitude
😂😂😂oh ouch.
Nah, I'm on standbi.
@@Master_Connerw
When I came out to my mum she was more interested in the fact that I ate spinach that day....
This is how I told my mom:
Me: hey so...I gotta tell you something
Mom: okay, what is it?
Me: I...like guys
Mom:
Me: and girls
Mom:
Me:
Mom: same
The Them That’s so unfair of them to get into all of those failed marriages then have the audacity to tell you that you can’t be attracted to certain people. What morality are they even demonstrating?
@Neil Brown i can't tell if this is a joke or not...
Yes!! I'm aro and pan (kinda) and my mom's pan and demisexual. It's pretty cool :3
So it IS genetic
@The Them “I’m a delight” Made me smile
The end is true though, being bisexual and/or pansexual is awful sometimes because a lot of people don't think it's real and/or valid.
Oh yes. So awful. People don't care. So awful for bisexuals. How horrible.
Aleksander Jokic it's not that people don't care. It's that some heterosexual people and some members of the lgbtq community dismiss bisexuals and act as though bisexuality isn't real.
in a tinybox I don't see why bisexuality wouldn't be real, it makes sense .-.
gab tiq Yeah I don't quite understand it either, they just decide not to acknowledge it for some reason or other.
Glitzy Rocker its twice the possibilities! Bisexuals are the smart ones.
The first person i came out to was a guy i met online who previously told me he was homophobic and even he accepted me for who I was which made me feel this vid so much lol
Well, maybe he said he was homophobic to try and hide the fact that he's truely gay, and to try and avoid gay people due to the people he has around him making him think that it's wrong to feel that way.
[Water]Dragon Games well we’ve continued talking and he got a girlfriend for a while so i guess hed be at most bi. But since we’ve been friends for some time now I can say that he indeed doesn’t like guys
I came out to my best friend as bi, she hugged me and told me she loved me
A few months later, she came out to me as a lesbian
Now we've been dating for almost a year :)
💜
That sweet
How did you get the account "Me"
Me thats sweet
Me awwwwwww I'm happy for you
that "WHAT THE FUCK!!" at the end got me laughing way too much
This is 100% how my parents and reacted.
My dad said: "Oh, okay. we need a new refrigerator."
that's it. that was the whole reaction... 😂
...do gay people eat more? Prefer their food colder? Why did you need a new fridge?
I eat more but not because I'm gay but maybe stress from being gay has made me eat more because I live down south in the us were all.the. hillbillys think that incest is fine and being gay is an abomination.
time to move dude.
I came out to both of my parents as trans yesterday in the scariest way you can imagine... and they, even though i thought they were transphobic, were the kindest and most supportive parents in the world. I love them
Solid!
you live a lie why lie to your self you are who you are born as
why surround you self with lies
nice!
@@SB-iy9vn you're a sheep
😂😂😂
who else was just staring at his teeth the whole time
a little.
HIS TEETH! They were so visible!
I thought I was the only one!
he has nice teeth tho
Their so white!
I remember a similar situation in which in my art class we talking about avengers and marvel and a girl who sits at my table came and pronounced she was gay and were all like yeah we know Emma we don't interpret your life changing talks about superheroes with what is an accepted fact.
It's hard to win an argument against a smart person, but impossible to win one against a really dumb person.
+tyler good nice bit of random knowledge
true
Dumb = gay
+tyler good I see you took a new spin on the famous quote "Never argue with idiots. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience" -George Carlin. I hope you feel satisfied with your false acheivement
+Stelio Kontos mhm
A little irrelevant, but everyone's talking about their stories, so:
My girlfriend, before she could admit that she was gay, she came out as bisexual to her family and they all said something along the lines of, "no, you're not. You're just confused and straight" (her family is very religious) but a while later, at least a year or two, she was talking to her new stepmom and said "I'm bi" and proceeded to only compliment women and talk about her attraction to girls when her S-mom went, "Jesus christ, you're not bi, Alex! You're gay!" And it was what my girlfriend needed and she realized that yes, she was gay. She told me that story last night and we had a good cry over it
Edit: well, update. My boyfriend technically came out as straight, he just didn't know it yet (by which I mean he came out as trans last year!) I'll leave the pronouns for now (otherwise the story doesn't exactly work) but I've replaced his deadname. Many well wishes 😁
Awww🥺 When I was struggling to accept my sexuality I would tell people I was bi because I thought it was safe. But only people I knew wouldn’t care either way. But I finally came out to my entire family in February because I was drunk and didn’t give a shit and my grandma literally told me, “I know for some reason you THINK you’re gay...” Honestly I was expecting her to get mad at me, not just completely disregard what I said. But whatever, she’ll know when I get a girlfriend😝
So, you lost your gf
@@Someone-ig7we no, I'm a girl and we're still together. This encounter happened a while before we got together
Aww!
That’s is so sweet!!
OMG THIS IS SO TRUE I CAME OUT TO MY FRIENDS AND THEY WERE LIKE "Um ok?? I mean its normal"
Same though
Gaaaayyyyyyyyyy
Jacob Bieber don't ever use gay as an insult it is hateful rude and annoying so stop
Same
Jacob Bieber fucktard
people may not be homophobic but they may be biphobic
This is true. Upsettingly so.
To bisexual men for sure. I think people make less of a deal about it when women say they are bi.
@@christiner6673 most of the time when it's women they're just called sluts. Shit's toxic
My gay friend is biphobic and keeps asking me to "stop being bi"....
@@catsaregreat79 Ooof screw them. Don't take what they say to heart and tell them to stop saying that to you immediately.
"this is shocking news"
"it isn't"
10/10
When I came out as Bisexual and my parents were like "Okay cool" I started screaming because I was mad that they weren't mad because I had planned like an entire conv in my head and It was useless now xD
Yeah, it's really annoying when you plan out an entire argument in your head, only to end up not needing it. What makes it even worse is that you know you logically shouldn't be frustrated and should instead just be happy, and it's like "I know, but still..."
@@catbatrat1760 *_T H I S_*
BRUH. I mean i know my parents r not gonna accept me cuz they r phobic but damn i love having those convos in my head
I too hate when my parents aren't biphobic but are actually supportive. Man, that really grinds my gears. I wish we could've have a long agressive argument about it
Lgbt stand for:
Let's
Get Down To
Bisnuss
TO defeat...the huns
where do i sign the petition
"You're the saddest bunch I ever knew. So pack up go home be gone. How will I make a man out of you?"
"But daddy, I'm a girl."
"Huh?"
“bisnuss”
Bisnuss lmao
Q for Quest
basically me when my friend came out to me "...okay, cool" not really a big deal now a days. times have changed lol
unless you are super religious, they will try push u away without you noticing which sucks
Yeah true, but coming out is still scary and plenty of people will still judge you in some way (especially your friends)
It depends on where you live
@@epicwarehouse5003 *push off the roof
I hear from a lot of gay people that this is pretty much how it goes most of the time.
+Shawn Ravenfire Not if you have Christian parents...
+oZZy or Asian parents
+KamikazekaitoKoki I've never met asian parents not cool with it, I mean my mom actually encourages me to get a gay asian friend because they "have good style." It's usually just white parents.
Rhiannon Brenner I'm asian and bi and know what I'm talking about. Do you know how looked down upon homosexuality is in Asian countries? Most asian lgbt people I know are really scared of coming out.
+Backflipgal12 Yeah until you want to get married.
I yearn for the day when someone says “Im gay” and people are just like “okay?”
Today. That’s..... today. Nobody gives a shit in the first world, outside of specific, small groups of people, in specific, small areas
@@emoimo4171 so maybe 20% of the world? That's not enough
@@SaranshV I'd say 35% but we'll take what we can get
@Abhishek Harge i dont care
@Abhishek Harge nice I'm in India as well
My friend came out as bi with a very wary tone and I was so shocked. Shocked that she had to admit that because I literally noticed the week we started hanging out together. I thought she was dropping hints on purpose? Basically, to anyone afraid of coming out, dont worry because your friends know you're gay or whatever way before you admit to it
True that. When I came out as bi (turns out I'm pan but I thought I was bi at first) I was the MOST surprised of anyone.
My parents had thought I was dating my really close female friend, and a friend I hadn't seen for like 3 years just went, "oh yeah, you project gay vibes from a mile away" and I was SHOOK
me: mom, im bi
mom: what? i thought you were gay
I'm was more interested in the conversation the others were having.
+Ornob Khan yesssssss. Omg, That chat was so much more interesting.
+Jono Pedersen so long collars? Are the sleeve shorter then normal or longer if that's the case?
+TheModernMaxi I actually never knew about different collar sizes for shits. I know that some shirts are UV resistant though
+DGK DaGreekKing So are all shirts UV resistant? Or is it just the red shirts with long collars?
+William Mild (Billy) All shirts are UV resistant. Unless it's clear. Then it needs to have a UV resistant coating. Are there clear shirts?
im coming out as a guy that liked his own comments
The most shameful and hated one
you monster
For the first half of the sentence I thought you were coming out as trans xD
S. L. ALRIGHT being gay is one thing but this is just... wronh
I support you. If it wasn't intended to be possible, then RUclips would have removed it as an option.
Like with RUclips rewind and the dislike button.
“It feels like I’m out. Am I out?”
who else pretends that he's a tiny person at the end?
no one?
ok...
I did it once if that makes you feel better ;)
I do!
Matthew Beckley awww😂😂
I did it once and every time I come back to this video I go "heh…" thinking about how clever it is.
Arthur Bárbaro 😂😂
“
Mom,
I’m straight”
“Oh help me Jesus”
Same but my ma suddenly said I got this from my pa and that I spent more time with girl.
is this love simon??
LOVE, SIMON REFERENCE AYE
When I came out to my friends they were like “no shit” or “I know”, so that kind of killed the moment until my mom said I could still choose to be straight so we have that
All my friends were chill but mom came in clutch by holding a family meeting
@@nschwartz311 WE NEED TO KNOW NICOLE
Did you say, "Yeah, sure, I'll choose to be straight when you choose to be a lesbian"? Or am I just overly snarky?
wh- the moment was _saved_ when your mom wasn't supportive of it?
This is probably the most relateable thing that I've ever seen lmao
That whole shirt thing is the kind of conversation me and my friends would have
When I came out to my friends as Bi they were like, oh I thought you were gay.
Lol
Your half way there
Same. Some of my friends suspected that I'm queer
@@itsyaboileo__8104 living on a prayer...
This is me
it's even weirder when you come out as trans and people are just like "uh ok." dkidvrkr i've been lying to myself about being cis my whole life and even when i found out that i'm trans i still denied it and you're just... okay with it?
❤️
i mean... thats better than them being against it hehe
idk what to say on times like this but congrats on coming out?!
That literally happened with my friend this morning, I told her and she replied "cool, oh btw I wanna work on the yearbook!" And I was like w t f
I'm trying to figure myself out, and it's been driving me insane and I'm just so scared of everything and the idea that the people in my life would probably react the same way I did when my friends came out as trans to me...is simultaneously frustrating and comforting.
I’m a little behind on the curve of all the new social media business and such. What is a trans? Is it like another form of bi where you’re transitioning to that? Or is it something else entirely?
But what are vests
Right? I mean, are they coats or shirts?
Disappointments.
maybe they are vests?
Disappointments
WAIT HA
I came out to my family by shouting “yo btw I’m a trans and lesbian” I think my brother shouted back “we know”
Awww! I hope your transition is going well
@@witchypoo7353 shit man ive been out that long feels sureal but yeah im on hrt and even engaged now
@@pinknificentpinky959 awww! I’m so happy for you!
@@witchypoo7353 yeah damn 2 years wow my life was so fucking different back then sorry just hit me how long its been
If ur trans n lesbian arent u a gay woman then?
I get that it's comedy, but the comments really upset me. Biphobia is a real thing, and a girl once broke my heart because she didn't want things to become serious with someone who "can't pick a side". Gay people always argue that you can't choose your sexuality, but on the other hand, many expect bisexuals to do exactly that. I feel like this topic is made fun of too often and not taken serious enough... Bisexuals deserve the same acceptance as homosexuals.
That's kinda funny
It's been a year hope you can laugh about it now.
Y’all should’ve seen my brother face when he came out to me and my exact reaction was.
“Hm... cool.”
Dude looked so confused and disappointed. He even did the same thing Grant did, like going into more detail. This shit hit me so hard lmao.
I feel like half the commentators didn't get to the end of the video.
It was a good twist
Apparently I was shining to bright in the closet that everyone kinda figured out before i knew.
How I plan to come out
*calls friend*
Me:generic friend are you awake?
Generic friend:what do you want it's four in the morning
Me:ok sooo...........i'm gay
Generic friend:wait wh-
*hangs up phone*
nicee :)
btw love your photo
*generic friend*
N with them?
Damn. This is now how I plan to come out.
When I came out as bi everyone was like “Okay???” and I was upset because I wanted everyone to be surprised
@Crusader true
You're totally valid in that! When you build up tension and turmoil over coming out and there's a different reaction than expected, it's normal and okay to feel disappointed!
sr8 culture: protect your ego by don't act surprise. e_e
how are his teeth so... white
I think it's because he brushes his teeth
darkdeifan because he is gay dumbass
Ezequiel Acosta ...
They may be whitened.
It's a common cosmetic procedure. But some people go too far with it, so their teeth shine so much they can blind you.
from all the cum ;)
I came out as bi as a "prank" on my friends and now I really am bi. Really fooled myself with that one.
edit: not bi, just gay and confused
Odd prank tbh, but good for you
same 😭 i had a best friend who taught me all about the lgbt community and we "pranked" our friends by saying we were bi. a year or so later, i realized i actually had a huge crush in her. i've been proudly biro-ace for about a year and a half now.
flith
lol this happened to my friend to, like he said it to get attention, then watched gay porn to get into the role
Plot twist after plot twist!
I love the conversation in the beginning about how “some shirts have short sleeves and some shirts have long sleeves?” and how vets are a weird middle ground, as a metaphor for the way people get confused about bisexuality.
the end made me sad because it's the sad reality
society is more accepting of homosexualty but other things like Bisexuality, Pansexualalty, Asexuality and the list just goes on and on
What? People are excepting of those things
I'm not asexual I just really hate everyone. If I could meet someone I like then my sexual preference is female. But I don't see that happening for a long time.
LinusMLGTips
People who aren't assholes yes
I thought bisexuals were treated better then homosexuals
Kyle Vernon
Because society is fucking stupid
That's basically my reaction to people coming out, like, who really cares anymore?
Victor Dalloz Sorry mate, didn't know that it would hit you so hard.
+Victor Dalloz who would want to keep living in a house like that anyways :D
+Victor Dalloz Don't see why we should care. Seem's like a good thing that those kids no longer have such toxic people in their lives. To me if my parents reacted that way they would be dead to me. Good riddance.
Depends on where you are. Where I live in Portland for the most part nobody cares it's perfectly accepted but you can't say the same for some places. Remember all the local support that one lady got for denying a homosexual couple a marriage certificate?
+Victor Dalloz Only in Mid America where the hicks still thrive, here in Los Angeles being Gay is what ever
When I came out to my best friend, they were the second person I came out to and they’re also queer, they just laughed and said they knew it already. It was a huge relief because I was so nervous even though I knew they wouldn’t care.
This video is such a mood though. I hate when people respond to coming out with "we already knew" or "yeah whatever who cares" because it makes it feel like you've been hiding and stressing out for years over nothing
Instead of coming out, if I ever get a boyfriend I'm just gonna use social media to hint at it and be completely casual about it.
The Awoken Warrior Kind of like the way straight people "come out"
That's how I plaNNED on coming out, but oddly enough it wore me down. I think it's because if you don't come out, people just assume you're straight. So even if I wasn't denying my sexuality, it still felt like I was living a lie. That's just me though, do what's best for you. :)