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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024

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  • @Mossfaerie
    @Mossfaerie Год назад +2163

    I LOVE GOING TO THE CINEMA ALONE. I started doing it when my boyfriend and I broke up and I wondered why I waited so damn long. It's amazing. You get so immersed in the film, have time to ponder things after with no discussion and really let it all sink in. It is wonderful.

    • @ayserosy
      @ayserosy Год назад +15

      exaclty!!! this is my fav hobby

    • @Blaze6432
      @Blaze6432 Год назад +47

      about 5 years back I started doing most things alone, primarily because I started living solo. Honestly it's an enriching experience when you figure out how to entertain yourself alone and become self sufficient in the things you enjoy.

    • @savesoil3133
      @savesoil3133 Год назад +4

      Yes, it can definitely be a more focused experience, you can really watch the film intensely
      #SaveSoil

    • @shravyashetty3491
      @shravyashetty3491 Год назад +1

      I'm gonna try it tomorrow ✊😌

    • @solus8685
      @solus8685 Год назад

      This is why I prefer watching any movie alone tbh
      I don't like talking during movies

  • @gigidaryn
    @gigidaryn Год назад +370

    you have no idea how fun and liberating solo date is. I miss doing a solo date, especially going to the cinema alone is the highlight.

    • @laurentemple550
      @laurentemple550 Год назад +3

      You should still take yourself on a solo date occasionally even if your in a relationship, you deserve it ❤️

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 Год назад

      The theater* but youre absolutely right! I usually go the theater every Friday, in the weekends i have no plans!

  • @andreahs
    @andreahs Год назад +65

    I wish you could do a series like this!! As an introvert whose friends are not always available, it would be really encouraging 😊

  • @lawnjart16
    @lawnjart16 Год назад +332

    Going out to eat solo is not a big deal. I think people assume others are looking at them when in reality most likely no one is even paying attention. If the restaurant has no waiting, they don't mind either. As a plus, if there is a restaurant you like that you eat solo at often, many times you get special treatment (I have gotten free appetizers, drinks - and a chef even asked me if I would try, for free, a new item he was thinking about making as a special)

    • @kimtaeyeonismyeverything
      @kimtaeyeonismyeverything Год назад +34

      I thought the same. Until someone took a picture of me. At first I thought “lol get ur head out ur ass ur not a celebrity”. But when I saw the servers being protective and like pulling a chair in front of me, saying things like “you’re waiting for company right?”. Made me think maybe that’s a local creep. Stay safe people❤

    • @jaehaywardkent
      @jaehaywardkent Год назад +19

      @@kimtaeyeonismyeverything yeah that is the only thing... i’d recommend going to a place that has families and during a busier time so it’s less likely that anyone will disturb u/creep on u

  • @H2E47
    @H2E47 Год назад +619

    Visited London by myself a few times and felt people were always looking at me when I was eating alone. Ah well, not bothering anyone😂

    • @_DeadlyNightshade_
      @_DeadlyNightshade_ Год назад +17

      Same. Went to London alone, had lunch and dinner at many places alone, it's nice to do things at ones own pace.

    • @tea-chip-cookies
      @tea-chip-cookies Год назад +9

      People stare in London no matter what you do

  • @mills8
    @mills8 Год назад +24

    Because of my job I eat out alone at least twice a week, also love going cinema alone, I have a cineworld card so go often to make the most of it & just feel more relaxed on my own, not having to make conversation with someone else all the time is so so relaxing. If you’ve never done these things, I’d highly highly recommend!

  • @salsabiilee
    @salsabiilee Год назад +5

    I looove taking myself out. It feels so good to do things on your own time and just have time for you. More people should try it

  • @princessmolskiii
    @princessmolskiii Год назад +113

    I went to london by myself for a week and absolutely loved it ! Eating out alone in Wagamamas was so nice because they sat me by someone else alone 🥺

  • @MaybeLily1234
    @MaybeLily1234 Год назад +11

    I do this a lot ever since quarantine times, eating alone and going to the cinema or sit in the park alone it’s like taking yourself out on a date. Self love❤

  • @michelleschnieper4518
    @michelleschnieper4518 Год назад +35

    i love going places on my own, last week i went to the cinema and watched avatar. and going again next week

  • @janujj1
    @janujj1 Год назад +2

    This is awesome
    I'm a massive introvert
    You have inspired me to get out of my comfort zone too.

  • @natyapriliananda9507
    @natyapriliananda9507 Год назад +25

    Going out alone means you can focus on yourself more while doing whatever you wanna do, and that what i love the most about it!!

  • @JodieLee07
    @JodieLee07 Год назад +4

    Loved this!! More shorts please 🙌💛

  • @jesselenzrokobauer7042
    @jesselenzrokobauer7042 Год назад +3

    Everything I do I do alone. Traveling, eating out, vacation in a hotel. I can do all the things I like with no compromises to others in my own pace. If I want to do something, I do it. Waiting for other people to join means I would miss the best things in life just waiting for others. If someone wants to come with me I’m the one who says "no" the most of the times cause having company bothers me. It costs me too much energy to talk to them. I’m female, too. So - don’t worry. You’ll get used to it and you’ll start to feel more comfortable the more often you do it. Nobody is looking at you. It’s normal.

  • @mariamelaiba
    @mariamelaiba Год назад

    I love your storytelling. Your voice is just so heartwarming ❤️

  • @nickbyrden3402
    @nickbyrden3402 Год назад +2

    So beneficial going out alone, I believe it improves your relationship with your self.

  • @Melalpert
    @Melalpert Год назад

    I dislike working out too - if you like to dance and haven’t tried the videos online, there are so many dance work outs and they’re so much fun💃🏾💃🏾
    Go you for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, that’s awesome😃

  • @ana2ne1
    @ana2ne1 Год назад

    I have friends but I love being alone and doing things on my own. I adore u, Taz. Carefree and cheerful. Never fail to put a smile on my face:)

  • @bigjosh466
    @bigjosh466 Год назад

    I can’t begin to tell you how much you inspire me. I’m so glad I found your videos! I love to watch you sort through things in your life, and although I have different areas in my life that I like to sort, the process is all one in the same. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing. ❤️‍🩹 Stay beautiful and enlightened.

  • @SayurikaMoodley
    @SayurikaMoodley Год назад

    The outfit IS pretty cute!

  • @BlackMamba-gx4zl
    @BlackMamba-gx4zl Год назад +1

    I would love to meet a women like this😍, they’re honestly the best and seem worth it.

  • @tealoTAG
    @tealoTAG Год назад +6

    This is such a good series ! ✨ hope you keep making videos !

  • @Bbse
    @Bbse Год назад +7

    Currently watching the video while eating out alone 😂

  • @diehippiedie6717
    @diehippiedie6717 Год назад +9

    Eating out alone is so special, because you kind of feel out of time : you look at people, you feel the energy of the place, you think, you write, you read.
    Same when you take a drink in a bar. I love it.
    And going to the movie is like a treat!

  • @sarbjit9846
    @sarbjit9846 Год назад +3

    I want do it also because I don't jave friends (they are far away or not free or married) I am alone and want be happy in my own company. Your videos motivate me

  • @bhumikachandra7342
    @bhumikachandra7342 Год назад

    Love this. I really need to do this. I hardly have any friends in town and the ones I have are located in diff cities. Stalling life upon others to turn up or everything to go right is the worst thing you can do to yourself. Wish I can have the confidence that you have, some day and soon! ❤️

  • @ankitaaggarwal8722
    @ankitaaggarwal8722 Год назад +3

    I miss my solo dates. I use to go to temples, movies, restaurants, long drive. It was so refreshing.

  • @Oldjaan
    @Oldjaan Год назад +1

    *Eating is a comfort zone*
    focus in what you’re eating and enjoy it enough that you can’t see what anyone else looks like ✨

  • @solostar5882
    @solostar5882 Год назад +1

    This was my goal last summer! It felt weird to go into some places alone but I did love trying new food and finding new places on my own. Amazing 😁👌🏽 My biggest accomplishment was going to see an opera alone! Definitely want to do cinema too :)

  • @nikkita113
    @nikkita113 Год назад +3

    I have had the opportunity to go for solo dates since 2016 and never stopped since ❤ I love having time dedicated to myself and just enjoy the outside world little by little ☺️💛

  • @MagneticUnicornVlogs
    @MagneticUnicornVlogs Год назад

    Love eating out alone 😋 and that you journaled too!!

  • @luenaiya
    @luenaiya Год назад +1

    The cinema and restaurant alone thing is something I do FOR comfort 😅

  • @Emmet_Moore
    @Emmet_Moore Год назад

    Your Cardiff accent properly makes me feel like I’m living vicariously through you

  • @sh666niceethapaa
    @sh666niceethapaa Год назад

    i was literally talking about wanting to do things alone yst and u posted this at the same time!

  • @shanb1984
    @shanb1984 Год назад +2

    I sit in cafes with a coffee alone and bring a book because I find if I'm struggling to focus on reading, making it seems like a movie scene or something aesthetic or romantic helps me and I'm not getting all anxious in my head about people looking at me because I'm too into the plot of the story. I'd like to eat full dinner meals by myself by I can only justify spending more than €5 on food if I'm with others who want to eat too because it just feels like a waste of money otherwise in my head

  • @PaLuck
    @PaLuck Год назад +1

    Literally doing these things myself. Loving it.

  • @Halapeno30
    @Halapeno30 Год назад

    when you grow, u understand being alone is being strong 💯

  • @sknight2810
    @sknight2810 Год назад +1

    I be going to cinema alone since highschool, highly recommended

  • @Oaneznka
    @Oaneznka Год назад +1

    I do a a lot of things alone especially Movies!! I can’t stand people talking to me during the movie and also it’s not easy to find people that they like the same movies with you!

  • @dafneorlow
    @dafneorlow Год назад

    I love Taz. She's awesome! 😚

  • @Andytheevien
    @Andytheevien Год назад +1

    Love that term solo date. You don't need company to have a good time.

  • @ClearBlueSky1
    @ClearBlueSky1 Год назад

    Omg j really love the idea of journalling on a solo date but I'm so conscious of people deciding to sit next to me or look into what I'm writing 🥺🥺

  • @softerhaze
    @softerhaze Год назад +1

    I've been going around alone in london after starting uni here because Ice managed to make no friends 😍 but I actually love being alone, I can order whatever, go to whatever store without having to make sure whether the other person likes it or is judging me hhsbdjs

  • @DeV-2909
    @DeV-2909 Год назад

    *I've done this so many times. It's really good to do that sometimes. I love my company the most actually* ❤️

  • @bennykell3
    @bennykell3 Год назад +2

    I’ve done this since 17 lol it’s amazing and holidaying solo! 30 this year 😅

  • @roopalivs6782
    @roopalivs6782 Год назад

    Wow 👌🏾.... it must be therapeutic in its own way am sure. Good going 👌🏾 👍🏾 ✔️

  • @kamilayussupova2923
    @kamilayussupova2923 Год назад +1

    Me sitting and eating the biggest pizza alone in a public while watching this

  • @mandymoe6493
    @mandymoe6493 Год назад +5

    I ate out alone when I was in Wales. Well, I was the only customer in the whole restaurant for half my meal. I chose a table with a fiew towards a tiny waterfall along a rock right behind the window which positioned me in the middle of the room... It was a little awkward. The staff was super nice and talked to me for a while. They were all students helping out so me in my 20s with a rather bad high school memory felt awkward once again. But I made it, everything was fine and I don't regret going out by myself. Would do it again. ( coffee by myself is a lot easier for me)
    edit: personally I don't like to be on my phone while eating out. I want to honour the people cooking for me by fully being there and paying attention. What's other peoples opinion on this?

  • @cristinaflorina9538
    @cristinaflorina9538 Год назад +1

    Little tip: if you want to stick to a workout, choose something you'd actually enjoy. Then it won't feel like a chore, but a fun thing to do

  • @turtlethatdreamstobeacheetah
    @turtlethatdreamstobeacheetah Год назад

    The first time shopping alone, I kind of felt weird as I'm not used to that (coz I'm talkative haha) - and that's the start of my "self care" moments. I love the serenity of being alone and can just do or go whenever whatever I want. Especially when travelled out of country alone for the first time, I really enjoyed my internal quiet moment. 😊

  • @thisisactuallylee
    @thisisactuallylee Год назад

    i did this exact day alone earlier this week and was absolutely shaking with anxiety i could barely eat in the restaurant !! cinema was great though !

  • @hebaelmorsli2274
    @hebaelmorsli2274 Год назад

    I love going out and eating alone like it's so peaceful and it feels good

  • @dlwlrma4307
    @dlwlrma4307 Год назад

    Dudeee I love ur voiceee

  • @adityahabbu7463
    @adityahabbu7463 Год назад

    I did the same,, for me a break up taught me a lot, and the best part is it's all me,, no god damn distractions,, just focused

  • @anderstermansen130
    @anderstermansen130 Год назад

    I began to do my own adventures two years ago. To other cities in my country, and go out to eat dinner alone. Its the best treat i can possibly give myself, to have a me-time.

  • @StoryTimeGirl
    @StoryTimeGirl Год назад

    I love doing things by myself, I always learn new things about myself

  • @giftsofspring
    @giftsofspring Год назад

    So great :) this is what I do since.. A weak.. :D boosts your selfconfidence ❤️

  • @curledupwabook
    @curledupwabook Год назад

    I used to take myself out quite often when I was not married,I really enjoyed it as I'd bring a book and could leave whenever I wanted!

  • @84vintage
    @84vintage Год назад +4

    The best thing about doing things on your own is you get to choose what you want! I have a husband and 4 kids. I rarely get to do the things I actually want, or eat what I actually want! Solo dates are a dream!

    • @UmmEss
      @UmmEss Год назад

      Mum of 4 here too. Solo date sounds like a dream 😄

  • @karenaouwad2697
    @karenaouwad2697 Год назад

    Excuse me? I go everywhere alone..i travel alone..best moments ever! You discover a lot about yourself. It should be a thing everyone does

  • @Amanda.48
    @Amanda.48 Год назад

    I see the Brimfield Massachusetts shirt!! That’s awesome, I grew up in Brimfield

  • @moxeev
    @moxeev Год назад

    Omg just did this today!! And made a tiktok from it 😂😂 slowly overcoming my fears

  • @kevinzunigacuellar
    @kevinzunigacuellar Год назад +6

    Every time I go by myself to a restaurant and they ask how many and I say 1 their expression 😱

  • @ankithvnaik2884
    @ankithvnaik2884 Год назад

    She is soo pretty i has to watch the video 5 times cause 😅i wasn't listening 🥺❣️

  • @caravij5540
    @caravij5540 Год назад

    I miss London. I miss Leong's Legends and I miss my daily run through Kensington gardens, and walk along the Southbank with a whippy soft ice once a week and the markets and theater and musical dates and the free museums. I even miss the tube. God I had too much time as a student. 😅

  • @shukri9997
    @shukri9997 Год назад

    screaming bc taz came to the restaurant i work when i wasn’t on shift 💔💔

  • @thisisele
    @thisisele Год назад +4

    i should do this too, i am so shy

  • @Adriana.Urdaneta
    @Adriana.Urdaneta Год назад

    I used to love going to the cinema alone, It's been years since the last time I went by myself but I've also become even more self conscious in the past few years

  • @shreyasitambraparni5713
    @shreyasitambraparni5713 Год назад

    This is great thing to promise oneself. I might just follow you in this...

  • @Fourlamas
    @Fourlamas Год назад

    I started going out to eat and see something at the cinema too and while it was scary at first I love it now and im always looking forward going out by myself again

  • @SI_Mariyama_Thomas
    @SI_Mariyama_Thomas Год назад +1

    I started watching movies alone after an unexpected situation. I was on a girls night out with my frnd. We were already inside the theatre when her bf called and had to talk something out. So she left when the movie was just starting. I sat there and watched. First it was kinda disappointing coz I was there alone while everyone else were in grps. Tho movie was average, it had great graphics. So was good in a way. I literally forgot I was alone and enjoyed the movie. I loved it so much and I'm a bit of a movie critique. I go with friends for average and below average movies on the other hand I go alone for movies that get people invested. Those deep intriguing movies. If I wanna enjoy something without missing a scene, I'm going alone.

  • @janewilliams6910
    @janewilliams6910 Год назад +17

    I wish I could like this video more than once.

  • @eliza740
    @eliza740 Год назад

    I’ve been doing these things since the start so going out of my comfort zone would be going places with friends 🥲

  • @mithunnair8587
    @mithunnair8587 Год назад

    Its the best feeling to go alone to watch a movie ✨

  • @AnishaDaniels
    @AnishaDaniels Год назад

    Wowwww.. I wanna do it too!! Thanks Taz.

  • @S4FX
    @S4FX Год назад

    Love your energy 🤗

  • @mahaabdelaal3592
    @mahaabdelaal3592 Год назад +3

    I go out by myself a lot.I think that sometimes I need to be by myself. it's a healthy thing and you should try it guys🤗🤞

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza Год назад

    The cinema alone is my favourite but I’ve only been able to do that in the city!

  • @tarysunshine3878
    @tarysunshine3878 Год назад

    I did this all the time. Except for going to cinema. It’s empowering. I also go sales call everywhere alone.

  • @mariee_e
    @mariee_e Год назад

    omg ur glasses are so cute on you

  • @Arpita9516
    @Arpita9516 5 месяцев назад

    At first I felt sacred and I was feared to be left alone and mostly felt embarrassed when sitting alone and eating looking at others face but as time passes I felt good and comfortable to sit and eat alone or go wherever I want. I don't wait for others to came if they don't want to then it's okay I wouldn't cancel my plan I will do and do it as I have done it many times and own my own. And trying to do more so I can be happy myself

  • @mounikakulkarni119
    @mounikakulkarni119 Год назад

    Your journal. Its huge. 😮 where did you get it. I want one too. 😊

  • @icecreamlover4992
    @icecreamlover4992 Год назад

    Doing stuff alone is actually amazing!! Eg amusement parks

  • @s.g2344
    @s.g2344 Год назад

    I love going to London by myself it's amazing! The only thing I dont like is trying to find somewhere to eat by myself I usually end up in McDonalds Haha 😅 gonna stop doing that though

  • @taz9400
    @taz9400 Год назад +2

    New subscriber here, love this video. It has made me realise that I should do more things by myself for myself, definitely doing this this year. ❤

  • @TheFunFabLife
    @TheFunFabLife Год назад

    I love eating out and going to the movies by myself. Next I want to travel on my own.

  • @chintadameghana717
    @chintadameghana717 Год назад

    Its on my bucket list really want to try waiting for the perfect date to go out by myself

  • @ayserosy
    @ayserosy Год назад

    Sometimes I go out alone and do whatever I want, it makes me happy 🙃

  • @meriliendre6009
    @meriliendre6009 Год назад

    Also went to watch She said alone and no one on the cinema! It's great to step out the comfort zone

  • @J_129
    @J_129 Год назад

    As a fellow introvert....I approve 👍

  • @jaquelinemayorga794
    @jaquelinemayorga794 Год назад

    i went to the movie theater by myself one day and i loved it. it was so relaxing and nice to enjoy quality time with myself!

  • @okthen9718
    @okthen9718 10 месяцев назад

    I sleep on my sofa all the time!❤❤❤

  • @_DeadlyNightshade_
    @_DeadlyNightshade_ Год назад

    I traveled alone, went to the cinema alone, had lunch and dinner alone, it's so freeing to do what we want whenever.

  • @ananyasahay
    @ananyasahay Год назад

    Oh, once I went to watch an obscurely timed show of Dune in a not-that-popular cinema (Also people don't watch English movies as much as the native language movies here) and NO ONE CAME! I thought they'll send me back but they played the movie. It was so fun 😭😭 felt like the main character ngl

  • @NicK-kh7nd
    @NicK-kh7nd Год назад

    Self date time is the best... Love it 🥰🥰👍🏼

  • @teneshaanderson4761
    @teneshaanderson4761 Год назад

    Wagamama alone is really applaudable because the table are literally group based

  • @MrFlaten92
    @MrFlaten92 3 месяца назад

    Im going to the cinema and restaurants and vacation alone all the time. Perks of not having friends I guess😂

  • @sawerachohan9680
    @sawerachohan9680 8 месяцев назад

    I go out Alone all the time just me and my headphones and power bank 😂

  • @MKgobe
    @MKgobe Год назад

    Damn! 😂😂 It's been a while since I saw this channel

  • @lalalulu17
    @lalalulu17 Год назад

    I would love to do this. But i live in a small city, there's just too many familiar faces around lol