People stay wanting to spend other peoples money…..why tf would I pay for my sons sister from a different marriage? He wouldn’t do the same if it was the other way around. It still baffles me that people can’t simply reverse a situation and be in the other persons shoes to see their point of view….SHE DONT OWE HIM NOTHING!!!
NTA, they are destroying yours and your son’s peace and sanity, looks like a tight shut up call is much needed for your ex’s family otherwise they will keep on demanding money with entitlement and audacity
NTA.. the 2 of them should extra work hard towards providing a good future for their daughter. Stop giving the handouts to the extended family. The wife says you were flaunting, but they asked to see. Next keep the good news to yourself
You’ve learned a valuable lesson the hard way. My mother used to say, “Don’t tell everyone your business.” You opened a can of worms by showing some of your financial records. Your ex and his wife had no right to know the ins and outs of some of your financial dealings. Please, be smarter next time. For now, continue to refuse to be the trough that your ex and his family feel entitled to eat from. Go no contact with anyone who refuses to take no for an answer.
Why would she let him know that? Like show papers and say paid in full? And college fund amount? Just say she bought it. Everyone would assume she has a mortgage still. She’s NTA of course, but now she must deal with that crap.
Well she’s an idiot. Why the hell would she say something and now that everyone knows she needs get her attorney involved the parents can not threaten to take the kids money.
Imo Op needs to make this offer to the ex. Go to court terminate parental rights and she will let him take back all the funds he put into the savings account and Op can replace it with her own salary. Push comes to shove see where the husband's priorities lie and it will paint and incredible clear picture that dad will drop his son for the new family if it means getting money back.
You worked hard and saved up for your own child's future!! Just because they are struggling is not your concern and I wouldn't do anything except get full custody of your son and if he keeps it up he can always pay child support from the court order
Remind step mom and ex they asked her to prove to them you payed things off. Two, what gives them the right to demand money for them and quit pressuring our son to split the money.
Op should never have said anything about her finances. By bragging and showing them the paperwork ahe opened s shit show. There are some things you just keep to yourself and this would have been one of them.
1st mistake was bragging about your money. Now you have ppl coming out of the woodwork that probably would never help you. I would probably open a new account to save for your son bc his dad is greedy. Why would your ex wife help your currents wife's daughter pay for school?
I mean, just cause she’s OP’s “ex niece“ doesn’t actually mean she “can’t“ help her if she WANTS to. HOWEVER!!!! Is she invited to the wedding she’s supposed to help with? Does she still keep in contact with those people? Or is she simply seen as a money machine? If op decided to help, that would be very kind and generous of her, but judging by their entitled behaviour, those people don’t really deserve it…
As soon as you got divorced, your ex’s family and his new wife and her family are legal and genetic strangers to you and you owe them nothing. It’s their job to provide for their families, not yours.
What’s wrong with these people that they think they have some sort of entitlement to the money that any form of acquaintance has. Don’t get me wrong, I am very much a believer in social capitalism but that doesn’t mean that I expect other people to pay for my wedding or put my child through university (though I do very much believe that further education should be government funded/means tested…as does most of Europe at least) but ensuring that there are good social safety nets and government funded programs/incentives via taxation isn’t the same as phoning up someone you have a very tenuous connection to and expecting them to fund either fully or partially something in your life.
I do think you were trying to flaunt ur wealth cuz showing all that paper work n proof was for what? But regardless you are under no obligation to pay for ur ex husband family or wife
@@MayaRY722 still not necessary let’s be honest, she even went as far as showing them d money she has saved for her son too! Let’s be honest she could have said believe me or not that’s your business. Nobody needs to prove anything to anybody honestly
It's funny how people change with wealth which is good for you OP you earned it don't give a penny to these greedy souls
IT IS Not your Family why should you Help them in any way
People stay wanting to spend other peoples money…..why tf would I pay for my sons sister from a different marriage? He wouldn’t do the same if it was the other way around. It still baffles me that people can’t simply reverse a situation and be in the other persons shoes to see their point of view….SHE DONT OWE HIM NOTHING!!!
Not even his real sister. They don't share any parent together. That is his stepdaughter, not blood related.
NTA, they are destroying yours and your son’s peace and sanity, looks like a tight shut up call is much needed for your ex’s family otherwise they will keep on demanding money with entitlement and audacity
Why did they immediately assume she couldn't possibly own the house, even if it wasn't paid in full?
NTA.. the 2 of them should extra work hard towards providing a good future for their daughter. Stop giving the handouts to the extended family. The wife says you were flaunting, but they asked to see.
Next keep the good news to yourself
You’ve learned a valuable lesson the hard way. My mother used to say, “Don’t tell everyone your business.” You opened a can of worms by showing some of your financial records. Your ex and his wife had no right to know the ins and outs of some of your financial dealings. Please, be smarter next time. For now, continue to refuse to be the trough that your ex and his family feel entitled to eat from. Go no contact with anyone who refuses to take no for an answer.
Restraining order may ensueeee
Tell EX that if he continues youll sue him for giving out personal information for personal gain.
Another reason to NEVER let people know you have money.
OP doesn’t owe them! I with all the best to OP and her son hopefully these entitled people leave them alone soon 😢
Why would she let him know that? Like show papers and say paid in full? And college fund amount?
Just say she bought it. Everyone would assume she has a mortgage still.
She’s NTA of course, but now she must deal with that crap.
All come crawling when money is involved
NTA it's your money not theirs you choose what you wanna do with it
It is weird you proved it to them, you didn’t have to prove them anything to them but then again being well off doesn’t make you the AH.
your ex shouldn’t be involved with anything to do with your fincaning and the audacity of that man
This is WHY you NEVER include anyone in your Finances that is your Personal Business and no one else
No what😭! Ppl bright and out of order
NTA. I didn't even hear the story. Just reading the title
Never share your finances with ppl im broke 😂
Thats why you should only flex in a fight argument that is not wile everything is at peace. Because of that
That is ur money u earned it. That's ur son's money.
Well she’s an idiot. Why the hell would she say something and now that everyone knows she needs get her attorney involved the parents can not threaten to take the kids money.
The nerve. The effing nerve!!!!
Imo Op needs to make this offer to the ex. Go to court terminate parental rights and she will let him take back all the funds he put into the savings account and Op can replace it with her own salary. Push comes to shove see where the husband's priorities lie and it will paint and incredible clear picture that dad will drop his son for the new family if it means getting money back.
You worked hard and saved up for your own child's future!!
Just because they are struggling is not your concern and I wouldn't do anything except get full custody of your son and if he keeps it up he can always pay child support from the court order
Remind step mom and ex they asked her to prove to them you payed things off. Two, what gives them the right to demand money for them and quit pressuring our son to split the money.
For those who finished the short 0:56 for overlap 1:00 no overlap
People have no shame
NTA
You never share your finances with anyone especially not family.
Op should never have said anything about her finances. By bragging and showing them the paperwork ahe opened s shit show. There are some things you just keep to yourself and this would have been one of them.
1st mistake was bragging about your money. Now you have ppl coming out of the woodwork that probably would never help you. I would probably open a new account to save for your son bc his dad is greedy. Why would your ex wife help your currents wife's daughter pay for school?
She wasn’t bragging they asked for proof and she showed it
I mean, just cause she’s OP’s “ex niece“ doesn’t actually mean she “can’t“ help her if she WANTS to. HOWEVER!!!! Is she invited to the wedding she’s supposed to help with? Does she still keep in contact with those people? Or is she simply seen as a money machine?
If op decided to help, that would be very kind and generous of her, but judging by their entitled behaviour, those people don’t really deserve it…
NTA but this is definitely gonna damage the kids’ relationship
As soon as you got divorced, your ex’s family and his new wife and her family are legal and genetic strangers to you and you owe them nothing. It’s their job to provide for their families, not yours.
What’s wrong with these people that they think they have some sort of entitlement to the money that any form of acquaintance has. Don’t get me wrong, I am very much a believer in social capitalism but that doesn’t mean that I expect other people to pay for my wedding or put my child through university (though I do very much believe that further education should be government funded/means tested…as does most of Europe at least) but ensuring that there are good social safety nets and government funded programs/incentives via taxation isn’t the same as phoning up someone you have a very tenuous connection to and expecting them to fund either fully or partially something in your life.
HUH you are the ex wife? Why strangers calling you up for money? Weirdos
NTA but the drama is on you.
What’s that? You lost your high paying job?
this guy sucks at subway surfers
I do think you were trying to flaunt ur wealth cuz showing all that paper work n proof was for what? But regardless you are under no obligation to pay for ur ex husband family or wife
She showed them the paperwork because they asked for proof😅
@@MayaRY722 still not necessary let’s be honest, she even went as far as showing them d money she has saved for her son too! Let’s be honest she could have said believe me or not that’s your business. Nobody needs to prove anything to anybody honestly
She is dumb for telling them about the money.
Keep your mouth shut and you won't have a problem.
Nta
Thumbs down for the terrible video
Nta