My Sister Banned Me From Her Wedding, Claiming Her Fiancé Has Feelings For Me. Now...- Reddit Family

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @mzpurplemist
    @mzpurplemist Месяц назад +782

    And you know Johnathan is probably telling EVERYBODY he knows about his crazy ex and her parents and how they abused Op, and how lucky he was not to marry into that.

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 День назад +2

      It's Sad how ppl are so use to abusing u that they forget to be fake nice infront of others 😅karma I've had some ex friends lose relationships and family members over talking trash behind my back after claiming i was a best friend and not having a reason to be mean. They were just jealous like this sister 😅

  • @happilyevernever4289
    @happilyevernever4289 Месяц назад +263

    The parents are bullies, who raised a bully like them. OP should be happy she's not like them. Being the scapegoat atleast has some advantage in that regard. You atleast get to be recognize their awful behaviour and be a good person.

  • @alexanderkelsey-gi4qn
    @alexanderkelsey-gi4qn Месяц назад +394

    “Emily’s always lived in her own world.”
    Exactly. She couldn’t understand the fact that she wasn’t the center of the universe for someone that she really cared about. Children can never truly have an equal relationship with their parents, and she alienated and abused the one person who could have been her equal. Her fiancee evidently DID NOT want a piece of that action.

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  Месяц назад +19

      Absolutely! Emily’s world seemed to revolve around herself, and it’s wild how that mindset ended up costing her so much. Jonathan probably saw those red flags and ran for the hills - who could blame him? It’s amazing how Michelle stood her ground through it all. Do you think Emily will ever wake up to the reality she created, or is she too far gone in her “me-first” mentality?

    • @alexanderkelsey-gi4qn
      @alexanderkelsey-gi4qn Месяц назад +8

      @@RedditFamilyTales She’ll probably move past it eventually. But she’ll have to have a bigger wake-up call. Like not having anyone outside of her parents or getting in serious trouble with the law. Something tells me there’s more to her behavior than what Michele sees.

    • @twiceshy9773
      @twiceshy9773 21 день назад +2

      Well said!! And very true- it seems like the generations stick together, they grew up in the same time/worlds afterall so that makes sense, but yeah, parents and kids can love each other's company and be friendly but they can't be true "friends"- too much obligation, duty, respect, reputation makes the relationship irrevocably unequal🤷‍♀️

  • @phoenixrose9400
    @phoenixrose9400 29 дней назад +100

    Why would she even wanna marry a guy she THINKS has feelings for her sister? Weirdo

    • @allisonstephens1837
      @allisonstephens1837 25 дней назад +7

      Like so many women in the world she IS DESPERATE for a man especially if he's marrying her

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 День назад +1

      ​@@allisonstephens1837exactly 😅I'm a woman rasied with all brothers and I'm disappointed in how most guys don't care but most women are desperate! I avoid ppl now

  • @Piggypiglets
    @Piggypiglets 19 дней назад +23

    The parents were not used to seeing OP treated with general respect that they thought that someone treating her in a respectful manner as someone suspicious

  • @wannabeagoodperson5827
    @wannabeagoodperson5827 Месяц назад +471

    Finally, a story that actually sounds real instead of the novel-like stories.
    Happy for Michelle. And happy for the guy who cancelled the wedding, he's a good guy.

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  Месяц назад +9

      Thank you for your support. Don't forget to like and subscribe for more interesting videos.

    • @oliviadm4160
      @oliviadm4160 Месяц назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @zeinqyn
      @zeinqyn Месяц назад +7

      it is fake though

    • @oliviadm4160
      @oliviadm4160 Месяц назад +13

      @@zeinqyn it could be. But it sounds more real than the other stories on here 🤷‍♀️

    • @yamairad1
      @yamairad1 Месяц назад +11

      Maybe the storyline but not the writing. Nobody talks like this.

  • @staceyrashkin2609
    @staceyrashkin2609 Месяц назад +120

    This is so beyond fucked up. They will call her on the night of the rehearsal wedding when they know full well that she's not there, not coming to the wedding because they all agreed not to invite her. But yet they're still close enough to call her. These people don't understand no contact

  • @amyyaku5022
    @amyyaku5022 Месяц назад +64

    It makes sense that an "outsider" like Johnathan would see how OP was treated and reconsider being a part of the family. Most people wouldn't want to marry someone who mistreats a sibling or family member for no reason. It's just a shame anyone would listen to this story and either victim blame OP or side with Emily for just having a conversation with Johnathan 🤦🏽‍♂️ (also the theory that Johnathan loved OP: if that was true he would've reconnected with OP after breaking off the engagement).
    Also the social anxiety and OP's behavior makes sense since the family have always been bullies. If you have negative experiences with your own family, the first people who are supposed to love you, then how can you handle interactions with others?

    • @monejohn9973
      @monejohn9973 День назад

      He could be the black 🖤 sheep

  • @Leaver81
    @Leaver81 Месяц назад +548

    So this might be one of the only times that the background video took my totally out of the story but that pink frosting cake just looked disgusting and hurt my teeth to watch...

    • @william_suitcase
      @william_suitcase Месяц назад +11

      oh I would've totally eaten that

    • @Lichor2369
      @Lichor2369 Месяц назад +22

      The snake, just the look of it made it not appetizing to me. Cool looking as an art piece not so much a cake.

    • @ContagiousStuff
      @ContagiousStuff Месяц назад +9

      Most of the artsy ones will be horrible

    • @gemmagreene362
      @gemmagreene362 Месяц назад +5

      These videos help me stick to my diet.

    • @eliciabonnie
      @eliciabonnie Месяц назад +2

      Lol yeah those cakes always make me shudder 😂😂 they look pretty but I'd never eat that kind of pastries 😂😂

  • @Hybrid301
    @Hybrid301 Месяц назад +62

    “You must visit The Location, immediately”. I know it’s probably redacted to remain anonymous; but it sounds like OP is a sleeper agent and the Dad is actually their handler and is trying to activate them to carry out the mission.

  • @therainbewavy
    @therainbewavy Месяц назад +296

    Spoiler alert: the sister is enacting narcissistic abuse and the parents are enabling/participants it 💀

    • @SingingSealRiana
      @SingingSealRiana Месяц назад +15

      The parents probably startet it too

    • @CV-2411
      @CV-2411 26 дней назад +14

      Parents are also narcissistic! Trust me, I have a family exactly like this and that little schemer is 10 years younger than me!

    • @michellegodwin6567
      @michellegodwin6567 21 день назад +1

      I mean, yeah, they're all like that. We want our repetitive dramatic slop, goddamnit!

    • @XX_MATTHEWS_ROOTBEER_XX
      @XX_MATTHEWS_ROOTBEER_XX 6 дней назад

      That’s like every story that’s posted 😭🙏

    • @CV-2411
      @CV-2411 6 дней назад

      @@XX_MATTHEWS_ROOTBEER_XX it took me 50 years to unaccept bring a people pleaser to my family, especially my younger sister and then they all gaslighted me. Now I'm happy for the first time in my life after telling them not to contact me or expect any physical help from me

  • @shadowcollins4589
    @shadowcollins4589 17 дней назад +8

    If you think your partner has feelings for someone else
    WHY ARE YOU STILL GONNA MARRY HIM!

  • @Poisonwc
    @Poisonwc Месяц назад +100

    Were I OP: When Emily said "I'm not inviting you to the wedding". I'd have said "OK, bye." and hung up.

  • @EllyzGoodwill
    @EllyzGoodwill Месяц назад +288

    Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.

    • @SERIKAmrabat
      @SERIKAmrabat Месяц назад +2

      I’m dealing with major relationship troubles and can’t stand the idea of losing her. I love and miss my partner deeply and am ready to do anything to bring her back. Any advice or support you could provide would be sincerely appreciated.

    • @EllyzGoodwill
      @EllyzGoodwill Месяц назад +2

      Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @SERIKAmrabat
      @SERIKAmrabat Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.

    • @EllyzGoodwill
      @EllyzGoodwill Месяц назад +1

      I promise you will not regret it.

    • @victoriag5368
      @victoriag5368 29 дней назад +2

      This is a bot

  • @1t3_ist_Azrael
    @1t3_ist_Azrael 25 дней назад +8

    Jonathan left her because of the way Emily treats OP not because OP didn't go to the dinner

  • @Famine2021
    @Famine2021 Месяц назад +179

    Wouldn't it be funny if the OP was actually a lesbian this whole time 😂

    • @66DoodleGal
      @66DoodleGal Месяц назад +33

      That would probably make them hate her more

    • @emsley6840
      @emsley6840 Месяц назад +31

      Nah, I think her ending up with Johnathan would be the funniest ending 😂

    • @michellefinn2933
      @michellefinn2933 Месяц назад +11

      I think the only thing better is another day in the future that her and Jonathan get together and get married LOL😂😅

    • @michellefinn2933
      @michellefinn2933 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@emsley6840 Yes Yes Yes...love this!!

    • @zambekiller
      @zambekiller 29 дней назад +6

      ​@@emsley6840 eh not really because then the sister would have legitimate proof that OP was trying to steal her ex-boyfriend

  • @Shines-x_hM9.7qz
    @Shines-x_hM9.7qz Месяц назад +47

    Congratulations 🎊 to your freedom from toxic family members 💐

  • @Skylar-lh5np
    @Skylar-lh5np Месяц назад +38

    I see how Emily can think op is trying to take her man but on the other hand op is not trying to do that and Emily’s man could just be a good person and might want to just include op because her actually sees how abused she is😢

  • @Yoriichi392
    @Yoriichi392 20 дней назад +13

    I would’ve gone to that location, tell Johnathan about what Emily asked in front of my family’s faces and then leave bluntly.

  • @SingingSealRiana
    @SingingSealRiana Месяц назад +20

    My broyher and I are not close, but he would very likely stop a wedding if he felt me disrespected and targeted, as well as break up woth someone who treats their sibling like that for no good reason.
    If you cant treat others with basic human decency, thats a huge red flag and is absolutely a reason to not marry you

  • @Asher-sins
    @Asher-sins 29 дней назад +13

    The fact op didn’t cut contacts yet is a miracle im rn at 4:59

  • @joelkorhonen3170
    @joelkorhonen3170 Месяц назад +25

    12:57 I did laugh a bit for the part of not cleaning other people's crap while the cake in the background looks like one lol.

  • @AmethystEyes
    @AmethystEyes 27 дней назад +8

    I love it when the good guys win!

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  27 дней назад

      Me too! There's nothing more satisfying than seeing justice served and the good guys coming out on top!

    • @CV-2411
      @CV-2411 26 дней назад

      They always do, even though sometimes a little late. Like I did after 50 years!!!

  • @diannaloftis3890
    @diannaloftis3890 24 дня назад +5

    I enjoyed this story very much. It's hard to live with family that have preset beliefs when it has to do with health or mental issues. Thank goodness she found answers and treatment.

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  24 дня назад

      Glad to hear that from you 😘 Thank you so much😘

  • @baewuxian
    @baewuxian 18 дней назад +4

    The parents and emily are such bullies to op that they thought Johnathan treating op with basic courtesy was hik flirting with her 😭

  • @nerdygeekgamer5528
    @nerdygeekgamer5528 22 дня назад +5

    I'm so glad someone was kind to OP and that the man who would have been her BIL saw the FOREST THROUGH THE TREES on how they treated the poor thing I pray he's found someone more deserving of his LOVE and GENEROSITY and good on OP for getting the best revenge living her best life

  • @relz-witty
    @relz-witty 20 дней назад +4

    the "crap" at 12:57 was well timed lol

  • @imaginaryfriend8260
    @imaginaryfriend8260 19 дней назад +3

    It’s really sad they had to live in a family with no love like that. Kinda reminds me of moving in with my aunt.

  • @rachelhamilton8669
    @rachelhamilton8669 Месяц назад +17

    Who else is obsessed with the snake cake?

  • @pixie8653
    @pixie8653 Месяц назад +33

    You must visit the location immediately??? LOL!! Who makes up this stuff?

    • @artshowcreeper1978
      @artshowcreeper1978 Месяц назад +9

      It's to keep anonymity, as not to say, the actual location

    • @JustLikeAFlower
      @JustLikeAFlower Месяц назад +2

      Probably someone who’s first language is not English

    • @tifadreamers
      @tifadreamers 29 дней назад +4

      the original dialogue probably said "You must visit (the location) immediately" as if OP redacted the real venue's name to keep anonymity but the AI voice and text ruined it

  • @DailyRedditStories1208
    @DailyRedditStories1208 5 дней назад +1

    what an intriguing video! i really appreciate the way you unpacked such a complicated family dynamic. personally, i can’t help but wonder if there’s more to the story than what we see on the surface. maybe the sister’s reaction is a bit overboard? i think communication could've really cleared things up.

  • @RedditPlum
    @RedditPlum Месяц назад +25

    My face during this: 👁👄👁

  • @cemiller
    @cemiller Месяц назад +19

    Me: *listens stone faced*
    Me at 10:32-10:49: is that a Stitch Cake?!

  • @AFish2297
    @AFish2297 17 дней назад +1

    at every point "good girl, I'm so proud of you"

  • @rachelhamilton8669
    @rachelhamilton8669 Месяц назад +11

    Is it just me, or are do all of the Reddit stories in these videos just sound so formal and novel-like compared to other Reddit stories that I don’t believe they’re real?

  • @michellefinn2933
    @michellefinn2933 Месяц назад +6

    This girl's life literally could have been mine! The only time that I felt truly free of my biological mother was when I found out she was dead! Her last screw you to me was putting in her will that she only had one daughter, my half-sister! And ironically enough my name is Michelle as well! But my screw you to all of them, no matter how much money they had No matter what things they ended up with, I am much happier without them living a very happy fruitful and financially secure life and never have to deal with them and their Drama and condescending attitudes ever again! The frosting on the cake, my half-sister is well let's just say, not doing so well LOL and I love it

  • @fuzziebunnie83
    @fuzziebunnie83 20 дней назад +4

    I haven’t seen my mom in 10 years and to clarify, she’s technically my stepmom but she’s been there since I was five. I don’t think she really cares.

  • @TaleToast
    @TaleToast 5 дней назад

    great video! you've really captured the complexity of family dynamics here. but honestly, it seems a bit extreme for your sister to ban you from her wedding over this. like, shouldn't she trust you enough to have an open conversation about it instead of just cutting you off? feels like there’s more to the story that we’re missing.

  • @moniquethong798
    @moniquethong798 22 дня назад +2

    I would have recorded it all in social media and call it out for everyone to see 😂😂😂 coz public shaming does work on narcissists.

  • @Elegantwoes
    @Elegantwoes 2 дня назад +2

    I find it highly disturbing that Emily thinks that someone treating OP with basic respect and kindness is a sign of Jonathan being in love with OP. That should show you just how little respect and care Emily thinks OP should get. Emily was so used to her parents treated so poorly that anything out of ordinary of that is a deceleration of love. What a sick person. I pity poor OP 😢

  • @RealLifeThread
    @RealLifeThread 5 дней назад

    i really enjoyed this video and appreciate the way you shared your experience. honestly though, i can't help but think that it’s a bit dramatic for your sister to ban you over a misunderstanding. isn’t it possible that her fiancé just sees you as a sibling figure? it seems like there might be more to this story than meets the eye.

  • @khadijihgore3316
    @khadijihgore3316 Месяц назад +9

    So I was initially on her sisters side. I’m the youngest too and I was think the misunderstanding was from the fact that she is younger and they older family members are not very understanding when you are going through things that they’ve already experienced. I also thought it was crazy that the boyfriend called off the wedding, because of her sister how was he with her all that time without any problems. However her family not taking her diagnosis seriously was the worse and the vandalism was wild

  • @williamsclay-i2k
    @williamsclay-i2k 7 дней назад +3

    she's mad because he actually respects you and she dose not

  • @DreamyBlox0812
    @DreamyBlox0812 5 дней назад

    this video was really intriguing and well put together, i appreciate the perspective shared. that being said, i can't help but think that if the fiancé truly has feelings for you, maybe your sister should reconsider who she's marrying. it’s a pretty complicated situation, right?

  • @StoryScroll689
    @StoryScroll689 2 часа назад

    this video was really engaging and definitely gave a unique perspective on family dynamics. i can’t help but wonder though, is it possible that your sister is overreacting? i mean, sometimes jealousy can come out of nowhere, but it seems a bit drastic to ban you from a big event like a wedding. just my two cents!

  • @professionalinsomniac8338
    @professionalinsomniac8338 29 дней назад +3

    Stop how dare you 😭 that’s not fair. I’m trying to lose weight. Swear I just gained 20 pounds watching this 😭

  • @dessipoo9915
    @dessipoo9915 15 дней назад

    And the entire family would’ve been sued for harassment oh my gosh not just the sister😭

  • @Storylinesphere1208
    @Storylinesphere1208 5 дней назад

    Wow, what a captivating story! I really appreciate how you shared your experience so honestly. But honestly, I can't help but wonder if there's more to this situation. I mean, could it be possible that your sister is overreacting a bit? I get that relationships can be tricky, but banning someone from a wedding seems like a pretty drastic measure. Just my two cents!

  • @pgk3052
    @pgk3052 Месяц назад +10

    I really want some cake!!😂

  • @TalesUnfolded48
    @TalesUnfolded48 4 часа назад

    what an intriguing video, really well done! i found the whole situation kind of wild. i mean, it’s understandable that your sister wants to protect her relationship, but banning you from her wedding seems a bit extreme. don’t we all have friends who might feel closer, and that shouldn’t necessarily be a red flag? it just feels like there’s more to the story here. what do you all think?

  • @DailyRedditStories1208
    @DailyRedditStories1208 5 дней назад

    really enjoyed this video, it had a lot of interesting insights. but honestly, I can't help but think that if your sister is that insecure about her fiancé, maybe that's a sign she should reconsider the relationship. feelings can get complicated, and I wonder if she’s just overreacting or if there's something more going on. what do you all think?

  • @Wizardof
    @Wizardof 10 дней назад +1

    THis AcCount HaS BEEn SuspenDED

  • @magnoliaflower3310
    @magnoliaflower3310 13 дней назад

    It's good that the guy didn't marry the red flag.

  • @CustomReads
    @CustomReads 5 дней назад

    this video was really intriguing and brought up a lot of interesting points. but honestly, i can't help but think that if the fiancé didn't have feelings for you, why would your sister be worried in the first place? seems like there might be some underlying issues in their relationship that need to be addressed. just my opinion!

  • @MythicMoments2222
    @MythicMoments2222 Час назад

    great video, really enjoyed your insights! but honestly, i find it a bit hard to believe that the fiancé would have feelings for you. i mean, isn’t it a stretch to think he’d risk everything by being involved in family drama like that?

  • @Doyougettejavu
    @Doyougettejavu 13 дней назад

    Oh, so its her sister's fault that her guy likes her? Even if the guy liked OP, Emily should have dumped the guy first, then hold the sister accountable...

  • @brooklyn3147
    @brooklyn3147 3 дня назад

    No one believes these are real, right? They’re too well written to be someone genuinely reacting to a real, highly emotional, situation

  • @TaleThreads-w7u
    @TaleThreads-w7u 10 часов назад

    this video was really interesting and well put together! i have to say, though, i find it a bit hard to believe that the fiancé would actually have feelings for you if the relationship was serious. it makes me wonder if there might be more going on behind the scenes. have you considered talking to your sister directly about it?

  • @jowieman1960
    @jowieman1960 25 дней назад

    I AM SO HAPPY FOR HER!!!

  • @CapybaraStories-f7w
    @CapybaraStories-f7w 5 дней назад

    Wow, what a captivating video! You really brought the story to life. Honestly, though, I can't help but think the sister might be overreacting. I mean, if her fiancé was really that interested, wouldn’t he have made a move already? Feels like there's a lot of unnecessary drama here. What do you all think?

  • @SwaggerChiick1
    @SwaggerChiick1 Месяц назад +5

    Why not just have a "short stories" RUclips page? Why try to pass this off as real?
    The story may be realistic, but the way it's written makes it clear that it is fiction.

  • @Sup3rnal
    @Sup3rnal 17 дней назад

    Us whenever you guys say this is your favourite so far:
    Wait till you see episode xxxxxxxx
    Buffy & Angel are one of the ultimates. It ruined a lot of shows for me.

  • @Legallykonigswife
    @Legallykonigswife Месяц назад +3

    12:57 12:58 the video's timing ....LOL-

  • @SaraDominguez-d7p
    @SaraDominguez-d7p 29 дней назад +1

    this video was really well done and I appreciate the way you approached such a sensitive topic. but honestly, it's hard not to think that there's more to the story here. maybe the sister is just overreacting, or could it be that she knows something we don't? relationships can be complicated, and sometimes it feels like people jump to conclusions too quickly. curious to hear what others think!

  • @CustomReads
    @CustomReads 5 дней назад

    this video was really engaging and brought up some interesting points. but i have to say, i’m a bit surprised by the sister's reaction. if her fiancé is genuinely just friends with you, banning you seems pretty extreme and maybe stems from jealousy. what do you all think?

  • @RRelationshipTales
    @RRelationshipTales 10 часов назад

    this video was really engaging and sparked a lot of thoughts, thanks for sharing! that being said, I can't help but wonder if the sister is being a bit overdramatic. I mean, people can have close friendships without it meaning anything romantic, right? it feels like she's letting insecurities dictate her big day. what do you all think?

  • @Sagasofbetrayal
    @Sagasofbetrayal 5 дней назад

    this video is really well-made and brings up some interesting points. but honestly, i think the sister might be overreacting a bit. if her fiancé truly loves her, why would he have feelings for someone else? it seems a bit dramatic to cut off family ties over assumptions. can’t help but feel there's more to the story!

  • @SpunByStories-q6u
    @SpunByStories-q6u 10 часов назад

    great video! really well done and interesting story. but honestly, i can’t help but feel that the sister might be overreacting a bit. i mean, if her fiancé has feelings for you, wouldn’t it be better to talk it out instead of cutting you off? seems like communication could clear this up. what do you all think?

  • @KoalaTales
    @KoalaTales 5 дней назад

    great video, really enjoyed the perspective you shared! but honestly, I can't help but think that the sister might be overreacting. i mean, if there's no actual evidence of feelings, it seems a bit extreme to ban someone from a wedding. relationships are complicated, and trust is key, right?

  • @StorySpins-t2e
    @StorySpins-t2e 10 часов назад

    this video is really engaging and the storytelling is on point. however, I can't help but feel that the sister might be overreacting a bit. like, it's important to trust your family, and if there's no real reason to doubt the fiancé, maybe she should reconsider her stance. what do you all think?

  • @mindfulbees6638
    @mindfulbees6638 21 день назад +1

    I hope this isn't an AI generated story (there's some weird perspective shifts that happen randomly and some other things) because family stuff like this happens in real life and it's INSANE.

  • @junbun3642
    @junbun3642 18 дней назад

    Switched off phone but notifications still come…

  • @williamsclay-i2k
    @williamsclay-i2k 7 дней назад

    she's made because she's not the center of attion once

  • @Glowflower_16
    @Glowflower_16 29 дней назад

    My wife wouldn’t let me come to OUR wedding 😭😭😭

  • @xoxogarrielle
    @xoxogarrielle День назад

    OP is better than me I would’ve went and dated the ex fiancé🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @MccallonPrime
    @MccallonPrime 25 дней назад

    great video! it’s really interesting to see family dynamics play out like this. honestly though, i can’t help but think there’s more to the story. maybe the sister is overreacting, but it makes me wonder if there’s any truth to the fiancé’s feelings. wouldn’t that be quite the twist?

  • @PandaNarratives
    @PandaNarratives 4 часа назад

    I really enjoyed watching this video! It was so well put together and the storytelling was engaging. However, I can't help but think that the sister might be overreacting a bit. I mean, isn't it a little extreme to ban someone from a wedding based on feelings that may not even be there? It seems like clear communication could've solved this, but instead, emotions just spiraled out of control. Just my two cents!

  • @TaleToast
    @TaleToast 5 дней назад

    this video was really well put together, and i appreciate how you tackled such a sensitive topic. but honestly, i kind of feel like your sister might be overreacting. it’s pretty common for siblings to have close bonds, and her fiancé shouldn’t have to suffer for that. i mean, if there’s no evidence of anything untoward, maybe she needs to rethink her stance? just my two cents!

  • @StorySpins-t2e
    @StorySpins-t2e 10 часов назад

    great video, really well done! but honestly, I think it's kind of unfair to ban someone from a wedding just because of a possible misunderstanding. like, can’t they just have an honest conversation? it feels a bit dramatic, don’t you think?

  • @dianesinger9729
    @dianesinger9729 28 дней назад

    I hope you sue the family

  • @PandaNarratives
    @PandaNarratives 4 часа назад

    this video was really engaging and you did a great job bringing the story to life. but honestly, i find it hard to believe that the sister could ban you just for something that seems so hypothetical. like, isn't it a bit extreme? if there's no real evidence of feelings, maybe she should consider talking it out instead of shutting you out completely. just my two cents!

  • @williamsclay-i2k
    @williamsclay-i2k 7 дней назад

    if theyy want to come to your wedding say no

  • @hilliardgirl6147
    @hilliardgirl6147 День назад

    Go op for bringing the law into it...thats not harmless pranks.

  • @susandaniels1814
    @susandaniels1814 Месяц назад +4

    I want cake!!!

  • @TaleThreads-w7u
    @TaleThreads-w7u 10 часов назад

    hey, this video was really captivating, and I appreciate the perspective shared. but I have to say, I wonder if the sister's decision is a bit over the top. I mean, relationships can be complicated, but banning family seems extreme, doesn't it? what if the fiancé genuinely sees the sister as a sister? it just feels like there might be more going on behind the scenes.

  • @OravetzWoodlock
    @OravetzWoodlock 29 дней назад

    great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! however, i can't help but wonder if the sister's reaction is a bit extreme. like, isn't it possible to have a close relationship with a sibling without it being romantic? seems a bit over the top to ban someone from a wedding based on assumptions.

  • @taetannim3581
    @taetannim3581 26 дней назад

    Okay, but that clown cake- why did decorator miss the chance to make sad!clown or scary!clown face on the opposite side from happy!clown face?! Whole undecorated side of a cake there, man!

  • @stephaniestreeter7407
    @stephaniestreeter7407 24 дня назад

    You don't have to it's there problem not yours

  • @ghostzombie6397
    @ghostzombie6397 Месяц назад +1

    This all sounds like a lie

  • @nataliereeves3594
    @nataliereeves3594 17 дней назад

    They got insecure because he had more in common with op than emily, so they dubbled down on their bad treatment. Now karma is bitting them in the but.

  • @hereiam8367
    @hereiam8367 Месяц назад +1

    I don’t understand these stories. They start with, there was nothing wrong we were not just close. We had different interests and blah blah blah. Then after telling the drama, they start with the whole shitload of bullying n basically neglect by their parents. Like what the hell happened to there was nothing wrong between us.

  • @PrincessLily84
    @PrincessLily84 22 дня назад

    Part 1 (before the wedding) was good. Part 2 was so damn boring.

  • @thunderpants3500
    @thunderpants3500 Месяц назад

    Anyone else get a headache from the background cakes?

  • @Spacemanct
    @Spacemanct Месяц назад +1

    Ether, tell the back story first or not at all. I don't care what the back story is halfway through the post.

  • @baidurirazak5821
    @baidurirazak5821 26 дней назад

    20.05am 😂

  • @bohronelisabeth8245
    @bohronelisabeth8245 Месяц назад +15

    Autism.

    • @Deadchoji
      @Deadchoji Месяц назад

      Real

    • @william_suitcase
      @william_suitcase Месяц назад

      me fr

    • @therainbewavy
      @therainbewavy Месяц назад +3

      Ableism and scapegoating too

    • @SingingSealRiana
      @SingingSealRiana Месяц назад

      My thought too, how she describes the disconnect with her family, the anxiety and all, sounds very much like an autistic kid in a neurotypical family that choses to alienate them.

    • @inferiorinferno8859
      @inferiorinferno8859 25 дней назад

      No, social anxiety and autism aren't the same thing.

  • @anymous8407
    @anymous8407 Месяц назад +3

    Yeah he definitely has a thing for op

    • @RavenSutcliffe
      @RavenSutcliffe Месяц назад +11

      For talking to her politely?? Or for calling off the wedding once he realized that his fiance was an abuser??

    • @tifadreamers
      @tifadreamers 29 дней назад

      being kind to people means they have a feelings for them? as if he didn't see it as "oh she's going to be my family one day so I'll treat her like a sister too"? or did you not think that perhaps he just wanted nothing to do with someone who is capable of hurting and abusing her own family?

    • @anymous8407
      @anymous8407 27 дней назад

      @@RavenSutcliffe the word abuser has lost all meaning at this stage lol

    • @anymous8407
      @anymous8407 27 дней назад

      @@tifadreamers the word lost all meaning

    • @RavenSutcliffe
      @RavenSutcliffe 27 дней назад +2

      ​@@anymous8407aight I'm literally just not going to have a conversation with someone who apparently thinks emotional abuse is not a thing

  • @blatherskitenoir
    @blatherskitenoir Месяц назад +16

    Emily likely thought the OP was trying steal her boyfriend because the anti-social, never leaves her room or talks to people, OP was happily chatting and eagerly interacting with Jonathan, when she has never behaved that way with any other guest, ever, and usually avoids guests like the plague. OP's responses to her sister's accusations are weird and dismissive, and likely escalated everything. Like claiming that this dude she ONE TIME "trusts her" more than his girlfriend/fiancee? Finally, what sort of medication is she on that someone with severe, diagnosed, social anxiety is totally fine and calm after her entire social network of extended family and acquaintances turns on her? And then she starts getting stalked/ harassed? And then has to go through an entire lawsuit, against her family, all while losing freelance jobs? That has got to be some seriously strong stuff. I get that she feels bullied and, yes, Emily definitely went too far in the end, but the OP honestly sounds like a bit of an insufferable twit.

    • @JovianRain
      @JovianRain Месяц назад

      🤷🏼

    • @aphelion4616
      @aphelion4616 Месяц назад +33

      Way to victim blame.

    • @Maggie-h1j
      @Maggie-h1j Месяц назад +8

      ​​They no doubt are an attention seeking narcissists and another golden child who can only see the world through their perspective. No ability to feel empathy.

    • @gumihou7802
      @gumihou7802 Месяц назад +2

      Wow, okay

    • @SingingSealRiana
      @SingingSealRiana Месяц назад +9

      .... Op did not sound anti social though, she sounded like she gave up after getting pushed away all the time and he just happened to be the only decent person in their vecinity inyeracting normal with her.
      Yeah, I would also be desmissiv and find the acusation hilarious that talking like normal people made that sister insanly and irrationally jalouse.... Like my brother likes when I and his girlfriends get along, even through he and I are not close...
      What was she supposed to do? Cover and appologise cause she did polite conversation with the only person not scapegoating her?
      There is no reason to play into her sisters paranoia

  • @IsabellaCosam
    @IsabellaCosam Месяц назад

    12:46

  • @redditCHRONICLES_710
    @redditCHRONICLES_710 25 дней назад

    😮