Do not Entertain Men who Ghost you | Tony Gaskins

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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 35

  • @Hilary945
    @Hilary945 14 дней назад +5

    When a man reveals his fruits to you, do not take it personally. He isn't telling you who you are, he is telling you who he is.

  • @shakenia54
    @shakenia54 Год назад +41

    Ghosting is so childish.No matter
    what's his reason is.Just straight up say
    How you feel.And move on.Some men
    are emotionally damaged and love sick
    over their ex and use women for temporary bandaids.Watch out for those kind also.

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Год назад +2

      So you didn't listen to the video. This is why women find themselves in bad realionships. Men have very different reasons why they make certain decisions. If you don't focus on you vs. trying to control men on how they make their decisions, you will always end up in bad relationships.

    • @mariaclarke5279
      @mariaclarke5279 Год назад +1

      This is what recently happen to me 😢

    • @Stormy867
      @Stormy867 Год назад +2

      It happened to me, now their engaged with baby on way

  • @staciadavis3714
    @staciadavis3714 Год назад +19

    How about just saying "It's not working for me. Or I'm not ready for this relationship. Or I met someone else. He doesn't have to be mean. But ghosting hurts very deeply.

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic Год назад +23

    I called him out..thats why he ghosted me thank gosh I didn't waste any more of my emotional needs..the time I was gonna spend with him I poured it right back into myself.

  • @osunyeye
    @osunyeye Год назад +15

    Ghosting is annoying but to me it is closure. Loved this video. ❤

  • @timewithruby
    @timewithruby Год назад +13

    So true! The longest I went without sex was 3 years going towards four years.

  • @forgiven904
    @forgiven904 4 дня назад

    Im going through this now but its hard after being together 2yrs, it hurts but im praying for strength tho let go

  • @iRespectMen
    @iRespectMen 23 дня назад +1

    We don't need to know exactly why they lost interest. The issue is ghosting screams you are not worthy of an explanation. We are human beings and if anything, we should treat people as such and stop being disrespectful. If they are afraid of confrontation or are avoiding a difficult conversation, can't they text? At least that way, they don't see your pain etc
    So that whole thing of not wanting to hurt women hence why they ghost.... I'm not buying it because they could easily send a text.

  • @tarasteward3271
    @tarasteward3271 Год назад +13

    A man doesn't have to state a reason.he can say: " i won't come out anymore, i just wanted to let you know I do not want to waste your time".that's it! They always mask their behaviour with - they don't want to hurt you with words etc. But ghosting hurts more.so that is just another bullshiii reason.
    So my advice would be do not answer ghoster's text messages,do not talk to them even if they come up to you on the street.treat them like a ghost! That's it!

    • @staciadavis3714
      @staciadavis3714 Год назад +4

      Agreed.

    • @queensun6059
      @queensun6059 Год назад +4

      💯% agree! him being a coward. ghosting me. hurt so bad 😭. but i made it thru🥳. he called. didn't answer. bc i got nothing
      to say bc he's a ghost👸. & i pray i never see him but like u said. if i do. he's an invisible grown boy!

    • @ShyBabyxoxo
      @ShyBabyxoxo Месяц назад

      Right why not just simply say I don’t want to continue forward with this. Period the end. No need to give an explanation.

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 19 дней назад

    Tony is awesome 👏 and the best s great husband father very involved and always working

  • @queensun6059
    @queensun6059 Год назад +6

    👹ghosting is proof he's evil, mean, dirty & beyond disrespectful 😈. never give that grown-boy a 2nd chance to hurt 😢u😞😌!

  • @rhut579
    @rhut579 Год назад +5

    Tony, Incidentally, I like this background versus the all black wall. More importantly, thank you for your kindness and explanations.

  • @larav6886
    @larav6886 Год назад +2

    So true I had my first experience and it was good riddance I am meeting better men not boys. ❤😊

  • @tiffaneysearcy9073
    @tiffaneysearcy9073 Год назад +9

    Everything said was on Pont but if every man you meet is most likely not 100 percent single and is in a situationship and is sleeping with another woman or women then what options do us women really have?

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Год назад +6

      You keep your lege padlocked until you walk down the aisle. You keep your requirements very clear and hole onto your boundaries.

    • @thelookout5802
      @thelookout5802 Год назад +4

      Not every man surely...🤔just find out early on and move on.. make friends with more than one man. Not sleeping with them, being friends, and if they bring up sex, you just let them know you aren't ready..

    • @Treebee6009
      @Treebee6009 Год назад

      True love is much more rare than we know, sis.

  • @love19851
    @love19851 Год назад +3

    Facts! This was a great video!

  • @angelalynn4225
    @angelalynn4225 Год назад +1

    Thank you Tony.Blessings

  • @ShonellisMusicEntertainment
    @ShonellisMusicEntertainment Год назад +1

    All facts!!!💯💯💯💯💯

  • @user-kr2yp5mc8s
    @user-kr2yp5mc8s Год назад

    Tony my bf left after 7 years. After he was getting out of rehab I deal with a lot He left everything everything in my possession. He wants to be in my social media not sure why

  • @michellemmarquez5519
    @michellemmarquez5519 Год назад +8

    PLEASE STOP USING THE WORD retarded to describing certain mental issues? The term perfered at this time is mentally challenge or mentally delayed. UT really appropriate or nice to call those. Who are like that. I'm sure you didn't mean any harm by it. But just to let you know for future reference. Love your videos! God bless!

    • @keilahlondon2014
      @keilahlondon2014 Год назад +3

      I really have a question regarding that term. Why is that term offensive? Genuinely asking I know they say it has something to do with special needs but I would think it would be offensive to call someone that has special needs that right? Why is it offensive to br used at all

    • @christiansabstainingformar8079
      @christiansabstainingformar8079  Год назад

      Thank you. The original video was posted two years ago, this is a repost. The wording has certainly changed as people are now openly talking about mental health issues 🙏🏽

  • @AndreiFantastic
    @AndreiFantastic Год назад

    Is this channel associated with Tony gaskins ?

    • @christiansabstainingformar8079
      @christiansabstainingformar8079  Год назад +3

      I am a certified Tony Gaskins Life Coach and this channel posts short videos and quotes from influencers and the Bible that encourage Godly relationships with the main aim of abstaining until marriage.
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