I think I'm gonna just stay single. Just don't want to deal with crap like this... I need someone that's mature and knows what he wants. I got things to do...
This part ~~~> "You have to be willing to protect yourself even when it feels like you're depriving yourself, bc a lot of the time what you want doesn't deserve you, even if what you want would feel good if you had it." 💯💥 Been there, lived this. 🙁
He confuses me with telling me he wants me to be happy. Maybe we can be friends, not my intention to hurt you, but yet he continues with all these red flags, makes promises. Shuts his phone off. Gets jealous if I take steps to open up my horizons, wanted me to stretch my boundaries.
What happened to integrity, morals and values, theses days people don't understand self respect...I give you credit for speaking up about this....👏 not many men would speak up...thank you 💞 much love and light 💯
Wheeeew; I was the 'waiter' off and on for three years however once I finally decided to go no contact heaven and earth has been moved but glory be to God I have not reacted at all and dodging the hoovers as if they were covid! Breaking the dysfunction; moving forward and healing!🦋
😅 i started dating outside my race last few year. I've dated a few black men and they have been my worst experiences. I get why alot of black women are so strong and independent. They make you that way ❤
Oh my god!! They even get MARRIED and try to come back!! Like what the hell Big D! He should have kept me on his hip like a holster when he had the chance. Obviously, he didn't realize the "KEEPER" I am....umm his lost!!😄
Thank you derrick I did the 5am class and I wanna tell you how everyday I'm GOING to call my pops to let him no how thankful I am some times you have to go threw bad experience to appreciate your parents 36 years of marriage also who you or as a female and how people would try to make you look bad for not giving up on trying to make it work in the moment while I'm going threw this I'm taking it all as a lesson unselfishly I been saying if I'm not the right one at least I rather leave a memory that well one day help him wake up also the class helped me with making sure I pure beautiful experience into my daughter so shes able to separate what is and isn't the class to me was gods divine plan it's god me my daughter then a men if marriage come god my husband then my kids thank you so much
Thank you for the clarity on this. So, I did the right thing and killed the damn thing. Shot it right between the eye's😄 now let's keep moving and bury the dead, heal while we at it to. Ask mama earth for forgiveness.
Can you make a video on why men leave, thinkin they can get better and then end up with younger girls.. like 15 yrs younger, is that insecurity and just a mid life crisis..
I love you derrick until now he gosht him and block me im just like talking a wall im a good woman i love your all podcast i really appreciate you derrick ❤️♥️💖all your podcast
I lobve my ghost i love him so much but im hurting for 2 years i tried to leave but i couldnt i wanna go but i wonder if im gonna forget i just love him i wonder if im ever find love again
It’s awful being in these scenarios. You love them and it’s a mess wanting them not knowing if they will eventually come to senses or are they going to play this game their whole life. If they are just having fun in young years or just disinterested. But I found this generation is a lot of men who don’t know what they want and alot of disconnect of people
Yeah. Men all have the resources to have women in multiple states and multiple countries and has the resources to float many women at the same time. I call BS. But do I think men will play games? That’s like asking if the day is long. Just accept he is playing games. He is not ready but loves knowing she is interested.
If you ghost me...you stay gone.
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
yep!
Right 👍
Amen
IKR
He can’t get nothing better. When your the best thing happened to him in the first place
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I've been ghosted 3 times they all came back. Each text twice I ignored EVERY LAST ONE. I'm not an option. PEACE ✌
I think I'm gonna just stay single. Just don't want to deal with crap like this... I need someone that's mature and knows what he wants. I got things to do...
That part!
💯
Me too
You said nothing but the TRUTH!!!! Smdh 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️💯💯💯
That's what I'm saying.
Best response, I used was "there's nothing for you to pursue here", always shocked and effective.
Love that!
This part ~~~> "You have to be willing to protect yourself even when it feels like you're depriving yourself, bc a lot of the time what you want doesn't deserve you, even if what you want would feel good if you had it." 💯💥 Been there, lived this. 🙁
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
He confuses me with telling me he wants me to be happy. Maybe we can be friends, not my intention to hurt you, but yet he continues with all these red flags, makes promises. Shuts his phone off. Gets jealous if I take steps to open up my horizons, wanted me to stretch my boundaries.
Even if I have to walk this journey alone. No more runners/ ghosters
Lisa....Lisa...girrrl you said a mouth FULL, you hear me! Team Lisa everybody, team Lisa!🤛🏼
Team Lisa 🤜🤛
I will NOT accept any thing less... Progress is my mission...Moving forward
That's what we have to do,love ourselves and get up from a table that's not serving love and respect.
A healthy self-esteem, standards, and boundaries will keep you out of this type of mess. Stay safe, Queens.
Because he burned bridges with all of his other options.
When someone ghost you Respect the dead !
I deserve to be loved properly
Absolutely I feel the same way..
What happened to integrity, morals and values, theses days people don't understand self respect...I give you credit for speaking up about this....👏 not many men would speak up...thank you 💞 much love and light 💯
I'm a walker,period, people say I'm mean because I will walk away from anyone and anything that doesn't bring me peace and respect 💯
Wheeeew; I was the 'waiter' off and on for three years however once I finally decided to go no contact heaven and earth has been moved but glory be to God I have not reacted at all and dodging the hoovers as if they were covid! Breaking the dysfunction; moving forward and healing!🦋
To be fair... it's mostly black men that behave this way. I'm dating other races seriously and they are not like this.
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Exactly, I wonder what it is
It doesn't matter what race. Broken narcissistic men come in all races. I know of many white guys that are like this.
So true
😅 i started dating outside my race last few year. I've dated a few black men and they have been my worst experiences. I get why alot of black women are so strong and independent. They make you that way ❤
Yes you so right it's better to be alone.
I was ghosted. This frog fell off the face of the earth..
One and done..
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Thank you for this confirmation. I just recently became a walker...
There is something in the water 💧 or maybe he’s just a Virgo… but I’m done with the ghosting it’s so disrespectful. 👁🦂😱
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ.
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Dating pool is tainted I think with c-dif ugh
Yup mine is Virgo too
Virgo did the same to me
Derrick I just adore how your so real.
I just woke up. I was a waiter, thank you! This is the most life changing video for me
Now I know how the end of the world will happen. Eventually Nobody is going to want to be with each other.
😅👌👌👌
We are behaving awfully to each other 😢
I'm now really scared of men and dating.......
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now! Thank you 💚💚💚
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Same 💚
This channel is gold!
This jus happened to me. I thought we was good
Exactly you’re speaking fact’s and keeping it 💯 I ❤️ it
Derrick you're absolutely right.
Non-negotiable!!!!!
I needed to hear this tonight!
It seems like a good chance for closure, but definitely a chance for more manipulation. Love sucks.
I’ve now become a Speed Walker and Thank You for opening my naive green eyes‼️🧐🤨💥👟❤️🩹
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Vroom!!!
A healthy self-esteem, standards, and boundaries will keep you out of this type of mess. Stay safe, Queens.
Your videos help me so much... I can relate to almost everything you've spoken on here. 💜
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Whelp…I have been the waiter and wasted a ton of my prime years 🙄. I’m thankful for the healing journey I have taken. It literally can’t happen again.
Oh my god!! They even get MARRIED and try to come back!! Like what the hell Big D! He should have kept me on his hip like a holster when he had the chance. Obviously, he didn't realize the "KEEPER" I am....umm his lost!!😄
They are using you as a safety net if they fall great message
I pray for him to move forward with his life God have all the power no more going backwards (babydaddy)
I'm a "Walker" for sure! 🙏🏽
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
thanks for talking on this. spinning the block is the new pandemic.
No way in hail!!!!!! I'm on to NEW NEW NEW
Thank you derrick I did the 5am class and I wanna tell you how everyday I'm GOING to call my pops to let him no how thankful I am some times you have to go threw bad experience to appreciate your parents 36 years of marriage also who you or as a female and how people would try to make you look bad for not giving up on trying to make it work in the moment while I'm going threw this I'm taking it all as a lesson unselfishly I been saying if I'm not the right one at least I rather leave a memory that well one day help him wake up also the class helped me with making sure I pure beautiful experience into my daughter so shes able to separate what is and isn't the class to me was gods divine plan it's god me my daughter then a men if marriage come god my husband then my kids thank you so much
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Derreiccccckkkkk you showlll is preaching 🙌
Yes. They are everywhere
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
This really brings clarity
Thank you for the clarity on this. So, I did the right thing and killed the damn thing. Shot it right between the eye's😄 now let's keep moving and bury the dead, heal while we at it to. Ask mama earth for forgiveness.
Thank you Derrick! There’s a reason I came across this!
Yessssssss these dudes are a mess out here like are you serious STAY GONE PUDDIN like da fuq 🤔
Always on point
Dsmn! The waiter was me! Ugh! Thank you for this!
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Someone tell me why I had a Walking Dead video game ad pop up in the middle of the video...🧐
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Just come to reality!😳
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
That’s last part was deep for me
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Me! The Walker. Learned late, but learned. And it feels oh, so good. FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!
Full progress is the mission ❤❤❤
Can you make a video on why men leave, thinkin they can get better and then end up with younger girls.. like 15 yrs younger, is that insecurity and just a mid life crisis..
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I love you derrick until now he gosht him and block me im just like talking a wall im a good woman i love your all podcast i really appreciate you derrick ❤️♥️💖all your podcast
Stay gone ghoster
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
You are such a blessing. Thank you.
Thank you for your video!!!👍
Treat them like the walking dead! 🙌
Thank you, I needed to hear this. ❤️
Been there!! Exactly..
Excellent content much appreciated
Sometimes it can be fear...of wearing a jumpsuit and loafers for the rest of my life.
Love it, you’re on point
Thanks for the video you always give good messages! 💯
He can stay gone ,,,, please !!!!!
Great video!
Walking!!!
Loved this
Thank you I enjoyed this video
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
Thank you for this !!!!
Great job, Mr. Jaxn👍✂️them off!
Cut them off, like a light switch, and don't think nothing of it.
Thank you❤❤❤
Yes, they are on the rise. Sick of the games😖
It’s more of them than we think
I lobve my ghost i love him so much but im hurting for 2 years i tried to leave but i couldnt i wanna go but i wonder if im gonna forget i just love him i wonder if im ever find love again
You will
Shouldn't of hurt her. He's outta luck
Nothing in the relationship graveyard but GHOSTS!
❤you are right on point!
Don't play with the Godly woman because here come Gods wrath after the fact,you better know what you want before you mess with these type of women.
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
My bf for 1 year ghosted me out of the blue and blocked me without any words at all he just disappeard and blocked me.
Move on and never go back girl 😊he sucks
Thank you so much 🙏
What if he was honest about being busy, getting his Masters, work, his kids..etc.. I'm thinking still no excuse
Felt this
My deal unto the opposite sex is this Ghost/Reject me once I'll Ghost/Reject you an entire lifetime!
Im a proud walker!
Keep walking! Be gone ghost
It’s awful being in these scenarios. You love them and it’s a mess wanting them not knowing if they will eventually come to senses or are they going to play this game their whole life. If they are just having fun in young years or just disinterested. But I found this generation is a lot of men who don’t know what they want and alot of disconnect of people
But why does he ghost me ?oh happy belated birthday really like your vidieos
i have one of these!!!
What's the walker. Runner. Merry go around ???
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
amazing
Derrick how can I get on to you privately please 🙏🏿.
True True
Yeah. Men all have the resources to have women in multiple states and multiple countries and has the resources to float many women at the same time. I call BS. But do I think men will play games? That’s like asking if the day is long. Just accept he is playing games. He is not ready but loves knowing she is interested.
Thank you
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I think my ghosting was the 4th one thanks
Off topic. I see your fit. Muscle bound. Do you have a workout channel too
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Oh great, I’m a waiter . Daaamn