Why narcissist will RECORD HOW YOU REACT
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When I was finally done, I went to the court house and got a restraining order. I stated in my request how "he calls me names and accuses me of doing things until I was upset enough to fight back then he'd take out his phone." You gotta get it on the record first.
Yes. They seek drama and a reaction. They will continue to provoke you until you get away. They will crush you. Get away. Completely.
Just sick behaviour. My ex loved to push and insult me more and more to see how I would react of his abuse. Madness. 100% true what you saying.
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They record and save texts to use against you.
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I remember when he used to do this for years and I didn’t understand and then he would send it to his sister and show it to his family and they thought I was crazy, and he definitely does this on a regular now but I stop reacting now he just tries to say anything to get me mad and I’m so aware of it, I don’t react that was so hard to practice to control them, but the more I started to realize it
My ex used to take pics of me after my reaction and then send them to me, I’d look so angry and out of character. And they kept them forever. After a year broken up I wouldn’t be surprised if they still have them. Also loved taking pics of me when I didn’t look the best. Never when I was put together nice.
They always want to make you look like the problem
Or when you’re in a deep sleep,
I used get so mad, when I reacted I would cry cause I know what he was doing, feels triggering thinking about it
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He caused a huge fight and waited for me to blow up and then told me he was recording me. I always wondered why he would be quiet after I would get upset. I can almost guarantee that wasn't the first or last time. It's weird and scary to know someone can say they love you but record your worst moments. I didn't know then what I was dealing with but I sure as hell know now and couldn't be happier that I left.
Because I’ll spazz TF out and he gone act like he’s never experienced that before
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Omg I'm glad you addressed this one! Thought I was alone on this. I'm seeing that there's nothing a narcissist hasn't done that another person hasn't experienced by another narcissist
Sir Lee, can I tell you? My experience being" together"with this narc lasted about 3 months out of 3 years....he came, wanted money and the best life each time he disappeared then reappeared...he disappeared for 7 months straight then came back with his petty excuses....one week then left again, then occasionally every 3 months wanting money, sex and expensive meals and alot of bills. Last time I told him this was it so say he has not been back. I feel nothing now, I am fighting for my peace of mind after being physically, emotionally and mentally damaged. I now know not to free up the no contact and that should keep him away. All of what you said being recorded and classified as a mad woman but I had to remind him the condition I found him in, ready to end his life and on psychotic meds. I am lucky to have access to your videos and those of Dr. Armani
Thanks a million
Dr. Ramani
Mine got turned on and performed even worse when I recorded him on my phone 🤦🏽♀️. It wasn’t funny when the cameras got him. You have to be smarter than the average bear, to deal with them🤣😂
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Thanks for this, Lee! My ex recorded my reaction as he berated me. All I wanted that night was Netflix and chill and I have no idea how it became me crying and him laughing and recording.
8 months no contact now, but I can't believe how low it got before I got out!
He did that many times, that's why I was too afraid to press charges against him, because I knew he had videos of me reacting to him.
Uses it as a weapon in Court to say I abused them. So sad how inflicted they r 🎉🎉🎉
Good job I recorded him too. Especially the one where he said he tried to poison my soup!
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Yup. Mine said if I ever called the police he would show them videos of me so if he goes down then he’s gonna make sure I go down as well…..
I would take my chances with calling
I had my Dad(visitation) recorded me crying in the back of his car right after my grandpa died. He asked me if I wanted to go back to my Mom. Traumatic as can be. That’s when I realized I couldn’t be myself around him.
Wowww 😢that’s sick my ex would do that
My x started doing that when I started to confront him and I started to laugh at him. Told him go ahead and record me. After all you did to me you should be arrested you are going to be arrested. I bit my tongue so hard and did not react angrily. I actually started to enjoy his reactions because I knew he was trying to make me look crazy but I knew it was him and he was getting freaked out that I had exposed him.
Brooo they shake up the soda bottle and wait for it to explode
I always knew he could record me on that switch And get in the internet
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This is how they are yes thank you Mr Lee yeah they do bad things and then they play victim you know so I'm sick of people like this and the ex not have a talk to him like in 9 and a half months so I've been great and we the value me 2 years ago so you know what when he posts to me I will record him and I make sure or any North studies to do with I record them so I want them out permit out my life if God willing
stay safe
My ex would take off-guard unflattering pictures of me. Then send it to me to make me upset.
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When he would do this..I would be even more calm 😅
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I was stressed out drunk because of him and he video recorded me without consent and sent it to our therapist. I don't even drink usually. He was not smart enough and he sent HIS video of him screaming, calling names and cursing by himself later. Yeah he didn't see why I got drunk...
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I reacted badly (got p***ed off)after months of the discard.
She recorded me yelling then put the phone in the sofa cushions and yelled "get off of me!"
I was 10 feet away from her (didn't touch or throw anything) "I didn't touch you!" her response "who's going to believe you?"..
So true my father did that get me angry to a point and then do my videos then
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@@MentalHealness so sad 😢😭 moments i know he never lets me out of this house if am unaccompanied
My aunt keeps telling me to be nice to my cousin I am always nice to her she told my dad I scream and call her names NEVER did that. Then i realized she has a hidden camera or something to listen to me in my apartment. She been talking like my narcissist sister trying to convince me I am depressed that did not work then she started with paranoid again did not work then psychotic I said don't even pull that on me then she started saying I am forgetting and not remembering. NOPE and I my booklets to my new crock pot and Ninja I am autistic, and I need those it just a autistic thing came up missing I told her I need them then next time she came I saw her put them back I think because I told her I would throw them out buy new. And I would of tossed them and bought new ones. I at first thought someone here taking stuff because when it started that is what she told me. I do know someone here has because no way did she because she was at work. She does not live here I live alone but someone been getting in I thought my sister found out where I lived. My cousin convinced me it was someone here. I have cams here but videos always missing when something is gone. And one time my cousin was on looking and asked her for code she was in parking lot looking at them. I then got on and all it showed was me leaving then both us coming in when I got home, she was inside about half hour showed her leaving but NO videos of both of us inside. 2 cameras should pick us up. I realized she took something and deleted videos. I am so fed up with being target by these type people playing mind games with me. My dad has a plan and I hope it works. I also been talking to someone about getting the state to take over they will send someone to talk to me and ask why i want them to take over and they will investigate I had sleep medicine that narcotic did not realize then she was one who probably took them till I said we need to report it to police. She said no and that if they ask her I would not like what she tells them. OMG another narcissist. missing and my cousin is trying to say I did something with it NOPE. Funny it went missing after told her i had 17 extra ones of them. I also showed her a belt and told her it my favorite it came up missing. I love her a lot but I refuse to live with another narcissist type person in my life. I been through 4 now she will be 5th. I fed up with it being autistic you get targeted by them. She has control of cams and I think she been downloading videos of me having bad autistic meltdowns and showing them to doctor and I would not be surprised police to get them to think I am not right. My sisters did that too. I so fed up I love her but I can not live with these type people I fed up with them.
I feel like singing a Chrisette Michelle song. Blame it on me! Say it's my fault. As long as it's over! I don't care!!!
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He went in to the bath room shot up and came back in the living room after I caught him took his phone out and started recording my reaction freakin out bc he was supposed to be sober!!
wow wth
Can you please talk about people that are only narcissistic when they are drunk..? I believe this is a thing.. I have experienced this from a wonderful person that becomes completely narcissistic when drinking.. can you please cover this?
My husband would video record me when he provoked me to arrgue with him and show it to his family and say that I love to argue and I have a nasty attitude. So the last disagreement we had I secretly voice and video recorded him and when I called the cops i let them see it he's still in jail and the judge rewarded me the divorce
stay safe
@@MentalHealness the D A. Put a restraining order on him and they said that he can't have any contact with me
My ex husband did that to me at least once that I know of.
It s hilarious 😂
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Sooooo i am in recovery....
When I was getting through the withdrawals coming off of it cold turkey....i was in ROUGH shape ...(this has happened like......4 times) this is when he became the MOST vicious...ever time (but would also be the most sweet during that time too. Ugh the roller coaster lol) he says he HATED the drug use.....but i kinda wonder if he liked how weak it made me....but when i looked as bad as possible....he loved to take pictures of me....same idea?
yea, possibly the same idea
Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂 don’t work for me cuz I’m still getting ya and that phone will be smashed u can record go ahead no use tho it’s gonna be smashed like how I did my ex and stole his phone on his bday