The mind of a narcissist when they see you after the breakup

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  • how does a narcissist feel when they see you after the relationship ends? what goes on in their minds when they see you with someone else or when they see you single and alone?
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Комментарии • 435

  • @MentalHealness
    @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +21

    Self Love Shop - shop.mentalhealness.net

    • @albertbrady712
      @albertbrady712 Месяц назад +1

      I love that shirt. Gonna get it .
      Influential channel, much appreciated.

    • @queenkandyce4866
      @queenkandyce4866 Месяц назад

      Nice shirts! 💙

    • @lilliancrowley7542
      @lilliancrowley7542 Месяц назад

      Hi Lee,
      LOVE the new shirt! Since you are still in the pre order stage...
      One suggestion: Can you please make some shirts for us ladies that are embracing the soft life with a more feminine look? Maybe with a different neckline or color, ex: red or pink.
      #COUNTMEIN💕

  • @emmajackson5139
    @emmajackson5139 Месяц назад +354

    I dunno about anyone else but ive always been happier on my own

    • @nehagabhane5679
      @nehagabhane5679 Месяц назад +11

      Same I only need my mother father and there love and care

    • @emmajackson5139
      @emmajackson5139 Месяц назад

      @@nehagabhane5679 exactly I got great friends and family to keep me going on my journey

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +7

      💪🏽💪🏽

    • @Rotty_Mom
      @Rotty_Mom Месяц назад +16

      Same. Unfortunately though, I hear the purpose of life is to love and be loved. Not sure I know how to do either.

    • @emmajackson5139
      @emmajackson5139 Месяц назад +3

      @@Rotty_Mom we all show love differently thats why there are many different love languages out there.

  • @manzanitaverde5455
    @manzanitaverde5455 Месяц назад +86

    I hope I never have to see him again...don't wish him any harm, but I also do not care to know about him anymore.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +5

      💯‼️

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад

      THAT'S WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYIG FOR MONTHS!!!!
      PEACE!!!!!

    • @My_life_in_the_sunshine
      @My_life_in_the_sunshine 23 дня назад

      Newly divorced from a narcissistic idiot. Hope to one day get to this point.

  • @1419nevermore
    @1419nevermore Месяц назад +193

    I was told by my stbx that I would never find anyone like him. I laughed and said.."You promise ?!?" LOL

    • @rosemaryrogers1478
      @rosemaryrogers1478 Месяц назад +6

      Great response..may I use it if I ever need to? 👍👍😆😆😆😆😆

    • @cathyh1680
      @cathyh1680 Месяц назад +1

      Great response! 🔥 🔥 👨‍🚒

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +4

      😊😊😊

    • @HeyokaNikki
      @HeyokaNikki Месяц назад +2

      Yea, let’s hope that Satan broke the mold after making him.

    • @Skyfoxx23
      @Skyfoxx23 Месяц назад +1

      😂

  • @nikkitran3501
    @nikkitran3501 Месяц назад +126

    Exactly 💯The narcissists always think they are the best but it’s actually the best of the worst.

    • @palapalak.8907
      @palapalak.8907 Месяц назад +5

      Funny

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +1

      💯💯💯

    • @iAmNothingness
      @iAmNothingness Месяц назад +7

      Lmao, mentally for sure. They can be good at physical things or look good. Be able to cook and hit the gym but mentally? Aiiiiiiii, run. :)

    • @nikkitran3501
      @nikkitran3501 Месяц назад +2

      @@iAmNothingness exactly 💯💯💯

  • @everymomentisagift
    @everymomentisagift Месяц назад +143

    My ex showed up on my birthday and asked me out. I said sure. He bragged about his new girlfriend and that she is 100 times better than I would ever be. While he was blabbing, I was thinking how he will cheat on her like he did with me and I felt sorry for her eventhough I don't know her.

    • @nappyfries
      @nappyfries Месяц назад +27

      I couldn’t help but say “oh then why are you here with me & why did you ask me out?” 🤔

    • @txm.9021
      @txm.9021 Месяц назад +11

      @@nappyfriesright. Like sir you couldn't possibly have asked me out to miss out on what you claim is the best thing walking... oh wait? 🤔 it's because she's NOT that's why you are right here with me wasting energy trying to make me jealous 😂

    • @rosemaryrogers1478
      @rosemaryrogers1478 Месяц назад

      He got some damn audacity..I woulda took a different form of transportation home...leaving that Dingbat to talk to himself

    • @deniseedgecombe8073
      @deniseedgecombe8073 Месяц назад +10

      I blame you for going.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +6

      😧😧😧

  • @angelao6645
    @angelao6645 Месяц назад +51

    He started stalking me and tried to get me back. He cried and cried about how sorry he was for treating me so bad and losing me. He just wanted to see if I would come back, don't fall for it.

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад +2

      UM-HUH!!!
      PEACE!!!!

    • @BrandyClark-vm9qw
      @BrandyClark-vm9qw Месяц назад +1

      Rightttt.....mine just emailed me from jail.....like leeeemeeeelone

  • @SherryMillay
    @SherryMillay Месяц назад +63

    The narcessist changed me. He managed to turn me into a monster. I had seven years of torture, and after leaving him, I still struggle 😢

    • @umelokarnes5460
      @umelokarnes5460 Месяц назад +7

      Get a mental therapist! Trust me! That's the best thing you can do in order to heal.

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад +1

      YOU ARE NOT A MONSTER!!!!
      YOU'RE OVER IDENTIFYING WITH A MONSTER!!!!
      check out some of my HEAL playlists, particularly the one about healing practices.
      PEACE!!!!!

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад

      @@umelokarnes5460 UM-HUH!!!!! PEACE!!!!!!

    • @Mockduck2020
      @Mockduck2020 14 дней назад

      Well, they send you into defense mode and so that’s what you become. They play games with you so you never are sure which way is up just remember now that they’re gone. You should be safe. You’ve been traumatized.

  • @Selesel1981
    @Selesel1981 Месяц назад +63

    If I’m alone and single it’s because I’m traumatized af. 😂

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад

      therapy. EMDR, EFT...journal writing. check out some of my HEAL playlists, especially the one about healing practices!!! and REMAIN alone and single UNTIL you FULLY HEAL and YOU KNOW YOU'LL NEVER, EVER, EVER...fall for the okey doke again and allow yourself to be traumatized!!!!!
      PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jjxd3n_
      @jjxd3n_ Месяц назад +1

      FACTS💯

    • @jackiemurria3966
      @jackiemurria3966 Месяц назад +1

      😂

    • @Themajesticloot
      @Themajesticloot Месяц назад

      So true lol

    • @dailywithkels
      @dailywithkels 29 дней назад

      Girl yessss😭😂

  • @kgs2280
    @kgs2280 Месяц назад +26

    The sad thing is that sometimes they are the best, but, at the same time, they are ALWAYS the worst. It’s the old saying: when they’re good, they’re so good, but when they’re bad, they are so, so bad. But the good is NOT worth the damage they will do to you.

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад +1

      BUT it's NEVER real, authentic, sincere, genuine. remember the "mask"; how they "mimic" ... so the "good" is NOT real! it's staged in order to get their "supply."
      PEACE!!!!!

  • @dumpmail-xz2qp
    @dumpmail-xz2qp Месяц назад +66

    let them think whatever makes them sleep better. Just don't let them back in your life, you should HOPE not to find anyone like that narc

  • @MyOwnSupply
    @MyOwnSupply Месяц назад +51

    And their reality shakes when they try to hoover and find a wall .

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +2

      💯

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад

      HUMPH!!!
      A BRICK, STONE, IRON...AND WHATEVER OTHER METAL WALL!!!!!
      PEACE!!!!

  • @angielaprade3649
    @angielaprade3649 Месяц назад +53

    My ex was looking like what the heck? She got a nice vehicle now and looking good without me. I didn't have transportation for a few years, but ended up getting blessed a few months after our parting like the red sea. So, as an act of jealousy he called himself getting something better than what I have. I know full good and well he isn't paying 2 car payments and insurance for 2 vehicles. He cried about paying for his car. Told me I won't find any one like him. To make me feel like he did. Seriously? So cocky and arrogant. The lady he is with now is on cloud nine not knowing he has cheated on her the entire time they have been together. She will soon find out. He financially abused me. Wanted me to pay for everything. Wanted me to pay all the rent by myself while he said he would pay the lights and gas. Just pitiful. Can't believe I was so blind.

    • @rayray7906
      @rayray7906 Месяц назад +10

      You got away!!!!! That's all that matters sweet potato. Good on ya😊 You can see now. Isn't it amazing to know u don't have to put up with the bull shit anymore

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +7

      it happens

    • @angielaprade3649
      @angielaprade3649 Месяц назад +2

      @rayray7906 yes cause he isn't happy but I am healing and have my peace.

    • @angielaprade3649
      @angielaprade3649 Месяц назад +1

      @MentalHealness I know that now. Can't be peace for a person that doesn't have it already.

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад +2

      it's ok you were blind, WE were blind. WE CAN SEE NOW!!!!! and that @#$ will NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER ... come even close to happening to me, US, again FOR NO AMOUNT OF TIME (bc my encounter, THANK GOD, was only about 2 weeks, but it was devastating, being the hyper-empath that i am. but no fool!!!)
      PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • @tiffanybowers3294
    @tiffanybowers3294 Месяц назад +15

    I hope I never see that mothertrucker again 😊 And every day that I don't have contact with him is a blessing 🙏

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад +1

      I SECOND THOSE EMOTIONS!!!!!!
      PEACE!!!!!

  • @gogogirl1986
    @gogogirl1986 Месяц назад +18

    PEACE IS the PRIZE!♡

  • @dirtySal777
    @dirtySal777 29 дней назад +9

    It’s always about the narcissist. They can’t stand not being chased.

  • @mcostilla7603
    @mcostilla7603 Месяц назад +48

    That’s what mine said to me that I can’t get anyone better then him

  • @regiwroteit4987
    @regiwroteit4987 Месяц назад +8

    It’s been two years since I discarded the narcissist from my past. I dealt with him for four. I wrote a list of all of the ways he hurt me and used me. Then I asked myself, “Do I want to write this same list next year? Will it be longer next year?” It made it easier for me to stop talking to him. I don’t regret blocking and deleting, I won’t forgive him, and I’m getting a stun gun to protect myself.

  • @ItsSoarTime
    @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад +14

    i've seen the fool twice in the past 30 days.
    don't give a F what he thought, what he's thinking, what he will think, if he can think!!!
    I DON'T GIVE A F!!!!!!!
    i'm single and FREE and TRULY LOVING ME and NOT his modern-day slave!!!!!!! THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS!!!!

  • @calinmihaelaadina9003
    @calinmihaelaadina9003 Месяц назад +7

    You can still love the person that hurt you but you shouldn't allow them access to your life...❤ Loved it Lee - you are absolutely 💯 correct

  • @WhyYouAskinAllTheseQuestions
    @WhyYouAskinAllTheseQuestions Месяц назад +53

    My ex got arrested when I broke it off, and the next time I saw him was in court for a TRO hearing. He was in oranges and bracelets, and plead no contest to the TRO. But, he also broke the no contact order three weeks after it was issued, WHILE HE WAS STILL IN JAIL, YA'LL. If he thinks the best I could ever hope for in a relationship is him, his delusion level is beyond beyond.

    • @MegaRose1958
      @MegaRose1958 Месяц назад +3

      Lee yes I would definitely tell everyone to stay alert. It's been almost two years and I received two ph calls from a private # after 12:30 am.. I never answer the ph from any #'s I don't recognize! I always say if it's important a person will leave a message and I can call them back.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +1

      😶

    • @HeyokaNikki
      @HeyokaNikki Месяц назад +2

      My own mother kept encouraging me to take him back, each time he beat me, saying..”Nikki, you need to learn to take the good with the bad, and you’re not going to do any better than Chad Williams, because they just don’t come and BETTER’”. I didn’t know at the time that they were having an affair. The plot thickens.

    • @HeyokaNikki
      @HeyokaNikki Месяц назад

      @@MegaRose1958 I ALWAYS answer the calls. The ones from jail, on the “recorded” line, and also the blocked/unknown callers… I keep a second phone, always charged, and RECORD all the calls coming from “contraband “ phones. I keep a running list of interrogation questions in my notes, and just interrupt all the “sweet talking” begs, and pleads, with a battery of questions, tripping him up, making him sorry he even violated (yet again) the protective order. He squirms, and starts trying to get to get off the phone with me, saying he’s running out of minutes. Meanwhile, I’m stacking up evidence. When they go to court, and try to argue, that the inmate has been a “model prisoner”…. Yea right. Who exactly is in charge of monitoring their ability to reach out and torment their victim?

    • @MegaRose1958
      @MegaRose1958 Месяц назад +1

      @@HeyokaNikki That's your personal choice and I respect that.

  • @lastofthe70schildren70
    @lastofthe70schildren70 Месяц назад +11

    Newly single after nearly 9 years of the relationship! I’m so happy with my newly found single life that I need to take at least 2 years away from dating whilst I detox from that relationship a focus on working on a better version of myself. Good luck to him as he appears to have already started another relationship. Right now my peace is of paramount importance to me!💅🏾

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад

      uuummm-huh!!!! FULLY HEAL. LEARN TO REALLY LOVE YOU!!!!! learn how to be alone.
      PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @brandicollins3511
    @brandicollins3511 Месяц назад +15

    Some people just don’t jump from person to person like they do some of us do love our own company their the ones who can’t be alone because they don’t like themselves & always need supply

  • @HeyokaNikki
    @HeyokaNikki Месяц назад +83

    They will absolutely harm you, and try to unalive you. My narc is being held without bond.. his narcissistic injury was so great, he violated protective order, broke in, disarmed me while I slept, and woke me up with a Glock to my head.

    • @cathleenburton-noble418
      @cathleenburton-noble418 Месяц назад +26

      My soon to-be-ex husband tried to shove me from a moving car. Also breaking a restraining order. Sentencing in August. God bless you. I will pray for Archangle Michael to be with you, as He is with me. We are not safe without God's protection.

    • @ninath13
      @ninath13 Месяц назад +11

      Praying for you both

    • @mslivelaughlove3636
      @mslivelaughlove3636 Месяц назад +18

      OMG, that is so terrifying! I hope he doesn't get out of jail. And just in case he does get out, I pray that you're able to move to another location far away from him, before he is released. I also pray that God blesses you with the resources to protect you from that demon, so he'll never get that close to you again. In Jesus name Amen.🙏🏾

    • @SalomeBMedia
      @SalomeBMedia Месяц назад +6

      ​@@cathleenburton-noble418glad he is in jail

    • @lovice43
      @lovice43 Месяц назад +5

      MANY blessings 🙏🏾 GOD bless you and your family. AMEN!!

  • @SenSakura-dj6bq
    @SenSakura-dj6bq Месяц назад +18

    "you can love them but not allow access to your life". Exactly, probably the term is not the love, but caring or something, but you do everything as if you don't care. You do this purely out of rational thinking, not emotional.

  • @cliffordkelleher0142
    @cliffordkelleher0142 Месяц назад +40

    I upgraded, the narc can only mess with the children as a final move for control. A low pathetic person will use their own kids to hurt an ex.

  • @svjetlanabrezo334
    @svjetlanabrezo334 Месяц назад +7

    Being single and being lonely are two totaly different things - I am HAPPIEST when I dont have anyone to be in love with....

    • @BUDbizWIZ
      @BUDbizWIZ Месяц назад +4

      I feel the same way. Why is that, though? Why does it feel so much better, such relief, when you are not being engaged emotionally by a man or “in love”????.

  • @veronicakennedy5269
    @veronicakennedy5269 Месяц назад +22

    I really like the new shirt thank you for hearing the silent cry of abuse from us survivors 🤗💝🤗

  • @juniperjo4004
    @juniperjo4004 Месяц назад +4

    Never get tired of those impersonations 😂🙌🏼

  • @tebs8157
    @tebs8157 Месяц назад +9

    My NarEx said we was going to replace me - and I said you can’t try but u will never find anyone like me . I definitely won’t replace you cause I don’t want anyone else like you .

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад

      UM-HUH!!!
      said i will always be alone.
      i'd rather be alone, than to be enslaved by a monster!!!
      PEACE!!!!!

  • @borntodiy
    @borntodiy Месяц назад +8

    From my difficult experiences, I find you amazing for doing this for the people around you

  • @dirtySal777
    @dirtySal777 29 дней назад +2

    When my ex-narc texted me and said he was done, I did not reply back. I let him go on about his business.

  • @lilmcgd
    @lilmcgd 24 дня назад +1

    I’m single and happy with myself. Also single because I refuse to disrespect myself anymore with narcissistic or toxic people! Truly finding myself brought me to understand I don’t need to entertain anyone else’s thoughts or opinions of how they think I should be living MY LIFE!

  • @MrDaft909punk
    @MrDaft909punk Месяц назад +15

    I hope i never see her ever again.
    I never met someone who just made the...no THE WORST OF DECISIONS IN LIFE. Being the best version of your self entels you changing for the better,

  • @Photomonon
    @Photomonon 18 дней назад +2

    They can't be happy alone. They literally think that's a weakness. Remember when they shamed you about your small circle?

  • @dreamyclouds5583
    @dreamyclouds5583 Месяц назад +10

    I'm getting that shirt, Lee! ❤ Finally managed no contact. Your channel gets a lot of the credit for that. Thank you

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад

      You're the best!

    • @user-ds7br9is1m
      @user-ds7br9is1m Месяц назад

      We have been split up for 9 months and I don’t want to see anyone. I’m not over all this. Mine better enjoy what he’s doing cause he’s not going to be in jail or prison

  • @kaylarose3833
    @kaylarose3833 Месяц назад +1

    Lee you're so good at explaining all this. I love how you also joke about it and make it a bit lighter.

  • @soontobe3819
    @soontobe3819 Месяц назад +3

    I’m so happy to find you, I’m putting you on repeat!!

  • @toasttoast789
    @toasttoast789 Месяц назад +1

    Being in a small town I’ve seen her a few times in public. She always turns red and gets away as soon as possible. Found out she was cheating and told her to take care of herself after she wanted a break.

  • @spk3163
    @spk3163 Месяц назад +8

    How does the Narc react if he sees you and your new boyfriend in public?? I doubt he would attack physically or verbally if bf is w/ you. They are cowards.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +1

      i spoke about that in the vid

    • @spk3163
      @spk3163 Месяц назад +1

      @MentalHealness Yes, you spoke about if narc knows I'm in a relationship, but I am referring specifically if he sees me in public w/ my new bf. Would he still "possibly" get physical, or verbally attack me or my bf still?

  • @KatRoberts-mi3wy
    @KatRoberts-mi3wy Месяц назад +5

    I came into town without his knowledge and drove by him at an intersection and he looked shocked but then quickly covered up with a big head thrown back laugh 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @Doe8617
    @Doe8617 Месяц назад +16

    What if you point at them and laugh.. like they're the fools they are

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +4

      stay safe

    • @ItsSoarTime
      @ItsSoarTime Месяц назад

      LMAOFFFFF!!!!!!!!!!!
      better be packin' if you do so!!!
      better not let them know what you drive, where you live, where you work ....!!
      still LMAOFFFFFF!!!!!!!!
      PEACE!!!!!!!!

  • @samanthapayne8412
    @samanthapayne8412 27 дней назад +1

    😔 my toxic narcisstic ex - after 1.5 years reached out to me. Totally tried to hammer me with all the "remember when we". He went right back to being the guy he was. I had to stop contact with him after 48 hours. When I called him out on being a narcissists, he didn't even deny it, which sealed the deal for me. I have cut off all contact with him, I used to ask myself, I wonder if he ever really even cared about me. I got my answer......He can't care about me, he is incapable of doing so.

  • @moon6148
    @moon6148 Месяц назад +20

    To the being alone and single thing… it’s oddly true and well I have learned but best thing live your life and be or become unbothered 😅😊

  • @classykeys
    @classykeys Месяц назад +6

    Sounds like Martell Holt of Love and Marriage Huntsville 😅😅😅

  • @mimiwillms3920
    @mimiwillms3920 Месяц назад +2

    Artist name Chrisette Michele has a song that says “ you can say whatever you like, long as we just say goodbye” 🤣

  • @kimc5379
    @kimc5379 9 дней назад +1

    The ex narc told me the next person is going to treat you just like I did. I am loving myself and it feels good!

  • @desireereyes9043
    @desireereyes9043 Месяц назад +6

    I don’t wanna hear the aftermath, he’s so predictable. I already know what he’s thinking, and even what he might say. We studying this creature so much now that the outcome is inevitable. Of course the Oscar goes to…

  • @JackNeil-zz2uw
    @JackNeil-zz2uw Месяц назад +7

    Smashing the like button your doing good work thanks bro

  • @SunnydazeAmore
    @SunnydazeAmore Месяц назад

    I hope you treasure your child while it lasts because time is so short ❤ don’t worry about updating videos, you earned your public support! It’s okay to take a break.

  • @KBQuick81
    @KBQuick81 Месяц назад +8

    Dang, he was losing his mind BEFORE he moved on, I would hate (not really) to see have him see me doing way better.

  • @jorgerivera5757
    @jorgerivera5757 Месяц назад +6

    Dude you saying lots and lots of facts.

  • @salomeclaire7663
    @salomeclaire7663 Месяц назад +2

    Even if you are in a new relationship, they are still convinced that you're not happy. My nex used to say that about his previous partner, who is in a new relationship and has married since "yes, she's married the other guy, but I can tell she's not happy"....subtext "because she's not with me".

  • @rakesethomas245
    @rakesethomas245 Месяц назад +2

    Mine I had to see at court. I looked my best, had hair done but I was with him enough that I just knew he said something I had gained weight. He was looking at me a few times I caught him. He walked in the courthouse all loud I could tell it was his insecurities showing. He pretended he was in bothered. Then knowing I hate his text messages he turned the volume all the way up so I could hear him receive and return texts when he was grey rocking me. His tactics worked, got in my head. Still ignored me after I dropped charges.

  • @undergod8666
    @undergod8666 Месяц назад +9

    Loving that shirt ❤❤

  • @lovice43
    @lovice43 Месяц назад +5

    ABSOLUTELY 💯. It's the funniest thing EVER 🤣 😂 😆 THEY'RE SUCH 🤡🤡🤡 BEEN AROUND THEM ALL MY LIFE. I'M LIKE A WALKING MIRACLE 💯👏🏽🙌🏾💓🎊💫🎯🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @rivkaviskil5699
    @rivkaviskil5699 Месяц назад +2

    4 weeks no cont. Thank u, you do make a difference ❤

  • @eunicemmotoh3491
    @eunicemmotoh3491 16 дней назад

    Amazing! This is exactly what I went through with my narcissistic ex.

  • @audionerdlilcuz
    @audionerdlilcuz Месяц назад

    As soon as I met another person omfg the stalking, false accusations, and harassment became seemingly endless! They're CRAZY!

  • @user9o777laont
    @user9o777laont Месяц назад +10

    “always an old bbl” 💀💀💀
    My family is very close with my narc ex after our breakup. I’m scared I’m going to see him at a relative’s wedding soon. I’m in a healthy relationship now though which is pretty lucky 🍀
    I unblock him from time to time & he still texts me but I never say anything back. Always end up blocking him immediately. Thank you for these videos Lee

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @KBQuick81
      @KBQuick81 Месяц назад

      Same here

    • @rayray7906
      @rayray7906 Месяц назад +4

      Keep him blocked. If you are in a healthy relationship, there is no need to stay in contact with a person that HARMED you.🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @user9o777laont
      @user9o777laont Месяц назад

      @@rayray7906 er, I wouldn’t say we’re connected. It’s not like he knows I can see the message. It’s all just very weird to me. I guess I’m fascinated but I’m not foolish enough to ever engage with him again in any capacity

    • @user9o777laont
      @user9o777laont Месяц назад

      @@KBQuick81 it’s diabolical isn’t it? My family actually took HIS side.

  • @nat3199
    @nat3199 Месяц назад

    Omfg 04:55 had me 😂🤣...Lee your vids sometimes are dangerous to watch late at night 😂😂 👏👏👏

  • @ladycancer9330
    @ladycancer9330 Месяц назад +1

    Love the shirt !

  • @nappyfries
    @nappyfries Месяц назад +16

    Mine have always tried to get back with me when they’ve seen me after our breakups. When I told my daughter’s dad’s gf that, he was PISSED. He didn’t want her to know of course. Then when I saw him with her a year later to something I invited him to for our daughter, he was so sure that I would be hurt when I saw them together 😂 not even close. I didn’t care anymore. When I was unbothered, AGAIN, he was pissed lol I was just my same pleasant self bc I truly didn’t care anymore & thought it was funny that he still cared about my reaction lol

    • @ericheffner112
      @ericheffner112 Месяц назад

      You played it perfectly. They always do shit just to get a reaction out of you. They can't live without dopamine hits.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад

      🤭

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 Месяц назад +1

    I enjoyed the video! Thank you...

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray1848 Месяц назад

    Very cool merch Lee!

  • @LiveLisha
    @LiveLisha Месяц назад

    Lol the coincidence, im right there in that situation and started overthinking abt what i would do if i sas him again and right there and then you post this new video.. awesome !👏🏾 ❤

  • @Peacefully_chaotic
    @Peacefully_chaotic Месяц назад +4

    What about after I told him to find someone else, anyone else, that i would find him someone if he was too big of a loser. Three days later he was gone and living with a new victim. When we exchange our son we only discuss our son. I only give one-word answers and am always busy and happy when he picks up and drops off. I am so happy that I even look a 100 % better. What is he thinking? Does he realize I think he’s disgusting?

  • @kathleencampbe3ll70
    @kathleencampbe3ll70 20 дней назад

    I was so proud of how I reacted when I literally crossed paths with the narcissist ex a few months back. He was leaving the casino I work at and was walking through the common area towards the exit. I was walking with another coworker in that same space and going another direction, and we would have collided if one of us didn't slow down or stop. He saw me first but when I looked up and realized he was approaching, he stopped and gestured with his hand for us to go ahead of him, pretending to be a gentleman. He was laser focused on me with a stupid grin on his face. When it registered in my brain that it was 'him', our eyes met for a split second, I broke eye contact and looked right through him with absolutely NO EMOTION. I acted like I didn't even see him. I didn't look startled, change my expression or break my stride at all or nod to acknowledge him and when we passed him, I never turned around to see where he was going. The friend that I was with had no idea that I even knew the guy we just passed. I was so calm and cool about it and she didn't know the backstory until I was safely around the corner where he was completely out of sight, when I finally was able to freak out about it. I schooled her on narcissism for about a half hour after that and she was blown away by what I was telling her. We laughed afterwards and I was so glad I was with someone else when that happened. I totally and completely ignored him and I bet that made him mad as hell! I'm so glad I treated him like he was invisible and didn't give him any fuel off my body language but now he knows where I work, but he's too lazy to bother me there, also because he wouldn't want to be banned from playing the slots! I hope he lost money too that day! 👍🤣😂😆

  • @emmajackson5139
    @emmajackson5139 Месяц назад

    Loving the new shirt lee

  • @joannelewis3390
    @joannelewis3390 Месяц назад

    Hahahaha 🤣 that's narcissist thinks he was the best I'm ever going to get.
    I've a cat and dog. The dude thinks he's the prize. This one is brilliant. Thank you for making this. Single and lonely by myself.

  • @JackNeil-zz2uw
    @JackNeil-zz2uw Месяц назад +3

    Well my ex was definitely a narcissist. I’m so lucky to be out of it now looking back but she saw me on my own in a shop with her new partner. I did not say anything. I just walked off when I finish shopping but then she saw me outside the pub with friends and a girl she was with her partner walking past. She definitely said something I couldn’t hear it was so busy but I would love to know what she was thinking that she wouldn’t look at me. I caught her just as she Walked past, but I could tell she saw me

  • @rachell8661
    @rachell8661 Месяц назад

    The clapping cheeks makes me laugh out loud every time Lee 😂 but yes they go mental. I saw mine walking near my house yesterday and he lives like 45 mins away and his car is broken down since he’s broke. Freaky!

  • @user-fl8be4px8x
    @user-fl8be4px8x 10 дней назад

    How could you not be happy to move on from a narcissist they are pure evil and very miserable to be around

  • @kingbear2378
    @kingbear2378 Месяц назад

    I luv you bro....keep going

  • @patriziastella6564
    @patriziastella6564 Месяц назад +3

    Yes at the end of the day all that matters is our happiness & self love.
    About 3 months ago I pretended to be a guy telling my ex to stop messaging my misses lol. Well he totally ignored that & messaged back saying good to hear from you take care miss you. 🤣🤣🤣 Weirdo they just don't care. Then 2 months after that asked me how I'm going lol. I didn't reply back gdluck to his messed up mind. 😂

  • @user-ow4xt9qv5j
    @user-ow4xt9qv5j Месяц назад +1

    Happy as I can be I no longer have that baggage there thinking is irrelevant silence is golden

  • @ToniFairbanks
    @ToniFairbanks Месяц назад

    Haha he try to say my arms got fat lol like I know somebody that like it 😂❤

  • @purplemaserati
    @purplemaserati Месяц назад

    Valuable information… to try to be as far as possible from them even when your life is good and you are relaxed. My narc ex trying to get into my energy all the time… he even came to my yard lately… I just acted as I don’t saw him. Not sure about love though. After healing part I can’t find any love in my heart towards his persona. The more far I’ve come the less I feel anything for him. I don’t wish him bad things though. I just lost respect and trust to him. Which led to loose any interest… When I’ve seen him in his car in my yard my heart not even gave any minor special beat… My mind was clear and peaceful. The only thing what’s bothering me is how to protect myself if he will become mad after finding out I don’t care anymore. I’ve heard many drastic stories out here in the internet.

  • @My_life_in_the_sunshine
    @My_life_in_the_sunshine 23 дня назад

    I just divorced my narcissistic husband. I am healing. I am happy. And Im glad everyone sees the shine on me.

  • @geraldpleasant7733
    @geraldpleasant7733 Месяц назад +2

    I rarely be lonely..

  • @mariacanavan3305
    @mariacanavan3305 Месяц назад

    I saw mine months afterwards.
    He had the cheek to try and talk to me.
    I said why would I want to talk to you when you treated me like crap...
    I walked away from him then and carried on...

  • @meplus3117
    @meplus3117 Месяц назад +1

    Why do they constantly tell you they love you when you're not together anymore? And he has a whole new family we have kids together so when we communicate for the kids he will keep telling me he loves me and he barley told me he loved me when we were together

  • @thinkinghighly2511
    @thinkinghighly2511 Месяц назад

    Yes this is true

  • @Hopemccormick
    @Hopemccormick Месяц назад

    The 13th of this month makes 6 months no contact I've got to say best decision I made cutting my ex out of my life it is so much more peaceful the 16th makes a year since I left I'm such a different person and I am so thankful I found your channel its really helped me alot in the beginning of me leaving and going no contact and staying no contact I'm forever grateful ❤

  • @PrincessSharoneyRebekovnaya
    @PrincessSharoneyRebekovnaya Месяц назад +1

    THEY can talk to everything that moves & simultaneously even carry on 😓 multiple relationships ! I meet someone 🆕 & worst thing ever in the world 🌎 !

  • @becomingpostal4877
    @becomingpostal4877 Месяц назад +7

    What about a narcissistic law-enforcement husband? How do you fight that alone?

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад +7

      have to document everything and go outside or above him

    • @izzyoda7867
      @izzyoda7867 Месяц назад +4

      You can't do it alone. You are probably tracked. Your phones are hacked, your neighbors probably keep an eye out on you, and most definitely being followed if you pay attention

    • @ericheffner112
      @ericheffner112 Месяц назад

      Covertly like their ass

  • @mimiwillms3920
    @mimiwillms3920 Месяц назад +1

    So true!! My ex said if (I) couldn’t make it work with him , what could another man do he won’t be worth anything 🤣 & the other narc told me that I need a man like him.. the luck of me meeting 2 narcs in my lifetime
    Yes both of my exes talked about how bad their exes new man is .. it’s like ( why do you care) they can’t help it cause they are narcs

  • @shucingjhuang2287
    @shucingjhuang2287 Месяц назад

    That's okay for me now (finally)😂 I recognize that he projects me as a sad single person, but at the same time, I know I am on the right track of my life. I leave him the freedom to have this illusion and also give the room for my real freedom ! Peace.

  • @zedmak
    @zedmak Месяц назад +3

    U should do that case, Ali Abulaban, he was the classic example of a narc. U can do a case study on him

  • @anag7765
    @anag7765 Месяц назад

    I love the shirt!!!!!!!😍

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  Месяц назад

      Thank you

    • @anag7765
      @anag7765 Месяц назад

      @@MentalHealness are sizes male sizes? I want Large for woman !!!! 😁

  • @rach777
    @rach777 Месяц назад

    ‘Always an ole’ BBL’ 😂💀😂💀😂 dead

  • @fenixdon8606
    @fenixdon8606 Месяц назад +5

    Not "clap cheeks better" lol

  • @purpledays778
    @purpledays778 Месяц назад

    Why do they tell the children they are going to replace you? And why do they think you are always cheating when you are not?

  • @gloriaramirez494
    @gloriaramirez494 Месяц назад

    If he thinks I cheated on him after the breakup will he stay gone? Is that enough for him to stay away?

  • @user-sg6kf5vc5z
    @user-sg6kf5vc5z 12 часов назад

    I hope I never ever see him again everything that you're saying is just what my husband told me the same thing me and my kids was abused😢😅

  • @willemkoppier4540
    @willemkoppier4540 Месяц назад

    Last time I saw her.. middle fingers, anger, hateful looks, threats. A nice concert aside from that. Tonight Im going to a concert again. Same location, same type of music, same day of the week..Im hoping for a little more peace. And yes, still single after 1,5 years. But she hates me more than anyone else I think, because I destroyed the fantasy to break out. She's the malignant type.

  • @user-ml3hv5jj4l
    @user-ml3hv5jj4l Месяц назад

    It's been a month of no contact thou I tried leaving 4 times in 3yrs. May 3rd 2024..the narc was ranting being very disrespectful. I was triggered annoyed just gloomy. That day is the last I will ever speak to him. I blocked him and avoid places he may go. I saw him recently in traffic..he drove slowly in front of me and stared me down. He knew i no longer cared cuz I don't

  • @kathryntaylor7662
    @kathryntaylor7662 29 дней назад

    My ex used to tell me that I belonged to him. That I had wifely duties towards him, constantly. Thanks Lee.

  • @DANNYTHEFROG123
    @DANNYTHEFROG123 Месяц назад +1

    If thats the best im ever going to get id rather be alone

  • @priscillapagan2797
    @priscillapagan2797 Месяц назад +1

    Thats a fresh shirt I'm gonna have too get one asap ....been watching you for over a year now I know alot of terminology thanks too you & your message..I learned a few things this video thank you 🔥