They did a lot of studies on rage therapy in psychology and the consensus now is that it actually makes people’s anger worse than it was before. It doesn’t release the anger and allow it to go away. It reinforces it
No it doesn't, that's if you don't do anything about the problem. As someone who vents like this, it's actually very helpful to have a time and place. Now I know that whenever I feel angry I can just bottle it up and then release it somewhere else.
@@2ndpartycrasher954 I’m sure you know better than the psychologist who studied this lol Releasing anger via exercise or playing a sport is healthy. But just raging and screaming and smashing stuff makes it worse. It conditions you to respond aggressively and violently when angry
@@2ndpartycrasher954 idk man, bottling loads of stuff up.Waiting to release the rage doesn't sound that healthy to me. I think learning to let go would be more helpful.
A street hawker was selling fish for a $1000/lb, the man asks that what's so special about it and the seller replies that it will give you wisdom. The man buys it, cooks it, eats it, feels like an ordinary fish, goes back to the seller and says that he was scammed coz there ain't such a fish that can give wisdom, to which the seller says "looks like it worked, you ARE wiser now".
Not only is this a scam, its also unhealthy. Human beings don't really "get things out of their system" by indulging in it. By being angry and throwing or hitting things as a way to be calm is only a temporary fix for a much deeper problem later on. Please, resolve your problems in a way thats going to actually help your mental health.
right?? that's something I don't think these people understand, or give enough credence to. you can rewire how your brain processes/releases emotion by repeat behavior. we're all pavlov's dogs lol
That's exactly what I was going to say. There's no such thing as actually expressing anger to cure anger. The cure to emotional instability is emotional control.
I started camping again and i can just imagine actually relaxing next to my campfire, cooking some sausages and hear a bunch of people smacking sticks around screaming. Me and the skinwalker would be so confused..
this is really funny because its basically the same idea as a rage room, and theres a few studies ive seen suggesting venting your anger in this sort of way can just make it worse maybe theyre hoping to make your anger issues worse so you come back and spend 4k again
... We literally have rage rooms. You know the rooms you like pay significantly less than $4,000 to get into so you could take a baseball bat or an axe to a television set? We have that.
@@BfkcjscbsnjcI mean collecting something you personally and enjoy and can be a monetary investment with prices increasing over time is different from paying $4k for something you can just go and do in any wooded area a few steps off a trail.
On a student campus in Sweden they used to yell out the window every tuesday or something at 10 in the evening to relieve frustration or stress. It was interesting in the weeks before exams
Back in the 80s there were a bunch of therapists peddling this thing called rebirthing as a cure for all sorts of psychological problems. They would charge hundreds of dollars per hour to wrap their clients in a blanket, sit on them and tell them to fight their way out of the blanket because that somehow mimics the birthing process. It was all the rage until a young girl died of suffocation because she had multiple grown ass adults smothering her in a blanket and screaming at her to fight her way out. I wonder how long this rage retreat nonsense will go on before somebody gets hurt or worse?
The worst part is that "releasing anger" with violent or destructive actions has been shown in every study that has researched it to be counterproductive and actually increase stress and anger hormones. It might feel good to destroy stuff, but it wont actually fix the emotions.
It makes me think of the Primal Scream therapy that was the big thing back in the early 70s. Everyone jumped on the bandwagon and it turned out to be pretty much useless.
You are also training the body to normalise such actions as well as relate them to minor things. Most people go their entire life without resorting to violence... it's actually very normal.
It's absolutely okay as a last resort when you realize you've been bottling for a very long time, as long as you don't sustain yourself in this state for too long, and then immediately move to something more restorative. But yes, this should not be anyone's primary coping skill. The point is to use coping skills before getting to the point of needing to release explosive emotions. However, this is relative- for those who use maladaptive coping skills such as drugs or self injury, this is an acceptable transition into less-destructive coping skills. I'm a mental health worker based in DBT.
@@hanthonyc It's not okay. Doing this won't fix the issue it will quite literally help to lay foundations to develop maladaptive behavior. Proper therapeutic techniques rely on you avoiding this kind of thing because it literally will only cause you problems.
we have a local smash room over here and it is literally only $50 to be in there for an hour with unlimited weapons, breakable stuff, an individual matted soundproof room, and protective gear is even included!! what this woman is doing is definitely a scam
Yea.... I'm pretty sure physiatrists recommend against "release" therapy because you're actually training yourself to get angry and violent in order to handle your emotions.
@@searsbear7965 only if it’s separate lol, therapists/ psychiatrists giving the exercises would just be the same price as regular therapy (bc that’s just seeing a therapist, not $4k stick screaming 😂)
Interestingly enough, Mia is buddies with Toe Rogan’s favorite mystical friend (and _”ONNIT”_ co-founder), habitual name-changer Chris / Aubrey “The Warrior Poet” Marcus No such thing as a coincidence
You know what else is bold and brash? All these bots above me spawning and spamming comments like flies whenever there are leftover foods on the trashcan.
it becomes even more of a waste when you realize it’s a proven fact that “releasing” anger by physical aggression doesn’t relieve negative feelings, it exacerbates them
as an angsty teenager i used to get my anger out by hitting a tree with a stick, no need for yelling. i'd say it was a lot more productive than hitting the ground because i got a rock solid wrist and taught myself how to hit things optimally, i also used to ride my bike like a maniac and that taught me how to handle high speed turns and how to patch myself up after a crash. as an adult i cannot fathom feeling so much anger and having no clue how to process it to the point you'd sign away 4k to go do something like this
Literally saw someone screaming in their car in the parking lot of Walmart and just thought "same fam" and moved on with my life. And it was totally free for her to do that.
These people have never heard of owning dumbells at home and a pull up bar and screaming your lungs out while simultaneously letting out endorphins and increasing your muscle mass and strength. If you have neighbours close to your room switch to a room that isn't close your neighbours and close all your windows, and you could shut down the blinds if you want to as well. You are welcome
Lmao imagine being a French citizen just going about your day and suddenly hearing this coyote yip-yapping coming from over yonder, and it's a bunch of ladies LARPing as Amazon barbarians in the middle of the woods💀
to be a comment that isnt a bot, i am so lucky to live near a city but also near a hiking trail its my saving grace as someone who hates living around tons of people and cars. i wish i was able to just roam in the countryside bro
@@scarlett6143 i grew up out in a wooded countryside, and now i live in the city. Its kinda nutty how different the culture can be between the country and city.
@@normanmai7865 driving is actually terrifying because of the people driving. going 80 on an empty country road? fun. doing 80 on a regular city road and Tboning a mothers minivan? i hope you rot. car centric infrastructure literally makes it impossible to not have a car though
yea at this stage is it even a Scam anymore ? If someone is this brain dead to fall for this garbage i don't think you can blame the " scammer " for it
Yeah I don't think it's a scam, it's just someone being like "You know pay for it if you want to it's up to you!" 🤣 Not like the creator has a cult or anything weird like that, worst case scenario they probably selling some "mystic stick" oriented towards letting out specific feelings
The older I get, the more I'm starting to realize that the majority of people can't hold onto money, and have zero ideo how to make money work for them. You could give a million to every person right now, and the huge majority would be broke again within a decade. We need financial literacy taught in schools.
@@DivinityAwakened if you gave me a million dollars I'd be content with wasting like 10k on "fun stuff" then like.. just investment and buying some land and I'd be content with just not needing to worry about food or bills
@@rufusgoatman5381 you got the idea. If you're ever blessed to come into some money through a lottery or inheritance, HIT THE BOOKS. Fully immerse yourself in financial knowledge, net work with investors, and develop a solid investment plan. Also, follow your gut. I bought bit coin when everyone thought I was crazy. Nowhere near enough, but enough to change my life. People are are getting rich over stupid shvt everyday. Try to be one of those guys.
@@kylesteele9403no you didn't, I just checked. I'm in the process of filing the paperwork now. I'll come back and let you know when you're in trouble.
Here's my scam idea I mean my therapy idea: Sonic Therapy. You pay me $2-12,000 to go to an exclusive three-storey building. On the top floor are a bunch of bathtubs. You hop in one of those bad boys and a super secret piece of technology bombards you with relaxing vibrations to alleviate stress, grow back missing body parts, and have your parents love each other again. Side business: You pay me $2-12,000 to go to an exclusive three-storey building. On the bottom level is the biggest rave you've ever attended. We have Jack from the 7-Eleven down the street as DJ, Kim from corporate brought Sunny D, and your Aunt Cheryl isn't invited.
"Oh hi, Jim. How did your wife's retreat go?" "It's great, man. She's been so quiet since she got back. No more arguments." "Wow, so that stuff really works?" "Nah, her throat is just too sore."
Now for the real question: did Jim’s wife go to the retreat in the forest, or to Andrew’s house right around the corner? Both can provide the sore throat.
Then you don't know human beings. Trust me, I've had those thoughts where I would considering believing in things everybody would tell me are baseless and stupid just because I didn't know much about them. That's why I sometimes hesitate in engaging in arguments that challenge my beliefs unless I am absolutely certain I have the skills to debunk said idiots. Those people may as well have turned off their brains.
So any therapist worth their salt would tell you that using punching pillows and shit like this doesn’t make you less angry, it just trains you to use physical force when you are angry. And it makes you angrier in the moment.
@@vmofu7317 That only teaches you that whenever you are angry you need to break something to "release the stress" Now imaging if your whole life you deal with rage with breaking stuff, and then suddenly you have kids... yeah thought so Edit: So people took what i said, twisted it and are saying i support domestic abuse???????? Or that i support people "bottling up their emotions until they die"??????? What is wrong with all of you guys HOLY...
@@decas5505 botteling up is worse though, if you don't 'release your stress' you just become miserable and annoying and eventually burst out with that anger on someone else over basically nothing. Most people I know usually scream their anger out, I just can't do it so I have more anger issues then them. Also, no bots?
@@decas5505no the idea is to channel your emotions into appropriate activities like, for example, exercising, journaling, going out into the woods and screaming, etc. That way you learn to work through tough emotions rather than bottling them up inside until they burst. I don't think there's a correlation between DBT therapy and physical violence. In fact I believe the opposite is true; when you have a healthy outlet for emotions like anger or frustration, you're less likely to have outbursts.
The worst part of all this is that psychology suggests that giving in to your frustration with physical aggression makes it EASIER to physically vent your frustration next time. These women are paying thousands of dollars to become worse versions of themselves.
I feel like this isnt exactly correct because then how does exercise come into play? It's the same hormones you're using. But Im also bias cause im on teams sociology and anthropology and our favorite thing to do is dunk on psychology
@@augervongaribaldiPhysical aggression, such as yelling angrily and destroying sticks. Not a constructive, effortful activity like exercise. I majored in psych and @warriorscholar41 is right.
if you read the stuff charlie puts on the screen instead of his mischaracterization, youll find that the entire point of the retreat is to help people express their anger more, not less
@@UnicornsExist17 but you do that in exercise too??? You yell to get better results, you boost adrenaline by doing so. You are confusing behavior and intention for aggression? Are you trying to picture hurting someone? If you associate your adrenaline with a behavior like that then of course ifs going to be associated with aggression.
There's this place in boston (I think?) that's touted as a "rage ground". You basically just get dressed in safety gear, enter a warehouse with junk and decommissioned office supplied, then use sledgehammers and similar tools to smash and bash anything and everything in range. This was a couple years ago so I don't remember the specifics, but I'm pretty darn sure they didn't ask for THOUSANDS of dollars for it.
Not even close at all lol it’s “rage rooms” all over the place now, they’re not that expensive at all (unless you do the add-ons like if you want to destroy a whole car Street Fighter style, they’ll actually do that for you but it costs quite a bit more - still not close to even 1 single thousand)
Yeah at least the are providing things that cost money in that scenario…….i mean this is paying to do something you can literally do for free on any hiking trail.
I like how the third "endorsement" comment was actually suggesting resorting to violence. Calling the scam a "bandage over a bleeding wound" was used in the context of "it might feel better, but doesn't solve the issue," following with basically "go actually hit the person."
that. that is toxic feminism. "hurt back who hurt you first". This and TERFs. I'm a woman myself and HATE when people say toxic feminity dosen't exists alongside toxic masculinity.
I think MMA can help, some people seem argumentative partly because they don't have any other way to take their anger out. Not saying you should assault the other person instead of insult them 😂 but MMA is a good way to channel your anger into something so that you can be more patient and kind in every day life. I'm sure all sports have this effect on some level though.
You know, when I get angry, I usually eat some rare cooked meat, watch a gore film, and listen to extreme horror novels. Sometimes I'll draw if I don't have access to any of the above. You know, like a relatively normal person. It's much cheaper too.
It's been debunked numerous times that "releasing anger and rage" this way does not work and actually makes you more angry and liable to lash out in the future.
Sometimes I wonder whether your anger is just a part of how you respond to certain things in certain situations and how the actual solution is to try changing your habits to less destructive methods like taking a walk, exercising or just doing something you enjoy and the hope it takes the bad feeling all away.
This is honestly why exercise is so important, it is one of the few ways you can truly go all out physically and exhaust yourself. Often very therapeutic 🙏
This is one of the reasons I've decided to hit the gym, actually. I did martial arts for nearly a decade and was going through a lot of trauma during that time, and it was very, very therapeutic. Had to quit due to some chronic illnesses and moving, and depression and EDs have been kicking my ass since. Decided to pick myself up, channel that negative energy into getting gains and getting back into shape like I used to be, and am now making myself a routine. There have been a lot of proven studies on how physical activity and mental health correlate, too.
@@squidzen glad you’re back at it. It’s not even about gains tho, just extending your physical exertion, getting the blood flowing and all that, super good for mental and physical health. Some people just wanna get built and that’s totally fine, I prefer to just stay fit and have fun.
So you’re telling me there are people out there spending 4K to scream while slamming a stick on the ground when the kids in my neighborhood already do that for free?
Personally the act of physically exerting myself is a great way to release anger, I used to do martial arts and once I quit I lost that outlet for my anger, and it leached into my interpersonal interactions, but I guess according to most comments here, studies say doing this kind of thing is bad for you, I think the difference is wether you are living in the anger while you’re releasing it vs focusing on the exertion itself, letting your emotions flow subconsciously while you work, so I’ve started doing other stuff like going to the gym or yard work and it’s kinda having the same effect, still not as good as when I was doing martial arts, but it’s getting better
I read the title and was skeptical, because there are some pretty dumb scams out there. Sorry I doubted you. The entire time watching this, I was thinking "So none of the people paying for this ever considered that they could somewhere they won't bother anyone and do that for free?"
Sometimes people are so locked into their own lifestyles that they forget what they can do if they would step out of their schedules for a moment. They forget how it is without responsibility sometimes; they expect that to go out into the wild and do nothing they must pay for it like all responsibilities.
@@normanmai7865 i mean you cant really blame them, not when basic survival, any type of luxury, even water, and sometimes even saving someones life, can come at a cost
Why would they. That little self respect and lack of emotional stability indicate someone that has never paid for anything with a dollar they worked for. I smell alot of daddy's money and feminist "working" at non profits or in some hr/counsler b.s..
2:38 “But I don’t have a stick, so instead I’m using this Bold and Brash picture.” Charlie’s power over the rage magic is so strong he can’t use a stick, he needs to use an ancient artifact as an athame
I have a class that costs 5 thousand bucks. I call it Sit and Spin class. You release your anger by siting in an office chair spinning around crying and yelling that you just got Had for 5 thousand bucks. When your done you get a bite size snickers ( twix of you have a peanut allergy).
I have a grad class to yours, we sit on hard benches for hours, we learn to wait in lines like masters, while the temperature varies wildly, hired actors nudge you, talk too loud about their personal matters on the phone and the worst kind of muzak is running on very short loop on the background. Can be applied to elevator rides too, since there wont be breaks or food available. Youll get a highly coveted queue pro diploma for measly 13 gees. All disclaimers ever invented apply. Ask about our better sleep program.
@@triangularsphere oh absolutely. I'm nothing if im not flexible and right now for a limited time only If you sign up I'll throw in another Twix for FREE!
There’s also the fact that doing this is scientifically proven to not only NOT help with anger whatsoever, but actually make anger issues WORSE by ruminating on frustration to the point of rage instead of processing and coming to terms with it. It’s not just a scam it’s actively detrimental to your mental health. physical releases of energy are good for you, but doing so with the intent of working yourself up into an angry fervor is so counterproductive :(
@@thedoomtestament4547 can’t tell if there’s actually a snopes article about this or if you’re being silly but check out Brad Bushman’s paper “Catharsis, Rumination, Distraction, Anger, and Aggressive Responding”
@@burp2019 Yeah, I’m not saying I agree with that person. I was just pointing out how they didn’t even pick up on that person calling their program a temporary solution.
"Uh, sir... we call that public indecency and are requesting you to stop" "Please do it in the comfort of your own home, not in front of a Chucke E Cheese"
It’s even funnier if you know the psychology behind it actually shows constantly releasing anger instead of the root of why your angry doesn’t create healthy change in the long term 💀
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"Safe space with no judgement"
Get recorded, put on the internet, and judged by millions of people
LMAO
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
😅My parents said if I hit 2k, they'd buy me a professional camera for recording! Pls guys I'm literally begging you!!kkkkkk
The irony is real
The bots can edit their comments now? That's wild lol
Lma
Scam is such a harsh word. This is clearly an operation meant to rescue money from those unable to appreciate it's value.
😂😂😂😂
That is hilarious!!
LMAO good one.
“If they fall for my scam, they don’t deserve their money”
the poor money.. being neglected. shes a true hero
They did a lot of studies on rage therapy in psychology and the consensus now is that it actually makes people’s anger worse than it was before. It doesn’t release the anger and allow it to go away. It reinforces it
That’s what I was thinking too. Processing your anger by screaming and hitting things doesn’t seem healthy to me.
Right yikes
No it doesn't, that's if you don't do anything about the problem. As someone who vents like this, it's actually very helpful to have a time and place. Now I know that whenever I feel angry I can just bottle it up and then release it somewhere else.
@@2ndpartycrasher954 I’m sure you know better than the psychologist who studied this lol
Releasing anger via exercise or playing a sport is healthy. But just raging and screaming and smashing stuff makes it worse. It conditions you to respond aggressively and violently when angry
@@2ndpartycrasher954 idk man, bottling loads of stuff up.Waiting to release the rage doesn't sound that healthy to me. I think learning to let go would be more helpful.
it's actually genius: you get home, then you realize you've been scammed so you're even more pissed and now you have to go back to release it again
I'm in the wrong business. I never realized I could sell sticks for $4k lol
No you're not. It's immoral to deceive stupid people.
@MalecUTTPohh god it's one of you guys...
0:00 My parents said if I hit 2k, they'd buy me a professional camera for recording! Pls guys I'm literally begging you!!❤❤❤❤❤
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
@@Mvgicalwhen has a business not been immoral?
A street hawker was selling fish for a $1000/lb, the man asks that what's so special about it and the seller replies that it will give you wisdom. The man buys it, cooks it, eats it, feels like an ordinary fish, goes back to the seller and says that he was scammed coz there ain't such a fish that can give wisdom, to which the seller says "looks like it worked, you ARE wiser now".
@@jebronlames987no way 🤯
@jebronlames987 isn't that what a joke is? Or it would just be a funny story?
I remember seeing this comment before lol.
@@jebronlames987 Thanks for the enlightenment. I NEVER could have realized he was joking otherwise lol
Sorry. I thought they were trying to pass the story off as real.
Squidward: I call it "Bold and Brash"
Charlie: More like "Fold and Smash"
Some call it "belongs in the trash" 🧐
More like (Shit was SO cash)
2:38 😂
Not only is this a scam, its also unhealthy. Human beings don't really "get things out of their system" by indulging in it. By being angry and throwing or hitting things as a way to be calm is only a temporary fix for a much deeper problem later on. Please, resolve your problems in a way thats going to actually help your mental health.
So she's training their brains to only be able to calm down by screaming and hitting things... Sounds really healthy.
right?? that's something I don't think these people understand, or give enough credence to. you can rewire how your brain processes/releases emotion by repeat behavior. we're all pavlov's dogs lol
They’ll always come back for more, now that they’re like “why am I still so angry all the time”
That's exactly what I was going to say. There's no such thing as actually expressing anger to cure anger. The cure to emotional instability is emotional control.
Nah, sometimes you need to let your emotions out, in a controlled and safe manner
Ik right? Anyways time to go chug a monster and punch my drywall again
“Go pay 2-4 thousand dollars to swing a fucking stick”
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congratulations, you said the thing in the video. now go sit in the corner in shame and think about what you've done.
@@MacJonesBurnerAcc Compensating for no parental attention? 🤨🤨🤨
You can do that for free, no?
I started camping again and i can just imagine actually relaxing next to my campfire, cooking some sausages and hear a bunch of people smacking sticks around screaming.
Me and the skinwalker would be so confused..
this is really funny because its basically the same idea as a rage room, and theres a few studies ive seen suggesting venting your anger in this sort of way can just make it worse
maybe theyre hoping to make your anger issues worse so you come back and spend 4k again
2:42 Cavemen discovering fire for the first time.
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You have to be this stupid to waste your money on this just to smash some sticks and stones while yelling
For now, we can.
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... We literally have rage rooms. You know the rooms you like pay significantly less than $4,000 to get into so you could take a baseball bat or an axe to a television set? We have that.
You can also just go into the woods for free, pick up a stick for free, and smash it onto the ground for free.
@@ShadeSlayer1911 tvs sound more fun tho, and my neighbors wont look at me like ive completely lost my mind
@@notlucas6859 tvs are more dangerous. besides, being in nature is better for your mental health.
There are also glass bottles tables uuh dvds in some @@templarknight7
I did it for $30 for fun not even rage
👁👄👁 - A confused squirrel in the tree matching these overgrown children lol
6:59 he snapped and summoned an Ad. ❕❕❕❕
my ad was for marvel snap too lol
"Safe space" huh, nothing feels safer than being in the woods surrounded by screaming people violently hitting things.
They really should see themselves from the third person as somebody walking in on the road, seeing them whacking sticks, yelling, and led by someone
Straight outta the beginning of 2001: A Space Odyssey
I choose the bear
@@Azmania3000you're brave to be hitting bears like that
@@FleshWizard69420we have big sticks and rage what they gonna do
2:38 I love how Charlie’s “rage ritual” is just his genuine reaction to seeing a cockroach.
i got the 69th like
how did he say it agin?
"whooo yea baby thats what ive been waiting for thats what its all about wwoooooooooooo"
newest charlie out of context clip
But it's not as intense as his reaction to a wasp
Why is Charlie clowning on this when he wastes thousands of dollars on shiny cardboard? Sounds like a pos hypocrite take coming from him.
@@BfkcjscbsnjcI mean collecting something you personally and enjoy and can be a monetary investment with prices increasing over time is different from paying $4k for something you can just go and do in any wooded area a few steps off a trail.
theres no such thing as getting anger out of your system, it will come back within seconds in some of them. it always comes back.
On a student campus in Sweden they used to yell out the window every tuesday or something at 10 in the evening to relieve frustration or stress. It was interesting in the weeks before exams
Back in the 80s there were a bunch of therapists peddling this thing called rebirthing as a cure for all sorts of psychological problems. They would charge hundreds of dollars per hour to wrap their clients in a blanket, sit on them and tell them to fight their way out of the blanket because that somehow mimics the birthing process. It was all the rage until a young girl died of suffocation because she had multiple grown ass adults smothering her in a blanket and screaming at her to fight her way out. I wonder how long this rage retreat nonsense will go on before somebody gets hurt or worse?
omg petscop reference
I remember hearing about that story. She was a foster kid and they were trying to “cure her trauma” or something like that right?
@@tokz2it’s a real case 😭
@@tokz2"a kid got murdered! Is that an internet series reference?" Lol, yeah, it was referenced in petscop, but it's a real case about a little girl
@@tokz2Bruh, the creator of PetScop didn’t like that theory nor was that his intention, gtfo
The worst part is that "releasing anger" with violent or destructive actions has been shown in every study that has researched it to be counterproductive and actually increase stress and anger hormones. It might feel good to destroy stuff, but it wont actually fix the emotions.
It makes me think of the Primal Scream therapy that was the big thing back in the early 70s. Everyone jumped on the bandwagon and it turned out to be pretty much useless.
You are also training the body to normalise such actions as well as relate them to minor things.
Most people go their entire life without resorting to violence... it's actually very normal.
It's absolutely okay as a last resort when you realize you've been bottling for a very long time, as long as you don't sustain yourself in this state for too long, and then immediately move to something more restorative.
But yes, this should not be anyone's primary coping skill. The point is to use coping skills before getting to the point of needing to release explosive emotions. However, this is relative- for those who use maladaptive coping skills such as drugs or self injury, this is an acceptable transition into less-destructive coping skills.
I'm a mental health worker based in DBT.
@@hanthonyc It's not okay. Doing this won't fix the issue it will quite literally help to lay foundations to develop maladaptive behavior. Proper therapeutic techniques rely on you avoiding this kind of thing because it literally will only cause you problems.
Why is Charlie clowning on this when he wastes thousands of dollars on shiny cardboard? Sounds like a pos hypocrite take coming from him.
we have a local smash room over here and it is literally only $50 to be in there for an hour with unlimited weapons, breakable stuff, an individual matted soundproof room, and protective gear is even included!! what this woman is doing is definitely a scam
Get Blade and Sorcery and a VR headset. Done. Never released so much pent up frustration in my life
Yea.... I'm pretty sure physiatrists recommend against "release" therapy because you're actually training yourself to get angry and violent in order to handle your emotions.
Like anything, it’s okay in moderation. Otherwise it’ll get expensive lol
one bad day after that training and your home looks like a garbage dump and youve lost 50% of your social group... dont recommend.
@@searsbear7965 only if it’s separate lol, therapists/ psychiatrists giving the exercises would just be the same price as regular therapy (bc that’s just seeing a therapist, not $4k stick screaming 😂)
Yep it has the opposite effect
Why would you be training yourself to get angry. That's not the point.
"it's me, charles, your spiritual gary godfather"
i half expected him to meow after that
He's our Gary Fodgather
@DontReadMyPicture93Good thing i dont want to. 😂
i was your 700th Like :)
I bet this makes them feel really good for awhile, at least until the rent is due.
I started yelling “NOO! NOO STOOOP!” When you started hitting the bold and brash against the floor
"Who has made you angry? Who has hurt you?" Imagine they just start pummeling Mia
That must hurt 😂
Wdym by pummelin her?
LMAO
Interestingly enough, Mia is buddies with Toe Rogan’s favorite mystical friend (and _”ONNIT”_ co-founder), habitual name-changer Chris / Aubrey “The Warrior Poet” Marcus
No such thing as a coincidence
Charlie being bold and brash with Bold and Brash is going to blow up 100%
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You know what else is bold and brash? All these bots above me spawning and spamming comments like flies whenever there are leftover foods on the trashcan.
@@MacJonesBurnerAccwho even are you
@@anut8733they're the roaches that Charlie couldn't kill
it becomes even more of a waste when you realize it’s a proven fact that “releasing” anger by physical aggression doesn’t relieve negative feelings, it exacerbates them
as an angsty teenager i used to get my anger out by hitting a tree with a stick, no need for yelling. i'd say it was a lot more productive than hitting the ground because i got a rock solid wrist and taught myself how to hit things optimally, i also used to ride my bike like a maniac and that taught me how to handle high speed turns and how to patch myself up after a crash.
as an adult i cannot fathom feeling so much anger and having no clue how to process it to the point you'd sign away 4k to go do something like this
these ppl have never heard of screaming in their car alone on the way home from work, and it shows
Literally saw someone screaming in their car in the parking lot of Walmart and just thought "same fam" and moved on with my life. And it was totally free for her to do that.
These people have never heard of owning dumbells at home and a pull up bar and screaming your lungs out while simultaneously letting out endorphins and increasing your muscle mass and strength. If you have neighbours close to your room switch to a room that isn't close your neighbours and close all your windows, and you could shut down the blinds if you want to as well. You are welcome
Everyone knows the silent ride home with no music is how you do it
lmaoo seriously
@@86angrybees I need the music personally lol.
Lmao imagine being a French citizen just going about your day and suddenly hearing this coyote yip-yapping coming from over yonder, and it's a bunch of ladies LARPing as Amazon barbarians in the middle of the woods💀
I live in France right next to a forest, if that ever goes down there I’m recording that shit 😂
@@itzsillybob810submit the footage as “Time traveller observes Gaulish warriors”
Ah yes the French coyotes. My favorite animal.
I don't think that's what Amazon barbarians would sound like. More likely the people who would get their bodies ripped off by the Amazons.
I don't know why my first thought was mountain lion/cougar (if you ever heard a female cougar, they sound like a woman getting murdered)
Watching Charlie slap a metal poster on the ground while screaming like an ape is the most disturbing thing I've ever seen.
Me seeing Charly screaming, yelling while slamming a poster on the ground just made my year💥
Country folk: lets go camping, chop some wood for a fire, go fishing, take the 4 wheelers up the trail.
City folk:
to be a comment that isnt a bot, i am so lucky to live near a city but also near a hiking trail its my saving grace as someone who hates living around tons of people and cars. i wish i was able to just roam in the countryside bro
@@scarlett6143 i grew up out in a wooded countryside, and now i live in the city. Its kinda nutty how different the culture can be between the country and city.
@@scarlett6143 I wanna say that I agree cars suck and being in the wild is cool
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
@@normanmai7865 driving is actually terrifying because of the people driving. going 80 on an empty country road? fun. doing 80 on a regular city road and Tboning a mothers minivan? i hope you rot. car centric infrastructure literally makes it impossible to not have a car though
At this point, I'm convinced scammers are just trying to rescue money from the unworthy
yea at this stage is it even a Scam anymore ?
If someone is this brain dead to fall for this garbage i don't think you can blame the " scammer " for it
Yeah I don't think it's a scam, it's just someone being like "You know pay for it if you want to it's up to you!" 🤣 Not like the creator has a cult or anything weird like that, worst case scenario they probably selling some "mystic stick" oriented towards letting out specific feelings
The older I get, the more I'm starting to realize that the majority of people can't hold onto money, and have zero ideo how to make money work for them. You could give a million to every person right now, and the huge majority would be broke again within a decade. We need financial literacy taught in schools.
@@DivinityAwakened if you gave me a million dollars I'd be content with wasting like 10k on "fun stuff" then like.. just investment and buying some land and I'd be content with just not needing to worry about food or bills
@@rufusgoatman5381 you got the idea. If you're ever blessed to come into some money through a lottery or inheritance, HIT THE BOOKS. Fully immerse yourself in financial knowledge, net work with investors, and develop a solid investment plan. Also, follow your gut.
I bought bit coin when everyone thought I was crazy. Nowhere near enough, but enough to change my life. People are are getting rich over stupid shvt everyday. Try to be one of those guys.
Charlie beating the floor with that poster had me in tears
I like how for that price you could sound proof a room in your own house and scream whenever you want
Sad part about this is none of them had sticks worth collecting
Go easy on them, being able to spot a good stick is instinctual for us guys.
@@MiSambrastick big. Good shape. Small stick also good. Need good shape.
@@kylesteele9403how know stick is big large? me only get medium stick. where get big stick? thank
That'll probably cost extra
@@kylesteele9403sword shape is good shape. Gun shape is also good shape
I've been out in the woods for past 456 days and I have yet to find a stick without a price tag on it... send help.
Here's the life line for sticks: 80085
hey I trademarked that, pay up or face my lawyers wrath
@@bloodlove93hey, I registered copyrighted that. Pay up or face my lawyer's wrath
@@kylesteele9403no you didn't, I just checked. I'm in the process of filing the paperwork now. I'll come back and let you know when you're in trouble.
I steal and pirate those sticks from amazon 🗿
We’re not just going backwards as a species, we’re sprinting backwards like there’s a finish line
Here's my scam idea I mean my therapy idea: Sonic Therapy. You pay me $2-12,000 to go to an exclusive three-storey building. On the top floor are a bunch of bathtubs. You hop in one of those bad boys and a super secret piece of technology bombards you with relaxing vibrations to alleviate stress, grow back missing body parts, and have your parents love each other again.
Side business: You pay me $2-12,000 to go to an exclusive three-storey building. On the bottom level is the biggest rave you've ever attended. We have Jack from the 7-Eleven down the street as DJ, Kim from corporate brought Sunny D, and your Aunt Cheryl isn't invited.
I still don't understand how people would pay for this when it's completely free.
*laughs in NFTS laughs harder in onlyfans*
@MalecUTTPMY CONTENT IS BETTER YOU FUCKING BETTER
People are incredibly ignorant.
It's like paying for oxygen 😂
@@Brandon-vj6zz O-Hare Air 💀
This is clearly a high quality self defense class where your defense is not to attack but to confuse the enemy with psychopathic screams
So basically the same thing the Maori did? A Haka?
@@Frankie_Fishhow dare
Man, if only i had did that during adolescent years, my bullies wouldn't even dare to look my way
They don't need courses to do this. It's what they usually do.
@@aeoligarlic4024Hey, it worked pretty well in my experience. They'd start talking *behind* my back instead, but at least it wasn't to my face! 😂
2:41 someone take this out of context
I have a forest near me, didn't know I could get 4k for taking people there to scream lmao
2:40 "so i will be using this bold and brash picture"
but its the peak of art!
Nah, that shit belong in the trash lol jk
Where could I get this
More like "belongs in the trash". 💅
@@igor2642 displate
Is that a Derpy pfp?... Yknow what, Jesus loves yall❤
"Oh hi, Jim. How did your wife's retreat go?"
"It's great, man. She's been so quiet since she got back. No more arguments."
"Wow, so that stuff really works?"
"Nah, her throat is just too sore."
Now for the real question: did Jim’s wife go to the retreat in the forest, or to Andrew’s house right around the corner? Both can provide the sore throat.
But she brought her stick back with her and has been clobbering me with it whenever I place my dirty cup in the sink.
@@Official_KezzieWhy not both?
2:42 me when I see a cockroach in my bathroom at 3am
"Up to 20 minutes" they're paying $4k and they aren't even allowed to beat sticks on the ground for a full hour.
6:48 „Hey it’s me Charles, your Gary Godfather“ f*ckin KILLED ME
He is my Gary Godfather.
Going in the "out of context" Charlie vids for sure and also the part at 2:42
He literally said that as I read this lmao
Love when that happens @@huntercool2232
Careful, don't use Nerdrotic's NPC name in vain!
"And she describes herself as a spiritual fairy godmother." she just became my favorite scam artist 😂
And it only gets so much funnier when it cuts to her screeching in the woods like she got possessed by sasquatch 😂😂😂
A part of me refuses to believe that people are this gullible
Then you don't know human beings.
Trust me, I've had those thoughts where I would considering believing in things everybody would tell me are baseless and stupid just because I didn't know much about them. That's why I sometimes hesitate in engaging in arguments that challenge my beliefs unless I am absolutely certain I have the skills to debunk said idiots.
Those people may as well have turned off their brains.
2:40 Charlie's rage output
The confused bear getting a 20 kill victory royal
THAT BEAR IS SITTING THERE WONDERING WHAT THE HELL IS THIS CRAZY CHICK DOING!
At least it's not a random man
Wouldn't happen. Bears don't go after people in that many numbers. Would avoid them. Smart bear.
@MalecUTTPwhat uttp?
Thumbs down for children's game reference
So any therapist worth their salt would tell you that using punching pillows and shit like this doesn’t make you less angry, it just trains you to use physical force when you are angry. And it makes you angrier in the moment.
Uh wrong. Taking your anger out safely through punching bags, pillows, trash, with a weighted ball, or a stick helps. It’s called DBT
@@vmofu7317 That only teaches you that whenever you are angry you need to break something to "release the stress"
Now imaging if your whole life you deal with rage with breaking stuff, and then suddenly you have kids... yeah thought so
Edit: So people took what i said, twisted it and are saying i support domestic abuse???????? Or that i support people "bottling up their emotions until they die"???????
What is wrong with all of you guys HOLY...
@@vmofu7317This is not DBT.
@@decas5505 botteling up is worse though, if you don't 'release your stress' you just become miserable and annoying and eventually burst out with that anger on someone else over basically nothing. Most people I know usually scream their anger out, I just can't do it so I have more anger issues then them.
Also, no bots?
@@decas5505no the idea is to channel your emotions into appropriate activities like, for example, exercising, journaling, going out into the woods and screaming, etc. That way you learn to work through tough emotions rather than bottling them up inside until they burst. I don't think there's a correlation between DBT therapy and physical violence. In fact I believe the opposite is true; when you have a healthy outlet for emotions like anger or frustration, you're less likely to have outbursts.
Makes sense to me, if I paid that much for this I’d feel angry and need to swing sticks and yell too
At this point im tempted to shift all blame off the shoulders of the scammers
The worst part of all this is that psychology suggests that giving in to your frustration with physical aggression makes it EASIER to physically vent your frustration next time. These women are paying thousands of dollars to become worse versions of themselves.
I feel like this isnt exactly correct because then how does exercise come into play? It's the same hormones you're using. But Im also bias cause im on teams sociology and anthropology and our favorite thing to do is dunk on psychology
@@augervongaribaldiPhysical aggression, such as yelling angrily and destroying sticks. Not a constructive, effortful activity like exercise. I majored in psych and @warriorscholar41 is right.
if you read the stuff charlie puts on the screen instead of his mischaracterization, youll find that the entire point of the retreat is to help people express their anger more, not less
@@UnicornsExist17
Then I can't use a punching bag/dummy?
@@UnicornsExist17 but you do that in exercise too??? You yell to get better results, you boost adrenaline by doing so. You are confusing behavior and intention for aggression? Are you trying to picture hurting someone? If you associate your adrenaline with a behavior like that then of course ifs going to be associated with aggression.
4 grand to scream and get angry is almost as unreasonable as fast food prices
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@MacJonesBurnerAcc , you do realize the group comment you are copying promotes cp right?
@@LanewreckIt's a bot.
@@Lanewreckwhat’s cp stand for?
The creator was clearly compensated for endorsing this hilariously preposterous scam.
Who else got an ad at 7:05?
There's this place in boston (I think?) that's touted as a "rage ground". You basically just get dressed in safety gear, enter a warehouse with junk and decommissioned office supplied, then use sledgehammers and similar tools to smash and bash anything and everything in range.
This was a couple years ago so I don't remember the specifics, but I'm pretty darn sure they didn't ask for THOUSANDS of dollars for it.
... a rage room?
Not even close at all lol it’s “rage rooms” all over the place now, they’re not that expensive at all
(unless you do the add-ons like if you want to destroy a whole car Street Fighter style, they’ll actually do that for you but it costs quite a bit more - still not close to even 1 single thousand)
Yeah at least the are providing things that cost money in that scenario…….i mean this is paying to do something you can literally do for free on any hiking trail.
5:10
Equally regarded
Grifters gonna grift, esp. if there's idiot willing to pay. 🤷♂
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good god, the bots are invading
The Automatons found this* comment very important to take over apparently
Where can I invest in this?
If it's that easy to pull money out of their pockets I can't really blame whoever came up with this🤷♂️
The first video of them with screaming in the woods got me weak 😂😂
love how he ends it so casually
The number of clips in this video that could be "Penguinz0 out of context" is insane
3:09 🤣
@@Duturius 2:41
Bold and brash? More like bold and bashed
I like how the third "endorsement" comment was actually suggesting resorting to violence. Calling the scam a "bandage over a bleeding wound" was used in the context of "it might feel better, but doesn't solve the issue," following with basically "go actually hit the person."
that. that is toxic feminism. "hurt back who hurt you first". This and TERFs. I'm a woman myself and HATE when people say toxic feminity dosen't exists alongside toxic masculinity.
Yeah basiclly fight club
I think MMA can help, some people seem argumentative partly because they don't have any other way to take their anger out. Not saying you should assault the other person instead of insult them 😂 but MMA is a good way to channel your anger into something so that you can be more patient and kind in every day life. I'm sure all sports have this effect on some level though.
And they said men refuse therapy... we all should go to therapy
And putting a bandage over a bleeding wound is how it's supposed to work🤦 that's what bandages are for
Imagine hiking and coming across this group. A lot of slowly backing away.
You know, when I get angry, I usually eat some rare cooked meat, watch a gore film, and listen to extreme horror novels. Sometimes I'll draw if I don't have access to any of the above. You know, like a relatively normal person. It's much cheaper too.
2:42 Finally: I know what they're doing in the apartment above me
Nah they just banging
HELP
You too, eh?
We must be on the same floor
It's been debunked numerous times that "releasing anger and rage" this way does not work and actually makes you more angry and liable to lash out in the future.
Sometimes I wonder whether your anger is just a part of how you respond to certain things in certain situations and how the actual solution is to try changing your habits to less destructive methods like taking a walk, exercising or just doing something you enjoy and the hope it takes the bad feeling all away.
Sounds like a rage room without the satisfaction of breaking stuff
Training their brains teaching them how to burn money
This is honestly why exercise is so important, it is one of the few ways you can truly go all out physically and exhaust yourself. Often very therapeutic 🙏
This is one of the reasons I've decided to hit the gym, actually.
I did martial arts for nearly a decade and was going through a lot of trauma during that time, and it was very, very therapeutic. Had to quit due to some chronic illnesses and moving, and depression and EDs have been kicking my ass since. Decided to pick myself up, channel that negative energy into getting gains and getting back into shape like I used to be, and am now making myself a routine.
There have been a lot of proven studies on how physical activity and mental health correlate, too.
@@squidzen glad you’re back at it. It’s not even about gains tho, just extending your physical exertion, getting the blood flowing and all that, super good for mental and physical health. Some people just wanna get built and that’s totally fine, I prefer to just stay fit and have fun.
@@anywallsocket Oh, definitely! I just wanted to get my mind off of "get skinny," and rather put it into something else. It's been working for me!
Exercise is fun too
You could also just rob banks.
So you’re telling me there are people out there spending 4K to scream while slamming a stick on the ground when the kids in my neighborhood already do that for free?
Some people are so dumb. 🙄
P.T. Barnum said it so long ago "there's one born every minute" 💸
Personally the act of physically exerting myself is a great way to release anger, I used to do martial arts and once I quit I lost that outlet for my anger, and it leached into my interpersonal interactions, but I guess according to most comments here, studies say doing this kind of thing is bad for you, I think the difference is wether you are living in the anger while you’re releasing it vs focusing on the exertion itself, letting your emotions flow subconsciously while you work, so I’ve started doing other stuff like going to the gym or yard work and it’s kinda having the same effect, still not as good as when I was doing martial arts, but it’s getting better
Absolutely! It's ridiculous how these "rage rituals" charge thousands for something you can do for free. Total scam!
I read the title and was skeptical, because there are some pretty dumb scams out there. Sorry I doubted you. The entire time watching this, I was thinking "So none of the people paying for this ever considered that they could somewhere they won't bother anyone and do that for free?"
Sometimes people are so locked into their own lifestyles that they forget what they can do if they would step out of their schedules for a moment. They forget how it is without responsibility sometimes; they expect that to go out into the wild and do nothing they must pay for it like all responsibilities.
@@normanmai7865 i mean you cant really blame them, not when basic survival, any type of luxury, even water, and sometimes even saving someones life, can come at a cost
Hell, I can do that in my backyard and, as long as it’s not night, people wouldn’t give a shit.
Why would they. That little self respect and lack of emotional stability indicate someone that has never paid for anything with a dollar they worked for. I smell alot of daddy's money and feminist "working" at non profits or in some hr/counsler b.s..
@@normanmai7865nah they're just fucking stupid
2:38 “But I don’t have a stick, so instead I’m using this Bold and Brash picture.” Charlie’s power over the rage magic is so strong he can’t use a stick, he needs to use an ancient artifact as an athame
"you have more fun as a follower but you make more money as a leader"
They sorted by controversial to find the comments
Maybe they should take notes from Aggretsuko and put all that effort into renting out karaoke rooms and busting out heavy metal.
That would require them to have good taste in entertainment
I have a class that costs 5 thousand bucks. I call it Sit and Spin class. You release your anger by siting in an office chair spinning around crying and yelling that you just got Had for 5 thousand bucks. When your done you get a bite size snickers ( twix of you have a peanut allergy).
I have a grad class to yours, we sit on hard benches for hours, we learn to wait in lines like masters, while the temperature varies wildly, hired actors nudge you, talk too loud about their personal matters on the phone and the worst kind of muzak is running on very short loop on the background. Can be applied to elevator rides too, since there wont be breaks or food available. Youll get a highly coveted queue pro diploma for measly 13 gees. All disclaimers ever invented apply. Ask about our better sleep program.
Brilliant business plan, you get them so dizzy that you can steal even the last of their money straight from their wallets right in front of them
Worth.
I don’t have a peanut allergy but I prefer Twix, could I get that accommodation too?
@@triangularsphere oh absolutely. I'm nothing if im not flexible and right now for a limited time only If you sign up I'll throw in another Twix for FREE!
There’s also the fact that doing this is scientifically proven to not only NOT help with anger whatsoever, but actually make anger issues WORSE by ruminating on frustration to the point of rage instead of processing and coming to terms with it. It’s not just a scam it’s actively detrimental to your mental health.
physical releases of energy are good for you, but doing so with the intent of working yourself up into an angry fervor is so counterproductive :(
Snopes fact checked this as FALSE
@@thedoomtestament4547 can’t tell if there’s actually a snopes article about this or if you’re being silly but check out Brad Bushman’s paper “Catharsis, Rumination, Distraction, Anger, and Aggressive Responding”
you know they're going to scream for the whole duration when the reality hits that they just spent 4K on nothing
8:03 I love how they don’t even realize that person is calling them out and stating that this is only a temporary solution.
and also saying to beat people lmao
@@burp2019 Yeah, I’m not saying I agree with that person. I was just pointing out how they didn’t even pick up on that person calling their program a temporary solution.
Dont knock it til you try it, Charlie. I swing my stick everyday.
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Garbage Videos
Cry Some More KID LOL
Lol
Was just about to comment this lol
Interesting...
"Uh, sir... we call that public indecency and are requesting you to stop"
"Please do it in the comfort of your own home, not in front of a Chucke E Cheese"
2:35 well we have a new Charlie clip to be put in “YOU LAUGH YOU LOSE PERFECTLY CUT SCREAMS BEST OF 2024” compilation
It’s even funnier if you know the psychology behind it actually shows constantly releasing anger instead of the root of why your angry doesn’t create healthy change in the long term 💀
2:43 The upstairs neighbor at 3 AM
@DontReadMyPicture93okay
No literally
Steaming ham.
@@DrFumiya steamed hams
@@DrFumiyaI'll steam your ham
Charlie screaming and hitting the painting on the ground reminded me of father adrianel on phase 2 when sister freide dies
I spit my drink 😂 holy hell
tbh Charles kind of proved the lady’s point….. turns out it’s not as easy to acquire sticks as he claimed.
@@CantTellYou 😂
I have a stick but it's around 4k are u willing to buy it rn@@CantTellYou
Bold and Brash 😂 Dude that was dope
Imagine you’re on a hike and you round the trail to see this shenanigans
love that this is also really dangerous... anyone who grew up with a tree nearby knows that sticks really like to snap and fly back at your face
I apologize on the behalf of city slickers, we're so tied to our ergonomic chairs we don't have any common sense anymore regarding nature and physics
This is so fucking relatable lol, I GUARANTEE it happens to these banshees frequently
"Safe space with no judgment"
Literally posts it to the internet😂
Full definition of irony. 😂
@@Politography 100% 🤣
It makes me angry knowing there are gullible people out there.
This is a good metaphor for how people are angry for the world and how the world has to take abuse for their own problems