Homeschool Mom Confession | 6 Popular Things We Don't Do In Our Homeschool
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Confession time. I've been homeschooling for 5 years, and these 6 major things in homeschool-world just don't happen. If you DO do these things, you're my hero. My kids and my family situation just don't allow for some of these. You're not a bad parent if you don't do them, I promise
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Been homeschooling for 7 years and have no clue what “morning basket” is lol!
Me either!
Me either 😂
One reason I homeschool was to have less commitment lol not more 😂
I’ve been homeschooling for 13 years. 5 Kiddos ages 23-13 currently.
You’re doing exactly what God intended for you and yours. No more guilt. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Any loving mother this interested in her children’s hearts and souls cannot fail them. I promise.
BTW....4 out of 5 are boys. 🤪🥰
We have 5 kids too! We are 4/5 girls though 💜 I feel we all find inspiration with each other but always make our own decisions💙
We only do 2 and a half hours of school, and we still learn everything we need to know. I learn a lot of stuff on my own, too
Ditto! 🤗
This video made me giggle! My daughter learns best through these things. Very hands on, visual, discussion oriented, gets focused in on a certain subject and learns it quickly, and social. I'm working on switching to making unit studies, she wants a morning basket, wants lots of books, and generally despises "curriculum". I ended up feeling like I'M sitting alone at a table because we don't really like curricums except TinkerActive and Mad for Math workbooks, but I see curriculums shouted everywhere.
With that. I just told my hubby I was gonna go have coffee with my youtube friend and then I clicked your video. So, you just had coffee with a friend who homeschools differently than you and I love that!
I've always said if I can install a love of learning and teach them the basics they can learn anything they put their minds to. Why do we need to pile more on them and mom and cause us all to hate learning.
I enjoy watching your videos, but this one was so great! I'm a homeschooling mom of 16 years, my kids are a senior in college, 11th grade & 8th grade. We never did a co-op, I have no idea what a morning basket is, and we just do school too! My kids all have full lives with wonderful friendships and have done amazing academically. Well done, Mama!
My kids favorite tradition on the first day of school..is getting to sleep in😉I mean..what kid can say, I slept in on the first day of school🤣
Love this video so much. Here's my confession: I'm not a fun mom, I'm impatient and my teaching style is dry. That's why I got Abeka video. Their teaching is fun, thorough and they never get annoyed with my kids 🤣
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Thank you for sharing! I’m new and overwhelmed with “all the things!”
You’re my homeschooling sister! We don’t do any of these things except occasionally we will do nature walks. Thanks for being real!
I'm starting to homeschool this year, hearing that you don't do morning baskets makes me feel AMAZING! Honestly, my son is like your kiddos, he just wants to do his main curriculum work! There's absolutely nothing wrong with that! So we already do readalouds which is a big thing in morning baskets! Honestly, I love the fact that he initiates and starts asking me to read and picks random books outside of his curriculum and I feel that morning baskets are going to overwhelm him and makes him hate learning!
I appreciate this so much. This is my first time homeschool and we just started last week. I have two in elementary and 1 in middles school. I'm not doing morning baskets, I have thought about a co-op but I work as well and wondered when I would find the time. I does my heart good to know that if I don't do these things I'm not alone.
Tiffanie Roberson same here! I’m also doing homeschooling for the first time and so glad to have watched this video.
my mother in law has been homeschooling for 28 yrs (her oldest is 32 and youngest is 7) and she just started morning basket like 3yrs ago so dont feel bad i havent even been able to do it and i have been homeschooling for like 8yrs
I know many homeschooling families that have a lot of out of the house activities but it just caused so much stress for our family. We got it down to once a week going out. (Maybe an 1 extra day at the library) I have 5 kids and 3 of them are under the age of four. Just not safe to go out by myself and chase little ones. 💜
I love how you almost covered your mouth and hid when you said “morning baskets” as if you said a bad word😂 isn’t it true!? We all always see so much (like SO SO much) on social media and we always feel compelled/pressured to replicate these lifestyles and routines and fancy everything. We just CANT do it all, and we should feel free not to! 😉💜⭐️ thanks for sharing
I agree. I haven’t found that my kids get much from co-op. It feels like a waste of a day.
I have home schooled for over 20 years. We have never done any of these things except co-op once. :)
😂 I’m feelin this video. I’m pregnant with #7 but even when I had an only child I was a “no fluff” mom. I don’t have chickens, I don’t do sports, I don’t bake and I’m not fashionable. You look gorgeous in this video BTW. We have a very tidy house, workbooks and lots of gatherings at church.
My schedule for the last decade:
7-9am breakfast and CHORES
9-11am Math and Phonics
Afternoons = naps and finish up with mom
I just had number 4 last year and my house is a wreck...How do you stay tidy? Also our school days often go until 2. How do you get done so quickly? I feel so overwhelmed right now. I have such respect for moms with big families that homeschool! I have no idea how they do it...I do a co-op for art, science, physical education, and social studies. Sometimes they do lit studies too and I still have a hard time getting through all of the curriculum and I still have a pre-schooler and a baby. Next year is going to be even worse with 3 grades...
I don't bake or do sports either.
@@rh10033 3 grades has definitely bin a challenge -- but truthfully, adding another grade to teaching is always an adjustment! And then adding a new little one to the family adds its own set of challenges. I'd focus on a loose schedule-- have your main subject and then have them do independent work if your kids don't have quiet time anymore. Losing quiet time a few years back was probably the biggest adjustment because what I was able to get done with the oldest during that time, I couldn't do anymore. We typically start school by 9 am and finish between 3 pm and 4. That includes LOTS of interruption with our youngest currently 2 and this mama is expecting in a few weeks so I'm almost immobile and am really sloooowww at taking meal times, potty break for 2 year old, etc. You get the point! In terms of home--- systems in place for everything is key! Laundry system, nightly reset, meal planning, etc will all go along way to keep you and the family happy and sane!
When do you do history, science or geography?
@@uke7084 I do My Father’s World and we knock out Bible, History & Reading Aloud first thing in the morning as a group (ages 13, 11, and 9). Then they all split into their independent work to complete Language Arts, Math, and Science (each child is in a science class at our tutorial). Then we complete chores after lunch before our busy afternoons take over with sports and music classes!
I had intentions of doing morning basket, nature walks & poetry tea times this year..... 3 days in and I'm ready to scrap all 3. LOL. My girls just want to get their work done so they can play. Thanks for posting this video! Our brand new first-day tradition is going out for ice cream after they get their schoolwork.
Awww 🥰 I love this idea so much !!! 💕
The freedom in doing homeschool is not being bound to what others are doing. Every family is different and homeschool should reflect that.
Thanks for the honest video!
We AVOID the library 🤣🤣🤣🤣 we always lose something and have fines
With 5 kids in 1st to 8th grade, we are focusing on just surviving! We also try to get school done so the kids and I can get on with life. And the kids are perfectly fine! I know we all have different circumstances and are in different seasons. So, hats off to those moms getting all the "extras" in...and way to go for us moms just getting by! We are all doing our best for our families and we should feel great about that! 🥰🥰
This helps me a lot!! I'm a 1st time homeschooling mom, thank you Stupid Covid lol but God said do and I listen and here I am lol God is good
Thank you for being honest about library visits and the stress. I have said and done the same thing buying from thriftbooks I'm so much less stressed and the kids enjoy the books more.
I love your transparency! Very refreshing!☺️
Thank you so much!!
Thank you so much for making this video! I tried fitting all those things in last year and it took a lot of the joy out of our homeschool days. We also took out our artist, composer, and poetry studies out and I felt so bad about it at first but I’m looking forward to taking it easier and just learning about those things if we have interest and then just get library books to read together.
This video made me feel so much better and less alone! Thank you for being so candid and honest about your homeschooling journey! ❤️ your channel! 😊
Homeschool momma of 6 here! From high school down to preschool. Love your video and we are alot alike!! We keep it simple. 🥰
I stay off social media because I start comparing myself to other moms but that can be WAY too overwhelming! We got this!
So sad for current homeschooling moms… just do what you love without the comparison! You love your kids, you love helping them learn in their way and in your way of teaching! Let the rest of this go! Stay off social media till your kids are in College!! Haha. As a former elementary school teacher, we all had different styles of teaching and different this we did in our rooms… bottom line is, are the kids learning and are they happy. That makes me happy and energized! Don’t be apologetic, just confident that they are getting the best right now!! Enjoyed your video.
I just love you!!! We are just starting out and pinterest and IG are total joy thieves. I'm really trying to put my blinders on and not compare and find our own groove. This was a breath of fresh air
Right back at ya! Thank you. We only do “real life homeschool” over here 😂
I’m so glad I don’t have an Instagram anymore 😁
About to start homeschooling for my middle school children, thank you. These are all things I thought would not fit with our family. So happy to hear that others don't do them. Same, not doing any of the things you listed
Honesty! Thank you! We are just starting this journey and I'm watching sooo many videos with all of these routines you need to follow. It is overwhelming. So thank you
I knew I started following you for a reason!! Been feeling guilty for not implementing some of these things. Thank you!!
This was so refreshing! Thank you-it’s nice not to feel alone!
I’m so glad I watched this. All of the homeschool videos I’ve watched are so overwhelming. I have 5 kids and I wanted to do all of this but I’m not that super lol. The morning basket thing sounds nice but it’s extra. I told my husband the poetry tea time Idea and he gave me a glare lol. I tried 2 co ops and one was great and laid back. The other asked me to volunteer in classes with my 6 month old etc and just felt stressful. If I go to the library it’s like 10 min in and out because I have a 2 year old and 1 year old. I want no more fluff
Love this!!! I feel like the pressure to do these things is so real!!! I don’t even know what poetry tea time is, but I’m glad because I definitely don’t have time for that lol!! Thank you for being real and sharing!!
Thank you for being real and relatable. I am new and I was already stressing about the morning baskets.
I am so glad you did this video! This is my first year and was feeling bad about not doing any of the things you listed. I am feeling much better about skipping the fluff. I have a 9 year old girl and an 11 year old boy. We are doing elementary zoology together first thing in the morning but not in a morning basket style. I love your videos and appreciate keeping it real. I did do back to school hooded sweatshirts for both of my kids on the first day. My son's from a you tube merch shop he had been asking for and my daughter's a movie theme she wanted.
This will be my first year homeschooling my 6th and 1st, so thank you for sharing how you make it work. Eliminating any unnecessary stress is always good. :)
Yes to all of this!! This is our second year homeschooling (we are doing 1st grade this year) and we don’t do any of these either with the exception of visiting the library occasionally (before it closed for covid). Thanks for posting this! Makes me feel better to know not everyone does all the extra fluff stuff 😄
We don’t do any of these either! Glad we aren’t the only ones! It’s Just not our style. I have 2 girls and 2 boys and even my girls would not want anything to do with most of them and honestly it’s not my thing either. The one thing we do for beginning the year that I started because of a friend was the week before we start we do a breakfast date with each kid and set goals for the year and just spend 1-1 time together.
I love this video because it goes over all of the things that I don’t do either! One of the reasons why we do not do anything special on the first day of school is because we do not really have a first day of school. When we finish a curriculum in a certain area we just move onto the next level with out any ceremony. It does not seem to bother the kids and they are just excited to be moving on.
Same here😅
Loved this video! Your honesty is refreshing.
Oh girl... thank you for making this video! I am the same kind of mom and it’s so refreshing to hear there are others out there like me 😊. We do not do any of these things either and I don’t feel bad about it for one minute!!!
This made me feel very seen lol. Choosing not to do nature walks and poetry/tea times was a huge step but also a huge weight lifted. Thank you for that confirmation lol. We do a big pancake bar for first day of school. Tons of toppings. We also did a fun outing and an ice cream sundae bar in the afternoon.
Loved this so much friend!!!! You are so amazing and such a good mama! Thanks for sharing and making me feel less alone!
You just made my day. I read a pretty mean comment on one of my videos and this cheered me right up. Thank you, Ashley ❤️❤️
I'm considering homeschooling my 8 year old granddaughter. It is good to have your videos, now that i have found them, to watch. Thank you.
Thank you for posting! This helps!!
Yes! I'm feeling all this! We do what works for us and forget the rest!
Oh my gosh thank you for this. Started homeschooling when Covid hit and just so this is going to be our first homeschooling year. We are also doing a Charlotte Mason-ish style but I have been wondering how to get my 7 year old son to do any of these poetry tea time, or nature trail, or morning baskets, and was feeling bad. My son is very practical and likes to just get it done and move on, too many frills and fussing and you lose his attention. I have a full time business so I need to use my 3 or 4hours and get the work done so I can get to work! Very comforting to know I don't need all this. God bless you! Your channel has been such an asset to me!
Morning basket? Never heard of it. 😂
Love this video 😆
I never heard of some of these things. It's our first year homeschooling. Thankfully I knew a couple moms who were veteran homeschoolers and simplified the process for me. It's freeing, and I feel like they are learning more at their own pace.
😍😍😍you don’t owe anyone an explanation. You continue to do what’s best and what works for you and your family. I ❤️ your honesty.
Thanks so much for sharing! The great thing about homeschooling is that you can make it your own!
Thank you for this video!
🙌🏼 THANK YOU. I stressed about doing these things our first year but not anymore...we keep it AS SIMPLE AS POSSIBLE. We are all about “just getting it done” too. Good to know we’re not alone! Also a boy mom 💙
Oh man, I love you right now 😂 Thank you for your honesty and helping me know I’m not crazy 😜
I love it!! You are not alone! We don't do any of these things, however, I am using a "morning folder" to keep some daily practice and worksheets in, mostly for organizational purposes! This is mostly independent work, but I still sit with them and guide them in a way. My kids are 12, 14, 15. We also don't currently do "unit studies".
We do Classical Conversations and the library. Other than that, I think we do the same. No morning baskets, nature walks or tea time and poetry. Thank God for freedom of homeschooling! So much liberty.
I just started homeschooling this year and I didn't know what any of these things were. So don't feel bad, keeping it simple has helped me not become overwhelmed and grumpy while teaching!
I'm considering homeschool this year for 8 year old and it's overwhelming. Thank you for this video. It helps
Same my son is 8 going to 3rd grade we are homeschooling. And everything she said. Sounds about right. That I will not be adding to my sons homeschool. It’s not on his schedule
Jessie Kingman I learned the less I did, the more they learned.
Don’t worry it’s overwhelming but you’ll get it in time and yes there will be times you think you are doing things wrong or that you should quit.. but don’t give up keep going.. been doing it for over 13 years and I love it and wouldn’t change it lol..
You might want to check out Time4Learning.
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I admire your honesty! And yes, I did make it to the end of the video. 👍🏼
This was a refreshingly honest video. I'm looking into homeschooling and a lot of the videos about homeschool make it seem very overwhelming. Co-ops are super overwhelming to me, so it was nice to hear your reasons for not doing them.
First time viewer, and I love this video. I homeschool my 5, and we do none of these things except go to the library. I have to write due dates on the kitchen calendar to keep up. But everything else you mentioned just sounds like trends I hear on all the other channels, and I hate trendy things. Lol. I'll stick to what works for us 😊
I just had to comment on this, you are TOTALLY not alone! I never plan to do any of those trendy Instagram Homeschooling mom things. I have definitely been inspired by the minimalist play and school area aesthetics that have been floating around for the last few years, but that's about it. You have nothing to be embarrassed about, my heart went out to ya for feeling like you had to make a confession about these things. ❤
I am new to homeschooling and your channel and I absolutely love your transparency. You have been a breath of fresh air. Because of your channel we decided on My Father's World. Received my first box today. I am absolutely in love with it. A prayer answered. I have not done most of what you talked about. Tried a co-op and it did not work for us. Less is best! Love your videos. May God continue to bless you and your family🙏🏽❤
LOVING your videos. I was a homeschooled kid, about to start homeschooling. You are so encouraging.
This really speaks to me! I have had to let go of CM guilt too. For years I felt like a failure bc nature walks and tea time weren’t happening. We do waaayyyy too much screen time. But like you, I feel my kids are learning and growing and it’s much better not to fight their personalities for the extra fluff stuff. Oh and my oldest started the school year on her own yesterday with no celebration or fanfare. I did get each kid a little $1 present for the start of the year but that’s it. Oftentimes simple is best for everyone involved. I chose homeschooling so we could decide our learning style, and follow our kids’ passions, not so I could wallow in guilt over not following a prescribed method perfectly. Many blessings to you this year!
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Thank you so much for making this video. I was feeling guilty about not doing some of these (especially the nature walks😅) but hearing that I'm not alone in this is a much needed reminder that I homeschool my family and we choose what's best for us.
Girl, I am right there with on all 6 things!!! 3rd year homeschoolers. I know exactly how you feel. No worries at all. You do you. Lots of love!
Because you were so real and I felt your authenticity in this video...I'm sucked in now! I subscribed! I like you!
I’m glad you did this. This will be my first year and I have no desire to do any of these things either 😂😂
Thank you so much for posting this video! This school year will be our first year homeschooling, our son is in 3rd grade. I've felt that homeschooling was the path we needed to take for a while, but didn't pursue it until now. I am so new to homeschooling that I don't know what a lot of homeschool families do. So I've been watching bunches of homeschool tips videos.
We don't do co-ops, nature walks (my kids get enough of that playing in the back yard lol), morning basket (but me might try it), or any special stuff on the first day of school other than pictures.
I technically haven’t started yet but...
1. I have no desire to find a co-op, I don’t think my kids would be into it either, and I don’t have time. I’m not good with “scheduled” things. 2. I don’t understand morning baskets, and don’t plan to have one. 3. I’m not an outdoor adventure person...walks I’m ok with but I have a feeling I won’t plan any 🤷🏼♀️ 4. Ok, what in the world is poetry tea time?!?! 5. I wasn’t planning to have a special first day thing. Maybe I should...🤔 especially for my kindergartener! 6. I USED to be ok with library time before covid. Now, I’d rather just place a hold on what I need and grab them quickly. Plus, yea, I’m not big on planned trips anywhere. It sounds like I’ll be sitting at the table with you!😉
"Even if snacks were involved." Bahaha I have two girls (6 & 8) and this rang true for us! Snacks generally can entice them, and if its still a no its never going to happen!
Oh my! I so needed this video today! Felt like I was sooooo failing because I am not doing most of these things either! Fluff, my new favorite word, I dont have time for fluff! Feeling so much better, I know my son is learning and happy too so all good🥳🥳🥳
I like this video. Thank you for the openness and kudos for doing what's right for you guys, even when it's not "popular". I have no plan for morning baskets or "tea time"... I don't know what tea time is yet lol.
This is a great video! While we do almost all of these things, with the exception of the coop, I love that you are honest about not doing them. New homeschoolers and old homeschoolers need to hear this. I do these things because its something that comes easy for us and something we enjoy. I don't feel we do typical morning baskets (we have a basket that I theme each month for fun..for example this month is camping so we have all these neat camping books and even a knot tying kit...and we never utilize the basket of a morning, but whenever we feel like it (not even daily sometimes)). And as far as poetry tea time goes, it works for us because I have a little 1st-grade girl that loves tea parties! So again we don't do them "normal" we have snacks and a drink, and then read picture books or any book of her choosing. These are all things that are working for us during this season of our homeschool, and it may not be something that lasts forever. And for those that are interested and want to try it, go for it, if it doesn't work its simple...just stop :) So even tho I do most of these things, I still would like to sit at your table if that's okay because I think as homeschool mommas we need to stick together no matter what our homeschool looks like :)
I had to watch this video again, one of my favorites 🙌
Oh my goodness this is brilliant! I’m a new homeschooling mama in South Africa and I’ve been binging on all the home school channels and this one was so freeing 😆 I don’t feel so bad now for saying nope, nice idea but my kids would think I’m crazy!
Ok I love this!!!! I’m a work from home homeschool mom also. We’re just getting started and the pressure to do this stuff is unrealistic.
This was refreshing to watch. Watching all these RUclips moms with all they do is so overwhelming! I can't get myself to do any of those things either😆
This is so relatable. I'm a kid, and I don't do any of these except going to the library. I can keep track of the due dates, add I like the books. But I don't do anything else! No Morning baskets, Tea time, any of that. I find it unneccacary and stressful. Thank you for this.
We don't do any of these things either! 😁 Mommy of 5 here and I can relate. You are not alone!
Same! I don’t do ANY of those things! My kids play outside constantly we do a lot of learn as you go teaching. I take special trips to the actual book store every once and a while to buy them a book as something they earned! I feel really good with what my family and our homeschool has going! You are not alone!
Omg thank you! I don't do ANY of these either. We don't do fluff and they like it that way. They like to get it done. And we also live in the woods and they play outside and get in the stuff they like that way. Plus I buy used books too cause I end up owing the library any way so I might as well just buy them for cheap! Found this video accidentally but have since subscribed!!! You seem right up my alley!
Love this video.. we also don't so morning basket (busy work), or Nature walks.
Lol this is awesome! We don’t do ANY of these things either! We do field trips, they play sports, we go to parks and they find stuff on their own just like yours! We go to the library once in a while but a lot of books I’d rather be able to keep in our library so I just buy them. 🤷🏽♀️ you’re not alone!! 💕
Yes girl! I'm totally feeling this vid! We use to go to the library pre-covid; because our library is awesome. We go walking because I'm a physical person and I like to move. However, all of the other stuff. No ma'am! I've been homeschooling for 5 years as well; and we do what works for our family. Love your vid! Thanks for posting.
I'm glad I won't be the only one! We definitely do library trips, because it gives my littles a chance to browse and pick their own "for fun" reads. But I also feel the stress of realizing i almost missed the due date. Thank goodness for online accounts letting me renew!
ZERO first day traditions, haven't done co ops in years and definitely don't miss it!
Your not lame, you are awesome! 😁🤩
Love this video. Yes.
There is no one size fits all for homeschooling, every family is unique! Thanks for sharing. I don’t do morning baskets, co ops, poetry tea time. We enjoy going to local arboretums and botanical gardens to clear our minds and get exercise. But I’m glad I’m not the only one that doesn’t participate in a lot of the popular homeschooling practices.
Wow glad I found you I don’t do any of these things nor I have I ever heard of a few of them. 😬
Sometimes I feel like I’m winging it and question my every move. With a 4th grader and a now 6th grader. This made me feel more real and I’m not so bad after all. Thank you
Books are my favorite things to buy. My kids have probably been to the library once in their lives.
I'm so glad I found this video!!!!! You are not alone, mama...I don't do these either, except co-op.
Just found your channel from this video and I can totally relate on chronic illness making things unpredictable and committing to someone else's schedule can be hard, if not nearly impossible.
OMG!! Thank you for sharing! I’m a wedding planner with so many jobs and I was feeling bad not doing some of these things. But we barely have time and my kiddos are like yours. They just want to finish their school work so they can continue their creative stuff since I have artists and animators in the house.
Oh my goodness! Thank you for this! I hate the library. I never return things on time. I'm done there. None of those things fit for me. You are my equal!
Salute 💖🙏🏼💙❤️🇺🇸Lol you crack me up. We Just found your channel. Our family has been homeschooling for 6 years now. We understand alot of the extra fluff is time consuming, but all that truly matters are our children are getting an excellent education and are happy!! Ty you for great info on you channel 😊