The Sad Truth About Men vs Women And Red-Pill Contradictions

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  • @destiny
    @destiny  3 года назад +208

    Hope you enjoy this type of Destiny content.
    If you're interested in more, check out Destiny's Blackpill Moment ►ruclips.net/video/y9T_cmjHsIk/видео.html
    Stolen Timestamps Click▼
    00:00 - Teaser/Intro
    00:40 - Introduction
    03:01 - Cheating Discussion
    05:38 - What do most men want from women besides sex?
    06:54 - Name one great characteristics your GF has that you wish American women would have?
    09:52 - Do you believe that most women want bad men?
    14:26 - What is your opinion about Hypergamy?
    21:28 - They Hypocrisy of Red Pill/Manoshpere Men
    24:28 - What are subtle non-sexual things women can do that will make a man think about her when she's not around?
    29:28 - Avoiding the “sex bucket” for women
    36:23 - Suggestions for women and men with low-esteem
    39:36 - Advice For Women Who See RED FLAGS Early In The Relationship
    44:14 - Should women bring emotional baggage from past relationship to their current relationship?
    48:32 - Name 3 types of personalities (or characteristics) that men prefer in most women?
    51:59 - Are women in a better position to find a suitable mate or a worst position?
    52:25 - Should men cater to the ALPHA/BETA Label?
    54:06 - What are some red flags that men should never ignore in a woman?
    59:34 - Guys dating women with low self-esteem and Women dating abusive men
    1:00:58 - Give 5 questions all men should ask women they vet for a long term relationship.
    1:04:07 - How can men improve their observation of women?
    1:10:41 - Who has the highest priority? Your Bros or Your Girlfriend?
    1:13:12 - What is the solution to the current INCEL problem?
    1:21:06 - Nice Conservatives
    1:23:39 - The Police
    1:27:38 - If you can give any advice to young males between the ages of 14 - 21 what would it be?
    1:29:35 - Advice for people who use dating apps?

    • @sleepykeys4007
      @sleepykeys4007 3 года назад +4

      One way to change your self worth/etc is a discipline. Military, martial arts, etc. Worked for me anyway

    • @ll4ves457
      @ll4ves457 3 года назад +2

      Thats legit my favorite destiny video

    • @nickm3694
      @nickm3694 3 года назад +5

      put the timestamps in the description so that youtube can automatically apply them to the video player

    • @treyt7914
      @treyt7914 3 года назад +1

      just a heads up the link to Trees channel is a 404

    • @nicmoo588
      @nicmoo588 3 года назад +1

      This was really cool Editor, thanks

  • @Petemeister22
    @Petemeister22 3 года назад +1360

    Good to see Destiny meeting new people after his messy divorce from Vaush.

  • @NoFace-Killah
    @NoFace-Killah 3 года назад +71

    "2 Black girls have a wholesome chat"

  • @Pberry00
    @Pberry00 3 года назад +903

    This is like a political version of Frenemies podcast.

    • @TheArtkaw
      @TheArtkaw 3 года назад +14

      How is Trisha these days

    • @Eden-LikeTheGarden-Rama
      @Eden-LikeTheGarden-Rama 3 года назад +101

      @@TheArtkaw oof, funny you say that. they just had their last ever episode yesterday after a big fight

    • @sleepychris
      @sleepychris 3 года назад +13

      hate how accurate this is

    • @jmadluck
      @jmadluck 3 года назад +8

      TRUE. I wish destiny would comment on frenemies drama like with the poki stuff

    • @IBBMS
      @IBBMS 3 года назад +8

      RIP Frenemies 🙏🏿 gone too soon

  • @tawp4415
    @tawp4415 3 года назад +916

    Destiny has great points but why is she debating some nerdy gremlin dude

    • @andrejjelcic3675
      @andrejjelcic3675 3 года назад +53

      This deserves much, MUCH more likes.

    • @-xphobia
      @-xphobia 3 года назад +33

      I didnt get this until the second time I read it and it was worth the pay off, lmfao.

    • @jaybayer3670
      @jaybayer3670 3 года назад +15

      Actually made me chuckle.

    • @narmi3134
      @narmi3134 2 года назад +3

      Brilliant

    • @alexsamulenok
      @alexsamulenok 2 года назад +4

      this genuinely made me laugh out loud

  • @Pharomid
    @Pharomid 3 года назад +230

    There's no dgg chat and we've lost nothing of value.

  • @Amonfobious
    @Amonfobious 3 года назад +1134

    i reember this woman as being batshit insane politically but an insanely fun person this should be good

    • @Eorzat
      @Eorzat 3 года назад +111

      Honestly, that's how it often seems to pair up lol.

    • @Chronicallyhere_09
      @Chronicallyhere_09 3 года назад +57

      Just want to say…
      Reember

    • @xNinjamodx
      @xNinjamodx 3 года назад +222

      @@Mhinqa Nah you bugging she definitely a baddie for her age

    • @Tocinos
      @Tocinos 3 года назад +30

      It's 2021 most people are insane politically

    • @bigo1242
      @bigo1242 3 года назад +1

      @@darkriku234 📸

  • @Bai_Su_Zhen
    @Bai_Su_Zhen 3 года назад +147

    When Destiny dumps a girl he says "I'm taking a big fat L on this. Who's the next one?"

  • @aleshawashington2919
    @aleshawashington2919 3 года назад +483

    Tree interactions are honestly so fun compared to the typical agonizing shit we're used to, hopefully more to come

    • @yerhing6406
      @yerhing6406 3 года назад +20

      I would say the two first debates are both agonizing and fun

    • @Dino_Pony
      @Dino_Pony 3 года назад +30

      @@Pllayer064 bruh

    • @woah3108
      @woah3108 3 года назад

      That’s what i’m saying!!!

    • @blakebatchelor1739
      @blakebatchelor1739 3 года назад +5

      @@Pllayer064 cringe as hell

    • @user-jy2sj4ed4i
      @user-jy2sj4ed4i 2 года назад +1

      @@blakebatchelor1739 What did they say? It's been deleted now

  • @poopeyinmymouth
    @poopeyinmymouth 3 года назад +318

    Destiny and Tree are a good example of what political discourse could look like in a better world, one where we disagree but don't hate each other.

    • @seanmatthewking
      @seanmatthewking 3 года назад +2

      Destiny and Vaush too

    • @extremedrumming3393
      @extremedrumming3393 3 года назад +55

      @@seanmatthewking u sure about that, champ?

    • @mickeyboy90
      @mickeyboy90 3 года назад +5

      They literally aren’t disagreeing with each-other 99% of the time. I mean they shouldn’t generally but this is a bad example.

    • @hollowumbra3343
      @hollowumbra3343 3 года назад +4

      A lot of stuff they’re disagreeing over is trivial so of course they don’t hate each other right now.

    • @moonlightrouge3956
      @moonlightrouge3956 3 года назад +8

      @@seanmatthewking Destiny and Vaush are the opposite, they mostly agree politically but hate each other regardless

  • @blinkanddie3397
    @blinkanddie3397 3 года назад +144

    I've been watching Destiny for years and I think the single thing he's best at is putting complicated ideas into a few sentences. He's so clear and concise, so nice to watch

    • @joeldixton5627
      @joeldixton5627 3 года назад +14

      I think he excels at "surfing" a particular rhetoric, like he knows when to extenuate and when to shut the fuck up, he knows when to interrupt and when to properly listen. If that makes sense

    • @Sinehmatic
      @Sinehmatic Год назад +1

      As someone with ADHD, that ability is god like to me lmao.

  • @bryanarchy5824
    @bryanarchy5824 3 года назад +298

    she’s a good example of someone i would disagree with on everything but would enjoy being around

    • @kylesmith2379
      @kylesmith2379 3 года назад +45

      She is my favorite anti-hero in the Destiny extended universe

    • @shin-ishikiri-no
      @shin-ishikiri-no 3 года назад +16

      @@kylesmith2379 I read the fan-fiction where Destiny and her get shipped. 10/10 not disappointed.

    • @juuk3103
      @juuk3103 3 года назад +1

      @@shin-ishikiri-no Shipped? Lol that's nothing, you should see the version on the dark web!

    • @eneiban6503
      @eneiban6503 2 года назад +2

      @@juuk3103 all this talk but no sauce O_O

    • @juuk3103
      @juuk3103 2 года назад

      @@eneiban6503 ?

  • @themerryharridan8409
    @themerryharridan8409 3 года назад +51

    I treat my husband like a pampered prince at home. I love him enough to feed him that ego, but in return he works hard and usually acquiesces to my wants. Been married 34 years now and still having fun.

    • @roymarshall_
      @roymarshall_ 3 года назад +14

      "Acquiesces to my wants" why does this phrasing make me feel weird

    • @themerryharridan8409
      @themerryharridan8409 3 года назад +18

      @@roymarshall_ I don’t know. I’m talking really mundane things like a flowered bedspread or decorations or deciding what goes in the flower bed etc. : p

    • @gabe.6273
      @gabe.6273 3 года назад +1

      @*xokireiキレイ* bruh lmao

  • @snakemyre80
    @snakemyre80 3 года назад +103

    I fucking love this woman, she's so engaged in a conversation and willing to give ground in a conversation.

    • @CarterDarter
      @CarterDarter 3 года назад +13

      People who understand their own limitations or lack or knowledge earn lots of respect imo

    • @TCVB491
      @TCVB491 3 года назад +2

      Sounds like you just found out about TOL. Lol

    • @ishizukahikaru643
      @ishizukahikaru643 3 года назад +1

      Thats because u can have a decent conversation with anybody from the center to the right. Go in the opposite direction and you get lunatics with brains smaller than a peanut.

  • @Fenpai
    @Fenpai 3 года назад +86

    Just casually takes a sip from her Star of David mug, just killed me 🤣

    • @zach_streams
      @zach_streams 3 года назад +2

      I just passed that part 😂

  • @Ms_Paradox
    @Ms_Paradox 3 года назад +107

    One of the tools I've picked up in life, that I've found insanely helpful, is to check into my H.A.L.T.S. when I feel or appear off balance. As I examine each area I take note of any recent extremes. Either way, too little or an exuberance in an area usually indicates where I'm needing balance. The acronym signifies the following areas:
    H = Hunger (hungry or overeating)
    A = Angry (pissed off or feeling pissed on, sometimes holding your tongue)
    L = Lonely (alone in a room full of ppl or constantly searching out others to fill space & time)
    T = Tired (no sleep or too much)
    S = Stress (overly stimulated/stressed or bored)
    Simple indicators that I've found useful :)

    • @sanield2782
      @sanield2782 3 года назад +6

      This is pro tips for real

    • @L1vingAshlar
      @L1vingAshlar 3 года назад +18

      thirst/dehydration has gotta be part of H too

    • @stevewilkens5134
      @stevewilkens5134 3 года назад +2

      This is some real good advice 👍

    • @ButtshotJenkins
      @ButtshotJenkins 3 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing this. I'll be sure to incorporate this into my life!

    • @cunt5413
      @cunt5413 2 года назад +2

      Screenshotting this and keeping it in mind. Great system.

  • @ryanwilliams9712
    @ryanwilliams9712 3 года назад +351

    The most unexpected friendship ever. Love to see it

    • @DoubleO88
      @DoubleO88 3 года назад +7

      Conservative arc coming soon 😂

    • @ryanwilliams9712
      @ryanwilliams9712 3 года назад +8

      @@DoubleO88 Maybe he'll be a killstream host next year
      (Jk obviously but
      I don't trust commenters)

    • @seph---
      @seph--- 3 года назад +2

      Tree is smart 😉

    • @GuyCN
      @GuyCN 3 года назад +1

      Frenemies 2

    • @ryanwilliams9712
      @ryanwilliams9712 3 года назад

      @@GuyCN Hopefully minus the pizza breakups

  • @Ridistrict
    @Ridistrict 3 года назад +410

    Destiny is at his best doing a general discussion over day to day life rather than political topic after political topic.
    I live his hot takes but he's such a fun guy when it's an interview. Happy less stressed destiny is bestiny.

    • @handsomebear.
      @handsomebear. 3 года назад +5

      He's at his best when he's tip-toing around obvious observable realities like a lot of women are attracted to the "bad boy" stereotype and presenting it like "they just like to joke around" lmao.

    • @masonwoioioi9854
      @masonwoioioi9854 3 года назад +35

      @@handsomebear. spoken like a real incel there buddy

    • @handsomebear.
      @handsomebear. 3 года назад +2

      @@masonwoioioi9854 me incel me so mad grrrr ';..;'
      Got any other adhominems while you're at it, or is the copium making your mind too dizzy to think clearly? ( ;

    • @QuinnArgo
      @QuinnArgo 3 года назад +16

      @@handsomebear. damn you're protective lmao

    • @handsomebear.
      @handsomebear. 3 года назад

      @@QuinnArgo How do you mean?
      Edit: Ahh, you meant defensive I guess?

  • @lilisun4026
    @lilisun4026 3 года назад +480

    If I ever meet destiny I am going to give him a hot chocolate and he is going to fall in love with me.

  • @svnihilist1202
    @svnihilist1202 3 года назад +200

    The sexual tension when Destiny said he likes crazy women.

    • @pengwin_
      @pengwin_ 3 года назад +37

      i genuinely think that ToL thinks Destiny can get it.

    • @georgia8670
      @georgia8670 3 года назад +12

      @@pengwin_ im dying rn but i think youre right

  • @thecringesaltawardcompany1818
    @thecringesaltawardcompany1818 3 года назад +206

    as soon as I saw the Israel mug all I could think of was “In fact, I have a little bit of Jew in me right now”

    • @MoreMonarchy
      @MoreMonarchy 3 года назад +5

      Do you remember what she calls Dan though?

    • @hugonamenlos7218
      @hugonamenlos7218 3 года назад +15

      @@MoreMonarchy dem juice

    • @simondelasheras8465
      @simondelasheras8465 3 года назад +1

      Mike Stoklasa: only when you are in the ``ManHole´´

    • @DKJonez
      @DKJonez 3 года назад +4

      "you know, im somthing of a jew myself."

    • @Bizarro69
      @Bizarro69 3 года назад

      LMFAO

  • @badusername141
    @badusername141 3 года назад +51

    I really like the bit on casual relationships and emotions. It's somehow comforting to hear even Destiny can get a bit lost in stuff like this.

  • @GreenThumbFreedom
    @GreenThumbFreedom 3 года назад +259

    To go from the OG tree of logic convo's to this talk, is a total mindfuck.

    • @SlimeDadUltra
      @SlimeDadUltra 3 года назад +7

      It really is.

    • @Xairos84
      @Xairos84 3 года назад +49

      I like these sorts of checks to remind me that people can be all over the place in terms of representation. a reality check if you will.

    • @ryanwilliams9712
      @ryanwilliams9712 3 года назад +32

      Was watching their old debates a few weeks ago where she is screaming that he's a "bitch made pussy beta"

    • @kaktus_king0122
      @kaktus_king0122 3 года назад +1

      @@ryanwilliams9712 lmao

    • @GreenThumbFreedom
      @GreenThumbFreedom 3 года назад +13

      @@ryanwilliams9712 yeeeeea dude lmfao. I just listened to them like last month, and I thought to myself, this is the most insufferable woman I've ever listened to. The whole conversation about gun accuracy made me want to kill myself

  • @siggrind7832
    @siggrind7832 3 года назад +338

    The original two debates destiny did with tree of logic actually gave me brain disease, hopefully this discussion does not.

    • @Gkario
      @Gkario 3 года назад +107

      This one's life advice, absolutely worth it.

    • @Re-Todd_Howard
      @Re-Todd_Howard 3 года назад +81

      This one is wholesome

    • @jasonborne5359
      @jasonborne5359 3 года назад +5

      Felt the same exact way

    • @1337AceOfSpades1337
      @1337AceOfSpades1337 3 года назад +2

      Did it?

    • @ryandoyle4131
      @ryandoyle4131 3 года назад +11

      I really enjoyed the brain disease those two gave me tho

  • @jluzin
    @jluzin 3 года назад +89

    Tree drives me fucking crazy sometimes, but i really appreciate her ability to leave shit at the door. Her chats with steven are usually really fun snd this is no different.

  • @jvtc
    @jvtc 3 года назад +69

    Steve. Your point about men having a ranking system, and women having 2 "buckets" was dead-fucking-on, well put.

    • @Hrydra
      @Hrydra 3 года назад

      nono, me and my buddies have gotten to the point we have found the rating system to be arbitrary because one of my buddies would always feel bad about the women and rate them higher than what they are. We then started the system of 1's and 0's. 1 you would, 0 you wouldn't.

    • @onionboy5673
      @onionboy5673 3 года назад +10

      @@Hrydra sorry to tell you, but you and your buddies are women

    • @soakupthenoise
      @soakupthenoise 2 года назад +5

      Nah I'm a woman and I have a ranking system. There's guys I would date, guys I would fuck but not date, guys I wouldn't even fuck, guys I would leave my current boyfriend to date, etc.

    • @LipSyncLover
      @LipSyncLover 2 года назад +3

      seriously. can confirm

    • @cosettapessa6417
      @cosettapessa6417 2 года назад

      @@LipSyncLover loool

  • @TheStrix
    @TheStrix 3 года назад +93

    I'm someone who has struggled with very low self esteem and suicidality throughout my preteens, teens, and early 20s. I could be outgoing, but I was very insecure and would go back and forth between those extremes.
    It's gonna sound boring, but the answer for me was therapy, medication, and building habits slowly but steadily. It's only by doing good or productive things more consistently that you learn to convince yourself that you're fine the way you are and there's no reason to hate yourself or second guess yourself so badly. You start to take more chances, and then get desensitized to little failures and start to realize there is more to gain than to lose by trying things.
    Nothing works for everybody, but the change comes in every little step. I hope this helps someone, because it was hearing it that helped me start to let go of my worst cognitions.

    • @Jalmerk
      @Jalmerk 2 года назад +1

      Thank you

    • @TheStrix
      @TheStrix 2 года назад

      @Kyle Zonneveld ALWAYS follow the instructions of a psychiatrist, obviously. For me, it was taking effexor (venlafaxine) daily, and Adderall tablets as needed. I have since slowly transitioned to only Adderall as needed, but have not taken it in months. Just make sure to talk to your doctor and always make your changes slowly so the effects have time to show.

    • @halabowsky
      @halabowsky 2 года назад

      Yes!

    • @cunt5413
      @cunt5413 2 года назад

      That's pretty close to my experience. The swings between the two extremes are so fucking stark and debilitating.

    • @grenouillesscent
      @grenouillesscent Год назад +2

      This is my story but mid-twenties and still pretty bad. I’ve been trying and failing repeatedly since 18. The only things good habits I have managed to build so far is good sleep everyday and quitting weed. All my other vices beat the shit out of me and I have shit self esteem. I have tried over and over, and the constant fear and pain of trying to go against my nature for months at a time always wears me back down to where I started. And pieces of shit who had naturally confidence since they were children will just call you lazy for failing to obtain what was gifted to them.

  • @andrew66769
    @andrew66769 3 года назад +137

    Treeoflogic went from ironically being my favorite to unironically being my favorite. The character development is insane.

    • @leemakin2369
      @leemakin2369 3 года назад +9

      Trust me, there is no character development. Just a rebrand, she's still the same toxic person. Don't buy into the rebrand

    • @kjk607
      @kjk607 3 года назад +1

      She hasn't changed bro. If anything, you just probably changed.

    • @user-jy2sj4ed4i
      @user-jy2sj4ed4i 2 года назад

      Character development? I guess insane is the right word.

  • @genjigrant795
    @genjigrant795 3 года назад +26

    I caught that laugh when she pulled up the Israel cup 🤣

  • @aWildNelby
    @aWildNelby 3 года назад +239

    It’s weird hearing Tree like this; I’ve only ever heard her freaking out arguing. I like the relaxed, not so crazy version.

    • @nikobates6897
      @nikobates6897 3 года назад +7

      Huh, I wonder why her and Steve seem to get along? Is there something about Destiny’s character that she would find her agreeable, or is there some hidden lore?

    • @greyblob1101
      @greyblob1101 3 года назад +48

      @@blondymonk1535 conservatives dont feel the need to moralize everything like leftists do, one of the few good things about them.

    • @Psyshimmer
      @Psyshimmer 3 года назад +35

      @@greyblob1101 whereas 60 years ago conservatives would be moralizing literally everything. what a paradigm shift we're going through

    • @fabiobalassia
      @fabiobalassia 3 года назад +13

      @@Psyshimmer To a certain extent they still are, eg on issues like abortion

    • @SerrationV
      @SerrationV 3 года назад +26

      @@blondymonk1535 Unless your gay or trans or even an atheist...

  • @birkheadc
    @birkheadc 3 года назад +32

    "I wish I would have played like, a little less World of Warcraft"
    I feel attacked

  • @stovespiegel
    @stovespiegel 3 года назад +83

    Man, the debates with her were infuriating but this is strangely wholesome

    • @leemakin2369
      @leemakin2369 3 года назад +4

      Just remember, this is just her trying to rebrand, she's still toxic when the camera's off. Don't buy into the rebrand

    • @clutchcal0578
      @clutchcal0578 3 года назад +28

      @@leemakin2369 you see her when the cameras off⁉️

    • @leemakin2369
      @leemakin2369 3 года назад +6

      @@clutchcal0578 had a convo with her where she sexually harassed me and then covered it up. But if you're into sexual harassment, go ahead and have a convo with her

    • @TheFamousMockingbird
      @TheFamousMockingbird 3 года назад +8

      @@leemakin2369 it's frightening that she was a police officer, especially considering she was a dom after that. The crossover for being in positions to inflict pain and control over people couldn't stand out more. Adding that you've been sexually harassed by her just goes full triad on her being a fairly antisocial person

    • @italianwaffle5592
      @italianwaffle5592 3 года назад +15

      @@TheFamousMockingbird Yo so we got proof?

  • @divinehero7800
    @divinehero7800 3 года назад +70

    Bruh wtf, this is actually a really good conversation. Where was this TreeofLogic??

    • @snowy-g9p
      @snowy-g9p 3 года назад +8

      tree on this specifically is dece but on like 90% of political issues is just so dumb.

    • @lonestar3099
      @lonestar3099 3 года назад +1

      She's like this with all her interviews.

  • @MIDA-Multi-Tool
    @MIDA-Multi-Tool 3 года назад +26

    Tree's utter fascination at Destiny explaining relationship stuff is so fucking funny to me

  • @indridcold2229
    @indridcold2229 3 года назад +28

    Bro when i saw the Israel mug I died

  • @campbell682
    @campbell682 3 года назад +155

    This chick is nuts but I’d hang out/party with her anytime lol

    • @naschylobo
      @naschylobo 3 года назад +47

      I remember Destiny talking about how centre and right people/personalities are generally more fun to hang around. Lefties and progressives being more unfriendly and unlikable. I may disagree politically with most of their stuff, but it seems to be somewhat true in my experience. I'd say some of the most toxic and miserable people I've met have been left-wing. Haven't watched the video yet, so cant comment specifically.

    • @jafidayman4832
      @jafidayman4832 3 года назад +4

      @@naschylobo prolly because you're white. The left hates you and the right loves only you.

    • @jase37
      @jase37 3 года назад +28

      @@jafidayman4832 nah I’m black and its kinda true

    • @extremedrumming3393
      @extremedrumming3393 3 года назад +21

      @Harrold Tobin a conservative generally tends to be a people person that doesn't really care about their ideology too much while left-wingers are very stead-fast in their ideologies and really try to live by it rather than it being a secondary thing in their life. Basically, the ideology defines a lot of left wing people while conservatives generally try to get along with people (this is just my opinion)

    • @naschylobo
      @naschylobo 3 года назад +7

      @Harrold Tobin he was talking more in the context divorced from politics. Like I said its generally been my experience, but the scale from one to the other isnt huge. Just that the really unlikable lefties have been quite pronounced.

  • @htown11465
    @htown11465 3 года назад +5

    A guy cheats because he is too weak to break up with the girl he is seeing before hooking up someone else. That's it. If you wanna sleep around, go for it, but have the strength and decency to break up with your missus first.

  • @billdobbing1999
    @billdobbing1999 3 года назад +15

    TreeOfLogic finna radicalise me with them milkers

  • @wileyreid5420
    @wileyreid5420 3 года назад +13

    Man it's nice seeing an interaction between destiny and tree that doesn't require me needing chemo after.

  • @janold0808
    @janold0808 3 года назад +15

    I really enjoy the chemistry between the two! I'd be happy to see more of these convos.

  • @TonyBagadonuts
    @TonyBagadonuts 3 года назад +15

    This was so pleasant and interesting. I’ve never heard Tree so likable and it’s really cool to hear Steven talk in depth about stuff that’s not politics or philosophy.
    Great interview, Tree 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @Arizona9001
    @Arizona9001 3 года назад +58

    She drives me nuts but she’s def a favorite feature. Coming from a conservative

    • @charlesmiv3842
      @charlesmiv3842 3 года назад +1

      You’re a conservative? Why are you even here?

    • @duncanbug
      @duncanbug 3 года назад +8

      @@charlesmiv3842 Maybe to listen to different perspectives and expand their thinking? Or just for entertainment? Geez

    • @charlesmiv3842
      @charlesmiv3842 3 года назад

      @@duncanbug Listen to destiny dunk on conservatives all day? Interesting thing to do as a conservative lol

    • @joeldixton5627
      @joeldixton5627 3 года назад +8

      @@charlesmiv3842 I'm pretty far left and I watch destiny, left wing and right wing channels, it keeps me grounded and stops me from making brain-dead dipshit leftie bubble arguments where noone even has the same language definitions

    • @josiahclarke3535
      @josiahclarke3535 3 года назад +4

      @@joeldixton5627 That's a pro gamer move, man. One I try to make as well.

  • @coffeepot3123
    @coffeepot3123 3 года назад +25

    "African american albino by the name of Destiny speaks with a fellow sister" .

  • @ActuallyJozu
    @ActuallyJozu 3 года назад +77

    I don't know why, but every time she calls Dylan "Lego-head" I get a good chuckle out of it, even though I do like Dylan Burns

    • @josiahclarke3535
      @josiahclarke3535 3 года назад +1

      I don't like him so my chuckle resounds all the more loudly.

    • @user-fz3sz2dj4r
      @user-fz3sz2dj4r 3 года назад +2

      Read this as she said it.. thanks, simulation

  • @stendaalcartography3436
    @stendaalcartography3436 3 года назад +10

    I am really digging this chill vibe. After that recent debacles with Vaush, I can appreciate the shift in tone. Good work.

  • @s.kurosawa8958
    @s.kurosawa8958 Год назад +3

    Didn’t expected this to be such a great conversation! Really wholesome!

  • @TheJohn9793
    @TheJohn9793 3 года назад +10

    This was a great conversation and I'm glad we had it

  • @firesong7825
    @firesong7825 3 года назад +11

    These two have fantastic friendship chemistry.

  • @kaisquared3867
    @kaisquared3867 3 года назад +7

    that title was so clickbaity, this was actually really fun to listen to.
    a quote i remembered that relates to the video: when you feel you hate everyone, it is probably time to eat, and when you feel everyone hates you, it is probably time to sleep

  • @metermaide1726
    @metermaide1726 3 года назад +13

    love your videos and love your debates, the more philosophical and good faith talks are the absolute best, keep doing you man.

  • @wildfyre-music
    @wildfyre-music 3 года назад +6

    I struggled with my self esteem for years, and I had a lot of severe depression (residual from past trauma and being bullied a lot). For me, the way to building up my self esteem was through accomplishments. I set out goals, some of them subconsciously, and as I achieved them I started to realize I COULD do the things I wanted to. It's a series of stepping stones, and each success builds out the pathway to the next one

    • @GiGi-yk4xn
      @GiGi-yk4xn 2 года назад +1

      I feel the exact same way! In high school I had terrible self esteem and thought I would never amount to anything. Once I started achieving goals and building a good life for myself I realized the potential I always had and that I could keep improving! Best of luck to you

  • @takeshii
    @takeshii 3 года назад +9

    Ive been watching destiny for a long time, and I have to say that this interview is packed with good life advice for people looking to get into serious relationships. People would pay money to hear the stuff hes preaching.

  • @BreakCoreBird12
    @BreakCoreBird12 3 года назад +141

    why do i feel like destiny and TOL would make a good bdsm couple lol.

    • @tastytherrien5106
      @tastytherrien5106 3 года назад +14

      And you exactly whos topping

    • @ichabodcrane6044
      @ichabodcrane6044 3 года назад +8

      Don't know. Maybe its because TOL used to work in that particular field unironically.

    • @BreakCoreBird12
      @BreakCoreBird12 3 года назад +26

      @@ichabodcrane6044 When they first talked way back when they were fucking heated towards each other. Who knows maybe sometimes the saying they just need to settle their differences in the bed has some merit

    • @aleshawashington2919
      @aleshawashington2919 3 года назад +5

      Bruh stop being a coomer

    • @bennymountain1
      @bennymountain1 3 года назад +2

      @Syntofinis Damn, 100%

  • @miloballs2010
    @miloballs2010 3 года назад +51

    another banger D man

  • @Jardonius
    @Jardonius 3 года назад +2

    I vaguely remember this woman from somewhere else, and I vaguely remember enjoying the energy as much as I am now too. Thanks to my boy for linking me this video, been a good listen~

  • @alotofspeedymoviereviews4517
    @alotofspeedymoviereviews4517 3 года назад +15

    I disagree that people with low self esteem in high school can’t change in their 20s that seems pretty anecdotal to me tbh

    • @unicorns1393
      @unicorns1393 3 года назад +1

      So true

    • @HOVNA
      @HOVNA 3 года назад +2

      Yeah I think we forget that the low self-esteem issues come from something else. If you can identify it, that's half the work right there. It's hard but possible

    • @greensquare6235
      @greensquare6235 3 года назад +1

      It is anecdotal but you really never hear about that kind of growth so it is going to be extremely rare and Destiny obviously won't know how it happens because he hasn't gone through it.

  • @sydneemikumuren9812
    @sydneemikumuren9812 3 года назад +25

    I find Destiny's position on knowing a person by living together interesting. It seems like living together is a very stressful thing for many couples because you get to see how they really are I guess. Many people tend to put on their best faces and as Destiny says you get shielded from what they are like on bad days, bad moods, etc.
    My opinion is that moving in together tends to be an issue because most people never really get to know each other very well to begin with. Most people just date people they like to have fun with. Guess what though, just because someone is fun does not mean:
    they are compatible with you romantically
    hold the same values as you
    hold the same morals as you
    have the same preferences on a number of things
    Those are things that can make or break a relationship imo. For example, if you are a very tidy person chances are you want to be with someone who can respect that and not be a complete slob. Otherwise you'll probably fight if you live together about things like chores or cleaning. In my case, my fiance and I are compatible in this aspect because he helps with a few chores(taking out the trash and helping with laundry from time to time), but we have an understanding about who does what. I would like to be a homemaker and eventually stay at home mom, so early on before we moved in together I made this VERY CLEAR. I'm not going to move in with someone and then ask if they can accommodate me.

    • @SkeleTonHammer
      @SkeleTonHammer 3 года назад +3

      Most people don't date anymore, period, because by and large it's almost impossible to get a woman to actually leave the house and go on a date. Chatting over the dating site has now completely replaced actually meeting in person and it's infuriating as someone who just wants to go on a date. So this problem of not seeing how someone really is, it's only getting worse, because you can't even PHYSICALLY MEET anymore.

  • @lordhelix2760
    @lordhelix2760 3 года назад +91

    When I was this early destiny and vaush were lovers

    • @emzkoe3904
      @emzkoe3904 3 года назад +16

      Lol. That's a life long on/off again relationship. They don't know how to quit each other.

    • @TehPh1L
      @TehPh1L 3 года назад +8

      las time i was this early mikefrompa third wheeled their relationship

    • @frostbite3318
      @frostbite3318 3 года назад +12

      That’s before Vaush intellectually surpassed Destiny

    • @emzkoe3904
      @emzkoe3904 3 года назад +14

      @@frostbite3318 intellectually outpaced is their kink

    • @Re-Todd_Howard
      @Re-Todd_Howard 3 года назад +11

      @@TehPh1L Mike was jealous because Destiny and Vaush were relationship goals. They were too beautiful. He had to destroy them.

  • @TheRobMr
    @TheRobMr 3 года назад +6

    Loved the part about your significant other thinking you choosing something over them is devaluing them.
    This so true, and what I did to go over this hump (I'm a gamer who loves the outdoors...allergies are a pain) is I got my partner into gamming.
    This was about 3 years into our relationship and in some ways she's become a bigger gamer than me, but the beauty was she understood it's just a hobby and we play games together.
    Couldn't ask for anything bette as it brought us closer together. For me a partner or significant other should be like a confidant or PIC.
    It'd cheesy but if you're gonna marry them it should be a fun experience.

  • @arys4925
    @arys4925 3 года назад

    I actually really appreciate the editor putting in em videos so fasssssst

  • @healingv1sion
    @healingv1sion 3 года назад +25

    40:39 this is so cuteeeeeee

  • @xjohntheone
    @xjohntheone 3 года назад +100

    I think Destiny should go on the FreshAndFit podcast. It would be fire to see them debate & agree/disagree on certain issues😂

    • @ennuiii
      @ennuiii 3 года назад +21

      I'd love to see him talk to Andrew Schulz

    • @mario167100
      @mario167100 3 года назад +5

      I would pay to see that!

    • @DoubleO88
      @DoubleO88 3 года назад +15

      Destiny vs Kevin Samuels would be painful to watch tho they might agree on some certain issues.

    • @anddudewaslike
      @anddudewaslike 3 года назад +24

      I’d like to see that. I watch Fresh & Fit more for the guests than the hosts. The main dude is high key misogynist and never brings on anyone who’s actually able to debate him.

    • @mario167100
      @mario167100 3 года назад +13

      @@anddudewaslike Fit is his name and that dude is ULTRA misogynist. Like, I couldn't believe how blatant he kinda is. Fresh is kinda less extreme, but I feel like on a deeper level, he doesn't agree with Fit.

  • @abbe6100
    @abbe6100 3 года назад +2

    This was such a good vibes conversation, MORE!

  • @HyperDangerousThing
    @HyperDangerousThing 2 года назад +1

    This is one of the best interviews I’ve seen on RUclips

  • @mingyjj
    @mingyjj 3 года назад +25

    We need more of this type of content, regardless of topic, because it illustrates perfectly that just because you disagree with someone politically you're still allowed to get along.

  • @TheAudioInjection
    @TheAudioInjection 3 года назад +5

    This is one of my favorite sides of Destiny.
    Talking about real shit with people he strongly disagrees with politically.
    Very good stuff

  • @allmountaintv
    @allmountaintv 2 года назад +1

    I really liked this video, a lot of good questions from LOT and great answers from destiny. I always enjoy these types of conversations!

  • @roymarshall_
    @roymarshall_ 3 года назад +2

    Oh man I needed this video I love when Destiny talks relationships

  • @spacetrashpllutin9900
    @spacetrashpllutin9900 3 года назад +10

    Actually, Steven speaks for the most part with a degree of accuracy. People will often ignore their basic needs in favor/favour of "getting the job done" etc. I am very thirsty at the moment (dehydrated) but have put off the action of getting a drink of water to type a sentence which at the end of the day, no one actually gives a toss about. Certain brains can be obsessive.

  • @ashergaines593
    @ashergaines593 3 года назад +5

    "I'm never going to move in and live with Mr. Mouton over her. I'm never going to travel internationally with him."
    My heart is utterly broken.

  • @jiggerypokery3761
    @jiggerypokery3761 3 года назад +114

    Hehehe, love the "we get people from the center-left why not go further and get a liberal"

    • @psychicsqu1d711
      @psychicsqu1d711 3 года назад

      1 Inch Further

    • @josiahclarke3535
      @josiahclarke3535 3 года назад +2

      @Hieronymus Bosch literally what

    • @red_Sun24
      @red_Sun24 3 года назад +1

      @Hieronymus Bosch Idk what your standards of 'left' are, but on certain issues, this is totally false. In Australia, our left wing party is to the far 'right' of the Republicans when it comes to the respective refugee policies. In fact on most social issues, like gay marriage or treatment of minorities, it's generally the United States leading the way. I guarantee you the influence of the USA has enormously accelerated discussion of progressive issues in the Australian left.

    • @red_Sun24
      @red_Sun24 3 года назад +2

      @Hieronymus Bosch Well my point wasnt to shit on australia either, I just meant that a lot of the time western countries arent really to the 'left' or 'right' of each other, because the countries that have very successful healthcare systems or high worker unionisation can also be the same countries that mistreat refugees and constrain civil liberties

    • @red_Sun24
      @red_Sun24 3 года назад +2

      @Hieronymus Bosch yep pretty much

  • @maxim377
    @maxim377 3 года назад +5

    This was fucking awesome, one of the rare times I've enjoyed Tree.

  • @ultraboombean
    @ultraboombean 3 года назад +6

    Women just want to be treated like a person who is special to you, not an object of adoration on a pedestal. At least that is how I feel.

  • @GregFeeneyPoker
    @GregFeeneyPoker 3 года назад +5

    This was a great conversation and highlights how even if you disagree fundamentally with someone on a lot of things, you can find common ground and learn from each other. I know everyone loves the debates but I honestly think that at this point I would prefer a destiny podcast with interesting guests.

  • @randomcomment6635
    @randomcomment6635 3 года назад +1

    Tbh she’s on of my favorites for Destiny to talk to. Always fun banter between the two

  • @kongJr
    @kongJr 2 года назад

    destiny breaking out the good ol' ladder theory. i forgot about that one from back in the day.

  • @nosc_c
    @nosc_c 3 года назад +6

    Imagine fucking up the "hello" part xD

  • @anddudewaslike
    @anddudewaslike 3 года назад +16

    Destiny’s original debates with Tree gave me brain rot, but I was pleasantly surprised to see she called out Candace Owens for the grifter she is on her channel years ago. Tree earned my respect for that.

  • @DetectDEV_
    @DetectDEV_ 3 года назад +2

    I remember the Tree arc and how nuts she was.
    Hate to admit this convo was entertaining and made me crack up as much as it did 🤣

  • @beebeehay
    @beebeehay 2 года назад +1

    1:40:40 "I was for him to cut his hair but I just gave in, ya know you gotta pick your battles" had a good laugh at that lol

  • @Petrich0r591
    @Petrich0r591 3 года назад +5

    This one was really fun to watch. I was laughing my ass off, but there were some solid takes.

  • @cmike123
    @cmike123 3 года назад +3

    I like this. It was a pretty wholesome convo.

  • @woah3108
    @woah3108 3 года назад

    More tree collabs plz. This duo is fantastic

  • @topwomble
    @topwomble 3 года назад

    Self-esteem can fade but it is damn hard work and it's always around a bit, it took me until my mid twenties to find more respect for myself and more confidence but there are still times where I can drop back into those negative cycles, it's a lot of work to get out over time

  • @SlimeDadUltra
    @SlimeDadUltra 3 года назад +95

    This shit is fire Destiny. I'm all in for tree content

    • @guybien4621
      @guybien4621 3 года назад +2

      @re e for some reason i thought they already had met irl

    • @leemakin2369
      @leemakin2369 3 года назад +4

      Just a friendly reminder that this is just a rebrand. She's still a toxic person off camera. Don't buy into the rebrand

    • @guybien4621
      @guybien4621 3 года назад +3

      @@leemakin2369 Sure, possibly. I think Destiny would have a better idea of that than u tho since he talks to her, and he still seems to like her.

    • @leemakin2369
      @leemakin2369 3 года назад +1

      @@guybien4621 maybe but I've seen the lengths she will go to to keep up appearances. I had a debate with her and she was so toxic, she had to edit out over half of the conversation just to make herself look good

    • @OREOGAMERS
      @OREOGAMERS 3 года назад +3

      @@leemakin2369 youve been in every comment dude wtf is wrong with you.

  • @Japhro77
    @Japhro77 3 года назад +6

    "I think you're good with relationships"
    "I cheated"
    "Oh."

  • @GOAToatoat
    @GOAToatoat 3 года назад

    I died with the Mike from PA suggestion XD

  • @meaves3764
    @meaves3764 3 года назад

    What a productive and enjoyable conversation. I wish more people opposite of their political isle could talk like this, love these 2.

  • @Ekitchi0
    @Ekitchi0 3 года назад +5

    Assertiveness is an attractive trait for most. But it's often conflated with shitty behavior.

  • @MetalFreak187
    @MetalFreak187 2 года назад +3

    The point she made about difference between nice guy and simp is so true, you don't have to be an prick to not be a simp.

  • @WhoBlah21
    @WhoBlah21 3 года назад

    1:15:20 Myspace started that in the early-00s, I remember discovering bands and going to so many hardcore and metal shows from Myspace. It's so weird that social media steered so far away from those aspects, and now became platforms to cultivate people into spending hours on the screen.

  • @alexcross4476
    @alexcross4476 2 года назад +1

    38:26 when destiny talks about the self esteem, specifically the slow churn and burn, I think what people are finding now is that a break from schooling or a gap year or two can speed up the process because of how detached you can become from society. If you are able to detach from society enough the process is sped up a lot because you don't have the external forces pushing expectations on you that are harmful for your self image.

  • @jeycarpet2665
    @jeycarpet2665 3 года назад +17

    Destiny loves black women

  • @overscoreSX
    @overscoreSX 3 года назад +6

    Lol! The look on Destiny's face when she said he was good with women!

  • @juicejuicy
    @juicejuicy 3 года назад +2

    this was really fun to listen to I loved it

  • @VaultBoy1300
    @VaultBoy1300 3 года назад +1

    God we need more tree and destiny content

  • @joelallen2849
    @joelallen2849 3 года назад +5

    I think these two would make a amazing podcast

  • @Ajb234
    @Ajb234 3 года назад +21

    Tree is chill af

  • @lore2027
    @lore2027 2 года назад +2

    I know this is weird but tree of logic and destiny are two of my favorite people on RUclips and I am so happy to see both of them in a stream 😄

  • @MAR1N4M1
    @MAR1N4M1 3 года назад

    This is some dope ass content. Enjoyed the banter.