Hey i got in touch with my ex after 8 months of our break up and he confessed that he cant meet me because he still has feelings for me. Its a long distance and 11yrs age gap thing. Two months back we got in touch In the end he agreed to meet me. But then i told him that i wana meet him becaude i want closure. Then he got angry n detached. But now i have decided that i will give closure to myself and tell him that its fine i dont wana meet. But the twist is that i got pregnant last 8 months back wen we eneded but i didnt tell him about that because i wanted to give him his freedom and i didnt want to look it as a manipulation thing if i tell him after our break up. So i didnt tell him last year. But now i think i should tell him as im actually giving closure to myself. So i wana know that wat do you think how will he react if i will tell him about my pregnancy where i had a miscarriage after two months only. And so u think he will get somewhere emotional about that after knowing it? I will say i have given closure to myself and will tell him about pregnancy thing.
A man that asks a friend for sex and nothing more is a selfish and using person; therefore, forget about trying to get him to give you more. He will say and pretend to act interested in a way that will get sex from you.
If a person just wants to be friends what is wrong with that? If you want a relationship just look for someone else who wants the same thing. If you're trying to manipulate people that makes you a toxic person.
What if he come back? Here's my story. I dated a guy for 2.5 months and everything was going very well. Then, he went on holidays and came back as completely different person. Being inconsistent, entitled, self-centered, not subtle at all. Called him out on his bad behavior and expressed how disappointed I am. He said we're not dating, we're friend and suddenly, he made everything being about sex. I distanced myself. You said it's essential to build emotional bond with a guy when together as well as prevent him from associating seeing me with being intimate. I applied it. Haven't heard from him for few weeks, his excuse was obviously ''busy with work''. Bullsh*t. I never initiated contact. I'd eventually meet him as friend. We spent few hours in the zoo and had lunch together. He dropped me home and hoped to get invited which didn't happened. Again, haven't heard from him for few weeks. When he called, I refused meeting him. He called next week and I let him take me out. We went to the park and he wouldn't keep his hands off of me. I reminded him, we here as friends and I need him to behave like one, sexy time is not an option. He tried to manipulate me by bragging about numerous options he has... An hour in the park and he wanted me to take him home and when I refused and told him to go if he wants to and leave me as I'm enjoying the sunshine, he... left. I was loosing interest in him anyways but with this move he lost not only last bit of my interest in him but also all my respect. I hope I will never hear from him again.
The guy I dated for 2 months said he doesn’t want a relationship so I said ok that’s fine but we’re not on the same page. I thought he understood so I’ve stayed my distance by not reaching out & ignoring him. He’s called & texted me after 2am here lately these past few weekends. Idk what his problem is but I’m not going to be his sex buddy bc I know I’m worth more. I refuse to go from a romantic interest to a “friend” whom he can reach out to whenever he feels like it or when he wants sex.
You made the right choice. Problem is there's lots of women giving men boyfriend/ husband benefits without the commitment. So many have been spoiled by many women and now alot girls don't understand why guys want to maintain that type of relationship. But you did well by sticking to what you want.. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🙌🙌❤
Good for you darling and HOW DARE HE. He can get that from someone else. I hope more women learn their worth and let these guys be lonely with their dicks.
Ladies, listen to this man. He knows what he's talking about. Just coming out of it, myself. There's a man out there who will love you and want to be with you totally. You don't have to put up with this shit.
I think you unploaded this for me! Hahaha after 8 months seeing each other he got scared because it was getting real... he now wants to be friends or fwb (if I am sure I won’t get hurt). I’m not a fwb kind of girl because I get attached. I’m working on myself and also how to be free in a relationship and will do this and just be his friend. No intimacy just fun and good moments and time will tell. Until then talk to other man and get with my friends! Thank you Alex! 😊
Alex, thank you so much for this video. I have unintentionally become FWB, made worse by the fact that he literally lives next door to me. However, I won't let that stop me following your advice. I feel cheapened by it, my fault as much as his, but I have to regain some self-respect.
Hey there. Do you have an update. I unintentionally became someones fwb too, and I also feel cheapened by it and know it lowered my value in his eyes. I stoppednit although its very difficult because i am attractes and he felt soooo good. But the situation has not changed at all. He hasnt even become a normal friend like I wanted when I met him. So how did your situation go?
Yes, I stay away from men who dont want a relationship but only sex. Is it bad for me to stop talking to them? Because I usually dont talk to them anymore if they ask to be friends with benefits.
Do you think arrogance is the way to get a quality man? And no, I'm not talking about not wanting FWB relationship. That's perfectly alright. (Even through this guy knows nothing about it and confuses it with so called booty call.) It's about the need to feel morally supreme. That's commonly a sign of not being at piece with yourself. Do you think a man who would love you as you are with all your weaknesses would want an arrogant woman? You can choose to think I'm stupid but don't bother to tell me. I don't care. Or you can think about it. Cannot there be a grain of truth?
He was with me 2 year i gave him everything then he left me for a 22 year old girl. He 57 I'm 58 and when he went with her said she was the love of his life. And i was just friends with benefits. But he still came to me when they rowed. I'm so hurt. I still love him. And he showed her off to me.
This is too common these days 🙄 I told him I understand, I wont judge him. Im happy to be his friend. I then said I'll just keep him in mind for when Im feeling very naughty. So I will be in charge if we ever end up in bed. So he doesn't have the power over me. Now to see how to go about having some fun activities together to find out if we actually get along and would be suited to dating..
Sometimes those FWB guys they will chase the women to trick them to sleep with them. My view on this is when a guy has set their mind on what kind of status they want to be in ie FWB seldom they will want to change. Unless it’s a different partner.
First to comment true you have help mie more since I start watch you video thanks so much I have learn much Alex thank thanks thanks so much you have change my whole life
I jus need to hear this,cuz he only see me as a #1 best friend,but we are soo close,and u right l deserve the best and not jus sex alone, I am the prize
Yes, I deleted this guy off my Facebook page at least twenty times. He didn't take a tint kept sending friends requests. Yes, in the past, we had fun but im trying to move on away from him and stay in a positive lane
People sleep on Friends with Benefits but in the end.. to have a lifelong partnership with your best friend that you're passionate about actually isn't a bad thing... its these toxic relationships that don't work long term..
This is my 2nd time round like this with the same guy. 27 years apart. I thought with age came maturity but clearly not.....we don’t live in the same city so he only messages to ask when I’m coming to town. If I say next week the “sexting” starts. If I say not for a while I don’t hear from him. No wonder his marriage failed and his kids don’t talk to him. You get back what you give out. Total user. He’s no great catch....no money no real career path bad health overweight but he knows how totally in love I am with him so he’s laughing I’m sure. He doesn’t mention me to his friends or family. He says coz he’s private which is BS coz he’s on FB all the time so he’s not that private !!!! I’m done being used. He’s going to be a lonely old man
what if he is attracted to you, admires you, kinda of secretly likes you, gets jealous is acting like your friend but just don’t have that push to be in a relationship with you. why is that? and what can I do thanks
Just because someone is jealous doesnt mean they want you. Maybe they feel you belong to Them but only sexually. And how do you know he likes you? If he did he would want to be in a relationship
What if the guy doesn’t tell you he wants FBB, he tells you he’s looking for long term but doesn’t advance the relationship? So in other words after several weeks or months after getting intimate he’s not asking you to be his GF.
Right now I'm in a such situationship. Had sex, then he became distant and stopped texting me that much like before. I asked him about, and he saud he is not a bad guy, who is looking for sex only, but also for friends. I told him I want sth serious only, because I don't enjoy coming back to empty flat every evening. He said I'm too focused on having bf only and life is short and I should enjoy life and have friends. But i explained him, friends don't take care for you, they don't go out with you, they don't hug you when you need. He couldn't understand. No friendship can replace the bond you have with your love... But still he complained I don't enjoy life and I should be happy always, enjoy life and accept the friendship he offers. But the problem is I like him, but he doesn't like me back. He just wants to have hundreds of friends, so I'm feeling like a Pokemon he wants to collect. So instead of drama, I will just distance myself....
What’s wrong with casual sex? If we both don’t want a serious relationship but we both are sexually attracted to each other then why not? I don’t give him the time of day unless I want sex. I have sex with him on MY terms. Not his. I don’t text him much. He texts me a lot. 🤷🏻♀️
I am kinda in the same boat but the guy pursues me AS IF he wants a relationship. very confusing. i don't know if i want him for one either so...there's that. Also, irronicaly my BEST, longest relationships didn't have "rules" we had sex early, we naturally wanted to be together. Yes they ended up asking me officially to be their girlfriend and we did other stuff together inpublic, going out, etc even before the official BF / GF status. I wouldn't say I knew we'd end up together, I just know I went with the flow.
You are the red flag 🚩 He is giving advice to person who is getting attach n want serious relationship. Because not everyone is meant for fbw they fell for the person
What if we decided to be friends and he didn't text me for almost 2 weeks. Should I reach out? What if he just said “he is ok with just friends” but doesn't care at all. I don't want go chase him and text him first, he would reach out if he wanted to actually stay friends, I guess... Any thoughts?
Dear Alex I need your help on this one; I have a crush with this guy and at first I thought he had the same feeling and I waited for him to make the first move and he didn’t, and I decided to make the first move and I told him what am feeling. And he said that he is not ready for relationship and I told him that it was just a crush and nothing serious. Then he asked me if we could be friends with benefits and I said no and I told him we can only be friends and he said that he’s happy. But the thing is I really like him and I don’t want to be just friends with him I want him more and I don’t know what to do. Can you help me Alex
Hej Alex!! So true!! After the first break up we were fwb and then a relationsship for 2 years..and then broke up again because we wansr in love... and NC from my side.. after 5 weeks contacted me tonbe fwb again.. but then i found he is in tinder... and we told me we can be fwb until.... i felt so bad... i love him... why??
What if you said no to sex first but still did it, but then you realised it was wrong idea to jump in so soon. So you still don't wanna have sex further on now, but he stops chaisng you now?
Hey i got in touch with my ex after 8 months of our break up and he confessed that he cant meet me because he still has feelings for me. Its a long distance and 11yrs age gap thing. Two months back we got in touch In the end he agreed to meet me. But then i told him that i wana meet him becaude i want closure. Then he got angry n detached. But now i have decided that i will give closure to myself and tell him that its fine i dont wana meet. But the twist is that i got pregnant last 8 months back wen we eneded but i didnt tell him about that because i wanted to give him his freedom and i didnt want to look it as a manipulation thing if i tell him after our break up. So i didnt tell him last year. But now i think i should tell him as im actually giving closure to myself. So i wana know that wat do you think how will he react if i will tell him about my pregnancy where i had a miscarriage after two months only. And so u think he will get somewhere emotional about that after knowing it? I will say i have given closure to myself and will tell him about pregnancy thing.
Hi Alex. What if his excuse to 'only be sexfriends for now' is for us to get to know each other so he will then decide if we should be in a real relationship? I am very confused and not sure if he's playing me.
What if it’s long distance but when he visits he wants to be friends with benefits? Should I allow it? Or make him commit, long distance seems hard though... we’re very busy. I want to be exclusive but not official what to do?
I have a video on this channel that explains the Do's and Don'ts of falling for a married man. I hope you find the time to check it out! ruclips.net/video/7p098sxsIxc/видео.html
Alex don’t know what to respond I sent this to him Something crazy just happened to me. I’ll have to tell you about it next time I see you. My life is taking a turn and I can’t get enough! And this is his answer don’t know what to say . Please help This is his answer. We are at the beach all day. What happen are you good? Tell me please.
All you keep saying in your videos no matter what the title is,basically is the same stuff dont be needy dont do this dont do that.Things do not work this way unfortunately.You make so many videos repeating the same stuff but hey you just forgot the most important thing.You cant make or force anyone to like you or have a relationship with you no matter what you do.No matter how cold dostant or needy or whatever you are if the other person is not into you, then just realize it you cant force him or make him "magically" fall in love.Ladies do not stick around with men who use yoh or try to convince yourselves that maybe things might change or get better.You will end up 10 times more hurt for no reason.If someone doesnt respect or value you from the beginning then its their problem you shouldnt try to change someones opinion about you.If they care and love you they will find the way and most of the time these tricks do not work from person experience talking.The only thing that i have noticed working is that they come back when they see you have moved on and doing better but thats only because of their ego and i dont think you need a man in your life who chases you just for hes ego.You deserve better love affection and all these things.If the situation doesnt serve you dont chase and let it go.So simple.No need to do tricks or magic to force someone to love you unfortunately.🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
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What if I want him friends with benefits only?😂we’ve met only once ale we said that to each other but since then haven’t heard from him so wonder if I should message him..?its sex only so does any rules applies?;))
Hello Alex I love to watch your videos,but a days this your voice is sound so far away I can't hear u clearly even my volume full.. Please don't offense, Sorry I just wanna let you know coz I like to hear your voice bit louder, maybe ur mic bit far away I think..
Honestly, I think SOMETIMES it’s about patience. Like if you could keep your legs closed and just be friends with him, that patience just may make you his girlfriend-wife. But that’s only sometimes.
He will find other grl then to be his sex friend lots of woman do this, agree for this bc they care od mans, really he has boy friends to do activities.
Alex you changed your setting. You are too quiet. There 8s no way I can sit quiet and listen. Microphone situation? I like your new style, not the sound
I like all ur tips except number 4. In my experience, anything u say to a man has no value. Men respond more to ur actions than words..i would just walk away
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Hey i got in touch with my ex after 8 months of our break up and he confessed that he cant meet me because he still has feelings for me.
Its a long distance and 11yrs age gap thing.
Two months back we got in touch
In the end he agreed to meet me.
But then i told him that i wana meet him becaude i want closure.
Then he got angry n detached.
But now i have decided that i will give closure to myself and tell him that its fine i dont wana meet.
But the twist is that i got pregnant last 8 months back wen we eneded but i didnt tell him about that because i wanted to give him his freedom and i didnt want to look it as a manipulation thing if i tell him after our break up. So i didnt tell him last year.
But now i think i should tell him as im actually giving closure to myself.
So i wana know that wat do you think how will he react if i will tell him about my pregnancy where i had a miscarriage after two months only.
And so u think he will get somewhere emotional about that after knowing it?
I will say i have given closure to myself and will tell him about pregnancy thing.
Derek Goodwin yes same here. I would love to get it.
Thank you soo much sir 🤗🤗😊 I loved ur each & every word ... I'm soo grateful to myself that I refused him for FWB
Very nice videos.. I wil follow coach alex
He's right. I just got out of this kind of relationship, that almost destroyed me. I'll never be in this kind of relationship ever again.
The thing with friends with benefits is that the friendship part is not even there, those guys make shit friends 😂
So true.
But what if the friendship is there?
Yes I'm agree
Cheapskates
😂😂😂
I told him being friends with benefits means that I feel unworthy to be anything more ....I can't be that because I know my value
A man that asks a friend for sex and nothing more is a selfish and using person; therefore, forget about trying to get him to give you more. He will say and pretend to act interested in a way that will get sex from you.
"Being sex friend is for the loser" is my new mantra!!
Had LDR go belly up when he texted catfished photos and I showed them to my family. Came back 7 months later hinting at friendship...toxic
If a person just wants to be friends what is wrong with that? If you want a relationship just look for someone else who wants the same thing. If you're trying to manipulate people that makes you a toxic person.
All young girl must watch this. This has to be a high school education.
Thanks for putting insight on this topic.
hear hear!
What if he come back? Here's my story.
I dated a guy for 2.5 months and everything was going very well. Then, he went on holidays and came back as completely different person. Being inconsistent, entitled, self-centered, not subtle at all. Called him out on his bad behavior and expressed how disappointed I am. He said we're not dating, we're friend and suddenly, he made everything being about sex. I distanced myself. You said it's essential to build emotional bond with a guy when together as well as prevent him from associating seeing me with being intimate. I applied it. Haven't heard from him for few weeks, his excuse was obviously ''busy with work''. Bullsh*t. I never initiated contact. I'd eventually meet him as friend. We spent few hours in the zoo and had lunch together. He dropped me home and hoped to get invited which didn't happened. Again, haven't heard from him for few weeks. When he called, I refused meeting him. He called next week and I let him take me out. We went to the park and he wouldn't keep his hands off of me. I reminded him, we here as friends and I need him to behave like one, sexy time is not an option. He tried to manipulate me by bragging about numerous options he has... An hour in the park and he wanted me to take him home and when I refused and told him to go if he wants to and leave me as I'm enjoying the sunshine, he... left. I was loosing interest in him anyways but with this move he lost not only last bit of my interest in him but also all my respect. I hope I will never hear from him again.
The guy I dated for 2 months said he doesn’t want a relationship so I said ok that’s fine but we’re not on the same page. I thought he understood so I’ve stayed my distance by not reaching out & ignoring him. He’s called & texted me after 2am here lately these past few weekends. Idk what his problem is but I’m not going to be his sex buddy bc I know I’m worth more. I refuse to go from a romantic interest to a “friend” whom he can reach out to whenever he feels like it or when he wants sex.
You made the right choice.
Problem is there's lots of women giving men boyfriend/ husband benefits without the commitment.
So many have been spoiled by many women and now alot girls don't understand why guys want to maintain that type of relationship.
But you did well by sticking to what you want.. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🙌🙌❤
Another user.
Good for you darling and HOW DARE HE. He can get that from someone else. I hope more women learn their worth and let these guys be lonely with their dicks.
Kaye Bee good for you! No need to waste the pretty on a low value user like that. He’s a boy, not a man
How is it now??
Ladies, listen to this man. He knows what he's talking about. Just coming out of it, myself. There's a man out there who will love you and want to be with you totally. You don't have to put up with this shit.
I think you unploaded this for me! Hahaha after 8 months seeing each other he got scared because it was getting real... he now wants to be friends or fwb (if I am sure I won’t get hurt). I’m not a fwb kind of girl because I get attached. I’m working on myself and also how to be free in a relationship and will do this and just be his friend. No intimacy just fun and good moments and time will tell. Until then talk to other man and get with my friends! Thank you Alex! 😊
So he did not get any sex for 6 months?
You comments have helped me to grow my relationship. I have been watching your channel for four years now.
That's great!
Alex, thank you so much for this video. I have unintentionally become FWB, made worse by the fact that he literally lives next door to me. However, I won't let that stop me following your advice. I feel cheapened by it, my fault as much as his, but I have to regain some self-respect.
Hey there. Do you have an update. I unintentionally became someones fwb too, and I also feel cheapened by it and know it lowered my value in his eyes. I stoppednit although its very difficult because i am attractes and he felt soooo good. But the situation has not changed at all. He hasnt even become a normal friend like I wanted when I met him. So how did your situation go?
You're my favourite relationship coach of all time
Yes, I stay away from men who dont want a relationship but only sex. Is it bad for me to stop talking to them? Because I usually dont talk to them anymore if they ask to be friends with benefits.
Thank Alex, it's very useful. this can help many ppl from heartbreak. I'd say controlling our own mind is the harderst part
Yes it is!
Its called "Friends with Benefits". Any man that asks that of me can go to hell and live there 🤣
Do you think arrogance is the way to get a quality man? And no, I'm not talking about not wanting FWB relationship. That's perfectly alright. (Even through this guy knows nothing about it and confuses it with so called booty call.) It's about the need to feel morally supreme. That's commonly a sign of not being at piece with yourself.
Do you think a man who would love you as you are with all your weaknesses would want an arrogant woman?
You can choose to think I'm stupid but don't bother to tell me. I don't care. Or you can think about it. Cannot there be a grain of truth?
@@localhostechoEro nope not for me
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Dear Alex, would you make a video on how to go from a casual relationship to a serious relationship? You are the best. Thank you😘
Great suggestion!
"You should never, never, never going into a relationship there you only find sex." I really never could. It would feel hell.
honestly... would i want to have a relationship with creep like that ?
He was with me 2 year i gave him everything then he left me for a 22 year old girl. He 57 I'm 58 and when he went with her said she was the love of his life. And i was just friends with benefits. But he still came to me when they rowed. I'm so hurt. I still love him. And he showed her off to me.
This is too common these days 🙄 I told him I understand, I wont judge him. Im happy to be his friend. I then said I'll just keep him in mind for when Im feeling very naughty. So I will be in charge if we ever end up in bed. So he doesn't have the power over me. Now to see how to go about having some fun activities together to find out if we actually get along and would be suited to dating..
Sometimes those FWB guys they will chase the women to trick them to sleep with them.
My view on this is when a guy has set their mind on what kind of status they want to be in ie FWB seldom they will want to change. Unless it’s a different partner.
First to comment true you have help mie more since I start watch you video thanks so much I have learn much Alex thank thanks thanks so much you have change my whole life
You rock!
I jus need to hear this,cuz he only see me as a #1 best friend,but we are soo close,and u right l deserve the best and not jus sex alone, I am the prize
He said he wanted to be freinds.i told him freindship needs 1 Respect and 2 trust so we can't be freinds.
Amazing tips 😊Alex your every videos & concept says to be more confident👍
Happy to hear that!
Why even spend so much time and effort to get him back when you can just walk away and find someone better...
:-)
Yes, I deleted this guy off my Facebook page at least twenty times. He didn't take a tint kept sending friends requests. Yes, in the past, we had fun but im trying to move on away from him and stay in a positive lane
People sleep on Friends with Benefits but in the end.. to have a lifelong partnership with your best friend that you're passionate about actually isn't a bad thing... its these toxic relationships that don't work long term..
This is my 2nd time round like this with the same guy. 27 years apart. I thought with age came maturity but clearly not.....we don’t live in the same city so he only messages to ask when I’m coming to town. If I say next week the “sexting” starts. If I say not for a while I don’t hear from him. No wonder his marriage failed and his kids don’t talk to him. You get back what you give out. Total user. He’s no great catch....no money no real career path bad health overweight but he knows how totally in love I am with him so he’s laughing I’m sure. He doesn’t mention me to his friends or family. He says coz he’s private which is BS coz he’s on FB all the time so he’s not that private !!!! I’m done being used. He’s going to be a lonely old man
what if he is attracted to you, admires you, kinda of secretly likes you, gets jealous is acting like your friend but just don’t have that push to be in a relationship with you. why is that? and what can I do thanks
Meet other men that's gonna be good push for him
Did u get with him in the end or na?
Just because someone is jealous doesnt mean they want you. Maybe they feel you belong to Them but only sexually. And how do you know he likes you? If he did he would want to be in a relationship
Well done Alex 👏👏👏
What if the guy doesn’t tell you he wants FBB, he tells you he’s looking for long term but doesn’t advance the relationship?
So in other words after several weeks or months after getting intimate he’s not asking you to be his GF.
Alex Johnson a man who wants you as his gf will lock it down or try to ASAP. If it has been months he’s using you but leading you on.
The relationship conversation should happen on day 1 and from your side not his.
Damn, you’re so right.
Right now I'm in a such situationship. Had sex, then he became distant and stopped texting me that much like before. I asked him about, and he saud he is not a bad guy, who is looking for sex only, but also for friends. I told him I want sth serious only, because I don't enjoy coming back to empty flat every evening. He said I'm too focused on having bf only and life is short and I should enjoy life and have friends. But i explained him, friends don't take care for you, they don't go out with you, they don't hug you when you need. He couldn't understand. No friendship can replace the bond you have with your love... But still he complained I don't enjoy life and I should be happy always, enjoy life and accept the friendship he offers. But the problem is I like him, but he doesn't like me back. He just wants to have hundreds of friends, so I'm feeling like a Pokemon he wants to collect. So instead of drama, I will just distance myself....
Thanks Alex, I need to hear this. 🙂
Any time!
Thank you for your tips Alex
My pleasure!
Debating just sending him this video.... lol been 9 years now
The way you explain it's so cute. I feel like you're my friend 😊🙏
Wow, thank you
Thank you, Alex💕 useful as always😚😚
You're welcome 😊
Very useful, thank you🙏🏻
Just on time Alex thanks 🙏
What’s wrong with casual sex? If we both don’t want a serious relationship but we both are sexually attracted to each other then why not? I don’t give him the time of day unless I want sex. I have sex with him on MY terms. Not his. I don’t text him much. He texts me a lot. 🤷🏻♀️
I am kinda in the same boat but the guy pursues me AS IF he wants a relationship. very confusing. i don't know if i want him for one either so...there's that. Also, irronicaly my BEST, longest relationships didn't have "rules" we had sex early, we naturally wanted to be together. Yes they ended up asking me officially to be their girlfriend and we did other stuff together inpublic, going out, etc even before the official BF / GF status. I wouldn't say I knew we'd end up together, I just know I went with the flow.
You are the red flag 🚩 He is giving advice to person who is getting attach n want serious relationship. Because not everyone is meant for fbw they fell for the person
What if we decided to be friends and he didn't text me for almost 2 weeks. Should I reach out? What if he just said “he is ok with just friends” but doesn't care at all. I don't want go chase him and text him first, he would reach out if he wanted to actually stay friends, I guess... Any thoughts?
What if he doesn't want to go out on dates?
Bold advice
Alex great advice .x
Love from India.. very nice advice 😊
Thanks for watching!
Dear Alex I need your help on this one; I have a crush with this guy and at first I thought he had the same feeling and I waited for him to make the first move and he didn’t, and I decided to make the first move and I told him what am feeling. And he said that he is not ready for relationship and I told him that it was just a crush and nothing serious. Then he asked me if we could be friends with benefits and I said no and I told him we can only be friends and he said that he’s happy. But the thing is I really like him and I don’t want to be just friends with him I want him more and I don’t know what to do. Can you help me Alex
I am in the same situation. What can we do
what if he is not interested in being friend?how to respond
You leave that alone
Hope is good for me not to talk to again?
Hej Alex!! So true!! After the first break up we were fwb and then a relationsship for 2 years..and then broke up again because we wansr in love... and NC from my side.. after 5 weeks contacted me tonbe fwb again.. but then i found he is in tinder... and we told me we can be fwb until.... i felt so bad... i love him... why??
Thank You Alex .
Very helpful content! Thank you. I wish you the best!
♥
Thank you too!
Im myself and Ill let him know if I think hes handsome. Yet Im moving on with my life
Amazing tips!👏🏻
Glad you think so!
What if you said no to sex first but still did it, but then you realised it was wrong idea to jump in so soon. So you still don't wanna have sex further on now, but he stops chaisng you now?
Really good advise
Love this video so much🙏❤
Thank you so much!!
Thank you so....... much sir😊
All the best
He cut me off when i told him i want a relationship although i have feelings for him
Again, excellent advice!
Glad you think so!
Hey i got in touch with my ex after 8 months of our break up and he confessed that he cant meet me because he still has feelings for me.
Its a long distance and 11yrs age gap thing.
Two months back we got in touch
In the end he agreed to meet me.
But then i told him that i wana meet him becaude i want closure.
Then he got angry n detached.
But now i have decided that i will give closure to myself and tell him that its fine i dont wana meet.
But the twist is that i got pregnant last 8 months back wen we eneded but i didnt tell him about that because i wanted to give him his freedom and i didnt want to look it as a manipulation thing if i tell him after our break up. So i didnt tell him last year.
But now i think i should tell him as im actually giving closure to myself.
So i wana know that wat do you think how will he react if i will tell him about my pregnancy where i had a miscarriage after two months only.
And so u think he will get somewhere emotional about that after knowing it?
I will say i have given closure to myself and will tell him about pregnancy thing.
He broke up with me and now he said if I want friends with benefits because he doesn't love me anymore 😭
what happened to me 😔
Hi Alex. What if his excuse to 'only be sexfriends for now' is for us to get to know each other so he will then decide if we should be in a real relationship? I am very confused and not sure if he's playing me.
He's playing you. If he wants to do it right he will date you to get to know you not sleep with you to get to know you.
Then no sex
Thanks Alex ☺️💖
You're so welcome.
Can i get my ex back permantly
Thank you.
You're welcome!
What if it’s long distance but when he visits he wants to be friends with benefits? Should I allow it? Or make him commit, long distance seems hard though... we’re very busy. I want to be exclusive but not official what to do?
You have to decide what you want in the relationship and once you do, than develop boundaries so you can protect your heart.
What if he might be married?
I have a video on this channel that explains the Do's and Don'ts of falling for a married man. I hope you find the time to check it out!
ruclips.net/video/7p098sxsIxc/видео.html
Thank u...soo much..
Most welcome 😊
No more honey...🐝. 😂🤣
Nope..not even friend. The honey is gone together with the bee.
If we told them what you said Alex they block us that's it
He ask me to be his sex friend... I left him! Hoping that he will change his mind
Man, why is it always the 2 months relationship😭
U r great
Alex don’t know what to respond I sent this to him Something crazy just happened to me. I’ll have to tell you about it next time I see you. My life is taking a turn and I can’t get enough!
And this is his answer don’t know what to say . Please help
This is his answer.
We are at the beach all day. What happen are you good? Tell me please.
All you keep saying in your videos no matter what the title is,basically is the same stuff dont be needy dont do this dont do that.Things do not work this way unfortunately.You make so many videos repeating the same stuff but hey you just forgot the most important thing.You cant make or force anyone to like you or have a relationship with you no matter what you do.No matter how cold dostant or needy or whatever you are if the other person is not into you, then just realize it you cant force him or make him "magically" fall in love.Ladies do not stick around with men who use yoh or try to convince yourselves that maybe things might change or get better.You will end up 10 times more hurt for no reason.If someone doesnt respect or value you from the beginning then its their problem you shouldnt try to change someones opinion about you.If they care and love you they will find the way and most of the time these tricks do not work from person experience talking.The only thing that i have noticed working is that they come back when they see you have moved on and doing better but thats only because of their ego and i dont think you need a man in your life who chases you just for hes ego.You deserve better love affection and all these things.If the situation doesnt serve you dont chase and let it go.So simple.No need to do tricks or magic to force someone to love you unfortunately.🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I am in love with my fwb.But he don't want to be in relationship with me.I like to marry him.What to do? Pls reply sir.
Hi there,
Thank you for reaching out to me about this. I would love to help you with this and I hope you can book a coaching session with me!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
I absolutely hate friends with benefits. I will never, ever do it again.
I'm so sorry to hear this!
Being sex friend is for the loser, being sex friend is for the loser....
What if I want him friends with benefits only?😂we’ve met only once ale we said that to each other but since then haven’t heard from him so wonder if I should message him..?its sex only so does any rules applies?;))
leave and bloque!🤷🏾
Thnks you❤️
Always welcome
Volume not good
Hard to hear what you say ? Sond is so low 🥴
Don't waste your time trying to get him to commit. Just dump his ass and find someone worth your time.
How to manipulate people 101. Better advice would be to move on to someone who does want a relationship.
True
wish I heard this earlier.
I'm glad you're here now!
Hello Alex I love to watch your videos,but a days this your voice is sound so far away I can't hear u clearly even my volume full.. Please don't offense, Sorry I just wanna let you know coz I like to hear your voice bit louder, maybe ur mic bit far away I think..
I'm working on it
Honestly, I think SOMETIMES it’s about patience. Like if you could keep your legs closed and just be friends with him, that patience just may make you his girlfriend-wife. But that’s only sometimes.
Yes, when women enforce high standards and not let men disrespect them... the man will either have to become a better man or leave.
No ice contact lol
🤣
He will find other grl then to be his sex friend lots of woman do this, agree for this bc they care od mans, really he has boy friends to do activities.
2:28. 3:10
Alex you changed your setting. You are too quiet. There 8s no way I can sit quiet and listen. Microphone situation? I like your new style, not the sound
How to create special memories as friends when he made it clear: no sex, no meet? 🤣🤣🤣 men these days are hopeless!
True
Why would you even want to create any type of memory with a person like that?
I like all ur tips except number 4. In my experience, anything u say to a man has no value. Men respond more to ur actions than words..i would just walk away
Hi am evah.. But am Ina relationship with a married man.. He treat me like real woman but my problem his he does not want a serious relationship.
Shame on you.