Stop Being So Nice To Men! #1 Thing That STOPS Attraction!

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 391

  • @lionesslamb7049
    @lionesslamb7049 4 года назад +162

    I'm not jumping to respond to his messages because I'm busy washing my hair..washing off this Corona. I come first...self care.

    • @iisrahandianirahandiani5708
      @iisrahandianirahandiani5708 4 года назад +1

      agree

    • @Sofia-wx2ht
      @Sofia-wx2ht 4 года назад

      🖐🏽😂💅🏾

    • @jessyjohn4326
      @jessyjohn4326 4 года назад

      jessy joh
      Alex i came across many guys in the matimony bt many were fake hw to judge them pls guide me.
      Ur such a wonderful person and all ur videos r awosome.

    • @amelianabors6130
      @amelianabors6130 4 года назад

      Excellent Tips ! 😍😍😍

  • @oxanagetman6900
    @oxanagetman6900 4 года назад +319

    It's easier said than done 😂😉 when you are in love with a man, you are naturally becoming nicer towards him.

    • @jeccym8715
      @jeccym8715 4 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jeccym8715
      @jeccym8715 4 года назад +59

      I think we should treat the guys we like like way we treat guys we are not interested with and we will all be married 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cherish.o.m4453
      @cherish.o.m4453 4 года назад +1

      Not me is 50/50

    • @mayphoenix4725
      @mayphoenix4725 4 года назад +1

      @@jeccym8715 hmmmm🤔

    • @crunchybunbun
      @crunchybunbun 4 года назад +1

      @@jeccym8715 preach

  • @rebeccajones8628
    @rebeccajones8628 4 года назад +129

    Give them nothing, ignore them. They will treat you like a queen. They are such strange creatures.

    • @freetube508
      @freetube508 3 года назад +1

      It is strange human psychology exactly unless some intelligent 🧠🤓 guy know the worth of getting & grateful what they are getting is not ignoring him or His ignorance

    • @flexiveganc7441
      @flexiveganc7441 3 года назад +1

      Hahaha 😁🤣 i guess y are right. They are strange

    • @isiomaazikiwe3578
      @isiomaazikiwe3578 2 года назад

      Very strange creatures

    • @crunchybunbun
      @crunchybunbun 2 года назад

      HAHAHA

    • @ivylillace
      @ivylillace 2 года назад +3

      Exactly i did it 4 days he came back like a magnet lol 😂😂😂 thats the way to go i even unfollowed him on ig he followed me back thats the way to give them a dose of their own medicine it works

  • @anncochenour7340
    @anncochenour7340 4 года назад +76

    I will continue to treat my sweetie nice as long as he appreciates it and treats me the same.

  • @samgiestrada1927
    @samgiestrada1927 4 года назад +58

    Remember ladies a strong woman has no attitudes. We have standards and boundaries. Even if we love the guy we should have atleast love ourselves first. Me first always. 😍🤗💖🖤💜🧡💛💚💙❤

  • @joyc9911
    @joyc9911 4 года назад +45

    Personal opinion? Don't even put yourself in that spot because it all happens too fast when LOVE is involved. You won't even remember were you left the paper of your specifics at, talk more of what's written inside.
    Women are naturally very very nice and caring to whoever or whatever they LOVE.
    There are very very few good men with good hearts and good intentions for their lover. The rest of them are just a punch of pretenders, deceivers, for granted takers the list goes on and on.
    So, love yourself, get your life going, think positive thoughts, get working and making yourself some good money, be around people who adds positively to your life, go for your dreams.....have one or two children already? Splendid!!! Get busy!

  • @karenwallace5841
    @karenwallace5841 4 года назад +26

    I’ve always been cold .... never too nice. I put myself first always, no man I have ever met in my life is worth losing who I am as a person. Sorry not sorry

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro 4 года назад +64

    It always depends 🤗. There are men who want nice , subtle, soft spoken, sweet, thoughtful, caring , refined women . Some men want straight forward, blunt , independent women. 😉🤗

    • @bradhuckel3741
      @bradhuckel3741 4 года назад +22

      Yep, if you wanna do a dance with some avoidant guy who will never be anything different - play games. If you want a genuine, stable guy who will always be there for you, be upfront and say it. Those guys who don't value you will find another girl who doesn't believe in herself, or her needs. You will be free of your lifetime boat anchor, and on the road to finding that right guy who will treasure you.

    • @elhamamini7872
      @elhamamini7872 4 года назад +1

      @@bradhuckel3741 woooooow. Sooooo true! Well said. Am much impressed with your words and vision! Perfect attitude!

    • @kehindesho5414
      @kehindesho5414 4 года назад

      Praxy M92 so freakin true 😒

  • @kristinprestbakken1601
    @kristinprestbakken1601 4 года назад +24

    I really agree .Thanks you need to ignore the man, get self confidence and tell yourself :
    You are the the boss in your life .Meet friends ,work and be busy with family.
    Buy some new clothes and feel great . Dont be too kind it will make him think he controls you.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  4 года назад

      Absolutely!

    • @Mabrrrr
      @Mabrrrr 4 года назад

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert i cant find your link please pin it só we see it first

  • @knowlightknowright
    @knowlightknowright 4 года назад +46

    Narcissists suck your energy dry if you live with them or are in a relationshit with them. I'm currently exhausted. 👀

    • @ebonyjoseph9489
      @ebonyjoseph9489 4 года назад +2

      knowlight knowright how do they do that?

    • @rushmitaroy6719
      @rushmitaroy6719 4 года назад +3

      Currently going through this situation,...

    • @vimalmishra438
      @vimalmishra438 4 года назад +3

      same here

    • @gracelikerain5039
      @gracelikerain5039 4 года назад +4

      😂😂😂😂 relationshit

    • @TheHealedBeauty
      @TheHealedBeauty 4 года назад +2

      Me too girl. We will overcome it. Heal. We gone love ourselves. Be happy. Level up and attract better. The right one will come.

  • @hannahbui29
    @hannahbui29 4 года назад +252

    I don’t need to date and worry another man ... I’m going date with coach Alex everything will be good 😍😁

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 4 года назад +28

    I invested in my career...and in my sports..I like men..but I know who they can be...and how they can be...when he is not as I expect him to be I dismiss him.. and proceed with my life...

  • @New-jb1tc
    @New-jb1tc 4 года назад +83

    My ex was a dismissive avoidant. Very broken. I was so nice to him... the one time i wasnt and showed i had a backbone he broke up with me. Lol

    • @lanonyme8377
      @lanonyme8377 4 года назад +7

      Same here.....

    • @queso5367
      @queso5367 4 года назад +22

      You dodged a bullet. Let that energy go.

    • @queso5367
      @queso5367 4 года назад +5

      @@lanonyme8377 It'll be a great thing in the long run. I promise.

    • @TheSoftLifeMeditations
      @TheSoftLifeMeditations 4 года назад +6

      well then u have your anwer. he didnt even like u that much

    • @lisasinclair2748
      @lisasinclair2748 4 года назад +3

      wow, he seems like a total loser

  • @dr.phaty_bee
    @dr.phaty_bee 4 года назад +10

    This is so true..have your own life.. I began a 360 abundance transformation in May and it has been a life changing experience .. My self confidence has moved 100%

    • @kristinaleonardo9222
      @kristinaleonardo9222 4 года назад

      Fatima Binta Mohammed Are you taking any course in particular? I need this!

  • @freeatlast3752
    @freeatlast3752 4 года назад +30

    Basically, educate yourself before starting a relationship! I have been married for 20 years , we have grow together and enjoy who we have become! It feels like we have been married for twenty days.The secret no secrets!

  • @blancarosasmusica
    @blancarosasmusica 3 года назад +25

    I stop being nice to men, when they insult me, if he can’t respect me as a human being then I stop being nice, taking calls. I mean I say good bye and forget you forever.

    • @freetube508
      @freetube508 3 года назад

      Find reason why you din not respect him & why does not he respect you too

    • @craftswithjeni
      @craftswithjeni 2 года назад

      That's so empowering!

  • @kathie554
    @kathie554 4 года назад +66

    It is about setting boundaries and putting yourself first, so to speak.
    A relationship should be a two way street.
    Alex is right, I give to the man, but what do you expect to receive from him in return?

    • @sunmoonstars0369
      @sunmoonstars0369 3 года назад

      If he’s truly interested in you he will give to you, as a female your only requirement is to recieve. If you give to him right back he will know you don’t feel worth it and you will stop being his dream lady.

    • @freetube508
      @freetube508 3 года назад

      When you are sure you are good then be clever watching what he give you rather being too nice to give him what he does not deserve at all 🤣🙂

  • @kateroth7154
    @kateroth7154 2 года назад

    I love it when you say " Hello ladies!"

  • @rovielynulnagan
    @rovielynulnagan 4 года назад +10

    i like your message!so true! being so nice is no effect also to men they take you for granted indeed based on my experienced!

  • @sellitall811
    @sellitall811 3 года назад +5

    'Whatever his life is-WE DON'T CARE!' 😆😂😂😂 Omg, I'm dying! I saved this video for FOREVER!

  • @knowlightknowright
    @knowlightknowright 4 года назад +55

    I hate being an empath most of the time.😪💔

    • @grbgrb9082
      @grbgrb9082 4 года назад +6

      Even empaths have breaking points....

    • @fiae2897
      @fiae2897 4 года назад +5

      True, its like men know this and take advantage.

    • @almlaoztas7475
      @almlaoztas7475 4 года назад +1

      Me too😔

    • @thipimotsoare4228
      @thipimotsoare4228 4 года назад +2

      @@grbgrb9082 so true

    • @genxnomad1978
      @genxnomad1978 3 года назад +3

      @knowlight knowright so true. Me2. It can be SO exhausting, feeling other people's feelings on top of our own. I need a break from people ALOT🤕😭

  • @angelsandocean2853
    @angelsandocean2853 3 года назад +3

    Often we play by their rules. It takes character to stick to our own rules. Very hard job girls, but we should keep on trying. Thank you Alex

  • @oumieyillah4285
    @oumieyillah4285 4 года назад +80

    I tried this my relationship is in the rocks! All men are not the same, n real men don’t do this silly games!!!

    • @Sofia-wx2ht
      @Sofia-wx2ht 4 года назад +2

      Am in a place where i can smell stupid games creeping...

    • @mumbenzidinah9511
      @mumbenzidinah9511 4 года назад +3

      It’s true there’s some good honest men

  • @LeafsIn2025
    @LeafsIn2025 4 года назад +2

    The excuses point really hit home.
    Thank you, Alex.

  • @blancarosasmusica
    @blancarosasmusica 4 года назад +34

    I think if you are not getting any love and attention from the man you love ❤️ Then it’s a clear sign only one person is in love, so I always choose to love myself because if he can’t appreciate me. Then he has to just go. Let go and wish well..🌹💋🥰

    • @titahi27
      @titahi27 4 года назад +1

      True ✨ best lesson for the day.

  • @reninononono
    @reninononono 4 года назад +3

    Your energy brought me positivity today !

  • @chrystalbriceno3699
    @chrystalbriceno3699 4 года назад +10

    Knowing your self worth & value is #1 before entertaining ANY relationship 😉❤

  • @HangingoutconLisa
    @HangingoutconLisa 4 года назад +7

    You made my day!!! Before watching this video I felt so insecure which I didn’t know why bc I always felt good about myself and I also felt disappointed with myself but I realized that I can’t let this guy bring my spirits down or make me feel so unwanted and unhappy I need to stop being so nice and move on. Thank you 🙏🏽!

    • @Alvin-u7o
      @Alvin-u7o Год назад

      3🤣🎉🎉🎉😂

  • @asplenium177
    @asplenium177 4 года назад

    Yes! We know all that... but the true thing that will change my life today is stop giving some « pardon excuses » to explain everything. The best advice i’ ve ever recieved! Quand on veut on peut, d’une manière ou d’une autre. Merci et avec your french accent c’est encore mieux !

  • @lovemummymo
    @lovemummymo 4 года назад +1

    You are a great guy...God bless you.

  • @molletachieng9854
    @molletachieng9854 3 года назад

    Thanks..... I really needed this I always been good

  • @kekeaufi9834
    @kekeaufi9834 3 года назад

    *I start watch your videos 2month ago but thing is better in our relationship Alex u ar hell ✊🏼✊🏼🤗*

  • @seemeup8
    @seemeup8 4 года назад +2

    My man was consistent for me 2years and 2months(its our monthsary today)😁
    ,i always look myself like a flower and his a butterfly...😉

  • @lindal6032
    @lindal6032 4 года назад +24

    I would like more advice which applies to older women and men. I am 71 years old, retired, and widowed more than 7 years.

    • @silvermont331
      @silvermont331 4 года назад +10

      Omg 😯 honey you simply need to sleep more 😂 relax .. who needs a burden after 60 😂

  • @wolfpack8193
    @wolfpack8193 4 года назад +32

    “Don’t forget to smash the like button” makes me laugh all the time.

  • @hunny585
    @hunny585 4 года назад +29

    can u make video on how to show men interest without acting desperate especially meeting online

  • @samgiestrada1927
    @samgiestrada1927 4 года назад +2

    Omg!! Right in time. I am always nice because of my job . I need to listen this

  • @ralu1651
    @ralu1651 4 года назад

    Easier say than done when you moved away from friends, family, culture, don’t know anybody and can’t even socialise with your colleagues due to the HUGE age gap. Try to socialise while CoronaTime... but you are so very right!

  • @MsOLWYNN
    @MsOLWYNN 4 года назад +7

    New subscriber. Thank you. Was feeling a little taken for granted.. and oscillating between feeling needy and wanting to throw the towel in. Covid19 restrictions are not helping with the dating scene. 🇦🇺😂

  • @TarotFaithKeeper
    @TarotFaithKeeper 3 года назад +1

    Good advice , thank you. I've always been too nice, My mother says it's my best and worst quality. Namaste🙏⭐

  • @anngandah4143
    @anngandah4143 4 года назад +4

    Watching from Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @fhyubhhh2881
    @fhyubhhh2881 3 года назад

    True 100% bless you!!

  • @oybibikarimova580
    @oybibikarimova580 4 года назад +3

    I love your ideas Alex Corment, it helps me improve myself

    • @oybibikarimova580
      @oybibikarimova580 4 года назад

      Alex iam not connecting with him from 10days almost, but not any result, he is my husband and we have a one boy, after marriage all changed , he changed , he started act iam his coworker not a wife, he calls and ask from my dad how his son but not ask about me, I stopped being so nice, and iam on radio silence. But wondering will I get good result?

  • @flexiveganc7441
    @flexiveganc7441 3 года назад

    Very good video, merci

  • @seemadeori8884
    @seemadeori8884 4 года назад

    Yes absolutely right what you are saying bro..

  • @imeldaocampo9173
    @imeldaocampo9173 4 года назад

    Yes you true Alex, all he needs I give to him...but he's always hurts me back. For I have to do this time is good to be silent ...and confedenth be myself.

  • @nikitag421
    @nikitag421 4 года назад +1

    Alex will you plz throw more light on how to set the goals for relationship? what questions to ask our self and our partner to set it correctly and sustainable.

  • @rawanRZ
    @rawanRZ 4 года назад

    I think this paper exercice is very effective, gonna do it. Merci beaucoup Alex.

  • @tetsidoris7368
    @tetsidoris7368 4 года назад

    So on point Alex coming from a man so true about balancing life. I love u

  • @Angelica-mi2ry
    @Angelica-mi2ry 4 года назад +1

    I absolutely love this video! This is a topic that I am struggling with and I really appreciate this video. Alex gives such amazing information!

  • @Joan1able
    @Joan1able 4 года назад +1

    Yes yes yes love your accent and your message

  • @guzalhamrayeva2632
    @guzalhamrayeva2632 4 года назад +2

    Merci beaucoup pour le vidéo très intéressant

  • @MiszzHajar
    @MiszzHajar 3 года назад

    I swear this works 101%

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 4 года назад +38

    I’m learning to give them the same energy they give me.. metaphors.. you want this car to run efficiently.. maintain it and put gas in it. ! Give you the best performance ever! 😂💋

  • @abakahaugustina1544
    @abakahaugustina1544 3 года назад

    Wooow, this is my first time to watching to your videos and l have learned something out of it thanks mr.Alex cormont

  • @nangsengkukoi6088
    @nangsengkukoi6088 3 года назад +4

    blocked him.after 4 years of relationship.all my efforts gone vain.so left him when he was sleeping..i blocked him silently.feeling good now.

  • @villydragona7248
    @villydragona7248 4 года назад

    Bravo Alex. So so True..

  • @amyredoble4041
    @amyredoble4041 3 года назад

    You are a very good coach thank you so much Alex !

  • @similalebalewa2434
    @similalebalewa2434 4 года назад +3

    I have to stop being too nice and making excuses for him cos he has been too ordinary to me lately and without commitment. He has to start commuting to our relationship

  • @alifyahmussaji33
    @alifyahmussaji33 4 года назад

    Your tips are awesomely workable

  • @evadulla8045
    @evadulla8045 3 года назад

    Thank you I can now manage little by little my relationship..

  • @ivyalagon6643
    @ivyalagon6643 3 года назад

    Hi Alex wow good advice.😃🌹

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 года назад

      Thank you so much Ivy! I really appreciate this! Check out my free video on how to find, attract, and keep a man!
      click.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/find-attract-and-keep-him

  • @sarabayram2339
    @sarabayram2339 3 года назад

    I love you you are best teacher

  • @farhiyaali4844
    @farhiyaali4844 4 года назад +1

    Indeed, I have learnt alot from this platform and thank you so much. You have truly changed my life. And am living happier and stress free.

  • @michelleaustria7824
    @michelleaustria7824 4 года назад

    Thank you so much alex

  • @lsand9154
    @lsand9154 3 года назад

    Love your advice and French accent.

  • @iasminaiabloncic316
    @iasminaiabloncic316 4 года назад

    Ow yeah ... thank you for this video 😉

  • @iisrahandianirahandiani5708
    @iisrahandianirahandiani5708 4 года назад +4

    My time is more valuable to be wasted❤

  • @lorylovechan2820
    @lorylovechan2820 4 года назад +1

    Yes..first I think Myself..being too nice to the Men , its not correct...Thank you Alex, to your Advice..

  • @zarafarah1650
    @zarafarah1650 4 года назад

    Thanks it's really helpful

  • @Singinbluebird
    @Singinbluebird 4 года назад +2

    So good ! Leave it to a french man to tell us how its suppose be 💯☝️🙌🙌👏👏

  • @sandancer45
    @sandancer45 4 года назад +1

    If they dont treat you with respect, run, there are more than one man on this planet.

  • @vasilikixyfteri-askthecraz8153
    @vasilikixyfteri-askthecraz8153 3 года назад

    Thank you so much! It was a really useful video. The exercise of expectation is what we talked with a friend just yesterday.

  • @benangotel7844
    @benangotel7844 4 года назад +8

    If I want a man I do everything for him but if he act different I leave him

  • @joeyoschger3973
    @joeyoschger3973 4 года назад +2

    what a pitty to come across this video only now it could have saved my relationship After been 25 years alone (widow) It was difficult been in the dating came now I know I have being to nice with him

  • @warriorprincess5795
    @warriorprincess5795 4 года назад

    Thankyou so much. I needed to hear this.💓💓💯

  • @jensbasement3862
    @jensbasement3862 4 года назад +6

    Nothing wrong with being "nice" to a guy, as long as he isn't a narcissist who wants to take advantage of that.

    • @margomazzeo1680
      @margomazzeo1680 3 года назад +1

      I made this mistake..it happened to me..

  • @lavonnewells6003
    @lavonnewells6003 3 года назад

    I love your french accent.

  • @ambersiddiqui9894
    @ambersiddiqui9894 4 года назад +1

    Love your amazing videos and loved your personality and accent as well...its can be seen that your are really humble and nice guy.thank you your videos help us alot...God bless you Alex.

  • @lovemrj4ever
    @lovemrj4ever 4 года назад

    I always like your videos Alex, because your advice is golden. Merci boucoup

  • @cynthiastraker4872
    @cynthiastraker4872 4 года назад

    Your so right

  • @namagandaaidah4989
    @namagandaaidah4989 4 года назад

    Thnx coach Alex...much Love

  • @zawadiponga830
    @zawadiponga830 4 года назад

    U are a good adviser, may God keep you for us

  • @crisellea.1130
    @crisellea.1130 4 года назад

    Thanks Alex,.Yeah, i need to follow these😍

  • @kellynelly2774
    @kellynelly2774 4 года назад

    Ohhh Alex you have made my night am from Kenya and I'm heartbroken ilove your words ........ imagine after listening to your words am relieved now......ohhhh may God bless you

  • @Magalaxmi-is2ij
    @Magalaxmi-is2ij 4 года назад

    Thank you Mr.Alex

  • @mabintoukamara3207
    @mabintoukamara3207 4 года назад

    Thank u Alex great advice

  • @lindalopera1084
    @lindalopera1084 4 года назад

    So much thank you its a relief 😊🌹

  • @ShagunBatra0316
    @ShagunBatra0316 4 года назад

    Big fan of you Alex sir.. Love your videos.. Thank you..😊

  • @np7058
    @np7058 4 года назад +2

    Please make a video on how to maintain fitness mental and physical.
    😄😄 you are very fit. Great

  • @hemlatasingh391
    @hemlatasingh391 4 года назад

    Thanksssss

  • @madhusweetprof
    @madhusweetprof 3 года назад

    We wome due to our inherent caring qualities we try to shower so much upon man. But our coach Alex has a point worth introspection. If we giv too much to a man it ll b interpreted as insecure behaviour. Behave like a successful lady who's self assured. Yes love him a lot but not more than what you love urself. This I m saying n I want to follow it too bcoz my man ohhlaala is An Army officer wth great charisma. I get over the top very often..then again I introspect n act

  • @lusinekasabyan992
    @lusinekasabyan992 4 года назад +1

    I feel good already after watching Alex. Yes, I am to nice & this is why my man likes me, he said (we get along)but I can understand Alex too if I want him to want more & to get more serious.
    Thank you Alex, cant wait to see your next video 😊💯👌

  • @farhanaferdous8543
    @farhanaferdous8543 4 года назад

    Ohh Alex....thank u so much❤❤❤

  • @ritikapanday3562
    @ritikapanday3562 4 года назад

    God bless you all🙏💐😊

  • @valeriachavez6554
    @valeriachavez6554 4 года назад

    Muchas gracias por este video ☺️

  • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
    @cheekymonkeygirl3378 4 года назад +3

    Nowadays everyone who loses their job turn into being a relationship expert due to their excessive dating experiences. They sit back and relax and give advice in order to make a living. Their PhD in dating pays off. You remind me of the late Borat. Hahaha 😁💕😂😁

  • @taranoish4309
    @taranoish4309 4 года назад

    I love your adorable accent !

  • @similalebalewa2434
    @similalebalewa2434 4 года назад

    Nice one coach

  • @jazzjazz5750
    @jazzjazz5750 4 года назад

    Amazing advice 👍👍👍🌹🌹🌹