How To Turn A Booty Call Into A Relationship | 3 Tips That WORK!
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- Do you want to know how to turn a booty call into a relationship? What three things you can start doing today?
This is such a common question, so we need to take a look at male psychology.
You've met this guy, the emotional connection is amazing and you adore him, but the problem is that you are just his booty call right now. The result is that you end up suffering.
So here are the three things to start doing right away
1. Stop answering late night calls from him
The pattern has been established here and he keeps calling you late at night to see what you're doing. So you need to stop the pattern. Make sure that you are also talking during the day and that you can create an emotional connection, show him that your life is good, and that you feel confident.
This is how you will create a new dynamic between you.
2. Make sure you never meet him just for sex
It's hard to cancel plans and avoid sex with him, because you like each other and you know what he wants. So you can have sex, but just make sure that you keep two rules:
- Do activities before or after sex, like going to a basketball game, checking out a concert, etc.
- Make sure that it's the best sex ever. Show him that you can have so much fun together and that you are both enjoying every single second. This will make you confident, so you will no longer be fixating on what he wants.
If you don’t, then you end up getting taken for granted and can't change the situation.
3. Be careful
This guy just want sex so he knows how to keep you attached. You need to make sure that he isn't just giving you empty words. Your conversations have to have substance, so work on getting to know him. Talk about his parents, his friends, his dreams, and where he sees himself in 20 years. When you create this connection, you are no longer a booty call and you become someone special in his life.
So talk about your dreams, your projects, and what do you want to do too. He will realize that you are amazing and you will go from being a booty call to being someone that he can picture being with. This is how you can create a natural transition.
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What I know in life is a man who still makes booty calls is not really ready for a serious relationship but a man may also slowly get into it if he's in a casual one because men have feelings too. It's not how perfect a woman is...its who happens to be there when he is ready for a relationship....
After watching your videos I am not scared of anything related to men. Because I understand there nature. Thank you so much dear Alex.
And if he won’t go with you to do activities, drop him.
I did it once with him and then watched his behaviour. Didnt improve so I withdrew the sex ha
I think I’m making him my booty call due to my habits in my last bad relationship. How can I flip and let him know his efforts are working and I’m just guarded because I like him so much? He is the best kisser and I’m falling for him... but afraid he is playing me. We both just got out of long term relationships.
I giggled everytime u said booty call haha I love ur accent
Isnt the accent the best.. So soothing and nice
I have been trying to become my specific person's girlfriend for the past 3 years. I have tried to ask questions but he refuses to tell me anything. It's difficult to connect to him emotionally when he shows no emotions or feelings at all. Not sure what to do.
Gypsy Rain OMG 3 years trying to do this means he doesn’t want you in that way and you’ve allowed it. Please, if you want a relationship and it hasn’t happened in 3 years it never will. Safe yourself time, further attachment and pain by cutting it off and finding someone who wants you exclusively. Also, don’t take it personally, it’s not you, it’s his inability to connect and commit.
Breadcrumbers run away
Thanks Alex for this useful advice makes me realize things that are not good.
Thank you for these tips that allow us to stand out to be noticed to mark the spirits and differenciate.
I am happy to be your coach :-)
I will make an effort with your professional steps ...
What if he absolutely refuses to have an emotional relationship and avoids interacting with u & focuses on sex only?
It's simple: drop him!
Then he knows exactly what he wants.. So should you
Meriem Daisy he doesn’t want to connect or commit to you which if you’re fine with that, great! If you want more, then you deserve more and need to leave him and move on to a man who will be crazy about you. That guy IS out there but the more time you spend with mr. User the longer Mr. Right will have to wait.
You are charming and so right!
Keep going on, this is good! 😊
Thank you so much Queen, this give me a lot of strength!
How can I be honest with a chic that likes me that I am only looking for a booty call?
Just say “I’m only available for sex right now I have no availability for emotional connections long term” by not saying anything she’ll be hurt
Wise words..thank you
Thanks so much! I really appreciate your comment!
Oh my wonderful Relationship expert Alexandre. This man is very attractive as you are. He is 6'1" works out weighs 210-220lbs. He doesn't look like a dog. Ugh, If he treats me like a dog then I don't want him to look like a dog also :)
Thank you for amazing video Alex. I was wondering if giving him the impression that it's him who pleases woman in that kind of relationship is good idea? In my opinion it can change everything, imagine situation, where man feels he gets booty calls and also there is also a healthy communication dose during dates and talks... Will he have same feelings as women have? Will he want and need to change it for more? Or men will just run away from this situation? How men work in this terms?
Thanks for the advices
My pleasure to help :-)
My specific person never takes me out in public. He just wants the booty call. What do I do? How can I change this? When I tell him no, he ignores me for days and sometimes weeks. We have been doing this for 3 years. He never wants to talk about his family or friends. He tells me very little and never asks questions about me or my life.
When he disappears for days or weeks he is banging other women, sorry to be so blunt but sometimes we have to hear the truth. Men don’t sit around if they are just looking to get laid, they go out and do it. One woman says no, well there’s a planet with billions of women. He doesn’t love you, he doesn’t even respect you and without respect you have nothing. Love yourself more and take a page from his playbook except that instead of only ignoring him for days or weeks, ignore him FOREVER. Don’t tell him, just do it. Block him on everything, you will feel so empowered and it will make it easier to move on. Don’t waste the pretty.
Excellent advice
Merci Alex !!!!!
Alex ,,,plsss clarify me....my man is only texting me...when i ask for appointment to meet him,,,He s not replying for this particular question..happened for 4times...but the next time when i text him,, He behaves nothing happened..acting normally...i just want him to make meeting happen...wat to do???
Move on, you deserve someone that is available to you.
Is a booty call of GOD
Yes