No, no, no. Who wants someone who pushed them away? C'mon ladies, have more pride than that....do not contact him. Work on yourself until YOU are happy with YOU. I guarantee. He'll come back, or try to. But. YOU WON'T WANT HIM. I've done this. IT WORKS.
Take the time to work on you! if he is for you, he will find his way back to u. Stay a challenge and sometime the friend zone can be promising. Love your accent!😄
Friendzone is a waste of time. You will develop feelings for him but he will not and you will feel bad when he DOES find the right woman for him, and it won't be you! Yet you let him into your heart and your life and you shared memories with him! He just strung you along! Watch him have children with another woman! Treat you like one of the guys and make you feel like you lost your femininity and desirability! This is VERY true once you start hitting your 30's and time runs out on having a your own biological family! Unless yeah you get those expensive IVF treatments but even then there won't be a guarantee! The worst a woman could do is to sleep with the man too! Thank God I didn't go there!
But if you’re always working on yourself then eventually you’re going to be at the top of your game and won’t have anything else to work on in terms of relationships and you’ll be left wondering why you’re doing well and you’re secure but you’re single. He needs to work on himself.
I have a suggestion for a topic: how to attract/ get a guy who rejected you. You have a video with a coach from Australia, but it didn't answer my question. He was focused on IMMEDIATE REACTION when a guy rejects you and how you should act as a reaction. But I would like to see a video from you, Alex, Nathalie or Adrien (french or english) on how to make a guy that rejected you to fall in love in time or very important: chase you (talking to him like he's my best friend, doesn't work, i've tryed that and i found myself ALWAYS contacting him, all the time, he was answering, laughing, enjoying and i don't want to do this EVER, i will not do the first step ever again, even if i know our conversation will be fun, it was humiliating even if it was fun, he made me feel like I was chasing him all the time, and then he rejected me again, but the fun conversation made me write him again next week and again...always me...but that gave him all the power to reject me over and over, and that killed me as person, even if we had great connection and fun), so i'd like a video how i can get him write to me first, after rejection...Merci :)
My ex should be listening to this. He pushed me away more than a few times and I always worked out to get him back. I realised he always caught me off guard. It took me time to understand, prep for his next tantrum and keep going if he pushed me again. He surely did it again. I ran like for my life. Now he's begging me back. I am not interested at all.
Here’s what I did. I showed up to see him wearing my prettiest sexiest dress. Before and during the time I saw him I kept in mind I just wanted closure. I stayed open to dating other guys. This changed my attitude towards my ex boyfriend because he said he could tell a huge change in my attitude. (I realized I could get many guys very quickly and I wasn’t desperate at all!) When it came time to decide to get back w him I made a decision based on true want not need and not desperation. My mood was good and happy because I knew even if we weren’t going to get back together i would have lots of options. We are now back together and he is talking marriage almost instantly after our reunion.
I enjoy all of these videos that I watch but Alex is my favorite. I like how he gives analogies and is just straight forward whether we like what we are hearing or not. Thank you♥️
Not changing for no one. I'm me why must I try changing according to what they say accept me how I am nonsense. So not trying to do my best, which means I'm his life model
Women fall in love too easily and too quickly .. keep your emotions in check until he proves himself to be the man for you !!!! Can’t say it enough don’t give your emotions to someone so easily
Your videos are very motivating, I know he will come back but I am working on myself and making myself a priority. I have already given a lot and it's time for me to find my peace.
he pushed me away because he lost his job, and I can't afford a motorhome right now. he's mad that and doesn't want to be resentful to me but it hurts to much
He calls me every single night and he is sweet and affectionate when we are together. I stopped flirting and he wanted me to. But when I flirt now...he is non responsive. It makes me back away. I deserve love
Hello Alex I know exactly why he pushed me away I have been in a situation ship with this man for 4 years I remained loyal to this man and a non-committal situation so I was sick I'm sitting around waiting so I told him I was going to keep my options open he told me go ahead maybe he can give you what I can't so I did he said to me I'm. Not worried I know you're not going to have sex with him but i did have sex with him so I told him I did because I want to be nothing but honest with him he's been ignoring me ever since then so my question to you is why would he get upset when he said he wouldn't and also does not want to commit thank you so much Alex for what you do you help millions of women💔😭😭💔
He literally told me that is not happy next to me. He told me that maybe in time his feelings for me will be back. I'm struggling with not talking to him but I want to be the challenge you said. And I have noticed the more messages I send the more he ignores me. I'm doing therapy myself with a psychologist and swimming ... Im gonna stop talking with him for 4 days to see what will happen. Thanks for your video 😘
I did the same you said, dear Sir Alex. After 6months he knocked me as a friend,"hi, whats going on?" I also replied smartly, then again 2nd day he knocked and hi hlw....whats my job career.....then He said, he had a fever. I told him to take care. 3rd day no communication. 4th day, I asked about his condition.He replied as a friend. 5th day off. 6th . ....off. 7th day, I knocked asking about his cure.... He replied, " I m now good. But I dnt want to talk with you, please dnt mind..... I dnt want to hurt you, but its better for me," Then I really didnt expect such thing...Smartly handle it. I replied"Oh, sure my dear, take care and have a good journey in your life!!" He then said, please dnt mind...I said him so cutely with confidence that I m ok. And give him a smile" Now what do you think.....say something Dear Sir Alex
@@evelyngarcia9678 i dnt want to take revenge or use any word. I keep myself busy with career .... I was hurt so much that I never forget. Now I need a powerful gvt job. Already 2 exams priliminary test I passed....written exams were good. Result is not pubilshed yet. Next target BCS (Bangladesh CiVil Service -1st class administrative job) Try to study hard...sometimes feel pain in heart but I will see my best.....Pray for me
Alex ur spot on 100% in this video. Lately i been doing everything u said in this video naturally towards my man who previously kept sayin to me he wasnt ready for a serious relationship or marriage and he wouldnt give me a proper reason. Now hes starting to realllly change now hes realy starting to persue me and wants to call me every night and see me . I dont ask him for anything i just be his best friend. And he even says to me im his best friend. And because we are best friends he opens up to me more now and starting to talk about marriage by himself!! Im sure now its just a matter of time before he committs to me. Its so funny cuz before he was giving excuses here and there as to why he cant be in a relationship. And then last night on the phone he was fully denying that and it was like he wants a relationship now. ... nowww there seems to be no obstacles!! Crazy isnt it. The truth isnt about the obstacles stopping someone from being in a relationship, the truth is the boy needs to feel challenged and ur best friend. Thats the secret
Alex I really enjoy your videos and of course your accent! :) I was talking to someone several months ago ( i allowed it to be very intimate, but unfortunately this was not a committed relationship. I know..i just set myself up for heartache). and then he moved away, and he refused to ever speak to me again..he even hung up on me when I called. So to give myself peace, I sent him a genuine, forgiving goodbye message..and it actually helped me a lot.
Wow I just love this,vi really enjoyed this session. Good advice and a good laugh how u act when u around your friends and the one u love. But you are so right Alex thank u.
He says I can't give u love. But when I push myself away from him, he always comes back? Can you tell me what is the matter? How will I handle the situation?
Wht to do even after been frnds.. After breakup stil one day i just expressed my emotions about breakup.. He got no interest.. He was like he have so many problems & he blocked me in whtsapp when i strted complaing... Plz help me coach i trust ur words
Alex vous êtes unique j adors ton accent anglais tu parles doucement et je peux comprendre très très bien votre explication parceque mon anglais n est pas très bien mais je vous comprends très bien que les autre coche anglais bravo merci piur tous les vidéo je vous regarde toujours sur RUclips dieux te protège piur nous les femmes
Thank you Alex Cormont for this video How To Get A Guy Back Who Pushed You Away. I will Try This, your tips of French Relationship Expert are so amazing. Have a good day coach.
Sir, i am an Indian. A female lady Taurus, age 46yrs. Married fr 16yrs. My aquariun husband cheated me several times. We have 2sons. He distanced from me and completely cut off since 3years..we stay together under the same roof, living in Mumbai. Iits been A horrible 3yrs of complete cut off. Doesn't speak at all. Only said multiple times he has no feelings fr me nd that he is no longer interested. He lied to me and our 13yr old son that he is going on official trip to South India while he actually went twice with A female colleague. I said A lot of prayers nd offering at various temples as per our astrologe's advice. 5astolgers checked his horoscope nd all of them just said the same, that he was and can never be loyal in A commitment. I have literally given up. Filing for a mutual separation as even 10days back he point blank told me that I shud not touch any of his things as I have no right. What use is it going on like this, every time getting insulted and clinging on to own husband who has absolutely no value fr partner. His politician mother came three -four times and begged at my feet not to leave him. Last year I was completely sick. Now I have gained the strength nd courage to just let him go nd concentrating only in our boys. Managing everything all alone. He goes to gym, building his abs, my husband is 50yrs old, comes back at 9 am,leaves fr work, returns back at 10, sometimes later too, shuts his bedroom door, keeps smsing the female nd then switches off the light. He had told me several times last year not to keep any hopes and that he wil only support the boys. My husband drastically changed actually after my father's demise in may 2017. Even pripor to that I had noticed, he was always coming home late, as my father was in bed fr 4mnths before his death and I was completely engrossed in looking aftr him. I had seen this female's number on my husband's phone in feb 2017wen she rang him at 2am in the morning. Wen I checked wth my husband why the female was calling him at odd hours, at first he was very angry, then gave excuse that she was enquiring if he had reached home safely the previous night aftr dinner wth office colleagues, including her. She is a 35year old female, married wth a 6yr old girl child. What help can you do Sir fr such cases. I am now much stronger, have joined spiritual class, which is helping me gain strength mentally. I cannot change my husband. His thoughts, his belief, i can only change myself for a better tomm fr my kids. My name is Raji. Thank you Sir
When I ignore him, he is crazy! He stares at me continuously. The moment I go over and talk to him, he refuses and runs away. Then I become cold again and he starts staring again. I tries inviting him for a cup of coffee, but he refused elegantly! So how can we work it out?
Girls...I did not accepted the friend thing...I have just blocked him on all ways possible....do not let anyone play mind games with you....we are strong not doormats!
Hi coach, how have you been? I had this habbit of repeatedly watching your videos so that your advices would really register in my mind. Hahaha. Thank you for sharing your wisdom passionately every single day! We have different time zones so in between office I had developed the habit on checking whether you have a new video. Hahaha. It became a part of my daily routine. I’m kinda taking a few minutes of my time during the day thinking if by any chance my ex, whom I had been with for 14years, would still come back. Most often I get to realize maybe I had put him into a pedestal with my begging and pleading thus causing him to really compel me to pull myself away from him.
Ging, Thank you for your comment, it means a lot to me! I think you should really work on yourself to change your love habit and never put a man on a pedestal. Did you read my free ebook "The truth about love"?
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert hi coach! It’s 930pm now in my country, just got home from office and here I am checking out your videos once again. Hahaha. Yes coach I had read the book and the contents were carefully written to cater the need of the readers! Actually you have a great contribution to my personal development =) Thank you so much Coach!
3:23 I joke often and he never laughed at my jokes or anything. He was so serious and it was so draining, annoying, and boring 😩. I am a naturally very serious person, but I’m also someone who has dry humor and makes jokes and need a man with the same type of humor.
He hasn’t contacted me in two weeks now :-( he’s going to forget me. What can I message him to get him to meet up without him feeling like there will be pressure and to undo any ideas he may have got about me?
Alex ,even I suffer I never Go after who pushed me away! But everything you say it's right ,you are the best🏆🥇✨ Someone Just called me 14 years after we broke up ,asking for forgiviness ,etc. But I have a wonderfull son ,libanese descendant, handsome like you , in a way you two are the same style. I adore my son,even he Will be 33 ,he is not married , I dont want to be Far away from him,no more . He is such a Nice Man , We are not in,(even thought my grandfather is greek), like an Edipos situation, but my son is exactly and behave with his girlfriend, the way I wanted someone a partner should be for me or any woman in This world. He is Very Nice!! So, I only can be friends with this ex,in the name of the good Memories ,we had a ten years relationship. It's good to be in peace with everyone . God bless you and ALL of us. Peace be with you 🙏
I've been in this guy for the whole seven months we rarely saw each other because of my job. He don't initiate chat . But in person he still okay he cares he is protective. I feel like he really like me . But there is something I can't figure it out he really don't initiate chat but when I chat him he will reply. He will share what happened to him .
@Alex what if he clearly said he's not interested in a relationship? He's twice divorced. He says he only wants to have a good time. Ghosted me after I said I don't want just friends with benefits
After 7 months of being his friend and he acts like my boyfriend but doesn’t wasn’t a relationship. Um no, he had enough time, but he keeps saying I don’t want a relationship due to his hurt from the ex. But he wants the girlfriend benefits.
After he not send me msg for many days i try today send him simple msg that i dont think scare him anymore..just ask how is him...and no ore scary words ...its like a msg for a friend...😇
If the man is scared, scared of whatever, that man is NOT ready for a relationship. Leave him and go on. It doesnt worth to invest any energy, time or feelings. That man is not available yet. Dont waste your time and psyche.
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert I understand you, but i mean by treating a woman decent and mature is that a man should tell her honestly when he needs time instead of going silent all of a sudden. That is disrespectful and hurts. Merci for answering :)
Thanks for the video Coach!! See, this is exactly why I do believe that personal development shoud be teach at school, at the youngest age, yep!.... When I'm on a date, facing a grown up man with so many "scaring" vibrations, best believe that this is just freakin out, like "What the f***"!! This guy is a freaking #peterpansyndrome walking alive!!!"... So I just smile, "accord" him a pleasant-friendly-moments to appreciate, send him a don't-callme-back message, and leave him into his never-grownup-commitment-land!!👍🏾😊👍🏾
My ex trying to hook me up again. He kept on chasing with me. But it’s weird, if he love me then why he can’t unblock me on his 2 fb account? Is he just playing with me?
That's exactly what happened to me with my best friend... I'm so confused his actions made me feel he like me but on chat when I want a relationship he keeps on saying I like u as a friend ahaha the problem is even I accept him as best friend he was still obsess with his ex even she cheated...I need your help...I don't know what to do...his playing mind games with me
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert Hello Alex! I have the same problem with my relationship and the thing is I can’t be distant if I am already attracted to the person. All of the advice makes it seem like a man has a right to be attracted and show his feelings and a woman doesn’t (because then a man would instantly lose interest and find another person to chase). This is just unfair and doesn’t make sense. I see many couples in a long term relationship, engaged, married etc. where a man still loves and wants a woman and it’s mutual. And no one is playing cold or aloof to keep the other one around. Why doesn’t it work with us?
Margarita, me I am seing a lot of men really in love at the begining and then the lose interest... I am giving advise to this specific situation because it happen a lot !
Hi Alex I'm in a relationship with this guy for 3 years 2 months every thing was great. Until a 2 days ago he lied to me when I confronted him he got angry and told me to forget what we had and moved on with my life. How ever we are still talking a little but he doesn't want to talk about the situation. I don't want to loose my relationship. I am heartbroken. Please Alex what can I do
Alex, I just started seeing a guy, but I reacted neeady and now he wants to think about if he can continue to date me.. He tells me that he likes me.. I really like him what I should do now?
My man is scared if committment hence he is avouding n ended all things. But he says he loves me but scared of committment .. he is fearing of blaming if he fails.. n says if i committ n cudnt marry you den he wil b into guilt lifetym. Says he needs tym to set in career b focus on it. He says u move on ..as his parents wont agree for our marriage.. n sumtyms says i want to marry u onlym he is not having gutts to face. He fears losing me also. He comes n goes in my life . He doesnt knws wat he wants or wst he can. Says he loves ne a lott.. dats y comes back ..but scared so pushes me away
Alex please help... He was interested in the beginning but after 2 months he stopped texting first but reply everytime when I text him .its 1 yr now and I m d one who is texting first...I really really like this guy .
Do you have any helpful tips for when this happens long distance Alex? We don't have the advantage of physically being together and I just find it different and a challenge for me! Lol 🙂 I'm wondering if scarcity really works as I continue to work on myself. Sometimes I'm the one who wants to pull away because he is pursuing so much, other times when we get close, he pulls away, is there a time when things level off? Love your videos ❤️
Find the under lining reason you pushed him away, apologize and try to get him back if he means anything to you. Don't break yourself doing it just be patient with him and understanding. I used to push away because I was guarded but now I'm married to an amazing man with kids and I couldn't be happier. Alex is right you can change your behavior. You can fix it if your willing to put in the effort.
I don't see how men and women can romantically bond with each other. I heard that women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and I heard that science shows that women can bond very well with each other. I heard that generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a male can isolate himself and grief alone. I also heard that women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. I also heard that women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. I also heard that most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. I also heard that females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why girls tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than guys do. I also heard that women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. I also heard that women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. I also heard that most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. I also heard that most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. I also heard that the bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. And I also heard that the friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. So if those things are true (which I am not sure at all), then how can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, men and women are both mentally and physically different from each other (which is true), but would that at all effect the bonding between a male and female?
No, no, no. Who wants someone who pushed them away? C'mon ladies, have more pride than that....do not contact him. Work on yourself until YOU are happy with YOU. I guarantee. He'll come back, or try to. But. YOU WON'T WANT HIM. I've done this. IT WORKS.
Thank you for your comment and support!
Dear Georgia. I agree with you 1,000,000%. Who needs him after mistreating you that way!
I also agree with you.....
I agree! You say it right. That's the best thing what we can do 😀 be the best version of yourself. Enjoy your life. Have fun. Be happy.
Waiting for this day where I can reject him like a boss 😎
Instead of listening I'm reading comments 🤦🏼♀️
Well, he's a bit excessive and dramatic to his introduction
1 Be a challenge.
2 Don't think on a relationship. Treat him like a friend.
3 Talk with him like a good friend. Make joks. Be funny. Have fun together
Thank you so much for you comment.
Take the time to work on you! if he is for you, he will find his way back to u. Stay a challenge and sometime the friend zone can be promising. Love your accent!😄
haha Thank you for my accent :-)
You are right..
Friendzone is a waste of time. You will develop feelings for him but he will not and you will feel bad when he DOES find the right woman for him, and it won't be you! Yet you let him into your heart and your life and you shared memories with him! He just strung you along! Watch him have children with another woman! Treat you like one of the guys and make you feel like you lost your femininity and desirability! This is VERY true once you start hitting your 30's and time runs out on having a your own biological family! Unless yeah you get those expensive IVF treatments but even then there won't be a guarantee! The worst a woman could do is to sleep with the man too! Thank God I didn't go there!
But if you’re always working on yourself then eventually you’re going to be at the top of your game and won’t have anything else to work on in terms of relationships and you’ll be left wondering why you’re doing well and you’re secure but you’re single. He needs to work on himself.
@@svasianfilipiname6603 So what's the solution?
I'm crying. This makes sense for the first time... Why he's acting hot and cold and I feel abandoned
I love him, but I don't want him anymore. I'm done!! And I'm so happy the longing is over, and now all I feel is me letting him go. It's great!
Alex has already changed my life because listening to his accent makes me happy
it very hurt and painful he is pushing me away and now i decided to not contact him again and i will work on my self.
Zethu Mkhize good luck
My goodness, I cant get over how well fitted your shirts are!! They must be custom made.
truthb.it 😂 best comment
Lol!
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I have a suggestion for a topic: how to attract/ get a guy who rejected you. You have a video with a coach from Australia, but it didn't answer my question. He was focused on IMMEDIATE REACTION when a guy rejects you and how you should act as a reaction. But I would like to see a video from you, Alex, Nathalie or Adrien (french or english) on how to make a guy that rejected you to fall in love in time or very important: chase you (talking to him like he's my best friend, doesn't work, i've tryed that and i found myself ALWAYS contacting him, all the time, he was answering, laughing, enjoying and i don't want to do this EVER, i will not do the first step ever again, even if i know our conversation will be fun, it was humiliating even if it was fun, he made me feel like I was chasing him all the time, and then he rejected me again, but the fun conversation made me write him again next week and again...always me...but that gave him all the power to reject me over and over, and that killed me as person, even if we had great connection and fun), so i'd like a video how i can get him write to me first, after rejection...Merci :)
My ex should be listening to this. He pushed me away more than a few times and I always worked out to get him back. I realised he always caught me off guard. It took me time to understand, prep for his next tantrum and keep going if he pushed me again. He surely did it again. I ran like for my life. Now he's begging me back. I am not interested at all.
Stay strong!
sarnee pinkque how u did it ?
Here’s what I did. I showed up to see him wearing my prettiest sexiest dress. Before and during the time I saw him I kept in mind I just wanted closure. I stayed open to dating other guys. This changed my attitude towards my ex boyfriend because he said he could tell a huge change in my attitude. (I realized I could get many guys very quickly and I wasn’t desperate at all!) When it came time to decide to get back w him I made a decision based on true want not need and not desperation. My mood was good and happy because I knew even if we weren’t going to get back together i would have lots of options. We are now back together and he is talking marriage almost instantly after our reunion.
Good luck!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Your advise is awesome... I can listen to you for hours, sexy French accent... Watching from South Africa...
Wow. What a wonderful reunion. Congratulations
Im scared to talk to him again😔but i love him so much 😭
Alex!! How many offers have you received from ladies so far :)
Hope you have someone by now
How are you now?
I enjoy all of these videos that I watch but Alex is my favorite. I like how he gives analogies and is just straight forward whether we like what we are hearing or not. Thank you♥️
Nah dont work it out.. when he push u away leave him alone and improve your self be the best version of you
Not changing for no one. I'm me why must I try changing according to what they say accept me how I am nonsense. So not trying to do my best, which means I'm his life model
Listen to Alex! Remain in the present. Be your true self. Love yourself first!
Women fall in love too easily and too quickly .. keep your emotions in check until he proves himself to be the man for you !!!! Can’t say it enough don’t give your emotions to someone so easily
If he pushed you away he has THE POWER. Find someone else. Alex do not encourage us to follow those losers.
Your videos are very motivating, I know he will come back but I am working on myself and making myself a priority. I have already given a lot and it's time for me to find my peace.
he pushed me away because he lost his job, and I can't afford a motorhome right now. he's mad that and doesn't want to be resentful to me but it hurts to much
He calls me every single night and he is sweet and affectionate when we are together. I stopped flirting and he wanted me to. But when I flirt now...he is non responsive. It makes me back away. I deserve love
Hello Alex I know exactly why he pushed me away I have been in a situation ship with this man for 4 years I remained loyal to this man and a non-committal situation so I was sick I'm sitting around waiting so I told him I was going to keep my options open he told me go ahead maybe he can give you what I can't so I did he said to me I'm. Not worried I know you're not going to have sex with him but i did have sex with him so I told him I did because I want to be nothing but honest with him he's been ignoring me ever since then so my question to you is why would he get upset when he said he wouldn't and also does not want to commit thank you so much Alex for what you do you help millions of women💔😭😭💔
Why would i want to get a guy who pushed me away??? It is his loss....
Yup!
This is so spot on; was just thinking the same today. Thanks Alex.. i like your videos by the way
You are right Alex, but if i asked for enjoyment more fun he is not giving me. But he used to come back
He literally told me that is not happy next to me. He told me that maybe in time his feelings for me will be back. I'm struggling with not talking to him but I want to be the challenge you said. And I have noticed the more messages I send the more he ignores me. I'm doing therapy myself with a psychologist and swimming ... Im gonna stop talking with him for 4 days to see what will happen. Thanks for your video 😘
You need to go NC for at least 30 days. That always seems to work.
I did the same you said, dear Sir Alex.
After 6months he knocked me as a friend,"hi, whats going on?"
I also replied smartly, then again 2nd day he knocked and hi hlw....whats my job career.....then
He said, he had a fever.
I told him to take care.
3rd day no communication.
4th day, I asked about his condition.He replied as a friend.
5th day off.
6th . ....off.
7th day,
I knocked asking about his cure....
He replied, " I m now good. But I dnt want to talk with you, please dnt mind..... I dnt want to hurt you, but its better for me,"
Then I really didnt expect such thing...Smartly handle it.
I replied"Oh, sure my dear, take care and have a good journey in your life!!"
He then said, please dnt mind...I said him so cutely with confidence that I m ok. And give him a smile"
Now what do you think.....say something Dear Sir Alex
Rifat Ara Toma - nah.. u should tell him to fuck off dont deal with it anymore that jerk is a load of poo only contact someone when they get bored!
@@evelyngarcia9678 today he called me that he married a girl. I congratulate him and said that I m busy.
@@evelyngarcia9678 i dnt want to take revenge or use any word.
I keep myself busy with career ....
I was hurt so much that I never forget.
Now I need a powerful gvt job.
Already 2 exams priliminary test I passed....written exams were good.
Result is not pubilshed yet.
Next target BCS (Bangladesh CiVil Service -1st class administrative job)
Try to study hard...sometimes feel pain in heart but I will see my best.....Pray for me
Alex ur spot on 100% in this video. Lately i been doing everything u said in this video naturally towards my man who previously kept sayin to me he wasnt ready for a serious relationship or marriage and he wouldnt give me a proper reason. Now hes starting to realllly change now hes realy starting to persue me and wants to call me every night and see me . I dont ask him for anything i just be his best friend. And he even says to me im his best friend. And because we are best friends he opens up to me more now and starting to talk about marriage by himself!! Im sure now its just a matter of time before he committs to me. Its so funny cuz before he was giving excuses here and there as to why he cant be in a relationship. And then last night on the phone he was fully denying that and it was like he wants a relationship now. ... nowww there seems to be no obstacles!! Crazy isnt it. The truth isnt about the obstacles stopping someone from being in a relationship, the truth is the boy needs to feel challenged and ur best friend. Thats the secret
Like your in my head, he push me away, but I know I love him, he's everything I need
Alex I really enjoy your videos and of course your accent! :) I was talking to someone several months ago ( i allowed it to be very intimate, but unfortunately this was not a committed relationship. I know..i just set myself up for heartache). and then he moved away, and he refused to ever speak to me again..he even hung up on me when I called. So to give myself peace, I sent him a genuine, forgiving goodbye message..and it actually helped me a lot.
Wow I just love this,vi really enjoyed this session. Good advice and a good laugh how u act when u around your friends and the one u love. But you are so right Alex thank u.
Pure love respect and honour for you Alex, God Bless
So treat him like everyone else right ?
I try to do ur tips alex..i hope its work..someday he will see how care but steady then he will fall in love with me again 😇
WHY CHASE SOMEONE THAT PUSHED YOU AWAY? I dont get it.
Great advice! Thanks for sharing Coach
"I need to be good... I need to be good" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He says I can't give u love. But when I push myself away from him, he always comes back? Can you tell me what is the matter? How will I handle the situation?
Wht to do even after been frnds.. After breakup stil one day i just expressed my emotions about breakup.. He got no interest.. He was like he have so many problems & he blocked me in whtsapp when i strted complaing... Plz help me coach i trust ur words
what text should I send to him to get him back instantly?
Alex vous êtes unique j adors ton accent anglais tu parles doucement et je peux comprendre très très bien votre explication parceque mon anglais n est pas très bien mais je vous comprends très bien que les autre coche anglais bravo merci piur tous les vidéo je vous regarde toujours sur RUclips dieux te protège piur nous les femmes
I'm here for the advice, but honestly im only here to hear your voice 😂😂😂
Thank you Alex Cormont for this video How To Get A Guy Back Who Pushed You Away. I will Try This, your tips of French Relationship Expert are so amazing. Have a good day coach.
Thank you Agnès and let me know how it goes :-)
Sir, i am an Indian. A female lady Taurus, age 46yrs. Married fr 16yrs. My aquariun husband cheated me several times. We have 2sons. He distanced from me and completely cut off since 3years..we stay together under the same roof, living in Mumbai. Iits been A horrible 3yrs of complete cut off. Doesn't speak at all. Only said multiple times he has no feelings fr me nd that he is no longer interested. He lied to me and our 13yr old son that he is going on official trip to South India while he actually went twice with A female colleague. I said A lot of prayers nd offering at various temples as per our astrologe's advice. 5astolgers checked his horoscope nd all of them just said the same, that he was and can never be loyal in A commitment. I have literally given up. Filing for a mutual separation as even 10days back he point blank told me that I shud not touch any of his things as I have no right. What use is it going on like this, every time getting insulted and clinging on to own husband who has absolutely no value fr partner. His politician mother came three -four times and begged at my feet not to leave him. Last year I was completely sick. Now I have gained the strength nd courage to just let him go nd concentrating only in our boys. Managing everything all alone. He goes to gym, building his abs, my husband is 50yrs old, comes back at 9 am,leaves fr work, returns back at 10, sometimes later too, shuts his bedroom door, keeps smsing the female nd then switches off the light. He had told me several times last year not to keep any hopes and that he wil only support the boys. My husband drastically changed actually after my father's demise in may 2017. Even pripor to that I had noticed, he was always coming home late, as my father was in bed fr 4mnths before his death and I was completely engrossed in looking aftr him. I had seen this female's number on my husband's phone in feb 2017wen she rang him at 2am in the morning. Wen I checked wth my husband why the female was calling him at odd hours, at first he was very angry, then gave excuse that she was enquiring if he had reached home safely the previous night aftr dinner wth office colleagues, including her. She is a 35year old female, married wth a 6yr old girl child. What help can you do Sir fr such cases. I am now much stronger, have joined spiritual class, which is helping me gain strength mentally. I cannot change my husband. His thoughts, his belief, i can only change myself for a better tomm fr my kids. My name is Raji. Thank you Sir
When I ignore him, he is crazy! He stares at me continuously. The moment I go over and talk to him, he refuses and runs away. Then I become cold again and he starts staring again. I tries inviting him for a cup of coffee, but he refused elegantly! So how can we work it out?
Girls...I did not accepted the friend thing...I have just blocked him on all ways possible....do not let anyone play mind games with you....we are strong not doormats!
Well said. Thank you for being here.
This is so true! same goes for the guy. He has to a challenege and be my best friend1 Why I didn't think about reversing the role lol
Exactly, reversing the role is a simple way to do the right actions!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert That's why you are here to help us realize it ! LOL .
Exactly lol
Thank you Alex, you changed my life 😍
how will I hurt my boyfriend back
Do you have relationship advice for two ppl that have children together but are on and off?
I love your 🥰 French accent 🥰🇨🇵
Dont go there, best to just get him out of ur mind n move on.
Hi coach, how have you been? I had this habbit of repeatedly watching your videos so that your advices would really register in my mind. Hahaha. Thank you for sharing your wisdom passionately every single day! We have different time zones so in between office I had developed the habit on checking whether you have a new video. Hahaha. It became a part of my daily routine. I’m kinda taking a few minutes of my time during the day thinking if by any chance my ex, whom I had been with for 14years, would still come back. Most often I get to realize maybe I had put him into a pedestal with my begging and pleading thus causing him to really compel me to pull myself away from him.
Ging, Thank you for your comment, it means a lot to me! I think you should really work on yourself to change your love habit and never put a man on a pedestal. Did you read my free ebook "The truth about love"?
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert hi coach! It’s 930pm now in my country, just got home from office and here I am checking out your videos once again. Hahaha. Yes coach I had read the book and the contents were carefully written to cater the need of the readers! Actually you have a great contribution to my personal development =) Thank you so much Coach!
Thank you so much, it means a lot to me :-)
3:23 I joke often and he never laughed at my jokes or anything. He was so serious and it was so draining, annoying, and boring 😩. I am a naturally very serious person, but I’m also someone who has dry humor and makes jokes and need a man with the same type of humor.
this actually works
He hasn’t contacted me in two weeks now :-( he’s going to forget me. What can I message him to get him to meet up without him feeling like there will be pressure and to undo any ideas he may have got about me?
trust me, you'll regret if he comes back
Yeah, im over it. He can challenge himself. Too much work
Alex ,even I suffer I never Go after who pushed me away! But everything you say it's right ,you are the best🏆🥇✨ Someone Just called me 14 years after we broke up ,asking for forgiviness ,etc. But I have a wonderfull son ,libanese descendant, handsome like you , in a way you two are the same style. I adore my son,even he Will be 33 ,he is not married , I dont want to be Far away from him,no more . He is such a Nice Man , We are not in,(even thought my grandfather is greek), like an Edipos situation, but my son is exactly and behave with his girlfriend, the way I wanted someone a partner should be for me or any woman in This world. He is Very Nice!! So, I only can be friends with this ex,in the name of the good Memories ,we had a ten years relationship. It's good to be in peace with everyone . God bless you and ALL of us. Peace be with you 🙏
I've been in this guy for the whole seven months we rarely saw each other because of my job. He don't initiate chat . But in person he still okay he cares he is protective. I feel like he really like me . But there is something I can't figure it out he really don't initiate chat but when I chat him he will reply. He will share what happened to him .
Very good advice I learnt a lot from ur videos..😊
@Alex what if he clearly said he's not interested in a relationship? He's twice divorced. He says he only wants to have a good time. Ghosted me after I said I don't want just friends with benefits
I love your accent and the way you talk besos
I want more more videos from Alex.. you are the best
Thank you so much, will do more videos!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert u r welcome
Thanks Alex, thats a good tip & like your accent 😁👍
After 7 months of being his friend and he acts like my boyfriend but doesn’t wasn’t a relationship. Um no, he had enough time, but he keeps saying I don’t want a relationship due to his hurt from the ex. But he wants the girlfriend benefits.
After he not send me msg for many days i try today send him simple msg that i dont think scare him anymore..just ask how is him...and no ore scary words ...its like a msg for a friend...😇
If the man is scared, scared of whatever, that man is NOT ready for a relationship. Leave him and go on. It doesnt worth to invest any energy, time or feelings. That man is not available yet. Dont waste your time and psyche.
You nailed it again!!!🎩🎩🎩😊😊😊👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
You always surprised me
Thank you! Cheers!
Alex is the best 🎉🎉
I love this video...thank you xoxo for your advice. Bless you 💕
Make a video for men how to treat a woman decent and in a mature way when he is planning to push her away
Learning to be mature when taking time off from love.
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert I understand you, but i mean by treating a woman decent and mature is that a man should tell her honestly when he needs time instead of going silent all of a sudden. That is disrespectful and hurts. Merci for answering :)
This is certainly the best advice. Thanks 👍👍👍👍👍
Hello .. thanks for your advice.. but want to ask something..
Thank u it helps me a lot..
Thanks for the video Coach!! See, this is exactly why I do believe that personal development shoud be teach at school, at the youngest age, yep!.... When I'm on a date, facing a grown up man with so many "scaring" vibrations, best believe that this is just freakin out, like "What the f***"!! This guy is a freaking #peterpansyndrome walking alive!!!"... So I just smile, "accord" him a pleasant-friendly-moments to appreciate, send him a don't-callme-back message, and leave him into his never-grownup-commitment-land!!👍🏾😊👍🏾
So now you can control your emotions? And show him what you have lost...
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert
Still learning, still practicing!! Thank you Coach! :)
You're on the right way!
Thanks Alex. I will follow u by being a friend.
You talk about Exectly what i need now, like you Alex👍👍😊
My ex trying to hook me up again. He kept on chasing with me. But it’s weird, if he love me then why he can’t unblock me on his 2 fb account? Is he just playing with me?
He's addicted to the puss* but he hates you.
You are funny! Thanks for the video
Thank you for being here!
That's exactly what happened to me with my best friend... I'm so confused his actions made me feel he like me but on chat when I want a relationship he keeps on saying I like u as a friend ahaha the problem is even I accept him as best friend he was still obsess with his ex even she cheated...I need your help...I don't know what to do...his playing mind games with me
Great info as always. Look forward to more great videos.
My pleasure to help, thank you for being here!
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert
Hello Alex! I have the same problem with my relationship and the thing is I can’t be distant if I am already attracted to the person. All of the advice makes it seem like a man has a right to be attracted and show his feelings and a woman doesn’t (because then a man would instantly lose interest and find another person to chase). This is just unfair and doesn’t make sense. I see many couples in a long term relationship, engaged, married etc. where a man still loves and wants a woman and it’s mutual. And no one is playing cold or aloof to keep the other one around. Why doesn’t it work with us?
Margarita, me I am seing a lot of men really in love at the begining and then the lose interest... I am giving advise to this specific situation because it happen a lot !
Thank you Alex, I needed this video! 😊
My pleasure to help. I wish you the best!
Hi Alex I'm in a relationship with this guy for 3 years 2 months every thing was great. Until a 2 days ago he lied to me when I confronted him he got angry and told me to forget what we had and moved on with my life. How ever we are still talking a little but he doesn't want to talk about the situation. I don't want to loose my relationship. I am heartbroken. Please Alex what can I do
Alex, I just started seeing a guy, but I reacted neeady and now he wants to think about if he can continue to date me.. He tells me that he likes me.. I really like him what I should do now?
Im tired of games. Lord help me 😭
How to become a challenge??
Then just this week .. he push me away .. saying he's not a proper guy for me
I love your advices❤
Thank you so much for watching!
I need you help alex. Please i need your suggestion please..
He had his chance and blew it...don't want him now!
Great advice Alex..
My man is scared if committment hence he is avouding n ended all things. But he says he loves me but scared of committment .. he is fearing of blaming if he fails.. n says if i committ n cudnt marry you den he wil b into guilt lifetym. Says he needs tym to set in career b focus on it. He says u move on ..as his parents wont agree for our marriage.. n sumtyms says i want to marry u onlym he is not having gutts to face. He fears losing me also. He comes n goes in my life . He doesnt knws wat he wants or wst he can. Says he loves ne a lott.. dats y comes back ..but scared so pushes me away
I like your advices
So in that case Alex should I need to start the conversation as he us my ex and pushed me away
How to be a challenge yet best friend?
Alex please help...
He was interested in the beginning but after 2 months he stopped texting first but reply everytime when I text him .its 1 yr now and I m d one who is texting first...I really really like this guy .
You are a genius 🙏🙏
What if a married man does this to his wife?
Do you have any helpful tips for when this happens long distance Alex? We don't have the advantage of physically being together and I just find it different and a challenge for me! Lol 🙂 I'm wondering if scarcity really works as I continue to work on myself. Sometimes I'm the one who wants to pull away because he is pursuing so much, other times when we get close, he pulls away, is there a time when things level off? Love your videos ❤️
Thank you for being here. Continue working on yourself so you can attract the relationship you so deserve.
How about if you pushed them away 🤦♀️
You can still change your behavior...
Find the under lining reason you pushed him away, apologize and try to get him back if he means anything to you. Don't break yourself doing it just be patient with him and understanding. I used to push away because I was guarded but now I'm married to an amazing man with kids and I couldn't be happier. Alex is right you can change your behavior. You can fix it if your willing to put in the effort.
I don't see how men and women can romantically bond with each other. I heard that women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and I heard that science shows that women can bond very well with each other.
I heard that generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a male can isolate himself and grief alone.
I also heard that women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
I also heard that women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
I also heard that most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
I also heard that females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why girls tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than guys do.
I also heard that women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.
I also heard that women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way.
I also heard that most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father.
I also heard that most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers.
I also heard that the bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist.
And I also heard that the friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view.
So if those things are true (which I am not sure at all), then how can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other?
Also, men and women are both mentally and physically different from each other (which is true), but would that at all effect the bonding between a male and female?