How To Get A Player To Commit! 2 (SECRETS) Women Don't Know!
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
- Do you want to to know how to get a player to commit? How you can stand out from everyone else and make him fight for you?
Eventually, every player will commit. Women love players because they're confident men that know how to attract, but what kind of woman can make a player commit?
1. She has solid self-confidence
Men are hunters and they will seek out a challenge. If you want this guy to commit to you, you have to make sure that he wants to fight for you!
Players are not attracted to someone who is “easy.” They want the woman that everyone wants, and it all boils down to self-confidence. Make sure that you know what do you bring to the table, how to present yourself, what you deserve, and make sure that you never revolve your life around him. Players are used to women giving them whatever they want, but they will commit to a woman who will stand her ground, be unafraid to tell him her opinion, and be hard on him.
2. She is the one on the pedestal, not him!
The kind of woman that a player will commit to does not place him at the center of her universe. She doesn't cancel all her plans to accommodate him, and she has the confidence to show him that she is worth the effort.
He will try to meet your needs because it will be the first time that a woman will be a challenge. So you need to show him that you have high standards and you need to make him understand that he has to show you that he is special.
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Ignore the players. They won't change.
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Wow! I've always wondered why these players want to marry up and settle down with me, why am I so special, and apparently it's because I keep myself on that pedestal. I see through people and I don't have time for games. Thank you for this video. But in my eyes once a player always a player. Once he gets the queen he'll settle down for a little while and then have his little pawns on the side. A real king ain't a player. A player is just a joker.
Take caution around a player type.
A real king isn't a player .. 🙏
Not all the time though some players want to change but are scared that they won't meet the right one so their emotions stay on lockdown.
That’s not a guarantee to get a player to commit. I also wouldn’t out myself on a pedestal either. No one is better than another. We can be on the same level
When I met my ex husband he was a player- I pushed him away and said I wanted a proper monogamous relationship with the right person and I ended it. I guess He saw me as a challenge and he fought and fought to get me back. I made him wait 3 months before being intimate. Anyway we got back together and got married. After 15 years of a great relationship he said he couldn’t be a one women man anymore. So my experience is yes they may change and commit but for how long? Seems a leopard never really changes his spots. We are divorced. I will never look back. I believe Once a player always a player they miss the excitement of it all too much
I think it’s about the age , most men play with age when testosterone level is high they do all this crap but with time it reduces , so people who cheat that’s their character not they were player they are cheat , anyone can commit and cheat at point and time .
Grass is greener on the other side but not greener after all 😉
You just ruined my hopes..
@@francescaraballo2248 🤣🤣🤣 I feel the same
Present behaviour is an indicator of past behaviour
Becouse you are changed and lose yourself , he changed too
The secret sauce: walk away and stay away
Oh yes. RUN, RUN,RUN.
😂 Superb 👌
He lost himself and trying to look for validation from others. Why do you think it is Love 🤣
Best advice 👌
Players never change. When they feel they are loosing control, they pretend to get back to you, and then leave as soon as they feel that excitement is lessening. They are self-centred and always remain that
Player is always a player . He will never change for any feelings
Everyone says walk away. But I am not gonna do that. I ll take this as an opportunity to increase my self confidence and self esteem. Because of my desperation and neediness I did a lot of mistakes. I am willing to change my self completely. This is the best time to work upon myself as a personality development stuff. Thank alex
From my experience for a player to really really truly fall deeply in love it takes soooo long. They have they gift of gab & love to compliment & text you aggressively in the beginning. But obviously they are never looking for anything serious. Personally, I’ve always played dumb in the beginning, let him charm me, go out with him, not have sex, & wait for him to pull away. Once he starts to pull away I play dumb, reach out & tell him that I can’t talk to him anymore because he’s not being consistent & that I don’t see that he has the potential to be my man. He will always respond by saying he’s not looking for a relationship. I act surprised, “Omg you’re not? Lol. Ok that makes so much sense!! I was so confused lol. I’m so glad I understand now :) Have fun hun & do you. I get it. Unfortunately though now that I know this I definitely can’t have fun with you :(. (He will always ask why). I respond by saying “Honestly, it’s because I can tell that I’m going to really like you. I see how strong & driven you are & I love how sweet you are to your sister & your mom. & I just don’t share well. & I would never, ever put myself in a position where I could end up disappointed or hurt. So unfortunately I have to say goodbye...But I had so much fun with you & have absolutely no regrets. You’re so amazing so the girl who eventually gets you is so lucky :) Anyway, goodbye handsome...& please don’t text me anymore...only because I need to move on & focus solely on the guys that are prepared to give me what I’m looking for now. You’re so cool & sweet so I’m sure you understand. Take care hun...I had so much fun with you xoxo”
They always come back because now you’re a challenge. Then once they realize they really like you because you stroke their ego & make them feel really good it takes a long time for them to trust you. Suddenly they go from these charismatic charmers to guys who have 2 word text replies & run terrified after they’ve spent a long period of time with you & have started to really open up. The next day they go into their man cave & completely disappear. Then you have to calmly but politely let him know that his behavior is unacceptable & then walk away from him again...& then make it harder when he tries to come back the next time. Once the player realizes that he can actually truly trust you with his heart by seeing how much you protect your own heart & how much you demand his 100% or nothing at all he will cautiously start to come closer without freaking out & pulling away. But it’s a long process & only you can decide as a woman if he’s really really worth it. I will say that if you find a guy who you’re insanely attracted to, who is charming, charismatic, & shows genuine good character to his direct family, close friends, has a good career & has overall goals in life, he just might be worth learning the game & playing to win. A lot of these guys truly are the most loyal, romantic, dedicated men in the whole world when they find the right women despite their reputation or even how horrible they were to the women of their past. It just takes being the game changer & knowing not only your worth but his as well & demanding it from him before you even consider giving him hope of your commitment. The funny thing is, the more standards you have (in a nice, calm, no pressure way) the more obsessed he will be & the more determined he will become to fight his own fears about love & will do anything to make you his girl & will live to make you happy.
Love this ❤ Thank You ❤
Wow learnt a lot from this
Thank you. 💕 you've said this very well. I think I'm going through this. This "player" is my Twin Flame.
Not worth it. They will suck so much life out of you.
Lool this is accurate. It takes time, they go through all this stages until they surrender.
Ladies, this is all so true. The players that tend to be more hyper masculine, vain and lean into interests that accentuate their masculinity are so not my type. I’m into sensitive, vulnerable, artistic types that lean into careers, hobbies and interests that require a high level of sensitivity: musicians, writers, activists, actors, etc vs pro athletes, body builders, firefighters, military...basically anything that requires an intense, overt display of masculinity. And I can’t tell you how many of these hyper masculine player types that most women fawn over end up chasing me. I won’t give them the time of day as I’m truly not interested. They see it as a challenge because suddenly, in a see if yes, someone is telling them no. And so the chase begins (to my great chagrin, lol).
It’s not about playing games. It’s about knowing who you are and what you want and having confidence in yourself. I can’t stress enough how important it is to have a life that is full. A life that excites you and fills you up so much that you don’t need a man to complete your life. So any man who wants to be a part of your world has to prove that he’s worthy of the space he is going to occupy in it. So you’re CHOOSING him as opposed to NEEDING him. I don’t need any of the men I allow into my life. I choose them. They receive the privilege of being with me. And that privilege can be easily revoked if he doesn’t treat me well. You can’t be afraid to lose them. Making that tiny shift of perspective will change your success in the dating department. I guarantee it. Best of luck to all of you. May we all find the love we want and deserve. ❤️
Thank you for sharing this amazing comment!
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert My pleasure. I enjoy your channel and appreciate your point of view. Thank you for the discourse! xx
So very true.. I apply all of the above. Love yourself ladies and the men will be queuing up!
Well spoken words....👏👏👏
Toni Tee
My ex was an effeminate artsy type, and I even thought he’s gay when I first met him.
He had only female friends and has slept with all of them. He was a player, never wanted to commit, so I broke up with him.
Players aren’t always the stereotypical macho types.
He told me, ‘ I want you to myself but don’t want a relationship’. Lol.
My two cents after going for the bad boy and player for most of my dating life not worth it. I say don't even think of trying to get him to commit. Just walk away... Just walk away love. Struggle love is not pretty and definitely no crowning glory at the end
You are a powerhouse of confidence Alex. After watching your videos I am hardly thinking about getting the Man I love. What I am thinking all about is being truly confident in myself. I am on the pedestal. That’s it.
Exactly, the only time they commit is when they get scared they are old and need a nurse...forget it.
We have a hospital for that
Being a nice guy always comes from the heart. Players were exciting because if they fall in love to someone who is different they will become serious and act differently but still it depends to the man you're dealing with.😍
Ladies, focus on ourselves and have a full filled and amazing life is the key, everybody else is just a complement to that life.
Thank you for you comment.
Wow very inspirational ..and u are a beautiful lady that l hope found a very great..he is there!!
You should not have to change for someone who doesn't know the meaning of commitment and respect.
Exactly!
True. Doesnt really know ho to love.
Many players in online dating..and i know the one..he really commit me and one day he disapper..so after 3 days, I send him a msg"Your such a good Player, You know the word bad karma?.Its coming to your way!..😃" and then a minute he responses ..It comes to your Father..and then I response him..Well,my father is a good person and he is in heaven now...and then I blocked.
Players are never gonna change, the only thing for them is to do the same.
he plays and after getting bride he seems like he won't talk to me anymore 😔😭😭😔😔😢 but before he didn't leave me atall as I told him to leave me because in future I will miss him...but now after getting bride he left me..and he is hurting me more 😔😭😭
Yes...a player can commit, but he will not stay true to one woman. He will stray on to the next challenge.
Thank you so much Alex! You are so right! But we should avoid players, as much as we can! They can commit, but they are not trustworthy...and this is sthg very difficult to live with, with no trust love goes away!
I understand your point, it's difficult to trust them and build a strong relationship
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Listen to this guy. My brother was the biggest player in the country. But this one girl got him to commit. She is super strong in expressing her needs. Telling him when he behaves badly. I've watched her with admiration... he's truly butter in her hands ;) I've never ever ever seen him make so much effort for a girl (and he used to live 3 years with one girl). Impressive :p
Thank you so much for these kind words! I wish you and your family the best of luck!
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I don’t think it’s her expressing herself that makes him commit. I think it’s something else about her that makes him commit and that’s why he caves into the demands. If it were another woman doing the same thing he wouldn’t commit
Whenever I think about my relationship issues.. while scrolling utube suddenly I comes to see your videos always it's happening 😀😀
When they get old and no women wants them..they will want a women to take care of them😂😂
It’s true!!!
Right 💯
I like your clips bc they are short and precise. Merci amigo Alex 😜
I approve. "What I fear, is what happens to me."
He is a truth in the spiritual world. For fear of losing a person, one puts oneself in compromises, instead of remaining oneself with one's principles. You end up in tears and bite your finger. But we learn by our mistakes.
Exactly, when you fear something, it will happened unfortunately!
I'm in love with a player. It's been challenging.
Play with the player and always stay true to your values.
So many players are narcissists... Players, narcissists just use people for what they want, when they want, for how long they want... As soon as they find someone equal or better, they'll put you down and trash you, or just ghost you, and dump you...
They are a HUGE waste of your time and life. So many are also sociopaths and psychopaths, so be very careful with players.... They're messed up. Also, don't give them any sex. It might be great sex, but they're not worth it. They aren't going to care one bit if you catch an std, if you get pregnant, or hurt.
Another player is headed your way, if you're in or near Atlanta, Georgia...he is going to be in Arizona for a while and told me last night he's going to be in Atlanta Georgia for 5 to 7 years... He's a very subtle charmer, acts so pure, "old fashioned values", plays the Christian (He was also a Sunday school teacher).... he might buy a lot of things, do repairs, etc., want to move in or buy a place together VERY soon after meeting, etc...but it comes at a high price... Years of your love, loyalty, devotion, etc, just to get it trashed like it was garbage to him. He's a very physically fit Aries in the military, soon to retire from it.... Run from this guy and his species....
Actually, his sister, brother in law and their kids live in Atlanta...he has been there many, many times for months...sure would be freaky and sad if it's the same guy.
I'm a player to so he can't beat another one i see thru this stuff...he has to work for it
Players will eventually fall for the woman who doesn't think he's "all that". The one who calls him out in his lame pickup attempts and dodgy behaviour. If she makes it clear she's not falling for his usual game, he'll be intrigued. Plus if you hold out and be selective as to when you sleep with him IF you are planning to sleep with him, you'll stand out. Remember player's objectives are to get as many women in bed as possible. If you're the one who won't and you playfully make fun of him, he'll see you as different.
Thx Dear for ur assessement ; it completely matches with what I m making with my player boy 👌
True or if you dump them suddenly they freak out
You can call him out then he comes up with a different game. Unless there is real emotional attraction you can create he will jump on the next challenge.
Exactly. It's the women who they know they have under their thumb that they mess around with.
Be a challenge and be true to yourself always. He will see that as confidence and stand out.
I know your right mine kept me going for 30 years with other women also in his life I finally decided to leave for good. He made one lame attempt, that was it, now he is after the one who is not putting up with his crap. Your so right.
You can be proud of yourself for leaving him... I am happy to be your coach :-)
Sooo true I was soo stupid girl he was a mean player he dumpe now I can't trust anyone I just want to live alone now I focus on my goals n trying to b honest with my self
If you give up the entre forest because of a tree, then you are really stupid. Is he so.weighty that he can affect your entire life? Smile and move on. Show him your class. Show him.you live a happier life without him. Who knows?
I dont have time for players. Im 51 now ,I cant aford to gamble they are manipulaters . He is right you have to call them out and stand up for yourself . I have exsperend for myself back in high schocol my first love was a player. They do fall in love but they like the domanet type of women or they like the open relationship type of women who are fine with openrelashionships or "even fine with 3somes. Looking back at it ? I was too young?and looking back at it? Im too concervertive.and land last ive heard his over waight and an alcolholic and lonley. Thanks" John"for that life exsperenece. You helped me grow as a person and i will never forget you.even know i havent seen you in over 20 years i still think of you from time to time ? You were a blessing in descuss.
Thank you for your support!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert no probrom your welcome
So basically to act like you’re out of his league, not he is out of yours 👌
BINGO
Just be yourself and be confident about life. Show then what u've got. Never back down. Show them you walk the walk , talk the talk. You are a kick ass woman with so much to offer. He would definitely fight hard to win you over.
Thank you for your comment!
You are now my best friend Alex thanks for everything you doing
Thank you Alex!!! You make me feel good!!🙂
Coach Alex, Another great video! No one want a player! Thanks for sharing!
You are so welcome!
I am doing it right now, I have blocked him too , he has checked me online over 15 times, if he’s not keen he wouldn’t have.
You are right 💯
How do you know he checked you. I mean is there any app? I want that
How can u find out how many times he checked u online
Thank you for your lovely advice Alex. Till now I was not able to find out what was the actual issue going on in our relationship.
Thank you alex ive watched all your videos and iy helos me a lot...thank you
Happy to hear that!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert yeah..im in a long distance relationship...i took all you advice and it works..i let him chase me...
Your advice is amazing I can’t stop listening to your sessions that you have. I’m sharing him now with a college friend of mine... She is loving it
how to get a player to commit is b a player along with him...ask him for money,cheat on him,control his life,an u will c how much he love u an commit to u try it an watch what happen...I tryed it an it worked...
Yes i guess it works..but not until marriage stage😂..but its nice to play with a playboy make him believe u love him and he is different from any other men.
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D girls,that's a smart move,might have to try it lol
Exactly break their ego down and they will fall in love with you smh it’s horrible to say but it works
Hahaha I could not stop laughing ..this works . So true !!
Alex, you re just so great!. You made me smile today. I badly need this. Thankyou!
Love you Alex stay blessed and happy always. Amen
Why have a player to start with.. no thanx
Ikr. Won't they end up cheating on you? To much energy to try and keep them in line. Nasty used up dirty d!€£.
S Redjepi agree. Players should be avoided, only problem is when you don’t see that he’s a player.
@logique 3 Because sadly we're not usually attracted to them.
What if couple had 2 small children? What then
Have you had trouble getting a player to commit? Tell me about it below...
Alex Cormont: I think he's a player but claims he's not. Initially he did the chase but we live far from each other. He lives in Paris and I live in Asia. I met him when I was on vacation in Paris in 2017.
Last year he said could not handle the distance. I was deeply hurt by what he said. We still talk as friends but he doesn't think this could work out. I think he's charming and attractive. Right now I'm not ready to go out and date a new guy.
Let's face it. Love is an illusion. If you truely love yourself you do not need anyone. Relationships and players cross your path to get "healed" and become a better version of yourself.
I love this!!!!! Going through that right now, he wanted for me to drive to him but couldn’t pay for a cab or couldn’t pay for the garage overnight stay....
It's important to let him come to you!
"I would like to be in relationship but I need someone that will be more involved, I need someone who can make me feel like I'm a princess or that we can make me feel that we can have a dream together, or that we can make a real situation special" 3:58🎯
Yes, you deserve this. Stay positive and focus on your personal self development so that you can attract what you want into your life.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert I do deserve this and I will have everything I want. I am putting myself first. I workout 3-5 days a week, I'm learning about expansion growth. I am reading up on ways to improve my life and future. I meditate, I give myself space, I incorporate self-care days into my week. I am eating healthy and overall loving on me with God's help. Thank you for all the videos and your coaching expertise it has truly helped me broaden my perspective. 💞
Your voice 🤪 and by the way your tips are so amazing ✨⚡️👏🏽
That's right Alex! I love you! I have put myself on a pedestal and won't come off lol❤
Exactly!
Wow wonderful video all videos are so motivational thanq so much👌👏
Most welcome 😊
Thanks Alex it's really helpful.
Thank you so much for watching! I'm glad you found this helpful!
Players are really not worth the time. If his reputation proceeds himself, it's not about LOVE or Committment. Cuz, let's face it, that is Not What He Is Known To Offer In A Relationship. Therefore, it's all about What They Can Get Out Of Him. However, I have honestly seen & known a couple of them to end up with an abusive woman who will kick his rear end, after (a abusive family member) scare his tail, who also knows about his player reputation. If they are successful in getting him to commit, (cuz he's a player whose so confident that he can not be played by anyone). They will get him to help employed that adorable abusive family at his work place, so they can watch him & make sure he stays on point. This is especially true if he has a good job, land, & property. He will then be drugged to make sure he cannot, and will not be able to make any more sound or logical decisions on his own. Even his own blood relative will not believe that he has become a broken man. Some call it Karma for their past sins, I'm not sure. But I do know an abusive woman and her like minded family members who knows his reputation, or financial status, will Take A Player Down.
Thank you so much Alex, you are a savior to some of us women out here with your tips. Your articles are always a needed a reminder of the importance of personal development and confidence that we need in order to take direction and control in my love life and in charge of my own happiness; on my own and in when I am in relationship. My relationship had been solid since I got your advice last year. I met my new boyfriend we are so happy and it’s been a year.
thanks king this came in clutch
You're always welcome!
Once a player,always a player.
Great video!! Ty
Glad you enjoyed it!
Great video Alex! I love your accent. What about when the player thinks he is the prize? What if he likes to date women who give him things or go out of their way to do stuff for him? I am not the type of woman who does things for a man who is not showing signs of wanting a relationship but it seems like he like those girls.
Nicole, you have to be different to these girls. Men are always looking for something special. Trust your intuition :-)
thank you so much Alex, I am now different!...
Great!
Thank u for this video bcos now a days so many players
Exactly there is so many players...
Put yourself on a pedestal by not chasing him. Love yourself more than you love him.
Thank you for your comment.
Thank-you Alex I appreciate your advice😘
Short tips on the spot. Love you.
thanks Alex for this advice
My pleasure!
Once a player allways a player
Why would I invest in him?
Wow! This is great!
Thank you so much for watching!
Thanks for ur advice
You are so welcome! Thank you for being here!
Great 👍
Great advice Alex.
Thank you Alex ....your words holds magic,love listening to you.
If you think you have to try to get a player to commit to you then you have low self esteem and no self value. Go find someone who is worth being with not one who likes to play games with women for their own selfish benefit.
Working on having self confidence is key!
My friend has 2 small children
Thanks Alex may God bless you
U r advice is something like a true friend saying to a friend. Thank u 👍
Happy to help!
Thanks you for helping me u helped me alot am from Uganda.
Thank you Alex...niw I see what I did wrong...I've been taken for as door mat...I fknaly remove my self frim this situationship...it hurts...I'v been feeling like giving up with every man...the truth I keep on loosing out...it saddens me...but if I ever have the chance again I will put this in to practice.
You deserve a happy and healthy relationship.
Thank you for the Reminder
My pleasure to help !
I love your advise. They are all correct
Thx
So glad!
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert how can I contact you and get private advise from u
Thank yo Coach Alex I learned alot from this video now I will use what I learned you are the 💣💣
Fantastic!
Very helpful😢❤
Thank you Alex you are right
Thank you for watching Gina!
😉😉😊 I love the way you pronounce the word"pendestal". Your videos are really buliding me so much.
Alex am practicing what you preach right now...it's been a month now but am not sure if I still want him back
I am not gonna make a player to commit. If I find out he’s a player , I will be bye boy . Real and genuine men don’t need me to make them commit or make me work for them to commit. There are so many nice and loyal guys out there who will commit to you if they truly want me .
Loved it♥️
Thank you so much Alex you are so amazing you make me feel more confident your advice a relief 🌹
You're so welcome!
Thank you so much Alex you're a life saver 💪💪💪
Happy to hear that!
Hallo sir, what should i do if he refuses to marry.?
Thank you..but I still feel why do I have to change cause I want him to commit. He should just accept me as I am if he love me as he claim🤔
Yeah.
When someone is confused, just let it be.
Find a way, and learn to let it all go.
You will hurt yourself otherwise.
It is a big world.
There is bound to be someone right for you.
Unless, you are confused as well, and you don't think that much of him, either, anyways.
And you are just killing time with him.
In that case.
Alex, thank you for everything🙏🏻
No worries!
What would you do if he's very sensitive ; does not show his true self and yet has a heart made of Stone
Hi Alex!:) I need some examples like scenarios to challenge a man! Lol thank you! Your the best out there!
Just be yourself and don't try to hard.
Bless you thanks for ur advice God bless u 🙏🙏
Very nice thank you sir
Most welcome
I love your all videos 💯👌👍👏
Thanks Alex! You Rock!
Love your videos...they r very effective
Thanks so much!
Thanks you today
Thank you for watching Fely!
J'apprecie vraiment tes leçons
Love your advice!!
Thank you!!
Thank you Alex 😘
You're so welcome.