First, i am a gay man. i am 100% in support of Kellie. i think most people are with her. if i had children i would not want my children taught trans ideology or anything regarding gender identities. I feel vulnerable children are being manipulated and taken down a very dark road. Kellie made me rethink a lot of my views. We need more people to stand up and support her. great interview.
Love you normal, decent gay men… after all you are also victims in this, with the TQ falsely associating themselves with you. This is all our fight, whether you’re a parent or not.
I was with one...came out 26 years in...I can tell it's horrible to live with someone like this...the gaslighting is unbelievable...I'm so sick of these people 🤬
Yeah, I don’t believe these ppl are actually “trans”, I think most of them have fetishes that have been green-lighted by the activism. Ppl with real gender dysphoria know very early on, this isn’t something they discover in their 30’s or later. A majority of the “trans women” I see are just autogynephiles who now feel comfortable parading their fetishes around as identities, so it’s no surprise to me to see so many of them (and I mean MANY of them) being arrested for sex crimes, especially child sex crimes. I’m not trying to kink-shame anyone, but this is what happens when society removes “shame” for things ppl should be shamed for. There’s a business run by an MD in California where grown men can pay to be diapered and treated like infants, and it’s right across the street from a childrens park. Somehow, though, ppl are trying to include this behavior under the umbrella of “trans”, it’s disgusting.
I was married to one and had 2 children with one. No one knows what that is like except someone like you that has lived through it too. People whisper under their breath "how could you not know?" They have no idea.
It is and it's not. Because the children actually believe it. Because they're so young they don't know better. When you teach them a lie yes technically you're teaching them to lie to others but they don't know it's a lie. They believe it.
It’s deceptive and dangerous af, this is how predators pray on kids vulnerable people… they refuse to live in reality and use proper terms that hold great significance.
Finally some recognition for the field of debris left behind from a trans. It's always about them being so "brave" and "finally themselves" and nothing about the family damage.
This went from something u almost never heard about, like 0.00001% of the population to being on the walls in kindergarten classes, and ppl deny social contagion.
We just used to call it transvestism surely? There have always been men who got sexual pleasure from dressing as women, but used to keep it in the privacy of their bedroom. Now we are encouraged to believe it’s not a sexual fetish / APG. Somewhere along the way something that was adult appropriate and between consenting adults has been mainstreamed and anyone who doesn’t want to participate in the exhibition and (sexual) validation is called a bigot.
I in 2,000 human births gender non-specific & used to be randomly surgically assigned. Now this barbarism has ended & people choose, 1 reason trans movement exists, but trans have existed always, Aboriginal populations used to call it 3rd Spirited, now we're binary & non-binary with latter trying to redefine former status quo. J.K. Rowling is right & terfisaslur.
My child’s middle school is festooned more various flags than maps. She refuses to use the bathroom because the transgirls (boys) mess it up. She was done with this lunacy before I was.
Is there any way you can homeschool? ❤ If you're in the USA there's masses of help ❤In the UK they yave a curriculum. It doesn't take anywhere near as long in the USA to get their work done, as school has so much fluff/wasted time; I'm not sure about the UK.
Whenever you read about someone wanting to homeschool, it’s always someone like you that believes school curriculum is awash with time wasting, and that you could do it better
@@bigred8432 my friend's daughter used the K-12 program (so the full on government version) for high school, she said it took about three hours, sometimes as long as three and a half to complete all the work, then she had three part time jobs. My son gets it done in about the same amount of time, and he works twenty five hours a week. I could give loads of examples of kids in the same position.
Kellie is right about children. Children really like rules to be solid. They cherish consistency. Child might complain but they really like, bedtime, at bedtime, breakfast at breakfast time children are really deeply conservative. Children wish to know what to expect the whole world. Every day is new to them so having a consistent structure gives them the security to bravely go forward and learn all they need to learn.
Common sense sacrificed at the altar of schools love of perpetual gimmicks. Competing with parents. Serving political ideology. Not harsh, only a case of emperor's new clothes
@@adrianharry5336KJ just tells it like it is. This is a dangerous and toxic ideology that leads to body mutilation! This needs to be called out in no uncertain terms
That crayon book is fantastic for showing kids the nonsense of transgenderism. The blue crayon wants to be a red crayon. So he puts on the red paper of the red crayon and everybody's cheering because he's a red crayon. But if you color with him he still colors blue, because underneath he's still a blue crayon! This book is perfect for showing kids that you can't change gender. It cracks me up that they think it tells kids that you can change gender. This is something you could physically demonstrate for little kids. Put the red paper on the blue crayon and color with it and see what it does. It's still just a blue crayon.
When my cousin transitioned from female to male, after 4 kids and 15 years of marriage, it was a crap show. My cousin would scream at his kids who were 6,10,12, and 14 for calling him mommy and would get physically violent with anyone who used his old name. He demanded that the whole family go to counseling with a counselor who gaslighted and shamed his husband and kids for not being supportive enough. His husband filed for divorce because he isn't gay and didn't want to be married to a man. But my cousin who had been a stay at home mother his entire life and never worked, was furious and said that he can just learn to be gay, but he couldn't leave, because he didn't have a job and wouldn't be able to pay for his transition. My cousin's husband filed anyway and took the kids, because they were terrified of my cousin. well he transitioned, married a woman and cut off everyone that was a part of his old life (family, friends, everyone). His kids are now young adults and haven't seen or heard from their mother ever...... The thing is the family would have been supportive of him transitioning to a man, if he hadn't been so hateful, cruel, or violent. My cousin became like another person entirely who we didn't recognize and demanded instant compliance to all of his demands, even from our 93 year old grandmother with dementia. There was no room to adjust to the new identity, nothing we did was good enough......
8:37 How is it logicly possible that the girl was not allowed to say no to body privacy. Because a transboy said it made him feel bad that she didn't want him to see her naked.
Tons of girls all over the world are not allowed body privacy. I mean hell look at the Olympics. The two female boxers going for the gold are both men. You know they had to be in the same locker room as the actual female boxers right? And what about Riley Gaines. She had to change in front of William Thomas. It's not just one little girl. It's thousands and thousands of little girls.
@@brodwyntyler4006 most of these men doing a very poor job of looking like women are AGP. They get off on pretending and then being aggressive to women.
Your focus on this issue, and your excellent interviews, are much appreciated, Andrew. Kellie-Jay, much gratitude and respect for your tremendous, brave and heroic work. Thank you both.
another great interview. The rest of the world does not have teens, pre-teens, grade school kids, or toddlers imagining they are opposite sex. This is a psy-ops level movement to undermine families & women by mind control for men's entertainment. My encounters with trans guys all had malevolent aspects, like a teen in full costume pissing all over a restaurant restroom after cutting in line. Toilets, walls, sink, floor. His smirk on the way out. They get off on the shock & fear they generate.
That’s so factually inaccurate-I understand your feelings but places in Africa and the Middle East are way further down the line on gender nonsense in many cases, because they’re very homophobic and if you display any interests or traits that don’t align strictly with your gender presentation in that culture they’re MORE than happy to reassign your gender, and have been for decades. It just isn’t discussed like it is here.
These dudes also delve into this crossdressing world right after the baby was born, during the year or so when the baby is breastfeeding. I have this in the only data in the world on 62 trans widows. Am one myself, husband did exactly that almost 30 years ago. Andrew Gold is exactly right about dude having his wife at the most vulnerable and financially dependent. Data at channel (YT) in the handle name here.
Could be because the mother's love is oftentimes more directed to the child at that time. As their sexual and romantic tendencies are less fulfilled, they fill the void with this.
@@jasonwismer2670 Think there could be something to this, there is a lot of narcissism involved in AGP and a redirection of priority would be a huge trigger for many. As far as the sexual thing goes that's not quite the pattern used as far as I can tell from trans widows. Instead there's the premise of 'you're not sexy anymore...' and then they try adding really twisted things in (the man wanting to wear bra and panties, pegging etc) and any push back is met with the accusation of being the 'frigid new mum'. Of course the mum then starts wondering if she is (because sore breasts and other equally important body parts vital to the act can cause pain and other problems) and the manipulation has set in.
@jasonwismer2670 I know a man whose wife got pregnant shortly after he started transitioning. He told me he was looking forward to breastfeeding the baby. It's a fetish compulsion they're trying to satisfy.
@@jasonwismer2670 Are you a father? Fathers I know, including my self, felt no need to be pretend mummies when our wives were pregnant, post-natal or breastfeeding. Yes, most of us were daddies and looked after babies and kids, not in a desperate attempt to fill the void of our now sexless wives (your implication) but to simply be good parents in this modern world. I've fed my kids, including bottle-feeding, changed nappies, bathed, burped and bounced my kids, gone without sex for those early months, and still felt like a man. Don't twist shit.
My brother in laws niece (13) is now a “boy” named “Eli” my sister is refusing her or letting her child, call her that. The little girl’s parents are separated and shit long before she was “trans”, the kids don’t go to school, no discipline and have awful diets. But the dad will defend his “son” to the hilt cause he can’t face up to his failure as a father. Meanwhile his 15yo daughter is clearly autistic but getting no help and his 9yo daughter just came out as “pansexual”.
Nine year olds didn’t have discussion of gender, orientations, pan and etc. That is language that is now fed to their awareness. I can’t blame them for trying to figure something out about it, since it is in their mental space. Allow children to be children, allow adolescents to know it is completely normal to feel completely wrong and out of place, and I really think using medically unchangeable interventions to be used on these kids. Figure out your sexuality when you are actually sexually mature.
You could have just said your sister 's niece. Because if your sister is married to your brother-in-law and it's your brother-in-law's niece it's also your sister's niece. And dear God they're going to neglect those kids into either Insanity or death!
If you’ve been in women’s spaces online for the past decade or more then the concept of trans widow is not a new thing. Women have been telling their stories and experiences of this for many years although it is obviously becoming more and more common as society has become more “accepting” / fawning towards what is essentially a fetishised. Finally we are starting to hear these stories in more mainstream places. For anyone who doubts the commonality of this, I implore you to do your research because women have been sharing their trans widow experiences for YEARS.
How can we convince women who have not been harmed by these narcissistic perverts that continuing to support their cause will only lead to more damage, more women and children being victimized by these creeps?
@@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 Everyone tells me I'm really straight-acting, but mentally I'm a very effeminate gay, and I believe I have a form of that distinctly female competitive niceness. No matter what I disagree with, I can't help but obtusely pretend it's okay. Partly to seem "nice", partly to secretly underscore the absurdity, but also partly to support the chaos. My point is that it's a VERY ambiguous character trait lmao
@@Gidget-b8s Totally get where you're coming from. When the entire 'genderqueer' theory/concept/activist ideology came along I thought it could be something I could relate to as I'm the most gender non-conforming chick going, always have been. Unfortunately it all went looney tunes and I turned away from it within months of studying and listening to where they were coming from. Awful. My profile picture may look very feminine but all my life I was mistaken for a boy physically. That stays with a person for life, so I have an inkling as to what gender dysphoria must feel like. Like most strong characters with sharp critical thinking faculties and a great deal of creativity and empathy, I don't do binary thinking and I'm not interested in parroting the clubhouse dogma of either the 'left' or the 'right'. I seem to inhabit another terrain entirely. Instinct tells me you may well be the same...living in a grey area that is vividly technicolour.
Like others have mentioned, it went from a tiny percentage to all over the place. My feelings are that someone in power had this "condition" and they are trying to normalise it and break all of us. Like some massive, global narcissist ploy.
If you want population reduction, pushing trans ideology is a great way to achieve that. Convince people to chemically and physically castrate themselves, the celebrate them doing so and pretend like it's virtuous to do so.
It is. There is a powerful and rich group of trans persons enforcing it all. Its not at all a grassroots movement, and their success shows that. Look up Jennifer Bilek.
In my country there is a theory that pedophilia will be legalized next. Children already have the right to change their bodies. Why then won't they have sexual rights?
You have hit the nail on the head, Michael. I cannot say any more. This channel is not the place for that. But if you're as curious as me, you will find what I found. All the best !
There’s nothing homophobic or transphobic in feeling anger and grief at the realization your marriage was a complete sham, LGBT+ liars are still liars. shout it through the roofs Kellie 🙌
Great talk, very thought provoking. I'm heartbroken for the trans widows and the children who lose their fathers. I've witnessed 3 men turn from men to non-binary to female appropriating. They were not abusive to their spouses, but they changed beyond recognition nonetheless. I can't imagine what it must have been like trying to support your husband, and by doing so losing him AND the relationship completely. It's impossible to stay together. The roles and expectations are completely fucked up. Whatever they turn into, it's not a mature and responsible woman.
I caution you to imagine they are not abusive to the wives. You do not know what happens behind closed doors, and we ex-wives have been silenced. Lime Soda Films yt channel for trailers to the upcoming documentary, Behind the Looking Glass, profiling about 20 of us, in which the truth comes out.
@@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals You are right, I don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Thinking about it now there must be at least relentless coercion to go along. Thank you for pointing me towards this upcoming documentary.
So crazy, my brother in law came out as trans last year and he was the one that would take my niece bra shopping. I never understood why my sister allowed that. He is also the biggest narcissist I’ve ever seen and we didn’t like to be around him because he gave us the creeps. But never once did we suspect that he would come out at trans. We always thought there was some kind of pedophilia going on but we could never prove it.
For the spouse her memories are transformed. What she thought was a nice gesture is now revealed as a deceit. One could have decades of these revelations and feel left with memories that one cannot safely access.
One of the most famous AGP men was featured in the Whirlygig documentary as half of a husband and wife helicopter filming team. He piloted the helicopter while his wife did the filming and had to lean out of the helicopter to film. He was an abusive husband. Then claimed he needed to trans to reduce his testosterone levels whuch he claimed made him abusive.
So he had to get implants and start wearing makeup to lower his testosterone? Pretty sure the medicine to that. And I just googled it. Even Google doesn't say transitioning to be a woman is a medicine for men with elevated testosterone. So no. He did not need to transition for any other reason then he's a weirdo.
@@lemsip207So it's still his name. You do realize you get the one right? The one your parents gave you. I don't care what you want to call yourself. Your name is what your parents gave you.
@MamaMOB Anyone can change their name for whatever reason. What if they weren't trans and simply didn't like their original name? Or they were embarking on an international career and wanted a simpler name or an anglicised one.
Does it not seem AGP's are triggered into fetish by their daughter's puberty as a safe appearance in which to disguise their covert sexual abuse of their daughter ? What daughter wants to discuss these matter in depth , with her Father ?
A few years ago I was a teacher in a California public school. I went to a professional development presentation about gender, and it was given by a woman with no credentials or education, she was in her mid-20's, she was a volunteer from a trans ally organization.
Germaine Greer said in an interview that these men, if they get a divorce, don't have to pay for child support if they through with their transition. I mean, I don't understand why people are not talking about that more if that is true.
Not sure about other countries, but I cannot see how that would fly in the US. Even if the man has changed from “Dad” to “Mom,” he/she is still a biological parent to that child and is obligated to provide the court-ordered amount towards the child’s upkeep and living expenses. It doesn’t matter if they’ve transitioned or not, their DNA hasn’t changed, meaning a court-ordered DNA test will still provide proof that they are the child’s parent. At least in my state, the judge bases the parentage (meaning the two people who are fiscally responsible for the child) on DNA tests, and they base the child support amount on the incomes of both parents. Would be interesting to know how other countries sort all that out tho.
It is true. Many of these men actually do keep their jobs and are even promoted but they refuse to pay child support and we mothers are stuck because the legal fees are immense. I did take my ex back to court, and even then he committed financial fraud a second time in court, presenting false figures for his salary.
If it were true that a trans woman wouldn't have to pay child support when finished their transition then that's irrelevant as no one has completed a transition. As it's impossible to change your sex. It's no different than a person changing their name and thinking they are no longer responsible for bringing a child into the world.
California has just brought in a law that teachers don't need to inform parents that their child is trans at school. So they are putting a wedge between parents and children.
The humiliation of learning you have a venereal disease after being faithful in marriage is as painful as the illness itself. This happens to many women. I know women who had this experience in pregnancy and were terrified it would effect their children.
@@Tom-ci4wn strange question, of course he should be upfront about it from the start, rather than tricking someone into a horrible situation. Noone cares what consenting adults do, as long as everyone is being honest from the beginning
@@AmanitaWoodroseI just tapped on Tom's profile and got the message, "Something's gone wrong. Try again." I tapped on your profile and a third to see if it was just a glitch. Apparently not.
I think this probably happens on both sides. Sadly! 😢 There should be no place in schools for that flag. I grew up as a tom boy, im so glad im not at school.. I would probably be convinced I was a boy back then! Thank God I was born in the 80s!
Yes me too. I pretended to be a boy to play football. Boys' lives are more interesting. I modelled myself on George from The Famous Five. Women are equal to men and should have equal pay. If someone had started messing with my head back then I'd have fallen for the trans crap. I grew up, have 3 kids and I'm a grandmother, still love football❤
When I was 14 an older man at the music school asked me out in public, and ended kissing me in public. Then he rejected me in public too saying that I was too virginal. I just felt that the physical contact was strange and fake. Later, when I was 22, a gay friend told me he was gay. He used me to look heterosexual at music school, and I was a child, in love for the first tine. But if I complain... then I am a bad person.
Our junior highs and high schools now have litter boxes in the bathrooms for those who think they’re cats. What the actual fuck are we doing to our kids.
Kellie is a true warrior. And in a sane world, she'd simply be a school gate mum , doing a decent job with no fuss. Anybody tell me where the MEN are? This fight requires our REAL men backing us , and standing up for their wives and daughters. And,indeed, tomorrow's father's who are the sad and tragic cases that are our son's.
The reason we're in this mess is that people have forgotten about Creator and how to be grateful for their lives. Selfishness rules their behavior. This is no different than a wife losing a spouse to alcohol or drug abuse. The person they married is gone. Immediate divorce is the only route they can take. My prayers for all of the hurt (and confused) children!
Sounds like the situationship that Simone and Karl had in Why women kill. He cheats for 2 years and was gay. I feel bad really for the widows n children because they no longer had their dad.
I’m on board with her views on trans, I could leave the feminism though, we need more British mothers not more “breaking through the glass ceiling” nonsense.
The king has no clothes, and WE are the ones who must cheer and go along. The first step in stopping this is to just say NO. No accommodations. That gives them a 'seat at the table' and becomes a slippery slope we all die on. Males and females. Your given birth name. PERIOD. The solution is easy, but most just can't bring themselves to just say NO.
I recall having a trans ideas/wants as a child/teen/adult. No one ever once taught me the ideology. It was there in my mind from the beginning of everything, like being right handed. We shouldn’t be teaching kids about this because it is *not* teachable.
Former friend came out as trans nearly 10 years ago. They were married. They had a child. Now the child thinks THEY are trans too. The former friend has not just accepted this, but has actively encouraged it. The former friend had previously said that they themselves were autistic. I need say nothing more.
I mean , we've destroyed the raising of our kids for the last three generations day care And older siblings are not raising children.They're babysitting and then now They all got their own kids and can't raise their own kids
There was a movie about this exact thing called Normal. It came out in 2003 and starred Tm Wilkinson as an older middle class family man who decides to transition to a woman.
When my wife was pregnant and while my daughter was an infant, my testosterone levels reduced significantly. I am sure feeling less "manly" is a contributing factor to being less manly.
I’ve had my heart broken by a closeted man. It was, and still is, a whole new level of heart break that I never knew existed. The betrayal is unreal. I have no idea if any of the feelings he had for me were true…the lies went so deep and came so easily to him. Ugh. Genuine mind f*ck. And btw OF COURSE he was m*lested by an older creep who couldn’t keep their hands to themselves. I don’t even want to get involved with men anymore at this point. No offense guys🤷♀️
I want to know the stats on marriage/relationship breakdown when a child claims to be trans and mum affirms and dad does NOT affirm = potentially destructive schism. I'm living through something similar and I hate to see my partner losing her grip on reality because of her son who claims to be female. In a way she is trapped. If she remains in reality, she loses her son, so she capitulates, but by doing so she affirms, which may well contribute to her sons destruction.
I dated someone who was a trans widow and I do believe her prior experience messed with her head. But I never got the impression she thought her ex was evil. I think that's a stretch. I also know someone who came out late in life and now runs a massive support group for gays. I can't say that guy is evil either. Misguided, wrong maybe but I've met evil people. Murderers and such. I'm an autistic so I naturally attract predators. I know a lot more about it than she does, I would hazard. It would hurt her narrative, obviously, but their needs to be some nuance, a Venn diagram of evil psycho's and those who fall into these gender/sex weirdo camps (pardon the pun). I'm always amazed that no one challenges Parker with facts on this. I mean, you'd obviously lose your audience, so no wonder, and she gets plenty of abuse as it is. In short... Safeguarding: yes. Witchburning: not so much. I'm also reminded of the obvious lie (or perhaps error) Douglas Murray told on the Darkhorse show a few years ago: 'Men don't suddenly come out as gay late in life' (words to that effect). He was wrong. Clearly. And no one cared. Now she is saying it's true and they're evil because of it. Hmmm.... You cheered Douglas when he was wrong (a rare occurrence, to be fair) and now you're cheering this. I don't think we're necessarily on the same side because I like Truth.
I think Douglas Murray was absolutely correct about homosexuality in the west. It's very rare for people to come out as gay or lesbian or bisexual later than 21 in the west. It's much more common to have a sexual coming out in early to middle teens, and early 20s at the latest if you grow up in a very conservative area or family so you move away as an adult. To get to age 40 and suddenly "come out" IS strange here, but it's not strange for the wierder paraphilias. And that's what AGP is. A much stranger paraphilia than homosexuality.
I’d say it’s ok for AGPs to live as a woman (whether they should use women’s spaces I think is questionable) but they probably shouldn’t do it after getting married, that way they don’t drag a wife and kids into it and ruin their lives.
I think the problem with tolerating AGP as a paraphilia is that it's less like drag and more like pedophilia. We used to believe that crossdressing was a sort of tragic, but relatively harmless fetish in which a heterosexual man simply appreciated the way he looked styled as a woman. But that's not what AGP is. The whole point of it IS to deceive. To be aroused by the deception of those closest to the AGP heterosexual male, like his mother, his wife, and his daughter. He NEEDS to make them compliant with his performance. And that's quite abusive. It's abusive when any AGP man does it with any person, to be honest. But the fact they seem to so consistently need to fulfill the fetish BY having a family is especially so.
Imma keep saying this: who will advocate tolerance, empathy and inclusion for the Trans-community if war or societal collapse comes? Not the Bleeding Heart LEFT. It'll be every person for themselves.
In what sense do you use the adjective 'Reasonable'? According to this formula, high school seniors and juniors (usually) can't date, yet they frequently do, and I don't see why they shouldn't. Likewise, when you're talking about adults in their thirties and older, surely personal compatibility is what really matters.
Hang on. First separate LGB from T. And separate paedophiles from people who have no sexual interest in children. This is one reason why I dislike this gender ideology nonsense - it’s undoing all the good work that LGB activists strives and fought for. It allows simple-minded homophobes to spout their hate.
“The LGBT community” doesn’t exist. It’s a fraudulent fiction, invented for the purpose of trying to con gay, lesbian and bisexual people into believing that they’re somehow obliged to support the cranky “gender identity” ideology and “queer theory” peddled by trans activists. Even among those who’ve fallen for it, an increasing number are now starting to wake up and realise that they’ve been taken for fools. Huw Edwards is more of a poster boy for the closeted “community”.
My lesbian partner, who is also a counsellor, has spoken with admin colleagues about how their “pride week,” which subsequently turned into “pride month,” and the school’s gay/straight alliance affects actual gay youth. Most of them want no part of it. It’s too scary and too risky. In general, the only kids and teachers who participate in these activities are actually so called woke individuals with an agenda and who feel the need to virtue signal. Homophobia and homophobic violence are still very real, despite what certain media tries to tell us.
It's AGP. It means "autogynophilia" which is a pharaphilia where a heterosexual male is sexually aroused by dressing as, styling himself, and acting as a woman.
About 20 years ago I worked with a trans woman with two children (about 10 or 12) who transitioned in her 40s. She was a 6’ built soldier in a past life. Watching what she went through I thought about how deeply she must have felt that existence was right for her. It couldn’t have been easy to stand out so obviously (she was not of feminine appearance in any substantial way) and suffer the stares and snickers and rejection that came her way. It’s hard to get ones mind around the mental and bodily imperatives that lead a person to make that change but I don’t want to dismiss their reality, or that of the families that have to deal with it either.
should've changed to a woman in his 20s and had kids as a woman. see how that turns out. always the same - i'm a man, have kids, oh now i'm a crossdresser. well done, they're all the bloody same.
Wow, there is a lot of anger and hurt in this explanation on the wife's side; but it's far from a one sided story; there is a lot of hurt on both sides; and we do each other a great disservice to to presume the worst of the other, and to lash out like this.
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First, i am a gay man. i am 100% in support of Kellie. i think most people are with her. if i had children i would not want my children taught trans ideology or anything regarding gender identities. I feel vulnerable children are being manipulated and taken down a very dark road. Kellie made me rethink a lot of my views. We need more people to stand up and support her. great interview.
Gay bloke here, and I totally agree with Kellie 👍🏼
Yes...I'm a gay man and support her...and you!
Homosexual mate not gay!
Love you normal, decent gay men… after all you are also victims in this, with the TQ falsely associating themselves with you. This is all our fight, whether you’re a parent or not.
Anybody talking about this is now going to be labelled far right to quell dissent.
I was with one...came out 26 years in...I can tell it's horrible to live with someone like this...the gaslighting is unbelievable...I'm so sick of these people 🤬
I’m so sorry you had to go through that, I can’t even imagine how horrible it must have been. I’m glad you’re out ❤️
Yeah, I don’t believe these ppl are actually “trans”, I think most of them have fetishes that have been green-lighted by the activism. Ppl with real gender dysphoria know very early on, this isn’t something they discover in their 30’s or later. A majority of the “trans women” I see are just autogynephiles who now feel comfortable parading their fetishes around as identities, so it’s no surprise to me to see so many of them (and I mean MANY of them) being arrested for sex crimes, especially child sex crimes. I’m not trying to kink-shame anyone, but this is what happens when society removes “shame” for things ppl should be shamed for. There’s a business run by an MD in California where grown men can pay to be diapered and treated like infants, and it’s right across the street from a childrens park. Somehow, though, ppl are trying to include this behavior under the umbrella of “trans”, it’s disgusting.
I was married to one and had 2 children with one. No one knows what that is like except someone like you that has lived through it too. People whisper under their breath "how could you not know?" They have no idea.
Wow. 😮that must be devastating
@@heartjoy I'm sorry you went through that as well, I also had a child with this person...nightmare
Reprimanding a child to say a boy is a girl or the other way around is teaching a child to lie, totally wrong
It is and it's not. Because the children actually believe it. Because they're so young they don't know better. When you teach them a lie yes technically you're teaching them to lie to others but they don't know it's a lie. They believe it.
It’s deceptive and dangerous af, this is how predators pray on kids vulnerable people… they refuse to live in reality and use proper terms that hold great significance.
It's teaching kids not to believe theor eyes or their senses. Which is pretty dangerous really. We have instincts and senses for a reason...
Finally some recognition for the field of debris left behind from a trans. It's always about them being so "brave" and "finally themselves" and nothing about the family damage.
It’s certainly a very narcissistic movement
One word, Stefonknee
@@Gidget-b8s ya, I just stumbled across his RUclips the other day
They even call their birth name a "dead name" so even they view it as if they died. A death leaves a wake of grief.
@@kellylyons1038 Yeah, I don't understand that. Why not old name, or former name?
This went from something u almost never heard about, like 0.00001% of the population to being on the walls in kindergarten classes, and ppl deny social contagion.
We just used to call it transvestism surely? There have always been men who got sexual pleasure from dressing as women, but used to keep it in the privacy of their bedroom. Now we are encouraged to believe it’s not a sexual fetish / APG. Somewhere along the way something that was adult appropriate and between consenting adults has been mainstreamed and anyone who doesn’t want to participate in the exhibition and (sexual) validation is called a bigot.
@@katqh 100% agree.. fashion/ medical/ marketing industry rapidly instilled it as a mandate to consume… its big $$
I in 2,000 human births gender non-specific & used to be randomly surgically assigned. Now this barbarism has ended & people choose, 1 reason trans movement exists, but trans have existed always, Aboriginal populations used to call it 3rd Spirited, now we're binary & non-binary with latter trying to redefine former status quo. J.K. Rowling is right & terfisaslur.
Pritz ker billionaire
Also genetic mutations are growing in the gene pool, mental instability manifests in many ways.
My child’s middle school is festooned more various flags than maps. She refuses to use the bathroom because the transgirls (boys) mess it up. She was done with this lunacy before I was.
Smart girl!
Homeschool!
Is there any way you can homeschool? ❤ If you're in the USA there's masses of help ❤In the UK they yave a curriculum. It doesn't take anywhere near as long in the USA to get their work done, as school has so much fluff/wasted time; I'm not sure about the UK.
Whenever you read about someone wanting to homeschool, it’s always someone like you that believes school curriculum is awash with time wasting, and that you could do it better
@@bigred8432 my friend's daughter used the K-12 program (so the full on government version) for high school, she said it took about three hours, sometimes as long as three and a half to complete all the work, then she had three part time jobs. My son gets it done in about the same amount of time, and he works twenty five hours a week. I could give loads of examples of kids in the same position.
Kellie is right about children. Children really like rules to be solid. They cherish consistency. Child might complain but they really like, bedtime, at bedtime, breakfast at breakfast time children are really deeply conservative. Children wish to know what to expect the whole world. Every day is new to them so having a consistent structure gives them the security to bravely go forward and learn all they need to learn.
She’s insanely harsh though. I don’t disagree with her
Common sense sacrificed at the altar of schools love of perpetual gimmicks.
Competing with parents. Serving political ideology.
Not harsh, only a case of emperor's new clothes
@@adrianharry5336KJ just tells it like it is. This is a dangerous and toxic ideology that leads to body mutilation! This needs to be called out in no uncertain terms
So well said!
That crayon book is fantastic for showing kids the nonsense of transgenderism. The blue crayon wants to be a red crayon. So he puts on the red paper of the red crayon and everybody's cheering because he's a red crayon. But if you color with him he still colors blue, because underneath he's still a blue crayon! This book is perfect for showing kids that you can't change gender. It cracks me up that they think it tells kids that you can change gender. This is something you could physically demonstrate for little kids. Put the red paper on the blue crayon and color with it and see what it does. It's still just a blue crayon.
Your gender is not a vending machine
@@anniesmolkin7685 just a random thought you wanted to throw out there?
@@snowps1it's something a person said from experience that really hit home for me
When my cousin transitioned from female to male, after 4 kids and 15 years of marriage, it was a crap show. My cousin would scream at his kids who were 6,10,12, and 14 for calling him mommy and would get physically violent with anyone who used his old name. He demanded that the whole family go to counseling with a counselor who gaslighted and shamed his husband and kids for not being supportive enough. His husband filed for divorce because he isn't gay and didn't want to be married to a man. But my cousin who had been a stay at home mother his entire life and never worked, was furious and said that he can just learn to be gay, but he couldn't leave, because he didn't have a job and wouldn't be able to pay for his transition.
My cousin's husband filed anyway and took the kids, because they were terrified of my cousin. well he transitioned, married a woman and cut off everyone that was a part of his old life (family, friends, everyone). His kids are now young adults and haven't seen or heard from their mother ever......
The thing is the family would have been supportive of him transitioning to a man, if he hadn't been so hateful, cruel, or violent. My cousin became like another person entirely who we didn't recognize and demanded instant compliance to all of his demands, even from our 93 year old grandmother with dementia. There was no room to adjust to the new identity, nothing we did was good enough......
Blatant narcissists who play the victims
8:37 How is it logicly possible that the girl was not allowed to say no to body privacy. Because a transboy said it made him feel bad that she didn't want him to see her naked.
Tons of girls all over the world are not allowed body privacy. I mean hell look at the Olympics. The two female boxers going for the gold are both men. You know they had to be in the same locker room as the actual female boxers right? And what about Riley Gaines. She had to change in front of William Thomas. It's not just one little girl. It's thousands and thousands of little girls.
@@MamaMOBnot only that but Will changed in front of minor children… a grown man showing his junk to little girls and not arrested
Transaucracy.
It's possible because GC women were marginalised for 8 years
@@sammieg8641in The Netherlands a grown msn identified as a 14 yo girl and was allowed to play in the local girls’ football/soccer team😮
My friend became trans when his wife was pregnant and just after birth came out to everyone
It was strange timing
I hope you mean x-friend. That is so abusive to his wife and baby.
He's an AGP. He wants all the attention and gets off on pretending he's a girl.
The timing wasn't strange at all, it was fairly typical.
Trans or AGP ?
Both is very disrespectful to his wife / yes I said he because a man can’t become a woman ☹️
@@brodwyntyler4006 most of these men doing a very poor job of looking like women are AGP. They get off on pretending and then being aggressive to women.
It’s healthy to find this very frightening , there’s nothing irrational about these fears
Your focus on this issue, and your excellent interviews, are much appreciated, Andrew. Kellie-Jay, much gratitude and respect for your tremendous, brave and heroic work. Thank you both.
One of the greatest truths ever spoken, children expect grown-ups to be the adults in the room and safeguard them... AMEN to that 🙏
another great interview. The rest of the world does not have teens, pre-teens, grade school kids, or toddlers imagining they are opposite sex. This is a psy-ops level movement to undermine families & women by mind control for men's entertainment.
My encounters with trans guys all had malevolent aspects, like a teen in full costume pissing all over a restaurant restroom after cutting in line. Toilets, walls, sink, floor. His smirk on the way out. They get off on the shock & fear they generate.
That’s so factually inaccurate-I understand your feelings but places in Africa and the Middle East are way further down the line on gender nonsense in many cases, because they’re very homophobic and if you display any interests or traits that don’t align strictly with your gender presentation in that culture they’re MORE than happy to reassign your gender, and have been for decades. It just isn’t discussed like it is here.
OP you are absolutely spot on.
These dudes also delve into this crossdressing world right after the baby was born, during the year or so when the baby is breastfeeding. I have this in the only data in the world on 62 trans widows. Am one myself, husband did exactly that almost 30 years ago. Andrew Gold is exactly right about dude having his wife at the most vulnerable and financially dependent. Data at channel (YT) in the handle name here.
Could be because the mother's love is oftentimes more directed to the child at that time. As their sexual and romantic tendencies are less fulfilled, they fill the void with this.
@@jasonwismer2670 Think there could be something to this, there is a lot of narcissism involved in AGP and a redirection of priority would be a huge trigger for many. As far as the sexual thing goes that's not quite the pattern used as far as I can tell from trans widows. Instead there's the premise of 'you're not sexy anymore...' and then they try adding really twisted things in (the man wanting to wear bra and panties, pegging etc) and any push back is met with the accusation of being the 'frigid new mum'. Of course the mum then starts wondering if she is (because sore breasts and other equally important body parts vital to the act can cause pain and other problems) and the manipulation has set in.
@@jasonwismer2670 So its the woman’s fault that they can’t behave like reasonable adults and have to go down the rabbit hole of their sexual fetish.
@jasonwismer2670 I know a man whose wife got pregnant shortly after he started transitioning. He told me he was looking forward to breastfeeding the baby. It's a fetish compulsion they're trying to satisfy.
@@jasonwismer2670 Are you a father? Fathers I know, including my self, felt no need to be pretend mummies when our wives were pregnant, post-natal or breastfeeding. Yes, most of us were daddies and looked after babies and kids, not in a desperate attempt to fill the void of our now sexless wives (your implication) but to simply be good parents in this modern world. I've fed my kids, including bottle-feeding, changed nappies, bathed, burped and bounced my kids, gone without sex for those early months, and still felt like a man. Don't twist shit.
My brother in laws niece (13) is now a “boy” named “Eli” my sister is refusing her or letting her child, call her that. The little girl’s parents are separated and shit long before she was “trans”, the kids don’t go to school, no discipline and have awful diets. But the dad will defend his “son” to the hilt cause he can’t face up to his failure as a father. Meanwhile his 15yo daughter is clearly autistic but getting no help and his 9yo daughter just came out as “pansexual”.
In English, please.
What a chaotic situation for those kids.
What a nightmare
Nine year olds didn’t have discussion of gender, orientations, pan and etc. That is language that is now fed to their awareness. I can’t blame them for trying to figure something out about it, since it is in their mental space. Allow children to be children, allow adolescents to know it is completely normal to feel completely wrong and out of place, and I really think using medically unchangeable interventions to be used on these kids. Figure out your sexuality when you are actually sexually mature.
You could have just said your sister 's niece. Because if your sister is married to your brother-in-law and it's your brother-in-law's niece it's also your sister's niece. And dear God they're going to neglect those kids into either Insanity or death!
If you’ve been in women’s spaces online for the past decade or more then the concept of trans widow is not a new thing. Women have been telling their stories and experiences of this for many years although it is obviously becoming more and more common as society has become more “accepting” / fawning towards what is essentially a fetishised. Finally we are starting to hear these stories in more mainstream places. For anyone who doubts the commonality of this, I implore you to do your research because women have been sharing their trans widow experiences for YEARS.
Harvey Fierstein's most recent play period piece about cross-dressing, frequently straight family men indulging in asexual fetish.
How can we convince women who have not been harmed by these narcissistic perverts that continuing to support their cause will only lead to more damage, more women and children being victimized by these creeps?
"Competitive niceness amongst girls." I burst out laughing. She's absolutely bang on as usual, what a great phrase though. 💯💯
@@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293 Everyone tells me I'm really straight-acting, but mentally I'm a very effeminate gay, and I believe I have a form of that distinctly female competitive niceness. No matter what I disagree with, I can't help but obtusely pretend it's okay. Partly to seem "nice", partly to secretly underscore the absurdity, but also partly to support the chaos. My point is that it's a VERY ambiguous character trait lmao
@@Gidget-b8s Totally get where you're coming from. When the entire 'genderqueer' theory/concept/activist ideology came along I thought it could be something I could relate to as I'm the most gender non-conforming chick going, always have been. Unfortunately it all went looney tunes and I turned away from it within months of studying and listening to where they were coming from. Awful. My profile picture may look very feminine but all my life I was mistaken for a boy physically. That stays with a person for life, so I have an inkling as to what gender dysphoria must feel like. Like most strong characters with sharp critical thinking faculties and a great deal of creativity and empathy, I don't do binary thinking and I'm not interested in parroting the clubhouse dogma of either the 'left' or the 'right'. I seem to inhabit another terrain entirely. Instinct tells me you may well be the same...living in a grey area that is vividly technicolour.
Civilization will regret all this
Does the new growth regret the wildfire?
Like others have mentioned, it went from a tiny percentage to all over the place. My feelings are that someone in power had this "condition" and they are trying to normalise it and break all of us. Like some massive, global narcissist ploy.
If you want population reduction, pushing trans ideology is a great way to achieve that. Convince people to chemically and physically castrate themselves, the celebrate them doing so and pretend like it's virtuous to do so.
It is. There is a powerful and rich group of trans persons enforcing it all. Its not at all a grassroots movement, and their success shows that. Look up Jennifer Bilek.
In my country there is a theory that pedophilia will be legalized next. Children already have the right to change their bodies. Why then won't they have sexual rights?
You have hit the nail on the head, Michael. I cannot say any more. This channel is not the place for that. But if you're as curious as me, you will find what I found. All the best !
There’s nothing homophobic or transphobic in feeling anger and grief at the realization your marriage was a complete sham, LGBT+ liars are still liars. shout it through the roofs Kellie 🙌
Absolutely right….its all part of the agenda to diminish women and families for communism….
they don't care who they destroy to get what they want
She is a hero.
Great talk, very thought provoking. I'm heartbroken for the trans widows and the children who lose their fathers.
I've witnessed 3 men turn from men to non-binary to female appropriating. They were not abusive to their spouses, but they changed beyond recognition nonetheless. I can't imagine what it must have been like trying to support your husband, and by doing so losing him AND the relationship completely. It's impossible to stay together. The roles and expectations are completely fucked up. Whatever they turn into, it's not a mature and responsible woman.
I caution you to imagine they are not abusive to the wives. You do not know what happens behind closed doors, and we ex-wives have been silenced. Lime Soda Films yt channel for trailers to the upcoming documentary, Behind the Looking Glass, profiling about 20 of us, in which the truth comes out.
@@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
You are right, I don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Thinking about it now there must be at least relentless coercion to go along. Thank you for pointing me towards this upcoming documentary.
The abuse is not always physical. Emotional abuse is devastating.
Love Kellie - thanks for the show
It’s child abuse
So crazy, my brother in law came out as trans last year and he was the one that would take my niece bra shopping. I never understood why my sister allowed that. He is also the biggest narcissist I’ve ever seen and we didn’t like to be around him because he gave us the creeps. But never once did we suspect that he would come out at trans. We always thought there was some kind of pedophilia going on but we could never prove it.
The worst thing is the deception.
For the spouse her memories are transformed. What she thought was a nice gesture is now revealed as a deceit. One could have decades of these revelations and feel left with memories that one cannot safely access.
One of the most famous AGP men was featured in the Whirlygig documentary as half of a husband and wife helicopter filming team. He piloted the helicopter while his wife did the filming and had to lean out of the helicopter to film. He was an abusive husband. Then claimed he needed to trans to reduce his testosterone levels whuch he claimed made him abusive.
This is the Tur dude, father of Katy Tur, a famous US journalist.
@@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Bob Tur was what he was called before he transed.
So he had to get implants and start wearing makeup to lower his testosterone? Pretty sure the medicine to that. And I just googled it. Even Google doesn't say transitioning to be a woman is a medicine for men with elevated testosterone. So no. He did not need to transition for any other reason then he's a weirdo.
@@lemsip207So it's still his name. You do realize you get the one right? The one your parents gave you. I don't care what you want to call yourself. Your name is what your parents gave you.
@MamaMOB Anyone can change their name for whatever reason. What if they weren't trans and simply didn't like their original name? Or they were embarking on an international career and wanted a simpler name or an anglicised one.
"Gendered Intelligence". I don't think you will. "They're the experts". Oh, no. You won't be doing that. Excellent, Kellie-Jay. Thank you.
Overwhelmingly domestic abuse starts during pregnancy.
Spare a thought for new mums, whatever the perpetrator's issue is.
8:49 the way I gasped when you said that boy was snapping bra straps and the girl got in trouble for protecting herself
And you actually believe that story
Does it not seem AGP's are triggered into fetish by their daughter's puberty as a safe appearance in which to disguise their covert sexual abuse of their daughter ? What daughter wants to discuss these matter in depth , with her Father ?
What's agp?
@@WANOS123autogynephilia
@@WANOS123Auto Gyno Phile AGP a man who is sexually excited at the thought 🤔 of a female version of himself. It's a fetish
@@WANOS123 AGP AUTOGYNEPHILE a man who is sexually excited by the idea of a female version of himself. It's a fetish.
@@WANOS123autogynephilia- men who are sexually aroused when they dress up as women
Transphobic and proud. It's time to stop all the pretense.
they dont scare me so thats perhaps the wrong phrase,i think im sickbucket adjacent
The term 'phobic' means fear. I do not fear these nut jobs. They are an irritant at most and a huge waste of resources as a country.
A few years ago I was a teacher in a California public school. I went to a professional development presentation about gender, and it was given by a woman with no credentials or education, she was in her mid-20's, she was a volunteer from a trans ally organization.
Once they have fathered a child, they believe the mother will not leave, compelling the women to stay with them... it's beyond narcissistic...
Another reason these people are rightfully marginalized.
Marginalized because they are minority population.
Germaine Greer said in an interview that these men, if they get a divorce, don't have to pay for child support if they through with their transition. I mean, I don't understand why people are not talking about that more if that is true.
Not sure about other countries, but I cannot see how that would fly in the US. Even if the man has changed from “Dad” to “Mom,” he/she is still a biological parent to that child and is obligated to provide the court-ordered amount towards the child’s upkeep and living expenses. It doesn’t matter if they’ve transitioned or not, their DNA hasn’t changed, meaning a court-ordered DNA test will still provide proof that they are the child’s parent.
At least in my state, the judge bases the parentage (meaning the two people who are fiscally responsible for the child) on DNA tests, and they base the child support amount on the incomes of both parents. Would be interesting to know how other countries sort all that out tho.
It is true. Many of these men actually do keep their jobs and are even promoted but they refuse to pay child support and we mothers are stuck because the legal fees are immense. I did take my ex back to court, and even then he committed financial fraud a second time in court, presenting false figures for his salary.
@@RileyRunsWithScissors
Sure that in America you can be forced to pay child support even if you're proven to not be the father.
I don't think it's true in the uk where the parent's gender isn't counted but income is.
If it were true that a trans woman wouldn't have to pay child support when finished their transition then that's irrelevant as no one has completed a transition. As it's impossible to change your sex. It's no different than a person changing their name and thinking they are no longer responsible for bringing a child into the world.
Tell it, KJK, tell it.
California has just brought in a law that teachers don't need to inform parents that their child is trans at school. So they are putting a wedge between parents and children.
The humiliation of learning you have a venereal disease after being faithful in marriage is as painful as the illness itself. This happens to many women. I know women who had this experience in pregnancy and were terrified it would effect their children.
"That's when they tell their wives that they like wearing knickers" 🤣🤣🤣
Yes it's ridiculous but not that funny for the trapped women
If they’re upfront about it from the start (when the wife is still just a girlfriend and is able to leave) is that still a problem? If so why?
@@Tom-ci4wn strange question, of course he should be upfront about it from the start, rather than tricking someone into a horrible situation. Noone cares what consenting adults do, as long as everyone is being honest from the beginning
@@AmanitaWoodroseI just tapped on Tom's profile and got the message, "Something's gone wrong. Try again." I tapped on your profile and a third to see if it was just a glitch. Apparently not.
I think this probably happens on both sides. Sadly! 😢 There should be no place in schools for that flag. I grew up as a tom boy, im so glad im not at school.. I would probably be convinced I was a boy back then! Thank God I was born in the 80s!
Yes me too. I pretended to be a boy to play football. Boys' lives are more interesting. I modelled myself on George from The Famous Five. Women are equal to men and should have equal pay. If someone had started messing with my head back then I'd have fallen for the trans crap. I grew up, have 3 kids and I'm a grandmother, still love football❤
@@jillybe1873equal pay? For equal work right?
@@BarryBBurton Nothing to do with that.
When I was 14 an older man at the music school asked me out in public, and ended kissing me in public. Then he rejected me in public too saying that I was too virginal. I just felt that the physical contact was strange and fake. Later, when I was 22, a gay friend told me he was gay. He used me to look heterosexual at music school, and I was a child, in love for the first tine.
But if I complain... then I am a bad person.
Our junior highs and high schools now have litter boxes in the bathrooms for those who think they’re cats. What the actual fuck are we doing to our kids.
no freakin way no FREAKNIG way that can be true. that's fucking insanity.
Kellie is a true warrior.
And in a sane world, she'd simply be a school gate mum , doing a decent job with no fuss.
Anybody tell me where the MEN are?
This fight requires our REAL men backing us , and standing up for their wives and daughters.
And,indeed, tomorrow's father's who are the sad and tragic cases that are our son's.
This woman’s work is so essential right now.
Ooh, they're actually talking about the Schofield business? It's surprising how the mainstream media have utterly ignored the full story.
One thing I can promise my wife will never go through 😂
The reason we're in this mess is that people have forgotten about Creator and how to be grateful for their lives. Selfishness rules their behavior. This is no different than a wife losing a spouse to alcohol or drug abuse. The person they married is gone. Immediate divorce is the only route they can take. My prayers for all of the hurt (and confused) children!
Sounds like the situationship that Simone and Karl had in Why women kill. He cheats for 2 years and was gay. I feel bad really for the widows n children because they no longer had their dad.
Kids must be growing up totally confused. Just let them be children.
your videos are always interesting - some of the most thought-provoking on here, i'd say.
Competitive niceness! I had been searching for a term describing the women who overboard support these men against real women
Thank you for having KJK on your show
1984" they told us to reject the evidence of out ears and eyes" the last essential command
I’m on board with her views on trans, I could leave the feminism though, we need more British mothers not more “breaking through the glass ceiling” nonsense.
Feminism is complicit in this.
She has four children. I think she did her part.
It’s about her viewpoint, not her children
It's definitely a form of abuse towards wives to do this after marriage
Given the effects of screen time on kids' brains, wouldn't we be better off spending school teaching time on "how to focus" than gender nonsense?
The king has no clothes, and WE are the ones who must cheer and go along. The first step in stopping this is to just say NO. No accommodations. That gives them a 'seat at the table' and becomes a slippery slope we all die on. Males and females. Your given birth name. PERIOD. The solution is easy, but most just can't bring themselves to just say NO.
I recall having a trans ideas/wants as a child/teen/adult. No one ever once taught me the ideology. It was there in my mind from the beginning of everything, like being right handed. We shouldn’t be teaching kids about this because it is *not* teachable.
Love Kellie.❤
Another goodie cheers.
Former friend came out as trans nearly 10 years ago. They were married. They had a child. Now the child thinks THEY are trans too. The former friend has not just accepted this, but has actively encouraged it. The former friend had previously said that they themselves were autistic. I need say nothing more.
I mean , we've destroyed the raising of our kids for the last three generations day care And older siblings are not raising children.They're babysitting and then now They all got their own kids and can't raise their own kids
Heart breaking
There was a movie about this exact thing called Normal. It came out in 2003 and starred Tm Wilkinson as an older middle class family man who decides to transition to a woman.
By what right does a person who cannot accept themselves for what they really are demand that I accept them for what they say they are?
When my wife was pregnant and while my daughter was an infant, my testosterone levels reduced significantly. I am sure feeling less "manly" is a contributing factor to being less manly.
Kris tyson
I’ve had my heart broken by a closeted man. It was, and still is, a whole new level of heart break that I never knew existed. The betrayal is unreal. I have no idea if any of the feelings he had for me were true…the lies went so deep and came so easily to him. Ugh. Genuine mind f*ck. And btw OF COURSE he was m*lested by an older creep who couldn’t keep their hands to themselves. I don’t even want to get involved with men anymore at this point. No offense guys🤷♀️
I want to know the stats on marriage/relationship breakdown when a child claims to be trans and mum affirms and dad does NOT affirm = potentially destructive schism.
I'm living through something similar and I hate to see my partner losing her grip on reality because of her son who claims to be female.
In a way she is trapped. If she remains in reality, she loses her son, so she capitulates, but by doing so she affirms, which may well contribute to her sons destruction.
The son could just be gay; you get more affirmation & support for being trans (plus it’s trendy) than for being gay.
This all started because of the eruption of new atheism 10 years ago
I dated someone who was a trans widow and I do believe her prior experience messed with her head.
But I never got the impression she thought her ex was evil. I think that's a stretch.
I also know someone who came out late in life and now runs a massive support group for gays. I can't say that guy is evil either. Misguided, wrong maybe but I've met evil people. Murderers and such. I'm an autistic so I naturally attract predators. I know a lot more about it than she does, I would hazard.
It would hurt her narrative, obviously, but their needs to be some nuance, a Venn diagram of evil psycho's and those who fall into these gender/sex weirdo camps (pardon the pun).
I'm always amazed that no one challenges Parker with facts on this. I mean, you'd obviously lose your audience, so no wonder, and she gets plenty of abuse as it is.
In short...
Safeguarding: yes. Witchburning: not so much.
I'm also reminded of the obvious lie (or perhaps error) Douglas Murray told on the Darkhorse show a few years ago: 'Men don't suddenly come out as gay late in life' (words to that effect).
He was wrong. Clearly. And no one cared.
Now she is saying it's true and they're evil because of it.
Hmmm....
You cheered Douglas when he was wrong (a rare occurrence, to be fair) and now you're cheering this.
I don't think we're necessarily on the same side because I like Truth.
I think Douglas Murray was absolutely correct about homosexuality in the west. It's very rare for people to come out as gay or lesbian or bisexual later than 21 in the west. It's much more common to have a sexual coming out in early to middle teens, and early 20s at the latest if you grow up in a very conservative area or family so you move away as an adult. To get to age 40 and suddenly "come out" IS strange here, but it's not strange for the wierder paraphilias. And that's what AGP is. A much stranger paraphilia than homosexuality.
How did Andrew Gold end up homeless? It's so said. When did stop showering, combing his hair, etc. It's so sad. Can't he get help?
Emperor's New Clothes ...
This happened to Chris Tyson and Katie. And then he dicorced her. Her little baby son is devastated
I’d say it’s ok for AGPs to live as a woman (whether they should use women’s spaces I think is questionable) but they probably shouldn’t do it after getting married, that way they don’t drag a wife and kids into it and ruin their lives.
I don't want the space I use to take a sh*it in, being used for their fetish! I do not consent
I think the problem with tolerating AGP as a paraphilia is that it's less like drag and more like pedophilia. We used to believe that crossdressing was a sort of tragic, but relatively harmless fetish in which a heterosexual man simply appreciated the way he looked styled as a woman. But that's not what AGP is. The whole point of it IS to deceive. To be aroused by the deception of those closest to the AGP heterosexual male, like his mother, his wife, and his daughter. He NEEDS to make them compliant with his performance. And that's quite abusive. It's abusive when any AGP man does it with any person, to be honest. But the fact they seem to so consistently need to fulfill the fetish BY having a family is especially so.
AGPs should absolutely not be using womens spaces. They are basically just crossdressers.
Imma keep saying this: who will advocate tolerance, empathy and inclusion for the Trans-community if war or societal collapse comes? Not the Bleeding Heart LEFT. It'll be every person for themselves.
The boy in the Huw Edwards case has now spoken publicly - with his identity obscured. He's definitely male.
Reasonable dating age range is:
Your age ÷ 2 + 9 = lowest appropriate age
Examples
18 ÷ 2 + 9 = 18
38 ÷ 2 + 9 = 27
58 ÷ 2 + 9 = 38
In what sense do you use the adjective 'Reasonable'? According to this formula, high school seniors and juniors (usually) can't date, yet they frequently do, and I don't see why they shouldn't. Likewise, when you're talking about adults in their thirties and older, surely personal compatibility is what really matters.
cool I can still go for a 32 yr old breeding age.
Huw Edwards , the poster boy for LGBT community.
Hang on. First separate LGB from T. And separate paedophiles from people who have no sexual interest in children.
This is one reason why I dislike this gender ideology nonsense - it’s undoing all the good work that LGB activists strives and fought for.
It allows simple-minded homophobes to spout their hate.
“The LGBT community” doesn’t exist. It’s a fraudulent fiction, invented for the purpose of trying to con gay, lesbian and bisexual people into believing that they’re somehow obliged to support the cranky “gender identity” ideology and “queer theory” peddled by trans activists. Even among those who’ve fallen for it, an increasing number are now starting to wake up and realise that they’ve been taken for fools.
Huw Edwards is more of a poster boy for the closeted “community”.
When did Posie Parker stop using that well known name?
Several years ago now. It was banned on all the social medias, so she made a new one.
My lesbian partner, who is also a counsellor, has spoken with admin colleagues about how their “pride week,” which subsequently turned into “pride month,” and the school’s gay/straight alliance affects actual gay youth. Most of them want no part of it. It’s too scary and too risky. In general, the only kids and teachers who participate in these activities are actually so called woke individuals with an agenda and who feel the need to virtue signal. Homophobia and homophobic violence are still very real, despite what certain media tries to tell us.
Amazing lady
Utter contempt indeed
If scofield's boy had been a girl, then the majority of men would have said, "Well done, son." And some women too.
Not if she was ugly
No, women don't say that sh*t
It’s a shame there is no one like KJK talking about men in the same position.
Do trans activists acknowledge the existence of AGP or no?
They can’t or the whole thing comes crumbling down
"ADP"?
what does that mean? help!
It has multiple meanings online!
It's AGP. Autogynephilia. A male's propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought or image of himself as female.
It's AGP. It means "autogynophilia" which is a pharaphilia where a heterosexual male is sexually aroused by dressing as, styling himself, and acting as a woman.
Autogynephilia (AGP)
For me it's a deal breaker... children or no children. I married a man... not a man pretending to be a woman!!!!
Guessing this was filmed before Huw was charged and we discovered some of the boys were 7-9 years old.
Demonic possession
About 20 years ago I worked with a trans woman with two children (about 10 or 12) who transitioned in her 40s. She was a 6’ built soldier in a past life. Watching what she went through I thought about how deeply she must have felt that existence was right for her. It couldn’t have been easy to stand out so obviously (she was not of feminine appearance in any substantial way) and suffer the stares and snickers and rejection that came her way.
It’s hard to get ones mind around the mental and bodily imperatives that lead a person to make that change but I don’t want to dismiss their reality, or that of the families that have to deal with it either.
They can have their reality, but they mustn't insist on everyone else joining in their delusion and enforce their reality lie.
There are few things more powerful than male sexuality and paraphilia.
should've changed to a woman in his 20s and had kids as a woman. see how that turns out. always the same - i'm a man, have kids, oh now i'm a crossdresser. well done, they're all the bloody same.
Wow, there is a lot of anger and hurt in this explanation on the wife's side; but it's far from a one sided story; there is a lot of hurt on both sides; and we do each other a great disservice to to presume the worst of the other, and to lash out like this.
USA TV SERIES: GRACE AND FRANKIE AND THIER HUSBANDS ARE QUEERS FOR THE 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE ! WHAT A FANTASTIC SHOW AND THE EFFECTS ON WOMEN OF BEING MARRIED TO A GAY MAN!
I need to write down her quotes!
That guy’s wig. Jesus…
the boy was ten, there are photos in the press of their first meeting in drama school. huw had serious child abuse content