I’m an alcoholic (dry) and I can confirm that some people really judge you for not drinking when you go out. I had friends who made fun of me. And one friend who straight up told me that I was selfish for not buying and gifting his party a 24 case of beers; because I should spend my money on the party. I was so annoyed because one of the really nice things about being sober was that I wasn’t broke all the time and could buy some nice things for myself like video games and cat trees.
Due to some family history, I don’t drink and I never have. The only people that have ever bother me about drinking are people I’m basically related to (one almost sister and my cousin’s husband. I don’t talk to the almost sister much anymore for various reasons, but the rest of the family who used to have mostly stopped)
@@caljones I feel you. It’s so weird that people who drink get so annoyed with us that don’t. Luckily thought, I’ve cut all the toxic people out at this age and only have friends who respect my choices.
I could take a few jokes, but if they are straight up bothered by you being sober then I don't think you need them as friends. Some of my friends are the heavy-drinker, party-goer, ex frat people type, and I have always been a one drink person. They never said a thing. They even exclude me of the bill splitting because they know it will be a lot for something I did not want - I just pay for my part. Sounds like I'm bragging about them because I am, I love them. These are the people you want to party with.
I wonder if some of these people started young and never stopped. I didn't drink at all until it was legal for me, and didn't drink much until older. Never have I pressured people to drink, and it feels like these people are projecting too hard. I will never get the "need to drink" to do things. The "I love dancing, but I need to drink first," or "you can't have fun without a drink." No, that is a literal you problem that should involve some self reflection.
For the dad math one, we were both crying because he can’t do math either. But I once had an AWFUL maths teacher who hated children and couldn’t teach so my dad tried his best to help me, we were getting the right answers. When I went back to class and did it my dad’s way and was getting the right answers, the teacher ripped my work out of my textbook and said “that’s not the way that I showed you,start over” so I crossed my arms and did nothing. Sometimes dads deliver and teachers do not
i had two different math teachers....same class, algebra 1. one was at the beginning, the other at the second half/end. i had passed the first class fine and even had fun with the teacher and liked him. but i had wanted to get a little more practice with some areas i had trouble with, like percentages in particular, but also the sine, cosine and tangent. this second teacher undid all of what i learned with the other one to teach "his way" and when i got more lost and confused, he got mad at me because i was failing. i dropped out of the class and took a special class to make up english credits instead since i didn't have enough to graduate.
I remember my dad helping me with a math assignment. We were supposed to be giving answers with "remainders," but my dad showed me how to do decimals. Which is ultimately right anyway. But the teacher gave me an "F" because we weren't taught decimals yet. It was so stupid! My brother once told me that he did math where the answer was a negative number, but at that grade level we weren't supposed to know about that yet and he and the other students were supposed to answer that it was impossible. He was right with negatives because he had logic. But the teacher failed his assignment. I recall he just stopped doing any homework for the teachers because of stupid stuff like that. Mainly when he missed one assignment and they called our parents assuming they were involved in our homework at home. They almost never were. Never with him, only a couple times with me ("Do your homework or you're grounded!"). It pissed him off so he stopped all together. I got lazy with homework too, but I do just fine on tests so they never got on my case.
@neamhcridhe6475 @esunablizzard6482 what is with all these dumb teachers that hate students? Apologies for what you both went through! They told us at our school when we were picking selective subjects to not “pick the subject for the teacher” BUT ITS THE TEACHER THAT MAKES OR BREAKS THE SUBJECT! 😂 You both deserved better than the teachers you got
I wouldn’t go to my dad for help with homework. Did that thrice and never again, instead of going straight to the point he would give 5 hour long lessons just for one question forgetting that i have other assignments to complete, give my practice questions expecting me to do them at that moment and me falling asleep in class the next day all because I didn’t get any sleep trying to complete my home work 😢.
my dad was awesome with math. he could do the most complicated equations, as long as it didn't involve letters. once the letters came in, he was lost. but you give him any normal multiplication, addition, subtraction or all of them combined and he would get it instantly. a shame he never graduated past 8th grade though.
I went on a date once and the guy got mad because I don't drink. All the way back to my car he was all "when someone makes the effort and buys wine for the table you drink it." Was the last time I talked to him
Why do I feel like he wanted to get you drunk so he could have “fun” with you. Glad you never talked to him again, that’s a red flag if he doesn’t respect your choices.
That's... disgusting on his part. Glad you never talked to him again because he clearly didn't respect you. I only selectively drink (trying to quit entirely) and NEVER would allow a man I don't know well to buy me a drink. It's a huge red flag if they are pushy about it.
@@shisurvives2635 some drinkers just generally get mad at non-drinkers in their company (maybe he felt bad for drinking 'alone' and at the same time really wanted to drink). Still, things would never work out with someone like that. Good riddance
I used to be a bartender, for anyone who doesn't drink, most of us are happy to fake your drink to look alcoholic. Sometimes that's easier than everyone asking you why you aren't drinking. We can make you a mocktail (aka virgin drink) that looks and even tastes like a mixed drink, or it can be as simple as putting it in a different glass and adding a slice of fruit! People see a lime or lemon wedge and will just assume it's alcoholic. We also carried the non-alcoholic beer at every place I've worked, which you may be surprised how much we'd sell. So don't be afraid to ask your bartender, they're usually happy to help and know lots of tricks. If you need an easy excuse that people won't question, just say you're the designated driver, as people tend to respect that at least. 💗
I can actually say with complete honesty that I never treated my mother like that one clip. Like I may have been a little snot but I was never like that ever. I loved and respected my mom cause she loved and respected me.
One time I told my mom that a co-worker thinks I look like one of the local actresses and literally answered, "She just needs glasses." EMOTIONAL DAMAGE 😅
A TSA agent once tried to take tampons away from my mom at baggage check. It was the stupidest thing ever. She just looked at him and said "wtf and I going to do? Stab someone with it?" He eventually let it go. I get that 9/11 happened in NYC, but the TSA agents there are rude for no reason.
I think some of them are just thieves. They see something on their shopping list and just confiscate it for bullshit reasons. I don't believe for a second anyone is stupid enough to think tampons are dangerous weapons.
@@tommoore2012 but to cause a ruckus over TAMPONS??? That’s a bit much dont you think? Don’t get me wrong, I agree but if they are going to let that turn them into meaner people I would hope they give themselves a chance to get a job that makes them happy, but I know that is also a privilege
As a wheelchair user, travelling alone at airports is certainly an experience. Luckily there are some lovely people that work doing support for disabled people at every airport and without them I would never be brave enough to enter the terminal. So if there's anyone reading this who does that job, thank you. You're invaluable and appreciated 💜💜
Don't go to Cayo Coco. Left us in an old lounge, food, water, duty free up a steep staircase and the elevator and escalators were broken. Didn't even have access to a working washroom. Oh.. and boarded us during general boarding. I can walk for short periods, bad foot, so thankfully I only annoyed people because I am so slow going up stairs into the plane. Thanks Sunwing for the cherry on top of the whole crap "vacation".
@@littlelizzi3135 and that wasn't even the worst part .. It was horrible. And at the end of the week from hell AND the flight being delayed for 5.5 hours didn't help. Argh!
When I was growing up, every time my mom bragged about me to anyone my things went bad. So as an adult, whenever anything in my life fell apart, I would call her and ask, who tf did you tell? 🤣🤣🤣
I was that friend who was insanely uncomfortable when I'd see the way some of my friends spoke to their parents. I'd be the weird one taking my shoes off at the door, offering to help with dinner, clearing my plate after asking to be excused & preparing to help clean up. The next day my friends would be so mad at me because their parents realizing not all teenage girls are complete bitches usually sprouted some new ground rules at home.
Me too. I moved to a wealthy & primarily white neighborhood when I was 13. I couldn't believe how kids spoke to their parents. My 5'2" Puertorican mother could silence a room with a look. I think they were afraid to find out WHY I was so well behaved
Same. Peers who were openly disrespectful to their parents made me so uncomfortable. My mom would eat those brats for breakfast if she was their mother.
I have more guy friends, but I do similar stuff when I hang over their house. They don't insist I do it (even though I like doing it) but there's also a common understanding of how our parents grow us pertaining to "visiting someone's house". So we all clean up when we agree to leave and we'll pair up to wash any dishes we used. It's really just about manners at the end of the day though 😭
I never ever spoke to my Mom like that. She would have killed me with her bare hands. I actually stopped hanging out with a few friends because they acted like that to their parents. If they disrespect their parents they are probably gonna disrespect you.
I’m just a British girl and I would never speak to my mum like that, ever. I’m upset by the thought that Charlotte thinks that’s pretty relatable because it stressed me out.
I had a complete meltdown going through TSA. They were yelling, I was by myself (my husband usually keeps me grounded and able to function normally). I froze like a scared rabbit and silently, tears began to flow. I don't remember much after that, but I do remember a very kind 20-something guy who was SUPER helpful and got me through it. Bless his heart!
Doing math with my dad usually involved power tools. One of my core memories: when I disagreed with my 2nd grade teacher about whether the perimeter of the yard should be measured in yards or miles, my dad pulled out one of those massive contractor tape measures and helped me measure our yard. It wound up being a quarter mile around.
I was a bridesmaid for a “friend” 13 years ago. My baby was 14 months old. I didn’t want to be a bridesmaid as I had never had a good experience in the past but thought I would do something for me and it would be fun as we knew eachother for years. I was nursing and she knew that. I had told her I was not going to drink and she respected that. Unfortunately it was the wedding party. I was bullied, peer pressured, told I was a prude. Then her aunt threw up on me and that was the stag. The wedding I was ignored and I didn’t go to the gift opening as her friends were so mean to me. None of them had kids. Years later when she had a baby she apologized and said she felt horrible but she and I are not friends now. What if I was a recovering alcoholic? Me not wanting to drink because I was nursing was my choice. Still mad to this day.
Mean people do be mean and self centred. Great for you for dropping her as a friend. All those years you were friends happened, friendship reached it's expiry date.
Ive never been able to drink because I have epilepsy and I can't drink on my medication. When I was in my early 20s I would always try to be patient with people who pressured me and just divert the conversation. Now I'm 30 and I just tell them, "I COULD drink, but I would probably have a seizure because I'd be skipping my meds." Typically it shuts them right up. Never push people to drink when they say they don't, y'all.
My mum nearly got arrested at Orlando airport for having a "knife". They drew guns and everything. It was terrifying. We're Scottish and none of us had ever seen a gun before (or since!) This was in 2005 so America was still completely panicked. I hope it's calmed a bit since then! It was a hairbrush btw.
@@Supersoccerchicfor good reason.....but yes, I agree it's sad that we have to worry about these things in the first place. If only there weren't tons of crazy people trying to blow shit up here 🙃
@@foodiediaries8785 The bad thing is that they have confiscated many water bottles, as for detecting terrorists, meh. Airport security is a cumbersome illusion. The real job is done by other agencies.
In india, there is no concept of teens. You are treated as a kid into your 20s and, in many cases, even into your 50s...& if you spoke like that, you will be branded as a rude disrespect that whole family, society will come after you..sometimes even subject you to exorcism thinking it's devil making you speak like that..😂😅
That doorbell one.....this is one of the reasons why I love the dark curtain I have in the hallway, so I can peek to see who is at the door without them noticing me. 😂
The airport bit hit me harder than it should have XD Had flashbacks to when me and my sister were tweens and we were flying as unaccompanied minors to meet our grandparents. Our mom packed each of us those huge gallon ziploc bags full of our favorite snacks for the week visit/plane flight (think fruit by the foot, goldfish crackers, zebra cakes, swiss rolls, gushers etc) Well we went through security at the airport and the tsa agent checked our bags and pulled my snack bag out of my backpack and was like "Oh, well I'll have to confiscate these." And 11 year old me was having a panic attack thinking "No! Not my snacks!" He didn't take them and put the bag back in my backpack and sent us on our way. Only as an adult do I see that he was joking, but young me was so shaken and traumatized XD
If I had been in your shoes, I would have been terrified, as an 11year old. I would be thinking maybe there was some beef jerky in there, therefore that I would somehow be in trouble with the law. I didn't really know the difference between immigration, security checks and quarantine back then.
I was traumatised when leaving America after visiting for a holiday. My parents had gone ahead, so I was 50 metres or so behind them. The guy checking my ticket said that there was a problem, and I started freaking out, trying to signal to my parents. He then said “Your ticket says premium economy, when you are clearly first class”. Talk about the wrong time to flirt with someone. I was so stressed.
@@JCHK. That's a really fucked up way of trying to flirt with someone. Especially at an Airport. The guy never should have said that. But please tell me you turned him down for giving you anxiety
I didn’t dare. My mom was older and going through menopause whilst I was going through puberty. My older siblings who had moved out by then had no idea why my dad and I were so close.
I was taken aback when security asked me to step on the scale. I was like, I know I ate bad on vacation but I know I didn't gain that much. Then realized that I was getting on a propeller plane that sits 5. I regretted that Cinnabon I had that morning. 😂😂
I had to fly with my brother and father's cremated remains. The TSA person was really nice and explained everything to me and my stepbrother. It turned an emotional situation into something that was not awful.
That13-year-old girl who never stopped screaming and talking and singing and laughing until her vocal cord damage made her sound like a 260-year-old trucker with a three-pack-a-day habit. You know who you are.
Ugh, I know. Each of my bullies were like this to varying degrees. But the main bully was the most accurate. Seems like the more of these traits they express, the more of a b**** they are to those they view as less than when no one else is looking.🤦🏼♀️😭
I already know how easily I could get annoyed during highschool especially from all the stress, and I know had this type of brat came into class late and acted just like that, *there was going to be a problem*
I've been out of high school for, (dare I say), 20 years next summer 😬 and even then we had girls acting just like this. They always think everyone likes them and all the boys want them, truth is, no one wants to be around that person.
I will never forget the TSA agent that made me cry when I was 10. I used to travel alone a lot and this particular time I was bringing coffee to my grandfather in a state where they don’t have that coffee. I went through TSA and they yelled at me , stopped me and pulled me to the side mind you at this point I had not reunited with my person who walked me through the airport because I was under the age of 13 they meet you on the other side of TSA once you get through. After they yelled at me for like 10 minutes, asking me what was in the coffee they opened up the sealed packages of coffee and drug tested them multiple times. Three different drug test they rub the wand on the outside, a wand inside the bag they took some of the coffee out put it in a machine, they put some coffee in a bag with liquid shook it up handed me the open bags of coffee and said you’re good. I was so terrified and so confused. I guess they thought 10 year old me was trying to smuggle drugs. Apparently I found out later on that people like to put drugs in coffee because it can cover the smell.
TSA agents could be assholes! No need to treat a 10 yr old like that. They should of been fired! We don’t need TSA agents anymore they need to go back to being just plain security guards not federal.
@@SandraMartinez-os3hu I understand if they have protocol to search it, but they need to learn how to deal with children who travel alone, and be more sensitive. Because sadly some people do use children to transport drugs, They just need to be more educated.
Can totally relate. I was flying by myself one time & feeling super anxious, so for some reason when I went through the body scan thing I moved my arms, which led to the whole line being stopped & I was pulled out for a (VERY thorough) pat down in front of everybody. I was totally exposed at one point & on the verge of tears, but they told me if I didn’t consent I would have to be detained & would miss my flight. WORST FLYING EXPERIENCE EVER
I was half way through a 14 hour flight from Heathrow, and found a lighter in my bag. I didn't know it was even in there and must have been from a previous trip. Anyway, the airline had specifically stated no lighters and matches or things of that nature on board, for obvious reasons, yet I got through customs with it! This still haunts me to this very day!!
As a former TSA officer: I was regularly accused of being a thief and a perv by travelers who didn't bother to learn the rules before showing up. I was called other rude names when I wouldn't let people skip the line just because they were late. We chose our shifts in order of seniority so most new people started work between 2-5am. Management would constantly change requirements and HR was a joke. Most people there are dying inside. 😬
I am always polite to TSA. "Insults to the cook may be hazardous to your health." Plus having worked customer service, people are a-holes. Don't treat the service people like crap.
Well I actually had this old guy who had his older female coworker pat me down because I was wearing a Chevron print dress...I asked another TSA agent at a different airport and she was also weirded out by that. She said that shouldn't have happened. The one who patted me down was even asking him why she had to pat me down. I felt violated and I had my 6 month old with me too. My mom was there and asked can I ask you why you're patting down my daughter? They legit didn't say why. Edit: had another instance where the TSA guy was telling my husband to go ahead of me when he was helping me break down the stroller since we had two littles. Rude much? Like me doing everything by myself while having to watch the kids was going to make the line go faster.
Really? That's sad. Also, I hate the random checks that they do. I had that happen when my mom, myself and my grandma went to Florida about 10 years ago, before Covid happened. My grandma was randomly selected to do a body check and that was so stupid and unnecessary. She also had to throw away some really expensive lotion and shampoo or something but that was her own fault because she accidentally put it in her carry-on instead of her checked bag. I was amazed she didn't think it through and the product was worth a lot of money too. TSA are crazy. I hope when I fly again, I don't get "randomly selected" for a search. if they do, I'll comply but I don't want that happening.
I was never like that to my mom. She was super mean and abusive. If I even said no to her, she would run after me with a wooden spoon screaming, “How dare you defy me”. Now that I’m an adult, she doesn’t get why I don’t talk to her.
I completely relate to the first one! I stopped chewing my mini chocolate donut and just stared! Then, you know, I finished my donut because I'm not a monster.
I can safely say I was not that way to my mom, or any parental figure, but I most definitely has friends were that way. It always gave me so much anxiety when I would witness a friend talking to their parents like that, and in absolute shock that they did that, and their parents did nothing to reprimand them. 😮
I once made the mistake of answering the door to Jehovah’s witnesses……. They proceeded to show up every single week until one day, my brother (who is openly gay) greeted them at the door with an open robe holding a bottle wine. Asking them in for a glass. As they ran for dear life he yelled “Well, wine was good enough for Jesus, but not you? See you next week darlings!!!” Needless to say, they never returned🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
i accidentally? made it so the jehovah's witness never visited my mom again :'D ...... i was taking care of her dogs and they knocked on the door, i answered with a ''hellooo!'' and apperently i sounded german? cuz they started staring at me and asking if i spoke english..... i said yes, but that i also speak danish (the country we were in)..... they looked embarresed af and just politely excused themselves and drove off, was hilarious
My boyfriend played with them for months 😂 they believed he has 3 twin brother and a sister and wife....at the age of 23... Acting class was worth it, they stopped after we played a heated argument behind the closed door 🤣
To the kids who cursed at their parents...we were NOT all those people. Some of us treated out parents with respect because as soon as we said something like that, they'd smack the living shit out of us and taught us the boundaries one way or another. SO happy to say my freshman college age daughter never acted this way either. I literally can't laugh at that. I just cant. But otherwise, brilliant :)
I'd see stories of these out of control gremlins and I think to myself that if I tried to do one of those things as a child, my mom would make sure that was the *last time* I ever did it
Every girl I knew in high school had some kind of Main Character Syndrome at some point. . .even the really quiet ones! (They just had it when they happened to be in a class with their crush or at whatever after-school activity they felt most comfortable in!) Myself included. I knew a few of these types in college too who never really grew out of it. Still continue to encounter these folks in grad school and beyond. . .typically in something to do with music or the arts though.
First video, happened to me during I was in college. Ate healthy, worked out regularly which also helped cleared my skin. Now I'm almost in my 30s, gained weight, getting acne more for some reason, and stopped working out at all. I just started this morning even if it's 15 to 20 mins of light workout. I feel like that's a huge progress already
Comparison is the thief of joy, sometimes even when we compare ourselves to our younger selves. All you can do is be better today than you were yesterday and it sounds like that is what your are aiming for. I don’t like blaming other stuff in my life because it gives away what little power I have in my life. So instead, I find the low hanging fruit. What is the one thing I can do today that could easily be done every day, incorporated into my routine, that will make my life better? There is no one size fits all approach, unfortunately. One thing I have found is the only thing that works for improvement long term, is what works for YOU and that you can maintain because at the end of the day, you are the one consistent agent of change in your life.
Honestly due to how mean my father was with homework, I straight up stopped asking him after fourth grade because I was SOBBING at the end. I was so upset and I felt so stupid, to the point that for the next 8 years I had trouble asking for help for anything :D *Truly this wasnt the only reason why I had trouble asking. But this is one of the many.*
I feel you Nyx... I come from a French-Canadian family. My mother is fluent in French, but never spoke it to us kids. Consequently when I started taking French in school... I went to her for help. She wondered why I couldn't speak French or have the right accent...."I was French-Canadian after all." She thought I would learn it through osmosis! She treated me like I was stupid and refused to help me. (I know now that she was embarrassed as my inability reflected on her as a parent.) She became good friends with my French teacher ... and he could never figure out why I was not getting more confident in my French speaking... as "I had such a great mom to practice with."🙄 I also learned not to ask for help or speak up... I was afraid of being humiliated and called stupid.
San wish. My dad was super controlling over my homework sand I never got my own choices. I was so glad when I got to secondary school when I got to do my homework.
Charlotte!!!! I was going through some of your old videos after watching this one and I see such a glow from you now that wasn’t there a year ago. I can’t tell you enough how amazing it is to see you have what I can only describe as light, joy, just beauty in you! Your amazing and I hope you have a great day!❤️❤️❤️
I was never the kid who was mean to my mom because I would've been slapped until my face was "on the other side of (my) head"! I went through my " teen" years in my 20's when I had my own place and a great paying job! AND free health insurance! True story
Samsies!! My mom was and is extremely close to me. Worst I did was get caught smoking, and I swear I thought she was going to have a heart attack right then and there. Lol I'm 51 now. She's 70 and we're closer than ever.
@@The_Tumbler_Witch ah I haven’t seen mine in 10 years… but I skipped school one time, ever. and she punished me hardcore, where the school didn’t (I was bullied quite badly and the head said he understood why I’d skipped and let it go).
No joke, I pulled away from a friendship because she told her WONDERFUL mother "I hope you get hit by a truck and die." I was tf OUTIE 5000 of that friendship.
I never, ever spoke to my mom like that. I had a friend who did and I felt SO awful over there. Never went to her house ever again. I can't imagine ever talking to my mom like that.
Same. But none of my friends were mean to their parents either, I guess I was lucky to land in a friendship group of respectful girls. Also, my Mum was so strict, an attitude wouldn't be worth the punishment lol
I would NEVER have been that rude or disrespectful to my mom. I had a friend who did and it made me SO UNCOMFORTABLE. I was always extra nice and helpful to her mom because I felt so bad for her.
The girl who’s late reminds me of a pretentious girl from my High school. one time she was 20 minutes late to class and as she walked in she interrupted the lesson and to loudly say “sorry I’m late, I got a record deal!” She said it so casually too like she was trying to not make a big deal out of it but clearly wanted everyone to know. Nobody cared or said anything (it was the first class of the day) and the teacher just said “good for you” before going back to the lesson. Looked her up, 10 years later and it doesn’t look like anything came from that “record deal” (she was an ok singer btw)
I was a pretty chill teenager and never went through a rebellious phase and didn't give my parents any attitude (I internalized all my whoe). I can be a bit snippy sometimes but that is just towards any one I am close with because I feel more comfortable with them. Not even my sister who actually went through a slight rebellious stage ever spoke to our parents like that. That is the attitude someone gives their parents if they want to get whopped in our family.
My dad is from Iceland, and so ive been there many times while growing up. LAst time i went i was 13, we were coming back in to the states through the Baltimore Airport. The security people forcefully separated me (a very stressed, anxious, autistic kid) from my parents to fill out immigration(?) papers or something. I was half-way crying and shaking and sweating and I didnt understand why my parents didnt ask for me. I filled out the paper work and finally got through, but oh man. i was terrified. It was after 9-11 so every TSA agent had a firecracker up their butts about everything. Honestly ruined my desire to fly anywhere. Any other time i've flown i've been in full panic mode. Oh i also flew to iceland alone once and got to watch a TSA agent tackle and beat a lady into the ground for not removing her jewelry while they were checking my bags. I think it was also at the Baltimore airport. At this rate. i think i'll just Astral Project to Iceland.
I had a guy friend who had implied that we might be more than friends, and I was thinkin' about it, when he introduced me to his parents. He was so mean to them, like really mean. His dad had cooked this awesome, authentic Italian meal (which he whined about because he'd wanted something else), and his mother and I talked about our favorite fish (she had an epic aquarium set up) during dinner. I really liked his parents, they were funny, cultured, well-travelled, and had great stories. He, on the other hand, could not stand that I liked his "stupid parents", and he said they were "worthless" to their faces! We weren't friends after that. I did, however, friend his mother on Facebook several years later. She's a widow now (a few years back) and she's kept it up with the fish - she has a koi pond, which is so damned cool. As for him...eh, who TF cares, he's probably still a spoiled little jerk at 43. HYPER relate to the doorbell. I'm a millennial and will literally turn off lights and stay still until the coast is clear.
Once visited family in Oklahoma, they gave me a terracotta tortilla warmer and wrapped it up really well with bubble wrap. Cut to three days later, airport security pulling it out of my suitcase and confronting me, "Ma'am, can you explain this?!?!?!" like it was a package of drugs 😂
I have a really embarrassing story about answering the door as a millennial. I was eating the Halloween “Boo Batter” from cold stone. It is black ice cream (so good though). Literally just enjoying my snack on a Saturday. And some Mormon boys came knocking on my door. So I chatted with them. COMPLETELY OBLIVIOUS to the fact that my mouth was LITERALLY BLACK!!! I realized this AFTER I shut the door from taking to them. I looked at my fiancé and freaked out. Looked at myself on my phone camera and literally died inside. Those poor boys probably thought I was possessed.
I am 60 and single, my mom 79 still married (poor dad, lol). She road me all my life about my weight and looks. She still drops those little hints and smiles and acts like she is so in shape and looks so great. Well, out of respect I don't say much, but I would love to say "You know that face lift you got years ago still didn't help you out in any way. And oh, your body could use some duck tape to hold it together" LOL! I am fine with who I am and have no problem with being me. That is all that matters life. Be yourself and not what others think you should be.
@@tommoore2012 And what if direct antagonism doesn't actually help people care about their health, but rather make them feel shitty and continue the spiral? What then? What would you say?
I had to laugh Viki.... I'm the same age and although my mom is 83... she said/did the same things all the time. She used to buy me gifts of clothing 1 size too small... to motivate and inspire me... and then would say things like.."Are you sure you want to wear that??". No matter what is on my plate food wise... she would always say "Are you sure wou want to eat that ." Now that I eat whole, clean foods... she always says what an inconvenience it is to make meals when I visit. (Even though I bring all my own food and help prepare meals). "It's always something with you!" It's a NO-WIN situation. I even used to let her complaining about my healthy food and eating habits derail me from my health journey... I don't do that anymore! We still have 30-40 years to enjoy life... let's go for it!!🎉
@@mycreativeheart4159 It is funny how many of us experience the same things and don't realize it. I love my mom so much that I did not treat my son the way she treated me. I guess we can also learn and pass forward the good to our own kids.
I'm so sorry your mom is like that, it isn't right. But I'm glad you are happy and comfortable with who you are and rose above that. No one is perfect and we all have strengths and weaknesses. Even if we normally have good self esteem, we all have bad days when we are feeling low. The bad days can make the good days feel even better, so there is that. 😊
The one about being a b-word as a teen, that wasn't me. I never went through the "terrible two" or was mean as a teen. Not sure if has to do with the fact that I have autism, but from the time I started kindergarten at 4, my mind was basically 100% focused on getting through the day and then I fell asleep at home. So, maybe I didn't have enough energy, or my mental capacity was too drained?
Bingo. I had the same issues. I think the only time I became mean was when someone woke me (I am not friendly when being forced awake), which once I was fully awake I always felt bad about it.
I was mostly mean because for some reason my mom would put to much milk in my chai in the morning. She got better but I still prefer my dad making it if I can’t make it myself.
@@KarmatheCorgi There is a difference between the rare disciplinary smack and real physical abuse. So many people seem to confuse the two. I'm sure I'll end up getting lambasted for this, but sometimes it's necessary. Sometimes you exhaust every alternate form of discipline, and literally the only thing you can do to get the kid to listen and stop misbehaving is to give them a swat. As long as it's a rare last resort, and as long as it doesn't leave any marks, I see nothing wrong with it.
Exactly my situation with a knife at airport security 🤣 I was a teenager travelling with my mom. I carried a pocket knife in my backpack in case we bought fruit and decided to eat them. But I forgot to put it into our checked-in luggage and it was not in an obvious pocket. When security lady couldn't find it, I wanted to help and direct her, but she was really aggressive with me. Since then I'm feeling anxious every time I go through security. But of course I understand her.
I was flying alone in '03 and was wearing a long trench coat. I didn't even get to join the line. As soon as the TSA Agent saw me from a distance, she was waving me over. 😂 I laughed and chatted the whole time. They searched everything (i had 5 books stacked together in the carry on). They were polite and professional. I made it as easy as possible for us all and thanked them for their hard work. I still laugh about it.
Charlotte, if I fixed my mouth to talk to my momma like that I would've been slapped into a parallel universe. 😂 Had a LOT of friends who spoke that way to their parents, though, and I always felt like a deer in headlights when it happened.
Years ago my college-age cousin was with a group of people she didn't know well and this main character girl was emphatically explaining how her sociology class changed her life, being really over the top etc and when she stopped talking my cousin simply asked: 'and did you come?'
I went to high school in the 90's and I'm even more grateful I did. I did not go to school with anyone in that last scene. She would not have had the needed audience of the time because we were pretty apathetic. Also the generations answering the door is pretty accurate. I just ignore it. If I had a Ring I'd check it. My sister will pretend she doesn't exist. We're only a year a part.
I had an airport worker who was SO INCREDIBLY MEAN TO ME for no reason I started crying in the airport lol. I went to go walk onto the flight and she basically arm barred me and told me to step back. I asked her why and she said “BECAUSE I SAID SO” and she proceeded to let everyone on the plane before me while she scowled at me. She acted like I murdered her first born but I had never met this lady!!!!! Edit; this was at the Billy bishop airport In Toronto
Loving your sleep is a virgo trait. My husband once woke me up because a tornado was spotted near us. I got up and screamed at him. "Why can't you just let me die in my sleep, like everyone dreams of going." I said some more mean stuff and went back to bed. I love him so much.
My Virgo kiddo is just like that, a sleepy head and exactly like you stated, when he is woken up, his face says it all. 🤭😂 He put a Grinch frown and pouty lips until he can let his head rest in the pillow again.
Me as the mom of a 22 year old: Yeah, she’s doing great! She’s an entrepreneur. I’m so proud of her. Me to my 22 year as she’s having another anxiety attack: You’re doing fine!! No one has it figured out!! I still love you!!
Omg that POV of your dad helping with homework hit so hard. When I was learning to read my dad would yell at me for not knowing words I had never seen written before. He made me cry so hard when I was 5 because I couldn't understand how to read the word "ocean". That's a hard word to try and figure out when you've never seen it spelled out before and instead of telling me what it was he just yelled at me for not being able to understand. He would also yell at me for getting words wrong (I'm dyslexic) and he said that I was just a "lazy reader" Edit: he also yelled at me in kindergarten for not understanding a riddle he gave me to help me with my homework. It was a worksheet where different math answers were associated with letters to spell something out. The answer was "Peanut butter". The riddle he gave me was "It's a type of butter that's brown" what 5 year old would logically come to the conclusion of peanut butter? I was standing there thinking about a brown stick of frickin butter and confused af and he was mad that a child that could barely read didn't understand him
I really related with that drinkers/non drinkers one, except with coffee. I don't drink coffee and everyone's like "WHAT!!!?? How can you not drink coffee!? Aren't you grown up? (I'm 43, but... no?...) I am not even myself until I get a cup of coffee in the morning!" Well, I am myself when I wake up, and I can stay awake all day by just being me. Why would I wanna trade that away? xD Thanks for uploading! Greetings from Sweden, the country with the most coffee drinking persons per capita, second only to Finland
@@phoebesmith8154 Certainly!! It's an easy three step process! 1: Have your mom letting you taste coffee when you're four or five. 2: Think it's yucky. 3: Don't drink it again. Best wishes!!! 😁😁❤️
Hej! We came to visit Sweden from England, and I was so desperate for a cup of tea, everyone only had coffee 😭 I ended up asking my air bnb host for a black tea and they bought me over lots of herbal teas and I was like thank you so much but inside I was like 😭😭😭😭 so I ended up drinking blueberry tea with milk! 😂
I literally went through a hellish, highly abusive summer bootcamp for math with my NF. It was so bad my mother sent me to regular summer camp for the last two weeks of summer cuz he was so abusive and he slipped up and acted like that towards me in front of her. Was not conducive to an ADHD person to learn math, to be sure. I only did well in math afterwards cuz I was terrified to do badly and him take over 'teaching' me again.
I once went to a party, and I was having a good time. Someone asked me whether I wanted a beer, I said “no thanks, I don’t drink”, their faces 😳, “how is it that you’re this happy and having so much fun?”. Like I need a drink to have fun. Truth is, I tried alcohol and just felt meh about it, so now I don’t drink 🤷🏾♀️.
Really? I don't relate to the last girl and I honestly hated that she had an iced coffee and I didn't. That's all I was jealous of, honestly. Also, even if I was that girl who had to have a coffee, I would have gotten up earlier and made sure I was still on time for class and not be a complete bimbo who's a loser. I would also make sure I had enough time to go to Starbucks or wherever and get my coffee and then go to class but I wouldn't be late. That's rude and disrespectful. I was late plenty without the coffee, honestly and I thought it was tacky anyway. Those girls are losers who will never accomplish anything in their lives.
The one where the person is unnecessarily mean to their parents, I was the friend watching it happen and it was so awkward. I wanted to leave so bad. 😂
I once got stopped for a secondary search by TSA because when I left from visiting my mom, she gave me large pickle & a slice of homemade pound cake. I put them in my carry on bag on top of a book. The TSA agent was cool he and I both laugh when he opened my bag and he saw what was in the bag. I called my mom when I got to my gate and told she almost got me put on the "no fly" list. She just laugh and blame it on my book. To this day I triple check my carry on to make sure I have everything is correct.
I have a friend with PTSD and because of that she has a lot of trouble sleeping. So whenever she falls asleep when were together I let her sleep cause she needs it and it makes me really happy that she trusts me that much.
I can say, 100%, that I NEVER spoke to or yelled at my mother like she was a friend or acquaintance. I can’t even imagine acting that way toward the woman who raised, fed, and cared for me. And I’d have lost a few teeth, if I had. lol. No, my parents raised us well. I didn’t get snotty with anyone. It’s just rude.
The main character girl one ARG! Those were my freaking bullies in high school, and for them, that stupid school catered to their BS. They were pampered and praised and given leeway in everything cause they were friends with the school founder's granddaughter. I honestly just shoved my nose into books to avoid them. Did exploit their stupidity for awhile before the teachers caught on though...
I had a friend in middle school who was incredibly mean to her mother. And I don't mean teenage-mean. She was friggin awful and said some really nasty things. Her mother was a single-mom and tried her very best, had a 9-5 and gave her so much and spent little to nothing on herself. It was always so awkward visiting their home. The summer we went our separate ways to different high-schools I heard from my aunt, who knew them, that the mother un-alived herself. I know you can't really blame a child and that she probably blames herself as it is. But I'd lie if I said I didn't feel some resentment some time after I got the news. It's just a horrible situation. Be kind to your parents. Give them a hug every now and then and make sure they know you love them.
I used to try to teach my sister how to do Maths. She would be bawling by the end of it. I literally could not figure out how she did not understand decimals and fractions. Later, I found out that I was just naturally gifted at Maths so there was no way I would have been able to explain to her how to do something I could just instinctively "see". It was like trying to teach a colourblind person how to see red.
@@battlebear437 Oh, I hope they don't make you feel bad because they are in the minority. A lot of the time people who think they are bad a maths are actually average at maths, they are just comparing themselves to people who are gifted at maths. I saw that a lot when I was a teacher. Kids who would be hyper-stressed because they were constantly being compared to gifted siblings when, in fact, they were actually good at maths just not brilliant.
@@3scarybunnies211 as adults now, I really am okay with it. It was definitely more difficult in a small town school where all the teachers knew who we were. “Oh! Your so-and-so’s sister? You’d do really good in this class!” Uh no. Basic math? You betcha. Anything more than that? Oh heck no!
@@battlebear437 I think my sister got the same comments. She was not as good as me at everything. It must have been hard for her. Luckily though, I was in year 12 when she just started high school in year 7 so there were some teachers who did not know both of us. We are in Australia btw so we don't have a middle school.
OMFG CHARLOTTE I LOVE YOU SOO FUKKIN MUCH I WATCH YOU EVERYDAY N UR PERSONALITY IS THE BEST I WISH MORE PPL WERE LIKE YOU PLEASE DON'T EVER LEAVE RUclips!!
The airport security thing reminds me of this one time, I went to a government building for my marriage certificate and almost forgot I left an exacto knife in my purse for an art project😬
I never talked like that to my mum. We've always get along and we're close. She was (and still is) my safe haven when I was bullied, without her I doubt I would've made it. And my mum hasn't never called me fat etc. I'm very lucky to have her as my mum. Btw, I love your shirt. It's cool.
I had to hold my moms crutches once in an airport due to her sitting in the wheelshair. The people at security was so nice and was so soft with me, even after I told them I just had them for my mom. They haeve always been so cute and nice!
I’m an alcoholic (dry) and I can confirm that some people really judge you for not drinking when you go out. I had friends who made fun of me. And one friend who straight up told me that I was selfish for not buying and gifting his party a 24 case of beers; because I should spend my money on the party. I was so annoyed because one of the really nice things about being sober was that I wasn’t broke all the time and could buy some nice things for myself like video games and cat trees.
Due to some family history, I don’t drink and I never have. The only people that have ever bother me about drinking are people I’m basically related to (one almost sister and my cousin’s husband. I don’t talk to the almost sister much anymore for various reasons, but the rest of the family who used to have mostly stopped)
@@caljones I feel you. It’s so weird that people who drink get so annoyed with us that don’t. Luckily thought, I’ve cut all the toxic people out at this age and only have friends who respect my choices.
Video games and cat trees are the best! 😼
I could take a few jokes, but if they are straight up bothered by you being sober then I don't think you need them as friends. Some of my friends are the heavy-drinker, party-goer, ex frat people type, and I have always been a one drink person. They never said a thing. They even exclude me of the bill splitting because they know it will be a lot for something I did not want - I just pay for my part. Sounds like I'm bragging about them because I am, I love them. These are the people you want to party with.
I wonder if some of these people started young and never stopped. I didn't drink at all until it was legal for me, and didn't drink much until older. Never have I pressured people to drink, and it feels like these people are projecting too hard. I will never get the "need to drink" to do things. The "I love dancing, but I need to drink first," or "you can't have fun without a drink." No, that is a literal you problem that should involve some self reflection.
For the dad math one, we were both crying because he can’t do math either. But I once had an AWFUL maths teacher who hated children and couldn’t teach so my dad tried his best to help me, we were getting the right answers. When I went back to class and did it my dad’s way and was getting the right answers, the teacher ripped my work out of my textbook and said “that’s not the way that I showed you,start over” so I crossed my arms and did nothing. Sometimes dads deliver and teachers do not
i had two different math teachers....same class, algebra 1. one was at the beginning, the other at the second half/end. i had passed the first class fine and even had fun with the teacher and liked him. but i had wanted to get a little more practice with some areas i had trouble with, like percentages in particular, but also the sine, cosine and tangent. this second teacher undid all of what i learned with the other one to teach "his way" and when i got more lost and confused, he got mad at me because i was failing. i dropped out of the class and took a special class to make up english credits instead since i didn't have enough to graduate.
I remember my dad helping me with a math assignment. We were supposed to be giving answers with "remainders," but my dad showed me how to do decimals. Which is ultimately right anyway. But the teacher gave me an "F" because we weren't taught decimals yet. It was so stupid! My brother once told me that he did math where the answer was a negative number, but at that grade level we weren't supposed to know about that yet and he and the other students were supposed to answer that it was impossible. He was right with negatives because he had logic. But the teacher failed his assignment. I recall he just stopped doing any homework for the teachers because of stupid stuff like that. Mainly when he missed one assignment and they called our parents assuming they were involved in our homework at home. They almost never were. Never with him, only a couple times with me ("Do your homework or you're grounded!"). It pissed him off so he stopped all together. I got lazy with homework too, but I do just fine on tests so they never got on my case.
@neamhcridhe6475 @esunablizzard6482 what is with all these dumb teachers that hate students? Apologies for what you both went through! They told us at our school when we were picking selective subjects to not “pick the subject for the teacher” BUT ITS THE TEACHER THAT MAKES OR BREAKS THE SUBJECT! 😂 You both deserved better than the teachers you got
I wouldn’t go to my dad for help with homework. Did that thrice and never again, instead of going straight to the point he would give 5 hour long lessons just for one question forgetting that i have other assignments to complete, give my practice questions expecting me to do them at that moment and me falling asleep in class the next day all because I didn’t get any sleep trying to complete my home work 😢.
my dad was awesome with math. he could do the most complicated equations, as long as it didn't involve letters. once the letters came in, he was lost. but you give him any normal multiplication, addition, subtraction or all of them combined and he would get it instantly. a shame he never graduated past 8th grade though.
I went on a date once and the guy got mad because I don't drink. All the way back to my car he was all "when someone makes the effort and buys wine for the table you drink it." Was the last time I talked to him
Entitled loser needs to go on a date with himself.
Why do I feel like he wanted to get you drunk so he could have “fun” with you. Glad you never talked to him again, that’s a red flag if he doesn’t respect your choices.
@@lokicooper4690 usually that's exactly what it is. I don't see why a date would get mad about you not drinking otherwise 💀
That's... disgusting on his part. Glad you never talked to him again because he clearly didn't respect you. I only selectively drink (trying to quit entirely) and NEVER would allow a man I don't know well to buy me a drink. It's a huge red flag if they are pushy about it.
@@shisurvives2635 some drinkers just generally get mad at non-drinkers in their company (maybe he felt bad for drinking 'alone' and at the same time really wanted to drink). Still, things would never work out with someone like that. Good riddance
I used to be a bartender, for anyone who doesn't drink, most of us are happy to fake your drink to look alcoholic. Sometimes that's easier than everyone asking you why you aren't drinking. We can make you a mocktail (aka virgin drink) that looks and even tastes like a mixed drink, or it can be as simple as putting it in a different glass and adding a slice of fruit! People see a lime or lemon wedge and will just assume it's alcoholic. We also carried the non-alcoholic beer at every place I've worked, which you may be surprised how much we'd sell. So don't be afraid to ask your bartender, they're usually happy to help and know lots of tricks. If you need an easy excuse that people won't question, just say you're the designated driver, as people tend to respect that at least. 💗
I can actually say with complete honesty that I never treated my mother like that one clip. Like I may have been a little snot but I was never like that ever. I loved and respected my mom cause she loved and respected me.
My Mexican momma would NEVER lmao I wouldn't even THINK to disrespect her like that or else
I can't handle seeing that. My mom is treated this way by my nieces and it's absolutely disgusting, the way they abuse her.
And except I was just scared of my dad and stepmom 😂
I stopped being friends with the one person that I knew that treated their mom like that cuz I wanted to fight her.
Thank you! I called out my friends that did that crap.
One time I told my mom that a co-worker thinks I look like one of the local actresses and literally answered, "She just needs glasses." EMOTIONAL DAMAGE 😅
Yeah mine is one of those too. I stop believing her years ago
Local? Where I live the only local actress is molly ringwald. But that's a good thing.
@@tarysunshine3878 Which one? Your mom or your co-worker 😁
@@KellykellzGarrett local to us in our country 😅
A TSA agent once tried to take tampons away from my mom at baggage check. It was the stupidest thing ever. She just looked at him and said "wtf and I going to do? Stab someone with it?" He eventually let it go. I get that 9/11 happened in NYC, but the TSA agents there are rude for no reason.
I think some of them are just thieves. They see something on their shopping list and just confiscate it for bullshit reasons. I don't believe for a second anyone is stupid enough to think tampons are dangerous weapons.
Have you ever been a TSA agent? The amount of bull they have to put up with on a constant regular basis from flyers is beyond comprehension.
@tommoore2012 doesn't give them an excuse to be an asshole... and come on taking away someone's tampons... really? Really?
That’s more than rude… it’s unnecessary
@@tommoore2012 but to cause a ruckus over TAMPONS??? That’s a bit much dont you think? Don’t get me wrong, I agree but if they are going to let that turn them into meaner people I would hope they give themselves a chance to get a job that makes them happy, but I know that is also a privilege
When Charlotte said "Want a cookie?" My dog jumped up from a dead sleep and came running over 😆
That is why dogs subscribe to Charlotte when you're not looking.
Same, Jenn. Can't say that word in this house unless you're prepared to give out dog treats immediately. Can't even say anything that sounds similar.
As a wheelchair user, travelling alone at airports is certainly an experience. Luckily there are some lovely people that work doing support for disabled people at every airport and without them I would never be brave enough to enter the terminal. So if there's anyone reading this who does that job, thank you. You're invaluable and appreciated 💜💜
Don't go to Cayo Coco.
Left us in an old lounge, food, water, duty free up a steep staircase and the elevator and escalators were broken.
Didn't even have access to a working washroom.
Oh.. and boarded us during general boarding.
I can walk for short periods, bad foot, so thankfully I only annoyed people because I am so slow going up stairs into the plane.
Thanks Sunwing for the cherry on top of the whole crap "vacation".
@@AmazonAllie73 that sounds terrible 😔
@@littlelizzi3135 and that wasn't even the worst part ..
It was horrible. And at the end of the week from hell AND the flight being delayed for 5.5 hours didn't help.
Argh!
@@AmazonAllie73 arrgh indeed!!! 😬
Hope you have a more enjoyable holiday next time ☺️
@@littlelizzi3135 going to Cancun for my 50th in May.. cross my fingers..
When I was growing up, every time my mom bragged about me to anyone my things went bad. So as an adult, whenever anything in my life fell apart, I would call her and ask, who tf did you tell? 🤣🤣🤣
I was that friend who was insanely uncomfortable when I'd see the way some of my friends spoke to their parents. I'd be the weird one taking my shoes off at the door, offering to help with dinner, clearing my plate after asking to be excused & preparing to help clean up. The next day my friends would be so mad at me because their parents realizing not all teenage girls are complete bitches usually sprouted some new ground rules at home.
Me too. I moved to a wealthy & primarily white neighborhood when I was 13. I couldn't believe how kids spoke to their parents. My 5'2" Puertorican mother could silence a room with a look. I think they were afraid to find out WHY I was so well behaved
Same. Peers who were openly disrespectful to their parents made me so uncomfortable. My mom would eat those brats for breakfast if she was their mother.
And it's like, "Then stop being a bitch..." And they just, they can't handle that.
I have more guy friends, but I do similar stuff when I hang over their house. They don't insist I do it (even though I like doing it) but there's also a common understanding of how our parents grow us pertaining to "visiting someone's house". So we all clean up when we agree to leave and we'll pair up to wash any dishes we used. It's really just about manners at the end of the day though 😭
I never ever spoke to my Mom like that. She would have killed me with her bare hands. I actually stopped hanging out with a few friends because they acted like that to their parents. If they disrespect their parents they are probably gonna disrespect you.
'its relatable, especially for girls' no ma'am, I grew up in a Mexican household. If I even talked to my mother in a different tone 💀
Lol, I was thinking the same with an African American mother. 🤣
With a southern raised father, if we EVER spoke to our mom in that manner…😱
I’m French Canadian, and let me tell you, if we ever would have DARED speak to our mother that way, Jesus himself would come slap us.
South African.. listen my mom was so strict she scold me when my friends helped me clean🤧
We're in a better place now.
I’m just a British girl and I would never speak to my mum like that, ever. I’m upset by the thought that Charlotte thinks that’s pretty relatable because it stressed me out.
I have off the charts motivation to do so many things as I'm falling asleep, but in the morning my brain says, "Ha! You ain't doin shit today!" 😂
Wake up like "nah, nvm, we'll do it tomorrow."
I'm actually pretty productive until I eat something. Then my brain says, "NAP TIME!" even if I've only been up for an hour.
@@jeanvignes you are me ma’am 😂
Me too. All sorts of plans for manana but manana never comes.
Literally me every night lol (chronic fatigue sufferer)
I had a complete meltdown going through TSA. They were yelling, I was by myself (my husband usually keeps me grounded and able to function normally). I froze like a scared rabbit and silently, tears began to flow. I don't remember much after that, but I do remember a very kind 20-something guy who was SUPER helpful and got me through it. Bless his heart!
Doing math with my dad usually involved power tools. One of my core memories: when I disagreed with my 2nd grade teacher about whether the perimeter of the yard should be measured in yards or miles, my dad pulled out one of those massive contractor tape measures and helped me measure our yard. It wound up being a quarter mile around.
I was a bridesmaid for a “friend” 13 years ago. My baby was 14 months old. I didn’t want to be a bridesmaid as I had never had a good experience in the past but thought I would do something for me and it would be fun as we knew eachother for years. I was nursing and she knew that. I had told her I was not going to drink and she respected that. Unfortunately it was the wedding party. I was bullied, peer pressured, told I was a prude. Then her aunt threw up on me and that was the stag. The wedding I was ignored and I didn’t go to the gift opening as her friends were so mean to me. None of them had kids. Years later when she had a baby she apologized and said she felt horrible but she and I are not friends now. What if I was a recovering alcoholic? Me not wanting to drink because I was nursing was my choice. Still mad to this day.
Mean people do be mean and self centred. Great for you for dropping her as a friend. All those years you were friends happened, friendship reached it's expiry date.
Ive never been able to drink because I have epilepsy and I can't drink on my medication. When I was in my early 20s I would always try to be patient with people who pressured me and just divert the conversation. Now I'm 30 and I just tell them, "I COULD drink, but I would probably have a seizure because I'd be skipping my meds." Typically it shuts them right up. Never push people to drink when they say they don't, y'all.
My mum nearly got arrested at Orlando airport for having a "knife". They drew guns and everything. It was terrifying. We're Scottish and none of us had ever seen a gun before (or since!) This was in 2005 so America was still completely panicked. I hope it's calmed a bit since then! It was a hairbrush btw.
It hasn't, just saying. They freak out over everything. It's so sad.
@@Supersoccerchicfor good reason.....but yes, I agree it's sad that we have to worry about these things in the first place. If only there weren't tons of crazy people trying to blow shit up here 🙃
Scottish airports have armed police now and its unnerving walking past them
@@foodiediaries8785 The bad thing is that they have confiscated many water bottles, as for detecting terrorists, meh. Airport security is a cumbersome illusion. The real job is done by other agencies.
Your mum sounds like mine. They probably have the same hairbrush - really sharp metal handle?!? It's a danger even not at the airport!
Charlotte: "Is anyone else really mentally motivated at night?"
Me: "Honey, it's a miracle if I wake up in the morning and not want to die"
Isn’t adulting fun? 😰
So much fun🤮- lol❗️I can describe it in four words- Hello Money Goodbye Money
LOL
That is kinda concerning
That’s such a mood
6:45 Being an Indian, I cannot fathom talking to my parents like that without thinking if at this point I'd get a funeral or not 😂😂😂
In india, there is no concept of teens. You are treated as a kid into your 20s and, in many cases, even into your 50s...& if you spoke like that, you will be branded as a rude disrespect that whole family, society will come after you..sometimes even subject you to exorcism thinking it's devil making you speak like that..😂😅
That doorbell one.....this is one of the reasons why I love the dark curtain I have in the hallway, so I can peek to see who is at the door without them noticing me. 😂
The airport bit hit me harder than it should have XD
Had flashbacks to when me and my sister were tweens and we were flying as unaccompanied minors to meet our grandparents. Our mom packed each of us those huge gallon ziploc bags full of our favorite snacks for the week visit/plane flight (think fruit by the foot, goldfish crackers, zebra cakes, swiss rolls, gushers etc)
Well we went through security at the airport and the tsa agent checked our bags and pulled my snack bag out of my backpack and was like "Oh, well I'll have to confiscate these." And 11 year old me was having a panic attack thinking "No! Not my snacks!" He didn't take them and put the bag back in my backpack and sent us on our way.
Only as an adult do I see that he was joking, but young me was so shaken and traumatized XD
I would do the same as an adult the freaking out about my snacks that is
If I had been in your shoes, I would have been terrified, as an 11year old. I would be thinking maybe there was some beef jerky in there, therefore that I would somehow be in trouble with the law.
I didn't really know the difference between immigration, security checks and quarantine back then.
If we can’t joke around, they shouldn’t be able to either!
I was traumatised when leaving America after visiting for a holiday. My parents had gone ahead, so I was 50 metres or so behind them. The guy checking my ticket said that there was a problem, and I started freaking out, trying to signal to my parents. He then said “Your ticket says premium economy, when you are clearly first class”. Talk about the wrong time to flirt with someone. I was so stressed.
@@JCHK. That's a really fucked up way of trying to flirt with someone. Especially at an Airport. The guy never should have said that. But please tell me you turned him down for giving you anxiety
It's always baffling to me when people say they were this cruel to their parents at age 13. I was going through it, but I didn't turn on my mom.
I didn’t dare. My mom was older and going through menopause whilst I was going through puberty. My older siblings who had moved out by then had no idea why my dad and I were so close.
I was taken aback when security asked me to step on the scale. I was like, I know I ate bad on vacation but I know I didn't gain that much. Then realized that I was getting on a propeller plane that sits 5. I regretted that Cinnabon I had that morning. 😂😂
I had to fly with my brother and father's cremated remains. The TSA person was really nice and explained everything to me and my stepbrother. It turned an emotional situation into something that was not awful.
That13-year-old girl who never stopped screaming and talking and singing and laughing until her vocal cord damage made her sound like a 260-year-old trucker with a three-pack-a-day habit. You know who you are.
I'm sorry for that!
Lesson learned 😂
Ugh, I know. Each of my bullies were like this to varying degrees. But the main bully was the most accurate. Seems like the more of these traits they express, the more of a b**** they are to those they view as less than when no one else is looking.🤦🏼♀️😭
Yup whenever I scream and ask for help in horror games nothing comes out lol
I need an age range cause you could be talking about my mom 💀
She definitely had a person in mind with that Main Character impression 🤣
I already know how easily I could get annoyed during highschool especially from all the stress, and I know had this type of brat came into class late and acted just like that, *there was going to be a problem*
I've been out of high school for, (dare I say), 20 years next summer 😬 and even then we had girls acting just like this. They always think everyone likes them and all the boys want them, truth is, no one wants to be around that person.
I will never forget the TSA agent that made me cry when I was 10. I used to travel alone a lot and this particular time I was bringing coffee to my grandfather in a state where they don’t have that coffee. I went through TSA and they yelled at me , stopped me and pulled me to the side mind you at this point I had not reunited with my person who walked me through the airport because I was under the age of 13 they meet you on the other side of TSA once you get through. After they yelled at me for like 10 minutes, asking me what was in the coffee they opened up the sealed packages of coffee and drug tested them multiple times. Three different drug test they rub the wand on the outside, a wand inside the bag they took some of the coffee out put it in a machine, they put some coffee in a bag with liquid shook it up handed me the open bags of coffee and said you’re good. I was so terrified and so confused. I guess they thought 10 year old me was trying to smuggle drugs. Apparently I found out later on that people like to put drugs in coffee because it can cover the smell.
They didn't think 10 year old you was doing it, they thought someone was using you because who would suspect a kid? Sad.
But they should have been gentle with you, knowing even if there was drugs in there, YOU weren't the one who put them there.
TSA agents could be assholes! No need to treat a 10 yr old like that. They should of been fired! We don’t need TSA agents anymore they need to go back to being just plain security guards not federal.
@@SandraMartinez-os3hu I understand if they have protocol to search it, but they need to learn how to deal with children who travel alone, and be more sensitive. Because sadly some people do use children to transport drugs, They just need to be more educated.
@@matalynaustin8319 I’m sorry 😞 you had to go through that experience.
Can totally relate. I was flying by myself one time & feeling super anxious, so for some reason when I went through the body scan thing I moved my arms, which led to the whole line being stopped & I was pulled out for a (VERY thorough) pat down in front of everybody. I was totally exposed at one point & on the verge of tears, but they told me if I didn’t consent I would have to be detained & would miss my flight. WORST FLYING EXPERIENCE EVER
I was half way through a 14 hour flight from Heathrow, and found a lighter in my bag. I didn't know it was even in there and must have been from a previous trip. Anyway, the airline had specifically stated no lighters and matches or things of that nature on board, for obvious reasons, yet I got through customs with it! This still haunts me to this very day!!
As a former TSA officer: I was regularly accused of being a thief and a perv by travelers who didn't bother to learn the rules before showing up. I was called other rude names when I wouldn't let people skip the line just because they were late. We chose our shifts in order of seniority so most new people started work between 2-5am. Management would constantly change requirements and HR was a joke.
Most people there are dying inside. 😬
Can confirm for my TSA roommate
Oh man, I believe it! I hope I haven't ever been rude to anyone in security before, but I'll definitely make an effort to be nice from now on!
I am always polite to TSA. "Insults to the cook may be hazardous to your health." Plus having worked customer service, people are a-holes. Don't treat the service people like crap.
Well I actually had this old guy who had his older female coworker pat me down because I was wearing a Chevron print dress...I asked another TSA agent at a different airport and she was also weirded out by that. She said that shouldn't have happened. The one who patted me down was even asking him why she had to pat me down. I felt violated and I had my 6 month old with me too. My mom was there and asked can I ask you why you're patting down my daughter? They legit didn't say why.
Edit: had another instance where the TSA guy was telling my husband to go ahead of me when he was helping me break down the stroller since we had two littles. Rude much? Like me doing everything by myself while having to watch the kids was going to make the line go faster.
Really? That's sad. Also, I hate the random checks that they do. I had that happen when my mom, myself and my grandma went to Florida about 10 years ago, before Covid happened. My grandma was randomly selected to do a body check and that was so stupid and unnecessary. She also had to throw away some really expensive lotion and shampoo or something but that was her own fault because she accidentally put it in her carry-on instead of her checked bag. I was amazed she didn't think it through and the product was worth a lot of money too. TSA are crazy. I hope when I fly again, I don't get "randomly selected" for a search. if they do, I'll comply but I don't want that happening.
That first video, though. I feel attacked AND represented.
....and low-key inspired.
Every Sunday night……Monday morning nah we’ve sleeping.
You’re not alone.
🙌🏼🤍
That guy NAILED the millenial doorbell reaction, it was so on point. And I'm a grown ass adult with 3 young children 😂😂😂
The way your entire demeanor changed in a split second at 10:55 in the video was next level! You're fabulous Charlotte lmfao 😂😂😂
I was never like that to my mom. She was super mean and abusive. If I even said no to her, she would run after me with a wooden spoon screaming, “How dare you defy me”. Now that I’m an adult, she doesn’t get why I don’t talk to her.
I'm a dad going through the homework thing with my daughter... I laughed so hard, and the side eye look of disdain I got made me laugh harder.
I freaking died when the main character girl smacked herself in the mouth when she was told she wasn't talking. That was a hard smack! Oh my god! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I completely relate to the first one! I stopped chewing my mini chocolate donut and just stared! Then, you know, I finished my donut because I'm not a monster.
That last part where his mean to his mother shows that we still cares bc sometimes a couch isn't made for sleeping and you wake up with pain 😅
The doorbell one really hits! I'm seriously tempted every time to yell out that my parents are in the shower! 😂😂😂
I can safely say I was not that way to my mom, or any parental figure, but I most definitely has friends were that way. It always gave me so much anxiety when I would witness a friend talking to their parents like that, and in absolute shock that they did that, and their parents did nothing to reprimand them. 😮
I once made the mistake of answering the door to Jehovah’s witnesses……. They proceeded to show up every single week until one day, my brother (who is openly gay) greeted them at the door with an open robe holding a bottle wine. Asking them in for a glass. As they ran for dear life he yelled “Well, wine was good enough for Jesus, but not you? See you next week darlings!!!” Needless to say, they never returned🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My mom would yell at them out the window that we donate blood, go away. Some still came back, but they left quickly.
Your brother is a hero
lol my hubby dad he invited them in and omg he can argue and he was so scary he was ducth and grow up in the war so yeah R.I.P to him tho
i accidentally? made it so the jehovah's witness never visited my mom again :'D ...... i was taking care of her dogs and they knocked on the door, i answered with a ''hellooo!'' and apperently i sounded german? cuz they started staring at me and asking if i spoke english..... i said yes, but that i also speak danish (the country we were in)..... they looked embarresed af and just politely excused themselves and drove off, was hilarious
My boyfriend played with them for months 😂 they believed he has 3 twin brother and a sister and wife....at the age of 23... Acting class was worth it, they stopped after we played a heated argument behind the closed door 🤣
I liked that part where C said, "Maybe it's you" and we all collectively wiped the corners of our mouths and took drinks of water.
To the kids who cursed at their parents...we were NOT all those people. Some of us treated out parents with respect because as soon as we said something like that, they'd smack the living shit out of us and taught us the boundaries one way or another. SO happy to say my freshman college age daughter never acted this way either. I literally can't laugh at that. I just cant. But otherwise, brilliant :)
I'd see stories of these out of control gremlins and I think to myself that if I tried to do one of those things as a child, my mom would make sure that was the *last time* I ever did it
Yes! Thank you. Never treated my mom or dad that way
Every girl I knew in high school had some kind of Main Character Syndrome at some point. . .even the really quiet ones! (They just had it when they happened to be in a class with their crush or at whatever after-school activity they felt most comfortable in!) Myself included. I knew a few of these types in college too who never really grew out of it. Still continue to encounter these folks in grad school and beyond. . .typically in something to do with music or the arts though.
First video, happened to me during I was in college. Ate healthy, worked out regularly which also helped cleared my skin. Now I'm almost in my 30s, gained weight, getting acne more for some reason, and stopped working out at all. I just started this morning even if it's 15 to 20 mins of light workout. I feel like that's a huge progress already
Congratulations! And we all go through different stages in life, so remember to be kind to yourself, in addition to challenging.
Comparison is the thief of joy, sometimes even when we compare ourselves to our younger selves. All you can do is be better today than you were yesterday and it sounds like that is what your are aiming for. I don’t like blaming other stuff in my life because it gives away what little power I have in my life. So instead, I find the low hanging fruit. What is the one thing I can do today that could easily be done every day, incorporated into my routine, that will make my life better? There is no one size fits all approach, unfortunately. One thing I have found is the only thing that works for improvement long term, is what works for YOU and that you can maintain because at the end of the day, you are the one consistent agent of change in your life.
Can we all relate to Charolette making our day with these posts?
I look forward to her posts everyday.
Her posts everyday give me life. ^-^
Can't relate, but I do appreciate.
Yup. She’s my fav Canadian
🔥❤️🔥
Honestly due to how mean my father was with homework, I straight up stopped asking him after fourth grade because I was SOBBING at the end. I was so upset and I felt so stupid, to the point that for the next 8 years I had trouble asking for help for anything :D *Truly this wasnt the only reason why I had trouble asking. But this is one of the many.*
I feel you Nyx... I come from a French-Canadian family. My mother is fluent in French, but never spoke it to us kids. Consequently when I started taking French in school... I went to her for help. She wondered why I couldn't speak French or have the right accent...."I was French-Canadian after all." She thought I would learn it through osmosis! She treated me like I was stupid and refused to help me. (I know now that she was embarrassed as my inability reflected on her as a parent.) She became good friends with my French teacher ... and he could never figure out why I was not getting more confident in my French speaking... as "I had such a great mom to practice with."🙄 I also learned not to ask for help or speak up... I was afraid of being humiliated and called stupid.
Right?!
San wish. My dad was super controlling over my homework sand I never got my own choices. I was so glad when I got to secondary school when I got to do my homework.
Charlotte!!!! I was going through some of your old videos after watching this one and I see such a glow from you now that wasn’t there a year ago. I can’t tell you enough how amazing it is to see you have what I can only describe as light, joy, just beauty in you! Your amazing and I hope you have a great day!❤️❤️❤️
I’m on a week long charlotte binge (don’t judge me) & this is by far her best “mood”. It’s ABSOLUTELY fantasticcccc.
I was never the kid who was mean to my mom because I would've been slapped until my face was "on the other side of (my) head"!
I went through my " teen" years in my 20's when I had my own place and a great paying job! AND free health insurance!
True story
Haha I did the same! I was too scared of my mum to even look at her wrong.
Samsies!! My mom was and is extremely close to me. Worst I did was get caught smoking, and I swear I thought she was going to have a heart attack right then and there. Lol I'm 51 now. She's 70 and we're closer than ever.
@@The_Tumbler_Witch ah I haven’t seen mine in 10 years… but I skipped school one time, ever. and she punished me hardcore, where the school didn’t (I was bullied quite badly and the head said he understood why I’d skipped and let it go).
My mom would’ve beat into a new existence if I talked to her like that. I remember the first I saw a friend do that I was like 👁️👄👁️
It was wild lol
No joke, I pulled away from a friendship because she told her WONDERFUL mother "I hope you get hit by a truck and die."
I was tf OUTIE 5000 of that friendship.
same.
Me, too! People who let their kids talk to them like that are to blame, tho.
Same and also...if my son talked to me like that, 🤨...no.
100%
I never, ever spoke to my mom like that. I had a friend who did and I felt SO awful over there. Never went to her house ever again. I can't imagine ever talking to my mom like that.
I can't either...mainly 'cause I was seriously afraid of her. Told her to shut up once and had to run while my brother held her back.
Same. But none of my friends were mean to their parents either, I guess I was lucky to land in a friendship group of respectful girls. Also, my Mum was so strict, an attitude wouldn't be worth the punishment lol
Listen…if I’d talked to either of my parents like that I wouldn’t be alive to type this comment. That said, I’m old so… 🤷🏾♀️
Rude teenagers are a product of their parents upbringing. Your do good with you
I would NEVER have been that rude or disrespectful to my mom. I had a friend who did and it made me SO UNCOMFORTABLE. I was always extra nice and helpful to her mom because I felt so bad for her.
The fact that I actually stopped being friends with girls who were mean to their moms. It makes me sad so many people relate. 😢😂
The girl who’s late reminds me of a pretentious girl from my High school. one time she was 20 minutes late to class and as she walked in she interrupted the lesson and to loudly say “sorry I’m late, I got a record deal!” She said it so casually too like she was trying to not make a big deal out of it but clearly wanted everyone to know. Nobody cared or said anything (it was the first class of the day) and the teacher just said “good for you” before going back to the lesson. Looked her up, 10 years later and it doesn’t look like anything came from that “record deal” (she was an ok singer btw)
I was a pretty chill teenager and never went through a rebellious phase and didn't give my parents any attitude (I internalized all my whoe). I can be a bit snippy sometimes but that is just towards any one I am close with because I feel more comfortable with them. Not even my sister who actually went through a slight rebellious stage ever spoke to our parents like that. That is the attitude someone gives their parents if they want to get whopped in our family.
Same, None of my friends growing up that I'm aware of behaved disrespectfully either.
Same, never went through with it. Some of my classmates did but not to the point like in the vid that was just disrespectful.
I showed my husband your vids and now we are in a rabbit hole watching all of them!! We're having a great time!! We love you!! 😂
My dad is from Iceland, and so ive been there many times while growing up. LAst time i went i was 13, we were coming back in to the states through the Baltimore Airport. The security people forcefully separated me (a very stressed, anxious, autistic kid) from my parents to fill out immigration(?) papers or something. I was half-way crying and shaking and sweating and I didnt understand why my parents didnt ask for me. I filled out the paper work and finally got through, but oh man. i was terrified. It was after 9-11 so every TSA agent had a firecracker up their butts about everything. Honestly ruined my desire to fly anywhere. Any other time i've flown i've been in full panic mode.
Oh i also flew to iceland alone once and got to watch a TSA agent tackle and beat a lady into the ground for not removing her jewelry while they were checking my bags. I think it was also at the Baltimore airport. At this rate. i think i'll just Astral Project to Iceland.
I often wish I could travel *without* some unnecessary connection in the USA.
They all need to be fired!! They turn into Gestapo’s. We don’t need that kind of crap in US
I had a guy friend who had implied that we might be more than friends, and I was thinkin' about it, when he introduced me to his parents. He was so mean to them, like really mean. His dad had cooked this awesome, authentic Italian meal (which he whined about because he'd wanted something else), and his mother and I talked about our favorite fish (she had an epic aquarium set up) during dinner. I really liked his parents, they were funny, cultured, well-travelled, and had great stories. He, on the other hand, could not stand that I liked his "stupid parents", and he said they were "worthless" to their faces! We weren't friends after that. I did, however, friend his mother on Facebook several years later. She's a widow now (a few years back) and she's kept it up with the fish - she has a koi pond, which is so damned cool. As for him...eh, who TF cares, he's probably still a spoiled little jerk at 43.
HYPER relate to the doorbell. I'm a millennial and will literally turn off lights and stay still until the coast is clear.
Once visited family in Oklahoma, they gave me a terracotta tortilla warmer and wrapped it up really well with bubble wrap. Cut to three days later, airport security pulling it out of my suitcase and confronting me, "Ma'am, can you explain this?!?!?!" like it was a package of drugs 😂
I have a really embarrassing story about answering the door as a millennial.
I was eating the Halloween “Boo Batter” from cold stone. It is black ice cream (so good though). Literally just enjoying my snack on a Saturday. And some Mormon boys came knocking on my door. So I chatted with them. COMPLETELY OBLIVIOUS to the fact that my mouth was LITERALLY BLACK!!!
I realized this AFTER I shut the door from taking to them. I looked at my fiancé and freaked out. Looked at myself on my phone camera and literally died inside. Those poor boys probably thought I was possessed.
I am 60 and single, my mom 79 still married (poor dad, lol). She road me all my life about my weight and looks. She still drops those little hints and smiles and acts like she is so in shape and looks so great. Well, out of respect I don't say much, but I would love to say "You know that face lift you got years ago still didn't help you out in any way. And oh, your body could use some duck tape to hold it together" LOL! I am fine with who I am and have no problem with being me. That is all that matters life. Be yourself and not what others think you should be.
What if being you prevents the option of running from danger?
@@tommoore2012 And what if direct antagonism doesn't actually help people care about their health, but rather make them feel shitty and continue the spiral? What then? What would you say?
I had to laugh Viki.... I'm the same age and although my mom is 83... she said/did the same things all the time. She used to buy me gifts of clothing 1 size too small... to motivate and inspire me... and then would say things like.."Are you sure you want to wear that??". No matter what is on my plate food wise... she would always say "Are you sure wou want to eat that ." Now that I eat whole, clean foods... she always says what an inconvenience it is to make meals when I visit. (Even though I bring all my own food and help prepare meals). "It's always something with you!" It's a NO-WIN situation. I even used to let her complaining about my healthy food and eating habits derail me from my health journey... I don't do that anymore! We still have 30-40 years to enjoy life... let's go for it!!🎉
@@mycreativeheart4159 It is funny how many of us experience the same things and don't realize it. I love my mom so much that I did not treat my son the way she treated me. I guess we can also learn and pass forward the good to our own kids.
I'm so sorry your mom is like that, it isn't right. But I'm glad you are happy and comfortable with who you are and rose above that. No one is perfect and we all have strengths and weaknesses. Even if we normally have good self esteem, we all have bad days when we are feeling low. The bad days can make the good days feel even better, so there is that. 😊
The one about being a b-word as a teen, that wasn't me. I never went through the "terrible two" or was mean as a teen. Not sure if has to do with the fact that I have autism, but from the time I started kindergarten at 4, my mind was basically 100% focused on getting through the day and then I fell asleep at home. So, maybe I didn't have enough energy, or my mental capacity was too drained?
I talked back to my mom ONCE... she slapped me really hard. I don't condone violence but... I never talked back at her again.
I didn’t either, but that’s cause I was everyone else’s punching bag.
Bingo. I had the same issues. I think the only time I became mean was when someone woke me (I am not friendly when being forced awake), which once I was fully awake I always felt bad about it.
I was mostly mean because for some reason my mom would put to much milk in my chai in the morning. She got better but I still prefer my dad making it if I can’t make it myself.
@@KarmatheCorgi There is a difference between the rare disciplinary smack and real physical abuse. So many people seem to confuse the two. I'm sure I'll end up getting lambasted for this, but sometimes it's necessary. Sometimes you exhaust every alternate form of discipline, and literally the only thing you can do to get the kid to listen and stop misbehaving is to give them a swat. As long as it's a rare last resort, and as long as it doesn't leave any marks, I see nothing wrong with it.
Exactly my situation with a knife at airport security 🤣
I was a teenager travelling with my mom. I carried a pocket knife in my backpack in case we bought fruit and decided to eat them. But I forgot to put it into our checked-in luggage and it was not in an obvious pocket. When security lady couldn't find it, I wanted to help and direct her, but she was really aggressive with me. Since then I'm feeling anxious every time I go through security.
But of course I understand her.
I was flying alone in '03 and was wearing a long trench coat. I didn't even get to join the line. As soon as the TSA Agent saw me from a distance, she was waving me over. 😂
I laughed and chatted the whole time. They searched everything (i had 5 books stacked together in the carry on). They were polite and professional. I made it as easy as possible for us all and thanked them for their hard work.
I still laugh about it.
5:20 why her scream made me think of Regina from “Mean Girls” before she put herself in the burn book.
Your videos really help me in depression, Charlotte. Love you ❤️
I really appreciate the efforts you put in your videos ❤️
100%
Yes. And keep on, you're worth it.
You're totally worth all of our time, from Charlotte uploading, and us reading and commenting on your thread! You are LOVED fellow TaterTot! ❤️
There should really be "Anxiety Lines" at airports which are not rushed, no shouting and emotional support doggos that hug you when you cry 😭😭
Yes
Yes I agree
Yes! I honestly love everything about flying and airports except going through security. It's hell on my anxiety.
Charlotte, if I fixed my mouth to talk to my momma like that I would've been slapped into a parallel universe. 😂 Had a LOT of friends who spoke that way to their parents, though, and I always felt like a deer in headlights when it happened.
Years ago my college-age cousin was with a group of people she didn't know well and this main character girl was emphatically explaining how her sociology class changed her life, being really over the top etc and when she stopped talking my cousin simply asked: 'and did you come?'
She was right there, why would she come, she wasn't coming from another place?
I'm completely missing yhe joke here
@@flamefangstar there are two meanings of the verb 'to come' and this was about the other meaning ;)
@@lounakin oHHHH
I went to high school in the 90's and I'm even more grateful I did. I did not go to school with anyone in that last scene. She would not have had the needed audience of the time because we were pretty apathetic. Also the generations answering the door is pretty accurate. I just ignore it. If I had a Ring I'd check it. My sister will pretend she doesn't exist. We're only a year a part.
I had an airport worker who was SO INCREDIBLY MEAN TO ME for no reason I started crying in the airport lol. I went to go walk onto the flight and she basically arm barred me and told me to step back. I asked her why and she said “BECAUSE I SAID SO” and she proceeded to let everyone on the plane before me while she scowled at me. She acted like I murdered her first born but I had never met this lady!!!!!
Edit; this was at the Billy bishop airport In Toronto
Wow. This is why it's not a good thing to fly there then. Thanks for the heads-up. I hope you weren't on an Air Canada flight.
Loving your sleep is a virgo trait. My husband once woke me up because a tornado was spotted near us. I got up and screamed at him. "Why can't you just let me die in my sleep, like everyone dreams of going." I said some more mean stuff and went back to bed. I love him so much.
Loving sleep has nothing to do when your mother's water broke.
My Virgo kiddo is just like that, a sleepy head and exactly like you stated, when he is woken up, his face says it all. 🤭😂 He put a Grinch frown and pouty lips until he can let his head rest in the pillow again.
@@jennevamadison3803 That's something a non Virgo would say.
(Just kidding)
Everyone loves their sleep.
Me as the mom of a 22 year old: Yeah, she’s doing great! She’s an entrepreneur. I’m so proud of her. Me to my 22 year as she’s having another anxiety attack: You’re doing fine!! No one has it figured out!! I still love you!!
Omg that POV of your dad helping with homework hit so hard. When I was learning to read my dad would yell at me for not knowing words I had never seen written before. He made me cry so hard when I was 5 because I couldn't understand how to read the word "ocean". That's a hard word to try and figure out when you've never seen it spelled out before and instead of telling me what it was he just yelled at me for not being able to understand. He would also yell at me for getting words wrong (I'm dyslexic) and he said that I was just a "lazy reader"
Edit: he also yelled at me in kindergarten for not understanding a riddle he gave me to help me with my homework. It was a worksheet where different math answers were associated with letters to spell something out. The answer was "Peanut butter". The riddle he gave me was "It's a type of butter that's brown" what 5 year old would logically come to the conclusion of peanut butter? I was standing there thinking about a brown stick of frickin butter and confused af and he was mad that a child that could barely read didn't understand him
The iced coffee had me dying!😂 I think we all know “THAT GIRL”.
I really related with that drinkers/non drinkers one, except with coffee. I don't drink coffee and everyone's like "WHAT!!!?? How can you not drink coffee!? Aren't you grown up? (I'm 43, but... no?...) I am not even myself until I get a cup of coffee in the morning!" Well, I am myself when I wake up, and I can stay awake all day by just being me. Why would I wanna trade that away? xD
Thanks for uploading! Greetings from Sweden, the country with the most coffee drinking persons per capita, second only to Finland
Please teach me your ways!
@@phoebesmith8154 Certainly!! It's an easy three step process!
1: Have your mom letting you taste coffee when you're four or five.
2: Think it's yucky.
3: Don't drink it again.
Best wishes!!! 😁😁❤️
SAME - Swedish and their coffee, I get questioned nearly every day - people are all like... But WHY? // Swedish Tea Drinker 😄
@@emmstill But I think we can agree that at least snells good, doesn't it? 🙂
Hej! We came to visit Sweden from England, and I was so desperate for a cup of tea, everyone only had coffee 😭 I ended up asking my air bnb host for a black tea and they bought me over lots of herbal teas and I was like thank you so much but inside I was like 😭😭😭😭 so I ended up drinking blueberry tea with milk! 😂
I relate to the airport thing! I'm always like: "Do I have cocaine in my bag?" ... and I've literally never touched a single drug.
I literally went through a hellish, highly abusive summer bootcamp for math with my NF. It was so bad my mother sent me to regular summer camp for the last two weeks of summer cuz he was so abusive and he slipped up and acted like that towards me in front of her. Was not conducive to an ADHD person to learn math, to be sure. I only did well in math afterwards cuz I was terrified to do badly and him take over 'teaching' me again.
I once went to a party, and I was having a good time. Someone asked me whether I wanted a beer, I said “no thanks, I don’t drink”, their faces 😳, “how is it that you’re this happy and having so much fun?”. Like I need a drink to have fun. Truth is, I tried alcohol and just felt meh about it, so now I don’t drink 🤷🏾♀️.
Can confirm I never spoke to my parents that way. We had mutual respect. I messed up and yelled at times but never ever spoke like that!
I feel like we all relate to almost every TikTok
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Speak for yourself.
Really? I don't relate to the last girl and I honestly hated that she had an iced coffee and I didn't. That's all I was jealous of, honestly. Also, even if I was that girl who had to have a coffee, I would have gotten up earlier and made sure I was still on time for class and not be a complete bimbo who's a loser. I would also make sure I had enough time to go to Starbucks or wherever and get my coffee and then go to class but I wouldn't be late. That's rude and disrespectful. I was late plenty without the coffee, honestly and I thought it was tacky anyway. Those girls are losers who will never accomplish anything in their lives.
The one where the person is unnecessarily mean to their parents, I was the friend watching it happen and it was so awkward. I wanted to leave so bad. 😂
I once got stopped for a secondary search by TSA because when I left from visiting my mom, she gave me large pickle & a slice of homemade pound cake. I put them in my carry on bag on top of a book. The TSA agent was cool he and I both laugh when he opened my bag and he saw what was in the bag. I called my mom when I got to my gate and told she almost got me put on the "no fly" list. She just laugh and blame it on my book. To this day I triple check my carry on to make sure I have everything is correct.
I have a friend with PTSD and because of that she has a lot of trouble sleeping. So whenever she falls asleep when were together I let her sleep cause she needs it and it makes me really happy that she trusts me that much.
the homework with dad one hit too hard...i couldnt help that i needed you to re-explain it 5 times, my brain just couldn't handle the strainnnn.
I love how confident the woman in the first video is tho lols
I can say, 100%, that I NEVER spoke to or yelled at my mother like she was a friend or acquaintance. I can’t even imagine acting that way toward the woman who raised, fed, and cared for me. And I’d have lost a few teeth, if I had. lol. No, my parents raised us well. I didn’t get snotty with anyone. It’s just rude.
The main character girl one ARG! Those were my freaking bullies in high school, and for them, that stupid school catered to their BS. They were pampered and praised and given leeway in everything cause they were friends with the school founder's granddaughter. I honestly just shoved my nose into books to avoid them. Did exploit their stupidity for awhile before the teachers caught on though...
That doorbell one had be laughing so hard XD WHY IS IT SO ACCURAAAAATE
I had a friend in middle school who was incredibly mean to her mother. And I don't mean teenage-mean. She was friggin awful and said some really nasty things. Her mother was a single-mom and tried her very best, had a 9-5 and gave her so much and spent little to nothing on herself. It was always so awkward visiting their home. The summer we went our separate ways to different high-schools I heard from my aunt, who knew them, that the mother un-alived herself. I know you can't really blame a child and that she probably blames herself as it is. But I'd lie if I said I didn't feel some resentment some time after I got the news. It's just a horrible situation. Be kind to your parents. Give them a hug every now and then and make sure they know you love them.
If I even thought of sassing my mom's a kid, I'd be laid out so damn fast.
I used to try to teach my sister how to do Maths. She would be bawling by the end of it. I literally could not figure out how she did not understand decimals and fractions. Later, I found out that I was just naturally gifted at Maths so there was no way I would have been able to explain to her how to do something I could just instinctively "see". It was like trying to teach a colourblind person how to see red.
Exactly. Math and I do not get along. Edit: my sisters are both very good at it.
@@battlebear437 Oh, I hope they don't make you feel bad because they are in the minority. A lot of the time people who think they are bad a maths are actually average at maths, they are just comparing themselves to people who are gifted at maths.
I saw that a lot when I was a teacher. Kids who would be hyper-stressed because they were constantly being compared to gifted siblings when, in fact, they were actually good at maths just not brilliant.
@@3scarybunnies211 as adults now, I really am okay with it. It was definitely more difficult in a small town school where all the teachers knew who we were. “Oh! Your so-and-so’s sister? You’d do really good in this class!” Uh no. Basic math? You betcha. Anything more than that? Oh heck no!
@@battlebear437 I think my sister got the same comments. She was not as good as me at everything. It must have been hard for her. Luckily though, I was in year 12 when she just started high school in year 7 so there were some teachers who did not know both of us. We are in Australia btw so we don't have a middle school.
I was genuinely never like that to my parents but I can imagine the shock it must feel to witness it happen
Me either. Idk why she said especially girls. Nah. My mom would have hit me so hard every child I’d have after would feel it.
I love your videos. You make me smile so big and much that it makes my jaws hurt. Keep them coming. You're so creative.
@James Greg I am doing really well today. Thank you for asking. How are you doing?
OMFG CHARLOTTE I LOVE YOU SOO FUKKIN MUCH I WATCH YOU EVERYDAY N UR PERSONALITY IS THE BEST I WISH MORE PPL WERE LIKE YOU PLEASE DON'T EVER LEAVE RUclips!!
The airport security thing reminds me of this one time, I went to a government building for my marriage certificate and almost forgot I left an exacto knife in my purse for an art project😬
I never talked like that to my mum. We've always get along and we're close. She was (and still is) my safe haven when I was bullied, without her I doubt I would've made it. And my mum hasn't never called me fat etc. I'm very lucky to have her as my mum.
Btw, I love your shirt. It's cool.
🤣😭 Definitely do a part 2! This was fun! The commentary from the reaction was funny too!
God damn you got me with the first reaction!! 😂 and yes, all my motivation comes at night!
I had to hold my moms crutches once in an airport due to her sitting in the wheelshair. The people at security was so nice and was so soft with me, even after I told them I just had them for my mom. They haeve always been so cute and nice!