Can you say with confidence that you(or most dog owners) don't talk to your dog like it is your child/younger family member when they missbehave? I myself just naturally go into a different voice and pitch when talking to any of my animals(including my guinea pigs XD) and I think most people that care about their pets talk to them as if they understand us. :D
My disabled daughter has spent the last few weeks in the hospital and we found your channel. She is so very content watching them. Thank you so much. She wanted me to tell you, "I like watching your videos. I ordered a Happy Hoodie for my stuffed cat and my mom's real dog"
I sincerely hope your daughter is doing well and will enjoy a life of happiness with you and her family. This channel is really great and definitely a joy to watch!
That the owners chose to drive 7 hours to bring him to you is a testament to both how much confidence they have in you and how determined they are to do what's best for their pets. Although this poor boy had a difficult start, he's clearly in the right home now!
My darling little cockapoo only liked me grooming her. I miss her so much, and can't bear to even get rid of her coats, let alone her grooming tools! Love your grooms, you are so comforting to your guests. Xxx
I've brought my dog to a groomer who didn't take into consideration my dog's anxiety. When I arrived to pick him up, he was so traumatized that he clung to me as if he had experienced unbearable torture! It is always a great sign if the dog is happy and ready to play after a situation that could have been a very scary time!
I didn't realize just how much I would love the owner's reactions until you started showing some of them. The display of love between the dogs and their owners is such a joy to see! Thank you for including them.
1:30 Good point about being an entrepreneur. I hear people, who have never owned a business, saying stuff like "set your own work hours", "be your own boss", etc. But every actual business owner knows that there is no such thing as a real day off and business hours are 24/7 and are defined entirely by your customers and your ability to pay staff. It is more likely that you will be struck by lightening, twice, on the same day, and live to tell about it, than it is that you will experience even one day of feeling secure, rested, and in total control, when you are an entrepreneur. All true. Kind of like raising kids. I appreciate all you do for the pets that land in your salon. Where business, talent, and compassion meet!
Right. People who say you can "set your own hours, be your own boss" would be broke and bankrupt if they could have everything they wanted. As someone in an entrepreneurial family, I 100% agree with your comment! My parents always worked 70 hours a week, every week.
I hope his owners can find a groomer closer to home. Driving both directions plus the groom makes for a very long day. For a dog who needs regular grooming that would be hard on the owners and the dog. He really is a cutie. He reminds me of a toddler testing his boundaries. Great job and thanks for the video!😊✌🐕
Aww...I do so wish we get to see him again. He was trying his darn-dest to be a good boy even though he has so much fear in him. Vanessa, you're amazing!
Poor baby! They did the right thing. ❤ Before we adopted our Goldendoodle I searched and found your channel. I immediately made an appointment for him at the groomer. Luckily he was wonderful and now has a monthly appointment with his groomer. I am addicted to watching your videos!
Some get these pups as not meant to cast hair?They don’t realize they need clipped and groomed regularly. Many of these breeds end up with messy coats and neglected it’s sad.Owner of this dog is obviously very caring to drive seven hours to get him clipped.x
Actually not all dogs get over it. Some dogs don't, and shouldn't, be bathed regularly like a goldendoodle would, and don't appreciate it either. Like many breeds of working dogs with double coats. The shampooing strips their coat of the natural oils and texture that help the coat to do it's job. Dogs like the Great Pyrenees, like mine. I brush my dogs coat twice per week and can get it done in about 15 minutes or less if needed. She loves it. But water touching her.....not so much. It's hard to convince a dog who's DNA demands that actual bathing is weird and wrong, to allow you to destroy thousands of years of fine-tuning to NOT be shampooed. Plus, there's the problem of moving a 130 lb dog who doesn't want to be moved! Fortunately, these types of dogs don't require much more than brushing and nail clipping. Absolutely no shaving their coats unless for medical care, and washing only if really needed, at most, the very most, twice per year, and maybe never. Just brushing out their coats regularly keeps them surprisingly clean. Our ancestors bred these dogs with this characteristic in mind because it was necessary for the job. We have to respect a dog's breed and the fact that us humans often lay down perceptions and rules that we think should apply to all dogs. And that is simply not true.
@@Yosetimethey didn't say "all dogs". Good grief. "Dogs like this". Doodles were NOT bred to be self cleaning, obviously. What was the point of your essay? To state the obvious? Dogs deserve to feel good free of dirt, stink and skin irritation. Mat-free. You can enjoy your stanky dog. Even working dogs have been groomed on this channel but if you want a gold star for speaking up then here you go ⭐️
Man, you deserve a medal for that groom. Poor little guy … he was just so scared. Rescue dogs have so much baggage that we never will know about. You absolutely were amazing with him. Thanks for sharing. 😊💙💗
Vanessa’s comment about the crucial early months was very true for my childhood pup. He came to us at three months, a sturdy little black lab cross, and had a happy, much loved 18 years with us, but no one ever picked up a broom to sweep without Ben running away in panic. Someone had beaten him those first months and he never got over it.
Our family dog that we adopted as an adult was so afraid of brooms and vacuum cleaners that he would run away and we had to cross the street for brooms. We managed to desensitize him and by the end he would lie all relaxed until the vacuum would literally touch him or we had to tell him to go away. I guess it works for some and it doesn‘t for others.
@@elizabethhayman-oldham5151 Me too! But we don’t know whether he even had an owner because the adoption agency was so shady. He clearly was street smart and knew what a trash can was
He's such a sweet dog, just scared and has a mental trauma he needs help working past. The way he and the owner greeted each other shows that he is in a wonderful, loving home now. Vanessa, I'm sure that was a very stressful day, but you persevered and did an awesome job!
I adopted a doodle who was in the exact same situation and time frame, we actually saved him from being euthanized. It's now been almost two years and he has mostly learned that grooming is a positive experience and he can trust me, but he is still extremely chronically anxious. It breaks my heart to see him be so scared of literally everything, his own tail startles him sometimes... He's such a sweet boy, I just wish he had a better start in life Ó╭╮Ò
Unfortunately, since most if not all doodles are brought into this world for money and moneey alone, a stable temperament isn't a priority. The same thing happens with byb German Shepherds and Huskies where you have dogs with poor temperaments or behavioral issues caused by their conflicting instincts. It's so sad, the dogs don't deserve this.😢
but you're now giving him the best life you can and loving him regardless of his start in life. You're doing the best thing for him and you understand his anxieties. Good job on that! Don't beat yourself up for other people's mistakes.
There are people like you who have the ability to not only remain calm, but to *keep going* to teach the dog that their behavior does not result in stopping (unless safety is an issue). I am not one of those people; I would chicken out from fear or distress. Of course you have a depth of experience, but also you have a gift.
It drives me nuts that backyard breeders mix poodles with everything now, and people buy them without understanding that the dog needs training and structure to be great. Then the poor dogs get dumped because they’re not cute puppies anymore and have developed bad behaviors. It’s so unfair to the dogs.
@@trishblakely3476We need to bring back mutts. They’re generally healthier. Than these overbred dogs around these days. I wonder what happened to stray dogs here in the US. They are very rare to see.
I'm so glad he was adopted by people willing to bring him to you, especially traveling 7 hours! And you're an angel for grooming him even tho you're sick! Feel better soon hon! Much love from the states ❤
Yes, especially if he wasn't treated very well in his tender months whipping out something noisy like some clippers that he's never seen before and he'll most certainly get scared, stressed, and retaliate. Someone inexperienced with dogs who show aggression when scared might not know how to react in the situation and be unsure of how to proceed. It's good they brought him to Vanessa so she could coach them on how to best proceed with him moving forward.
Thank you to the owners for adopting him as an older puppy. I also thank you for taking the time to work with him on his terms. I hope he feels so much better after his spa treatment.
As a groomer, I appreciate your videos that show pet owners what we actually do! I also like your compassionate approach and wish more groomers had such patience. I would love to work with you!
6:11 this is so true. We rescued a 4 year-old Havanese x Yorkshire with little to no information on previous owners and they definitely abused him. We are now 3 years later and still working on making him trust humans again. The close family is fine, but strangers and other dogs are a big trigger. Strangely enough, he loves cats. Good work on this puppy!
Vanessa, you always sound surprised that your clients make such long journeys to see you. No surprise to me, as the care and empathy you show the dogs in your hands is beyond exemplary. Your are gentle, but firm, kind and careful. The results may sometimes not be how you want, but you always do your best. I think we all want a Vanessa in our towns and countries!
I really think it's fantastic how much patience you have. You don't give up, even when you're sick. You've done a great job again! chapeau! 👍 Greetings from Belgium! 🇧🇪
Such patience you have! I brought my dog once to a groomer that refused him because he growled and reached for his collar too quickly. I took him to another groomer who said he was perfectly behaved and that’s where he goes now. You are the proof that a good groomer takes time for the dog to calm down a little, plus you try hard to make your doggy clients as comfortable as possible.
Absolutely avoid that first groomer! Unfortunately there are some still who go by the (completely disproven) 'dominance' theory of dog handling, or who can't read a dog's anxious body language well, or - perhaps worse - who have just got tired of caring and will yell at dogs or hit them to force them into submission! I've heard plenty of horror stories from new clients of why they left former groomers, and not once have any of their dogs been unhandleable with a little patience and clear instruction and positive reinforcement. Most dogs will calm right down and be so happy to cooperate if you can just let them know clearly what you want them to do and that they're being A Good Dog!
We’ve had similar experience. Couple shops banned him because either they are afraid he’ll jump off grooming table and hang himself or they are afraid he’ll hurt them. I understand because he is very mouthy and his smile looks like a snarl. Instead we found a mobile groomer who treats Teddybear well, seems to like him, and has no problems at all. More expensive but for now we can afford it.
I have had three Springer Spaniels (one was a foster) and they require a LOT of grooming. I decided I would learn how to do it myself, starting with my darling girl who we got in 2003. She was practically perfect in all ways - sweet, friendly to all humans/canines, biddable, wanted to please, etc. (and a real Mommy's Girl, I was her sun). She was great for grooming except for her feet, right from the day we brought her home. Even then she never tried to bite, just made it clear she didn't like it (would pull her feet away and growl just a little). I could still get them done especially if someone was feeding her treats at the same time! One time I decided to give myself a break and took her to a groomer that had been recommended by another Springer owner. I told them in advance she was fine with absolutely everything (clippers, scissors, bathing, drying, being crated, etc.) except her feet and if they couldn't get those done I understood. So I went back to pick her up when they called and when I walked in, no one came to the counter and they were avoiding my eyes. I couldn't see my dog. After a couple minutes someone finally came over, wearing a face like thunder - without my dog. Bewildered, I said, "Where's Sunny? What's going on?" The person said flatly, "SHE BITES. She tried to bite us when we went to do her feet." I was dumbstruck! I didn't know if I should be angry, embarrassed or what. I mean, I had TOLD them she didn't like her feet being handled and to leave them alone if she got upset. And what kind of groomer hasn't experienced a dog that doesn't like something being done? For heaven's sake, you should be able to deal with it, it's not like my dog is Cujo! All I could get out was, "Uh, well, I had said you didn't need to do her feet... how was the bath and the clipping?" "FINE," the person snarled. "And you need to pay us before you can have your dog back." I didn't even know what to say... so I simply paid and left (I did not leave a tip!), fighting back tears. The dog looked okay and was VERY glad to see me. But needless to say we never ever set foot in ANY grooming establishment, ever again! The whole thing was ridiculous.
It’s so important to start grooming as a small pup. Our cavapoo has been going every month since 8 weeks old and now he’s perfect for our groomer. It’s sad this dog had a rough start. Those first months are so important for socialization. Great job!
I think it also depends on the dog. The dogs personality and past. I didn’t start with my Bernadoodle until she was like 5-6 months. And she was fantastic and still is.
@@b.r.v.8609 Good poodle breeders will start introducing clipper vibrations to the pups around 4-6 weeks and even shave their faces. The sooner the better.
@@tontolapiko1067this is a doodle and they don’t typically come from good breeders unfortunately. Their temperament and coat types are also very unpredictable. I have groomed many doodles just like this guy. I wish more owners of all dog breeds would begin their dogs grooming at as young an age as possible to hopefully prevent issues like this dog has.
So sweet to see mom's reaction to his groom. Overall, a huge success! As he gets used to the grooming process, I'd love to see him in a slightly longer clip. He's really adorable.
Apricot poodles are tottaly different from all the other poodles! Very strong personalityes and ready always for a challange:) They know and they can see that they are the most beautiful and they are clever enough to take advantage from this, every step they do. Tricky, playfull, and very, very loyal and possesive with all they love and charish... My dear Ricky was with me a long way: 17 years. In good times and in bad times, he stand by me like a rock. He brought a lot of joy in my life and in everybody s life who meet him...
I would easily drive 7 hours to get a scared dog the super calm and safe grooming job you did for this boy today. You gave him an excellent start to grooming!
it's honestly incredible every time watching these types of anxious dogs calm down a bit as you figure out and avoid their triggers. you can see him settle a bit after you stop using the clippers on his legs and feet in particular. poor dude. hopefully the owners continue to work with him at home and regular grooming becomes a nonissue for him in the future!
when I was little our family dentist called the drills he used on cavities Mr Bumpy and Mr Whistle so kids wouldn't be as scared. oddly enough, some of lil Bump's whimpers are just as high-pitched as those drills. this doggy is a dental tool and I love him.
What a great job you did with him! When his mom picked him up, I could feel her stress and utter relief at what you've accomplished with him - and I think it he looked and felt pretty great after! I think he'll learn to love the groomers if he continues to get such patient and consistent grooming - and perhaps some positive associations with it, like pup cups!
The owner has done the right thing by bringing him to you.I love the fact you did his eyes first so he could see what to bite!! But seriously, a job well done and I'm sure his next groomer will thank you for your patience and advice.
I love that you work with dog you have, not the one you wish for, and accommodate his quirks while still getting the job done! Hats off to you and your compassion. I'm sure they'll respond to your insights since they were willing to drive 7 hours for a groom!
I am incredibly impressed. You’re not feeling well and you’re grooming mr difficult. I honestly can’t think of anyone else who would be this kind and patient, especially when you’re not well. This was stressful for poor puppy but he just couldn’t have been in better hands. ❤
Aw, poor little boy.💖 He's so sweet. Love those curls and his coloring is beautiful.😍😍 Well done to the owners for travelling so far for his benefit. They couldn't of gone to a better,expert groomer like our girl,Vanessa. She works wonders. Thanks to the owners for all they do for this gorgeous pup.👍👍👏👏 Get well soon,Vanessa ❤ Yep,Vanessa IS the best. Memories of Max .
I can't believe people are traveling 100's of miles to take their dog to one particular groomer! There are good, patient groomers in every city. Vanessa is absolutely great, but she isn't the only groomer in Canada and the US who can handle a difficult or scared dog. The owners aren't going to be able to travel so far every time their dog needs a trim, so I don't know how this is that beneficial. I think it has more to do with getting their dog on camera and groomed by a famous groomer than anything, which I get. It would be an experience they will never forget! But as for really helping the dog long-term, it isn't a solution. They still have to find a groomer in their area who can handle a scared dog. They need to ask around in their local area, ask the vet, etc., for recommendations. I guess the argument is that somehow Vanessa can "teach" other groomers how to handle that particular dog, but there are plenty of groomers with decades of experience who don't need to be taught how to groom a challenging dog.
I think the owners made the best choice they felt they could. If there were groomers near them that has RUclips videos, they could have more choices. To my understanding, groomers don't allow for owners to be allowed to be around at a grooming. Would you let your kid be taken from you during a doctor appointment? I would hope not. So how do you judge a groomers attitude and whether they will take the necessary time to work with a difficult dog? I have watched a lot of groomers on RUclips and Vanessa is by far the most patient and soothing. She would be a best choice for a first groom. Someone screwed up this dog. Vanessa had the patience to figure out the problems. Now the owners have hope of finding a nearby groomer. They can even show the video of Vanessa. If the new groomer is too proud to take advice, they are not a good choice.
@susycavaleiro1265 Let’s be careful not to idealize color, that’s how many poorly bred doodles come into the world. They’re sold on color, as are most doodles and backyard bred dogs. Beware of things like so-called “rare” or “exotic” or “unique” colors, most often they’re just incorrect to the breed bc the genetics are crap and they’re mixed with random other dogs.
We just got a miniature poodle in February…we have her groomed every 6 weeks…and she LOVES it! She walks around like the cock of the walk when she comes home as if to say “oh everyone just look at me!”
Vanessa, I don't usually write comments but after this video I had to. You are an ultimate professional, the best groomer anybody can have! You have a golden heart, god bless you!!
I'm so impressed that you continued the groom even though he was biting the equipment and explained why you continued. Thank you for adding the owners reactions. While you will see the smallest imperfectiond, the owner sees a lovingly groomed pup. Thank you for sharing.
because of watching you, I was able to learn to groom my puppy very early in life. I started out with scissors and trimming her nails. At 18 months old , she is now a pro at grooming that loves her special time. We graduated to clippers, but still do her feet mostly with the scissors.
That owner’s reaction was the best!!! You show compassion and firmness and a huge dose of patience! I’m not a groomer but he looked fabulous! It’s hard to get that trust back after having been through whatever. I’d say it’s definitely worth the seven hour drive! I bet Vanessa will invent the first noiseless clippers! My grandson has autism and he also stresses at haircuts. So wonderful to have professionals willing to adapt to what a person or pet needs.🌟🤩🙌🏻
Bumpy did well for his 1st spa appointment. I wonder if it is the sound, the vibration, or both that causes him to be reactive to the clippers. He's adorable.
What great people to take him on after his deprived puppyhood. They take good care of his nails, and this shows they are responsible and they care. Hugs for them for driving so far for his sake! I think he's a handsome boy, I can see why they love him and give him a loving home. I wish more people were like them! ❤❤❤
Wow you’re so gentle with all your fur customers. It’s so delightful to watch your videos talking to them. I am not a groomer but we do have a dog which we get professionally done in our neighbourhood groomer. Great videos ❤👍. Plus I love all your fur customers 😊
I was teary eyed seeing the owner’s reaction. So happy for both of them. Im so thankful of the things you do for the fur babies. Ive been watching your vids for a few months now, your voice is calming and i learn a lot from you
I do NOT know how she does this... I seriously could NEVER do this job. I get anxious just watching!!! It amazes me though and I'm so glad that there are good groomers like her, out there!!
i remember as a kid i had the same type of hair this dog does 😆 looking back in time it would be more fitting then to take me to dog groomer than trying to untangle that hair at home... 😅
Im sorry your sick dear! But i love what you dis for this dog. Just beautiful and he is adorable. The dog hates brush and clippers because of pulling! You did a great job. ❤❤❤❤
I love how she talks to them like children.
"No, that's unacceptable. "
😂😂😂
You have to have that firm calm voice with kids or dogs 😊
21:55 You're Welcome
@@mrscatlady912True
We do it for our own sanity lol and wishful thinking that it will let the universe know what we are trying to communicate to the dog lol😅
Can you say with confidence that you(or most dog owners) don't talk to your dog like it is your child/younger family member when they missbehave?
I myself just naturally go into a different voice and pitch when talking to any of my animals(including my guinea pigs XD) and I think most people that care about their pets talk to them as if they understand us. :D
My disabled daughter has spent the last few weeks in the hospital and we found your channel. She is so very content watching them. Thank you so much. She wanted me to tell you, "I like watching your videos. I ordered a Happy Hoodie for my stuffed cat and my mom's real dog"
I am so happy we can find good people so easily on Utube. Your daughter certainly deserves comfort from the very good woman, Vanessa. .
I hope she's home soon.
RUclips can be a great comfort, I watched this channel in hospital, too! Feel better, darlin' ❤
Buying merch from people who are great with animals just feels good, man.
I sincerely hope your daughter is doing well and will enjoy a life of happiness with you and her family. This channel is really great and definitely a joy to watch!
That the owners chose to drive 7 hours to bring him to you is a testament to both how much confidence they have in you and how determined they are to do what's best for their pets. Although this poor boy had a difficult start, he's clearly in the right home now!
snarling doodles always make me giggle bc they just look so silly 😭
right 😭😭little shark poodles!!
@@teagana8972shoodles!
My darling little cockapoo only liked me grooming her. I miss her so much, and can't bear to even get rid of her coats, let alone her grooming tools! Love your grooms, you are so comforting to your guests. Xxx
"I don't want to clip your tongue" and he instantly shut his mouth. What an adorable pup.
Not giving in to tantrums is great advice for both dogs and kiddos! Awesome job as always, Vanessa.
Bumpy was so happy when Mum picked him up after his groom. Brilliant job by Vanessa.
I've brought my dog to a groomer who didn't take into consideration my dog's anxiety. When I arrived to pick him up, he was so traumatized that he clung to me as if he had experienced unbearable torture! It is always a great sign if the dog is happy and ready to play after a situation that could have been a very scary time!
@@amyralls6218who clung to you, the dog or the groomer? Just kidding, sounds like it could have been either or both
I didn't realize just how much I would love the owner's reactions until you started showing some of them. The display of love between the dogs and their owners is such a joy to see! Thank you for including them.
I love seeing the reactions too!
I could hear the tears of relief and joy in the owner's voice. Well done!
I just discovered another reason I love this channel - if we all treated each other like she treated this dog, the world would be wonderful.
Wouldn't it just?
Nearly started crying when the owner saw him. Her reaction is a reflection of how amazing you are.
Same!
....and how much he loves the owner!
I actually teared up at that part.
She looked up at her like she was an angel or someone. She couldn't believe it was real
1:30 Good point about being an entrepreneur. I hear people, who have never owned a business, saying stuff like "set your own work hours", "be your own boss", etc. But every actual business owner knows that there is no such thing as a real day off and business hours are 24/7 and are defined entirely by your customers and your ability to pay staff. It is more likely that you will be struck by lightening, twice, on the same day, and live to tell about it, than it is that you will experience even one day of feeling secure, rested, and in total control, when you are an entrepreneur. All true. Kind of like raising kids.
I appreciate all you do for the pets that land in your salon. Where business, talent, and compassion meet!
Right. People who say you can "set your own hours, be your own boss" would be broke and bankrupt if they could have everything they wanted. As someone in an entrepreneurial family, I 100% agree with your comment! My parents always worked 70 hours a week, every week.
Poor guy. The owners took him to the right spot
I hope his owners can find a groomer closer to home. Driving both directions plus the groom makes for a very long day. For a dog who needs regular grooming that would be hard on the owners and the dog. He really is a cutie. He reminds me of a toddler testing his boundaries. Great job and thanks for the video!😊✌🐕
Yeah, they did!
Yes they did!
@@chanmi1957dogs usually start testing boundaries at about a year old (it translates to being a teenager).
@chanmi1957 ...WRONG...a day is a day..no matter what you do...they did everything for the right reason too!!!
Aww...I do so wish we get to see him again. He was trying his darn-dest to be a good boy even though he has so much fear in him. Vanessa, you're amazing!
Poor baby! They did the right thing. ❤ Before we adopted our Goldendoodle I searched and found your channel. I immediately made an appointment for him at the groomer. Luckily he was wonderful and now has a monthly appointment with his groomer. I am addicted to watching your videos!
My what beautiful teeth you have there, grandma, Red Riding Hood said to the wolf.
I hope his family had an enjoyable time in Toronto and that they had a good drive home. They have shown their love and consideration for Bumpy.
Thank you for being a responsible doodle owner with the monthly grooms! 🐾❤
Some get these pups as not meant to cast hair?They don’t realize they need clipped and groomed regularly. Many of these breeds end up with messy coats and neglected it’s sad.Owner of this dog is obviously very caring to drive seven hours to get him clipped.x
Yep, I totally agree, I'm addicted to watching these videos because they're so good and very informative!
“i saw you raise those teeth!”
“THESE TEEFS?!😬”
Man, been there, done that. I feel so bad for dogs like this guy. They eventually get over it, it just takes time and patience. Thumbs up to you!
And no one has more patience than Vanessa.
@@momofschnauzers That is 100% true!
Actually not all dogs get over it. Some dogs don't, and shouldn't, be bathed regularly like a goldendoodle would, and don't appreciate it either. Like many breeds of working dogs with double coats. The shampooing strips their coat of the natural oils and texture that help the coat to do it's job. Dogs like the Great Pyrenees, like mine. I brush my dogs coat twice per week and can get it done in about 15 minutes or less if needed. She loves it. But water touching her.....not so much.
It's hard to convince a dog who's DNA demands that actual bathing is weird and wrong, to allow you to destroy thousands of years of fine-tuning to NOT be shampooed. Plus, there's the problem of moving a 130 lb dog who doesn't want to be moved!
Fortunately, these types of dogs don't require much more than brushing and nail clipping. Absolutely no shaving their coats unless for medical care, and washing only if really needed, at most, the very most, twice per year, and maybe never. Just brushing out their coats regularly keeps them surprisingly clean. Our ancestors bred these dogs with this characteristic in mind because it was necessary for the job. We have to respect a dog's breed and the fact that us humans often lay down perceptions and rules that we think should apply to all dogs. And that is simply not true.
@@_JiminyCricket_ It is indeed very sad, it's why we have to take it slow.
@@Yosetimethey didn't say "all dogs". Good grief. "Dogs like this". Doodles were NOT bred to be self cleaning, obviously. What was the point of your essay? To state the obvious? Dogs deserve to feel good free of dirt, stink and skin irritation. Mat-free. You can enjoy your stanky dog. Even working dogs have been groomed on this channel but if you want a gold star for speaking up then here you go ⭐️
Rescued pups can come with challenges, however, they also have an abundance of love 🥰
We have 3 rescue dogs and 2 rescue cats. You are spot on about problems and love.
Awe poor fella. He wants to be nice. You did a great job with him.
Its like he was saying : "I think you are a nice lady and i wanna be the bestest boi but i scared.... dont hate me" 😊
I respect you so much for your patience and understanding with this dog. Definitely worth a seven hour drive.
He must be thinking: 'I couldn't beat the girl, she's full of tricks!' LOL!!!!!
🎉 yup!!!
😂
That’s not what it’s thinking.
@@kisht7469i can read the minds of dogs, that’s what he’s thinking
Man, you deserve a medal for that groom. Poor little guy … he was just so scared. Rescue dogs have so much baggage that we never will know about. You absolutely were amazing with him. Thanks for sharing. 😊💙💗
Vanessa’s comment about the crucial early months was very true for my childhood pup. He came to us at three months, a sturdy little black lab cross, and had a happy, much loved 18 years with us, but no one ever picked up a broom to sweep without Ben running away in panic. Someone had beaten him those first months and he never got over it.
Our family dog that we adopted as an adult was so afraid of brooms and vacuum cleaners that he would run away and we had to cross the street for brooms. We managed to desensitize him and by the end he would lie all relaxed until the vacuum would literally touch him or we had to tell him to go away. I guess it works for some and it doesn‘t for others.
That’s heartbreaking. I hope that person/people never got another pet
@@elizabethhayman-oldham5151 Me too! But we don’t know whether he even had an owner because the adoption agency was so shady. He clearly was street smart and knew what a trash can was
That breaks my heart! 💔😢 thank you for giving him the best life he deserved
Poor guy 😞
He's such a sweet dog, just scared and has a mental trauma he needs help working past. The way he and the owner greeted each other shows that he is in a wonderful, loving home now. Vanessa, I'm sure that was a very stressful day, but you persevered and did an awesome job!
I adopted a doodle who was in the exact same situation and time frame, we actually saved him from being euthanized. It's now been almost two years and he has mostly learned that grooming is a positive experience and he can trust me, but he is still extremely chronically anxious. It breaks my heart to see him be so scared of literally everything, his own tail startles him sometimes... He's such a sweet boy, I just wish he had a better start in life Ó╭╮Ò
That’s so sad, they’re naturally very happy dogs. Our 8 month old is always happy and excited about everything, humans can ruin dogs, and save them
I have my dog on Prozac and recently added the supplement L-Theanine to help my dog's everyday anxiety.
Unfortunately, since most if not all doodles are brought into this world for money and moneey alone, a stable temperament isn't a priority. The same thing happens with byb German Shepherds and Huskies where you have dogs with poor temperaments or behavioral issues caused by their conflicting instincts. It's so sad, the dogs don't deserve this.😢
Have you tried playing calming music to the pup and/or using calming essential oils on him?
but you're now giving him the best life you can and loving him regardless of his start in life. You're doing the best thing for him and you understand his anxieties. Good job on that! Don't beat yourself up for other people's mistakes.
There are people like you who have the ability to not only remain calm, but to *keep going* to teach the dog that their behavior does not result in stopping (unless safety is an issue). I am not one of those people; I would chicken out from fear or distress. Of course you have a depth of experience, but also you have a gift.
Poodles often have itchy eyes and hate their front legs being touched. They can also be emotional and drama queens. But they're so kind hearted ❤️
True !! dogs in general don’t like their paws being touched and the noise of clippers scares them like no other !
It drives me nuts that backyard breeders mix poodles with everything now, and people buy them without understanding that the dog needs training and structure to be great. Then the poor dogs get dumped because they’re not cute puppies anymore and have developed bad behaviors. It’s so unfair to the dogs.
Someone needs to design silent clippers
@@trishblakely3476We need to bring back mutts. They’re generally healthier. Than these overbred dogs around these days. I wonder what happened to stray dogs here in the US. They are very rare to see.
....TOTALLY AGREE...although ANY mixing sucks...
"It would be ideal if you would shut your mouth..." SO polite. SO Canadian! Great job, Vanessa!
I'm so glad he was adopted by people willing to bring him to you, especially traveling 7 hours!
And you're an angel for grooming him even tho you're sick! Feel better soon hon!
Much love from the states ❤
His face is absolutely adorable. You did a great job.
He's just very scared, he'll come around with practice, patience, and consistency. Fantastic job!!
Yes, especially if he wasn't treated very well in his tender months whipping out something noisy like some clippers that he's never seen before and he'll most certainly get scared, stressed, and retaliate. Someone inexperienced with dogs who show aggression when scared might not know how to react in the situation and be unsure of how to proceed. It's good they brought him to Vanessa so she could coach them on how to best proceed with him moving forward.
To see the owner cry brought tears to my eyes too.
Ah that reunion at the end was adorable 😊 Hes clearly a lovely dog underneath his trust issues ❤ hope you feel better soon Vanessa!
The owners reaction was worth a Million Dollars !! Well Done.
Vanessa’s calm, professional demeanor makes all the difference.😊
He obviously is in good hands with that owner. It would be lovely to see his progress for grooming now that he's had such a good start.
I had tears in my eyes listening to his mom! She was happy and he was so excited to see her! Great video!
Thank you to the owners for adopting him as an older puppy. I also thank you for taking the time to work with him on his terms. I hope he feels so much better after his spa treatment.
As a groomer, I appreciate your videos that show pet owners what we actually do! I also like your compassionate approach and wish more groomers had such patience. I would love to work with you!
I don’t even have a dog but find your channel most interesting.
Aww... She was so grateful. You did a wonderful job.
You may have trained to be a Licensed Beautician, but your calling is definitely with our fur and feathered friends! God given talent!
Feathered friends? Does she deal in birds too?
@@felixhenson9926 She has done a duck in the past, from what I've seen!
6:11 this is so true. We rescued a 4 year-old Havanese x Yorkshire with little to no information on previous owners and they definitely abused him. We are now 3 years later and still working on making him trust humans again. The close family is fine, but strangers and other dogs are a big trigger. Strangely enough, he loves cats. Good work on this puppy!
Vanessa, you always sound surprised that your clients make such long journeys to see you. No surprise to me, as the care and empathy you show the dogs in your hands is beyond exemplary. Your are gentle, but firm, kind and careful. The results may sometimes not be how you want, but you always do your best. I think we all want a Vanessa in our towns and countries!
💯 I wish there was a groomer like Vanessa where I live!
I really think it's fantastic how much patience you have. You don't give up, even when you're sick. You've done a great job again! chapeau! 👍
Greetings from Belgium! 🇧🇪
Such patience you have! I brought my dog once to a groomer that refused him because he growled and reached for his collar too quickly. I took him to another groomer who said he was perfectly behaved and that’s where he goes now. You are the proof that a good groomer takes time for the dog to calm down a little, plus you try hard to make your doggy clients as comfortable as possible.
Absolutely avoid that first groomer! Unfortunately there are some still who go by the (completely disproven) 'dominance' theory of dog handling, or who can't read a dog's anxious body language well, or - perhaps worse - who have just got tired of caring and will yell at dogs or hit them to force them into submission! I've heard plenty of horror stories from new clients of why they left former groomers, and not once have any of their dogs been unhandleable with a little patience and clear instruction and positive reinforcement. Most dogs will calm right down and be so happy to cooperate if you can just let them know clearly what you want them to do and that they're being A Good Dog!
We’ve had similar experience. Couple shops banned him because either they are afraid he’ll jump off grooming table and hang himself or they are afraid he’ll hurt them. I understand because he is very mouthy and his smile looks like a snarl. Instead we found a mobile groomer who treats Teddybear well, seems to like him, and has no problems at all. More expensive but for now we can afford it.
I have had three Springer Spaniels (one was a foster) and they require a LOT of grooming. I decided I would learn how to do it myself, starting with my darling girl who we got in 2003. She was practically perfect in all ways - sweet, friendly to all humans/canines, biddable, wanted to please, etc. (and a real Mommy's Girl, I was her sun). She was great for grooming except for her feet, right from the day we brought her home. Even then she never tried to bite, just made it clear she didn't like it (would pull her feet away and growl just a little). I could still get them done especially if someone was feeding her treats at the same time! One time I decided to give myself a break and took her to a groomer that had been recommended by another Springer owner. I told them in advance she was fine with absolutely everything (clippers, scissors, bathing, drying, being crated, etc.) except her feet and if they couldn't get those done I understood. So I went back to pick her up when they called and when I walked in, no one came to the counter and they were avoiding my eyes. I couldn't see my dog. After a couple minutes someone finally came over, wearing a face like thunder - without my dog. Bewildered, I said, "Where's Sunny? What's going on?" The person said flatly, "SHE BITES. She tried to bite us when we went to do her feet." I was dumbstruck! I didn't know if I should be angry, embarrassed or what. I mean, I had TOLD them she didn't like her feet being handled and to leave them alone if she got upset. And what kind of groomer hasn't experienced a dog that doesn't like something being done? For heaven's sake, you should be able to deal with it, it's not like my dog is Cujo! All I could get out was, "Uh, well, I had said you didn't need to do her feet... how was the bath and the clipping?" "FINE," the person snarled. "And you need to pay us before you can have your dog back." I didn't even know what to say... so I simply paid and left (I did not leave a tip!), fighting back tears. The dog looked okay and was VERY glad to see me. But needless to say we never ever set foot in ANY grooming establishment, ever again! The whole thing was ridiculous.
No wonder they drove 7 hours to see you. You are a wonder and miracle worker. Enjoyed the show so much.
It’s so important to start grooming as a small pup. Our cavapoo has been going every month since 8 weeks old and now he’s perfect for our groomer. It’s sad this dog had a rough start. Those first months are so important for socialization. Great job!
I think it also depends on the dog. The dogs personality and past. I didn’t start with my Bernadoodle until she was like 5-6 months. And she was fantastic and still is.
@@jenniesmythe8188 that’s pure luck then, it’s highly recommended to start their grooming at 3 or 4 months
@@b.r.v.8609 Good poodle breeders will start introducing clipper vibrations to the pups around 4-6 weeks and even shave their faces. The sooner the better.
@@tontolapiko1067this is a doodle and they don’t typically come from good breeders unfortunately. Their temperament and coat types are also very unpredictable. I have groomed many doodles just like this guy. I wish more owners of all dog breeds would begin their dogs grooming at as young an age as possible to hopefully prevent issues like this dog has.
@@b.r.v.8609 Agreed. Not a supporter of doodle breeding in any way.
Such cuuute eyes. Thanks for being so chill so you can help these animals.
So sweet to see mom's reaction to his groom. Overall, a huge success! As he gets used to the grooming process, I'd love to see him in a slightly longer clip. He's really adorable.
Apricot poodles are tottaly different from all the other poodles! Very strong personalityes and ready always for a challange:) They know and they can see that they are the most beautiful and they are clever enough to take advantage from this, every step they do.
Tricky, playfull, and very, very loyal and possesive with all they love and charish...
My dear Ricky was with me a long way: 17 years. In good times and in bad times, he stand by me like a rock. He brought a lot of joy in my life and in everybody s life who meet him...
Even though he gets upset, you're still very kind to him. I love that!
What an adorable boy. Hes so nervous.
Love the owners' reactions❤
'You're the best!" You definitely are the best, Vanessa!!!
That was great. You did your best as you can. It could be possibility that he had sensitive certain areas that bother him. Adorable ❤
I would easily drive 7 hours to get a scared dog the super calm and safe grooming job you did for this boy today. You gave him an excellent start to grooming!
Is so very nice to see your dogs learn to trust you and then the comfort for them that comes along with that process. Lovely...
Brilliant job on Bumpy. He was so scared he was shaking. I think each groom he will be better. Vanessa you are amazing so sweet to Bumpy.♥️🐾
My heart goes out to dogs like this. He relaxed and calmed down with you. You've got a gift working with nervous dogs ❤
it's honestly incredible every time watching these types of anxious dogs calm down a bit as you figure out and avoid their triggers. you can see him settle a bit after you stop using the clippers on his legs and feet in particular. poor dude. hopefully the owners continue to work with him at home and regular grooming becomes a nonissue for him in the future!
OMG he looks so cute. Great job. He seemed so proud when his owners came to pick him up.
when I was little our family dentist called the drills he used on cavities Mr Bumpy and Mr Whistle so kids wouldn't be as scared. oddly enough, some of lil Bump's whimpers are just as high-pitched as those drills. this doggy is a dental tool and I love him.
What a great job you did with him! When his mom picked him up, I could feel her stress and utter relief at what you've accomplished with him - and I think it he looked and felt pretty great after! I think he'll learn to love the groomers if he continues to get such patient and consistent grooming - and perhaps some positive associations with it, like pup cups!
The owner has done the right thing by bringing him to you.I love the fact you did his eyes first so he could see what to bite!! But seriously, a job well done and I'm sure his next groomer will thank you for your patience and advice.
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Vanessa giving out life lessons on temper tantrums. If she ever decides to become a mother, she'll be an excellent one.
Still a clever boy to keep his mouth shut and tongue inside when you mentioned, “and I don’t want to clip your tongue…” 😜
I love that you work with dog you have, not the one you wish for, and accommodate his quirks while still getting the job done! Hats off to you and your compassion. I'm sure they'll respond to your insights since they were willing to drive 7 hours for a groom!
I am incredibly impressed. You’re not feeling well and you’re grooming mr difficult. I honestly can’t think of anyone else who would be this kind and patient, especially when you’re not well. This was stressful for poor puppy but he just couldn’t have been in better hands. ❤
Her reaction was everything. You did such a great job.
Aw, poor little boy.💖 He's so sweet. Love those curls and his coloring is beautiful.😍😍 Well done to the owners for travelling so far for his benefit. They couldn't of gone to a better,expert groomer like our girl,Vanessa. She works wonders. Thanks to the owners for all they do for this gorgeous pup.👍👍👏👏 Get well soon,Vanessa ❤ Yep,Vanessa IS the best. Memories of Max .
I can't believe people are traveling 100's of miles to take their dog to one particular groomer! There are good, patient groomers in every city. Vanessa is absolutely great, but she isn't the only groomer in Canada and the US who can handle a difficult or scared dog. The owners aren't going to be able to travel so far every time their dog needs a trim, so I don't know how this is that beneficial. I think it has more to do with getting their dog on camera and groomed by a famous groomer than anything, which I get. It would be an experience they will never forget! But as for really helping the dog long-term, it isn't a solution. They still have to find a groomer in their area who can handle a scared dog. They need to ask around in their local area, ask the vet, etc., for recommendations. I guess the argument is that somehow Vanessa can "teach" other groomers how to handle that particular dog, but there are plenty of groomers with decades of experience who don't need to be taught how to groom a challenging dog.
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@mygirldarby but this was the first professional groom and the dog needed a good experience.
I think the owners made the best choice they felt they could. If there were groomers near them that has RUclips videos, they could have more choices. To my understanding, groomers don't allow for owners to be allowed to be around at a grooming. Would you let your kid be taken from you during a doctor appointment? I would hope not. So how do you judge a groomers attitude and whether they will take the necessary time to work with a difficult dog? I have watched a lot of groomers on RUclips and Vanessa is by far the most patient and soothing. She would be a best choice for a first groom. Someone screwed up this dog. Vanessa had the patience to figure out the problems. Now the owners have hope of finding a nearby groomer. They can even show the video of Vanessa. If the new groomer is too proud to take advice, they are not a good choice.
@susycavaleiro1265 Let’s be careful not to idealize color, that’s how many poorly bred doodles come into the world. They’re sold on color, as are most doodles and backyard bred dogs. Beware of things like so-called “rare” or “exotic” or “unique” colors, most often they’re just incorrect to the breed bc the genetics are crap and they’re mixed with random other dogs.
Sorry that you are sick. I hope you bounce back soon ❤
You are really the guardian angel for our furry friends... Keep filling the world with ❤ Vanessa. And get well soon 🤗
We just got a miniature poodle in February…we have her groomed every 6 weeks…and she LOVES it! She walks around like the cock of the walk when she comes home as if to say “oh everyone just look at me!”
Well, THAT got me teary-eyed. Her reaction was priceless. What a beautiful job!
Vanessa, I don't usually write comments but after this video I had to. You are an ultimate professional, the best groomer anybody can have! You have a golden heart, god bless you!!
You’re a saint for being able to show so much patience while sick! There’s definitely a reason people drive for hours to bring their dogs to you! ❤
I'm so impressed that you continued the groom even though he was biting the equipment and explained why you continued. Thank you for adding the owners reactions. While you will see the smallest imperfectiond, the owner sees a lovingly groomed pup. Thank you for sharing.
Great job Vanessa, that was tense! The owner's reaction was amazing. Get well soon!
because of watching you, I was able to learn to groom my puppy very early in life. I started out with scissors and trimming her nails. At 18 months old , she is now a pro at grooming that loves her special time. We graduated to clippers, but still do her feet mostly with the scissors.
That owner’s reaction was the best!!! You show compassion and firmness and a huge dose of patience! I’m not a groomer but he looked fabulous! It’s hard to get that trust back after having been through whatever. I’d say it’s definitely worth the seven hour drive! I bet Vanessa will invent the first noiseless clippers! My grandson has autism and he also stresses at haircuts. So wonderful to have professionals willing to adapt to what a person or pet needs.🌟🤩🙌🏻
00:58 when he was holding his face out to you for trimming…🥹
You were so patient and gentle with him. Wonderful job!
Bumpy did well for his 1st spa appointment. I wonder if it is the sound, the vibration, or both that causes him to be reactive to the clippers. He's adorable.
That was awesome.
And I think his face looks absolutely adorable.
That is ONE CUTE DOG!
And his owner is so happy 😍
Brilliant job. A frightened but gentle soul.
Vanessa, you are amazing! It was touch & go at the outset. Afterward, he looked 150% cuter than when he came in. ❤❤❤❤
What great people to take him on after his deprived puppyhood. They take good care of his nails, and this shows they are responsible and they care. Hugs for them for driving so far for his sake! I think he's a handsome boy, I can see why they love him and give him a loving home. I wish more people were like them! ❤❤❤
Wow you’re so gentle with all your fur customers. It’s so delightful to watch your videos talking to them. I am not a groomer but we do have a dog which we get professionally done in our neighbourhood groomer. Great videos ❤👍. Plus I love all your fur customers 😊
For a first groom, and considering his nervousness and vetoes, he looks just gorgeous! ❤👌🏽
How sweet of you to keep talking with them. Looks like, they too understand you 😊❤❤❤
YOU'RE THE BEST!! 😂
THAT'S AN UNDERSTATEMENT 🐾💖
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I was teary eyed seeing the owner’s reaction. So happy for both of them.
Im so thankful of the things you do for the fur babies. Ive been watching your vids for a few months now, your voice is calming and i learn a lot from you
I do NOT know how she does this... I seriously could NEVER do this job. I get anxious just watching!!! It amazes me though and I'm so glad that there are good groomers like her, out there!!
Sick and all she still remained patient and kind, a real pro for sure. Hoping your feeling better soon Vanessa.
Aw he has very kind eyes and you can tell he doesn’t want to be feisty ❤
You are so patient and kind to these poor, scared pups. Thank God for your compassion!!
i remember as a kid i had the same type of hair this dog does 😆 looking back in time it would be more fitting then to take me to dog groomer than trying to untangle that hair at home... 😅
Im sorry your sick dear! But i love what you dis for this dog. Just beautiful and he is adorable. The dog hates brush and clippers because of pulling! You did a great job. ❤❤❤❤
What a good boy! I'm so glad he was able to find a family that are willing to go the extra mile (or 7 hour drive) to give him what he needs! 😍
The owners response made me tear up. She was so happy and YOU are a miracle worker!