“Why Men Shut Down: Pastor Keion Explains 🚪💔

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  • Опубликовано: 20 май 2024
  • “Watch as Pastor Keion Henderson delivers a powerful message about male vulnerability and the dangers of misusing intimate disclosures in this latest video on Boldbelievers. Discover the critical importance of creating a safe space for men to express their emotions without fear of retribution. Pastor Henderson explains how using a man’s openness against him can lead to shutdown and silence, impacting relationships deeply. This video is a must-watch for anyone looking to foster deeper connections and understanding. Subscribe to Boldbelievers for more enlightening content that challenges and inspires.”
    #PastorKeionHenderson #MaleVulnerability #Boldbelievers #EmotionalSafety #CommunicationInRelationships #MenAndEmotions #relationships #OpenUp #TrustInRelationships #HealingConversations #love #shortsfeed

Комментарии • 37

  • @Papal_Sword
    @Papal_Sword 2 месяца назад +8

    Great speech

  • @Dontcareanymore76
    @Dontcareanymore76 Месяц назад +2

    He's 100% right. 😮‍💨

  • @SmEdesigns12
    @SmEdesigns12 2 месяца назад +6

    Goes both ways. But we don’t hear pastors talking bout it’s mutual

    • @BoldBelievers
      @BoldBelievers  2 месяца назад +2

      I believe it can be a two way thing but I think it especially applies to a man

    • @yugimuto2404
      @yugimuto2404 2 месяца назад +3

      It's not two ways. Because females biologically are more emotional. While men have deep emotions meaning they are buried. While women are emotional. Men rarely ever bring up your traumas in a argument because he, himself have trauma he won't talk about so we rarely ever pick at women emotions

    • @Yxng2tone
      @Yxng2tone 9 дней назад

      can yall shu up about both ways yall use it against we dont

    • @yugimuto2404
      @yugimuto2404 8 дней назад

      @@Yxng2tone how about you try to have a decent conversation before telling others to shut up

  • @robertbaker1675
    @robertbaker1675 Месяц назад

    True

  • @gonzilla10721
    @gonzilla10721 2 месяца назад +5

    FACTS!!!!!

  • @michelelupo3207
    @michelelupo3207 2 месяца назад +2

    More
    Need to hear more. Spread the love!

  • @mr.wilson9178
    @mr.wilson9178 2 месяца назад +2

    True.

  • @kbedel1982
    @kbedel1982 2 месяца назад

    Speechless

  • @ewan3900
    @ewan3900 2 месяца назад +1

    True true true

  • @user-ii9qc9fd4v
    @user-ii9qc9fd4v 2 месяца назад +3

    💯

  • @LeslieSierra-kl3sz
    @LeslieSierra-kl3sz 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤

  • @AshleySzczukowski
    @AshleySzczukowski Месяц назад

    What about the reverse? I’ve been tormented by my man for things I shared in private and vulnerably

  • @dawnbanks3060
    @dawnbanks3060 2 месяца назад +6

    That’s right for men and women.

    • @BoldBelievers
      @BoldBelievers  2 месяца назад +1

      I do agree it can both way but I think it especially applies to men

    • @VSGCjaye
      @VSGCjaye 2 месяца назад

      @@BoldBelieversExactly. Men are impacted so much more, especially because we don’t trust people because of this! I don’t know if you’re going to stab me in the back, so I don’t tell you about anything. Even with a close group of friends, my classmates at school, I don’t tell them things. I don’t tell them the highs, and I don’t tell them the lows. You will use my lowest moments against me, no matter of what my highs look like. And for that reason I don’t trust or open up.

    • @georgeprecious1036
      @georgeprecious1036 2 месяца назад +5

      Let men have this one, stop always trying to make it an equality thing. let the men have this one.

  • @georgeprecious1036
    @georgeprecious1036 2 месяца назад +1

    Women; insert self - anytime they talk about men

  • @ceddi18394
    @ceddi18394 Месяц назад

    Where can I find the whole speech in a video please?

  • @kjelsmaa
    @kjelsmaa 2 месяца назад

    At the moment... 835 likes and NO dislikes

  • @__rachel___
    @__rachel___ 2 месяца назад

    ‼️‼️‼️

  • @AboriginalWoman_
    @AboriginalWoman_ 2 месяца назад +2

    Preach to the Men who do it all the time

    • @GlamVogueDiaries
      @GlamVogueDiaries 2 месяца назад

      Why do women always deflect are you a child ffs

    • @georgeprecious1036
      @georgeprecious1036 2 месяца назад

      Because he has been hurt before by the experience and he suspects you would do the same, because there are times you show the trait. Why not listen instead of trying to find a way to be defensive.

    • @AboriginalWoman_
      @AboriginalWoman_ 2 месяца назад

      ​@@georgeprecious1036women open up all the time and he will then use what she told him an use it against her to win a argument. U upset cause u probably done it too ! So No !!! Talk to Men check Men ... Women talk to women

    • @joopdesmit
      @joopdesmit 2 месяца назад

      For once this isn't about what men do to women. Which is, admittedly way way too much. For this one time, this is about one thing that women do to men. And there are more, but this is one.
      Thank you for your comment, immediately proving Pastors' point.

    • @georgeprecious1036
      @georgeprecious1036 2 месяца назад

      @@AboriginalWoman_ Men do are not petty enough to use what a woman told them in an argument, it's women that do that. Also this is a men's discussion, why did you feel the need to butt in? Secondly only men raised by y'all women would ever be so petty to mention when you explained to them as a 1 up on an argument. Men typically don't care, we try logic and when it fails we become silent. The most complaint i have heard from women, is why don't men speak? So stop dating women you assume are men because the act like men(studs) and assume men and what you refer to as studs are alike.

  • @mreverstrucked23
    @mreverstrucked23 2 месяца назад +1

    Mmmmm

  • @zigzag-xx2yd
    @zigzag-xx2yd 2 месяца назад +5

    And let me guess, this teaching came from Jesus?!!!! No, it comes from actually thinking and realizing real truth!!! But the same thing goes when a woman opens up!!! Most men shut down when their women try to open up to them! Goes both ways!!! We all express our emotions in different ways, regardless of being a man or a woman. When someone we love and want to respect doesn't accept our feelings and respect them, then this significant other isn't really significant!

    • @Altimeter496
      @Altimeter496 2 месяца назад

      >it goes both ways.
      Where do men weaponize the emotions of their female partners without provocation? I can't give you a handful of examples where I've seen guys weaponize the emotions of females in their life unprovoked, but I can think of thousands of personal examples of women weaponizing the emotions of males.
      Stop trying to equalize this suffering and issue cause it's not.

    • @Michael-bh8dj
      @Michael-bh8dj 2 месяца назад +1

      Ok not arguing with you but try to follow me for a moment. When you hear black lives matter. It doesn't mean all lives don't matter. Just want to talk about this for a min. Woman please just hear it and think. Is what he said true or not.

  • @Goggans
    @Goggans 2 месяца назад

    But men get mad when women do the same. Where are the men who follow after Christ and not egos?