How to train your brain to do hard things

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
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    Most successful people have this one trait in common - they know how to do difficult things without giving up. So how do you make yourself do hard things - whether it’s studying, working out, or solving a tough problem at work. In this video, Rajan talks about how to hard stuff - and why it might be easier than you think.
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  • @HabitStrong
    @HabitStrong  3 года назад +102

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    • @nevergiveup7985
      @nevergiveup7985 3 года назад +4

      @HabitStrong you are my inspiration, please keep posting videos.✔👍✌😍👏

    • @Harshit-vu6ky
      @Harshit-vu6ky 3 года назад

      Maybe that's how we tend to like establishing our supremacy over others.
      Like people's personal opinion is something supposedly insurmountable but we seem to like it when we have our way. Because it generates a sense of accomplishment.

    • @shivammishra1978
      @shivammishra1978 3 года назад

      What is your eye power

    • @abubakersiddique1258
      @abubakersiddique1258 3 года назад

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    • @amiteshverma99
      @amiteshverma99 3 года назад

      Is the workshop is on online session??

  • @hussainlaskar3092
    @hussainlaskar3092 3 года назад +412

    So basically your worst enemy is you yourself, in the form of laziness, aimlessness, fantasy dreaming, ignoring the reality, filthy habits, and so on. It's your evil desire which ruins your life. So tame yourself first and it's a constant struggle.

  • @prithvirajdj
    @prithvirajdj 3 года назад +258

    "The best way out is always through."
    ~Robert Frost

    • @annriya4566
      @annriya4566 3 года назад

      Absolutely

    • @pranjal5891
      @pranjal5891 3 года назад

      @Shubham Upadhyay his profile photo also.😂😂😂😂

  • @subramanyam2699
    @subramanyam2699 3 года назад +156

    Fair enough, if we can see any hardship as a challenge, then we were achieve it with joy!

  • @bhuppi13
    @bhuppi13 3 года назад +18

    I used to practice this years back. Everything unpleasant is making me strong and actually helping me. Whether it was long walks for metro, running on metro stairs and not using lifts, standing in the metro for long time etc.. It actually works and thanks for the reminder :)
    Somewhere down the line I could buy a car and the leisure of travelling in AC kicked in. I have never been the same after that. Tough things are a boon. They make us

  • @archak737
    @archak737 3 года назад +12

    Hi Rajan I have encountered a similar situation when I had to file my taxes. The task dreaded me and then the anxiety and stress that I have to do this boring job of filing my taxes, it was so hard. I tried many things, read many blogs because I really wanted to escape from this cobweb of being dreaded and procrastination for doing things that are boring and still need to be done. But in the end what helped me to sit down and finish my taxes was just this one thing - that I need to calm my mind down- I don't need to listen to anything good or bad from my mind. So simply just numbing my mind down not listening to anything positive not listening to anything negative and just doing the act because it needs to be done - that alone helped me a lot.

  • @AsitNaikAsit_Anupam_Naik
    @AsitNaikAsit_Anupam_Naik 3 года назад +65

    Highly inspired by your work Rajan. As a graduate of IIT Kanpur, after having screwed my grades, the relatively difficult journey post that makes me strongly relate to the content you put up and inspires me to be an ‘intern’ everyday

    • @mikaa2004
      @mikaa2004 Год назад +2

      Writing comments on RUclips

  • @dhirajnichani
    @dhirajnichani 3 года назад +33

    Thanks a lot for the guidance. This one 5-minute video is highly highly motivating for someone like me. I always thought I am not cut-out for hard things from my experiences in career and life but I never thought my desire to seek easy things is the underlying factor and not my capability that is failing me when encountered with hard things. Thank you so much! You contribution through these videos is changing lives.

  • @sushmithabakthavachalam9638
    @sushmithabakthavachalam9638 3 года назад +4

    I used to believe in one thing in life everything depends upon mindset I strongly believe that!!

  • @sobana4685
    @sobana4685 3 года назад +19

    This blew my mind! It put a smile on my face! Now Everytime I get tired, I have decided to watch this.

  • @abhishekbhosale8820
    @abhishekbhosale8820 3 года назад +11

    After listening to this I remembered the story you shared on quora about your IPS training and how hard it was waking up early every day, training/preparing your mind for every day's struggle ... thanks for sharing this as well...

  • @bhuvansharma5988
    @bhuvansharma5988 3 года назад +5

    From today when I m studying I will keep in mind that I m working in my office and this will be change my habits in think.
    Thanks Sir

  • @mubashirali7538
    @mubashirali7538 3 года назад +9

    We all have missed some or the other opportunitity in life just by thinking we cannot do or achieve success from it or by the fear of what people would think if we fail at it..life is short folks..take action..and yes, i love your videos sir. Wish we were exposed to these kind of videos before 🔥

  • @mahendrasheth2884
    @mahendrasheth2884 3 года назад +5

    Brilliant! 10 out of 10!
    Extreme Clarity - 5star Sauna experience - practical application - meditation in that situation.
    Marathon, so hard work but practicing for months. Why? is it for challenge? is it for thrill? is it for achievement? or is it convince one self that I want to achieve it, no matter what?
    Great - convince your mind.
    Thanks.

  • @mayankmehta2713
    @mayankmehta2713 3 года назад +2

    This is absolutely true! Even I tried this technique to give up sweet tea. Like what I did that while having the first sip of tea if there is no sugar we have a negative emotion so I changed that emotion to a positive emotion and just expressed a feeling of vow after the first sip of tea without sugar and didi this for a couple of days and now I don’t add sugar to my cup of tea from last 4 months .. It really works guys just give a try..

  • @aarushsingh1689
    @aarushsingh1689 3 года назад +1

    *the logical reason and solution to avoid procastination , laziness* thankyou

  • @lethalhands7497
    @lethalhands7497 3 года назад

    This is 💯 % works. I used it and it work always. U may not love doing that work but it maintain peace in mind

  • @ankitsrivastava8023
    @ankitsrivastava8023 3 года назад +14

    "Let life be an adventure" thank you sir

  • @narendra6153
    @narendra6153 3 года назад +9

    Ohh my god !! Now I've got the trick to control my mind .. I intuitively knew it, but it didn't pop out, Thank u sir for that, I'll use this technique everytime i need to use....

  • @harsha3360
    @harsha3360 2 года назад +1

    Hard word comes into action whenever we dont do the work that we love.If we do a work that gives us pleasure that doesn't make us to do hard any more.So,we have to do the work that brings us pleasure and it will only pushes us to complete the task.Then we may don't stress ourselves to do it .So, don't love what you do ,Do what you love.

  • @Vishal-yt9bs
    @Vishal-yt9bs 2 года назад

    माझ्यासाठी राजन साहेब हे असे IPS असलेले पहिले आणि शेवटचे व्यक्तिमत्व आहेत ज्यांनी मला प्रभावित केले. साहेब आपल्या बोलण्यातून आपल्या प्रगल्भ बुध्दीमत्तेचा प्रत्यय येतो.

  • @rupalijambhekar3219
    @rupalijambhekar3219 2 года назад

    Regarding a hard task as an adventure shall really help

  • @freetibet1000
    @freetibet1000 3 года назад

    My first trip to India was precisely because I wanted to go outside of my comfort zone. I wanted to challenge my mental habits. What place is a better place than India for a spoilt European brat like me for doing just that? Most things that I thought I knew about myself where useless in that environment. I hade to re-program myself in order to cope with the reality around. Many years later I’m so grateful for having taking that step into the unknown then. I learnt so much about myself during that trip and new challenges are surely coming my way again. Now I feel much more confident that I can face challenges again because I know so much more about myself because I believe in trying hard things in life in order to learn more about myself. With knowledge comes confidence and with that comes perseverance and strength. My relationship with India have brought me many unforgettable moments of insights and today I feel like it’s my spiritual home country although I’m physically placed in an entirely different continent right now.

  • @Futureecon
    @Futureecon 2 года назад

    Most of the time just walking quickly to certain distance in any kind of weather makes me feel confident and goal oriented..
    I feel like enlightened😀

  • @rayray9996
    @rayray9996 3 года назад +1

    Very true. Success or failure in life is often a result of one's attitude. With an incorrect attitude, even something that could have turned out to be a success may turn out to be a failure. I learned this lesson the hard way in life after making some mistakes along the way. Thank God I eventually learned the lesson though.

  • @dose.of.happiness
    @dose.of.happiness 3 года назад +17

    You are that rock for all the 🌧️ that pours over. But the rock remains steady. And directs each drop of rains in their respective channels❤️🎉

  • @vm1662
    @vm1662 3 года назад +2

    Wow! I'll be coming back to this video everytime I feel I need to something 'unpleasant'. Great video!

  • @Drishtikashyap24
    @Drishtikashyap24 3 года назад +1

    Wow sir 🥺🥺🥺
    i couldn't thank you enough. Today morning I was thinking how will i manage my day today (some study stuffs And all)
    After watching this I can say I want to gain this experience . Yes it's not easy.
    Yes it's difficult to sit for those extra hours , blowing mind in this extra studies is difficult, while my college batchmates are free, chatting on college groups, posting pictures... I am here because I choose it.
    It's my decision to write CSE and I will.
    Thanks a ton.
    God bless you.

  • @akankshaswaraj375
    @akankshaswaraj375 10 месяцев назад

    You have an amazing voice so powerful and convincing as if anyone can conquer the world and get their dream life Thankyou for this video ❤

  • @anishghanwat9943
    @anishghanwat9943 3 года назад +2

    In this 5 minutes my prospective to look at work/things as completely changed!
    Thank you so much sir!

  • @bankingstudy2541
    @bankingstudy2541 3 года назад +36

    This content is pure gold, Thanks a lot sir

  • @allcalmsoothing9443
    @allcalmsoothing9443 2 года назад +1

    What an awesome story in changing perspectives to view any situation. Thank you. Thanks for your wisdom sharing.

  • @dose.of.happiness
    @dose.of.happiness 3 года назад +3

    You are an inspiration. I am 30. But I love watching your videos

  • @naman_october
    @naman_october 2 года назад

    पर्यावरण को प्राप्‍त करने के लिए हम ट्रेकिंग करते हैं पर्यावरण हरियाली वाला ठण्‍डक वाला उबड खाबड जगह पर ही होता है इसलिए सुखद वातावरण को प्राप्‍त करने के‍ लिए हम उबड खाबड जगह को भी पार कर जाते हैं पर वो वातावरण हमारी हार्डशिप के साथ ही चलता है इसलिए हमेे ज्‍यादा अच्‍छा लगता है
    अत: हमें अगर हार्ड काम करने हैं तो काम के साथ साथ कुछ ऐसा अनुभव भी होना चाहिए जो काम से अच्‍छा हो

  • @VenkateshVenkatesh-pq7ki
    @VenkateshVenkatesh-pq7ki 3 года назад +6

    Thanks sir, for that inspiring fact. Everyone has to practice this in life if he wants to be happy

  • @VipinKaniyanthara
    @VipinKaniyanthara 3 года назад +11

    Thank you Sir..for reminding the importance of having positive perspectives in life

  • @SaravanaKumarFellowBeing
    @SaravanaKumarFellowBeing Год назад

    "People who willingly take on difficult tasks, whether in sports, academics, or life in general, do so because they choose to and find fulfillment in it."
    "The speaker encourages approaching difficult tasks as choices, embracing them as adventures, and convincing oneself that it is what one wants to do."

  • @SPSChauhan
    @SPSChauhan 3 года назад +5

    Really nice video. I agree that what you feed to your brain about task on hand is how eventually you will perceive the task.
    I will utilize this thought process in my endeavors as we'll

  • @thundrjain3724
    @thundrjain3724 2 года назад

    #Good nice info ,#well explained#thanks for making this #god bless

  • @jrb000
    @jrb000 3 года назад +2

    " The power of your subconscious mind "

  • @agneeshsarkar9655
    @agneeshsarkar9655 Год назад

    Whenever i feel low I remember ur motivational videos nd come back again to listen to your videos❤️❤️❤️. Love from Kolkata

  • @taamcyat
    @taamcyat 5 месяцев назад

    Yep. 1) Just show up. 2) Make it a Quest

  • @jyjt2903
    @jyjt2903 3 года назад

    Change the perspective and not situation. Thank you.

  • @prasannadas8418
    @prasannadas8418 3 года назад +2

    it's our mind which push us to take simple thing as complex..Nice explanation

  • @ii-vd8wv
    @ii-vd8wv 3 года назад +3

    Priceless advice, thankyou sir!🙏🏻

  • @1987tusharful
    @1987tusharful 3 года назад

    Dear Rajan sir thank you so much your videos changing my life and my students thank you so much

  • @sumitkumargupta8677
    @sumitkumargupta8677 3 года назад +11

    Welcome Back, Finally after so many days.

  • @tawseefdiaries395
    @tawseefdiaries395 3 года назад

    I haven't liked any video on RUclips. But your video made me to do so.

  • @adityasinghaswal4923
    @adityasinghaswal4923 3 года назад +5

    Dekho wo aagya ;)
    love the clarity in your thoughts and lucidly you put them through.
    Keep em coming !

  • @santoshkumar-wq4qd
    @santoshkumar-wq4qd 2 года назад +1

    Love you sir!

  • @akashdubey7903
    @akashdubey7903 3 года назад +2

    You mean wedding, not marriage.
    Typical Indian vocabulary!
    Nice content. Helpful

  • @sbi6407
    @sbi6407 2 года назад

    Moral is ...laid interest in every hard times.

  • @tp123
    @tp123 3 года назад

    Rajan, the technique you mentioned is about changing perspective. But what if I cant see the perspective. I find it when i struggle with changing the perspective, I start on the work anyways, but by chunking into manageable pieces. For example, if i have to work on something hard or complex, I chunk it down to bite size pieces and get started and the momentum starts to build slowly. The mind starts to feel it accomplished a small piece and wants to do more and this way I am able to get over the hump. Much like a giant wheel, at first it is hard to move the giant wheel, but slowly it starts to gather momentum over time.. Other techniques, I use is to see the benefit(good outcome) vs Risk(something that is harmful you must do otherwise it will cause pain) and that sometimes changes the perspective as well(more on your lines). The mind is a complex machine indeed!!!!...

  • @vivekm7971
    @vivekm7971 3 года назад +1

    I know him because of his fab Quora answers.
    I admire him so so much.. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @juiahmed9798
    @juiahmed9798 4 месяца назад

    Your perception has changed my life

  • @AshutoshSingh-do4ts
    @AshutoshSingh-do4ts 3 месяца назад

    Thank you sir for this wonderful thought 👍👍

  • @radhikarajawat293
    @radhikarajawat293 3 года назад

    The best channel in you tube I have ever seen

  • @navneetsingh2798
    @navneetsingh2798 3 года назад +2

    Sir i am in the category of doing a difficult Phd..your stories always inspire me...

  • @viswakumarr
    @viswakumarr 3 года назад +1

    Super. This is what I was looking for. It will be an eye opener for my son. I am sure.

  • @sridharmpharm
    @sridharmpharm 3 года назад +1

    That was outstanding from you, Thank you, I am viewing from Ottawa, Canada

  • @khushboodutta30
    @khushboodutta30 3 года назад +4

    Best video ever seen in my life!!! In these trying times of Pandemic, I most often get discouraged when I'm not able to achieve my targets. This video made me realise how to consider the path, to reach my destination, as an adventure!

  • @esthergv1804
    @esthergv1804 3 года назад

    Wonderful words 🤩🤩🤩♥️♥️♥️♥️😇♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️thanks a lot❤❤❤

  • @SandipanNaths
    @SandipanNaths 3 года назад

    Rajan Singh, you are blessings to mankind...

  • @kalledareporterfarmer364
    @kalledareporterfarmer364 3 года назад

    Am a farmer while am free in guarding my maize field from parrots listen to you which are very useful 🙏

  • @saleel257
    @saleel257 3 года назад

    One of the best motivation i have ever seen. You simplified it so well..

  • @srini7004
    @srini7004 2 года назад

    Thanks Rajan for all your guidance. I am 45years old. Sometimes I feel I am not able to remember many things that I read, see and listen. Can you give some guidance on how to improve the memory.

  • @lizxiao2925
    @lizxiao2925 Год назад

    Thank you! It's so inspiring!

  • @aleenashafaat2295
    @aleenashafaat2295 3 года назад

    Thank you Rajan

  • @shiridevishiri8460
    @shiridevishiri8460 3 года назад

    First channel I ever subscribed... after watching Distractions video. Thanks Rajan.

  • @massiveknowledge877
    @massiveknowledge877 3 года назад

    Yaaa…you..are..right..I..always..apply..this..concept..when..I get..tough situation..and..it..work..!

  • @sf-33
    @sf-33 3 года назад

    Thankyou so much Sir 🙏

  • @softwareprofessional7043
    @softwareprofessional7043 3 года назад

    I am staunch hater of self help speeches, But let me tell you you made my day.

  • @user-fk6wc9ft5y
    @user-fk6wc9ft5y 3 года назад

    Awesome video ...journey from i have to do it ...to ..i get to do it !!

  • @UPAKHOSALA
    @UPAKHOSALA 3 года назад

    Thanks again for your Wisdom please share more details

  • @hitman8633
    @hitman8633 Год назад

    What a calm and precise mind
    😅❤u sir ji

  • @muhammadibrar8278
    @muhammadibrar8278 3 года назад

    you deserve immediate subscription, so I did it. :)

  • @gauravtyagi6373
    @gauravtyagi6373 3 года назад

    जय हो संकट मोचन हनुमान जी के आशीर्वाद की गुरूजी

  • @dhiveshjoshi1950
    @dhiveshjoshi1950 3 года назад +8

    As always. Back with bang. Deserves 1M subscribers.

  • @AshutoshSingh-do4ts
    @AshutoshSingh-do4ts 3 года назад

    Thank you sir It helped me a lot.

  • @learn2apply67
    @learn2apply67 3 года назад

    Thank you 😊

  • @shubhamtiwari3009
    @shubhamtiwari3009 3 года назад +1

    Sir , i am very much inspired by your level of clarity about life and how to cope up with it.. this is rare.. and i am lucky to have found you

  • @Suhanibingpot
    @Suhanibingpot 3 года назад

    I missed the session due to some personal reasons, but was adamant to start my day by learning something new from you, so here I am. Thank you

  • @positiveandhealthy2728
    @positiveandhealthy2728 3 года назад +9

    This was so awesome and uplifting! 💪

  • @debashispattanaik5709
    @debashispattanaik5709 3 года назад

    Great and very practical talk. Doable .Thanks for the simple yet profound guidance. Regards

  • @tommy4819
    @tommy4819 3 года назад

    I loved this Rajan. it is totally logical perspective. I was not so energetic and positive but fortunately stumbled upon this video of yours ,which I have come across earlier as well but today I felt that you are taking to me directly. Thanks so much for this powerful message.

  • @shubhampal-yy9rc
    @shubhampal-yy9rc 3 года назад

    I loved the examples you gave. Really make sense sir! Thanks

  • @bindersingh4324
    @bindersingh4324 2 года назад

    Let life be adventurous - Inspirational

  • @gauravtyagi6373
    @gauravtyagi6373 3 года назад

    जय हो गुरूजी के आशीर्वाद की

  • @priyalaljani4803
    @priyalaljani4803 2 года назад

    Thank You for Sharing 🙏😌

  • @saniyasoge2001
    @saniyasoge2001 2 года назад

    Thank you so much sir you are my idol , mentor , guider

  • @gauravtyagi6373
    @gauravtyagi6373 3 года назад

    गुरूजी के चरणों में कोटि कोटि नमन

  • @navneetkaur8572
    @navneetkaur8572 3 года назад

    WOW u just plucked and threw away wrong implantations from my mind

  • @deepanshuyadav8526
    @deepanshuyadav8526 3 года назад

    Sir, the way you explain is really awesome !
    I get a new outlook towards life everytime when I watch your videos.
    Thank you for making them.

  • @VivekMishra-um7hl
    @VivekMishra-um7hl 3 года назад +4

    It's a life-changing advice for many of us.... thank you sir 🙏🙏

  • @dudeabideth4428
    @dudeabideth4428 3 года назад

    Problem is an uninvited adventure. Adventure is an invited problem.

  • @anupriyakumari9457
    @anupriyakumari9457 3 года назад +1

    Thank you, sir.I was struggling with this part and this video came to my rescue.Thanks a lot.

  • @chaitanyadalvi8223
    @chaitanyadalvi8223 3 года назад

    Thank you sir ❤️❤️

  • @yashmittal1415
    @yashmittal1415 3 года назад

    aren't you underrated? i was shattered because of my studies but now i feel so relaxed and i found studies doable thank you !!

    • @adarsh915
      @adarsh915 3 года назад

      Overrated hyperbole use? (Using the word to remember it, don't mind the comment please. )

  • @gargidutta5968
    @gargidutta5968 3 года назад

    Thank you sir !your words made made my day🙏

  • @purple-star4366
    @purple-star4366 3 года назад

    This was really helpful. Thank you