Same here, unfortunately unwilligly for years already. Never had that in my entire life before in this intensity. So far I haven't found a way out of this carousel of thoughts.
This is great! One thing I am still stuck on is that I am linking this letting go process and the freedom I would get from it, still back to my twin. And this wishful thinking of oh, maybe letting go will bring us back together. However... all it has done is cause suffering for me. My twin has let go, and he had surrendered and is not attached to this idea of if I will come back or if we will ever communicate again really. This is causing some friction and is not allowing me to heal, his willingness to let go is my trigger. How can I deal with this?
think of it as, YOU are letting go of your TF to find yourself - then find the gift and that and YOU will then KNOW YOU deserve to be loved because in the process of that - YOU learn to love yourself more than you love your TF :)
Thanks so much for your videos, Dr Harmony! I stumbled upon you yesterday after intermittent contact and a year of separation. So, I guess my obsessing seems due to feeling his energy in, around and through me virtually at all time. I don’t blame him, I honor him as my teacher, I send him love, work our energy fields and send him off blessing his day and journey. I truly feel grateful as I’ve never had a man be present and supportive even with his etheric presence. It’s just super distracting ... I’d welcome some peace and guidance to focus more on myself.
Welcome to my TF family!!!! When the student is ready the teacher appears~ I'd say YOU are ready to stop obsessing and detach from the experience and take with you more of yourself - I do have a program I assist others with to accelerate their process - if it ever resonates here is more info: www.twinflameexpert.com/programs
~Thank You so much, Dr. Harmony~ I feel this video message is very crucial~ And because during the first year after meeting my Twin Flame, we went through so many painstaking struggles, in working through the traumas from our entire lives~ And it was even harder, because we live in different countries, and have not yet met in person... And I feel that my Twin Flame had a more difficult time bringing her traumas to the surface, to process and understand where they were all coming from~~ whereas I had already been through many years of processing my traumas~ And so I am also very grateful that I have been able to help her with all of this, during excruciating times when she lost the will to fight and live, as a very evolved Soul who is not fully understood by her family, (like me too) ~ We are now in a much more tranquil and balanced place, with much deeper understanding of each other's traumas, and giftedness ~ And it has all been worth it, because it helps us realize even more, the many pure Divine blessings and Higher Angelic destined reasons, why we were brought together, by so much Divine Spirit orchestration~ And it all fits into the 22 main synchronicities that you listed in your book, which also helped me affirm everything that we have worked through together! ~ It is all such a Miracle that I will never cease to be immensely Thankful for~ And yes, I may even write a book about it all, as you have encouraged me to do!~~ Bless You, and I hope that you are having some peaceful and happy holy~days, even during this emotional journey with your father and mother....
YESSSSS --- this is what I just mentioned in video posted today ---- YOUR book is CALLING you to come into form1!!! I'll take a autographed copy please - the first one that prints!!! YOU are so AMAZING embrace this portal with all your heart --- YOU have such amazing things that are about to appear - loads of LOVE
thank you. i stopped chasing 2 months ago, before my dark night of the soul, when my anxious attachment wound got uprooted, when my twin thought i was breaking up with him & broke up with me 1st. so, i now love him without conditions & all the control agendas. i also accept what is, but it doesn’t stop me from thinking about him thruout the day, everyday & this is REALLY DISTURBING, bcus before my twinflame came into my life, i wasn’t the type to dwell on a man if he wanted to leave, i was like good riddance. also, i had self esteem & confidence prior to this relationship, so i wanna stop wanting him to come back. the previous me felt like if someone didn’t want me, i didn’t want them. the thoughts of him are now sorta dull, at the back of my mind, but i still feel them there. they’re not obsessive like they were before my dark night of the soul, but it’s mentally exhausting constantly bringing my mind back to center.
It’s definitely a journey and I understand what it feels like to switch roles - I never knew what it was like to feel lonely or need anyone until I was in bed with COVID god 4 months alone last year - it definitely opened me up to allowing someone to assist me 🙏 blessings
@@TwinFlameExpert thank you kindly for taking time to reply. i just reached out to my twinflame, which i haven’t done in almost a month, but bcus i recently switched my signature to him, to an owl & an owl kept hooting outside my window, i figured it was his soul lol & he answered right away. we just got off the phone & are working thru our dynamic.
I JUST WANT HIM OUT OF MY MIND & HEART. THERE ARE OTHER WAYS FOR ME TO GROW. THIS FEELS LIKE A REALLY SICK & SADISTIC PROCESS. i’d never linger on betrayal like this where i couldn’t shut my brain off. my twin flame went back to another x in the same city as me & he didn’t trust her or me, but he chose to fix things with her 1st, but i’m his twin flame. i’m starting to feel hate & i didn’t feel hate, before my twin flame. a twin flame or not would feel betrayed, when he & i were working thru our dynamics. i think he’s a covert narcissist. i feel so down that i’m attached to him. i’m not betraying mycellf, i’m not not loving mycellf or choosing mycellf THIS IS F*CKING CRAZY I HATE THIS JOURNEY.
@@TwinFlameExpert wow!!!! i definitely don’t feel hate for anyone or the journey itself now. i must have been exhausted & suffering from obsessive thoughts, when i posted that comment. i thank god for you, bcus i wouldn’t be making it without you & thru your re-righting childhood wounds program, i’m seeing all the synchronicities & patterns that have played out. this twin flame journey is such an amazing enigma. i’ve retraced every step of our twin flame journey, down to how my twin flame used to be my x mentor’s husband & how i used to call her mother earth & him father god, even their old address was the year i was born + the age my mother was when she had me. i wonder if my akashic records would reveal that they were my parents in a past life, cus they always felt like it & they both abandoned & rejected me. nevertheless, i understand that i attracted them so that i could uproot & process all of the suppressed pain that i had never expressed, as a child, from abandonment. i really related to your childhood story about not wanting to smile in pix & your mother not allowing you to have the image that was true to you. anyhow, i’ve reframed what’s come up so far, so that i’m thinking in the affirmative & have understanding, but even tho these synchronicities are uncanny, rejection doesn’t feel good. out of this 10 mos journey, only 2 months have felt full of love & passion, the rest has been sad, stressful & full of anxiety & fear. i understand that’s bcus those emotions were suppressed in me & triggered by my twin flame, so that they could come up & out & be healed once & for all. i’m so grateful that i healed the abandonment wound, AND it’s still not a happy journey.🤷🏽♀️i feel calm about it right now, but i’m ready to not be concerned about any outcomes & i heard by another twin flame coach that i’m gonna have to not care anymore & that’s when i’ll feel peace & that’s when the twin who ran usually comes back. in my case, he’s planning on marrying his children’s mother again. so, i just want to move on & for it to be over, over & out of my head. although, i understand twin flames are never really separated. this is weird. dr. harmony what is the gift you referenced in your comment?
@@TwinFlameExpert ahhhh wala!!! then i’m on the right track, bcus this is JUST what i began vibrating with this rise. btwn your course & this “juicy in july” course i’m taking where we go on zoom, meditate, belly dance, move innergy & receive entrepreneurial mentorship, i’m just now understanding how much more i needed to value mycellf. i was lacking knowledge on HOW to value mycellf, not cellf esteem & this was the disconnect & the reason i’ve been blocked & was chasing & longing for my twin flame, bcus my inner child didn’t understand how to feel like a gift, but RIGHT i am the GIFT. this rise i started feeling valuable. my inner child didn’t know how to embody that, bcus i wasn’t treated like that, or taught that, as a child. so, per our re-righting childhood wounds, i’m struttin around this b*tch now, like a royal tiger now, like the audacity of being that humble, put your crown on & glide mama. you a bad b*tch (i know i’m a queen, i’m an empress. i’m a goddess.) it was so interesting this rising, how fast i caught on, how fast i metabolized that i’m worth my asking price, for my services, cus the adult me knows this in my head & i’ve heard this sooo many times as a light worker, on the spiritual journey for 35 yrs., but now my inner child is hearing this, WITHOUT THE ABANDONMENT WOUND & NOT FEELING GOOD ENOUGH IMPRINT & my mind, body & spirit received this info & i’m reparenting my value in & BOOM!!! stay tuned…
What is your twin flame triggering that causes you to obsess?
Going through this right now. It's really starting to annoy me. No matter what I do, if I'm awake, she's on my mind. So here I am.
Bless YOU - Make sure to watch the entire series xoxo
Me too I need to stop
Same here, unfortunately unwilligly for years already. Never had that in my entire life before in this intensity. So far I haven't found a way out of this carousel of thoughts.
This is great! One thing I am still stuck on is that I am linking this letting go process and the freedom I would get from it, still back to my twin. And this wishful thinking of oh, maybe letting go will bring us back together. However... all it has done is cause suffering for me. My twin has let go, and he had surrendered and is not attached to this idea of if I will come back or if we will ever communicate again really. This is causing some friction and is not allowing me to heal, his willingness to let go is my trigger. How can I deal with this?
think of it as, YOU are letting go of your TF to find yourself - then find the gift and that and YOU will then KNOW YOU deserve to be loved because in the process of that - YOU learn to love yourself more than you love your TF :)
Your so good
bless YOU
Thanks so much for your videos, Dr Harmony! I stumbled upon you yesterday after intermittent contact and a year of separation. So, I guess my obsessing seems due to feeling his energy in, around and through me virtually at all time. I don’t blame him, I honor him as my teacher, I send him love, work our energy fields and send him off blessing his day and journey. I truly feel grateful as I’ve never had a man be present and supportive even with his etheric presence. It’s just super distracting ... I’d welcome some peace and guidance to focus more on myself.
Welcome to my TF family!!!! When the student is ready the teacher appears~ I'd say YOU are ready to stop obsessing and detach from the experience and take with you more of yourself - I do have a program I assist others with to accelerate their process - if it ever resonates here is more info: www.twinflameexpert.com/programs
~Thank You so much, Dr. Harmony~ I feel this video message is very crucial~ And because during the first year after meeting my Twin Flame, we went through so many painstaking struggles, in working through the traumas from our entire lives~ And it was even harder, because we live in different countries, and have not yet met in person... And I feel that my Twin Flame had a more difficult time bringing her traumas to the surface, to process and understand where they were all coming from~~ whereas I had already been through many years of processing my traumas~ And so I am also very grateful that I have been able to help her with all of this, during excruciating times when she lost the will to fight and live, as a very evolved Soul who is not fully understood by her family, (like me too) ~ We are now in a much more tranquil and balanced place, with much deeper understanding of each other's traumas, and giftedness ~ And it has all been worth it, because it helps us realize even more, the many pure Divine blessings and Higher Angelic destined reasons, why we were brought together, by so much Divine Spirit orchestration~ And it all fits into the 22 main synchronicities that you listed in your book, which also helped me affirm everything that we have worked through together! ~ It is all such a Miracle that I will never cease to be immensely Thankful for~ And yes, I may even write a book about it all, as you have encouraged me to do!~~ Bless You, and I hope that you are having some peaceful and happy holy~days, even during this emotional journey with your father and mother....
YESSSSS --- this is what I just mentioned in video posted today ---- YOUR book is CALLING you to come into form1!!! I'll take a autographed copy please - the first one that prints!!! YOU are so AMAZING embrace this portal with all your heart --- YOU have such amazing things that are about to appear - loads of LOVE
thank you. i stopped chasing 2 months ago, before my dark night of the soul, when my anxious attachment wound got uprooted, when my twin thought i was breaking up with him & broke up with me 1st. so, i now love him without conditions & all the control agendas. i also accept what is, but it doesn’t stop me from thinking about him thruout the day, everyday & this is REALLY DISTURBING, bcus before my twinflame came into my life, i wasn’t the type to dwell on a man if he wanted to leave, i was like good riddance. also, i had self esteem & confidence prior to this relationship, so i wanna stop wanting him to come back. the previous me felt like if someone didn’t want me, i didn’t want them. the thoughts of him are now sorta dull, at the back of my mind, but i still feel them there. they’re not obsessive like they were before my dark night of the soul, but it’s mentally exhausting constantly bringing my mind back to center.
It’s definitely a journey and I understand what it feels like to switch roles - I never knew what it was like to feel lonely or need anyone until I was in bed with COVID god 4 months alone last year - it definitely opened me up to allowing someone to assist me 🙏 blessings
@@TwinFlameExpert thank you kindly for taking time to reply. i just reached out to my twinflame, which i haven’t done in almost a month, but bcus i recently switched my signature to him, to an owl & an owl kept hooting outside my window, i figured it was his soul lol & he answered right away. we just got off the phone & are working thru our dynamic.
@@truditrulove wow 🤩 how cool - it’s defiantly deep work cultivating loads of wisdom
I JUST WANT HIM OUT OF MY MIND & HEART. THERE ARE OTHER WAYS FOR ME TO GROW. THIS FEELS LIKE A REALLY SICK & SADISTIC PROCESS. i’d never linger on betrayal like this where i couldn’t shut my brain off. my twin flame went back to another x in the same city as me & he didn’t trust her or me, but he chose to fix things with her 1st, but i’m his twin flame. i’m starting to feel hate & i didn’t feel hate, before my twin flame. a twin flame or not would feel betrayed, when he & i were working thru our dynamics. i think he’s a covert narcissist. i feel so down that i’m attached to him. i’m not betraying mycellf, i’m not not loving mycellf or choosing mycellf THIS IS F*CKING CRAZY I HATE THIS JOURNEY.
You will be at peace when you discover the gift 💝
@@TwinFlameExpert wow!!!! i definitely don’t feel hate for anyone or the journey itself now. i must have been exhausted & suffering from obsessive thoughts, when i posted that comment. i thank god for you, bcus i wouldn’t be making it without you & thru your re-righting childhood wounds program, i’m seeing all the synchronicities & patterns that have played out. this twin flame journey is such an amazing enigma. i’ve retraced every step of our twin flame journey, down to how my twin flame used to be my x mentor’s husband & how i used to call her mother earth & him father god, even their old address was the year i was born + the age my mother was when she had me. i wonder if my akashic records would reveal that they were my parents in a past life, cus they always felt like it & they both abandoned & rejected me. nevertheless, i understand that i attracted them so that i could uproot & process all of the suppressed pain that i had never expressed, as a child, from abandonment. i really related to your childhood story about not wanting to smile in pix & your mother not allowing you to have the image that was true to you. anyhow, i’ve reframed what’s come up so far, so that i’m thinking in the affirmative & have understanding, but even tho these synchronicities are uncanny, rejection doesn’t feel good. out of this 10 mos journey, only 2 months have felt full of love & passion, the rest has been sad, stressful & full of anxiety & fear. i understand that’s bcus those emotions were suppressed in me & triggered by my twin flame, so that they could come up & out & be healed once & for all. i’m so grateful that i healed the abandonment wound, AND it’s still not a happy journey.🤷🏽♀️i feel calm about it right now, but i’m ready to not be concerned about any outcomes & i heard by another twin flame coach that i’m gonna have to not care anymore & that’s when i’ll feel peace & that’s when the twin who ran usually comes back. in my case, he’s planning on marrying his children’s mother again. so, i just want to move on & for it to be over, over & out of my head. although, i understand twin flames are never really separated. this is weird. dr. harmony what is the gift you referenced in your comment?
@@truditrulove you are the gift 💝
@@TwinFlameExpert ahhhh wala!!! then i’m on the right track, bcus this is JUST what i began vibrating with this rise. btwn your course & this “juicy in july” course i’m taking where we go on zoom, meditate, belly dance, move innergy & receive entrepreneurial mentorship, i’m just now understanding how much more i needed to value mycellf. i was lacking knowledge on HOW to value mycellf, not cellf esteem & this was the disconnect & the reason i’ve been blocked & was chasing & longing for my twin flame, bcus my inner child didn’t understand how to feel like a gift, but RIGHT i am the GIFT. this rise i started feeling valuable. my inner child didn’t know how to embody that, bcus i wasn’t treated like that, or taught that, as a child. so, per our re-righting childhood wounds, i’m struttin around this b*tch now, like a royal tiger now, like the audacity of being that humble, put your crown on & glide mama. you a bad b*tch (i know i’m a queen, i’m an empress. i’m a goddess.) it was so interesting this rising, how fast i caught on, how fast i metabolized that i’m worth my asking price, for my services, cus the adult me knows this in my head & i’ve heard this sooo many times as a light worker, on the spiritual journey for 35 yrs., but now my inner child is hearing this, WITHOUT THE ABANDONMENT WOUND & NOT FEELING GOOD ENOUGH IMPRINT & my mind, body & spirit received this info & i’m reparenting my value in & BOOM!!! stay tuned…
@@truditrulove who you are becoming is the gift 💝