I was told when I was younger that I was oversensitive, thought too deeply about everything and took bad things directed at me too seriously. I never put up with that. Coming from a traumatic childhood, I was diagnosed with manic depression, which is known as bi polar now. I used to tell the specialists that I am not depressed, I am declining to get involved with anything because I will be called over sensitive, think too deeply about everything and take bad things directed at me as personal. Then some of the specialists used to say that it was human nature. No it isn't. You are right, We are amazing beings and when we embrace that, we actually live our best lives. Thanks for sharing. Great points.
Thank you for sharing this I've been told this as well and find it difficult to maintain friendships. You deserve to be loved cared and celebrated as well ♡
@@NicePeech Yes you do. We are all individual points of attention looking at the same picture. The point is, we are all looking at the same picture and coming from the same place. Just because we see things differently from other people does not make us bad or weird. It makes us unique and special. And we all deserve to be loved. Thank you for sharing. :)
Having an activated intuition is so key in our world where we have to deal with so much input and make fast decisions! The first time I heard that intuition resides in the body, I didn't get it: I thought I'd have mental images or something... Practicing yoga thru the years has helped me stay in my body.
Hi Sonia , this video I believe came at a time I needed to find away to move on , because I said goodbye to a relationship today that was 28 years old , I finely couldn’t except the negative (round about )any more and just listening to your teaching made me realise that feeling of not belonging started as a child , I’m one eight children the 3rd eldest and even though I love all my family I still feel very different .I have known of you for some time but I never seem to connect at a time where I could learn from you although I believe I would today I know this to be true because of all your suggestions have made me feel that you are right here with me and I have been chatting with a best friend and you have up lifted me through your wonderful realistic take on life issues , thank you for being you , I’m truly grateful because even though I was the one to break the relationship it is hurting as I still love them , yet I thought I might not get through this awful situation and I know every thing you said here I related too , people have always told me I’m to soft and it bothered me for some time as I don’t always feel I’m soft just I feel outcomes differently to others and it guided me for long time , now things are changing again and I wonder what is for me next , I’m not afraid just very tired and a little relieved , more so because you have given a way to go , thank you bless you and yours always Susan
Sonia thank you Today after many decades i realised many things about myself. ,,wooo we was 5 children ,,i was right on the midlle. ,,& so different & curious about anything & everything ,,i was told off i was to much.to handle . ,,i 100% i agree ,,coz they couldn't answer my questions. ,,even about religion i question ,,& turned off for that . ,,but i got it now it Brought me here where i am right now,, ,,spiritual being that i was born from,, ,& belive me I'm still alone on it,, ,,for being different, ,,,my only sister made me a scapegoat . ,,i do get it. ,,& send love & light every day. ,, LOVE & LIGHT SYDNEY AUSTRALIA ❤❤❤
I don't know how but I can tell when people are bad people or lying to me. I don't know how and I can't really explain it, but I can tell. My problem is I used to give people the benefit of the of the doubt, but NOT anymore. If you energy, your words and your actions don't like up, you're getting kicked outta my life
Quite relate to the “too much of a real & authentic person “ whilst growing up ! Yes we are just right and should not cooperate with pushy peoples agenda to toe the line ! Consciousness , intuition ,values help to accept setting the boundaries based on heart , courage & inner guidance !
Thank you so much Sonya 💖 I really needed to hear exactly this! I have just realized recently that I've been subconsciously feeling unsafe in life, due to old traumas I haven't yet processes fully. I just realized this week that I haven't been aware that on some level I still feel the feelings of threat I used to face even though that's long gone. Being present, being my own best friend and really realizing I am safe now is exactly the reminder I needed. Thank you!
Hi Sonia. Your topic on intuition and self respect is right on. I shared my feelings around the topic of depression abt. my home environment due to my home becoming too cluttered., with a friend today. Just talking abt. it made me feel better and now after listening to you this afternoon I feel even better. Thankyou. Have a GREAT DAY!
My intuition is excellent, I am an empath, and have been threw bad experiences in life, I feel it was part of being an empath was the going through so many awful experiences, and now weird to say I am glad for all what I went through, as it was a big part of my growth spiritually. And I am my best friend, I love my own company and I trust me and I love me
The topic of intuition hasn’t been decided with me yet but now I think it’s the missing link I needed to go higher and stronger in my choices! Just in time, such a time as this!!!
I'm dealing with a catastrophic experience I should have seen coming. Berating myself for not heeding the ample warnings and opportunities in the past that might have left me in a better position to cope now. Have had your audio course and earlier books for several years and am reviewing them for guidance on how to proceed day by day.
Thank you Sonia . Hooking on to subconscious mind makes you start believing it ! Wonderfully said ,Living in harmony with values strengthens the sense of who we are and feel ok about our selves !
I love u. I get inspired by watching all ur videos. Thank u so much. I also get good vibes just listening to u..... I 'm learning to practice it too....❤💙💟💛💟
This was really helpful dear Sonia. I had a very uncomfortable experience last week when I came back to my work space after being down with the flu for a week ... I was glad to be back and wanted to clear my space and connect with Source... then unexpectedly friends arrived and wanted me to join them for a coffee... so I said NO I am busy with my space and yes, it's lovely to see you but I can't join you now... they carried on and on insisting that I should have a coffee with them... so as I wasn't getting through to them and was getting very irritated with they obstinacy I gave in to them and joined them for a coffee.... I felt so deflated and angry with myself for giving in... they were so happy I joined them and it was really nice of them... But I felt tired... So your guidance is just what I needed to hear. You are an Angel.
I so try....... sometimes life really sucks grieving over a dog trying to find a job you know all the basics but at the end of the day I'm getting to really know who I am! Pretty amazing just the wrong people
When I was young I would cry a lot and one time a teacher at a summer program thought it was cute to sing about it on his guitar. I then realized I never wanted to go back to the summer program and I never did after that. I had a lot of things happen to me as a child and a lot more than usual. So it was hard for me to function I think and I certainly believe I had adhd because I was always nervous and anxious too. I am also highly empathic and that just added to the mix.
Sonia, just by the chance that you read this comment, I wanted to say thank you so much for all of your work. I found you years ago on Hayhouse and was so sad when the live radio app was cancelled. So I’m so pleased to find you on RUclips. Thanks for continuing to be out there…esp during “these times” when I feel it’s needed more than ever.
So timely for my life at this time 💞 thank you Sonia. I’ve been following you, and reading your books for many years 🥰 I just love and appreciate you so much 🙏
Hi Sonia believe I already know I bought your book read introduction and it made me change my mind about dealing with my problems with bottle of vodka Thank you I stay in contact mark
I am so glad this video appeared in my feed! Just yesterday I was thinking how people around me make me second guess myself to the point that I even doubt if the good thoughts and blessings I am sending them are actual good thougts or if I live in a parallel reality where the things I think are good are actually not good. Maybe I imagine I am telling them I love you and what I am saying is I hate you without knowing?, judging their reactions I find no other explanation. I mean, my whole life I've felt like not belonging, specially with my family. At first all guilt was on me but at some point. Thanks to all available information today. I came to understand that my family is highly disfunctional and not only I have always been the scape goat but also an empath which makes it even harder because I swear that sometimes I know exactly what they are thinking but I cannot tell me because not only they would deny it. They would also fear me.However, despite I know how disconected they are. Sometimes their opposition is so violent (not physically but psychologically) and certain situations force me to deal with them so frequently that I can't stop second guessibg myself and believe that it is me who is "wrong" and has alwayas been and will always be (wrong and flawed).
Sonia, I’m writing these tips down. They really help me as I move forward in life and my interpersonal relationships and also to establish much needed boundaries I have neglected for so many years unknowingly. I’m incredibly grateful to you for your guidance and I will share this with others also.
It's true that at the beginning, it's not always easy to be sure of our perceptions that's why we doubt, but with time, which helps us to become aware of our values and our inner guidance, we can really appreciate all the subtlety of our marvelous intuition. Thank you Sonia 💕
❤ You are too much 😂 my mother once said that I would have fitted in well at St Trinians. Likewise as you do Sonia I say what needs to be said & always have from being little. Seeing the elephant in the room when nobody else does. I have been labeled crazy amongst other things but I don't give a * ❤
You know right at the end of the video I remembered why is it that I cannot say no or tell off my still legal husband? We’ve been separated for over 4 years this last time. He’s a narcissist.
What if you're just too far gone?? You're life already consists of multiple dumpster fires and you are completely disregulated on a daily basis....? Just curious 😅
Hi Sonia!- I would sure appreciate you sending the book I paid the ship/handle for months ago...The Revised,new edition of "Ask Your Guides". I've contacted you by email, Facebook, txt,messenger,+ your website.I haven't received a Reply yet.I'm sure that you are honestly a busy woman +don't mean to ignore a loyal Fan.But right now now I'm not feeling like a Valued Follower.
Is this a person I want to be following if they can't deliver on promises made or products purchased or even reply to comments on their RUclips page? She may be in tune with her intuition, but is she in tune with those she leads and teaches? I have seen hundreds if comments and questions on get numerous videos but but not one response from her. It's very disheartening.
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I was told when I was younger that I was oversensitive, thought too deeply about everything and took bad things directed at me too seriously. I never put up with that. Coming from a traumatic childhood, I was diagnosed with manic depression, which is known as bi polar now. I used to tell the specialists that I am not depressed, I am declining to get involved with anything because I will be called over sensitive, think too deeply about everything and take bad things directed at me as personal. Then some of the specialists used to say that it was human nature. No it isn't. You are right, We are amazing beings and when we embrace that, we actually live our best lives. Thanks for sharing. Great points.
Thank you for sharing this I've been told this as well and find it difficult to maintain friendships. You deserve to be loved cared and celebrated as well ♡
@@NicePeech Yes you do. We are all individual points of attention looking at the same picture. The point is, we are all looking at the same picture and coming from the same place. Just because we see things differently from other people does not make us bad or weird. It makes us unique and special. And we all deserve to be loved. Thank you for sharing. :)
Having an activated intuition is so key in our world where we have to deal with so much input and make fast decisions! The first time I heard that intuition resides in the body, I didn't get it: I thought I'd have mental images or something... Practicing yoga thru the years has helped me stay in my body.
Hi Sonia , this video I believe came at a time I needed to find away to move on , because I said goodbye to a relationship today that was 28 years old , I finely couldn’t except the negative (round about )any more and just listening to your teaching made me realise that feeling of not belonging started as a child , I’m one eight children the 3rd eldest and even though I love all my family I still feel very different .I have known of you for some time but I never seem to connect at a time where I could learn from you although I believe I would today I know this to be true because of all your suggestions have made me feel that you are right here with me and I have been chatting with a best friend and you have up lifted me through your wonderful realistic take on life issues , thank you for being you , I’m truly grateful because even though I was the one to break the relationship it is hurting as I still love them , yet I thought I might not get through this awful situation and I know every thing you said here I related too , people have always told me I’m to soft and it bothered me for some time as I don’t always feel I’m soft just I feel outcomes differently to others and it guided me for long time , now things are changing again and I wonder what is for me next , I’m not afraid just very tired and a little relieved , more so because you have given a way to go , thank you bless you and yours always Susan
Good for you,I can relate with you, it’s a embrace to be home with our true self!! Sometimes it’s a place of worship!
Sonia thank you
Today after many decades i realised many things about myself.
,,wooo we was 5 children ,,i was right on the midlle.
,,& so different & curious about anything & everything
,,i was told off i was to much.to handle .
,,i 100% i agree
,,coz they couldn't answer my questions.
,,even about religion i question ,,& turned off for that .
,,but i got it now it
Brought me here where i am right now,,
,,spiritual being that i was born from,,
,& belive me I'm still alone on it,,
,,for being different,
,,,my only sister made me a scapegoat .
,,i do get it.
,,& send love & light every day.
,,
LOVE & LIGHT SYDNEY AUSTRALIA ❤❤❤
I don't know how but I can tell when people are bad people or lying to me. I don't know how and I can't really explain it, but I can tell. My problem is I used to give people the benefit of the of the doubt, but NOT anymore. If you energy, your words and your actions don't like up, you're getting kicked outta my life
Thank you for telling us verbatim what to say to our families and friends and our jobs. Very helpful. The whole video is a favorite for me.
Quite relate to the “too much of a real & authentic person “ whilst growing up ! Yes we are just right and should not cooperate with pushy peoples agenda to toe the line ! Consciousness , intuition ,values help to accept setting the boundaries based on heart , courage & inner guidance !
Ohh my gosh Thankyou for opening up my soul , my heart I am me. 💜
Thank you so much Sonya 💖
I really needed to hear exactly this! I have just realized recently that I've been subconsciously feeling unsafe in life, due to old traumas I haven't yet processes fully.
I just realized this week that I haven't been aware that on some level I still feel the feelings of threat I used to face even though that's long gone.
Being present, being my own best friend and really realizing I am safe now is exactly the reminder I needed.
Thank you!
Would you ever do a video about what you love about Paris or your feelings about the soul of Paris? Always appreciate your guidance, Sonia.
Thank you and good luck, Sonia.
I love that you are such a genuine person Sonia.
I love listening to you!
Sonia you are a nice woman and clever woman.
No need plastic surgery please
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Nice to hear all that wisdom ❤
Hi Sonia. Your topic on intuition and self respect is right on. I shared my feelings around the topic of depression abt. my home environment due to my home becoming too cluttered., with a friend today. Just talking abt. it made me feel better and now after listening to you this afternoon I feel even better. Thankyou. Have a GREAT DAY!
My intuition is excellent, I am an empath, and have been threw bad experiences in life, I feel it was part of being an empath was the going through so many awful experiences, and now weird to say I am glad for all what I went through, as it was a big part of my growth spiritually.
And I am my best friend, I love my own company and I trust me and I love me
Hi. Thank you. Simple and easy to understand and implement. Thank you.
"I am going to belong to myself" , beautiful. Thanks for the video.
I really wish to treat myself the way I love ,care, and celebrate others ♡
Super helpful tips. Thank you so much ❤️
The topic of intuition hasn’t been decided with me yet but now I think it’s the missing link I needed to go higher and stronger in my choices! Just in time, such a time as this!!!
So inspiring.
Thank you for sharing this✨🎀✨
I'm dealing with a catastrophic experience I should have seen coming. Berating myself for not heeding the ample warnings and opportunities in the past that might have left me in a better position to cope now. Have had your audio course and earlier books for several years and am reviewing them for guidance on how to proceed day by day.
12/30/23 Viewing and learning; loved it!
Thank you Sonia:) ❤️
Perfect timing as always 💜💜 thankyou
Thank you Sonia . Hooking on to subconscious mind makes you start believing it ! Wonderfully said ,Living in harmony with values strengthens the sense of who we are and feel ok about our selves !
Thank you 😊
I love u. I get inspired by watching all ur videos. Thank u so much. I also get good vibes just listening to u..... I 'm learning to practice it too....❤💙💟💛💟
I'm so glad!
This was really helpful dear Sonia.
I had a very uncomfortable experience last week when I came back to my work space after being down with the flu for a week ... I was glad to be back and wanted to clear my space and connect with Source... then unexpectedly friends arrived and wanted me to join them for a coffee... so I said NO I am busy with my space and yes, it's lovely to see you but I can't join you now... they carried on and on insisting that I should have a coffee with them... so as I wasn't getting through to them and was getting very irritated with they obstinacy I gave in to them and joined them for a coffee....
I felt so deflated and angry with myself for giving in... they were so happy I joined them and it was really nice of them... But I felt tired...
So your guidance is just what I needed to hear. You are an Angel.
This is terrific and timely! Thank You! Your book “Ask your Spirit Guides” is off the charts terrific also!
Thank you x
Brilliant .. thank you♥️
I so try....... sometimes life really sucks grieving over a dog trying to find a job you know all the basics but at the end of the day I'm getting to really know who I am! Pretty amazing just the wrong people
🫂 😢 about your . Good luck finding your new job ❤
When I was young I would cry a lot and one time a teacher at a summer program thought it was cute to sing about it on his guitar. I then realized I never wanted to go back to the summer program and I never did after that. I had a lot of things happen to me as a child and a lot more than usual. So it was hard for me to function I think and I certainly believe I had adhd because I was always nervous and anxious too. I am also highly empathic and that just added to the mix.
Love you for making this video, thank you so much for sharing!! I've started honoring and respecting myself at 43, it's never too late!
Sonia, just by the chance that you read this comment, I wanted to say thank you so much for all of your work. I found you years ago on Hayhouse and was so sad when the live radio app was cancelled. So I’m so pleased to find you on RUclips. Thanks for continuing to be out there…esp during “these times” when I feel it’s needed more than ever.
So timely for my life at this time 💞 thank you Sonia. I’ve been following you, and reading your books for many years 🥰 I just love and appreciate you so much 🙏
hello mam i am very interested in joining your courses .....love you so much
❤❤thank you ❤
Hi Sonia believe I already know I bought your book read introduction and it made me change my mind about dealing with my problems with bottle of vodka Thank you I stay in contact mark
I wish I had watched this video yesterday 🤔
I am so glad this video appeared in my feed! Just yesterday I was thinking how people around me make me second guess myself to the point that I even doubt if the good thoughts and blessings I am sending them are actual good thougts or if I live in a parallel reality where the things I think are good are actually not good. Maybe I imagine I am telling them I love you and what I am saying is I hate you without knowing?, judging their reactions I find no other explanation. I mean, my whole life I've felt like not belonging, specially with my family. At first all guilt was on me but at some point. Thanks to all available information today. I came to understand that my family is highly disfunctional and not only I have always been the scape goat but also an empath which makes it even harder because I swear that sometimes I know exactly what they are thinking but I cannot tell me because not only they would deny it. They would also fear me.However, despite I know how disconected they are. Sometimes their opposition is so violent (not physically but psychologically) and certain situations force me to deal with them so frequently that I can't stop second guessibg myself and believe that it is me who is "wrong" and has alwayas been and will always be (wrong and flawed).
I am here too, it’s not too late to come forth to a higher consciousness, joining your embrace with the familiar face of love!!
@@FancyRavenmoon thank you! 🌷
Wonderful as always. Thank you!!
Beautiful timing just what I needed 🙏
Sonia, I’m writing these tips down. They really help me as I move forward in life and my interpersonal relationships and also to establish much needed boundaries I have neglected for so many years unknowingly. I’m incredibly grateful to you for your guidance and I will share this with others also.
It's true that at the beginning, it's not always easy to be sure of our perceptions that's why we doubt, but with time, which helps us to become aware of our values and our inner guidance, we can really appreciate all the subtlety of our marvelous intuition. Thank you Sonia 💕
Great video, I use my Intuition daily in my business♥️
This is a wonderful message to hear before sleep ❤️thank you
love this video
❤ You are too much 😂 my mother once said that I would have fitted in well at St Trinians. Likewise as you do Sonia I say what needs to be said & always have from being little. Seeing the elephant in the room when nobody else does. I have been labeled crazy amongst other things but I don't give a * ❤
lovely lovely lovelty
You know right at the end of the video I remembered why is it that I cannot say no or tell off my still legal husband? We’ve been separated for over 4 years this last time. He’s a narcissist.
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Hi
Hello!
What about co-parenting? 😅
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My experience is that it is there all the time - you miss the cat because you where waiting for a dog.
💕💕💕🇬🇧 xxx
I find men try to keep the peace much more than women do.
What if you're just too far gone?? You're life already consists of multiple dumpster fires and you are completely disregulated on a daily basis....? Just curious 😅
Hi Sonia!- I would sure appreciate you sending the book I paid the ship/handle for months ago...The Revised,new edition of "Ask Your Guides". I've contacted you by email, Facebook, txt,messenger,+ your website.I haven't received a Reply yet.I'm sure that you are honestly a busy woman +don't mean to ignore a loyal Fan.But right now now I'm not feeling like a Valued Follower.
Is this a person I want to be following if they can't deliver on promises made or products purchased or even reply to comments on their RUclips page? She may be in tune with her intuition, but is she in tune with those she leads and teaches? I have seen hundreds if comments and questions on get numerous videos but but not one response from her. It's very disheartening.