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If I can give the younger women a peace of advice: take classical ballet classes! It has made a lasting difference in my life in so many ways! you learn good posture, good spatial awareness, you get good muscle tone over time, and so many other health benefits. And the other secret is that I used to look old and tired because of a broken heart.... I lived through so much trauma....This advice may not please everyone, but when I let Jesus into my life, gave my life to Him, He started to heal me step by step. I learned to forgive people, I learned to share my heart with God. Now I have a shine and sparkle in my eyes, people estimate my age at least ten years younger, and I am 61! Love you, be blessed!
Here's the thing, about Rue vs. Jen or Angela Lansbury vs. Demi Moore- maybe the more modern ladies DO look a lot younger for their age- but there are a lot more factors at play than just hairstyle. Modern ladies naturally look younger because they aren't wearing clothes & makeup that was popular in the 80s. They also have had access to WAY better & more extensive skincare, injectables, & (possibly) cosmetic surgery procedures. They also came up in an era when smoking was much less popular. So it's really no contest.
Thank you ericachacon for your insightful comments. JLo and Demi look fabulous thanks to thousands of dollars worth of "intervention" that 99% of us will ever be able to access. Yes, a more youthful hairstyle is important to looking less than your real age, but let's be realistic.
Also sun exposure- women used to literally oil themselves up and sit in the sun with a reflector on their faces for a “healthy” glow… resulting in leathery skin later in life. Sun damage does SO MUCH to age your skin. Thank goodness my 24 year old self had the wisdom to start using SPF30 daily.
I’m in my 60s and I agree with all of this. I’m not big on top but I’ve been wearing a push up bra for years. I tell my husband “I need to boost them up”. Now when he sees a woman with a saggy bust line he says “she needs a better bra” lol. Besides the long term skincare such as Retin A, vitamin C serum and sunscreen I’ve recently started using a red light mask and I love it! Another thing I feel is important is to have social contact with people of all ages. I enjoy hearing viewpoints of everyone not just my own age group.
Thanks Shea, I’m 55 and I’m just happy to age, many sadly aren’t. Also, I do me, if someone doesn’t like my hair long or what I wear for example, I really don’t care at this point. For me the biggest thing is the wisdom I’m gaining as I get older and also realizing worrying about what others think is a waste of time. Looking younger is fine and I enjoy taking care of myself, but I also know we can’t stop it either if we are so blessed to continue aging. Enjoyed the video 💜
I’m 57. I used to care so much how I looked and careful not to offend others etc Good thing about being older is o could care less now what anyone thinks lol
@@MsSylvia45 I feel it’s the beauty of wisdom that helps us not to worry, because otherwise it would likely be much harder to age. I’m not saying it’s always easy, but it helps to accept it better, if that makes sense? I remember in my 30’s thinking I was getting old and I think back at that and wonder what I was thinking. We waste precious time worrying about these things and in the end it truly doesn’t matter, the time lost worrying is what’s sad. Now in my 50’s I think this is the youngest I’ll ever be from this point on and try to enjoy the good things at this stage of life. It’s a process for sure, but rewarding when you’re able to see things differently regarding aging.💜
Totally agree Shea - As a kid, I remember my grandma saying that women in their 40s should no longer have long hair. I am glad we are to a place where a woman can decide what is right for them personally ❤
My mom, who is now 83, remembers when she was a student teacher (her late 20s)and during a lesson about opposites a student compared her to the teacher by saying, « you have grey hair, you are OLD. Mrs Portnoy has brown hair. She is YOUNG. »From the mouths of babes.
I'm grateful to have the privilege of turning 60 in August, but im always going to want to be the best version of myself throughout the years. No shame in self-esteem ladies. Thx Shea I love your channel ❤️
Thanks for these ideas! I really need them! In Oct. 2017, my beloved husband had a heart attack at home. Fourteen months and 22 hospital stays later, he passed away at home in Hospice Care on Christmas Night. One year and one week later, my mom passed away. One year and a day after that* I was diagnosed with Stage 2 Breast Cancer. I am now cancer free, my girls have graduated from college (empty nest syndrome!) and I am ready to do more than just survive. I've embraced the gray since I have been fighting it since I was 24. But I definitely aged the last few years. I'm not interested in dating, but I'm ready to pamper me. I think I have hecking deserved it! ❤😂
Retinol and the red light face masks seriously made a huge difference for me. Very noticeable line reductions and lifted my eyes. I've had the mask for a year and using retinol for 5. It takes time but they do work!
The comparison between Jennifer Lopez and Rue McClanahan is funny lol... obviously Rue isn't wearing hair extensions, and she's sporting a totally 80's hairstyle. The clothing is aging as well.... very 80's and old lady like. Then it's also obvious that Jen has a ton of facial fillers, botox, and has undergone a nose job. Rue looks like a normal aging 50 something year old. Honestly both ways of aging is fine, but I'm grateful to be able to combat some of these things since surgical and nonsurgical things have tremendously improved over the decades. There's nothing wrong either way in how you want to age. It's a personal choice. I do want to say that what you mentioned is true to help with aging, but when you look at people like Jennifer who are absolutely stunning at her age it's more about the procedures than it is about the 8 hours of sleep. I'm totally on board with your suggestions, but the reality is a plastic surgeon is going to take a decade or more off your appearance. 😊
Actually not true. Dermatologist evaluated her procedures. Sleep definitely helps as does diet and exercise. Maybe now some wear hair extensions, before it was “hairpieces and wigs” mostly short.
Aging starts on the inside first then it shows up on the outside. All the surgeries and skincare in the world won’t help if you don’t start from within with nutrition and supplement therapy ,exercise and good sleep. Aging is from bone loss, fat pad loss and collagen loss . You lose volume in your face from your fat pads shifting or depletion. And from your bones thinning in your face and that causes sagging.
The comparison of Angela Lansbury and Demi Moore is insane, because it isn't just Demi's hairstyle - she had a lot of cosmetic surgery. There isn't a line on her face, and that isn't because of her hair. Also, if you're over forty and wear distressed denim, you'll make yourself look ancient, and also out of date, because it hasn't been a "thing" in years. In fact anything very trendy will make you look much older.
I will be 57 this month and what really works for me are cardio workouts with weight training exercises 5-7 times a week in the morning. Maintaining a healthy weight for my height also. I usually avoid eating fast foods most of the time. I have shoulder length hair which I just love and can't live without.
The way people dress now in general already makes us look younger, compared to decades ago. Older women nowadays don’t get the requisite “old lady haircut” and start dressing matronly. I’m 49 and I look young by genetics, but I also wear the same types of clothes I wore in my 20s and 30s and no one has any idea how old I am unless I tell them. When I look at pics of my mom at the same age, she does look her age just because of her clothes and hair, not because of her physical attributes.
No, she IS not young, she LOOKS young, as she said. Young is being 20, 30. By 40, relatively young, and at 50, you're no longer in the youth bracket. But you can fake it.
I wear the same type of clothes than I did at 16... suits, timeless classics, chic sexy. I've never had to worry about "dressing my age," whether I was 16 or 56.
I read that people tend to look older when they wear their hair in ways that were fashionable when they were younger, like little old ladies with short hair ala Doris Day. I went to high school and college in the 80’s, and that thought is horrifying!!!
I think hairstyle and gray hair are the two things that can age a woman the most. I'm 50 and I color my roots. My friends that have decided to embrace their natural color and have gone gray look so much older than they are. However, they're happy with their choice and don't care if they look older. I'm not there yet. Maybe when I'm 80! 😁
I’m 51 and also color my hair, but I do think at a certain point it looks better to just go gray, when it’s obvious your hair no longer matches your face.
I think woman that age naturally , dresses well and has a happy attitude towards herself , that woman will look beautiful and attractive 🌹 Unfortunately most woman that do expensive surgery, color their hair in some dark color that still shows gray it makes them looks plastic no matter how expensive it may be - look at some actresses that look milked a maniquí -
I am 70 soon to be 71 this month and my picture is me less than a year ago. I have always had long hair most of my life. No facial surgery. But, no sun exposure from the age of 30, good skin care, exercise and diet. It can be done. I'm always taken for a lot younger than I am and that feels good.
I sported a pixie all through my thirties and early forties, but grew it out as I hit 48, because of a relationship of course. Even though I loved the pixie, the long hair made a huge difference. I will add, if you go for short do go for a youthful style, not the granny perm
Agree with many of your points (especially the hair; the hair makes a huge difference!), but definitely not with the distressed jeans. As much as I loved a bit of distressing on my jeans, these are out of style. I think a better suggestion would be to wear a current style in jeans.
I love the tip about not smiling when applying your makeup. Besides your makeup drooping, it can make your under-eyes crease more and encourages smile lines. I try not to make any faces while doing my makeup and for about 20 minutes after so it can set without creasing.
Hi Shea im a hairdresser and even im the 90 s when i was training i thought women on their 50 s were old looking the hair and clothes were so frumpy. Im now that age and definitely dont look it . I wesr current trends and my haircut is current. Hair makes a huge difference i agree but also keeping fit and diet . Most women 30 yrs ago did no exercise at all and most of the ladies i used to look after in salon all smoked too.they certainly looked much older in their 50 s then i do now. Great video Shea xxx 💕❤ love from Ireland xx 🇮🇪🇮🇪👍👍7
I can attest to the ‘ripped jeans and long hair’ suggestion - boy, does it work!!! I’m 67 and lost much of my hair through Alopecia some years ago and I dreaded wearing a wig. But what I’ve found is that wigs give me the THICK, long luscious locks I never had, and the ripped jeans (or those with a zip detail at the ankle) make such a difference - I’m constantly mistaken for early 40’s !! Give it a goes, ladies.
I’m 64 & on dialysis. Growing older is a privilege not all receive. Yet even using a walker & w/ all my other health issues, I still want to look my best at certain times. I have long been wearing my hair short because of the waves it might be time to let it grow out. 😃😃
it’s so interesting that we value looking young yet there is so many old people that use young as an insult. twice last month I had customers say some nasty things about believing I was much younger than I was. One said 13, obviously an exaggeration. The other said I looked right out of high school. I’m 31. I am not offended by this but it is interesting to me that we value looking young so much but also say being young is something shameful, immature and a way to say you’re not as capable.
I'm.64 and only wear slightly distressed jeans..you are so right in saying they make you feel.and look younger. I also wear a lit of cargo pants and camo and will do into my 80's 😂😂. Hoping this dream powder available in the UK or I'm gonna start looking my age because of my terrible insomnia xx
Well looking younger is valued more when we are passed the age 35 I think. But I had literally guys my age ignoring me thinking I am teen or preteen when I was in my late 20’s 💔. They would come and give me a compliment (as a little child )but walk away and I’d only have 16-18 year old boys approach me😢when I’d tell them my real age then you’d have to deal with their reaction of shock. So no looking way younger than your age is not always a beneficial thing. But I can understand after the age 35 why women want to look younger than their age. But imo I like older women who look their age and embrace their age because there is a radiance and full of life in it.
Hmmm...if this is happening to you in a regular basis and you feel references to your age are being used in a negative way, you might need to do some self-analysis as to what behavior on your part might be prompting these comments.
Always love your videos but I have to say that comparing hairstyles to women like Jennifer Lopez and Demi is unrealistic given the cosmetic surgery they have had, so regardless of their hairstyles they look younger anyway!
Although remember fashions were different then and a 51 year old with long hair would have looked very odd to us. Just like distressed denim would have been considered so ugly by my mom at 50 but I thought nothing of wearing it at 50. Now that I'm 61 I prefer less contrived denim looks.
@@harborgirl8877 yes agreed though on the other hand, long hair on an older lady can add years. Not that I think all older women should cut their hair short, but long hair can age a woman.
I’m 50 and people have always thought I was younger than I am. I think it’s because I’m very petite and wear younger looking clothing, like the distressed jeans, my rock band t’s, Birkenstocks, ect. I also have not gone through menopause yet so I think that is keeping me younger as my hair is still very thick and shiny and my skin doesn’t appear aged, except on my hands as I’m a nurse and have to wash them WAY too much.
For what it’s worth, I would say that having some color (talking a tan for very pale women) makes a huge difference to how a person looks and feels. An organic spray tan just gives that healthy looking youthful glow!
Why is it that as a society we put more value on looks than almost anything else? We undervalue the wisdom of the elderly and don't just embrace all of our wrinkles and lines. So many die young yet all we care about is how we look or dress. Just learn to love every stage of life you were blessed to be given wrinkles and all.
Why is it that we have to embrace our wrinkles or gray hair??? Look, like Shae said, we want to age, but why can't we do what we can to not appear that way???? Why can't we take care of ourselves. Should we not wear proper bras, should we embrace not sleeping well, should we not think about what we wear on our bodies? If you want to embrace saggy boobs, dress frumpy, don't care to wear makeup etc that's fine, but you shouldn't be implying that those of us that care aren't embracing that we are still alive. I also exercise and take collagen supplements 🫢
I went gray and have never felt so confident and pretty. I’m 61 and in great shape. The amount of compliments I get in my new cool gray hair is crazy. I have 3 daughters so I’m sure they agree as otherwise they wouldn’t be able to keep their mouths shut. Just “do you “ and live your life.
Finally someone who had the sense to point out that it was the hairstyle that made Blanche look older than JLo. They are constantly being compared in the media,, but when you look at Blanche closely, she has a very youthful face. She doesn't have any sag! It's just the hairstyle really. And, frankly, as long I don't have sag, I'd rather wear A hairstyle that suits my personality (which was always an old soul type) than try to look girly when I'm grandma age.
Great, great video . I’m 64 and I just love watching you. I tell my girls all the time who are young to watch you. Such great tips for the aging. And by the way I love the ripped jeans from H&M. I got them. I wear them all the time and get compliments every time I wear them. Thanks.
I want info on what your wearing, please share the link, from what I can see it looks comfortable, light and like sunshine! Another great video in the books.
I’m always inspired to clean out my closet with your amazing videos! I’d like to see someone 60 years old share advice on staying younger though. I look forward to that video from you someday.
You can't compare a short hair style to a long one. It's apples and oranges. Plus, in the case of Rue and Angela, those hairstyles are from the 80s to early 90s as opposed to JLo now in 2023. I would opt for comparing short to short. JMO. I"m 69 and I always tell my hairstylist "I do not want the Grandma short hair cut." So mine's pretty edgy.
Of course you can. I however don't think she means to say all short hairstyles are aging because I have a pixie. But there are short hair styles that are styled to look older. I speak of the poofy look. On some people longer hair may even age them. It really is about the structure of the face and what suits it best. So maybe she should have emphasized that more. I guess she should have given other examples.
@@josieposie9969 agreed!!! I'm mean look at Helen Mirrin, Dame Judt Dench, heck --- Jamie Lee Curtis!!! But Shea is a younger lady so I can see her point of view. I'm 69.
@@MiaHessMusic I'm 47 and I sport a pixie. I also had a pixie in my younger days (20's). I can tell you hands down that I look younger with shorter hair than I do longer. It's really about the hair style and facial structure than it is about length of hair.
Long hair doesn't always give you youthfulness. Some of the most playful hairstyles are short. Think of pixies. It's not a given that long hair makes you look younger in fact it can also age you.. It's all about the facial structure of the person in question.
@@robynk.6265 Absolutely. But since the pictures given were all of longer haired people, it behooved me to say that short hair can make people look young too, in fact some people look younger/better with short hair. Long hair is not necessarily indicative of youth was my point.
Shoes about the hair- sooo true. I recently went to the cinema with some friends. Two had to drop out and tickets were bought, so we found two gals to go in their place. One of my friends is 70. She has a nice light hair colour and style and good genes admittedly, few wrinkles. She looks 50 at most. She brought her daughter who is 50. I kid you not. I had never met her, and I thought she was a similar age to my friend before she introduced her as her daughter! She actually looked older. Hair was past shoulder length, unstyled and mostly grey around the face especially. She was quit overweight and hadn’t made an effort with her outfit. It made a huge difference.
Rue McCLanahan was 50 years old in 1984! Sadly, she passed in 2010 at the age of 76. Times were different in 1984. Hair was different back then, fashion was different back then, styles were different back then, people aged faster back then, so it is absolutely *RIDICULOUS* to compare her to Lopez. Not to mention, Rue did not have to portray herself as a sex symbol in her career like so many desperate women today feel they have to. I don't know ANY 50-year-olds who wear their hair that way today. As well as the other comparisons. Please don't draw ignorant conclusions.
JLo has a lot of Botox, filler, and probably lots of pdo threads too. In Rue's day, it was a full or facelift or nothing. But yes, the Carol Brady haircut made a huge difference too.
Also add hydration, exercise, sunscreen and AVOID SMOKING! It's also genetics. We'll age regardless of what we do. There are older women that are wrinkly and saggy but still so beautiful. I think we all just need to have more confidence in ourselves and stop caring so much about what others think. I'm hitting 40, I'm a nurse and I have flamingo pink hair!
Thank you for an interesting video as always! I would love it if you could cite your sources when you refer to scientific facts. That would be so helpful, thanks!
I’m going to to 55 next month and I will never stop wearing my distressed jeans. I believe if you wear certain things in the right way, it can make you look younger and beautiful. I sleep very well but my husband struggles sleeping. He owns his own business so it’s very hard for him to get to sleep. Definitely going to have him try Beam Dream powder. Thanks Shea for the recommendation.
Fabulous video!! I already do many of these things and I know it helps me stay youthful at 62. My friends make comments about my ripped jeans and I don’t care! My downfall is sleeping so I’m going to try Beam! I didn’t know we could lengthen our telemeres. How interesting! Thanks Shea and thanks for the code!!😍
I am 63 and looking is not just about hairstyles but what you wear, exercise and how you think and feel. I still enjoy things like indoor rock climbing, go carts, the gym, batting cage, etc. if you’re young at heart it goes a long way towards making you look and feel younger. Don’t stop doing fun things just because you’re a certain age.
My brother passed from shortened telomeres disease at age 54. Definitely buying the powder and some seaweed chips from now on. Thanks for sharing I hadn’t heard about that.
I spoke with my great aunt about aging and I thought she had a very interesting perspective. She is 68 and has done a lot of plastic surgery. She looks great, not botched, just younger than she is by a lot. Anyway, she told me not to do it and that she wishes she would have just let herself age. She said that when you look 48 but are actually 68, the 48 year olds don't really want to hangout with you, and that the other 68 year olds will hate you for looking young. There isn't any place to fit with other females. She also said that people will ask more of you than they would ask of a 68 year old (driving around, helping out around the house, and other projects). She said that she still feels 68, and it hard having other people think you are physically capable of more than you are.
Very good video. I agree with most of what you've recommended. I would just add that updating your clothes style to match current fashion trends is really important (regardless of age). Also, hair, longer and layers to add volume, styled in current trends helps. Oh, and sum glasses!! Good pair of modern sunnies!.
Feeling younger than my age is more important to me than looking younger. I think that JLo and celebrities can buy all of those procedures to look younger, but I could never do Botox or anything like that because I would not put those chemicals in my body. No I won't look as young, but I think aging naturally is going to make me feel better. I am in my 40s and I feel like I act younger than many of my kids' friends' moms because I am active and eat really healthy. I know lots of people 10-20 years younger who act older because they don't stay active. I don't judge anyone else for doing cosmetic procedures, but that's not my thing.
Yes, most celebrities do cosmetic procedures because it’s a quick fix and they have the money. The rest of us have to be smarter because we don’t have the money. But that’s the silver lining to not having the money, we have to go the natural routes which end up being healthier for us in the long run. Cosmetic procedures are like taking a drug or pill to help with depression/ anxiety. They might be a fast solution but they will end up causing you more issues in the long run.
One thing I wish your research noted is that some women just don’t have too much hair as they age, many of my friends & relatives have to give up their long or youth hair style & get perm to cover the fact. if u could give tips on how to add or wear wig, good brand of wig, or short hair style it would be much more closer to reality. There is a reason why the hair style u show look more youthful - volume.
Just When I thought I've seen it all, you surprise me again! Love the side by side comparisons regarding hairstyles and aging. Just saw lisa vanderpump wearing distressed jeans, and it made her look younger and sexier! So there's something to it!! Xoxo
I paused the video to order the bra and I think I will order the spirulina too because my sister in law takes it for years and she is 72 and she looks so much younger!
I can't find the video that mentioned this, but... I started lumping tasks together. Like whitening my teeth while reading emails. I also started washing my face and brushing my teeth earlier. This helps me to feel done with my day and make me sleepy sooner. And thanks to you, I've switched to glass mugs. Different ones from the ones you use, but still a switch. Thanks for all the cool tips and advice!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤😊
My 20 year old son tells me that distressed jeans are no longer in for guys. But I agree with you, why not age as best we can and feel good about ourselves!
I’ll tell you what! Every time I watch one of your videos you just brighten my day!🌼🌞 your personality and enthusiasm are so catchy how could we not. I turned 80 in April and people can’t believe it! They think I’m older 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Just kidding, they can’t believe I’m that old...well I DO NOT feel old, act old, dress old. It’s really hard for me to even think I’m this old. Anyway it’s just a number. People especially ladies need to embrace life because it passes by so so quickly (as I know)! I have 5 great grandsons and they are such a pleasure and keep me young. Thank you for your wonderful and informative videos.👍🌸. Hugs 💜
I cannot wait to see this video!!!❤️ your ideas and advices are 💯 the best!!! Thank you for your videos Shea! I truly appreciate the time you put on your videos!! 🙏🏻 you are amazing!!
So, you’re also not factoring in that women in their 50’s back in the 70’s and 80’s were okay with looking their age. Also, short hair was “in” back then and long hair is what is now current. So, this shit changes. Women in their 50’s weren’t also DESPERATELY AND PATHETICALLY trying to still look like a 20 year old like they are now. Madonna, Kim Kardashian and JHo are examples of this.
I agree it’s an unfair comparison. Back in the 70’s - early 90’s there wasn’t air brushing, as much plastic surgery or other youth enhancing products and procedures. There also wasn’t as much of a need by older women to compete with younger women. Also, shorter hair in style for middle aged and senior ladies and even younger ladies. I certainly had shorter hair style throughout my youth.
I’m 51 and back in the 80’s The Golden Girls were considered a breakthrough because they were women of a certain age who were vibrant, sexy and living vital lives. Blanche looked stylish and sexy for that time. If you were alive than(over age 10) you will remember this. Also, teenagers thought that short hairstyles -like Madonna’s -were sexy. To compare Blanche to what we consider sexy now is irrelevant. Young people always think their ideas are superior to the past generations.
I much prefer Blanche to JLo. As long as as I don't have sag (which Blanche did not have), I'd rather look like a mature woman who loves herself at the stage she is at rather than someone desperately trying to look like the little girl she's no longer.
Another great video. I'm 73 and love my distressed jeans. I would love to find a lifting bra that doesn't have underwire if you or anyone here knows of any, thanks.
No more clothes from ThredUp! ;) I was so hoping to find your top/dress(?) but see you can't link it. It's SO cute and looks incredibly comfortable for hot, humid weather. Very cute on you!
Totally agree about distressed jeans. I love them! I refuse to cut my hair above my shoulders. I am 46. Now being this age I understand WHY they cut it short back in the day. My hair reaches the bra line on my back and the texture is horrible. I’ve tried lots of the things and nothing works. It’s just breaking off at that point. So I keep it medium length and looks very healthy. I must have longer telemeres bc I get told “there’s no way your old enough to have grown children.” I have 3 grown and one teen 😂 However I started wearing daily sunscreen on my face at 25.
The hyaluronic serum that you were talking about are use go pure love it again 58 years old are use a couple of drops in my moisturizer/make up base every morning and then use a little bit of it at night with another moisturizer. And I can tell you I have seen a major difference, so I agree! So I hope everybody tries it. I had even sold my 29-year-old daughter on it! No reason for her to start later in life like her mother did lol.❤
STRESS!!!! Stress is a big ager too!!! My younger sister had a rough life, ran off got married at 16 to an abusive drug addict/drunk. She left after 20 years & is doing AMAZING! But she looks way older then me. I almost died when my daughter came back from Afghanistan!!! Lots of other Marines thought I was her sister. It was great for me but not for her. STRESS is a killer
I'm 46 and have very long, thick hair and it looks good. I'm not planning to get a granny cut or the "mom cut", especially since I don't have kids lol! I wish that bra came in larger cup sizes.
I haven’t stopped laughing since seeing the part where you licked your face. Classic Shea. 😂😂😂 Do you get approached by book publishers and Hollywood executives a lot? I’m just waiting to see a book by you on the shelves!
😅Exactly. I thought of my lovely (but frumpy) aunt who is also pleasantly plump that dresses for comfort with that same outfit. It’s also not that feminine, imo.
I can attest that a raw honey mask helps with skin hydration and softness soooo much! It will totally drip, but I've left it on for over 30 minutes and I can see and feel the difference immediately after I wash it off.
Honey is a miracle in many ways. It never goes bad never! It's been found in Egyptian tombs, and it's still good. If it can preserve itself, it must be able to preserve our skin. I'm 65 and this honey mask was being touted when I was 15 years old. Egg white masks were also popular. It will tighten your skin. I recently saw an article where scrambled raw egg whites is being left on the skin as a primer😊
I don’t mind getting older, but don’t like looking older. I definitely have trouble with sleeping. Thanks, I’ll try. I have a red light therapy mask. It does help but I forgot to use it. Need to step it up.
Hello I haven’t watch you in along time good advice on face products. I have been using meaningful beauty for 3years and only 1 product works for me Which is the morning cream so I recently cancel my orders
Hello Shea. I want to thank you so much for sharing all the wonderful and helpful tips with us. Please 🙏 let us know if there is anything helpful to rejuvenate the neck area, like the same technology of the one for the face. Thank you 😘💐
Regarding the breats department, yes, the bras we wear are really important. Besides that, I highly, highly recommend going to the gym and doing exercises for your lats and back muscles, as well as for your chest. It will take time, but you will have results if you are consistent. The breasts themselves do not have muscles, but by toning your under arm area, your back, your torso will look better and it will be ablee to better support your breasts. There are tons of good, legit fitness influ3ncers on YT with plenty of content showing you how to exercise. Plus, another important thing to do: don't slouch!!! Keep a straight back.
I always read to make fishy lips to apply blush 😂. I’m with you in the boob department. I’m almost 57 and I love distressed jeans! I agree with the longer hair style.
The hairstyles that Rue, Angela, etc had in the pxts you showed were very popular then so they would have looked very fashionable at the time. Plus those women didn’t have access to the broad range anti aging treatments we do now. Not a fair comparison. The tip should have been on keeping current with hair & clothing styles that suit your body & shape face. I use a hyaluronic serum morning & night as part of my skin regime so no need to mix with foundation. Good tip is cleanse your face & apply your night skin care a couple of hours before you go to sleep so you don’t rub it off on your pillow case before it’s absorbed.
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Is that water you mix it? Can you use milk or something else?
@@iwcnv Agree about the melatonin.
Droopy - get a sports bra.
If I can give the younger women a peace of advice: take classical ballet classes! It has made a lasting difference in my life in so many ways! you learn good posture, good spatial awareness, you get good muscle tone over time, and so many other health benefits. And the other secret is that I used to look old and tired because of a broken heart.... I lived through so much trauma....This advice may not please everyone, but when I let Jesus into my life, gave my life to Him, He started to heal me step by step. I learned to forgive people, I learned to share my heart with God. Now I have a shine and sparkle in my eyes, people estimate my age at least ten years younger, and I am 61! Love you, be blessed!
Even a few non en pointe classes helps
Your body remembers Barre work
Agreed about ballet and even though I am an atheist I appreciate your advice and I love how you put it. Stay happy.
Thank you😊
Thank you for sharing how the Lord can make life worth living; His love is everything❤
Love this advice 💕😊
Here's the thing, about Rue vs. Jen or Angela Lansbury vs. Demi Moore- maybe the more modern ladies DO look a lot younger for their age- but there are a lot more factors at play than just hairstyle. Modern ladies naturally look younger because they aren't wearing clothes & makeup that was popular in the 80s. They also have had access to WAY better & more extensive skincare, injectables, & (possibly) cosmetic surgery procedures. They also came up in an era when smoking was much less popular. So it's really no contest.
Thank you ericachacon for your insightful comments. JLo and Demi look fabulous thanks to thousands of dollars worth of "intervention" that 99% of us will ever be able to access. Yes, a more youthful hairstyle is important to looking less than your real age, but let's be realistic.
Excellent point regarding smoking!
Also sun exposure- women used to literally oil themselves up and sit in the sun with a reflector on their faces for a “healthy” glow… resulting in leathery skin later in life.
Sun damage does SO MUCH to age your skin. Thank goodness my 24 year old self had the wisdom to start using SPF30 daily.
@@squenneville1 yes& not only visible damage; my sister & I are now in our 60s and dealing with skin cancer threats from all that tanning in the 80s👀
Well said
I’m in my 60s and I agree with all of this. I’m not big on top but I’ve been wearing a push up bra for years. I tell my husband “I need to boost them up”. Now when he sees a woman with a saggy bust line he says “she needs a better bra” lol. Besides the long term skincare such as Retin A, vitamin C serum and sunscreen I’ve recently started using a red light mask and I love it! Another thing I feel is important is to have social contact with people of all ages. I enjoy hearing viewpoints of everyone not just my own age group.
Thanks Shea, I’m 55 and I’m just happy to age, many sadly aren’t. Also, I do me, if someone doesn’t like my hair long or what I wear for example, I really don’t care at this point. For me the biggest thing is the wisdom I’m gaining as I get older and also realizing worrying about what others think is a waste of time. Looking younger is fine and I enjoy taking care of myself, but I also know we can’t stop it either if we are so blessed to continue aging. Enjoyed the video 💜
I’m 57. I used to care so much how I looked and careful not to offend others etc Good thing about being older is o could care less now what anyone thinks lol
I don’t care at all what people think! I will always keep my long hair and wear what I want. What others think about me isn’t my business..!🙌💯
@@ki_tb12 Amen! ❤️
@@MsSylvia45 I feel it’s the beauty of wisdom that helps us not to worry, because otherwise it would likely be much harder to age. I’m not saying it’s always easy, but it helps to accept it better, if that makes sense? I remember in my 30’s thinking I was getting old and I think back at that and wonder what I was thinking. We waste precious time worrying about these things and in the end it truly doesn’t matter, the time lost worrying is what’s sad. Now in my 50’s I think this is the youngest I’ll ever be from this point on and try to enjoy the good things at this stage of life. It’s a process for sure, but rewarding when you’re able to see things differently regarding aging.💜
@@ki_tb12 🙌
Totally agree Shea - As a kid, I remember my grandma saying that women in their 40s should no longer have long hair. I am glad we are to a place where a woman can decide what is right for them personally ❤
My mom, who is now 83, remembers when she was a student teacher (her late 20s)and during a lesson about opposites a student compared her to the teacher by saying, « you have grey hair, you are OLD. Mrs Portnoy has brown hair. She is YOUNG. »From the mouths of babes.
My grandmother, who lived until she was 98, ALWAYS had long hair. Good for her!
@@janearcher3167but she probably had it up in a bun or something similar.
Not always in a bun. Down to her waist.
@@lisbetsoda4874 LOL why would that even matter??
I'm grateful to have the privilege of turning 60 in August, but im always going to want to be the best version of myself throughout the years. No shame in self-esteem ladies. Thx Shea I love your channel ❤️
Thanks for these ideas! I really need them!
In Oct. 2017, my beloved husband had a heart attack at home. Fourteen months and 22 hospital stays later, he passed away at home in Hospice Care on Christmas Night.
One year and one week later, my mom passed away.
One year and a day after that* I was diagnosed with Stage 2 Breast Cancer.
I am now cancer free, my girls have graduated from college (empty nest syndrome!) and I am ready to do more than just survive.
I've embraced the gray since I have been fighting it since I was 24. But I definitely aged the last few years. I'm not interested in dating, but I'm ready to pamper me. I think I have hecking deserved it! ❤😂
Retinol and the red light face masks seriously made a huge difference for me. Very noticeable line reductions and lifted my eyes. I've had the mask for a year and using retinol for 5. It takes time but they do work!
Which mask do you have?
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How did it lift your eyes when the red light doesnt go over eyes and retin a doesnt go on eyes?
The comparison between Jennifer Lopez and Rue McClanahan is funny lol... obviously Rue isn't wearing hair extensions, and she's sporting a totally 80's hairstyle. The clothing is aging as well.... very 80's and old lady like. Then it's also obvious that Jen has a ton of facial fillers, botox, and has undergone a nose job. Rue looks like a normal aging 50 something year old. Honestly both ways of aging is fine, but I'm grateful to be able to combat some of these things since surgical and nonsurgical things have tremendously improved over the decades. There's nothing wrong either way in how you want to age. It's a personal choice. I do want to say that what you mentioned is true to help with aging, but when you look at people like Jennifer who are absolutely stunning at her age it's more about the procedures than it is about the 8 hours of sleep. I'm totally on board with your suggestions, but the reality is a plastic surgeon is going to take a decade or more off your appearance. 😊
Actually not true. Dermatologist evaluated her procedures. Sleep definitely helps as does diet and exercise. Maybe now some wear hair extensions, before it was “hairpieces and wigs” mostly short.
@@belmoon8711exactly
Aging starts on the inside first then it shows up on the outside. All the surgeries and skincare in the world won’t help if you don’t start from within with nutrition and supplement therapy ,exercise and good sleep. Aging is from bone loss, fat pad loss and collagen loss . You lose volume in your face from your fat pads shifting or depletion. And from your bones thinning in your face and that causes sagging.
Also if plastic surgery was the answer, how come mandana looks scary!!!
Shea aims to hair style 🙂
The comparison of Angela Lansbury and Demi Moore is insane, because it isn't just Demi's hairstyle - she had a lot of cosmetic surgery. There isn't a line on her face, and that isn't because of her hair. Also, if you're over forty and wear distressed denim, you'll make yourself look ancient, and also out of date, because it hasn't been a "thing" in years. In fact anything very trendy will make you look much older.
It’s not just about a “younger” hair style. It’s also about a “current” hair style.
I will be 57 this month and what really works for me are cardio workouts with weight training exercises 5-7 times a week in the morning. Maintaining a healthy weight for my height also. I usually avoid eating fast foods most of the time. I have shoulder length hair which I just love and can't live without.
you look gorgeous
The way people dress now in general already makes us look younger, compared to decades ago. Older women nowadays don’t get the requisite “old lady haircut” and start dressing matronly. I’m 49 and I look young by genetics, but I also wear the same types of clothes I wore in my 20s and 30s and no one has any idea how old I am unless I tell them. When I look at pics of my mom at the same age, she does look her age just because of her clothes and hair, not because of her physical attributes.
You're 49 .. you ARE young!
I agree 1000% dressing is everything
I’m 46 and I’m always told I look way younger I also think I was blessed with great skin by genetics
No, she IS not young, she LOOKS young, as she said. Young is being 20, 30. By 40, relatively young, and at 50, you're no longer in the youth bracket. But you can fake it.
I wear the same type of clothes than I did at 16... suits, timeless classics, chic sexy. I've never had to worry about "dressing my age," whether I was 16 or 56.
I read that people tend to look older when they wear their hair in ways that were fashionable when they were younger, like little old ladies with short hair ala Doris Day.
I went to high school and college in the 80’s, and that thought is horrifying!!!
Oh Shea. The day I wear distressed denim is the day I wear a crop top. Since I'm in my 60s, y'all all need to hope this never happens. 😀
I'm turning 50 in sept and something I've been doing is making sure I put sunscreen on my hand and neck as well. Hands show age a lot too!
I think hairstyle and gray hair are the two things that can age a woman the most. I'm 50 and I color my roots. My friends that have decided to embrace their natural color and have gone gray look so much older than they are. However, they're happy with their choice and don't care if they look older. I'm not there yet. Maybe when I'm 80! 😁
I so agree! They will have to pry my hair color out of my cold dead hands!
I’m 51 and also color my hair, but I do think at a certain point it looks better to just go gray, when it’s obvious your hair no longer matches your face.
I think woman that age naturally , dresses well and has a happy attitude towards herself , that woman will look beautiful and attractive 🌹
Unfortunately most woman that do expensive surgery, color their hair in some dark color that still shows gray it makes them looks plastic no matter how expensive it may be - look at some actresses that look milked a maniquí -
I am 70 soon to be 71 this month and my picture is me less than a year ago. I have always had long hair most of my life. No facial surgery. But, no sun exposure from the age of 30, good skin care, exercise and diet. It can be done. I'm always taken for a lot younger than I am and that feels good.
Wow u look awesome 🤩 I’m same @ 60!
@@angelasmith257 Thanks Angela!❣
Happy coming birthday!
I sported a pixie all through my thirties and early forties, but grew it out as I hit 48, because of a relationship of course. Even though I loved the pixie, the long hair made a huge difference. I will add, if you go for short do go for a youthful style, not the granny perm
😂 granny perm like Jessica Biel on the show Candy.
Agree with many of your points (especially the hair; the hair makes a huge difference!), but definitely not with the distressed jeans. As much as I loved a bit of distressing on my jeans, these are out of style. I think a better suggestion would be to wear a current style in jeans.
They are not out of style at all!!!
I love the tip about not smiling when applying your makeup. Besides your makeup drooping, it can make your under-eyes crease more and encourages smile lines. I try not to make any faces while doing my makeup and for about 20 minutes after so it can set without creasing.
Smiling is a mini facelift. I try to train myself to stay smi!ing. Makes me look friendlier anyway.
Hey girl hey! Love your channel💞
I have the LED mask - $400 I purchased it 2 years ago but I rarely use it. My dermatologist said blue light causes cancer and it’s 💯 proven
Hi Shea im a hairdresser and even im the 90 s when i was training i thought women on their 50 s were old looking the hair and clothes were so frumpy. Im now that age and definitely dont look it . I wesr current trends and my haircut is current. Hair makes a huge difference i agree but also keeping fit and diet . Most women 30 yrs ago did no exercise at all and most of the ladies i used to look after in salon all smoked too.they certainly looked much older in their 50 s then i do now. Great video Shea xxx 💕❤ love from Ireland xx 🇮🇪🇮🇪👍👍7
Would be nice to see more content about simple lifestyles without purchasing more products. Thank you for your advice and frequent content, Shea. 😊
I absolutely agree with you! 💗
Sunscreen, Exercise and a kind heart… the most simplest thing to look younger.
Yes this felt like it should have a QVC logo on the screen. Just one long telemarketing stream.
She is here to make money.
I can attest to the ‘ripped jeans and long hair’ suggestion - boy, does it work!!! I’m 67 and lost much of my hair through Alopecia some years ago and I dreaded wearing a wig. But what I’ve found is that wigs give me the THICK, long luscious locks I never had, and the ripped jeans (or those with a zip detail at the ankle) make such a difference - I’m constantly mistaken for early 40’s !! Give it a goes, ladies.
I’m 64 & on dialysis. Growing older is a privilege not all receive. Yet even using a walker & w/ all my other health issues, I still want to look my best at certain times. I have long been wearing my hair short because of the waves it might be time to let it grow out. 😃😃
Sometimes, younger people look older, since many are overweight
I’m 58 & I’ve had long hair 95% of my life. I wear it back & I do color it. If you have brows, lashes & lips you don’t need much makeup
Agree on the bra situation- I saw a picture of myself and I immediately decided to get rid of the bra I was wearing
My skin is better now at 32 than it was at 23. Thank goodness for Tretinoin and CE Ferulic Vit C 🙌
it’s so interesting that we value looking young yet there is so many old people that use young as an insult. twice last month I had customers say some nasty things about believing I was much younger than I was. One said 13, obviously an exaggeration. The other said I looked right out of high school. I’m 31. I am not offended by this but it is interesting to me that we value looking young so much but also say being young is something shameful, immature and a way to say you’re not as capable.
I'm.64 and only wear slightly distressed jeans..you are so right in saying they make you feel.and look younger. I also wear a lit of cargo pants and camo and will do into my 80's 😂😂. Hoping this dream powder available in the UK or I'm gonna start looking my age because of my terrible insomnia xx
Well looking younger is valued more when we are passed the age 35 I think. But I had literally guys my age ignoring me thinking I am teen or preteen when I was in my late 20’s 💔. They would come and give me a compliment (as a little child )but walk away and I’d only have 16-18 year old boys approach me😢when I’d tell them my real age then you’d have to deal with their reaction of shock. So no looking way younger than your age is not always a beneficial thing. But I can understand after the age 35 why women want to look younger than their age. But imo I like older women who look their age and embrace their age because there is a radiance and full of life in it.
Hmmm...if this is happening to you in a regular basis and you feel references to your age are being used in a negative way, you might need to do some self-analysis as to what behavior on your part might be prompting these comments.
@@Lucinda_Jackson this only happens when people have no interaction with me and are solely basing it off of how I look.
Always love your videos but I have to say that comparing hairstyles to women like Jennifer Lopez and Demi is unrealistic given the cosmetic surgery they have had, so regardless of their hairstyles they look younger anyway!
Yes, they have both had extensive surgery. However, hairstyles help, I would agree.
Although remember fashions were different then and a 51 year old with long hair would have looked very odd to us.
Just like distressed denim would have been considered so ugly by my mom at 50 but I thought nothing of wearing it at 50. Now that I'm 61 I prefer less contrived denim looks.
@@harborgirl8877 yes agreed though on the other hand, long hair on an older lady can add years. Not that I think all older women should cut their hair short, but long hair can age a woman.
@@shirleylewis3490 Very true.
Yes, Demi Moore famously spent over a million on plastic surgery. Plus skin care technology has improved dramatically since the 80’s/90’s.
I’m 50 and people have always thought I was younger than I am. I think it’s because I’m very petite and wear younger looking clothing, like the distressed jeans, my rock band t’s, Birkenstocks, ect. I also have not gone through menopause yet so I think that is keeping me younger as my hair is still very thick and shiny and my skin doesn’t appear aged, except on my hands as I’m a nurse and have to wash them WAY too much.
Hairstyle is everything!! Look at Leann Rimes in the late 90's....she was a teenager with a 45 year old's hair style 😭
For what it’s worth, I would say that having some color (talking a tan for very pale women) makes a huge difference to how a person looks and feels. An organic spray tan just gives that healthy looking youthful glow!
Why is it that as a society we put more value on looks than almost anything else? We undervalue the wisdom of the elderly and don't just embrace all of our wrinkles and lines. So many die young yet all we care about is how we look or dress. Just learn to love every stage of life you were blessed to be given wrinkles and all.
Why is it that we have to embrace our wrinkles or gray hair??? Look, like Shae said, we want to age, but why can't we do what we can to not appear that way???? Why can't we take care of ourselves. Should we not wear proper bras, should we embrace not sleeping well, should we not think about what we wear on our bodies? If you want to embrace saggy boobs, dress frumpy, don't care to wear makeup etc that's fine, but you shouldn't be implying that those of us that care aren't embracing that we are still alive. I also exercise and take collagen supplements 🫢
What’s wrong with grey hair?
This👏
I went gray and have never felt so confident and pretty. I’m 61 and in great shape. The amount of compliments I get in my new cool gray hair is crazy. I have 3 daughters so I’m sure they agree as otherwise they wouldn’t be able to keep their mouths shut. Just “do you “ and live your life.
@@lawgally1 I'm sorry, where did I say there was something wrong with gray hair. I think you need to read the OG comment, and reread my response.
I’ll take Blanche over J-Lo any day…simply on personality and moral values alone! 😆
Blanche isn't a real person. Having said that, her character was constantly sleeping around. So who has the better moral compass? 😂
@@ashleys4652 since when was sleeping around an immoral thing? lol
Blanch looked good for her age. Like that generation, they didn't try to hard. That is what makes you attractive. J. Look looks very try hard.
Finally someone who had the sense to point out that it was the hairstyle that made Blanche look older than JLo. They are constantly being compared in the media,, but when you look at Blanche closely, she has a very youthful face. She doesn't have any sag! It's just the hairstyle really.
And, frankly, as long I don't have sag, I'd rather wear A hairstyle that suits my personality (which was always an old soul type) than try to look girly when I'm grandma age.
I'll never understand why it's cool to act like Jennifer Lopez is a mass murderer, LOL.
Great, great video . I’m 64 and I just love watching you. I tell my girls all the time who are young to watch you. Such great tips for the aging. And by the way I love the ripped jeans from H&M. I got them. I wear them all the time and get compliments every time I wear them. Thanks.
I want info on what your wearing, please share the link, from what I can see it looks comfortable, light and like sunshine! Another great video in the books.
I’m always inspired to clean out my closet with your amazing videos! I’d like to see someone 60 years old share advice on staying younger though. I look forward to that video from you someday.
You can't compare a short hair style to a long one. It's apples and oranges. Plus, in the case of Rue and Angela, those hairstyles are from the 80s to early 90s as opposed to JLo now in 2023. I would opt for comparing short to short. JMO.
I"m 69 and I always tell my hairstylist "I do not want the Grandma short hair cut." So mine's pretty edgy.
Of course you can. I however don't think she means to say all short hairstyles are aging because I have a pixie. But there are short hair styles that are styled to look older. I speak of the poofy look. On some people longer hair may even age them. It really is about the structure of the face and what suits it best. So maybe she should have emphasized that more. I guess she should have given other examples.
@@josieposie9969 agreed!!! I'm mean look at Helen Mirrin, Dame Judt Dench, heck --- Jamie Lee Curtis!!! But Shea is a younger lady so I can see her point of view. I'm 69.
@@MiaHessMusic I'm 47 and I sport a pixie. I also had a pixie in my younger days (20's). I can tell you hands down that I look younger with shorter hair than I do longer. It's really about the hair style and facial structure than it is about length of hair.
I’m 55 and i wear distressed denim (love it) and my cuz who is two years older will not have it- but looks soooo matronly!
Wow, the hair comparison was amazing!!!!!
I'm 63 and don't look my age and agree with most of what you say. I'll never get rid of my distressed denim or long hair!
Same🙌🏻
Long hair doesn't always give you youthfulness. Some of the most playful hairstyles are short. Think of pixies. It's not a given that long hair makes you look younger in fact it can also age you.. It's all about the facial structure of the person in question.
I never said it's for everyone but it's definitely for me.
@@robynk.6265 Absolutely. But since the pictures given were all of longer haired people, it behooved me to say that short hair can make people look young too, in fact some people look younger/better with short hair. Long hair is not necessarily indicative of youth was my point.
Shoes about the hair- sooo true. I recently went to the cinema with some friends. Two had to drop out and tickets were bought, so we found two gals to go in their place. One of my friends is 70. She has a nice light hair colour and style and good genes admittedly, few wrinkles. She looks 50 at most. She brought her daughter who is 50. I kid you not. I had never met her, and I thought she was a similar age to my friend before she introduced her as her daughter! She actually looked older. Hair was past shoulder length, unstyled and mostly grey around the face especially. She was quit overweight and hadn’t made an effort with her outfit. It made a huge difference.
Rue McCLanahan was 50 years old in 1984! Sadly, she passed in 2010 at the age of 76. Times were different in 1984. Hair was different back then, fashion was different back then, styles were different back then, people aged faster back then, so it is absolutely *RIDICULOUS* to compare her to Lopez. Not to mention, Rue did not have to portray herself as a sex symbol in her career like so many desperate women today feel they have to. I don't know ANY 50-year-olds who wear their hair that way today. As well as the other comparisons. Please don't draw ignorant conclusions.
Rue died in 2010.
@@janeentumbao8690 Thank you. I edited my post accordingly. :)
JLo has a lot of Botox, filler, and probably lots of pdo threads too. In Rue's day, it was a full or facelift or nothing. But yes, the Carol Brady haircut made a huge difference too.
Also add hydration, exercise, sunscreen and AVOID SMOKING! It's also genetics. We'll age regardless of what we do. There are older women that are wrinkly and saggy but still so beautiful. I think we all just need to have more confidence in ourselves and stop caring so much about what others think. I'm hitting 40, I'm a nurse and I have flamingo pink hair!
Thank you for an interesting video as always! I would love it if you could cite your sources when you refer to scientific facts. That would be so helpful, thanks!
I’m going to to 55 next month and I will never stop wearing my distressed jeans. I believe if you wear certain things in the right way, it can make you look younger and beautiful.
I sleep very well but my husband struggles sleeping. He owns his own business so it’s very hard for him to get to sleep. Definitely going to have him try Beam Dream powder. Thanks Shea for the recommendation.
Fabulous video!! I already do many of these things and I know it helps me stay youthful at 62. My friends make comments about my ripped jeans and I don’t care! My downfall is sleeping so I’m going to try Beam! I didn’t know we could lengthen our telemeres. How interesting! Thanks Shea and thanks for the code!!😍
I am 63 and looking is not just about hairstyles but what you wear, exercise and how you think and feel. I still enjoy things like indoor rock climbing, go carts, the gym, batting cage, etc. if you’re young at heart it goes a long way towards making you look and feel younger. Don’t stop doing fun things just because you’re a certain age.
My brother passed from shortened telomeres disease at age 54. Definitely buying the powder and some seaweed chips from now on. Thanks for sharing I hadn’t heard about that.
I spoke with my great aunt about aging and I thought she had a very interesting perspective. She is 68 and has done a lot of plastic surgery. She looks great, not botched, just younger than she is by a lot. Anyway, she told me not to do it and that she wishes she would have just let herself age. She said that when you look 48 but are actually 68, the 48 year olds don't really want to hangout with you, and that the other 68 year olds will hate you for looking young. There isn't any place to fit with other females. She also said that people will ask more of you than they would ask of a 68 year old (driving around, helping out around the house, and other projects). She said that she still feels 68, and it hard having other people think you are physically capable of more than you are.
Very good video. I agree with most of what you've recommended. I would just add that updating your clothes style to match current fashion trends is really important (regardless of age). Also, hair, longer and layers to add volume, styled in current trends helps. Oh, and sum glasses!! Good pair of modern sunnies!.
I just love your hair, Shea!!! We need a hair update, please! ❤
Feeling younger than my age is more important to me than looking younger. I think that JLo and celebrities can buy all of those procedures to look younger, but I could never do Botox or anything like that because I would not put those chemicals in my body. No I won't look as young, but I think aging naturally is going to make me feel better. I am in my 40s and I feel like I act younger than many of my kids' friends' moms because I am active and eat really healthy. I know lots of people 10-20 years younger who act older because they don't stay active. I don't judge anyone else for doing cosmetic procedures, but that's not my thing.
Yes, most celebrities do cosmetic procedures because it’s a quick fix and they have the money. The rest of us have to be smarter because we don’t have the money. But that’s the silver lining to not having the money, we have to go the natural routes which end up being healthier for us in the long run. Cosmetic procedures are like taking a drug or pill to help with depression/ anxiety. They might be a fast solution but they will end up causing you more issues in the long run.
I love my distressed denim, I’m 58 and I always get compliments when I wear them. They aren’t shredded but slightly distressed in a good way…😁
One thing I wish your research noted is that some women just don’t have too much hair as they age, many of my friends & relatives have to give up their long or youth hair style & get perm to cover the fact. if u could give tips on how to add or wear wig, good brand of wig, or short hair style it would be much more closer to reality. There is a reason why the hair style u show look more youthful - volume.
Every single time you upload another informational video, Shea, it's like WHERE HAS THIS INFORMATION BEEN ALL MY LIFE?!?!? Loved it!
Wow this is such a nice comment...thank you!!!!!!
Just When I thought I've seen it all, you surprise me again! Love the side by side comparisons regarding hairstyles and aging. Just saw lisa vanderpump wearing distressed jeans, and it made her look younger and sexier! So there's something to it!!
Xoxo
I paused the video to order the bra and I think I will order the spirulina too because my sister in law takes it for years and she is 72 and she looks so much younger!
I can't find the video that mentioned this, but...
I started lumping tasks together. Like whitening my teeth while reading emails.
I also started washing my face and brushing my teeth earlier. This helps me to feel done with my day and make me sleepy sooner.
And thanks to you, I've switched to glass mugs. Different ones from the ones you use, but still a switch.
Thanks for all the cool tips and advice!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤😊
My 20 year old son tells me that distressed jeans are no longer in for guys. But I agree with you, why not age as best we can and feel good about ourselves!
Hi Shea-and do not forget those Mineral Trace drops you recommenced a bit back, they have been a game changer for my hubby and me (we are in our 50s)
I’ll tell you what! Every time I watch one of your videos you just brighten my day!🌼🌞 your personality and enthusiasm are so catchy how could we not. I turned 80 in April and people can’t believe it! They think I’m older 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Just kidding, they can’t believe I’m that old...well I DO NOT feel old, act old, dress old. It’s really hard for me to even think I’m this old. Anyway it’s just a number. People especially ladies need to embrace life because it passes by so so quickly (as I know)! I have 5 great grandsons and they are such a pleasure and keep me young. Thank you for your wonderful and informative videos.👍🌸. Hugs 💜
That is so cool that you do not feel or act your age.
Hopefully this will also be me at 80, I’m on track with all that at 51…hopefully will stay on course! 🥳
I will NEVER wear distressed denim!! I think they look awful, especially on older women
Agreed. Never understood this trend... which goes way back.
Yup, not paying more for pre-ripped jeans.
also keep your glasses current!
finally...stuff that works! Shea is always on point!!
Great video! Sadly, Beam don’t seem to ship to the U.K. so I can’t purchase it. 😢
Thanks Shea! Love all your tips. I'll share with my clients!
Thank you Diane!!!!!
I cannot wait to see this video!!!❤️ your ideas and advices are 💯 the best!!! Thank you for your videos Shea! I truly appreciate the time you put on your videos!! 🙏🏻 you are amazing!!
Awe thank you SO much!!!! This means a lot!!!
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So, you’re also not factoring in that women in their 50’s back in the 70’s and 80’s were okay with looking their age. Also, short hair was “in” back then and long hair is what is now current. So, this shit changes.
Women in their 50’s weren’t also DESPERATELY AND PATHETICALLY trying to still look like a 20 year old like they are now. Madonna, Kim Kardashian and JHo are examples of this.
I agree it’s an unfair comparison. Back in the 70’s - early 90’s there wasn’t air brushing, as much plastic surgery or other youth enhancing products and procedures. There also wasn’t as much of a need by older women to compete with younger women. Also, shorter hair in style for middle aged and senior ladies and even younger ladies. I certainly had shorter hair style throughout my youth.
JHo? Really???
I’m 51 and back in the 80’s The Golden Girls were considered a breakthrough because they were women of a certain age who were vibrant, sexy and living vital lives. Blanche looked stylish and sexy for that time. If you were alive than(over age 10) you will remember this. Also, teenagers thought that short hairstyles -like Madonna’s -were sexy. To compare Blanche to what we consider sexy now is irrelevant. Young people always think their ideas are superior to the past generations.
I much prefer Blanche to JLo. As long as as I don't have sag (which Blanche did not have), I'd rather look like a mature woman who loves herself at the stage she is at rather than someone desperately trying to look like the little girl she's no longer.
Agree in everything!! Especially in the hair,, I don’t know why the society push you to cut your hair after 40,,, hell no,, don’t listen to them
Another great video. I'm 73 and love my distressed jeans. I would love to find a lifting bra that doesn't have underwire if you or anyone here knows of any, thanks.
No more clothes from ThredUp! ;) I was so hoping to find your top/dress(?) but see you can't link it. It's SO cute and looks incredibly comfortable for hot, humid weather. Very cute on you!
Totally agree about distressed jeans. I love them!
I refuse to cut my hair above my shoulders. I am 46. Now being this age I understand WHY they cut it short back in the day. My hair reaches the bra line on my back and the texture is horrible. I’ve tried lots of the things and nothing works. It’s just breaking off at that point. So I keep it medium length and looks very healthy.
I must have longer telemeres bc I get told “there’s no way your old enough to have grown children.” I have 3 grown and one teen 😂 However I started wearing daily sunscreen on my face at 25.
The hyaluronic serum that you were talking about are use go pure love it again 58 years old are use a couple of drops in my moisturizer/make up base every morning and then use a little bit of it at night with another moisturizer. And I can tell you I have seen a major difference, so I agree! So I hope everybody tries it. I had even sold my 29-year-old daughter on it! No reason for her to start later in life like her mother did lol.❤
The hair is everything
STRESS!!!! Stress is a big ager too!!! My younger sister had a rough life, ran off got married at 16 to an abusive drug addict/drunk. She left after 20 years & is doing AMAZING! But she looks way older then me. I almost died when my daughter came back from Afghanistan!!! Lots of other Marines thought I was her sister. It was great for me but not for her. STRESS is a killer
I'm 46 and have very long, thick hair and it looks good. I'm not planning to get a granny cut or the "mom cut", especially since I don't have kids lol! I wish that bra came in larger cup sizes.
Hi Shea, really love your blue and white paisley print blouse! Couldn't find it in your Amazon store, can you say where it's from please?
Hiiii it's from ZARA!! I got it on Thredup so I can't link it!!
@@SheaWhitney THANKS for letting me know!!! The texture in the fabric is what makes is Soooo special !💕
I haven’t stopped laughing since seeing the part where you licked your face. Classic Shea. 😂😂😂 Do you get approached by book publishers and Hollywood executives a lot? I’m just waiting to see a book by you on the shelves!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
6:37 Uuh. That is one stereotypical outfit for early retired older people to look sporty 🤣
😅Exactly. I thought of my lovely (but frumpy) aunt who is also pleasantly plump that dresses for comfort with that same outfit. It’s also not that feminine, imo.
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The reason Demi Moore looks younger at 58 is because she has had several facelifts.
Yes, not a very good comparison. And length of hair is not as important as the hairstyle. You can look older with longer hair too.
I can attest that a raw honey mask helps with skin hydration and softness soooo much! It will totally drip, but I've left it on for over 30 minutes and I can see and feel the difference immediately after I wash it off.
Does any honey work?
Honey is a miracle in many ways. It never goes bad never! It's been found in Egyptian tombs, and it's still good. If it can preserve itself, it must be able to preserve our skin. I'm 65 and this honey mask was being touted when I was 15 years old. Egg white masks were also popular. It will tighten your skin. I recently saw an article where scrambled raw egg whites is being left on the skin as a primer😊
Love your videos Shea! Thanks for everything you share. Just an FYI, They are pronounced Tee-low-meers
Whats with the creepy honey hand!😂
Sent this to my mom, hope she listens to you Shea!❤
Lol @SheaWhitney the beginning of this was hilarious 😂 you’re my favorite!! Your channel and you bring me so much joy 🎉 thank you for all you do ❤
awe this is such a kind comment Kristina!!! Thanks for watching🥰
I don’t mind getting older, but don’t like looking older. I definitely have trouble with sleeping. Thanks, I’ll try. I have a red light therapy mask. It does help but I forgot to use it. Need to step it up.
Hello I haven’t watch you in along time good advice on face products. I have been using meaningful beauty for 3years and only 1 product works for me Which is the morning cream so I recently cancel my orders
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Hello Shea. I want to thank you so much for sharing all the wonderful and helpful tips with us. Please 🙏 let us know if there is anything helpful to rejuvenate the neck area, like the same technology of the one for the face. Thank you 😘💐
Thank you for sharing your tips and tricks. I’ve never heard of using raw honey to help with hydration and acne. Going to try this today!
It's so good!!!🙌🏼
$455 for the light mask is out of my budget. Is there one that is more reasonably priced that doesn't compromise on quality? Thanks.
Hi Shea, would love to try Dream beam powder ,however I can not order it as I live in Germany. Is there an opportunity to get this out of US?
Totally agree with the distressed denim tip.
Regarding the breats department, yes, the bras we wear are really important. Besides that, I highly, highly recommend going to the gym and doing exercises for your lats and back muscles, as well as for your chest. It will take time, but you will have results if you are consistent. The breasts themselves do not have muscles, but by toning your under arm area, your back, your torso will look better and it will be ablee to better support your breasts. There are tons of good, legit fitness influ3ncers on YT with plenty of content showing you how to exercise. Plus, another important thing to do: don't slouch!!! Keep a straight back.
I always read to make fishy lips to apply blush 😂. I’m with you in the boob department. I’m almost 57 and I love distressed jeans! I agree with the longer hair style.
Yes! We did the fish face when I danced.
Yes i think you are right with all. The face mask I have no idea about, it looks very expensive too.
Thank you 🇦🇺
The hairstyles that Rue, Angela, etc had in the pxts you showed were very popular then so they would have looked very fashionable at the time. Plus those women didn’t have access to the broad range anti aging treatments we do now. Not a fair comparison. The tip should have been on keeping current with hair & clothing styles that suit your body & shape face. I use a hyaluronic serum morning & night as part of my skin regime so no need to mix with foundation. Good tip is cleanse your face & apply your night skin care a couple of hours before you go to sleep so you don’t rub it off on your pillow case before it’s absorbed.
I am 60 and I live happy and healthy, but I have learned less is more!
Thank you Shea,I certainly going to try a couple of things.🙏🏻🥰🌻✨