Increase Your Willpower With These 10 Scientific Strategies

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  • Опубликовано: 7 авг 2024
  • What is willpower? It's a potent combination of courage, mental stamina and determination. Willpower is what gets us through. People with high willpower are driven to success, get more done, achieve greater success and their abilities stand out from the crowd. The good news is willpower can be learned and strengthened. In this video, Vanessa shares 10 incredibly powerful strategies to radically increase your willpower.
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    0:00-1:20 Introduction
    1:21-1:49 Step #1 - The Willpower Challenge
    1:50-3:05 Step #2 - Self-Knowledge
    3:06-4:41 Step #3 - Two Toned Brains
    4:42-5:51 Step #4 - Gaming the System
    5:52-6:57 Step #5 - Strengthen Your Muscle
    6:58-7:59 Step #6 - License to Sin
    8:00-9:02 Step #7 - “What the Hell” Effect
    9:03-10:25 Step #8 - Your Future Self
    10:26-11:04 Step #9 - Willpower Infected
    11:05-12:52 Step #10 - Never Say “I Won’t”
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Комментарии • 86

  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople  4 года назад +5

    Find out more in our full article on this topic:
    www.scienceofpeople.com/willpower/

    • @mannytorrez2138
      @mannytorrez2138 4 года назад

      Do have a teaching about.....I like to learn I write notes I hear and see to learn but when comes to teach I forget or I freeze is that normal? I'm 42 what can I do to better myself :)

    • @aryankashyap3117
      @aryankashyap3117 2 года назад

      Miss can you please elaborate on handling the "what the hell" effect it is a serious issue for a lot of people including myself

  • @goldensquirel
    @goldensquirel 4 года назад +20

    Watching this at 6:55am is indeed my willpower 😁

    • @Jarg555
      @Jarg555 3 года назад

      It’s 3am for me 👀

  • @rebeccahummel9091
    @rebeccahummel9091 4 года назад +10

    The most powerful tool I found to get the greatest positive "get it done" effect is finding videos that align with my goals and watching them when I feel weak or distracted - really helps to get back on course! Or just watch them to stay on course.

    • @TereshaYoung
      @TereshaYoung 4 года назад +3

      I'm with you on that one Rebecca! 💯 You're showing great self-awareness in knowing how you can gain clarity when you're feeling stuck and also what works for you to keep you motivated and focused! 🎉 What also helped me to be committed to my goals, which I share on my channel is how my "why" (the reason for my goal) makes me fly! I find that you can't underestimate the power of "because" to keep us on track! 👍🏾
      Keep up the good work! 💎💖

  • @Lindsweightloss
    @Lindsweightloss 4 года назад +28

    I love how clear you speak! Thank you for this video :)

  • @Septumsempra8818
    @Septumsempra8818 4 года назад +9

    Your vids have helped me on so many fronts, thanks. So Imma give you a tip from my field of expertise. If you're not particularly fond of working out for hours (unless it's a hike or something organic) and keeping in mind your body type, try out anything explosive for a bit, doesn't have to be powerlifting or anything, but you'll find a judo/wrestling class or anything where you have to move your center of mass rapidly will work wonders. You'll feel your body burning through your food even whilst not training. It sounds odd, but it's way more efficient than zumba or weights.
    s/o from South Africa

  • @Poireihanba122
    @Poireihanba122 4 года назад +4

    Ma'am ,thank you so much for this video. All the best! And I pray for your safe and healthy life.

  • @guitard1280
    @guitard1280 Год назад +1

    This is fantastic. I think willpower is something for which the speaker has a native talent plus years of getting even better at it.

  • @anesit
    @anesit 3 года назад +1

    I LOVE YOU VAN SO MUCH 😭😭😭UOU YOU ARE MAKING CHANGE TO MY LIFE

  • @theEleMentalCrash
    @theEleMentalCrash 4 года назад +2

    I’ve been bunging your videos for a few days. It’s funny how close answers to our problems can be, thank you so much!

  • @jessicacurbelo28
    @jessicacurbelo28 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for shearing these willpower tools:🙏🏻💙

  • @ranugo
    @ranugo 3 года назад

    Great tips, Vanessa! Thanks for sharing them!

  • @gauravsinghbedi6536
    @gauravsinghbedi6536 2 года назад

    Thank You Vanessa...God Bless you

  • @nawfalshammari4579
    @nawfalshammari4579 4 года назад

    Thank you Vanessa ❤

  • @emc2928
    @emc2928 4 года назад +1

    Very refreshing i needed this!

  • @walkerskii
    @walkerskii 4 года назад

    I'm so happy I'm subscribed to you I picked up a couple of wonderful ideas from you especially committing to something during a high willpower time of the day

  • @angelitaespinosa521
    @angelitaespinosa521 4 года назад +1

    Thank you! You are heaven sent!

  • @urieless175
    @urieless175 4 года назад

    This is great counseling..I've been going thru alot of stuff now I'm just going thru something..this is helping me with my life so far now and I just started subscribing to your channel..my heart was racing but now is doing fine I have to say a mil thanks love

  • @kryesumoore2997
    @kryesumoore2997 4 года назад +1

    I really need this today thanks.

  • @valentinacallegari3307
    @valentinacallegari3307 4 года назад

    Thank You!

  • @yogawithbelle
    @yogawithbelle 3 года назад

    I love your video!! So much info and useful

  • @dhirajkadam2469
    @dhirajkadam2469 4 года назад +1

    Grateful

  • @totoydelacruz4384
    @totoydelacruz4384 3 года назад

    Great topic!Thanks!

  • @solomon4782
    @solomon4782 4 года назад +1

    I love 💓 the way u talk 😘
    Solomon from Eritrea 🇪🇷

  • @himanshuusain
    @himanshuusain 4 года назад

    Thankyou❤️💕

  • @hussainmohammad2244
    @hussainmohammad2244 4 года назад

    Thank u very much madam

  • @alifarooqrajpoot
    @alifarooqrajpoot 4 года назад +1

    Brilliant 💯🎉

  • @zhanmike3406
    @zhanmike3406 4 года назад +1

    Very helpful and useful, I enjoy watching your videos, this one is especially very good, kudos !

  • @akshitsingh5108
    @akshitsingh5108 3 года назад

    I appreciate your knowledge regarding will power.

  • @davewarwicker2512
    @davewarwicker2512 2 года назад

    I read three books on this recently - so was pleasantly surprised by how many ideas here that were still new to me.

  • @sankalparora9261
    @sankalparora9261 4 года назад +1

    Amazing stuff.
    PS : I love the intro for the videos.

  • @BeOutstanding
    @BeOutstanding 4 года назад

    Great
    Content
    Thank
    You
    Vanessa
    Musc
    Remove distraction or small Dec
    Do hardest thing fir
    Just do

  • @sureshkssreedharan456
    @sureshkssreedharan456 4 года назад +1

    Vanessa your great

  • @invincibleshot.7912
    @invincibleshot.7912 3 года назад

    Tremendous ❣️

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 3 года назад

    Hello Vanessa...Thanks

  • @montygill2835
    @montygill2835 4 года назад +1

    Great video

  • @sharmilamv9606
    @sharmilamv9606 2 года назад

    Very useful and inspiring 👏 👍 👌

  • @radlyn7234
    @radlyn7234 4 года назад +8

    Great video !!! I love how you explain things. However, I would prefer that you give examples that are not related to food and desserts, not everyone has this problem, I personally don’t, but I do have an issue in procrastinating and committing to my goals.

    • @mistersimorgh1537
      @mistersimorgh1537 4 года назад +1

      Same thing here

    • @TereshaYoung
      @TereshaYoung 4 года назад +1

      I totally agree! 💯 I've found that aiming for perfection can lead to 'analysis paralysis' where I over-think a situation so that a decision or action is never taken or I procrastinate! 🙈
      So I instead focus on taking progressive steps towards achieving my goals rather than striving for perfection 👍🏾
      What also helped me to be committed to my goals, which I share on my channel is how my "why" (the reason for my goal) makes me fly! I find that you can't underestimate the power of "because" to keep us on track! 👍🏾
      All we can do is our best! Keep going! 🌟

  • @richarddavis2791
    @richarddavis2791 Год назад

    Thanks for the book report

  • @lamouralice4533
    @lamouralice4533 3 года назад

    Really want to learn about it

  • @andywest6113
    @andywest6113 Год назад

    I love your videos

  • @64maxpower
    @64maxpower 2 года назад

    I love your work

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  2 года назад

      Thank you! I'm glad to know you enjoy the content! =)

  • @honeybunnybunny1958
    @honeybunnybunny1958 4 года назад +1

    Girl you are heaven sent

  • @Surajkumar-pp6co
    @Surajkumar-pp6co 4 года назад +1

    what one thing you could do right now to have greater success? I should fix one goal and work on that like Arjuna.
    what one thing you could stop doing right now to improve your quality of life? Stop procrastinating my decision taking process.

  • @prabalbhardwaj3777
    @prabalbhardwaj3777 4 года назад +1

    Alas! I found your channel thanks mam

  • @ShashankManiRai
    @ShashankManiRai 7 месяцев назад +2

    "Saved to watch later"

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 3 года назад +1

    Achievement is a lot of work

  • @melissazabower339
    @melissazabower339 4 года назад

    I think something missing from this list of strategies is talking about motivation. Intrinsic versus extrinsic. I have no internal motivation. None. Should I do this or that? Sure, but when I don't, I feel no shame. There is nothing pushing me to do it. Unless someone is giving me a score or a grade or a paycheck, there is no reason for me to do it. Any strategies to help with that? Thanks :)

  • @18818
    @18818 4 года назад

    Excellent! .... Thanks! :D
    Vanessa, there are 20 countries that speak Spanish that could benefit from your RUclips videos, would you please add subtitles in Spanish so we can share you videos to those who don't speak English!

  • @EmpressofChrist
    @EmpressofChrist 4 года назад +1

    💞

  • @pearatree
    @pearatree 4 года назад

    What if you don't view your future self like other people... but opposite... which gets you down?

  • @BrittanyLemonade
    @BrittanyLemonade 4 года назад

    What is the name of the yellow book she introduced at the beginning of the video??

  • @Goldwaterflow
    @Goldwaterflow 4 года назад +1

    She said Purple bicycle i couldn't stop picturing even after the end of the video loo

    • @TereshaYoung
      @TereshaYoung 4 года назад +1

      Hahaha! Me too! 😂😂😂

  • @cssoversimplified
    @cssoversimplified 4 года назад +2

    I want more positive people
    I don't want negative people

    • @TereshaYoung
      @TereshaYoung 4 года назад +3

      Totally agree Khushlim 💯 Nobody needs or deserves negative relationships and friendships. If possible, can you see if you can limit the time you spend with negative people and instead surround yourself with those who are going to lift you higher? 🤷🏽‍♀️💎💖

  • @greggillson388
    @greggillson388 3 года назад

    Schedule ice cream before bed into your calendar. That way it's not a loss-of-willpower decision.

  • @honeybunnybunny1958
    @honeybunnybunny1958 4 года назад

    Future me is now and i let myself down

  • @christophernice5844
    @christophernice5844 3 года назад

    Hello

  • @rajvirtanvi7109
    @rajvirtanvi7109 4 года назад

    I noticed you wear blue in max of your videos. Is there a science behind that or is that just random?

  • @wasteyourlife7373
    @wasteyourlife7373 4 года назад +1

    I binge eat ice cream regardless

  • @geniuswith0iq486
    @geniuswith0iq486 4 года назад +1

    💝💌

  • @nathanbanks2354
    @nathanbanks2354 3 года назад

    Anyone else think of a purple elephant instead of the purple bicycle?

  • @honeybunnybunny1958
    @honeybunnybunny1958 4 года назад

    Ughh I’m so guilty to rewarding myself with sin

  • @abcjme
    @abcjme 4 года назад

    2:35 the “dunning¨kruger effect” is much more general than this

  • @benjaminpeterson6619
    @benjaminpeterson6619 3 года назад

    please keep clean language..

  • @jameshumphries5059
    @jameshumphries5059 4 года назад

    You need some with your diet. You’ve gain led some weigh.

    • @benergy100k2
      @benergy100k2 4 года назад +4

      You need to give that advice to your mother and the overweight uncles and women in your life. Vanessa is only here to help us about our ability to improve ourselves but not to be one of those skinny, starving mulnutrited women you see in magazines. She's not here to satisfy your desires and she's already happily married.

    • @benrussell727
      @benrussell727 4 года назад +1

      she just had a kid

    • @jameshumphries5059
      @jameshumphries5059 4 года назад

      ben russell - I know. It’s no excuse though

    • @jameshumphries5059
      @jameshumphries5059 4 года назад

      BEN. W. K. - I get that but you can’t really do a video on willpower if your overweight. Practice what you preach me and my family are not over weight or too skinny it’s call be at a healthy weight and that’s what I want for her.

    • @back5594
      @back5594 4 года назад

      Bruh

  • @bronxlords
    @bronxlords 5 месяцев назад

    WILL POWER REQUIRES NONE OF THESE

  • @irishchocolate3872
    @irishchocolate3872 4 года назад

    The reason we want to automatically do what we are forbidden to do is found in the Bible. It is part of our sin nature.