Is Social Media Competing with Your Relationship? | Part 1 | Couch Conversations | S2 E4

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • Do You Compete with Social Media in Your Relationship? Khadeen & Devale talk about rules and regulations regarding social media and relationships with couples Angel and Marcus, and Nova and Kareem.
    Follow Khadeen & Devale's YT Channel's! @The Ellises & @Khadeen Ellis And listen to their Podcast, "Deadass" on www.deadasspod...
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    Recorded in 2019

Комментарии • 62

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej 3 года назад +74

    Am I the only one who sings, "That Chick Angel" every time I see her? Great episode! Can't wait for part 2. 💐🌹

    • @sevenp.8640
      @sevenp.8640 3 года назад +7

      A boss a wife. . . aaaayyyee

    • @ATSGENXStyle
      @ATSGENXStyle 3 года назад +1

      Nope! I do the same thing!😁😁😁😁😁

    • @tboykin13tb
      @tboykin13tb 3 года назад

      Nope, but that is cause I don't watch her channel, but I have heard of her channel. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @MrsNikitaNowells
      @MrsNikitaNowells 2 года назад

      Not sure who Angel is but I was thinking Kristyn Alexis

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 3 года назад +61

    Lol, yessss I'm here for Tank & Angel, they are hilarious!! Can't wait for the full episode...

  • @FabulousVerse
    @FabulousVerse 3 года назад +20

    Dating is harder because you're learning each other. Marriage is hard because you're growing together. Growth can be uncomfortable even when it's in a positive direction. Just my opinion... doesn't matter to anyone but me. 🌹

  • @fabulouswomenpray
    @fabulouswomenpray 3 года назад +30

    Social media can become addictive, and use to have me not living in the moment with my husband. I use to have to post pictures as soon as I take a picture. Over the last couple of years I post pictures later or days after a date or a event. I also uninstall app, and only only pull up apps when I have downtime/ alone time. I want to enjoy every moment with my husband. Now for those who have to use it for work, and who are influencer I can imagine it is hard to manage as that is income. But for me it is only use for leisure so it is easier to manage not being on social media often. I also take social media detox breaks for weeks or months when needed.

  • @JamaicanemeraldQueen
    @JamaicanemeraldQueen 3 года назад +47

    The ELLISES & TANKSLEYS💚💚💚💚💚

  • @shamnae2
    @shamnae2 3 года назад +15

    I really enjoy watching these couch conversation videos as a way of winding down after work!

  • @donitaw8610
    @donitaw8610 3 года назад +14

    No "One husband, four sons, that's my legacy" just yet. 😂😂 The Tanksleys looking good up here 💞

  • @chocolatekdk
    @chocolatekdk 3 года назад +57

    That awkward moment when you're like "THREE BOYS???" and realize this is pre-slumlord

    • @Bkrunz
      @Bkrunz 3 года назад +3

      😂😂

    • @BAmazing92
      @BAmazing92 3 года назад +3

      I was about to say the same thing! Like what about Amar 😂

    • @jmeiahb2608
      @jmeiahb2608 3 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @vc9732
    @vc9732 3 года назад +9

    Aw look at Angel and Marcus pre-Amar 😍. Y’all so beautiful!

  • @aspirehigher6368
    @aspirehigher6368 3 года назад +15

    I keep social media on one device only (my tablet) to limit my usage time and to not get distracted when I intend to be doing something else. If I pick up a phone, I don't typically want to scroll. I might want to check the time, see if I have missed calls or texts from immediate family, write quick ideas down in my phone notes, google something, read the bible app, play some worship music... I also don't keep my work/school/social email accounts on my phone, only my personal, oldest email account.
    If I want to check my social media updates and am ready to potentially socialize with others via those platforms and inevitably get stuck scrolling for an hour seeing what else is going on with everyone after checking the notifications, then I know where to go for that (to the tablet, which I typically keep a few feet away).
    Edit: even on the tablet, I intermittently delete the Facebook and Instagram apps and only go on via typing the webpage into an internet browser. I learned to set these limits as an easily distracted major procrastinator.

  • @shannagates
    @shannagates 3 года назад +5

    The Ellises, you all definitely need to take your show on the road… we are in Las Vegas.. I think it’s definitely a good show for interracial couples and differences that are involved, with everyday life, from cooking chicken too much, to how kids s/b raised.

  • @onelove4132
    @onelove4132 3 года назад +8

    Ewww. Put the phones down. Social media is NOT real life. Them folks don't give af about you... They just want to know how you're living. Go for a walk in the morning or something.

  • @CookieConnossieur
    @CookieConnossieur 3 года назад +15

    I liiiiive for Angel and her signature red lipstick that she won’t tell me the color! And Tank is woke…..I just knew it was something about them

  • @sibongilethwala7080
    @sibongilethwala7080 3 года назад +1

    I love these talks so much. It's hard to hear sometimes and I don't want to miss anything.

  • @daniellelake7889
    @daniellelake7889 3 года назад +15

    Oh this is before Amar!

  • @esthera3883
    @esthera3883 3 года назад +24

    Awww was this pre-Amar? ❤️

    • @nonikaallen2030
      @nonikaallen2030 3 года назад +3

      Right?! I caught that too.

    • @rereAL205
      @rereAL205 3 года назад +6

      I came here to say this. I wonder why it is taking so long to release these since they were recorded so long ago.

    • @rereAL205
      @rereAL205 3 года назад +1

      @@jayc5756 her 4th son. He's almost 1 I believe

    • @Lodeenie
      @Lodeenie 3 года назад +2

      @@rereAL205 he's almost 2...he's growing up so fast...

    • @rereAL205
      @rereAL205 3 года назад +1

      @@Lodeenie thank you for the correction! Yes time is flying!!!

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 3 года назад +7

    Social media messed up lots of relationships and friendships

  • @shaystar5008
    @shaystar5008 2 года назад +1

    The first thing I do when I wake up is go to restroom, brush teeth, wash face, play music while I get dressed and talk to my partner

  • @lauren9571
    @lauren9571 3 года назад +1

    I really love that Nova Styles girl! Their relationship is goals for me. And she is so cute!!!

  • @vaniamickelle
    @vaniamickelle 3 года назад +5

    First of all this is before Amar 🤯🤯 No such thing

  • @himhersoundoff
    @himhersoundoff 3 года назад

    Love love love this!! 💕💕

  • @ringoyr
    @ringoyr 3 года назад +3

    Come on Heffa with the intro!!!

  • @temmietaft2552
    @temmietaft2552 3 года назад

    I really enjoyed watching this video thank you for sharing

  • @shannonluzchris
    @shannonluzchris 3 года назад +12

    Life without Amar man this is wild!

    • @Lodeenie
      @Lodeenie 3 года назад +1

      Right! Pre-slumlord...

  • @ronaprofit2859
    @ronaprofit2859 3 года назад

    I see you cuz. Represent Black Love.

  • @JamaicanemeraldQueen
    @JamaicanemeraldQueen 3 года назад +2

    📣Yeah TANK!! we all up in y'all life.
    Remember me Jaykrissy that cousin that will throw batteries for you in traffic. I got you Cuz!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @changetocome100
    @changetocome100 3 года назад +5

    When was this taped cuz Angel has 4 boys currently 🤔

  • @ThisDivasLife
    @ThisDivasLife 3 года назад +2

    This is super old . No Amar. Great video none the less.

  • @SunsFlowerCreations
    @SunsFlowerCreations 3 года назад

    Oh wait I didn't realize these were new episodes yasssssss

    • @Carline.J
      @Carline.J 3 года назад

      This is from 2019

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 3 года назад

      @@Carline.J so strange they take so long to post on the channel.

  • @fromkittytocat
    @fromkittytocat 3 года назад +3

    Ohhhh this was recorded a minute ago then AMAR Not here yet

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb 3 года назад

    I like these. 🤩

  • @charvetteisflyy
    @charvetteisflyy 3 года назад

    I love Angel and Marcus 🖤🖤

  • @saashamoniquew1
    @saashamoniquew1 3 года назад

    Love Angel!!

  • @longisland1965
    @longisland1965 3 года назад

    Love this 💕@iamnovastyles

  • @debrawilliams2781
    @debrawilliams2781 3 года назад +3

    If I am watching a vlog and they say I just woke up haven't washed my face or brush ed my teeth I DO NOT WATCH ANY OF THE VLOG BECAUSE THERE SHOULD BE A LIMIT TO WHAT IS SHARED!

  • @mariahdomyhair2401
    @mariahdomyhair2401 3 года назад

    What’s they RUclips

  • @dearfuturehubbypodcast
    @dearfuturehubbypodcast 2 года назад

    Great Question: Do You Say, “Good Morning” to your significant other or do you check your phone📱? 👀

  • @gladysweeks5098
    @gladysweeks5098 3 года назад

    Only if you allow it to. Like everything else in a relationship, priorities must be in order! Great conversations. Shout out to @iamnovastyles.