How to survive college as an introvert? | An introvert's guide to college | Curious Harish
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Congrats for 13k subscribers in after few time to 10k
Bro I completed my class 11 and entered class 12 this year I am not able to focus on objective till now what should I do now to get nit/iit
Hey I just filled the Google from for the What's App mentorship Group.... That's all..??
EEE VS ECE VS MECH branch comparisons video pls.....lost the count how many times I have commented to same thing😂
@@nixonpaul2156 bro, ask Ambuj, I'm trying to change my niche here
How many introverts are here?
I just like his content. I'm a super extrovert. You can still chill
LoL 😂
Fastest way to get comments/likes
I am introvert
😂😅
Introverts are often misjudged as selfish or a person with an attitude and that's the worst part of it. Because the truth is quite the opposite.
Bhai kitna shi baat bola .....
Correct man....
On point
Absolutely 👍
So true
Loneliness in college is real 🙂
Can u explain more?
💯
yes.. very true
@@mohammadimtiyazuddin2065 i mean as in, hard to make friends... And as well i feel people already have cliques so they don't want anyone new . I've seen it in my college people don't wanna be communicative with each other or just selfish so they just stick around with people they already know so it's hard. But then again it depends on gender as well ? I feel it's especially hard for girls to be friends with girls, boys are more open. It also depends on the place we live .
@@ally02worldsame observation i made in my first day
Making friends isn't hard but
Making friends that last beyond the 3 or 4 years of your college life...
Now that's hard
That's true
Who cares my Target is just not to dine alone is campus 🤣
@@nitkian24 What after then ?
I dont have friends in cllg and everyone keeps on irritation me by saying personal things that hurts me a lot 🤕
@@sdexstarlord I became a complete introvert since the college time but believe me, if you start expecting someone to talk to you and keep thinking about making friends its not gonna benefit you. Just be confident in asking something or the other if required and don't give a damn to the other one unless he or she requires help. Only then you'll get a true friend..
Found this video at the perfect time! I'm an introvert and haven't made new friends since 9th grade. The pandemic has made my social life worst. This video somehow gave me strength.
Same
Introverts want to socialize and make friends just like others but still something inside stops them from doing so.
Even something outside also. People already have made groups and it becomes difficult for a loner and introvert to make friends. Many people don't make friends outside their so called friend circle.
@@dentist1812 trueee
That's not introvert. That's socially anxious extrovert.
Hey! I'm about to start my college in a few months and I've heard a lot about the peer pressure there. They force u to drink, smoke and if u don't , they don't see u as a COOL person. How do u deal with it? Are all the people like that only?
Fake it till you make it
This vedio was less of a~"how to servive collage as an introvert" and more of~"dont be introvert, push yourself to be a extrovert"
Nobody:
literally nobody:
harish: gives a TEDX speech and calls himself and introvert.
jk love your videos bruh
lol, but giving public speeches doesn't mean you're an extrovert. I gave my first public speech in 9th grade, started stammering in the middle and the entire class giggled. Life's weird man!
@@curiousharish I never meant to offend you brother. You're a great guy.
I meant that guys like you are so modest that even after giving a TEDX you call yourselves introverts
@@sanjays298 Calling someone an introvert is not an offence. It's a human character
Bro i can give confident speeches too but my social skills r RIP xD...on the other side ik many extreme extroverts who cant say a word on stage.
Being an introvert doesn't mean you can't face a crowd... The fact that introverts don't socialize much is not because they're shy... It's because small talk is not always worth spending energy on..
The most irritating things about us introverts are we overthink are insecure 😂😭
Mee evertime
Yess 🤧
i used to stammer and i had a speaking assement in my college and the day before this somehow this video got recommended and the only thing i got to know from this is "being bold and upright is the key to everything" so thanks bhaiya for such an amazing guidance
Introverts be like....
You know that is impossible........!!!!
@@sequiinix kon college liye bhai?
I completely relate with you and even I am an introvert but I will definitely break this in college and I am trying to talk to more people to overcome it.
Did you overcome
Give share your experience ,tips and tricks how to overcome it
I tried but I failed it
"At a point you become immune to rejections" 👏👏👏
🔥❤️love your videos bud!
I see everyone around in university happy,talking with friends,laughing,having their best time ,most of them having girlfriends kissing ,going to clubs like God has given them all the happiness wheres me even struggling to make friends ,always worrying about how i look to others and not even talking to a single girl,I don't think i even exist,really makes me feel really low,i just left my hometown for higher studies and im in this situation right now
Start small dude. I’ve been there and there are many people in this position. It’s all about taking small leap of faiths
@@curiousharish yes bro but how come everyone looks so happy around me ,like i notice everyone they all have alteast one girl with them,i hope you understand me,i just took admission in a collage in Delhi and you its vibes and im from Bihar.
@@zayn4182 same prb with me 🥺 I want to go Home but I'm staying here for family .. I do cry daily bcoz I don't have any frnd in college
@@Kashmiikaa but you're a girl,girl usually don't face problems because man are always behind them in search of girlfriends,i can advice you honestly do some makeup and go in collage you'll automatically get many male friends and female friends depending on your choice
@@zayn4182 As a girl not every girl want to make boyfriend I just want female friend to share my everything because I don't have much friend in school
Bro in few weeks you'll grow exponentially, God bless you bro and thanks for providing such valuable content 🍻
All the nerds over here....,take notes.
on it
Bro i was an extrovert till my 12th but in my 13th( i dropped ) and i made my room my only friend and this made me an introvert😅😅😅 now i feel nervous to go out😟😟
I'm experiencing the same thing know
O my God..same here..and this covid just worsened the situation..🤦♀Abhi mujha college join karne main daar lagraha hain..What if I stay alone there..what if I can't make new friends?😅
@@sharmisthabiswas7468 Hey there. How're you doing now? I'm in the same situation as you
@@noahsilverado Waiting for jee results..uske baad dekhte hain clg..Abhi bhi ghar pe hi huu...What about you?
@@sharmisthabiswas7468 yo all the best. My college starts on October. Wish me luck 😞
3:15 That was the takeaway point..👍
Much Much needed because I'm going to college this year.
Thank you❤️
Keep bringing amazing content like this.
Much love to you☺️
Congrats Harish Uthaykumar
I'm watching your videos from when you had 2k subs and I'm very Happy to see you , you've completed 40k .
If the title was how to make a girlfriend you would've gotten more views😂
Well, he needs experience for that. Do you have it Harish 🤓??
Feeling lonely in crowd is very painful 😣😣
Same here bro in clg
Will try this formula in colleges.. best ever video on introverts..
Btw I m also an introvert
Don't confuse Introverts with social anxiety.
Correct
I am new subscriber here. And by each video you are gaining a whole lot respect and adding value in my life . Your each word sounds like you are talking and mentoring me personally. Thankyou very much keep making such awesome content. hope we meet someday.🤙🤟
02:07 i can totally understand it how it feels
Doing Great Bro!😎
Since last 2 months your content've drastically became what I just needed!
Perfect Videos For Learning New about things/challenges before Going to College😊..
My confidence increases just after watching this video❤️Thank you brother
I am always afraid to talk to new people
This video is really helpful! Thanks Harish for such great videos..
Man.. I joined my college last week.. And it's damnnn tough to get a friend.. 😖
same. So how's the situation now after 3 months?
@@aayush3782 same question
My friends all are hyper selfish 😏😏😏😏
The unfortunate thing is that even if I say Hii they are not interested
It's hard to survive when every one has friends to spend time
And we alone everyday
@MK2 Yes I can totally understand when you feel ignored
Bro if you are true introvert, you will have fun without friends at all.
Meeting 3 new people every single day that's a pro tip bro
I'm gonna try and use it
Gng to join college soon
I am feeling soo much confident after watching this ..thank you 💓🙏
There's no way tht u r an introvert...u have given a TedX presentation bruh 😂
TEDx not teded
@@nathanmanju5232 lol thanks
Being a public speaker doesn't mean you're social
@@curiousharish I was trying to convey the fact that u r quiet expressive so yeahh kinda difficult for me to believe that u r an introvert
Then ur probably an Ambivert!!! Google it :)
Quality of friends matter not the quantity
Heyy... Thank you so much for this...!!!
Very helpful for college social life....!! 😇
How introverted am I : mere 12 saal purane padosis doesn't know I exist
Bhai ab COLLEGE open Jo Jaya ush sa phele FREELANCING ka plz kuch chalu Kara do
Much needed😂✨
Hey brother I like your English speaking skills can you suggest me to improve my English speaking skills 😊
Ya please bro tell something to improve English speaking skills
@@dhananjaysinghiit-indore2897 I also have same que to bhaiya... But ya you can practice speaking in front of mirror and starts reading English novels or books or you can watch English movies👍
Look guys , practice is the key .all you need to do is keep speaking to everyone in english -your family members, friends every possible person . This will improve your conversation skills in English overtime
@@abhinavverma7697 bro I am from boys school so I don't feel normal with girls and other elder persons.so it is my main problem
Yes bro
My crush to me : 7:08 😂
me : 7:10
Lol XD
@2:09 you were about to say still I noticed that 😂 btw love your videos
I really liked this video, i eventually subbed your channel while i was in the middle of the video. This video really gave me courage a lot. Thank you for making such content.
Hey ! I am new to your channel still I love your communication skills !!
I like your personality man.
its my 4th day at my college,,,,,i didnt make any friends,even im shy to try talk to girls.
Helpful video 🙂,Thank you 👍🙂
We all are ambiverts, like the one who came in middle between intro and extrovert... there are many few who are introvert too.
Your net worth is your net work.
Just amazing.
I don’t really feel much hesitation when I need to really talk to girls for some reason. But talking to random girls every day for no reason, I find it weird (they'll start ignoring you cause you are so interested on them , it feels really bad), do you think I'm introverted?
I am thinking of leaving IITs CSE even after I convert old IIT. Got 99.7 in Jan. Want to do something in Finance. IPM PROGRAMME, IIM INDORE. NEVER want to do a job and am already self employed and will continue. Your remarks and feedback please
Too many smart people going into finance. We need engineers and scientists.
It is not about doing a job,if u get into a tier 1 college,the exposure can lead to you building a startup.And pls don't go for ipm course iim indore,my friend went there last year.It is merely a waste aof time,they will teach you something which you can do by yourself,sitting at home.You can apply for mba later on abroad,as the business and finance things what they're going to tell you is way beyond that in India.
@@adarshgoel1191 I feel the it's the other way round. Too many engineers are going just for that tag and placements. Majority Ka purpose is a fat paying job. So I made it simple, I am learning to learn to earn money. Simple and direct. Why complicate? And I know, I will be able to give back much more by this is various forms, not just money. Jo pehle Sahi tha, voh tha, I am not walking the conventional path.
@@ridj41 so just for waiting to find the opportunity to start up, I shall go there for 4 years, and wait. I can't. Have you even seen the curriculum of IPM. The thing is, this is simple logic. Where there is a bigger crowd, smart people are more than where there is smaller. You have to prioritize for yourself and see what is of more value/worth to you.
@@SiddharthSiddTyagi Bro,in today's world no one wants to do a job.You can go to top 3 IITS or IIIT HYD OR BITS PILANI.Here the opportunities are wide not just for coding but as a lot of alumni and mentors come here,you will get way more knowledge regarding momey than in the IPM course.To be honest if you are planning to learn to earn money then IPM course isn't the way.Bachelors don't even matter,you should probably join a decent college form a lot of contacts then probably go for executive mba(1 year) in some foreign institutions.They are the top ones because they do give something like that.Even I am planning to join BITS pilani this year and then apply to INSEAD,FRANCE for mba.Just like you even I want to learm how to not just earn but grow my money.Even I got 99.5 percentile in Jan mains.I agree with you that most people want a fat paying job.But let's be practical if you are going to iim indore for just that fact,those things are easily on the internet and that too way more advanced ways to earn money.And if the people around you are smart then it would also grow and open your mind.See,Kalpit veerwal or harish himself they went to college but they had to earn money not a job so they did start up their own things and paved their own ways.And the biggest example is AMAN DHATTARWAL.And ya I agree with you even I am not interested in going to IITs,or NITs bcz the people their are bcz of tag and aren't smart enough and this is why I want to go to either BITS pilani or IIIT hyd.
I am an introvert but as much as i have seen that rock music helps while conversations
I ws also in mahesh tutorials most well spend two years of my life 9th and 10th standard 🙂
Damn this guy...his videos are too good.
I wanted to talk but they doesn't seem my type
Thanks a lot for making this video. I would like disagree your view of lesser people being extrovert. Because almost all of the people it meet is extrovert and that tears me apart. I want to be like them. Hope I will be able to apply this into reality.
Love to hear ur experiences seeing u gives confidence that someday maybe I ll also be confident enough👍👍love ur videos
Your Initial story is so relateable, surely gonna help me in future!! thankya bro.
This video deserves a million likes 👍
thanks for the video really appriciate iit
Thanks a lot bro. U helped me ✌🏻✌🏻.
Hlo bro now I am in 12th by next year u will be helping me a lot I will watch all of u r videos again
Everything would be use full
these RUclips recommendations are getting personal
Where can we join clubs ? If we don't have any in our college
Bro if i compare me with you
You and me are nearly 50-70% similar
Not with your life
I am talking about face and looks
Bhaiya in your video you talked about to create good network. So, can you suggest me that how can I make a good network ??
LinkedIn
@@curiousharish ohh thanks bro ♥️
Hey do we need skills to get into a particular club or we can join just on basis of interest??????
They select
Your speaking skill is amazing....
i actually preety much have same experiences now in my college , but with the help of your tips i think i am going to approch some classmates to talk... thanks bro
Amazing
Wait, you are wearing the same tshirt for all videos😁
Shot on the same day :)
Curious Harish Yes, we totally believe you.
thank you Harish, I am also a fellow bitsian , waiting for lockdown to end so I can apply these tips
Can you pass make a video on how to find your passion???
BTW love to listen your talk
But what to do when there are only 30 people in college 😅 how to approach new people in this situation ,as I am also introvert and shy and hardly talk to anyone
Hey from where did you learn SEO
I mean I never see your video but still in my home page your video is recommending ??
Please let me know I want to grow my channel
You gave a TEDx speech right?
I don't think introverts like to appear in public 🙄.. Well i guess nature of introvertness differs from person to person. Anyway......am a guy who really hates appearing before public😐
No , I would rather get mentored by an iitian or nitian . My father is not affluent and hence cannot afford rich luxurious bits lifestyle.
Introverts - we are god of our worlds.....
I'm such an introvert that I whatsapp'd u and deleted the msg twice..😌well maybe it was months ago
Hey, don't worry. You can always mail me at harish@clinify.in
@@curiousharish ok thanks 😊
you're doing amazing work:)))
ye man......am a member of curious army dw!! :)
Quite relatable!
I think it's better to be a introvert than being sad
Bro I cant control any longer. I want to make friends in college and to have a big circle, I wanted to be famous.But do to an argument with a girl in my college. I lost my respect in college and due to that hardly anyone talks to me.What to do?Someone please tell me.
Never too late bro. Everyone will forget as you grow as a person. Start from a fresh start :)
@@curiousharish But bro I want to be famous and to earn my respect back,I have even started studying so as to get good marks in CIA so as to get my respect back infront of my classmates (as in girls).
How was your daily life routine in 9 and 10 class
I'm seriously your replica bro. I've gone through similar times
Loved your content. Keep it up!
Brother till now u had made many videos regarding plus points of joining bits but I want to know if there are any disadvantages in bits(I am not sure (
on my playlist 😅
Liked and Subscribed
Soon I'll be back here with tremendous confidence in me
Watching this now after getting ignored
what will happen to ur channel if you get a job or start your own company
Today I found your this video and now I'm trying to watch your all videos.
im a very hardcore introvert....
Problem with me i am extra extrovert😂
Recently discovered your channnel...and i am loving your content👏👏👏👏🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘
I scored 97 in 10 th but i was too chill 👍👍
U are amazing bro!!