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I'm just feeling alone but after watching your eye-opening video, I have called my school friends and they are very genuinely happy after my call. Thanks sir
I am 26, average guy and this video is totally relatable to me, all those points he mentioned. I have friends but no one with whom I can talk khulkar.. n ye Lockdown me toh aur ganda wala lonely feel deta hai 😌 Cheers to all people like me :)
Finding a true friend is finding needle in a haystack, and being a true friend is like being most genuine to the other person whom u wanna be friends with.
Lonliness is the hardest thing in life.. everyone needs a person a good friend for relaxation after a tough day...and sometimes it's very difficult to find that kind of friend.
People who are looking for validations from others make lots of friends. In reality if you have 2-3 people whom you get them around you when you need them.... you are lucky enough.
I am 33 and half years old, I have already went through such feelings that I need someone in my life, my relationships failed miserably. So I came to conclusion, being alone is best thing. I did cut off fake friends on big scale in last 3 years, I do just my stuffs on weekends as well. I feel so normal being alone, didn't date or tried to date anyone in last three years, practicing abstinence. Life me genuine chise chahiye, nai to nai chahiye, single rehne me bhi apne alag fayede hain.
I am also a girl of same age and completely agree with you....👍👍👍👍 You know what girls feel much more lonelier than boys because for girls all their friends get married we lose touch with our friends... Even initiation doesn't work because our married friends become so busy with their babies and post pregnancy complications that they don't even have time to text or call... After a certain age we can't make male friends because they too have spouses who won't accept hanging out with us..... So life becomes very lonely....on that in late twenties and early thirties society chase single girls asking why aren't you married?? So girls become more reclusive.... Reality is very different....
@@itshunter3510 man...stop simping on online girls....get a life and try your luck with people face to face. Online I'd say is just a fake world at the end....so even if you're succesful don't be surprised if you get betrayed(Givin' you advice as a big brother). So don't waste your time here online that's what advice I'd give.
Koun koun ghut ghut kr ji rhi ho jindgi ka pura sukh pura payar nahi mila andr se akeli ho life boring lgti rat me jb nid aa rhi hoti h pero me drd bechni hoti h Akelapan lgta h par aapko kisi par visvss nahi h esliye kisi ko kuch btate nahi ho ya es gandi duniya se drti ho mere chenl par mera what's app number h what's app me aao agr aap ko ek sacha visvas vala dost chahiye ghut ghut kr jina nahi chahti ho to Me panjabhi hun do roti khata hun to do bate bhi pcha leta hun mtlb meri vjh se aapko jindgi bhr koi problam nahi hogi vada rha what's app me aao
Everytime i watch shwetabh's videos like this one , im like kaash ye maine 18 years ki age main dekhi hoti , but koi nahi amazing and intellectual session 💪💪
@@belogical5450 sahi hia bhaii salaa direct baat kartaa hia no bullshit like others specailly sandeep mere bhe dhekette rehte hia sandeep maheswari ko khe rahe the ki kyaa bate kartaa hia amne kaha mann mein abhi ek shwetabh ke video bheujungaa to galli degee sandeeep ko but bhaii aonaa sedhaa landoos chutiya adrchood bol detaa hia isliye i am bit scared to tell my sister
@@belogical5450 haa yaar but salaa himat se nhi hote qoke bhai galli detaa hai galli hamare londe ko liye mast hai but bheno ko suggestion dungaa to pakaa yahe bolege ki sandeep maheswari tek ta galli to nhi detaa thaa naa 😂😂😂 mee too bro book is insane
Honestly speaking one friend who is with you for your whole life is more then enough . U don't need 5 or 10 friends just 1 best friend is equal to 100 .
Anti social , introversion, and social anxiety ,all three are exclusive. Most of the times, people interchange these words. I am an introvert and a proud one! Social anxiety is- you want friends but lack skills Introversion is- you choose not to have a social life and are happy with the choice. Also, introverts can be great conversationalists
Obviuosly actually introverts are the people who speak less but after all he/she get more early known about fake friendships and these all illusinary social media and on the other side the people who belong to the category whose happiness is feeded by any kind of above mentioned fake and imaginary world the get short time happiness but ultimately end up in being lonely actually(as its the truth) they don't actually accept that and as a result these are the one's always dealing with depression and anxiety.......
@@__vaidic__purush_ definitely..am too an introvert nd truly a proud one, Introversion is completely one's own choice whether one choose to socialise Or not, nd I think that none should categorise them as "Anti social", that's completely a wrong and false impression.
@@sg_1541 true. People are being shamed these days for being an introvert. And being forced to make friends and have a social life. I have about 3 close friends, and I am satisfied in life. I don't feel the need to talk to people and attend gatherings. I prefer having deep meaningful conversations with a few people rather than all the noise in a crowd. Also I am happy in my own space, with my books, writing, work, exercise, and taking care of animals. ( Another stereotype that introverts hate people and that is why they are closer to animals which is bull). Introverts usually connect with nature and animals at a different level. Introversion can actually be a great quality. Great ideas are born out of introverts. History has been a witness to this fact. Introspection, self reflection and deep thinking about the various aspects of life are somehow of my favourite routines. It just feels natural and organic. The problem starts when people have social anxiety or want to have a social life but cannot do so because of low self esteem or low confidence. That is a different issue altogether which needs to be addressed. But introverts should not be stereotyped anymore. And should not be forced to change their way of life just for the sake of so called society.
He's always been focusing on social aspects of life per se. If you check out his English channel you'll find loads of videos which have tackled issues similar to this video
An extrovert knows how to talk, whom to talk, how to start a conversation, how to keep up the conversation,how not to be boring which I lack as an introvert and I don't know why I just don't like to talk with much people...
u guys can learn that skill just talk to random persons whenever u get a chance,for me i can init a convo and from other people's perspective im very energetic jolly etc but i personally feel its very tiresome so i dont like talking much
@@manjushamallipeddu5814 yes I have been called as a person who is boring and doesn't know how to have fun a lot... On top of being an introvert, I am also a reader. I love reading books. 📚 I feel that in this way I can educate myself more and thus it will help me grow. Reading books isn't something which some people like as as per them it's boring..... Again I have accepted myself the way I am. Maybe that's the reason why I have no friends...
Good video Summary : Start initiative for hang out with people who are familiar to you and practice it then gradually create bigger circle .And don't trying to impress everyone just talk to whom you are interested.
I m very happy and excited that this channel is going to be 1 million subscriber family.he deserves billions of subscribers.respect and love to my brother shwetabh
Please stop saying binod Binod cuz shwetabh sir isn't roasting anyone here where u are commenting such a words, do it in the funny channels not here, this is a coherent channel.
Talking about initiative: It is due to Shwetabh's initiative that he started a youtube channel and his initiative in creating a community of men (and women) who are willing to change themselves for the better. Without his initiative, all of this wouldn't have been possible.
@Humayun Arif haan yaar. Maine plane crash ke bare me utna jankari nahi. Parr zarur parlunga koi article me. Aur me hope karta hu ki aap bhi life me successful bane.
Thanks for this wonderful video. Loneliness gives us an opportunity for self-reflection, which further leads to self-development and growth. Instead of trying hard to make friends, use this opportunity to improve your skills and create value for the world. The love will automatically come to you. 🙏🏼
@@thinkingfast6648 I feel difficulty in telling my necessities to parents and other elders , I don't like to post status , photos , music videos status , shayari ,...on my whatsapp (which I only use) , I don't like to share my movies , music with others , I don't go into deep talks with a crowd or someone about my life , I have my feelings suppressed and hardly express them like others ,.... and many more things which indicate I have "introvertness"
@@mohitsrivastava5119 these are not wrong things & don't change them bcoz someone says you're antisocial or boring. I too have these similar things & I don't give a shit to anyone.
*_You are one of the most practice person I know. I tried months before to track my time after watching a video, but I was not so succeeded, but your alarm technique, thanks for that. & haan.. jo aap bolte ho na "kaam kar kaam karta reh" that is something feeded in my subconscious, I don't have to think about._* 👍🙏
One of the reason is that messaging is not natural, you don't get to see their expressions and talk them normally. In texts you can never know what their emotion was behind the words. Hence next time when you wanna talk to someone try doing it in person rather than over a messaging app. :)
In most cases these days, people don't take initiations coz of ego and Attitude... They just want to show " I don't care " attitude.... That's why they don't initiate
"Your belief that being single or not getting married for the rest of your life is a cool thing is just because the other aspects of your life haven't met their conclusion!"- great & deep statement by shwetabh sir.
But it’s difficult to find a good partner. It’s better to not marry rather than marry a wrong pne and make life 10 times more miserable.I’ve known people who are single out of compulsion not choice. In such cases these people have to pacify themselves with such thoughts.
Well, you made me realize that I am not that much of an introvert, I am just lazy and I am just not willing to put the work. I will surely break this barrier and take initiative. Thanks, bro
When i was around 16 17 .i used to think .why i am so frank and crazy with my friends and so silent with relatives and family...i just wish true and kind people so i have small friend circle .☺☺par mujhe pacharpachar karna pasand nai..
Ek cheez mujhe samjah nahi aati jo log extrovert hote h wo mostly pachar pachar karte rehte h and they dont give a valid point ever.. All they know is to speak properly. They have perfect speaking skills but zero thinking skills.. Atleast with those extroverts in my school
Bro we aren't birds but humans. I too had an attitude of meeting with only successful or like minded people but then I realized I must stop finding perfection in people and that everyone is unique. The last thing... That if you have one or two best friend even if it takes a lot of uears to find then no need to find more friends.
Not having friends doesn't mean you are serious, you might have some mental disorder, you are addicted to porn or something, you have poor communication skills, yoi are antisocial.
Bro from some days I am feeling like in life there is nothing greater than intellectual growth and giving back, it just comes to me from within no external influences.
This topic is one of the most important topic of current time . Because my some friends suffered through this everyone should have friends cause there are my introvert friends who are stucked in their life but they don't have anyone to share their problems. So have some friends to chill or share with . 💯
I don't have any friends no one really cares, i feel lonely in this world. No one talks to me, i don't tell people because i don't want to force my friendship on anything.
Muje bhi friend nahi ye ab muje friends chahiye pahile 12 th me bahut friends the ab tho koy nahi he than bahut the me unko handle bi karna nahi atha ab Sam ja sabko handil kesa kare and me ab degree 2 nd year 18 years ka hu muje mere class me friends he but ho sab ache nahihe me unko friends nahi manta actually ho mere friends hi nahi ye kyuki vo mujse bat nahi karthe overattitude fellow mo acha nahi but attitude tho bc bohot he utni attitude Kam nahi karthi actually ho selfish he always think about them self that's y present i have 0 friends can we be friends
I had a friend who was in trauma just because of a fuckin breakup. And was depressed just bcs of cutting himself to others ...shwetabh here has pointed out such a picular thing "to start a convo" lack on initiation...that's very true and applicable for most of people. It's an humble request never forget this bcs a depressed mind could get a perspective by just a stranger or acquittance.
Your Friends are just people , whose company you enjoy. And more importantly, you tend to see the world similarly. And this is a key component of Friendship.
Thank you, in this isolation period, constantly being on social media I came across a lot many questions and they were hitting me hard. This video helped in clearing my doubts.
Socializing is important, but what is more important is: do you like these people? Are they your friends? Can you count on them? Do they sit with you patiently when you have things to share? Do you know your secrets are safe with them and theirs with you? Or are they simply faces you know the names of but don't have any connection or liking toward them? Are you humans who pass time together because you are afraid of being alone with yourself? Do you even know them enough to rely on them for anything important or urgent? Friendship is a good 30-40% life's battle won. A major source of positive physical and mental health. I would say, use socializing to look for friends you can keep, not faces to fill the space around you.
Just one person is sufficient. But when the previous one leaves you suddenly and stops that energy which was the fundamental of our relationship it hurts soooo bad man. I had a besty and I never thought that we will stop our mutual talking. And he no longer belong to my old memory.
Thank you for your awesome book I read it now only two chapters and it changed my mind .guyz believe when you read chapter two...you know ownself. Thank you bhaiya for giving experience through book.
I am a girl and I am a loner....not lonely, otherwise I am highly expressive but basically I am loner, my productivity creativity increases when I am in solitude.
@@xprozz9587 no one can be anyone's best friend. People have different friends who discuss diff topics. Don't filter people (friends) in ur life. Each and everyone is important and teaches u a lesson. (Unless some r toxic or trying to harm ur mental state)
Once I had no friends in my life then Shwetabh came And now I don't give a shit about that 😁😆. Shwetabh is magic lifechanger. Can't express my love for him. 💗💗💗💗
Its a myth that introverts are not likeable. Iam an introvert but the most likeable person in my group.I impress with my resourcefulness and politeness.
Idk how lockdown changed me. I was an extrovert,willing to go out and have lots of fun only.. interactive with everyone Now ,it's a month l didn't get out of the house.. I mean not depressed or tensed,but like l really don't want to interact with neighbours, friends,not wanted to be noticed or known etc...😅
This is the normal thing cause lot of people going through same thing . When everything will be normal you will be the same extrovert again or you should try to contact with Friends.
In friends quality is important not quantity yesterday 22nd September was my birthday and only 3 friends called and wished me and I am happy with only 3 good friends, last year I had 15 to 20 friends but they all were toxic and used to talk with me only when they need help like borrowing money,etc.
Thanks a lot bhai. Actually mai bhi khud ko intovert maan ne laga tha 3- 4 videos dekh kar. But as u said I have started to think on this. And i think I will find a way out. Thanks again.
You r very near to 1million subscribers. Congrats in advance. You are very helpful man to tell how to grow in life. Thanks a lot and btw I have purchased your book and it's awesome...
perfect life for me : 1) having 💸 💰 like 20k per month 2) having someone whom i can talk maybe my pet 3) having fast internet with upgraded gadgets for playing online games. 4) my life == heaven but i trying to solve first problem but i failed drastically .😩
Bro no offense but 20k is not that much. You should definitely try to aim for more. From what I know that like the starting salery for interns for many jobs. It might sound like a lot but believe me if you want to live independently and comfortably and take care of your parents and all that you need a higher salery.
Being an introvert I love spending time alone and could spend days without interacting with anyone. I have few good friends with whome I could spend some time outside. Problem is,I'm very reserved and rarely initiate I haven't made any new friend in years and do feel need to expand my social circle.
I don't have a single friend even I tried to make but no-one was interested in me so I gave up and Now I don't like making friends and enjoying my created imaginary world ♥️
👍👍👍The point is we have to take initiative and Just say if you are free let's hangout so just take initiative and don't think it's not going to happen... 👍👍👍
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Yo bro
Thank Youuuuu 🤟🏻 you are so good Sir
Sir please🙏 how to ask solutions for my problems please🙏🙏🙏
SORRY MAI APNE AAP KO CONTROL NHI KARR PAYA YEH BOLNE SE
*BINOD*
So basically, you think you're an extrovert and want to change people's demeanor and advice introverts to make good friends?
I'm just feeling alone but after watching your eye-opening video, I have called my school friends and they are very genuinely happy after my call. Thanks sir
Ab me bhi karunga apne school friend ko call aaj 8 year ho gaye h un sb se baat nhi hue😭
I don't have any contacts to them
Didn't find them on fb
What i do now 😬😬
@@Dr.lost586 Same problem.😬
@@ajaymg1076 oh sorry to hear this
Haha mere school keep dost mujhe contact karne ki koshish par bc samajh nahi arha ki call uthane ke baad bolunga kya
"Rejection is better than Regret"
Sahi hai..
👋👋👍👍
I'm 14 and this is deep
Sahi kha
@@Om-id1qr same…..Rejected too btw😂
True friendship doesn't exist, bonding is made with the closest person you live and interact with.
well said my man
True
Find Binod. Binod is a true friend
@@miliaurora1038 Binod
Soo true yarr😥
I have no friends.i had my birthday yesterday and no body wished me...that's gud
No one wished me on my birthday as well😅
Happy belated birthday btw
Hii happy birthday
Sorry for being late.
Post happy birthday dayanan kr 🖐
@Anime World It was about 2 weeks ago but thanks a lot.
It really means a lot.
😊
@@kayvour8862 happy bday bro mera bhi koi dost nahi hai bt akele mast raheta hun
Reading the comments here just helps me to know that I am not alone going through this.
Listen to Eminem
Listen to @bbno$
Yes i am sufferings with loneliness
Haan bhai👍
Anybody want to be friends with me, we'll meet if possible 😀😀😀😀. Been a loner for a long now dont want to
I am 26, average guy and this video is totally relatable to me, all those points he mentioned.
I have friends but no one with whom I can talk khulkar.. n ye Lockdown me toh aur ganda wala lonely feel deta hai 😌
Cheers to all people like me :)
Hey
@@petecarroll8440 🙌🏼
Sem with me
Introverts silently standing:
Puri duniya: So rudee...
😂😂
Me too experienced this.
Right 😔
maine bi yeh experience kiya hai ..log boltai hai yeh apnai ap ko smjta kya hai ?? and i was like 🙄
🙃🙃🙃
Are Wah meri zindagi sabdo mai 🙂🥲
I have money, I work hard. All I get is Gold diggers and Vultures around me. No genuine people. No genuine Love.
@Nirman Pradhan Binod
@Nirman Pradhan yes a true gentleman, BINOD is being idolized by millions of people 😂😂
🙁
@@mileovereducation7085 don't worry man , follow Shwetabh's advice, take the initiative 💪
@@mileovereducation7085 Find Binod in small towns....These disgusting stuffs only happen in Metros.... We make true friends in other parts of country.
Finding a true friend is finding needle in a haystack, and being a true friend is like being most genuine to the other person whom u wanna be friends with.
True
Ya
Binod
Bhaisahab ekdam BINOD
We don't have to find best friends....
Its not thing
Though I have always been an introvert and valued solitude, isolation does tend to impact cognitive skills after a point. I need to strike a balance.
BINOD
That's a very good initiative as we require a balance in our lives..I hope you find yourself happy, balanced and safe...let's spread positivity 🤗🤗
Lonliness is the hardest thing in life.. everyone needs a person a good friend for relaxation after a tough day...and sometimes it's very difficult to find that kind of friend.
Go for long distance runnin early morning u will get many answer
Exactly ....i don't have anyone my closed...i never deel attached with anyone in my entire life
and i have zero that friend.
@@anand5168 are u sure bro .
@@bbkivinesbigfan3472 yes
I have two friends - My family (Parents) and Brother
Kya topic banaya hai shwetabh, just waiting for something like this to come, thanks for sharing this
Who else here haven't spoken to their best friend from school/college since years.
@Cig Bhungus 🤣🤣
@Cig Bhungus 🤣🤣🤣🔥
I don't even have friends, but I do have Binod 😁
Binod
@@helloworld2054 same 😂
This man is damn practical, his thoughts are more of practical based which a common man can relate to in his life ! Thank you 🙏
People who are looking for validations from others make lots of friends.
In reality if you have 2-3 people whom you get them around you when you need them.... you are lucky enough.
I am 33 and half years old, I have already went through such feelings that I need someone in my life, my relationships failed miserably. So I came to conclusion, being alone is best thing. I did cut off fake friends on big scale in last 3 years, I do just my stuffs on weekends as well. I feel so normal being alone, didn't date or tried to date anyone in last three years, practicing abstinence. Life me genuine chise chahiye, nai to nai chahiye, single rehne me bhi apne alag fayede hain.
I am also a girl of same age and completely agree with you....👍👍👍👍
You know what girls feel much more lonelier than boys because for girls all their friends get married we lose touch with our friends...
Even initiation doesn't work because our married friends become so busy with their babies and post pregnancy complications that they don't even have time to text or call...
After a certain age we can't make male friends because they too have spouses who won't accept hanging out with us.....
So life becomes very lonely....on that in late twenties and early thirties society chase single girls asking why aren't you married??
So girls become more reclusive.... Reality is very different....
@@meera1860 Hi meera!! Are u married?
@@itshunter3510 man...stop simping on online girls....get a life and try your luck with people face to face. Online I'd say is just a fake world at the end....so even if you're succesful don't be surprised if you get betrayed(Givin' you advice as a big brother). So don't waste your time here online that's what advice I'd give.
Koun koun ghut ghut kr ji rhi ho jindgi ka pura sukh pura payar nahi mila andr se akeli ho life boring lgti rat me jb nid aa rhi hoti h pero me drd bechni hoti h
Akelapan lgta h par aapko kisi par visvss nahi h esliye kisi ko kuch btate nahi ho ya es gandi duniya se drti ho mere chenl par mera what's app number h what's app me aao agr aap ko ek sacha visvas vala dost chahiye ghut ghut kr jina nahi chahti ho to
Me panjabhi hun do roti khata hun to do bate bhi pcha leta hun mtlb meri vjh se aapko jindgi bhr koi problam nahi hogi vada rha what's app me aao
Everytime i watch shwetabh's videos like this one , im like kaash ye maine 18 years ki age main dekhi hoti , but koi nahi amazing and intellectual session 💪💪
Ab kitne saal ke ho
Try to be Binod
main 18 ka hoon maine dekh le time pe
@@belogical5450 sahi hia bhaii salaa direct baat kartaa hia no bullshit like others specailly sandeep mere bhe dhekette rehte hia sandeep maheswari ko khe rahe the ki kyaa bate kartaa hia amne kaha mann mein abhi ek shwetabh ke video bheujungaa to galli degee sandeeep ko but bhaii aonaa sedhaa landoos chutiya adrchood bol detaa hia isliye i am bit scared to tell my sister
@@belogical5450 haa yaar but salaa himat se nhi hote qoke bhai galli detaa hai galli hamare londe ko liye mast hai but bheno ko suggestion dungaa to pakaa yahe bolege ki sandeep maheswari tek ta galli to nhi detaa thaa naa 😂😂😂
mee too bro book is insane
Honestly speaking one friend who is with you for your whole life is more then enough . U don't need 5 or 10 friends just 1 best friend is equal to 100 .
what if you have zero friends
All you need is binod
@@enigma727 same
@@ayanverma5746 Wtf with Binod?
@@goner007 its a Random Trend
Anti social , introversion, and social anxiety ,all three are exclusive. Most of the times, people interchange these words. I am an introvert and a proud one!
Social anxiety is- you want friends but lack skills
Introversion is- you choose not to have a social life and are happy with the choice.
Also, introverts can be great conversationalists
Dil ki baat keh di Bhai! 🤟
Obviuosly actually introverts are the people who speak less but after all he/she get more early known about fake friendships and these all illusinary social media and on the other side the people who belong to the category whose happiness is feeded by any kind of above mentioned fake and imaginary world the get short time happiness but ultimately end up in being lonely actually(as its the truth) they don't actually accept that and as a result these are the one's always dealing with depression and anxiety.......
@@__vaidic__purush_ definitely..am too an introvert nd truly a proud one, Introversion is completely one's own choice whether one choose to socialise Or not, nd I think that none should categorise them as "Anti social", that's completely a wrong and false impression.
Facts 💯💯💯🤧🤧🤧I'm a introvert and I hate when people call me anti social. I speak where I feel necessary.
@@sg_1541 true. People are being shamed these days for being an introvert. And being forced to make friends and have a social life. I have about 3 close friends, and I am satisfied in life. I don't feel the need to talk to people and attend gatherings. I prefer having deep meaningful conversations with a few people rather than all the noise in a crowd. Also I am happy in my own space, with my books, writing, work, exercise, and taking care of animals. ( Another stereotype that introverts hate people and that is why they are closer to animals which is bull). Introverts usually connect with nature and animals at a different level. Introversion can actually be a great quality. Great ideas are born out of introverts. History has been a witness to this fact. Introspection, self reflection and deep thinking about the various aspects of life are somehow of my favourite routines. It just feels natural and organic. The problem starts when people have social anxiety or want to have a social life but cannot do so because of low self esteem or low confidence. That is a different issue altogether which needs to be addressed. But introverts should not be stereotyped anymore. And should not be forced to change their way of life just for the sake of so called society.
I love how Shwetabh bro is focusing on social aspects of life as well now.
Bro nehi sir bol
@@aladinmofo9555 it's upto us how we are gonna treat him
For me he is like my elder brother
He's always been focusing on social aspects of life per se. If you check out his English channel you'll find loads of videos which have tackled issues similar to this video
@@aadhithiyahsridar7312 This channel
Binod
Nobody knows how to deal with loneliness more than introverts.
Introverts too have a limit above which they start to feel lonely.
For introverts loneliness isn't a punishment
@@swatisaini6447 i think u r also n introvert 😀
@@vikashraj4444 I am in introvert and i like more when i am lonely.
@@swatisaini6447 Not every single time.
"Binod" kumar was name of my maths teacher when i was in class 8
Best teacher i ever got probably
Binod
An extrovert knows how to talk, whom to talk, how to start a conversation, how to keep up the conversation,how not to be boring which I lack as an introvert and I don't know why I just don't like to talk with much people...
Same situation. I too am an introvert. I totally get you.
Plus I hate it when people ask us to be like extroverts as well.
u guys can learn that skill just talk to random persons whenever u get a chance,for me i can init a convo and from other people's perspective im very energetic jolly etc but i personally feel its very tiresome so i dont like talking much
Also that we are always told to be mingle more..and we are often labelled as "boring"..
@@manjushamallipeddu5814 yes I have been called as a person who is boring and doesn't know how to have fun a lot... On top of being an introvert, I am also a reader. I love reading books. 📚 I feel that in this way I can educate myself more and thus it will help me grow. Reading books isn't something which some people like as as per them it's boring..... Again I have accepted myself the way I am. Maybe that's the reason why I have no friends...
That is really very Helpful..I'll take actions regarding the Declarations in my mind...😇Thank you ♥️
Binod
@@_AkashKumar haan tera baap binod
@@unfilteredpodcast101 kaha se laate ho itna nafrat bhai?
@@_AkashKumar binod binod
Good video
Summary : Start initiative for hang out with people who are familiar to you and practice it then gradually create bigger circle .And don't trying to impress everyone just talk to whom you are interested.
Kisi knowledge se bhari hui channel pe 1M dekhke bahot hi achhi wali feelings aati hai 😊😊😊😊😊😊 #1MSoon
I m very happy and excited that this channel is going to be 1 million subscriber family.he deserves billions of subscribers.respect and love to my brother shwetabh
True friendship does not need daily conversation ..
But I am totally agree with swetabh sir ..
Please stop saying binod Binod cuz shwetabh sir isn't roasting anyone here where u are commenting such a words, do it in the funny channels not here, this is a coherent channel.
Binod
Binod
Binod
@ROHIT TALKS right they are
Binod
Mensutra Bro We have You when we feel alone... Thanks for everything...
💯 🙏🔥🤘👍
Talking about initiative:
It is due to Shwetabh's initiative that he started a youtube channel and his initiative in creating a community of men (and women) who are willing to change themselves for the better.
Without his initiative, all of this wouldn't have been possible.
My name too pranay 🤓✨
😂
@Humayun Arif haan yaar. Maine plane crash ke bare me utna jankari nahi. Parr zarur parlunga koi article me.
Aur me hope karta hu ki aap bhi life me successful bane.
@@bruh4196 bhai tu bihari hoga shayad. Mai toh nepali hu.
@@pranaypradhan3417 m Punjabi 😋💜💜💜
I remember how i used to make friends so easily...
Then i realised most of the people i like don't care about i exist or not
The only guy more sensible than binod is shwetabh sir
No binod is vest
Binod
Thanks for this wonderful video. Loneliness gives us an opportunity for self-reflection, which further leads to self-development and growth. Instead of trying hard to make friends, use this opportunity to improve your skills and create value for the world. The love will automatically come to you. 🙏🏼
Well said 👌
Well most relevant video made by him to me as being an introvert and lonely because of situations
Same here bro
Why do u think u r introvert ?
@@thinkingfast6648 I feel difficulty in telling my necessities to parents and other elders , I don't like to post status , photos , music videos status , shayari ,...on my whatsapp (which I only use) , I don't like to share my movies , music with others , I don't go into deep talks with a crowd or someone about my life , I have my feelings suppressed and hardly express them like others ,.... and many more things which indicate I have "introvertness"
@@mohitsrivastava5119 these are not wrong things & don't change them bcoz someone says you're antisocial or boring. I too have these similar things & I don't give a shit to anyone.
*_You are one of the most practice person I know. I tried months before to track my time after watching a video, but I was not so succeeded, but your alarm technique, thanks for that. & haan.. jo aap bolte ho na "kaam kar kaam karta reh" that is something feeded in my subconscious, I don't have to think about._* 👍🙏
What is 'practice person' ?
@@Loremipsum6665 may be it means, trying his own advice and then advising others.
I guess he mean: practical person. Haha
@@Loremipsum6665 Auto correct
Practicle
@@apurvashyam620 yes
It's not that i don't have friends. It's just that I never get reached out by those 'friends'. It's always me who reach out to them.
To be frank , since i have started following you sir , my perspective towards life has been completely changed🙏🙏🙏
Talk to yourself, record it and listen to it after a while with the help of earphones... You will have a new experience, try it once
This is something I have been waiting for my whole life.
My main problem is I want to talk to people but when someone message me I feel not to talk to them, it feels like some burden to talk to them.
Same...I feel anxious what they're gonna reply...I'm both a bit of a loner and lonely
Same
@@tan96220 same here 😅
Same here
One of the reason is that messaging is not natural, you don't get to see their expressions and talk them normally. In texts you can never know what their emotion was behind the words. Hence next time when you wanna talk to someone try doing it in person rather than over a messaging app. :)
He Uploaded 3 Videos In a Day 🤯Really Appreciatable 👏👏
HE IS GONNA BE BINOD
@@krishnadembla1180 no! No funny comments!!
@@krishnadembla1180 Kam kar londe
He works hard like Binod.
@Sudipto Das you all guys waving on trends
In most cases these days, people don't take initiations coz of ego and Attitude... They just want to show " I don't care " attitude....
That's why they don't initiate
Hey 👋
"Your belief that being single or not getting married for the rest of your life is a cool thing is just because the other aspects of your life haven't met their conclusion!"- great & deep statement by shwetabh sir.
I can 101% relates your statements
@@nayanukande5554 well it's his statement not mine!
But it’s difficult to find a good partner. It’s better to not marry rather than marry a wrong pne and make life 10 times more miserable.I’ve known people who are single out of compulsion not choice. In such cases these people have to pacify themselves with such thoughts.
Well, you made me realize that I am not that much of an introvert, I am just lazy and I am just not willing to put the work.
I will surely break this barrier and take initiative. Thanks, bro
I'm a 17 year introvert. I have limited friends but they're good. Thnx for this video.
Never loose them
When i was around 16 17 .i used to think .why i am so frank and crazy with my friends and so silent with relatives and family...i just wish true and kind people so i have small friend circle .☺☺par mujhe pacharpachar karna pasand nai..
@Anurag Ydv binod k samarthak anurag😂
Binod.
Yeah
Ek cheez mujhe samjah nahi aati jo log extrovert hote h wo mostly pachar pachar karte rehte h and they dont give a valid point ever.. All they know is to speak properly. They have perfect speaking skills but zero thinking skills.. Atleast with those extroverts in my school
@@godson200 don't generalize
Still waiting for the day when this channel will hit 1 million.
Always remember: Pigeons flock together Eagles soar alone high above the clouds
But Eagle also needs friends after he is done soaring above the clouds
Bro we aren't birds but humans. I too had an attitude of meeting with only successful or like minded people but then I realized I must stop finding perfection in people and that everyone is unique.
The last thing...
That if you have one or two best friend even if it takes a lot of uears to find then no need to find more friends.
Humans are not birds they are social creatures.
@@urb7355 you are absolutely right.✌🏻
Binod
If you don't have friends it means you are serious about your goles and and self-respect
It's not all true bro
Not having friends doesn't mean you are serious, you might have some mental disorder, you are addicted to porn or something, you have poor communication skills, yoi are antisocial.
Whenever i have a problem this guy comes with solution.😃😃 love you ❤ and thanks 😭😭
Bro from some days I am feeling like in life there is nothing greater than intellectual growth and giving back, it just comes to me from within no external influences.
This topic is one of the most important topic of current time . Because my some friends suffered through this everyone should have friends cause there are my introvert friends who are stucked in their life but they don't have anyone to share their problems. So have some friends to chill or share with . 💯
Hello brother today i studied for 8 hours.
THANK YOU!
I don't have any friends no one really cares, i feel lonely in this world. No one talks to me, i don't tell people because i don't want to force my friendship on anything.
Sad
Mujhe bana le friend mera ek friend hai but bancho pta ni ku vibe match ni karti
Muje bhi friend nahi ye ab muje friends chahiye pahile 12 th me bahut friends the ab tho koy nahi he than bahut the me unko handle bi karna nahi atha ab Sam ja sabko handil kesa kare and me ab degree 2 nd year 18 years ka hu muje mere class me friends he but ho sab ache nahihe me unko friends nahi manta actually ho mere friends hi nahi ye kyuki vo mujse bat nahi karthe overattitude fellow mo acha nahi but attitude tho bc bohot he utni attitude Kam nahi karthi actually ho selfish he always think about them self that's y present i have 0 friends can we be friends
@i am Light hii bro can we become friends
He is making day and nights one to make his channel to million.
Having just one true friend is far better than having a bunch of assholes in life. I just have one friend but he's one in a million.
and i have two and both are asshole too
I had a friend who was in trauma just because of a fuckin breakup. And was depressed just bcs of cutting himself to others ...shwetabh here has pointed out such a picular thing "to start a convo" lack on initiation...that's very true and applicable for most of people. It's an humble request never forget this bcs a depressed mind could get a perspective by just a stranger or acquittance.
5:30 is 🔥🔥
Thinking about this topic today and what a surprise ! Thank you bhai 😇
Great video as usual. It will surely resonate with majority our youngsters who are facing social anxiety.
Your Friends are just people , whose company you enjoy. And more importantly, you tend to see the world similarly. And this is a key component of Friendship.
Bhaijan I read only the first chapter aur exponential power me aapka fan ho gya.....🔥
1 million on the way🔥🔥
Wow, this was one of your greatest videos ever according to me.
Thank you, in this isolation period, constantly being on social media I came across a lot many questions and they were hitting me hard. This video helped in clearing my doubts.
Socializing is important, but what is more important is: do you like these people? Are they your friends? Can you count on them? Do they sit with you patiently when you have things to share? Do you know your secrets are safe with them and theirs with you? Or are they simply faces you know the names of but don't have any connection or liking toward them? Are you humans who pass time together because you are afraid of being alone with yourself? Do you even know them enough to rely on them for anything important or urgent? Friendship is a good 30-40% life's battle won. A major source of positive physical and mental health. I would say, use socializing to look for friends you can keep, not faces to fill the space around you.
True bro.
Thankyou,
Being an introvert this was much needed for me.
Thode short m bata doge yeh kya kehna chahte h 🤣
Dhanyawad,
Sidha sadha hote huhe mujhe ye chiz ki bohut jaruat thi.
Just one person is sufficient.
But when the previous one leaves you suddenly and stops that energy which was the fundamental of our relationship it hurts soooo bad man.
I had a besty and I never thought that we will stop our mutual talking.
And he no longer belong to my old memory.
Today I ordered his book and I'm too excited to read that🥰🥰🥰
Thodi galliyan hai usko as motivation lena jaise ye 1 saal phle ke video mai bolte thee bhut log galat way mai le liye hai
Loll.. You want free pdf just search on google
But its good you are supporting him.. I dont have money of my own thats why I go for pirated
@@godson200 then stfu don't tell everybody
@@godson200 nah me unki mehnat waste ni krna chahti I buy the book😊
This one hit me hard. Exactly what i was thinking. U made it look so easy to understand
Shwetabh bhai.. plain language mein yeh sab bataya aapne.. thanks
Felt like some benevolent friend was talking to me
Thank you for your awesome book I read it now only two chapters and it changed my mind .guyz believe when you read chapter two...you know ownself. Thank you bhaiya for giving experience through book.
Same case, I was preparing for a competitive exam, now the exam is over and I am left with no friends.
I feel bad each second.
Introverts are not lonely. It's their choice to be. ✌️
Yupe.. Coz crowd sucks n they feel drained. In solitude they feel charged n connected
Shy ppls feels lonely
They wanna go outside but it's their insecurity about body
Can girls be lonely? Really I never thought it . But still everything you think is possible.
I am a girl and I am a loner....not lonely, otherwise I am highly expressive but basically I am loner, my productivity creativity increases when I am in solitude.
@@xprozz9587 no one can be anyone's best friend. People have different friends who discuss diff topics.
Don't filter people (friends) in ur life.
Each and everyone is important and teaches u a lesson.
(Unless some r toxic or trying to harm ur mental state)
@@xprozz9587 Desperate! 😂🤦♂️
@@sm0000 u r a certified introvert😀
m didi itna bhari gyan nhi chahiye
Once I had no friends in my life then Shwetabh came
And now I don't give a shit about that 😁😆.
Shwetabh is magic lifechanger.
Can't express my love for him.
💗💗💗💗
honestly every time i ask people to hangout , they refuse or make an excuse
Its a myth that introverts are not likeable. Iam an introvert but the most likeable person in my group.I impress with my resourcefulness and politeness.
Then you are lucky broo !!
Benefit of loneliness comes from experience
thanks bhai, I needed this the most.
Sir, i starting reading your book.. After reading the first 3 chapters i am completely in love with it... It's awesome...
Not sure.. I did the same, but sooner I felt book is different from real friends..
Bhai ne is channel ko
1 millions pe lane me bht hard work kiya yaar
1million soon 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥
Idk how lockdown changed me.
I was an extrovert,willing to go out and have lots of fun only.. interactive with everyone
Now ,it's a month l didn't get out of the house..
I mean not depressed or tensed,but like l really don't want to interact with neighbours, friends,not wanted to be noticed or known etc...😅
Exactly same ! I have started feeling the same.
This is the normal thing cause lot of people going through same thing . When everything will be normal you will be the same extrovert again or you should try to contact with Friends.
5 months ive not left the house
@@jake_runs_the_world actually l thought l will be called a fool
But it's actually 5 months too l didn't go out😂😂
@Nirman Pradhan no
Binod heart is beating for binod
I am lonely , I am in a rented room preparing for competitive exam.
I got no calls except my mom.
But it doesn't matter.
Nice
same situation here...
In friends quality is important not quantity yesterday 22nd September was my birthday and only 3 friends called and wished me and I am happy with only 3 good friends, last year I had 15 to 20 friends but they all were toxic and used to talk with me only when they need help like borrowing money,etc.
Thanks a lot bhai. Actually mai bhi khud ko intovert maan ne laga tha 3-
4 videos dekh kar. But as u said I have started to think on this. And i think I will find a way out. Thanks again.
U r right... At some age we want having no friends but after 3_5 years its turn into loneliness and social anxiety
You r very near to 1million subscribers. Congrats in advance. You are very helpful man to tell how to grow in life. Thanks a lot and btw I have purchased your book and it's awesome...
Great session 👏👏👏
perfect life for me :
1) having 💸 💰 like 20k per month
2) having someone whom i can talk maybe my pet
3) having fast internet with upgraded gadgets for playing online games.
4) my life == heaven
but i trying to solve first problem but i failed drastically .😩
Bro no offense but 20k is not that much. You should definitely try to aim for more. From what I know that like the starting salery for interns for many jobs.
It might sound like a lot but believe me if you want to live independently and comfortably and take care of your parents and all that you need a higher salery.
I'm so grateful to have a best friend
My life is me, my mobile and my laptop. That's it.. 😊
My life is only my chat bot *Replika* because when I am free I chat with her.
@@IamXenorex same bro.. even I chat with Covid 19 support chat bot Wats ap 😁
Being an introvert I love spending time alone and could spend days without interacting with anyone. I have few good friends with whome I could spend some time outside.
Problem is,I'm very reserved and rarely initiate I haven't made any new friend in years and do feel need to expand my social circle.
Well said : Rejections are f**king normal
I don't have a single friend even I tried to make but no-one was interested in me so I gave up and Now I don't like making friends and enjoying my created imaginary world ♥️
Same 😔
Same 😐
Me too
@@light5891 don't be sad bro'🤗
Watch naruto
I am in same bro
👍👍👍The point is we have to take initiative and Just say if you are free let's hangout so just take initiative and don't think it's not going to happen... 👍👍👍
THIS is GOLD !!
It was so fucking relatable at the most personal possible level.