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- Опубликовано: 7 авг 2024
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People often spend months (sometimes years :0) stressing over how to ask a girl out (or how to ask a guy out). Today I want to show you the exact mentality you need to have when asking someone out. It's one that will drastically improve your dating life...if you internalize. The key to asking out your crush is all about quick action, confidence, and an understanding that rejection is part of the journey. Make sure to subscribe for more dating tips!
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Intro: (00:00)
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What To Do If You Get Rejected?: (03:09)
Summary: (05:02)
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Just try it the worst thing that she's going to say its "no"
Her : ewww...
Some girls really do go overboard rude with how they reject guys. But, if they are that rude it's probably better for the guy since they've dodged a bullet.
"The worst she can say is ewww"
Her: I thought you were gay
There is a comeback for that
"Is that what ur parents said when they gave birth to you"
@@ImprovementPill I don't think that applies in cases where the person that rejected you is outright rude for no reason. If they are acting entitled they deserve the best of roasts/comebacks.
Yeah, I don’t get some of those girls. If I were them, I wouldn’t do that. Just reject them as nice as possible you are going to. It’s better to say, “I’m sorry, but I’m not into you. I hope you understand.” and not “eww” or “No! I don’t like you” or anything
me without crush: *watching carefully* interesting
hahaha me too😅
Me too 😂
@marta I didn't had crush but then I saw you lol
Same here 😂😂
Same lol
Me: Kisses my crush
Crush: Kisses me back
Alarm clock: I’ma ruin this man’s whole dream
snap back to reality
Happened to me got sad
Been there with similar scenarios. My alarm clock ended a dream I was having where I got to see one of my friends who I really missed.
wakey wakey it's time for school
That happens to me every single night…
There was a girl, who is asked out, and I got rejected, because she wanted to date an asian. And you know what? I'm not going to be a b*tch about it. Everyone has their preferences, and unfortunately I didn't meet the requirements for her. The only advice I can give to people, is don't wait, and if you get rejected by someone, don't hate them, have respect, and carry on. You won't find someone like her again, but there are still beautiful people out there. Have a great life, everyone
I just got rejected today bro 😕
@@scar7050 Sorry to hear that bro, whish you luck in the future. If you want to talk about it, just feel free to let it all out to this comment section, or somewhere else. It helps in carrying on^^
@Firelord Eliteast67 it's not "kinda" racist if it's her preference . 🤦🏾♀️
@Firelord Eliteast67 wtf it her preference
i asked my fav guy out, he rejected me and I am okay about that
Improvement pill: "Pain is what makes you sexy."
Jiraiya: "say no more!"
Pain from naruto:
Am I a joke to you?
BRO🤣🤣🤣
😂😂facts
One Piece Characters : Shut Up
@@Kidwithcommonsense Luffy be like: Hey, I like you. Let's go on an adventure Nakama.
One of the best bits of advice I gave myself before I got rejected for the first time was 'better to get rejected now than spend weeks, months, maybe even years, wondering'
yea true,, i regret this
Yep, my motivation to ask my crush was “Regret is worse than Rejection” because even though Rejection hurts, Regret is a type of pain that could last forever to which is worse than getting rejected.
*every family has a person who breaks the chain of poverty. I hope you will be that person!!*
Except, if you think about it for a moment, every one of your ancestors was able to get laid, so you're really letting them all down.
Man I hope so...
@@TheCreator1197 LMAO
@@TheCreator1197 Yeah, but imagine that your offsprings will have ancestors that couldn't get laid and changed that 🧠
@@mihaiioc.3809 What
3:50 “You should not fantasize over someone who doesn’t even like you back” ohh honey, but I do that all the time
And they do not even exist.
@@RRC879 hahahah yeah relatable
Just ask her to hangout sometime, either she wit it or she not
Exactly
how can i do this when my college is in lockdown
Bro she going to break your heart😂😂😂
@@lilcrazybossnyfecoach3340 It is better to get a straight answer than liking someone and wasting time trying to make them like you. If someone doesn't like you currently it is highly unlikely that they will like you later. If someone likes you they will say yes right away and you save several months of frustration. It's that simple
you gotta state your intentions tho or else she finna think of it as just friends
As a woman, I can say that if we are already friends and I know you, you can always tell me. I will already know the answer, but I will not be weird around you if I don't feel the same way, we can "act like it never happened". If a girl ever gets really mean over you (nicely, and without pressure) asking her out once, she is not even worth being friends with. Please leave.
Wdym mean over you?
@@nuraortoma1820 Maybe mean towards you or mean about you asking her out?
What if, someone you just know by name asks you on a date?
there is a different outcome, ive been rejected by girls who rlly werent emotionally available at the time. but we went on to date later on. don’t wait for them, but theres no need to take it too hard!
@@ImprovementPill my case option b was about being not ready and wanting to focus on school first. Which should be over in a year fully.
While time goes on and shapes everything, I'm working on myself and I'll see then. It's that pain that I did turn into seeing the space for self improvement.
Thanks for everything keep up the great content!✌
Stop lying to yourself, she one hundred percent had other relationships until she decided to finally give you a CHANCE
I can't ask her out ☹. She died in a tragic road accident 19 months ago😔. I didn't even get a chance to tell her how much i love her. She was only 25 at the time.
I’m sorry to hear that. R.I.P
Death is a normal part of life. Grieve for a bit, then move on.
:((((( I can’t imagine being in that situation :,( I’m so sorry is an understatement :( I hope she went to heaven but that’s so sad because you loved her :(((
So sorry bro 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥺
Rip
My friends : try her , Worst thing she can say Is NO
Her : I THOUGHT u were gay
Me 🙉
🤣
Oof
Phahahha
Phahahha
damn that's even worse
"Pain is an excellent teacher."
- Zenyatta
Exactly
This guy's timing is suspicious
🤣🤣
True. He's a stalker with FBI skills
Hahaha
Pretty sure he scales out what problems his viewers have the most and then decides to make a video about it, at least that's how I see it.
@@HiroRavenVideos you know bill, FBI right? His name is pill. İt makes him more and more sus
As a guy who wasted so many possible relationship and missed out on the love stuff the only thing i can advice for people is to remember its always better regretting it than not finding out what happens next at all..
It's like you are me talking
Same. Couldn't have said it better.
I don’t have a crush but I honestly miss having a crush - the feeling is so fun and motivating for some reason
I got rejected by my crush in third times. Now I realized that I wasted the time and not self-respect.
This happend to myself and honestly....I'm grateful for that. It opened my eyes, I have seen how pity I was ( addicted to Porn, no workout, just gaming ) and it makes me to realize that even I won't like that type of person. Shortly said, I changed - Nofap, Self-improvement, regular excercising ( trying to bulk ), more socializing and excitement for new things = way better life. And I don't know, if that all happened if I didn't get rejected.
@Thanos thanks for asking. Things are the same - exercising, nofap and desire for the new things. I started doing international award where I expand my guitar, workout and survival skills. Sadly, I have som disagreement with my friends who don't have interest in self-improvement or are not disciplined ( especially during covid :/ ) - so it's a quite "warrior season". Girls? Yeah, I have something with one girl but I'm not assertive enough 😅. Just keeping moving forward.
I've been rejected my whole life please don't give me hope
Man up. Have enough respect for yourself that the rejection of others doesn’t destroy you. If it does, mature, grow, etc.
Just like Shia Labeauf always said: "Just do it".
(This comment is not endorsed by Nike. )
I read a book called the art of seduction by Robert green, being direct is the worst to make someone like you, instead send mixed signal in which they try to interpret and will catch their attention and it goes on for many more steps...
I read it tooo
What tbe difference between the hot/cold where u being direct and come off strong and the vidoe where u tell them how u feel im confuse 😅??
It's the worst if the girl/woman is a coward unable to digest reality about relationships (of course, bearing in mind that the relationship has lasted long enough). I really like being honest because come on, women really know what a man looks them for (company, financial complement, sex, a strong partner to fight for her, optionally a family, happiness, emocional support, etc) so if she doesn't take that into account when dating out a man who knows he likes her, then it's frustrating to be rejected just because of "being frank/direct"
I really enjoy reading that book but it feels like it creates more questions than answers and makes seduction feel a lot more complicated...
"I value our friendship too much" oosh! That one hurt.
Great wake-up call in a short and concise video. Thank you!
I wish I could meet this man in person to thank him. Hats off 👏💐
I noticed I caught feelings for a friend that I've known for over 1.5 years like 4-5 weeks ago and all it took was 3 unproductive days to kinda get over The rejection and be normal again. Yes, I still think about her but confession is not something to be afraid of. I should've known better.
I tried this approach yesterday and got rejected. I am grateful for the rejection though. It saves me a lot of time.
Instead of having crush, have people to have crush on you. It's tiring to chase over a false signals. If they ain't interested in you in the first place, no matter how hard you try, they won't.
Also messaging sucks, you can never know if they text their true feelings
I dont even have a crush but yet im here
Same
Improvement pill: "pain makes you sexy"
Me: stabs my chest and rips out my heart for my crush "am I sexy now?"
If she gives u an excuse without putting in effort to see u sumn like "oh I'm visiting my grandma in the hospital on friday so how about saturday." If she gives an excuse without throwing in a date that she can see u then that's a rejection, so dont ask for another time cuz she might flake just take ya L and keep it moving.
First step: find a girl to ask out
If a girl says she's too busy, don't be persistent by asking for her number & scheduling a date later on. No one is busy 24/7. If she gives you an answer other than "yes", move on to the next girl. Have an abundance mindset, my brothers & sisters
My strategy is to improve your personality so much that she can't afford to say no and even if she says no for some reason, you still improved your personality.
Hmm... but will you actually maintain that your personality? Or will it be more of a lie? “Can’t afford to say no”. I don’t even know if thats plain misogyny or arrogance
@@ilovekene9697 the market is the market, what works works
POV" sitting in quarantine knowing she hanging with your best friend"
pain
That's so much detailed bruh.. seriously liked the way it all went and you explained it. ❤️❤️🔥
Liked the illustrations! Simple and effective ✨
Social anxiety : no i don't think I will
Nailed it homie 🔥
100% spot on from start to finish!👍👍
Yay something I really really needed! ❤️
I said hye
She said bye
; )
next time, learn how to spell hey right :D
@@klutz3955 i will ; )
You're videos are either VERY convient or it motivates me to where it makes me think it's convient
This is the most straightforward advice I've heard
Some crushes just never went away. They built, instead, into something permanent, obsessive and all consuming.
Maya Banks
The mark of a true crush... is that you fall in love first and grope for reasons afterward.
Shana Alexander
I wish I could’ve seen this video about 6 years ago. It really is that simple. Thanks for this
a different perspective insight ! thank you so much!
Wow liked this channel
A much awaited course
Preciate the simple yet effective answer
“The worst thing they can say is no”
If it was truly like that i would’ve confessed a while ago
Like what if they tell everyone lmao
Yeah then everyone you’re mutually friends with through them knows and looks at you like your some sort of weirdo, even if you accepted a no and moved on.
@@xuavrice2338 FACTS
I really really appreciate this video.. Owas thinking that it would be another one of those non sensical video on how to get a gir...l. I have done this in real life and it works... Improvement pill huge respect man.. Telling right things in a right way!!
New style, nice!
Man! you are amazing
"Pain is what ultimately makes you sexy."
Hey! I come from the spanish trasletion of this channel. I love this channel.
I’m doing the thing. Wish me luck. I will come back and tell how it go in an hour
Edit: Look at the comment sigh
@@aaronalasa sigh she agree but she say she’s sure that we wouldn’t be a thing
So idk
Great?
Bad?
You tell me
Like she gave me a hesitant yes
And honestly I say she agree so that she can say
Told you it wouldn’t work
@@pablobrecht7396 thanks for the advice broo!
Hey bro, how did the date go?
I guess she ate him on a second date?
pain=gain. goodluck kings and queens👑.
I asked my crush out and she said yes.
Hope we get in a relationship 🤞
Man Congratz!
Niceee. Hope it‘s going well
This helped , thank you
Hey thanks dude I asked her and got a 'no' which kinda eases my heart a bit and well it happens sometimes 😌
Thanks to improvement pill and teachingmensfashion I know what I actually need to do now so yeah sometime this week I'm doing it
I haven’t been out in nearly a year so I have no crushes atm, but I still neeed to learn
Sometimes people reject you is not merely your problem. Just move on find a new partner. We can’t be perfect at all sense. The person that really like and love you will accept you as you are. Unless your weakness is really unbearable..
for 1 week me & and my friends were talking about this🤣🤣🤣
is Improvement Pill spying on me?
*THANKS BRO*
You make great videos brother👍 Thanks a lot😊
Don’t wait, the time will never be right - Napoleon Hill
thanks it worked !
THANK YOU CAPTAIN IMPROVEMENT PILL SIR
Thanks dude
Your every word is true........ Thank you 🤧🤧🤧🤧
Not advice I've never heard before but omg the way these cliche messages were portrayed in this video actually got to me and single handedly may have changed me for the rest of my life.
now, there is a problem, its not really as easy to even figure out sometimes on what your feeling to a particular person... i will give an example of myself, there is this boy, he is my bestfriend, we hang out in school alot. so now i cant really identify if i like him, or if its just that strong friendship between us cause you see, im an introvert and he is a HUGE extrovert, he likes and talks to everyone, he even said he has a crush on my other bestfriend, but it seems he shows more affection towards me than her, ofcourse i can be wrong, as i haven't been there always, but then she also told me she doesn't like him- so well- i felt bad for him- but then again, HE is the one who has a crush on her, so i cant tell my feelings, and even if i do like him, i cant just straight up confess- cause like- i dont want this to ruin our friendship.... so yes- i kind of need help with this right now😅😅
You earn lot of respect
you have an interesting outlook in life
Me, dying of fear when I look someone in the eye
No crush
But
Still watching.
Me and every other introvert watching this: *write that down* *WRITE THAT DOWN*
This was literally the right moment to watch this moment bc im going to ask my crush out tomorrow man.
*Is this a sign from god or something?* 😅
@@ImprovementPill stay creative and have dicipline is the to succes and happiness, thank you man
Do it fam and tell us what happened
@@29muawiyakhan9c4 i will 👌
U will get her👍👍.
@@marcodenekamp Did you ask her yet?
This made me realise that I don’t have the confidence or the looks to ask a girl out
There is a great Persian expression for when you are rejected. “ Be tokhmam”
It means “I really, really don’t care”
Bro I literally can’t sleep, he’s always on my mind
Always gets a notification but never cared to open up the video..
But this time 😅😅
*Don't even have a crush. Just obsession over people 10 years older than me.*
So rn,i had this conversation with my friend trying to make him tell me why he is so smart in school. So he kept hiding the truth and said don't try to self improvement try to discover your self. So i came up with this analogy, i discribe this topic in the theme of fitness tell me you comments(sometimes you can improve you muscle by making them grow by improvement (self-improvement) or so have to show your muscles ,you can lose the fats and get shredded (self-discovery)) what do you think 🤔
4:33 I believe my most unattractive trait is not knowing how to talk to people. I will appreciate it if any tips or other video recommendations are dropped. Thanks in advance!
It worked!!
How do you ask someone out without wanting a date
nice great new animation pill ;)
My friend will promise u and make u excited until the final moment and he cancels everything..😐
That's it! I'm gonna ask her out!
I had a crush on a girl. Shes so beautiful and so smart and same things goes to me too. We talk almost everytime and also jokes. But the painful thing is, i never got to confess my feelings for her and to make things even more painful for me, SHE LIKES SOMEONE. Pls dont be like me. Confess your feelings even if youre scared
She’s the only girl I’ve truly loved. I got rejected when I asked her. It hurt. For a long time. Whenever I think about her I hurt in inside. But I’m learning to let that go. Hopefully ill forget her. But knowing how amazing she was I never will.
Can you do a video on how to start a tinder chat!?
Lmaoo, this was how to ask your crush out before, wasn’t it?! 😂😂👏🏼
wow that actually makes sense. I'm always afraid of getting rejected by someone I really like so I never confess to not deal with the truth. It's at a point where I just avoid emotional connections with other people so I won't get hurt in the future. But I always regret not confessing years later and end up thinking about the what ifs. But if the pain makes your stronger maybe next time I should just shoot my shot and see what happens...
Yeah, it's better then fantasizing about dating your crush and being happy together, when in reality, your crush might not even like you. It's better to ask if they want to go on a date, to truly find out
I can't believe I've reached a point in my life where I search this on RUclips--
I had to find this video literally after being rejected, but I doubt it would’ve made a difference.
See, I had a friend whom I would call a best friend whom I had a crush on for 3 years and when I went to ask her just recently she literally ghosted me. No replies, no texts just straight on ghost. So if anyone can help me then i would be really grateful.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet
Maybe
Anyway onto the next one😂
You're the best.