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Your videos on NoFap/Semen Retention have truly helped me on my journey through self improvement and I honestly couldn’t get through my 🌽 addiction without your guidance! Thank you so much, your content doesn’t get enough love, you’re a G!!
A lot of these dudes simply have low intelligence levels so it's easier for them to approach women they like. I think the cold approach is the best. It's not tryhard and it's just basically making normal convo which is easier than stupid pickup lines. I like my money and the way I see these girls talking to their dudes is crazy and makes me realize how addicting pussy is. These dudes will go broke and get heart broken for a few months of fake love. It's better to be single
Semen retention gets rid of all the bullshit. It’s what you do with the energy that matters. That means wake up and get after it. Having a masculine energy and being around feminine energy is amazing. Loving yourself and learning what to look for in a woman demonstrates character and discipline. Patience is key when it comes to these things.
If you think showing interest (latching onto tendency) means you're in the wrong, you're just distorted by the broken culture in the US. It's not a you problem, it's an issue the girl has. It's ridiculous you're having to talk about dating and love and romance as having some type of a dehumanizing formula. It's like there's no place to speak your mind, you have to play a character to get the "prize". In fact, it might even be a better idea to show "latch on" tendency, just to see if the girl has her sh** together mentally or not
It's actually really sad that for us (men) to have some sort of realtionship with girls and share afection/love with someone that cares about you, you have to prove how masculine and "selfish" you are, and do not give a f about them, for them to be interested, (also you have to look good), it gets harder and harder be in a relationship nowdays
I’m a girl who has never been in a serious relationship and trust me, there are people out there (me included) who are looking for a man we connect with rather than the strongest or most masculine man. Be yourself and love yourself, because nobody can truly love you until you love yourself.
So, for me, it was just like Matt told about his ex, right? That was totally me with my ex. I was on cloud nine whenever she was around, and the second she bounced, my life just seemed unbearable. I was counting the seconds until I could see her again, a constant eagerness to be in her company. But guess what? After just five months, she dumped me. PS: btw, that happened just two months ago.
It wasn’t until a month ago where I finally learnt from you that there is more to attraction than looks and confidence even though those do matter alot. Throughout all of high-school I was an anxious and shy guy, I took it upon myself in my last year of hs to improve my social skills and body after stumbling upon youtubers like Hamza. It worked nearly instantly as I got my first girlfriend who I got from my looks alone as she asked for my snap after like one conversation between us. It didnt work out between us but in the following year till where I am now I’ve kissed 7 girls (that girl was my first kiss) and have only ever dated that one person. From watching your videos man I’ve realized I’ve gotta lock down on my purpose as through that and the confidence and looks I’ve already obtained I’ll be as successful as you🙏
"there is more to attraction than looks", then claims he got a snapchat contact immediately from his looks. News flash, attraction is all visible, face, height and frame.
@@fiat_ow7876 ok you got me there, being 6’4, curly hair, w facial hair definitely helps but as of lately I’ve been wanting to actually settle down while working towards something in my life and finding purpose, that in the long run for some girls matters the most
My boi spittin' facts. My last relationship (super healthy, btw) didn't succeed due to my fear of her breaking up with me. Now I feel content with myself and my own progress. This is the way, boys! Also already half way to 100k?!?! I'm very proud, brother.
Holy Shit that is absolutely the truth you are speaking. For the Last 4 weeks i went in nofap, hittin the Gym constantly before about 16 years, hot my diet in Point to shred down, and i dont give a Shit about anything. ITS Like Magic If you Combine those 4 Things, you Feeling a Bit Like a Superhero, No Joke. Girls are waaaay more attracted and i fehlt that from week 2 on. If you have your Shit together Nobody is able to break you, Trust me Guys. Im in a Situation now, where i decide which women are Worth my time and Attention. If she doesnt fit in my Life or she IS Not Sure about what she wants, i kick her straight of my Life. I dont give a fuck, you dont destroy my Peace, ITS my inner circle thats the Most valuable Thing from now on!!! She IS Not the price, ITS me, i am the price!!!
Im 42 and have this same shit for 20 years. Play it cool, don't be needy. Guess what, I've been single for 8 years. The real issue is finding an attractive woman. Its always a case of she doesn't like me or I don't like her.
I did nofap for 1 year and I didnt get laid or get a girlfriend. How do you explain that? You got a girlfriend because you have low body fat and high testosterone or maybe you have alot of money. There are many reasons a girl will use a man.
question, im at 60 days now when do females actually start to approach me? cause it didn’t happen during my 126 day streak. or is all the female attraction bs? i also get headaches from time and a increase in my social anxiety, is this normal? because my social anxiety wasn’t that bad when i was fapping
These kinds of videos (and the storytimes) are probably my favorite Matt videos. You just really feel Matt trying to warn his younger self out of love for us, and it really means a lot. Thanks, man. The stuff about neediness in the beginning is something I definitely needed to hear. Self-love has been increasing for me big-time. Of course I still have moments where I’m sad, a healthy person can’t be happy or sad forever, but I can definitely confirm that being sad is 100% better than being depressed. I’ve been focusing more on doing things that give me long-term happiness, and it’s just so great. I believe you can only live as happy long-term and sad short-term, or sad long-term and happy short-term. I can confirm the former is infinitely better.
I find myself more often than not disqualifying attractive girls now than ever before. Before I would jump at even the SLIGHTEST choosing signal, but I wouldn't even make a move sometimes. I would just pedestalize and never make a move. I did this to a chick during my SR journey, before I got the confidence and drive. Turns out this chick was 19 and basically a fucking kid, I instantly lost attraction when I finally talked to her and she sounded like a little kid. I realized then how fucking dumb our brains can be. I pedestalized a kid as a grown ass man. I rejected her and now she stalks me at my gym. I was probably the first guy to reject her after talking to her.
Cope. If you focus on goals you may achieve them. But you are hard coping if you think a girl will magically come into your life, you need to focus on that as well if you want a relationship. Unless you are very good looking, then women will just approach you.
it is mostly about looks which is not under your control. being masculine or feminine guy doesn't matter, you should have just right physical appearance. don't fool people here. it is over for sub5 men
Woman are far more emotional then men and it's true. Everything you said brother is true. Women are more drawn to men are the the ones that retain and don't waste they're seed.
Thank you for all you have done to inspire us all Matt, you truly are the self improvement goat unlike some of these other jokers on the internet. I’m 20 years old and I just hit 7 and a half months of Semen Retention and feel the best I ever had in my life 🏋🏻
@@TheCoasterDude that's really good bro being a foreigner it's easy for u guys to hang with girls but it's not easy where i live to be in relationship and stuff ...
i can say it worked for me after a hundred something days i got a girl friend that was in love with me or something and i fell for her after a while, and were both happy.
im 30 years old man. im doing nofap since 2 weeks. i hope it helps with my erectil dysfunction. i had checked my blood analysis and doctor found out my LDL colestrol is 200.. idk if thats the reason or fapping but im gonna definitely stop doing that BS..
Your videos on NoFap/Semen Retention have truly helped me on my journey through self improvement and I honestly couldn’t get through my 🌽 addiction without your guidance! Thank you so much, your content doesn’t get enough love, you’re a G!!
Love to hear it bro!
Which video did u watch of matt spear?
Im on day 40 on SR. I still dont get any female attention whatsoever but i have noticed my conversation skills have improved
Don't give up cause it's only gonna get better and of course it's not overnight
A lot of these dudes simply have low intelligence levels so it's easier for them to approach women they like. I think the cold approach is the best. It's not tryhard and it's just basically making normal convo which is easier than stupid pickup lines. I like my money and the way I see these girls talking to their dudes is crazy and makes me realize how addicting pussy is. These dudes will go broke and get heart broken for a few months of fake love. It's better to be single
@@mac11daddy6i struggle with that so hard
Bro u gotta use those new found conversation skills to get the females bro that’s the whole point 😅
@@author5376 then instead of no fap start learning how to speak 🫨
Semen retention gets rid of all the bullshit. It’s what you do with the energy that matters. That means wake up and get after it. Having a masculine energy and being around feminine energy is amazing. Loving yourself and learning what to look for in a woman demonstrates character and discipline. Patience is key when it comes to these things.
finally someone with real experience I can relate to...
If you think showing interest (latching onto tendency) means you're in the wrong, you're just distorted by the broken culture in the US. It's not a you problem, it's an issue the girl has. It's ridiculous you're having to talk about dating and love and romance as having some type of a dehumanizing formula. It's like there's no place to speak your mind, you have to play a character to get the "prize". In fact, it might even be a better idea to show "latch on" tendency, just to see if the girl has her sh** together mentally or not
Ice-cold JT is an OG for sure!! Let's gooooo
It's actually really sad that for us (men) to have some sort of realtionship with girls and share afection/love with someone that cares about you, you have to prove how masculine and "selfish" you are, and do not give a f about them, for them to be interested, (also you have to look good), it gets harder and harder be in a relationship nowdays
Putting yourself first doesn’t mean you don’t give a f about them. Just be authentic to who you are and everything will work out bro
Girls “secretly” want you to put yourself first
@@MattSpear99 you're right bro, thank you😊
I’m a girl who has never been in a serious relationship and trust me, there are people out there (me included) who are looking for a man we connect with rather than the strongest or most masculine man. Be yourself and love yourself, because nobody can truly love you until you love yourself.
@@ChelsyLolaa you are the kind of person who gives me hope in life fr
Careful to not attract a Jezebel. Most of the time, they are, after the honeymoon phase. Choose wisely.
the reason i do SR is not because of getting girls. its because i want to succeed in life
because you want to suc-seed in life.
Semen retention doesn't necessarily help you get a girlfriend. Study the law of attraction and how it works.
How are you somehow dumber than the guy who made this video?
Yeah law of assumptions precisely will help you get anything you want in life.
@@manugaur2316bro tf does the law of assumption have to do with no f**ping
@@chikni2022 he is using this law assuming that it works for no f*cking
@@chikni2022 that's where the name comes from. The Law of ASSumption. You have to ASSume you are right (if you are not leftist)
So, for me, it was just like Matt told about his ex, right? That was totally me with my ex. I was on cloud nine whenever she was around, and the second she bounced, my life just seemed unbearable. I was counting the seconds until I could see her again, a constant eagerness to be in her company. But guess what? After just five months, she dumped me. PS: btw, that happened just two months ago.
It wasn’t until a month ago where I finally learnt from you that there is more to attraction than looks and confidence even though those do matter alot. Throughout all of high-school I was an anxious and shy guy, I took it upon myself in my last year of hs to improve my social skills and body after stumbling upon youtubers like Hamza. It worked nearly instantly as I got my first girlfriend who I got from my looks alone as she asked for my snap after like one conversation between us. It didnt work out between us but in the following year till where I am now I’ve kissed 7 girls (that girl was my first kiss) and have only ever dated that one person. From watching your videos man I’ve realized I’ve gotta lock down on my purpose as through that and the confidence and looks I’ve already obtained I’ll be as successful as you🙏
"there is more to attraction than looks", then claims he got a snapchat contact immediately from his looks. News flash, attraction is all visible, face, height and frame.
@@fiat_ow7876 ok you got me there, being 6’4, curly hair, w facial hair definitely helps but as of lately I’ve been wanting to actually settle down while working towards something in my life and finding purpose, that in the long run for some girls matters the most
Watch jack denmo if u aren't already. He's an absolute master of social skills
My boi spittin' facts. My last relationship (super healthy, btw) didn't succeed due to my fear of her breaking up with me. Now I feel content with myself and my own progress. This is the way, boys! Also already half way to 100k?!?! I'm very proud, brother.
Next video title : how telling the whole world I finally got a GF maked me look needy and loser in her eyes so she left me
Real great advice Matt and how we can self improve
Holy Shit that is absolutely the truth you are speaking. For the Last 4 weeks i went in nofap, hittin the Gym constantly before about 16 years, hot my diet in Point to shred down, and i dont give a Shit about anything. ITS Like Magic If you Combine those 4 Things, you Feeling a Bit Like a Superhero, No Joke. Girls are waaaay more attracted and i fehlt that from week 2 on. If you have your Shit together Nobody is able to break you, Trust me Guys. Im in a Situation now, where i decide which women are Worth my time and Attention. If she doesnt fit in my Life or she IS Not Sure about what she wants, i kick her straight of my Life. I dont give a fuck, you dont destroy my Peace, ITS my inner circle thats the Most valuable Thing from now on!!! She IS Not the price, ITS me, i am the price!!!
I just want to stop being lustful
6:48 Lol i was waiting for that.... Love fron India Matt
He does that every time 😅
My friend would play with his johnny for years and he had the most energy
My man has been reading The Way Of The Superior Man
Im 42 and have this same shit for 20 years. Play it cool, don't be needy. Guess what, I've been single for 8 years. The real issue is finding an attractive woman. Its always a case of she doesn't like me or I don't like her.
I did nofap for 1 year and I didnt get laid or get a girlfriend. How do you explain that? You got a girlfriend because you have low body fat and high testosterone or maybe you have alot of money. There are many reasons a girl will use a man.
saying semen retention get you less desperate is like telling that starving yourself give you less desire to eat.
Masturbation is natural so let's stop shaming people.
@@scottysansone5884no need to, you’ll be ashamed yourself
question, im at 60 days now when do females actually start to approach me? cause it didn’t happen during my 126 day streak. or is all the female attraction bs? i also get headaches from time and a increase in my social anxiety, is this normal? because my social anxiety wasn’t that bad when i was fapping
IceColdJT is GOATED for sure❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
What an ass backwards life we live in. Reach out and they pull away. Give more they like you less. Singleness at the end of the day sucks though
I literally get so many benefits when on SR. There is no reason not to do this.
I watched every single video that you made about no fap and it helps me a lot Thank you 🙏 ❤
These kinds of videos (and the storytimes) are probably my favorite Matt videos. You just really feel Matt trying to warn his younger self out of love for us, and it really means a lot. Thanks, man. The stuff about neediness in the beginning is something I definitely needed to hear. Self-love has been increasing for me big-time. Of course I still have moments where I’m sad, a healthy person can’t be happy or sad forever, but I can definitely confirm that being sad is 100% better than being depressed. I’ve been focusing more on doing things that give me long-term happiness, and it’s just so great.
I believe you can only live as happy long-term and sad short-term, or sad long-term and happy short-term. I can confirm the former is infinitely better.
Only a Chad get's a girlfriend.
u only said why, not how...
I find myself more often than not disqualifying attractive girls now than ever before. Before I would jump at even the SLIGHTEST choosing signal, but I wouldn't even make a move sometimes. I would just pedestalize and never make a move. I did this to a chick during my SR journey, before I got the confidence and drive. Turns out this chick was 19 and basically a fucking kid, I instantly lost attraction when I finally talked to her and she sounded like a little kid. I realized then how fucking dumb our brains can be. I pedestalized a kid as a grown ass man. I rejected her and now she stalks me at my gym. I was probably the first guy to reject her after talking to her.
I’m hearing this:
Focus on girl, don’t get your goals and don’t get girl
Focus on goals, get your goals AND get girl
That makes an easy choice
Cope. If you focus on goals you may achieve them. But you are hard coping if you think a girl will magically come into your life, you need to focus on that as well if you want a relationship. Unless you are very good looking, then women will just approach you.
@@geraldtherat618 Thanks for this :)
Matt is spitting facts, Thanks matt!!💯💢
it is mostly about looks which is not under your control. being masculine or feminine guy doesn't matter, you should have just right physical appearance. don't fool people here. it is over for sub5 men
Woman are far more emotional then men and it's true. Everything you said brother is true. Women are more drawn to men are the the ones that retain and don't waste they're seed.
Total Bs I went a whole year and no girl friend.
Then you’re not attractive (yet). You can’t just call it bs🤦♂️ nofap ITSELF isn’t going to build all of your attraction
Don’t bother doing it to get GF. Improve your looks if you haven’t. And if you have and still can’t get a GF then it’s over.
@@Switchh44 NoFap doesn't do anything. You get the other things in order you'll be fine.
Well, if you’re only withholding to get a female.. your intentions are screwed up bro
go er
Semen retention makes you a winner !
Jeremy meeks is an example of what NO FAP energy and perfect jawline can do for you😂
i competed 90 days challenge , i have no gf till now
If they gonna play you they gonna play you, can’t change it.
1000 % Accurate ❤ Keep it up bro...
bunch of nonsense, i bet chad and tyrone also do semen retention to get all that attraction lmao
Lol😂😂😂
Chad and Tyrone has been self improving and doing semen retention since they were in the womb bro!!!!!
i miss icecold jt
6:48 this was so funny man, thanks for these videos!
whats popping everybody icecold jt, back with another video, gosh miss those times😍
3:44 why you turn into Ice-cold JT
You won’t know about semen Retention until you try
Thank you for all you have done to inspire us all Matt, you truly are the self improvement goat unlike some of these other jokers on the internet. I’m 20 years old and I just hit 7 and a half months of Semen Retention and feel the best I ever had in my life 🏋🏻
W!
U got a girl?
@@AnhilatorPlays not rn, but I’m not sweating about it. Ofc I’ll get one but I’m not putting that above my other priorities 💪
@@TheCoasterDude that's really good bro being a foreigner it's easy for u guys to hang with girls but it's not easy where i live to be in relationship and stuff ...
i can say it worked for me after a hundred something days i got a girl friend that was in love with me or something and i fell for her after a while, and were both happy.
hey thats cool. did you approach her randomly? hoping this someday happens to me on my 60 day streak
Good point, only if you ever needed a girlfriend.
Ice cold jt tha goat bro he even commented on one of my songs on!
Common Matt W
Anyone else honestly love the thumbnail!
Starting this journey today, ill see results
goals over holes boys
Thanks for the advice
What’s your age bro?
im 30 years old man. im doing nofap since 2 weeks. i hope it helps with my erectil dysfunction. i had checked my blood analysis and doctor found out my LDL colestrol is 200.. idk if thats the reason or fapping but im gonna definitely stop doing that BS..
If you are fapping constantly then you have porn induced erectile dysfunction my guy.
Lay off the porn and get your testosterone up
It can take a long time to cure ED because the brain needs time to heal... So don't get discouraged if you go for some weeks/months in flatline.
SHOUTOUT TO ICECOLD JT THO
This is actually facts man.
IcecoldJT the goat super under the radar and super underrated
IcecoldJT the goat
Nice video
I love ice cold JT
Thanks brother
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Great video brother 🇬🇧👍🏻 when you can say no not now babe powerful frame indeed.
Is this a scam?
@ICECOLDJT