It takes time just keep trying. And if they are still being rebellious there might be an underlying issue behind their behavior. Also teens are never going to be 100% obedient so keep that in mind when you are parenting them.
My teenage daughter does not like anything to do, like eating, studying, walking, maintaining her room etc. What should I do now to improve our relationship
My son is rebellious because he has diabetes and he hates being a diabetic and all the restrictions and care he needs but now everything is an argument and a fight ! But I found the video very helpful in reminding me to focus on one thing and not everything all at once and to understand his health condition must make him feel very powerless.
My son is 17.5 and only now hitting a really strong rebellious phase...he just told me he wants to move out of my house and live with his mom...Ive done basically everything you suggest. I realize theres probably not much I can do at this point...everything he brings up is about his feelings, he even acknowledges its not anything I do...what do I do with this!?
Outright defiance, willful disobedience, and procrastination are my problems with my 15 year old daughter. Today she told a teacher "F You" I am beyond words. I just left the school scolding her.
My son don't want to be checked time to time as he arrived at home his activities to complete. How could I motivate him to report his activities done at school?
Right I’m dealing with that and we can truly discipline our kids anymore. We’re not allowed to like how we were disciplined or risk having a cps case. Smh. We have to nag them or do nothing. When they’re shut off they’re shut off. This is impossible.
My daughter can not accept a No answer when she wants something,she lie n hide things to us,she feel alone n unlove😢I'm an single mum n working overseas n my sister look after her since baby😢how can I deal with her pls help me coz I'm lost n deepres. Thank
My mom left us when we were teens, it was super hard for us. I had nightmares where I cursed and sweared to my mom, just to get a reaction and attention...All I wanted was her love, and even if she felt she loved me, I didn't feel it...Your daughter may just need you to be there with her and love her unconditionally, no matter what and even if. My mom was with us until I was 18. But I never got the love I wanted to get and the attention I wanted to get....Not even now as an adult I get it...even after conversations....So you may think you love her, you may think by saying to her you love her she will feel it but we all feel it in different ways. Read the book called "The five love languages of Children" by Gary Chapman.
Even when I asked my daughter to come or help setting table for dinner, she tuned me out and not getting out her room for 30 mins or even longer, one time she didn’t even came out until almost mid night.
We'll probably he has online friends there or he is going though something maybe his phone is the way how he cope with stress or distraction from overthinking from school
Uhhh. No... A rebellious child/teen is trying to send a message and challenge your authority. Punishing a child for acting out will only push them further away. Find out what the message is. Then start from there :)
I don’t understand why we have to so nice when they know everything for me nothing works when we r nice she says why r u being angle suddenly so far .i don’t know what Brain they have
All I hear is excuses life is full of boundaries rules and expectations. Not hard to live up to a couple of moral standards and do the right thing spare the garage spoil the child. Bottom line is that’s what’s wrong with kids up today this type of thinking.
YEah right! Reading the Bible and interprting it depends on how a person thinks, situations and intelligence. Too many religions uses the Bible to TIED down people.
Agreed! The Bible is clear about creating an enviroment of love, joy, and peace. 1. Show them unconditional love. 1 John 4:7-8 2. Speak life to them often. Proverbs 18:21 3. Support them in pursuing their divine design. Romans 12:6-8 4. Speak truth with grace. Ephesians 4:15 5. Learn their distress tolerance and do not nag them. Colossians 3:21 6. Teach them about God's love. Deuteronmy 6:6-7 7. Demonstrate integrity and walk upright before them. Titus 2:7-8 8. When they rebel, don't chase them. Luke 15:20 Wait on the porch with compassionate open arms. Psalm 103:13
as a teenager myself who's a Catholic I don't agree with you you should go and understand why your teen is rebellious you don't have to based everything about ur religion and stuff like that remember that your religion is just a belief and not a scientific fact, it's also not based on a psychology thing or whatever try communicating with them without forcing them and whatever you do do not invalidate them
@@aclintonmsu Thank you for this...I have been praying and praying to God to guide me to do a good job raising my son. I feel like I am failing at times...I will read all those passages. God bless you and your family.
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I have done all this. And it works for a day or two. Then the disrespect starts over again.
It takes time just keep trying. And if they are still being rebellious there might be an underlying issue behind their behavior. Also teens are never going to be 100% obedient so keep that in mind when you are parenting them.
Some kids just need consent reminders and a lot of patients
My teenage daughter does not like anything to do, like eating, studying, walking, maintaining her room etc. What should I do now to improve our relationship
My son is rebellious because he has diabetes and he hates being a diabetic and all the restrictions and care he needs but now everything is an argument and a fight ! But I found the video very helpful in reminding me to focus on one thing and not everything all at once and to understand his health condition must make him feel very powerless.
Hey Daniel its great to hear you , when you go through rough phase of such problems.
Thank you I'm really interesting and I'm watching from Papua new guinea.
You're welcome!
I’m so glad I found this channel. Many blessings
Blessings to you and your family too.
My son is 17.5 and only now hitting a really strong rebellious phase...he just told me he wants to move out of my house and live with his mom...Ive done basically everything you suggest. I realize theres probably not much I can do at this point...everything he brings up is about his feelings, he even acknowledges its not anything I do...what do I do with this!?
Disrespect,yelling and swearing,laziness in doing house responsibilities
Di doc I'm struggling from my son he is spoil. I'm single mom it's so so stressful for in my case
Outright defiance, willful disobedience, and procrastination are my problems with my 15 year old daughter. Today she told a teacher "F You" I am beyond words. I just left the school scolding her.
My son don't want to be checked time to time as he arrived at home his activities to complete. How could I motivate him to report his activities done at school?
When you say I feel you cannot focus on your school if you are still in the phone late? Teen: I don’t care 😢and continues , then what?
Right I’m dealing with that and we can truly discipline our kids anymore. We’re not allowed to like how we were disciplined or risk having a cps case. Smh. We have to nag them or do nothing. When they’re shut off they’re shut off. This is impossible.
My daughter can not accept a No answer when she wants something,she lie n hide things to us,she feel alone n unlove😢I'm an single mum n working overseas n my sister look after her since baby😢how can I deal with her pls help me coz I'm lost n deepres. Thank
My mom left us when we were teens, it was super hard for us. I had nightmares where I cursed and sweared to my mom, just to get a reaction and attention...All I wanted was her love, and even if she felt she loved me, I didn't feel it...Your daughter may just need you to be there with her and love her unconditionally, no matter what and even if. My mom was with us until I was 18. But I never got the love I wanted to get and the attention I wanted to get....Not even now as an adult I get it...even after conversations....So you may think you love her, you may think by saying to her you love her she will feel it but we all feel it in different ways. Read the book called "The five love languages of Children" by Gary Chapman.
My son was not listening to me when I asked him to bathe. He is rude to me too. I really don't know what to do.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope the tips in this video help the situation with your son.
A book? Do teens still read books?
Even when I asked my daughter to come or help setting table for dinner, she tuned me out and not getting out her room for 30 mins or even longer, one time she didn’t even came out until almost mid night.
I'm very sorry to hear about the frustrating situation. I hope you found this video helpful.
My 15 year old son does not communicate with us and always looking for a chance to use the phone
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope the tips in this video help you to get through to him.
@@AskDanielWong There are only 9 replies. Please Daniel address each one personally. You will come across more authentic that way.
We'll probably he has online friends there or he is going though something maybe his phone is the way how he cope with stress or distraction from overthinking from school
My parents gave up on my 14 year old sister and now I have to help her but she’s stubborn as hell (im 18 year old man btw)
Do you work with young adults
Yes, I do. Feel free to submit this contact form (www.daniel-wong.com/contact/) to tell me more about the situation.
My apprictation s not taking by using some other things
Uhhh. No... A rebellious child/teen is trying to send a message and challenge your authority. Punishing a child for acting out will only push them further away. Find out what the message is. Then start from there :)
I don’t understand why we have to so nice when they know everything for me nothing works when we r nice she says why r u being angle suddenly so far .i don’t know what Brain they have
All I hear is excuses life is full of boundaries rules and expectations. Not hard to live up to a couple of moral standards and do the right thing spare the garage spoil the child. Bottom line is that’s what’s wrong with kids up today this type of thinking.
News flash parents do have the power don’t like it go pay your own bills
Speak for yourself
Not everyone follows the Bible
Don’t listen to this guy follow the Bible you’ll get results. Trust me at work with my teenage son.
YEah right! Reading the Bible and interprting it depends on how a person thinks, situations and intelligence. Too many religions uses the Bible to TIED down people.
Agreed! The Bible is clear about creating an enviroment of love, joy, and peace.
1. Show them unconditional love. 1 John 4:7-8
2. Speak life to them often. Proverbs 18:21
3. Support them in pursuing their divine design. Romans 12:6-8
4. Speak truth with grace. Ephesians 4:15
5. Learn their distress tolerance and do not nag them. Colossians 3:21
6. Teach them about God's love. Deuteronmy 6:6-7
7. Demonstrate integrity and walk upright before them. Titus 2:7-8
8. When they rebel, don't chase them. Luke 15:20 Wait on the porch with compassionate open arms. Psalm 103:13
as a teenager myself who's a Catholic I don't agree with you you should go and understand why your teen is rebellious you don't have to based everything about ur religion and stuff like that remember that your religion is just a belief and not a scientific fact, it's also not based on a psychology thing or whatever try communicating with them without forcing them and whatever you do do not invalidate them
@@aclintonmsu Thank you for this...I have been praying and praying to God to guide me to do a good job raising my son. I feel like I am failing at times...I will read all those passages. God bless you and your family.