Hello Daniel, I am Ko Ko. I hope you are fine and busy everyday. Thanks for your great lessons. I am learning and taking action. I am sure and hope to get great result. By the way, I already tried to download your some free guide files from web page but didn't get reply message to my mail. Maybe something wrong. What should I do? Pls help. Thank you.
@@koaung9237 You're welcome. I'm sorry, I don't think I fully understand your comment. Could you please let me know which free guides you were trying to download? Are you saying that you entered your email address to download the free guides, but the guides were not sent to your email address?
Most of the time teenagers come tired of getting up early every morning to go to school and many of them like to go to bed late. When you ask them more openly to avoid a “good, fine or normal” they will answer you “I don’t know” = I am tired or I don’t want to talk.
Thank You Sir Dan. I much value your channel and find myself as a step Dad on a need of progress for my 3 step daughters. Being educated first is the 1st step for strong family values and I’m in 100% agreement to you, sensei 😊.
As a teen, I can say that "good job" or "well done" can actually be really encouraging, especially when your parents don't always say that. I think it's important to have a balance here, cuz if I am unmotivated or burnt out, a "good job" after an achievable is something that helps me get back on my feet
Im 21 and in school i was always a straight a student. However my mom never said things like: good job and things like that cuz she was "used" to my good grades. But sometimes it wouldve really helped :") im now in university and whenever i get a praise from a professor or tutor it makes my day
I understand very well your parents. I am grown also in a family ( all their generation) that never said „well done“ or so..and I see that I make the same mistake also with my children. It is the problem that nobody has taught us. These videos are very helpful😊. And I wish you good luck in the university! And Great job!😉
im having a challenging time getting my 13yr old grandson just to do basic chores like putting items in the trash or cleaning up behind himself. it so bad that we wind up fighing about simple things like washing a dish or cup my patience is wearing thin i am trying to find ways for him to open up to express why he feels like he does not have to help out around the house especially when its his mess.
I have the same issue with my kids. My 16 year old son is coming around, but my 13 year old son won't do anything. Part of the problem is I'm not consistent with asking them to do things at a particular time everyday. However my eldest is mowing the lawn which is great! I give him "currency" which means a monetary "worth" for completing the job and when he builds up enough currency, I'll buy him what he wants for the net worth if the work. So if he wants and item worth $200, he has to mow the lawn 10 times. Still working on the younger one.
He gets pocket money does he? Well surely it has conditions attached to it. These rewards resemble employer pay, it has work conditions attached. Prepare this young man for becoming a good spouse.
@a1cwillette I'm not giving him any money, actually. It's just the worth of the job. I have to tie some monetary value to a job so I don't have him asking for an item that cost $150 and he does nothing in the house to earn it in some way. I didn't get paid for mowing the lawn at home but I also did not have an issue with my parents buying something I really wanted.
My son is a good kid but he’s not motivated to do anything if I don’t tell him to. How to approach? He’s 15 doesn’t make friends offline of his games doesn’t speak to anybody first, he’s an introvert. How can you teach them to be outspoken if they don’t catch on? 😊
Same here. He tells me that his best friend is a kid that used to be in the same swim team. They are close friends through the ps5. And that’s ok but whenever I ask him if he’d like to hang out with him he says he doesn’t want people over. I’m not buying it.
My first time here and it seems as if you are speaking directly to me...the superpowers you have...haha. Thank you so much for the wealth of information which helps me with parenting. This is greatly appreciated.
Same here! It's so good to have this kind of support with being a parent. I'm a single mom of a 16-year-old son and I often feel like I don't know wtf I'm doing 😢.
As a kiddo of a nagging parent who constantly used #4 I can vouch for this. This lasted my entire college career, and needless to say I never went to graduate school. 😅
I completely understand what you saying so far with this video. I see that my son has become outcome-oriented recently and I hope to changed this because he become anxious and depressed and missed a lot school. We are currently in counseling because of this individual and family. Your video has open my eyes to some my mistakes that I have made without meaning to. My son calls my nagging - yapping because he's a little jerk - I asking to do chores around the house he treats more like a suggests and complains that he "too busy or too tired" this including the days the he does not even go to school. I will be watching your video on Lazy Teenager and Getting Your Teenager out of Bed soon.
Very much helpful tips and I feel we dint know so much on this earth to raise a teenager. Appreciate your effort to give us the apt points. Thanks a ton Sir Daniel
I love your videos, I am keeping my teen siblings since the passing of my parents and OMG do i get frustrated sometimes......thanks for these helpful tips!
I NEED HELP IM SO DISGUSTED WITH MYSELF I KNOW IM NOT PERFECT BUT I KNOW I LOVE AND CARE SO MUCH FOR MY BABY GIRLS I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE OUT OR THE GIRLS TO LOSE OUT ON OUR FAMILY !! I HAVE FAITH IN OUR LORD AND SAVIOR! PLEASE PRAY FOR US!!
Big thing for me when I was depressed teen was if you wanted me to do a chore or help, give me a time frame to get it done. Say "I would like help emptying the dishwasher today...could you do that sometime in the next 2 hours please?" That would make me feel way less resistant as I have more control.
Great advices! is practically what we do as parents our children, will learn , we are the role model , I need to change if I want changes in my teen! 😊
I work with teens daily. This is ridiculous! Lol I would be curious which studies you have to prove anything. Also, I can guarantee this will not work with any teen with behavioral issues.
Dude, I just watched this video with my 12 year old son and we both agreed this is horrible advice. I have no clue what kind of new age garbage advice this is. And my 12 year old agrees with me.... For once
My friend i dont know which planet you come from but what you are asking people to do is make the 17 year old be the parent and we the parent be the father.. that wont work
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Hello Daniel, I am Ko Ko. I hope you are fine and busy everyday. Thanks for your great lessons. I am learning and taking action. I am sure and hope to get great result.
By the way, I already tried to download your some free guide files from web page but didn't get reply message to my mail. Maybe something wrong. What should I do? Pls help. Thank you.
@@koaung9237 You're welcome. I'm sorry, I don't think I fully understand your comment. Could you please let me know which free guides you were trying to download? Are you saying that you entered your email address to download the free guides, but the guides were not sent to your email address?
I nag my teen mostly about using the phone
Thousands thanks and prayers to you Daniel 😊
You're welcome!
Most of the time teenagers come tired of getting up early every morning to go to school and many of them like to go to bed late. When you ask them more openly to avoid a “good, fine or normal” they will answer you “I don’t know” = I am tired or I don’t want to talk.
Thank You Sir Dan. I much value your channel and find myself as a step Dad on a need of progress for my 3 step daughters. Being educated first is the 1st step for strong family values and I’m in 100% agreement to you, sensei 😊.
“ you can do better “ destroyed my personality 🙂↕️i hated myself because i could never know what my better is.
I will never say this to my kids .
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As a teen, I can say that "good job" or "well done" can actually be really encouraging, especially when your parents don't always say that. I think it's important to have a balance here, cuz if I am unmotivated or burnt out, a "good job" after an achievable is something that helps me get back on my feet
Thanks for sharing! Yes, I think if it's done in moderation, saying "good job" can definitely be encouraging.
Im 21 and in school i was always a straight a student. However my mom never said things like: good job and things like that cuz she was "used" to my good grades. But sometimes it wouldve really helped :") im now in university and whenever i get a praise from a professor or tutor it makes my day
I understand very well your parents. I am grown also in a family ( all their generation) that never said „well done“ or so..and I see that I make the same mistake also with my children. It is the problem that nobody has taught us. These videos are very helpful😊. And I wish you good luck in the university! And Great job!😉
Being on the phone too much.
Cleaning up her dogs poop.
Doing things that supposed to do, without having to nag.. to her.
im having a challenging time getting my 13yr old grandson just to do basic chores like putting items in the trash or cleaning up behind himself. it so bad that we wind up fighing about simple things like washing a dish or cup my patience is wearing thin i am trying to find ways for him to open up to express why he feels like he does not have to help out around the house especially when its his mess.
I have the same issue with my kids. My 16 year old son is coming around, but my 13 year old son won't do anything. Part of the problem is I'm not consistent with asking them to do things at a particular time everyday. However my eldest is mowing the lawn which is great! I give him "currency" which means a monetary "worth" for completing the job and when he builds up enough currency, I'll buy him what he wants for the net worth if the work. So if he wants and item worth $200, he has to mow the lawn 10 times. Still working on the younger one.
He gets pocket money does he? Well surely it has conditions attached to it. These rewards resemble employer pay, it has work conditions attached. Prepare this young man for becoming a good spouse.
@@AR-pb2zhyour son is mowing the lawn because you pay him, not because he wants to contribute.
@a1cwillette I'm not giving him any money, actually. It's just the worth of the job. I have to tie some monetary value to a job so I don't have him asking for an item that cost $150 and he does nothing in the house to earn it in some way. I didn't get paid for mowing the lawn at home but I also did not have an issue with my parents buying something I really wanted.
Really helpful thankyou
You're welcome.
These are great recommendations Will use.
Hope they work well for you.
I thoroughly enjoyed this! Wow! I'm going to run this back a few times.
Glad you found it helpful!
These are great idea and easy. I will just have to work on remembering them.
Well said and easy to follow. Thank you
You are welcome!
My son is a good kid but he’s not motivated to do anything if I don’t tell him to. How to approach? He’s 15 doesn’t make friends offline of his games doesn’t speak to anybody first, he’s an introvert. How can you teach them to be outspoken if they don’t catch on? 😊
Same here. He tells me that his best friend is a kid that used to be in the same swim team. They are close friends through the ps5. And that’s ok but whenever I ask him if he’d like to hang out with him he says he doesn’t want people over. I’m not buying it.
Look up executive functioning.
My first time here and it seems as if you are speaking directly to me...the superpowers you have...haha. Thank you so much for the wealth of information which helps me with parenting. This is greatly appreciated.
Same here! It's so good to have this kind of support with being a parent. I'm a single mom of a 16-year-old son and I often feel like I don't know wtf I'm doing 😢.
@ We are in this together 💪💪. Sending you some encouragement and letting my you know that “you will get through this and look back and be thankful”.
Thanks. Very useful.
You're welcome.
As a kiddo of a nagging parent who constantly used #4 I can vouch for this. This lasted my entire college career, and needless to say I never went to graduate school. 😅
Great video and advice Daniel. A life saver. Thank you. 🙏
You're welcome!
Surprisingly few subs, your channel is so helpful! Thank you
You're welcome! Yes, I haven't published that many videos yet, but I hope to produce more content going forward. Thanks for your support!
thanks
You're welcome
Very informative, just wish I saw this years ago, very interesting, I appreciate this tip.
Glad it was helpful.
I completely understand what you saying so far with this video. I see that my son has become outcome-oriented recently and I hope to changed this because he become anxious and depressed and missed a lot school. We are currently in counseling because of this individual and family. Your video has open my eyes to some my mistakes that I have made without meaning to. My son calls my nagging - yapping because he's a little jerk - I asking to do chores around the house he treats more like a suggests and complains that he "too busy or too tired" this including the days the he does not even go to school. I will be watching your video on Lazy Teenager and Getting Your Teenager out of Bed soon.
Daniel,l just want to say Thank You so much!
With Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
You're most welcome :)
Thank you..
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I noticed you have worked hard making this video. I didn’t click like because I want you to remain focus oriented
Haha thanks!
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Very much helpful tips and I feel we dint know so much on this earth to raise a teenager. Appreciate your effort to give us the apt points. Thanks a ton Sir Daniel
You're welcome!
Thanks for the presentation! :)
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Great video, really learned alot.
Glad to hear that!
Thanks for sharing
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Very impressive super correct
Glad you think so!
I love your videos, I am keeping my teen siblings since the passing of my parents and OMG do i get frustrated sometimes......thanks for these helpful tips!
You're welcome, and wishing you all the best.
How do you get teens to stop saying inappropriate things for shock value?
@@katthefantastic ignor it
Im 39 and #4 is so true!
I always end up nagging about chores. Trying to come alongside them instead and provide company in doing them together.
I hope that works!
I NEED HELP IM SO DISGUSTED WITH MYSELF I KNOW IM NOT PERFECT BUT I KNOW I LOVE AND CARE SO MUCH FOR MY BABY GIRLS I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE OUT OR THE GIRLS TO LOSE OUT ON OUR FAMILY !! I HAVE FAITH IN OUR LORD AND SAVIOR! PLEASE PRAY FOR US!!
Please provide tips on how to motivate a teen under treatment for depression
Big thing for me when I was depressed teen was if you wanted me to do a chore or help, give me a time frame to get it done. Say "I would like help emptying the dishwasher today...could you do that sometime in the next 2 hours please?" That would make me feel way less resistant as I have more control.
I currently nag my son about being tidy and cleaning up after himself
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Informative
Thank you
Great advices! is practically what we do as parents our children, will learn , we are the role model , I need to change if I want changes in my teen! 😊
Well said!
Keep doing what is good brother
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So they don’t study and exams are coming up then what let them fail
Getting their chores done.
Ur videos, pdf 📚 really help me alot in my routine functioning. ..
I'm glad to be of help.
Good video! But I disagree with not telling your kid good job!
But he gave an alternative of what to say.
I’m nagging about their tones and phones
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I work with teens daily. This is ridiculous! Lol I would be curious which studies you have to prove anything. Also, I can guarantee this will not work with any teen with behavioral issues.
yes ❤
Like that
once again great vieo daniel
Thank you!
Hello, first time watching this video or any of your videos, question, do you have children?.
My apologies, just starting watching an heard you say you do have children.
@@charlee11127 No worries. Yes, I have 3 children and I feel like they make my life feel rather full!
These are hard pills
Clean your room don’t leave like a rat
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I all the time nag him for studies
Getting them to hurry yp
How can you be my teenager counselor?
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I have a 46 year old teen
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Dude, I just watched this video with my 12 year old son and we both agreed this is horrible advice. I have no clue what kind of new age garbage advice this is. And my 12 year old agrees with me.... For once
You've been coaching teens for 10 years.....well they di not behave and abuse you like they think the can do at home to their mother
If your teen is abusing you you should get therapy for yourself for how to handle it
My friend i dont know which planet you come from but what you are asking people to do is make the 17 year old be the parent and we the parent be the father.. that wont work
you are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you
Brush your teeth
Your speaking is very slow, I think you talk to stubborn grown ups 😁
You can speed the video so it talks faster