Hello Daniel, I am Ko Ko. I hope you are fine and busy everyday. Thanks for your great lessons. I am learning and taking action. I am sure and hope to get great result. By the way, I already tried to download your some free guide files from web page but didn't get reply message to my mail. Maybe something wrong. What should I do? Pls help. Thank you.
@@koaung9237 You're welcome. I'm sorry, I don't think I fully understand your comment. Could you please let me know which free guides you were trying to download? Are you saying that you entered your email address to download the free guides, but the guides were not sent to your email address?
As a teen, I can say that "good job" or "well done" can actually be really encouraging, especially when your parents don't always say that. I think it's important to have a balance here, cuz if I am unmotivated or burnt out, a "good job" after an achievable is something that helps me get back on my feet
My son is a good kid but he’s not motivated to do anything if I don’t tell him to. How to approach? He’s 15 doesn’t make friends offline of his games doesn’t speak to anybody first, he’s an introvert. How can you teach them to be outspoken if they don’t catch on? 😊
im having a challenging time getting my 13yr old grandson just to do basic chores like putting items in the trash or cleaning up behind himself. it so bad that we wind up fighing about simple things like washing a dish or cup my patience is wearing thin i am trying to find ways for him to open up to express why he feels like he does not have to help out around the house especially when its his mess.
I have the same issue with my kids. My 16 year old son is coming around, but my 13 year old son won't do anything. Part of the problem is I'm not consistent with asking them to do things at a particular time everyday. However my eldest is mowing the lawn which is great! I give him "currency" which means a monetary "worth" for completing the job and when he builds up enough currency, I'll buy him what he wants for the net worth if the work. So if he wants and item worth $200, he has to mow the lawn 10 times. Still working on the younger one.
He gets pocket money does he? Well surely it has conditions attached to it. These rewards resemble employer pay, it has work conditions attached. Prepare this young man for becoming a good spouse.
Thank You Sir Dan. I much value your channel and find myself as a step Dad on a need of progress for my 3 step daughters. Being educated first is the 1st step for strong family values and I’m in 100% agreement to you, sensei 😊.
My first time here and it seems as if you are speaking directly to me...the superpowers you have...haha. Thank you so much for the wealth of information which helps me with parenting. This is greatly appreciated.
I completely understand what you saying so far with this video. I see that my son has become outcome-oriented recently and I hope to changed this because he become anxious and depressed and missed a lot school. We are currently in counseling because of this individual and family. Your video has open my eyes to some my mistakes that I have made without meaning to. My son calls my nagging - yapping because he's a little jerk - I asking to do chores around the house he treats more like a suggests and complains that he "too busy or too tired" this including the days the he does not even go to school. I will be watching your video on Lazy Teenager and Getting Your Teenager out of Bed soon.
I love your videos, I am keeping my teen siblings since the passing of my parents and OMG do i get frustrated sometimes......thanks for these helpful tips!
Great advices! is practically what we do as parents our children, will learn , we are the role model , I need to change if I want changes in my teen! 😊
Big thing for me when I was depressed teen was if you wanted me to do a chore or help, give me a time frame to get it done. Say "I would like help emptying the dishwasher today...could you do that sometime in the next 2 hours please?" That would make me feel way less resistant as I have more control.
Very much helpful tips and I feel we dint know so much on this earth to raise a teenager. Appreciate your effort to give us the apt points. Thanks a ton Sir Daniel
I NEED HELP IM SO DISGUSTED WITH MYSELF I KNOW IM NOT PERFECT BUT I KNOW I LOVE AND CARE SO MUCH FOR MY BABY GIRLS I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE OUT OR THE GIRLS TO LOSE OUT ON OUR FAMILY !! I HAVE FAITH IN OUR LORD AND SAVIOR! PLEASE PRAY FOR US!!
I work with teens daily. This is ridiculous! Lol I would be curious which studies you have to prove anything. Also, I can guarantee this will not work with any teen with behavioral issues.
Dude, I just watched this video with my 12 year old son and we both agreed this is horrible advice. I have no clue what kind of new age garbage advice this is. And my 12 year old agrees with me.... For once
My friend i dont know which planet you come from but what you are asking people to do is make the 17 year old be the parent and we the parent be the father.. that wont work
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Hello Daniel, I am Ko Ko. I hope you are fine and busy everyday. Thanks for your great lessons. I am learning and taking action. I am sure and hope to get great result.
By the way, I already tried to download your some free guide files from web page but didn't get reply message to my mail. Maybe something wrong. What should I do? Pls help. Thank you.
@@koaung9237 You're welcome. I'm sorry, I don't think I fully understand your comment. Could you please let me know which free guides you were trying to download? Are you saying that you entered your email address to download the free guides, but the guides were not sent to your email address?
As a teen, I can say that "good job" or "well done" can actually be really encouraging, especially when your parents don't always say that. I think it's important to have a balance here, cuz if I am unmotivated or burnt out, a "good job" after an achievable is something that helps me get back on my feet
Thanks for sharing! Yes, I think if it's done in moderation, saying "good job" can definitely be encouraging.
“ you can do better “ destroyed my personality 🙂↕️i hated myself because i could never know what my better is.
I will never say this to my kids .
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My son is a good kid but he’s not motivated to do anything if I don’t tell him to. How to approach? He’s 15 doesn’t make friends offline of his games doesn’t speak to anybody first, he’s an introvert. How can you teach them to be outspoken if they don’t catch on? 😊
im having a challenging time getting my 13yr old grandson just to do basic chores like putting items in the trash or cleaning up behind himself. it so bad that we wind up fighing about simple things like washing a dish or cup my patience is wearing thin i am trying to find ways for him to open up to express why he feels like he does not have to help out around the house especially when its his mess.
I have the same issue with my kids. My 16 year old son is coming around, but my 13 year old son won't do anything. Part of the problem is I'm not consistent with asking them to do things at a particular time everyday. However my eldest is mowing the lawn which is great! I give him "currency" which means a monetary "worth" for completing the job and when he builds up enough currency, I'll buy him what he wants for the net worth if the work. So if he wants and item worth $200, he has to mow the lawn 10 times. Still working on the younger one.
He gets pocket money does he? Well surely it has conditions attached to it. These rewards resemble employer pay, it has work conditions attached. Prepare this young man for becoming a good spouse.
Thank You Sir Dan. I much value your channel and find myself as a step Dad on a need of progress for my 3 step daughters. Being educated first is the 1st step for strong family values and I’m in 100% agreement to you, sensei 😊.
I noticed you have worked hard making this video. I didn’t click like because I want you to remain focus oriented
Haha thanks!
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My first time here and it seems as if you are speaking directly to me...the superpowers you have...haha. Thank you so much for the wealth of information which helps me with parenting. This is greatly appreciated.
These are great idea and easy. I will just have to work on remembering them.
Surprisingly few subs, your channel is so helpful! Thank you
You're welcome! Yes, I haven't published that many videos yet, but I hope to produce more content going forward. Thanks for your support!
Very informative, just wish I saw this years ago, very interesting, I appreciate this tip.
Glad it was helpful.
I completely understand what you saying so far with this video. I see that my son has become outcome-oriented recently and I hope to changed this because he become anxious and depressed and missed a lot school. We are currently in counseling because of this individual and family. Your video has open my eyes to some my mistakes that I have made without meaning to. My son calls my nagging - yapping because he's a little jerk - I asking to do chores around the house he treats more like a suggests and complains that he "too busy or too tired" this including the days the he does not even go to school. I will be watching your video on Lazy Teenager and Getting Your Teenager out of Bed soon.
I always end up nagging about chores. Trying to come alongside them instead and provide company in doing them together.
I hope that works!
How do you get teens to stop saying inappropriate things for shock value?
I love your videos, I am keeping my teen siblings since the passing of my parents and OMG do i get frustrated sometimes......thanks for these helpful tips!
You're welcome, and wishing you all the best.
Daniel,l just want to say Thank You so much!
With Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
You're most welcome :)
thanks
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Great video and advice Daniel. A life saver. Thank you. 🙏
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Great advices! is practically what we do as parents our children, will learn , we are the role model , I need to change if I want changes in my teen! 😊
Well said!
Well said and easy to follow. Thank you
You are welcome!
Please provide tips on how to motivate a teen under treatment for depression
Big thing for me when I was depressed teen was if you wanted me to do a chore or help, give me a time frame to get it done. Say "I would like help emptying the dishwasher today...could you do that sometime in the next 2 hours please?" That would make me feel way less resistant as I have more control.
Very much helpful tips and I feel we dint know so much on this earth to raise a teenager. Appreciate your effort to give us the apt points. Thanks a ton Sir Daniel
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Thanks for the presentation! :)
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Thanks. Very useful.
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Thanks for sharing
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Great video, really learned alot.
Glad to hear that!
Thank you..
You're welcome
Getting their chores done.
Keep doing what is good brother
Good video! But I disagree with not telling your kid good job!
But he gave an alternative of what to say.
I NEED HELP IM SO DISGUSTED WITH MYSELF I KNOW IM NOT PERFECT BUT I KNOW I LOVE AND CARE SO MUCH FOR MY BABY GIRLS I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE OUT OR THE GIRLS TO LOSE OUT ON OUR FAMILY !! I HAVE FAITH IN OUR LORD AND SAVIOR! PLEASE PRAY FOR US!!
Very impressive super correct
Glad you think so!
Ur videos, pdf 📚 really help me alot in my routine functioning. ..
I'm glad to be of help.
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I currently nag my son about being tidy and cleaning up after himself
Informative
Thank you
So they don’t study and exams are coming up then what let them fail
I work with teens daily. This is ridiculous! Lol I would be curious which studies you have to prove anything. Also, I can guarantee this will not work with any teen with behavioral issues.
yes ❤
I’m nagging about their tones and phones
Getting them to hurry yp
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Like that
once again great vieo daniel
Thank you!
Hello, first time watching this video or any of your videos, question, do you have children?.
My apologies, just starting watching an heard you say you do have children.
@@charlee11127 No worries. Yes, I have 3 children and I feel like they make my life feel rather full!
I all the time nag him for studies
I have a 46 year old teen
How can you be my teenager counselor?
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You've been coaching teens for 10 years.....well they di not behave and abuse you like they think the can do at home to their mother
If your teen is abusing you you should get therapy for yourself for how to handle it
Clean your room don’t leave like a rat
Dude, I just watched this video with my 12 year old son and we both agreed this is horrible advice. I have no clue what kind of new age garbage advice this is. And my 12 year old agrees with me.... For once
My friend i dont know which planet you come from but what you are asking people to do is make the 17 year old be the parent and we the parent be the father.. that wont work
you are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣
Your speaking is very slow, I think you talk to stubborn grown ups 😁
Brush your teeth
Thank you