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"I like me, I would buy me a drink." Great quote. Now I gotta get myself there. "All in all, I'm a pretty good dude." That I agree with. Now I gotta get friendlier with myself. I should treat me more like I would treat a friend.
Trying to get there myself. I've honestly never considered myself a good person deserving of good things but I'm trying to fix it and hopefully do enough to make up for the bad.
In my opinion, these two were having two separate conversations. Chris was saying you have to do X, Y & Z to like yourself. Creek was saying, I like me regardless of X, Y and Z, and what I did in the past. I chose to like myself and integrate traits I like about others into myself, in order to like myself more. Not that you really have to do anything, just be and analyse yourself with more grace. I prefer Creek’s philosophy.
To be fair, you could mix the two together. Say for example that I like people who explore, not just physically (travelling) but also in life (new hobbies, new skills, new jobs, etc). If that's the criteria, it makes sense that I'd need to do X and Y to like "me". That said, impostor syndrome is a bitch and it is rooted in something deeper. I guess I just wanted to say that you should still do something, just don't expect to "do" and then having "it" be solved. It's both external and internal work.
@@MikeSeagroves yeah that’s a good interpretation also. I just think there’s a lot of emphasis on having to do something to like yourself in today’s world and then you’re worthy of liking yourself. Buddhist philosophy in realising you are before you achieve. I personally just like that philosophy and find it quite healing to a lot of people. Including myself.
There is no business out there that i can take on, there is no monetary endeavour that i can take on that is worth the gamble of me losing me.. Find someone you genuinely like, they're kind, gentle hardworking etc, and encorporate that into yourself. Gold right there 👏
I think it’s possible to just appreciate yourself outside of possessions, skills, mindsets, behaviours etc. Why put absolute confidence in things that can fade away or be stripped from you? We can love ourselves by simply being content, that we are a one of one human being. Truly unique. Nobody can take that from us.
I heard a Bob Dylan quote years ago where he said something to the effect of "Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself." That one always stuck with me.
8:54 or alternatively, find what you like about others and try to identify those characteristics in YOURSELF. If you can identify it in others, you can in yourself, and that helps too. It’s not foolproof. I still don’t like myself ALL of the time. I hate the choices that led me to where I am now, lonely at 41 with no hope of a future family with someone who loves me unconditionally. But I’m still here, trying to survive and be better. I’m the only one who ever showed up for me most of the time.
go to south-east asia and you can still find a woman willing and able to have a family with a man in his 40s of average American income. There are mistakes you can make in your selection but there are also great women out there.
“Find someone you like…” literally had this conversation with my kid again today. There are two role models in life, ones who exemplify behaviors you DO want to emulate and ones that exemplify behavior you DO NOT want to emulate. And even within each, there will be parts of the other; as we are multifaceted individuals. If you want to emulate a person, do what they do, think of how they would approach a situation and conduct yourself accordingly. Do not do the things, that the negative role models exemplifies, you find morally reprehensible. After time, you become a person that is neither a carbon copy nor antithesis of your role models but rather a unique individual, designed of your own morals and principles, that you deeply admire.
Can't believe I hit on this this morning perfect timing this was on my mind after visiting with my family this holiday, and I would definitely buy me a drink too 😊😊 even if some of my family members wouldn't ❤❤ yep I got lots of flaws what at 65 moving forward ⏩⏩ this is fabulous have a great day guys 💖💖
6 months after a seperation im starting to enjoy myself again. My time alone isnt truly alone. I have friends and close family to enjoy my hobbies with. Putting dating on the side burner for a while and enjoy living life to its fullest.
@@thewimo8298 i might sound cliché in saying this but time is the only healing factor. I miss the memories but there's new ones to be made and a whole lot of life in front of me. I sacrificed alot of my happiness to please her but I will not be doing that again. I enjoy my hobbies too much now lol. I hope and pray you have a speedy recovery though and find your new sense of normal
Hey man, enjoy it. I've been with women all my life, were obsessed about it, couldn't see myself on my own. At some point, I decided to let go and explore that "alone" way of life. Probably took over a year before it really kicked in. Now, damn, she'd have to be a really convincing woman to have me even consider living together. Not that it's a bad thing in itself, but it's so much more to life and I want to experience that as well. At some point again, maybe, probably. But yeah, enjoy life on your own man. There's more to life, and you, than lost love 🫡
That’s the obvious secret; the not-so-common common sense. I discovered this, myself, in 2017 but didn’t follow through until February 2019. I did not gain respect for myself until I stopped doing things that I found disrespectful. As soon as I began conducting myself in a disciplined, respectable manner that earned my own admiration, I quickly became a person that I enjoy and trust.
I genuinely hate myself. I consider myself a massive disappointment with few if any real qualities to speak of. It hurts but I literally don’t believe it’s possible for me to be any other way.
I was an ex junkie and did some pretty crappy things over the years. Stole, lied, was cold/unavailable in relationships, lots of drama etc. But I got clean and changed my ways. You cant help but remember some of the bad things you did in the past sometimes but it doesnt help to ruminate over it. Just be a better person than you were yesterday and dont make those same mistakes. When I find myself hung up about it on a rare occasuon, I think of Rafiki from The Lion King "It doesnt matter, its in the past".
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"I like me, I would buy me a drink."
Great quote.
Now I gotta get myself there.
"All in all, I'm a pretty good dude."
That I agree with.
Now I gotta get friendlier with myself.
I should treat me more like I would treat a friend.
Trying to get there myself. I've honestly never considered myself a good person deserving of good things but I'm trying to fix it and hopefully do enough to make up for the bad.
Well said, treat yourself how you would treat a true friend. If you need to, write it down and read it to yourself every morning and every night.
In my opinion, these two were having two separate conversations. Chris was saying you have to do X, Y & Z to like yourself.
Creek was saying, I like me regardless of X, Y and Z, and what I did in the past. I chose to like myself and integrate traits I like about others into myself, in order to like myself more. Not that you really have to do anything, just be and analyse yourself with more grace.
I prefer Creek’s philosophy.
To be fair, you could mix the two together. Say for example that I like people who explore, not just physically (travelling) but also in life (new hobbies, new skills, new jobs, etc). If that's the criteria, it makes sense that I'd need to do X and Y to like "me".
That said, impostor syndrome is a bitch and it is rooted in something deeper. I guess I just wanted to say that you should still do something, just don't expect to "do" and then having "it" be solved. It's both external and internal work.
I took it as Chris asking for steps to get to where Creek already is. You can’t just magically decide to like yourself one day.
@@AndréCarvalho-b4k agreed brother
@@MikeSeagroves yeah that’s a good interpretation also. I just think there’s a lot of emphasis on having to do something to like yourself in today’s world and then you’re worthy of liking yourself. Buddhist philosophy in realising you are before you achieve. I personally just like that philosophy and find it quite healing to a lot of people. Including myself.
There is no business out there that i can take on, there is no monetary endeavour that i can take on that is worth the gamble of me losing me..
Find someone you genuinely like, they're kind, gentle hardworking etc, and encorporate that into yourself.
Gold right there 👏
Im sitting here balling my eyes finally realising why I feel so horrible about myself. I snooze. I don't show up. I don't like myself.
I think it’s possible to just appreciate yourself outside of possessions, skills, mindsets, behaviours etc. Why put absolute confidence in things that can fade away or be stripped from you? We can love ourselves by simply being content, that we are a one of one human being. Truly unique. Nobody can take that from us.
What I like is seeing these two men together, different ages and different life experiences...learning from each other
I feel this. Thank you
I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to be.
I heard a Bob Dylan quote years ago where he said something to the effect of "Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself." That one always stuck with me.
I need to write this down. Thank you.
@@KaiMarcad it’s a Carl Jung quote
Luv your Neighbour as yourself, thanks for this
8:54 or alternatively, find what you like about others and try to identify those characteristics in YOURSELF. If you can identify it in others, you can in yourself, and that helps too.
It’s not foolproof. I still don’t like myself ALL of the time. I hate the choices that led me to where I am now, lonely at 41 with no hope of a future family with someone who loves me unconditionally. But I’m still here, trying to survive and be better. I’m the only one who ever showed up for me most of the time.
You can and will improve your situation if you are open, honest and working on it. I believe in you. Best wishes!
go to south-east asia and you can still find a woman willing and able to have a family with a man in his 40s of average American income. There are mistakes you can make in your selection but there are also great women out there.
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“Arrogance is pride mixed with ignorance”. How ‘bout that for some self-reflective humble pie!?!
“Find someone you like…” literally had this conversation with my kid again today.
There are two role models in life, ones who exemplify behaviors you DO want to emulate and ones that exemplify behavior you DO NOT want to emulate. And even within each, there will be parts of the other; as we are multifaceted individuals.
If you want to emulate a person, do what they do, think of how they would approach a situation and conduct yourself accordingly.
Do not do the things, that the negative role models exemplifies, you find morally reprehensible.
After time, you become a person that is neither a carbon copy nor antithesis of your role models but rather a unique individual, designed of your own morals and principles, that you deeply admire.
I’m so excited to see this, this is the collaboration we needed!!!
Dwayne needs to talk to theo von
You need to talk to yourself
Nice to see you again cowboy🤠
“you can’t love someone else if you don’t love yourself”.
I understand that very well and it hurts me still.
I like me 🙌🏼❤️🩹
I don't like you
Joke, that's a joke. I'm sure you're amazing bro 🙏
I like you too!
@@calebturner8228 🤝🏼nice of you
@@calebturner8228 whatever😅still buying my self a coffee
At the end if you had more positives then negatives I would call that a good life
Who should accept the lowest in you, if you do not?
Can't believe I hit on this this morning perfect timing this was on my mind after visiting with my family this holiday, and I would definitely buy me a drink too 😊😊 even if some of my family members wouldn't ❤❤ yep I got lots of flaws what at 65 moving forward ⏩⏩ this is fabulous have a great day guys 💖💖
I would love to go on a date with me❤
I like you to too.
6 months after a seperation im starting to enjoy myself again. My time alone isnt truly alone. I have friends and close family to enjoy my hobbies with. Putting dating on the side burner for a while and enjoy living life to its fullest.
In the process of learning it myself, its only been 2 months so far here. While i am not alone either, i often feel lonely.
@@thewimo8298 i might sound cliché in saying this but time is the only healing factor. I miss the memories but there's new ones to be made and a whole lot of life in front of me. I sacrificed alot of my happiness to please her but I will not be doing that again. I enjoy my hobbies too much now lol. I hope and pray you have a speedy recovery though and find your new sense of normal
Hey man, enjoy it.
I've been with women all my life, were obsessed about it, couldn't see myself on my own.
At some point, I decided to let go and explore that "alone" way of life.
Probably took over a year before it really kicked in.
Now, damn, she'd have to be a really convincing woman to have me even consider living together.
Not that it's a bad thing in itself, but it's so much more to life and I want to experience that as well.
At some point again, maybe, probably.
But yeah, enjoy life on your own man.
There's more to life, and you, than lost love 🫡
Chris' forearms are cartoonish at this and yes, I'm jealous.
just change yourself into someone you can like
I love that statement. Well said!
That’s the obvious secret; the not-so-common common sense. I discovered this, myself, in 2017 but didn’t follow through until February 2019.
I did not gain respect for myself until I stopped doing things that I found disrespectful. As soon as I began conducting myself in a disciplined, respectable manner that earned my own admiration, I quickly became a person that I enjoy and trust.
@@Alpha1Farms similar story for me as well
✌️‼️✌️
Well, its not like you can leave your own body. So you’re forced to like you.
Not necessarily- lot of self hate out there
No
I genuinely hate myself. I consider myself a massive disappointment with few if any real qualities to speak of. It hurts but I literally don’t believe it’s possible for me to be any other way.
@@Garrus1995 Learn to forgive yourself
@ How? Like literally, I can’t even begin to fathom that.
What if you shouldnt like yourself because your actually a horrible person?
That’s the real question. Once you’ve done stuff that’s worthy of disliking someone else for, how could you like yourself again?
Change
I was an ex junkie and did some pretty crappy things over the years. Stole, lied, was cold/unavailable in relationships, lots of drama etc. But I got clean and changed my ways. You cant help but remember some of the bad things you did in the past sometimes but it doesnt help to ruminate over it. Just be a better person than you were yesterday and dont make those same mistakes.
When I find myself hung up about it on a rare occasuon, I think of Rafiki from The Lion King "It doesnt matter, its in the past".
You can still change. You can still regret and make amends. It might take some time. Truth and love is the way.
Your mistakes do not define you. As long as you are willing to do better, you are not an amalgamation of your mistakes.
Chris why do you sound like a robot? Whose your dad? IBM
1st comment!
A little bit of narcissism is a good thing
I think that is ego, and ego can be a good thing
First
You're over the 3 million mark, so how about another Q&A to celebrate?
Take off the cowboy hat , I BET HE'S BALD😂❤😅😊
But he likes him self 😊
Shame on yall for talking like that
id buy me an 8 ball
Bro fell off
Who did? And explain in which way.