Be Different, Be Unique… Be You

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @nathancarranza9860
    @nathancarranza9860 Год назад +10022

    When you’re literally just sitting and talking - no editing, no special effects, no clowning around to entertain, no talking fast to keep people engaged - and people attentively listen, watch, and subscribe, that is what happens when someone actually has something of true value to say. This guy is the real deal. I’m not fan boying; it’s simply refreshing to see this still exists.

  • @Katzz33355
    @Katzz33355 11 месяцев назад +1629

    You're a good man, Arthur Morgan

    • @Timothy_Himothy1
      @Timothy_Himothy1 9 месяцев назад +15

      😂

    • @DrTreYoutubeMusicOfficial
      @DrTreYoutubeMusicOfficial 9 месяцев назад +45

      I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought about Arthur lol.

    • @KuKuDJiK
      @KuKuDJiK 9 месяцев назад +6

      I know it!

    • @luiss5125
      @luiss5125 9 месяцев назад

      "You're an angry and feck ugky man, but not a bad one"

    • @yasserkaid
      @yasserkaid 9 месяцев назад +5

      ​​@@KuKuDJiKme too 😅

  • @kevinyanezmartinez6121
    @kevinyanezmartinez6121 Год назад +2480

    This man is the uncle we all wish we had

    • @noble_lemon
      @noble_lemon Год назад +111

      Arthur Morgan we all wish we had

    • @dallassunsru1187
      @dallassunsru1187 Год назад +3

      I can’t wait to watch him get ads can’t believe there’s no ads on these videos

    • @jaymartholytree4639
      @jaymartholytree4639 Год назад +37

      the uncle that doesn't have lumbago

    • @klumpit1230
      @klumpit1230 Год назад +9

      @@noble_lemon brudda took a different life in rdr2 and is now making youtube videos being a wise old man 🙏

    • @williamm4442
      @williamm4442 Год назад +8

      I had a uncle like him. Hes he's gone now but he was just like him.

  • @IraolaShushi
    @IraolaShushi 10 месяцев назад +797

    You’re a good man Arthur Morgan

  • @maxshowler
    @maxshowler 10 месяцев назад +656

    This man is the Uncle we all need, without Lumbago

    • @CurrentNetPriceTanaka
      @CurrentNetPriceTanaka 9 месяцев назад +20

      He may not have Lumbago, but he's still the One-Shot Kid

    • @yickjas
      @yickjas 8 месяцев назад +5

      Have a little pitty will you?

    • @j.f.productions2463
      @j.f.productions2463 4 месяца назад +1

      @@yickjasyou don’t get it do you? 😂

    • @EvianDurden
      @EvianDurden 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@yickjasUncle es un personaje de Red Dead Redemption que tiene lumbago, no se refiere a que Dewayne tenga lumbago.

    • @yickjas
      @yickjas 2 месяца назад

      ​@@EvianDurden No entendiste

  • @Military-gradenutella3068
    @Military-gradenutella3068 Год назад +644

    “Be yourself; everyone else is taken.” -Oscar Wilde

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 Год назад +1

      That sounds so high schoolish

    • @10draperful
      @10draperful Год назад +33

      ​@@joshuabuchanan1141that's alright. Simplicity is good

    • @piperlmao
      @piperlmao 5 месяцев назад

      i love oscar wilde.

    • @dravenn2632
      @dravenn2632 2 месяца назад

      Not bad. I’m a blood Wilde myself.

  • @Stormborn_717
    @Stormborn_717 Год назад +910

    Thank you, uncle Arthur.

  • @Feed_The_Kids
    @Feed_The_Kids Год назад +787

    Being yourself is less stressful, no need to keep up with trends. No anxiety when it comes to impressing others. Just walk thru this world to the beat of your own drum. And make sure you build that drum. Therefore the beat will forever be true to who you are.

    • @bhm_b00zemanz35
      @bhm_b00zemanz35 Год назад +18

      Hit the nail on the head. Being as raw as possible has helped me out as well. Think what you say and say what you think sorta dealio

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 Год назад +2

      Pretty impossible to do so since they're are billions of people in the world

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 Год назад

      I'd rather do the exact opposite, you know why, because a lot of people don't realize is that being "different" or "unique" is actually really boring

    • @brothercarlos6944
      @brothercarlos6944 Год назад

      Being yourself is so much better then follow a bunch of kiss asses, people pleasing loser and simps… follow your own how cares what society does

    • @noba239
      @noba239 Год назад +4

      @@joshuabuchanan1141different ways to think about it.

  • @serkg4672
    @serkg4672 10 месяцев назад +292

    Real Life Arthur Morgan.
    This is beautiful.

  • @YourLocalR3NecK
    @YourLocalR3NecK 7 месяцев назад +114

    “I would rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not.” -Kurt Kobain

  • @Buddlebot
    @Buddlebot Год назад +56

    This dude makes more sense than my entire generation.

  • @jpytvid
    @jpytvid Год назад +1078

    I appreciate your unedited, calm, empathetic, straight talk style, it feels like a conversation with someone I want to learn from. Merry Christmas

    • @clareeastman337
      @clareeastman337 Год назад +12

      Our college son showed me this gentleman while it was blizzarding out.

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 Год назад +3

      @@clareeastman337 Great descriptor. Cowboy gentleman fits him to a "Tee" as they say.

    • @studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272
      @studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272 Год назад

      And ... 😳trustworthy 🤠🤗🥃

  • @mariaclaradeoliveira5307
    @mariaclaradeoliveira5307 Год назад +1868

    As a 23 year old woman I'm just now starting to fully accept myself - I don't care for clubbing, drinking or dressing in revealing clothes like so many around me seem to do. It's truly freeing! Thank you for your videos! :)

    • @SlayerRiley
      @SlayerRiley Год назад +94

      God bless sis, stay strong, stay pure :)

    • @RagnarLothbrok2222
      @RagnarLothbrok2222 Год назад +77

      Find a good man, get married, have a bunch of kids. You will be WAY happier than your peers who party away their 20’s.

    • @aisling3765
      @aisling3765 Год назад +331

      ​@@RagnarLothbrok2222 I think only she knows what could make her happy. Your advice is no different from the influence of the media, it's just on the other side of the spectrum.

    • @jiama8628
      @jiama8628 Год назад +31

      realizing those things in early 20s is a bless

    • @dinosaursorsomething6940
      @dinosaursorsomething6940 Год назад +192

      @@RagnarLothbrok2222 only have kids if you truly desire them and know you can give them your everything. "just have kids" is bad advice. some people are better being aunts and uncles to other children, caretakers, etc. it's ok to not have kids. just be a good person.

  • @Josh12877
    @Josh12877 10 месяцев назад +226

    I am a 15 year old that has lived on a farm in Mississippi my howl life, and I dress the exact way you do sir and so does my dad. And no matter what they say to me I will not change my mind about the way I dress because it makes me feel happy, and thats what important. Yall be who you wanna be don’t let the sheep keep you on their level.

    • @tarus94
      @tarus94 10 месяцев назад +23

      Hey man dont change how you look, people may call you strange or bad names but remember that its better to be different than to be "normal" but becoming souless and unhappy. Im 15 too and hope everything goes good with you.

    • @Samppa_linna
      @Samppa_linna 9 месяцев назад +9

      I turn 20 this year and I decided that this year I will start finding myself - figure out who the hell I am. I wish you all the best on your journey!
      Oh and by the way - there could be a girl from the countryside who is looking for a man like you. So your style could very well be an advantage ;)

    • @claypierce6967
      @claypierce6967 8 месяцев назад +1

      I want to see a farm and live there it seems interesting. I live in a small town in Massachusetts around 30k people so it would be very different

    • @pootisbird7280
      @pootisbird7280 6 месяцев назад

      In my experience, the more eccentric you dress, the better you look. I've recently started wearing great coats and button-down shirts, and using pocket watches and wearing trilby hats. I've received more compliments in the last two weeks than I have my entire life.

    • @Rhin0Din0
      @Rhin0Din0 2 месяца назад

      I think this style is very charming and the older you get the better it'll look. keep being you!

  • @kingjunkyview
    @kingjunkyview 10 месяцев назад +63

    Confidence=Knowing Yourself. Such a practical equation to live by. Thank you for sharing!

  • @catanzop
    @catanzop Год назад +377

    I am 57 years old and am a two time cancer survivor. Not particularly confident with myself lately. But I am appreciating your wisdom. Thanks.

    • @G0D_1
      @G0D_1 11 месяцев назад +10

      I wish you a great life ahead. I hope you find your confidence sir. Confidence is a thing which comes and goes. It’s matter of time, have faith in god and yourself. Good Luck 😇🙏

    • @w.w.8535
      @w.w.8535 10 месяцев назад +28

      Destroying cancer two times?! Sounds like a warrior if you ask me, takes a lot of strength to push through that. Keep at it brother!

    • @ItsMercerBaby
      @ItsMercerBaby 10 месяцев назад +11

      You passed on death twice. You shouldn’t be worried about confidence. You are confidence itself

    • @bcsc1255
      @bcsc1255 10 месяцев назад +9

      Bro you’re 2-0 against a deadly disease, that’s seriously badass. I get being down on yourself and feeling less confident, but you’re damn near bullet proof. 🫡much respect

    • @tonyallen829
      @tonyallen829 9 месяцев назад +2

      Dont trip about being unconfident. Alot of us are but you are courage itself as long as you manifest it in your own mind. God bless you and I'm sure the road ahead for you will be good. Just remember your courage itself that's what helps me. ❤ *Grammer edit

  • @LongdistanceRider22
    @LongdistanceRider22 Год назад +223

    When I grew up …Being Different was a sign of Independence! Merry Christmas to everyone who watches this channel !

    • @hijackedmemes6988
      @hijackedmemes6988 Год назад +4

      I’m a leader and I like to build and create, help inspire people. It’s good to be comfortable with yourself and not stress about what others think it never bothers me. That’s how I live my life keep that positive energy and my circles small. Only the real ones with me. 💯

    • @chefgiovanni
      @chefgiovanni Год назад +2

      @@hijackedmemes6988 Same here. I am a Chef , a teacher and a fearless leader. I have travelled around the world and seen so many cultures. Social media is a huge problem. In reality, however, it is far much better to build a small inner circle. This is because quantity does not always translate to quality. By opting for a larger circle, you are less likely to have strong bonds with these people, which in turn means that these people are going to have a smaller impact on your life.🌞 💯
      Dwayne, Thank you for sharing these positive thoughts.

  • @MrTobi013
    @MrTobi013 Год назад +624

    Thank you Uncle Dewayne for apparently coming into my life when I needed an older male figure to help me through things. I didn't know I needed you, but God knew and said differently and thus, here we are. I hope you and Ma have a very beautiful holiday season and may you be and stay blessed for the rest of your days. Thank you always for all your wisdom kind sir!

    • @georgedanielsbiz
      @georgedanielsbiz Год назад +22

      That’s basically Arthur Morgan who survived and got old ❤

    • @mitcHELLOworld
      @mitcHELLOworld Год назад +3

      @@georgedanielsbiz 🤣

    • @woahglass49
      @woahglass49 Год назад +11

      @@georgedanielsbiz yeah without all the killing 😂 merry Christmas and praise God

    • @levigivens
      @levigivens Год назад

      @@georgedanielsbiz Ugh. A sheep who only knows video games. Keep it to yourself

    • @horned_Eschelon
      @horned_Eschelon Год назад +2

      Agreed!

  • @beautyforashes23
    @beautyforashes23 Год назад +51

    What makes us unique is having the courage to follow the convictions of our heart. Great reminder!

  • @UncleGo67
    @UncleGo67 16 дней назад +5

    The Hardest Person to Ever Be is YOURSELF

  • @richardwilkinson2388
    @richardwilkinson2388 Год назад +287

    Another wise, calm, thought out, simple, intuitive, no drama, life lesson, keep teaching us, thank you.

    • @Dimarious.G
      @Dimarious.G 11 месяцев назад

      Or which is more likely:
      Keep giving you the feel of have been tought of something when actually you haven't 😂

  • @maianhdao986
    @maianhdao986 Год назад +306

    Feels like I'm a little girl sitting face to face with a warm and friendly uncle sharing experiences and wisdom about life. True. With social media everywhere and pressure from society and people, I feel drowned and exhausted trying to follow. Thank you for making this to give assurance that it is okay to be different to be YOU.

  • @cropsey7412
    @cropsey7412 Год назад +459

    I'm a European and I like listening to your videos a lot. Something about cowboy self-help philosophy... I can't explain it, it is strangely soothing, even for someone who hasn't been for one second in the US. I have been trying to work on myself for almost 3 years now, and I plan to improve significantly in 2023. I'm planning to quit porn forever, improve my physical shape and learn and read and meet new people. I'm quite lonely, but your videos have helped me feeling better about it. Thanks a lot.

    • @DavidLopez-rk6em
      @DavidLopez-rk6em Год назад +34

      Good luck stranger. Im in the same position as you. You're not alone!

    • @gideonmele1556
      @gideonmele1556 Год назад +36

      Stay strong internet person, it’s a journey. Well wishes, mate. I hope this is the start of the best chapters of your life
      Cheers from a youtube commenter

    • @Badreddine96
      @Badreddine96 Год назад +9

      Good luck friend as they say you're not alone

    • @rogerluizdenardi2575
      @rogerluizdenardi2575 Год назад +9

      Wish you all the best buddy, the world is yours

    • @olddini
      @olddini Год назад +8

      wish you luck man

  • @imjustmekai6176
    @imjustmekai6176 10 месяцев назад +17

    He seems like a calm and reasonable person

  • @Arthur-dq6cv
    @Arthur-dq6cv 10 месяцев назад +39

    Thank, you Arthur Morgan.

    • @ClaireA-b9o
      @ClaireA-b9o 9 месяцев назад

      Santa Clause is 75% of the reason to be a Christian. Love grace mercy and compassion are the other 25%, because even nonchristians value that if they’re smart

    • @ClaireA-b9o
      @ClaireA-b9o 9 месяцев назад

      (Teasing)

  • @NasirEMU
    @NasirEMU Год назад +92

    The strong sense of honor, integrity, and freedom that I feel by being myself is priceless. It’s something I will never regret having.

  • @kristilu1987
    @kristilu1987 Год назад +266

    I am 35 year old woman and I love your videos. You have so much wisdom in you. Sometimes I watch your talks and think that my uncle would love that. Sadly, he died two years ago from cancer, but I wanna tell him right now: dear uncle, great men is still out there and you would really enjoy what this man have to say. Bless you and your family! Greetings from Lithuania

    • @AZrakoon
      @AZrakoon Год назад +5

      I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @kristilu1987
      @kristilu1987 Год назад +3

      @Ernestas Lūža smagu matyti lietuvį :) Aš net pati nesupratau, kaip šiam moderniam efektų ir įspūdžių pasauly buvau pasiilgus žmogaus, kuris tiesiog visiškai paprastai sėdi su cigaru ir kalbasi apie gyvenimą

    • @mccameralt8535
      @mccameralt8535 Год назад +2

      Užuojauta dėl netekties. Nuostabu, kad matau, jog ir kiti lietuviai žiūri šio kaubojaus video. Raminantys ir įdomūs.

  • @sunnni_
    @sunnni_ Год назад +315

    I'm 26 and for the first time in my life, I am happy with doing things that actually make me happy. I love the quirky, nerdy things that I love to do and finally have met ppl who will accept that when growing up, I was a people pleaser and was miserable. Nothing like being yourself and loving yourself truthfully

    • @obedbizoshika
      @obedbizoshika Год назад +1

      What's your ig ? For some reason I'm curious bout you

    • @Mzlady1212
      @Mzlady1212 11 месяцев назад +1

      💯💯

  • @treverthompson1384
    @treverthompson1384 Год назад +41

    Im turning 50 and hearing what you said in this video has me tearing up cause. I have lost everything i owned in this world and lost all so called friends and now buried in debt. while tryin to keep up with the jones's trying to fit in. Im in process of trying to find myself and my heart is leading towards the country life after whole life if being a city slicker. Thank you for your words of wisdom 🙏🏼

    • @luissalas5594
      @luissalas5594 Год назад +3

      You don't lost everything...if you got yourself!
      Im 50 too!

    • @MargaretLPike
      @MargaretLPike 10 месяцев назад +2

      Blessings to you, hope you find yourself and happiness.😊

    • @philomenamagill700
      @philomenamagill700 9 месяцев назад +1

      I hope you are okay now, Keep your chin up ❤

  • @sosa41604
    @sosa41604 Год назад +16

    Very sweet video. Thank you Arthur Morgan

  • @jonesaffrou6014
    @jonesaffrou6014 Год назад +236

    being unauthentic also leads to relationships destined to fail, can't fake it forever and you become a different person all of a sudden
    and mad respect to you for reading about christmas and deciding that's something you don't embrace, changing your mind in light of new information takes bravery many don't have

    • @HappyPawsUK
      @HappyPawsUK Год назад +6

      In todays world most people are playing characters

    • @cashcalum3140
      @cashcalum3140 Год назад

      @@HappyPawsUKit’s strange because I know I’m sort of doing it too? I’m not really on social media, so I’m not doing it to the full extent, not so much playing a character as restricting my own out of insecurity or fear people won’t like me. Sad but this video kind of made me conscious of it, maybe I can work on bringing me out of me.

    • @HappyPawsUK
      @HappyPawsUK 11 месяцев назад

      I doubt 99% of people in relationships these days are authentic ,most of you people are playing character merely clones of your idols wether it’s looks or character.being authentic will lead to relationship break downs.your comment is proof of the mediocre.the fake (or generic ) are loved while the real authentic critical thinkers are hater .in Todays world generic behaviour is favoured over true authentic humans

    • @jonesaffrou6014
      @jonesaffrou6014 11 месяцев назад

      @@HappyPawsUK basically not true unless your "real self" is saying socially unacceptable and hateful things, then yes you will be ostracized, and it's kinda how human society always worked

  • @StewartFletcher
    @StewartFletcher Год назад +1008

    "You won't find confidence in yourself if you don't know who yourself is" THAT is so profound and yet, so simple that it blows my mind.
    THANK YOU

    • @godsangel67able
      @godsangel67able Год назад +2

      The truth!!

    • @Dimarious.G
      @Dimarious.G 11 месяцев назад +2

      If you impressed by that then this should blow your mind:
      the sun is hot and water is wet -- 🤯
      Srsly: some living stereotype guy is just chewing up some obviousity and pretending it is wisdom 🤭

    • @hellothere3609
      @hellothere3609 11 месяцев назад

      @@Dimarious.G I'm not so sure about the 'pretending' part, if I'm being honest with you.
      But everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

    • @r.a.l.27
      @r.a.l.27 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@Dimarious.G Pfffftt I'm sorry but I just had to commend you for making me laugh with that comment 😂 To be so triggered about what random people are saying/reacting to on the internet is wild 😂

  • @Bloodworia
    @Bloodworia Год назад +158

    Enlisting in the Military really changed my perspective on civilian life. I grew more confident in myself, it gave me the foundation to develop a personality i am satisfied with. I just don't give a shit about popular things, it is all irrelevant. People are busting themselves up over things that don't matter. I am just happy with what i am doing and that i can finally show my parents that i can support myself and even give back to thank them for feeding this piece of meat through many troublesome years. People care too much about other people and too little about themselves. Don't be an egoist, but do what makes you happy.

    • @ltcajh
      @ltcajh Год назад +9

      26 1/2 years of Air Force enlisted, and Army officer, definitely made a difference in my life. Painful? Oh yeah! Was it worth it, looking back? Yes.

    • @patrycja2696
      @patrycja2696 Год назад

      Beautifuly said :)

  • @potatogaming4570
    @potatogaming4570 Год назад +14

    Thank you mr morgan🙏

  • @ToshiSanglir-qx3cn
    @ToshiSanglir-qx3cn 10 месяцев назад +14

    Being you, the real you, the true you is an effort in this highly influential social media craze world, but worth every effort. Thanks for your wisdom.

  • @I_Dislike_YouTube_Handles
    @I_Dislike_YouTube_Handles Год назад +131

    As a teenager that used to have social anxiety, I was trapped in that mindset of, "I'll just become more confident once I fit into the image that people think I am." and it made me miserable anytime I actually went and talked to people, only once I accepted all the parts of me, both good despite my humility, and ugly, despite my ego, and was able to show those parts to all, I was able to be much more relaxed and confident. Sometimes all it takes is someone like you to tell it how it is for us to break through our false perceptions, thanks for all the advice Dewayne :D

  • @WyomingWonders
    @WyomingWonders Год назад +415

    You are "the Salt of the Earth" --- my deceased partner would have enjoyed your channel. He passed 2 years this month, January 2021, of a massive heart attack. He was a cowboy. We enjoyed riding in the Wyoming Wilderness, where you could be yourself without needing to impress anyone. I appreciate your channel and teachings of integrity and grit.

    • @PressureTvReviews
      @PressureTvReviews Год назад +8

      My condolences, I have heart issues myself.

    • @deanwood4261
      @deanwood4261 Год назад

      My condolences, I've been one 9 yrs I can relate with you

    • @deanwood4261
      @deanwood4261 Год назад

      Alone

    • @TherealSIRenity
      @TherealSIRenity Год назад

      May he Rest In Peace and tranquillity ☀️🙏🏿

    • @TherealSIRenity
      @TherealSIRenity Год назад

      @@PressureTvReviewssending healing energy your way ❤️🙏🏿

  • @cjcustomwelding
    @cjcustomwelding Год назад +73

    It took me years of discomfort and failure to realize how to develop as my own person. Especially when it comes to my art or the way I work, even down to how I like to cut and cook my bacon. Got rid of the booze and drugs, quit all social media, and saw a massive improvement over the last couple of months. Life is what you make it, so make it yours!

  • @s.shlagen9773
    @s.shlagen9773 5 месяцев назад +5

    “I guess there’s about 8 billion people on this planet but there’s only one “you” “ man you really killed it with that sentence

  • @josematheussw5007
    @josematheussw5007 Год назад +6

    Anyone Brazilian here? Really a good video! Thanks from Brazil!🇧🇷

    • @LEOJFAC
      @LEOJFAC 4 месяца назад

      Manys🇧🇷

  • @marianamartinez4106
    @marianamartinez4106 Год назад +1149

    I am Muslim women, I am mom and that’s my career. I like slow living but I’m not there yet. I really enjoyed this video it helps to get remainders specially raising little ones to teach them to be them now rather than getting influenced by their peers or media world. May God protect our world 🌎

    • @BeamingTerror
      @BeamingTerror Год назад +52

      May Allah bless you sister and protect and keep your family on the straight path🤲🤲

    • @Rip_in_son
      @Rip_in_son Год назад +10

      your a dying breed your family is lucky to have you god bless.

    • @waterkipje4023
      @waterkipje4023 Год назад +14

      You sound like you're a great mother!

    • @grimsobad8545
      @grimsobad8545 Год назад +3

      @@BeamingTerror can i remove my hijab now?

    • @grimsobad8545
      @grimsobad8545 Год назад +1

      @Zhizha just curious…can they?

  • @jimwilliams9841
    @jimwilliams9841 Год назад +164

    Excellent message! I spent many years just trying to figure out who I am, now at age 53 I've figured out that it's best to stop trying to be somebody else and be happy with who God made ME! Now that I know who I am, I can spend the rest of my years being the best ME that I can be!

    • @firebird77clonefirebird89
      @firebird77clonefirebird89 Год назад +5

      I'm 53 too.
      I'm still figuring it out.
      I've never had the money to follow fashion. And I really don't care.
      I try to look nice but I tend to stand out.

    • @archaicwisdom69
      @archaicwisdom69 Год назад

      Same horse my friend, I've lacked quality mentors in my life, and I'm 53 as well

    • @dethslaker1990
      @dethslaker1990 Год назад

      How do you determine who is you, is it following your emotions or is it about just dpijg what feels right?

  • @anneaudino1111
    @anneaudino1111 Год назад +79

    Merry Christmas! Gonna be 40 in March, still a young lady. As a women I enjoy your talks. Many men need to here what you speak on.

  • @littleman4888
    @littleman4888 10 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks, Cowboy. You hit the nail on the head.

  • @santiagohernandezespina2645
    @santiagohernandezespina2645 11 месяцев назад +2

    Life can seem so complicated nowadays, but this dude makes it look simple. Cause it is

  • @demid232
    @demid232 Год назад +104

    as a 19 year old male trying to figure out my place in this world, your advice is some of the best that I use to remind myself of who I am. Thank you for constantly sharing generational knowledge. One love my friend. God bless.

    • @mnt7125
      @mnt7125 Год назад

      read books ! creature from jekyl island .. read it

    • @RickyBobby42069
      @RickyBobby42069 Год назад +2

      Exercise regularly. Weight train or martial arts. It is amazing. I'm glad I started lifting when I was 19. After 8 years I feel like a God.

    • @511cel2
      @511cel2 Год назад

      Just don't follow..

    • @poptort2082
      @poptort2082 Год назад +2

      @@RickyBobby42069Currently working out and doing kickboxing. I’m not in the best mental state but, both of those things for sure help especially having balanced meals on a day to day basis.

    • @RickyBobby42069
      @RickyBobby42069 Год назад

      @@poptort2082 me too man, going on year 2 of kickboxing. I had hypochondria for while, but it went away after doing cardio (just regular running for distance) I don't know how that worked, but it did. I also got super lean, like 80 kilos of muscle with abs. So I think that really boosted my ego and confidence.
      Weed helps too dude 🤣. Good luck my friend

  • @arthurpetrin3653
    @arthurpetrin3653 Год назад +171

    Dutch: Where's Arthur?!!! WE NEED HIM TO DO THE LAST SCORE!!!
    Arthur in New Austin:

    • @madayis9707
      @madayis9707 10 месяцев назад +2

      In New austin💀😭🤣🤣

    • @Arthur-dq6cv
      @Arthur-dq6cv 10 месяцев назад

      HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @dynamic-d2539
      @dynamic-d2539 9 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 Год назад +54

    Being yourself is your only superpower in today's world where everybody is trying to be the same! Thank you for your wisdom! Happy New Year everybody! 💞✨

    • @mikaeltsimbidakis6980
      @mikaeltsimbidakis6980 Год назад

      Everybody sucks thats why Everybody is Trying to be the same

    • @Soloman_1800
      @Soloman_1800 Год назад +2

      Being different is unique

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 Год назад

      So what if everyone is the same, nothing wrong with that

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 Год назад

      Being different and unique is super boring, nothing wrong with being the same, it's not a crime, fitting in and relating to people is so much better then standing out

    • @leahale
      @leahale 6 месяцев назад

      @@joshuabuchanan1141 Trying to fit in is pathetic and weak. You lose yourself and you become a sheep. Clearly you are.

  • @user-pv5oz5mg2h
    @user-pv5oz5mg2h 4 месяца назад +2

    Imagine having a conversation about life with this guy.

  • @ghost_2501
    @ghost_2501 11 месяцев назад +15

    Я смотрю это видео из России, моей Родины, но Ваши слова близки мне по духу. Люди, которые свободны в душе, найдут общий язык, несмотря на различие в языке, культуре и государстве. Будьте здоровы и Господь с Вами! 😊😊

    • @mattchugunoff1805
      @mattchugunoff1805 11 месяцев назад +1

      Привет, земляк. Я согласен с тобой

  • @NitemairMedia
    @NitemairMedia Год назад +75

    Thank you for this video. I figured out in my 20s that I didn't want to be like the rest of society, mainly after I lost my grandfather who was a huge influence on me. He was what you'd call "old school" in every way. Didn't have a cellphone, didn't even wear a watch after he retired. He loved his fine clothes, his felt hats, and his old cars. When he was gone I started finding myself wanting to carry the traditions on, but I knew I wasn't my grandfather so I altered what was comfortable to me and ended up with my distinct look and my on view points on things. This finds me at odds with today's world because I still believe in common sense and doing what's right no matter what. I like my vests, my baseball caps, and my boots. I like classic stuff, with a few modern things thrown in to make life a little easier. Really though, the more I go back to the basics of what my Grandfather taught me, the easier life is. Believe in God, take care of your family, do what's right and forget about what everyone else thinks or has to say. Like you said, be yourself. Take care and Merry Christmas to you and your family.

    • @zachtrainor8371
      @zachtrainor8371 Год назад +2

      I don't mean to sound antagonizing, but I don't understand how someone can find themselves and become unique but see others around them as "the rest of society" or as "sheep" as Dwayne said. I believe we all have different ways of finding our uniqueness, and maybe sometimes the uniqueness we try to find for ourselves isn't apparent or obvious to others around us. What we show to those around us (clothes, accessories, cars, tattoos, whatever) may only be a small part of a person's uniqueness for themselves, but there's so much more that we can't see or understand just by looking at or talking briefly to a person.

  • @LukeofEarth
    @LukeofEarth Год назад +160

    Buddy, I know you may never see this but thanks for all the videos. Im 29, work on a ranch, and I’m about to marry the love of my life. You have taught me so much about how to be a better man, a better ranch hand, and a better partner for my significant other.. my best friend. Wish I could sit down in person with ya and ask you questions. Maybe one day! But in the mean time thanks so much! Keep making videos. Many folks like myself find answers through you.

    • @ColoradoStreaming
      @ColoradoStreaming Год назад +5

      Congrats man! Marriage is the best thing in the world. Especially when you have kids, you will feel things you never knew were possible as part of this human experience.

    • @sheilabowerman183
      @sheilabowerman183 Год назад +1

      Congratulations

  • @KingMcAl
    @KingMcAl Год назад +23

    No matter what anyone tells you or think's about you, you're the most important person in your life!

  • @Nathan-yf8bf
    @Nathan-yf8bf 9 месяцев назад +1

    this idea is basically my filosofy of life. i bring this with me for a little time, but i'm getting better, i am more happy and see more sense in life. i have 18 years old and i am very proud of me, because a lot of people with my same age don't have this thinking, i feel more mature with this, and i have sure that i am.

    • @Nathan-yf8bf
      @Nathan-yf8bf 9 месяцев назад +1

      sorry for my bad inglish im brazilian

    • @tacticalidiot175
      @tacticalidiot175 9 месяцев назад +1

      It's pretty good English! My only critique is that 'filosofy' is spelled 'philosophy'. Have a great day!

    • @Nathan-yf8bf
      @Nathan-yf8bf 9 месяцев назад

      thank you! in brazil we say "filosofia", thats why i spell wrong. have a great day too! @@tacticalidiot175

  • @EricJohnsen-r3d
    @EricJohnsen-r3d 10 месяцев назад +1

    For being a young man you have great wisdom

    • @mynamejeffgaming
      @mynamejeffgaming 9 месяцев назад

      Dudes like 87

    • @DryCreekWranglerSchool
      @DryCreekWranglerSchool  9 месяцев назад

      @mynamejeffgaming Born in 1967. You do the math.

    • @mynamejeffgaming
      @mynamejeffgaming 9 месяцев назад

      @@DryCreekWranglerSchool you look 20 years older than my dad while being 7 years younger and he hasent exactly had an easy life so I can't imagine the stress you've been through to have aged so poorly.

  • @jamesion6651
    @jamesion6651 Год назад +27

    Couldn't have come at a better time when I realized I was letting other people's perspectives define me all along. This helped drive it home. Thanks a bunch Dewayne.

  • @jocelynllamas6600
    @jocelynllamas6600 Год назад +83

    Man, I wish we were related. I say this because I feel like my immediate family cares so much about what society and outsiders think about them and then project that onto me. They tell me what I should do; how I should behave; how much money I should make; how I should look so I appear successful, or so others perceive me to be a certain way. On the outside, my family appears perfect, always smiling, always "happy", always fitting in, but my family is far from these things behind closed doors. I refuse to be anything other than my most genuine self. So, anyway, I appreciate this video.

    • @livetomanifest2272
      @livetomanifest2272 Год назад +6

      That’s a hard type of family to grow up in and it’s toxic. Not sure how old u r but the older u r the more you’ll see how full of shit they are and no one really knows what they’re doing. Also it’s not their place to try to steer your ship

    • @spacebar9733
      @spacebar9733 Год назад +4

      oh em gee i feel this. my family is obsessed with looks in all the wrong ways, it makes me so self-conscious

    • @a.p.5429
      @a.p.5429 Год назад +4

      Its a rat race to nowhere having people putting their expectations on you. I never measure up and everything has conditions on it. My only place of being just me right now is with Jesus.

    • @G0D_1
      @G0D_1 11 месяцев назад +1

      Ah my parents are the same. It hurts to see when your parents are thinking more about others than you. That’s the problem nowadays….many parents are not doing the job they should do properly and that’s parenting. I am not saying every parent is like that…..but many are and it sucks pretty bad.
      Well as they say ‘Every thing has a reason’ soo I take this as an opportunity to improve as an individual person….to not become what my parents are. To become better than them.

  • @daniel.holbrook
    @daniel.holbrook Год назад +32

    as a younger guy your words of wisdom are one of the best Christmas gifts I could ask for. Thank you for continuing to do what you do

    • @nicholasvargas6397
      @nicholasvargas6397 Год назад +2

      I feel it man he's helping a lot of us out and I'm grateful for it

  • @kcpauz
    @kcpauz 10 месяцев назад +1

    Today is the 31st of December 2023. I got recommended. What a way to face the new year 2024.

  • @piperlmao
    @piperlmao 5 месяцев назад +1

    he asked the question and for the first time, i didn’t know the answer. as a young female, we’re taught to fit in and be like everyone else. “sit/act like a lady” “you can’t do that, you’re a girl” “what are you wearing? that’s so weird.” etc etc. i’ve tried all my life to be just like everyone else but now i realize i actually DONT want to be.. today i decide my new quest is to find who I AM.
    props to this man. he’s like the grandpa we all never knew we needed.

  • @TheOnlinePlaza
    @TheOnlinePlaza Год назад +28

    This particular type of content is so simplistic, and yet so very valuable to us all, thank you sir!

  • @Macsrus5
    @Macsrus5 Год назад +15

    40’s club here😊 the day I decided to quit living my life to please others, was the best choice I’ve ever made. It was fun watching ALL of them with their mouths open wondering why I wasn’t kissing their butts anymore 🤣
    !!!!!!GREAT video!!!!!

  • @shan4145
    @shan4145 Год назад +12

    Love from Canada! Yes, I’m 39 Chinese women listening to you and mamma bear💖💎🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @daikimizu9324
    @daikimizu9324 10 месяцев назад +4

    Words of wisdom, a very humble man.
    Also, he looks like old man Arthur Morgan with High Honor.
    Kudos for ya!

  • @ikechukwuchristian7551
    @ikechukwuchristian7551 17 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this lesson

  • @fernaureason7150
    @fernaureason7150 Год назад +16

    I love this subject! It's one I carry with me all day every day because I love myself, am proud of myself and am my own bestfriend.
    The single most thing I'm most proud of is that I've never been drunk, high or ingested any kind of substance (pills, smoke, vape, psychedelic) in my 29 years of being alive and I don't plan on ever starting. Have I had alcohol before? yes, but never drunk. The Idea of me being out of mind and not knowing how I got home scares me to death. All my friends and family respect me for it as well. One of my best friends will always text me randomly saying "Out of the people I know your the only one that has been sober their whole life." and it's a wonderful feeling.

  • @profundus8946
    @profundus8946 Год назад +20

    These natural one-take videos where you have an open train of thought, like a genuine conversation, is precisely why your videos are so calming and refreshing.
    You are pioneers in going against the stream of all that overly edited extravagant video content. You stand out just by not even trying, well played.

  • @thattimestampguy
    @thattimestampguy Год назад +147

    0:00 Merry Christmas 🎄 ☦️
    0:38 What makes you uniquely you?
    1:38 There are roughly 8 billion people on this planet, and 1 you. Would you stand in a crowd?
    2:03 Alaska, Wyoming, Colorado. Finding what makes Me, Me. What makes Dwayne, Dwayne.
    4:11 You’ll not find confidence in yourself if you don’t know who yourself is.
    4:49 “Young ladies, if there‘s any young ladies watching this, right now - society. - social media says you should conduct yourself like you are making money on a street corner in L.A. somewhere.” “Don’t do it! Be you, be you.”
    However, don’t misuse “Be You” to “Be Bad”
    5:56 Nole, A Name Meaning Christmas.
    7:04 If A Christian is only a Christian on Christmas and Easter, is he really a Christian?
    8:46 She never has any trouble finding me, Cause I’m Me. I kinda stand out.
    What I want, I do.
    You won’t find another guy like Dwayne at Dry Creek Rangler School or anywhere in this world.
    10:40 It’s not a bad thing to be comfortable with yourself. (And it’s not a bad thing to try to improve who you are either)
    10:57 An Undercrown Maduro Cigar
    • sent to Dwayne by a cigar place
    • put out by Drew Estates
    • special blend of rolled cigar
    • San Andreas Maduro wrap
    12:49 Have a good rest of the season
    12:57 Momma’s got a channel too. Dwayne’s wife of many years.
    13:28 Patreon for those able and willing to donate to support.
    All the best.

    • @jenandchris6089
      @jenandchris6089 Год назад +12

      Why? Why.not just watch the video? It's not that long ?

    • @thattimestampguy
      @thattimestampguy Год назад +8

      @@jenandchris6089 I don’t disagree. It’s good to watch the full video in its entirety too.
      (It’s kinda my thing though.)

    • @mad0uche
      @mad0uche Год назад +6

      @@jenandchris6089 kids and young adults these days basically have the attention span of a squirrel, it's the norm to have ADHD nowadays - thank phones and tik tok.

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 Год назад +16

      @@jenandchris6089 I do watch the videos in there entirety. But it’s nice to be able to go back in the future, for future reference, and pick out specifics that I’m looking for. What’s wrong with someone doing us a service for free? What the hell is the big deal?

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 Год назад +6

      @@thattimestampguy thanks that time, your efforts are appreciated.

  • @shawnduma
    @shawnduma Год назад +3

    Thank you from South Africa

  • @curtiscarpenter9881
    @curtiscarpenter9881 Год назад +1

    I think the more lose the more we forget how naked we already are. For the future to be better then the present we do in the present what we never did in the past. ❤

  • @stringbender3
    @stringbender3 Год назад +6

    So true. You are making great change and doing great help in the world.

  • @brandonkaminari
    @brandonkaminari Год назад +11

    It's not the message itself but how it's executed. We hear these kinds of advice all the time, and we thought as children, but as we grow we hear the same kind of advice and we learn more. And people tell you that lesson in all kinds of ways, all different paths of life. Your execution of advice is so level headed, not just "down to earth" but sage like, like a relative from beyond the grave pushing you forward saying, 'enjoy your freedom, don't worry so much.'

  • @highplainshollarhomestead3188
    @highplainshollarhomestead3188 Год назад +6

    I was 25 before I really settled into who I was. Always growing of course, but I was married at 23.....my wife loves who I became more than the man she married. We've grown together.

  • @AnthonyWade7
    @AnthonyWade7 6 месяцев назад +2

    10:46 Amen. I get a sense of peace from your style of videos that I have not felt in a long time. Thank you for being you.

  • @aujla6726
    @aujla6726 Месяц назад +2

    4:50 Young ladies are watching listening and agreeing with you sir🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @DJBenjoyer
    @DJBenjoyer Год назад +20

    I appreciate this sentiment a lot as a queer dude. Different strokes for different folks, I cant be caught up in what somebody else thinks about it. I've got enough problems just trying to make it through the stuff everybody deals with to worry about what somebody else thinks about how I move through my life. As long as I'm getting better at being comfortable/confident in who I am, that's good enough for me

  • @tomabareza4879
    @tomabareza4879 Год назад +6

    Propper message, from a propper man. Hard truths from a man who lives it. Thank you for being you, keep fighting the good fight, wish you all the best, may you help many more. Thank you!

  • @shawnm3626
    @shawnm3626 Год назад +20

    Dwayne is always out here with the realest advice you can get and always when you need it most Thank you Dwayne finding your channel has been such a blessing wishing you and your family all the best for the new year

  • @carolsans5775
    @carolsans5775 10 месяцев назад +3

    I don't think anyone would see this, but I cannot thank you enough, your words of wisdom have made me change my mind on giving up on myself. Thank you !

    • @333dog
      @333dog 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hey I saw this good job!

  • @_dekanijo
    @_dekanijo 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great message! If you had a difficult time answering that question: "What makes you unique"? that's a good place to start with building confidence with who you are❤

  • @Mamalives
    @Mamalives Год назад +8

    I’m so grateful for you and your videos

  • @fredmello1704
    @fredmello1704 Год назад +14

    I stumbled upon your content here in RUclips recently and thank God I did! To find people talking honestly about things that matter without that "Mr know it all" way is always good. Thank you for being you, man. May God bless you and the whole family! My best regards all the way from Brazil!

  • @Center79dt
    @Center79dt Год назад +26

    This is exactly what my wife and I plan to tell our daughters as they get older. Strong, free thinking, self reliant young women. I love all the content you and Mama put out. Speaks to my soul. Merry belated Christmas, hope it was a wonderful one for you and yours.

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 Год назад

      As a friend I feel obliged to tell you that the mature Christian is reliant on God first, then self/ego, then others.
      Is it (the problem or issue) about substantive things like questions of love and truth or morality??
      Or is it (the problem or question) more about style or the way something gets done or solved??
      I happen to believe that God cares a great deal more about getting the substantive issues right than He does how something gets done or resolved.

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 Год назад +1

      But also teach him how to treat a man and hold on to a husband.

  • @bmls6793
    @bmls6793 Год назад +1

    The cigar, the way you bring it; comfortable. You already got your editing...Its you. Its perfectly added to the picture. Tks

  • @JDT126
    @JDT126 10 месяцев назад +1

    Nothing in this ol world resonates cleaner, clearer and louder than authenticity. Happy new year

  • @inevitablelevity3137
    @inevitablelevity3137 Год назад +16

    This Hits me hard since my parents always force me (especially my mom) to do or act a certain way like, always going to our relatives' whenever theres special occasions (even though i'm comfortable just being by myself), Cutting my hair (even thou i like it long), and if i disagree my mom always says to me "What would others think of us, if you do this, or if you look like that etc." says that "its embarrassing" etc. She always worries about how or what others think of us.

  • @yarrowco
    @yarrowco Год назад +5

    I find a great deal of warmth and comfort listening to you. Especially during these times. Thank you sir

  • @davidc9135
    @davidc9135 Год назад +4

    We like the way you do your videos too. Slow, thorough and all one take. Always a pleasure to watch

  • @patincomfaca9023
    @patincomfaca9023 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you Arthur

  • @linkssds
    @linkssds 9 месяцев назад +4

    Most people have lost their purpose and live according to the masses, ignoring their own “self”, either to hide their pain or to avoid feeling bad about other people's opinions. Further on, he finds himself in a deep abyss, as he has lost his soul, “essence”.

  • @lorenzoantoniodeleon8002
    @lorenzoantoniodeleon8002 Год назад +8

    I feel like I just met Arthur from Red Dead Redemption II

  • @Jules-fh4rf
    @Jules-fh4rf Год назад +6

    You and Momma are much loved being exactly who you are. Good guidance from two extraordinary people comfortable in their own skin. Wish you all the best as you head into the New Year!

  • @michaelpawelka6074
    @michaelpawelka6074 Год назад +4

    Thankyou Dwayne.
    Respect what you & your
    wife do. Admire & envy y'all's
    lifestyle!

    • @stevetrivago
      @stevetrivago Год назад +1

      Don’t envy him.. just appreciate him… You probably have just as much to offer as him… 🫡

  • @BergJager1
    @BergJager1 Год назад +3

    Thank you for your wisdom and your time. You are an inspiration for simple people like me who’ve somehow got lost in a complicated world but am trying to find my way back home before dark.
    Thanks

  • @giguwesley493
    @giguwesley493 11 месяцев назад +11

    Feels like he's trying to hide the fact that he's santa🤔

  • @pflo5683
    @pflo5683 Год назад +5

    I am a 51 year old woman and recently introduced to your channel. I love the wisdom and honesty that you share with the world. Thanks for being you and reminding me to be myself!

  • @dogstarstudios718
    @dogstarstudios718 Год назад +6

    Great video chat!
    I'll be 60 in April and I can honestly say that I have always been me since my teens, stood out from the crowd in my own unique style, even amongst my peers. On the very rare occasion that I tried to follow the herd, it didn't feel real or me, thus I went back to my longhaired, bearded biker/mountain man ways, and my spirit feels at peace within.
    Best regards.

  • @Parker.Marconi
    @Parker.Marconi Год назад +8

    Thank you Arthur Morgan

  • @justinburkett5578
    @justinburkett5578 Год назад +1

    Having to go back and find me . I got lost in money. But had to walk away to find myself. You’re exactly right always be yourself.

  • @trickbusterstv
    @trickbusterstv 10 месяцев назад +2

    This guy knows himself so much that he realized that it was his purpose to make people aware that they have to be themselves because that is an essential part of life, if not the main one, thank you for transmitting this important message, I too I've lived a long time outside the bottle trying to find my own way, a rebel so to speak, I'm a skater, greetings from Chile