Relations between Husband and Wife: Sub-continent perspective.|Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
  • Prof Dr Javed Iqbal responses to the questions on the topic of family life.

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  • @tusleemakhtar4430
    @tusleemakhtar4430 3 года назад +77

    ماشاءالله جزاك اللهُ
    bohat faida mnd ha ye vidio .
    7 saal se jo rishta hraab tha wo is tareekay ko apnanay se kaamyab ho gya
    الحَمْد للهْ‎

    • @jahangirtanveer1123
      @jahangirtanveer1123 3 года назад +3

      ZABARDAST !

    • @munawarsultana1660
      @munawarsultana1660 3 года назад +2

      Alhamdullilah

    • @sanashahzad4177
      @sanashahzad4177 3 года назад +1

      great sir 👍🌹

    • @user-ke9lp9rc1t
      @user-ke9lp9rc1t 5 месяцев назад +2

      MashaaAllah zabardst sir boht achy samjhya h Apny Apki batein ny boht Asar Kiya h muj py....I hope yeh sari batein Meri agye life mey km aayein geee inshaaAllah

    • @AmmaraAbbas-pe4es
      @AmmaraAbbas-pe4es 7 дней назад

      Sir I am your biggest fan...

  • @shetrainingcenter254
    @shetrainingcenter254 3 года назад +314

    Me and my husband while watching your video when you come on a point where you discuss the point that when you said I love you to your spouse than we both look at each other and say I love you ❣️

  • @Rehman_writes232
    @Rehman_writes232 3 года назад +11

    Allah Apko Lambi umer dy ..
    maine kabhi aisi lambi video ni dekhi ..
    Subha ki nmaz ka wqt ho rha hai ..
    meri dua hai jin logo ne pori tawajoo se suna .. samjha Allah unhin Amal ki tufeeq de .

  • @user-pi3hl8ew1j
    @user-pi3hl8ew1j 4 года назад +135

    ڈاکٹر صاحب ماشاءاللہ بہت ہی اہم گفتگو تھی،
    یہ تو ہر گھر کا مسلہ ہے۔
    اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے۔
    آمین یا ربّ العالمین۔💖👍

  • @AshfaqAhmad-lq9xi
    @AshfaqAhmad-lq9xi 4 года назад +77

    9:45 "Mhbt ko hm noun samjhty hn halanky yay verb hy yay hoti nahn ki jati hy aur iss ko musalsal krna parta hy yay doing hy aik act hy aur jb hm musalsal mhbt krty hn to phir jo uss k nateejay mn milta hy to wo uss ka phal hota hy....."
    Just amazing!

  • @superwoman95
    @superwoman95 3 года назад +14

    Apki baaton say bay Inteha sukun milta hai or bhot kuch sikhne ko milta hai Dr shahab .aap k kimti waqat apne humare liye nikala bhot shukariya 🥰🤲👌💐💐💐 love from Hindustan ❤️ India ❤️💕

  • @shanijuttali588
    @shanijuttali588 4 года назад +48

    sir meri shadi ko sirf 3 maah hoye h lkn husband divors ki bt pe aa geye thy jese apny kaha meny wese bt ki iun se Masha Allah sy mei ab khushi ki zindagi guzar rhi hn ..ap ko Allah bht khush rkhy ☺

    • @mamasbabydolls2543
      @mamasbabydolls2543 3 года назад +1

      Aameen

    • @mohddaim4671
      @mohddaim4671 3 года назад

      Plz sis mje boliye mn . Kya karu mre husband ne mje mre mummy Papa ke ghr mn choda sth mn 11months ka baby b hn.mje koi idea de wo kaise mje apnaye

    • @smiles4you142
      @smiles4you142 3 года назад

      @@mohddaim4671 go to a relationship councilor, "cabir chaudhry" is professional, search him on social media! He will definitely help you

    • @mohddaim4671
      @mohddaim4671 3 года назад

      @@smiles4you142 thanku

    • @ayeshaayesha3927
      @ayeshaayesha3927 3 года назад

      @@mohddaim4671 kuch nhi karna hai bas duaa karni hai

  • @mehreenmir116
    @mehreenmir116 4 года назад +103

    Mary husband Duniya ki sab se achy husband Hai shukar Allah ka

  • @mehwishnazmehwishnaz4654
    @mehwishnazmehwishnaz4654 2 года назад +2

    ماشاء االلہ بہت ہی خوبصورت اور دلچسب گفتگو کی آ پنے ایک خوبصورت رشتے کو بہت ہی اچھے انداز سے گزرنے کے طریقے سے آگاہ کیا اللہ پاک آپکو اور آپکی تمام ٹیم کو سلامت رکھے آمین ثم آمین

  • @bintearif8041
    @bintearif8041 3 года назад +18

    ربنا ھب لنا من ازواجنا وذریاتنا قرۃ اعین واجعلنا للمتقین اماما Ameen❤️

    • @AS-he5ev
      @AS-he5ev 3 года назад +2

      AmeeN SumAmeeN YAA Rabul AAlameeN

  • @ypsilonm6739
    @ypsilonm6739 4 года назад +24

    اللہ پاک آپ کو خوش رکھے۔
    آپ نے مجھے زندگی میں بہت کچھ سو چنے پر مجبور کر دیا ھے۔ آپ کی باتیں دل کو لگیں👍

  • @I-Khan75
    @I-Khan75 2 года назад +8

    I never ever watched/listened to any such video regarding husband-wife relationship that is sooooo to the point, so profound, with such do-able goals, cannot say thank you enough respected sir. God Bless you with more and more of Deen and Dunya, Aaameen.

  • @muzaffariqbal8233
    @muzaffariqbal8233 4 года назад +489

    اللہ پاک سب کو آپ جیسا بیٹا, بھائی, باپ, خاوند, دادا اور نانا بنائے آمین

  • @AshfaqAhmad-lq9xi
    @AshfaqAhmad-lq9xi 4 года назад +39

    21:04 "Cultivate love. Love can be cultivated even on a barren soil. A soil which appears to be infertile, we can make it fertile. Sirf yay hy k uss mn dahkaan ko mayhnat ziada krni paray gi, hal zara ziada chalana paray ga, matti ko zara ziada narm krna paray ga, pani ziada dalna paray ga, khaad ziada daalni paray gi, jari botiun ko pahlay talf krna paray ga laikin aisi koi zameen nahn hy aisi koi sanglaakh zameen nahn hy js mn phool nahn ugg sakty ugg skty hn."
    Such a powerful, intense n honest thoughts. Its fabulous.

    • @jaffarofficial8217
      @jaffarofficial8217 4 года назад

      ❤️❤️

    • @AnwarMasihUddin
      @AnwarMasihUddin 4 года назад

      ******************************************* *In the name of Allah most gracious most merciful*
      All & every praises only to Almighty Allah and PBUH to last and final messenger of Allah.
      Assalamualaikum warahmathullahi wabarakatuh,
      *All is well until we follow the guideline of nature* .
      *Failure/problems occurs* , once we start the tuning the things as per our own wishes only.
      *Our life is incomplete* without (Male & Female for each other) in this beautiful world.
      *In the Year 1940* the book PARDA written by Sayed Abu Aala Moududi (forever blessing of Allah on him placed at Jannatulferdoud) very well compiled the life of the female gender in the history of mankind.
      *In his book PARDA* , grab all the analysis of female gender how the female gender treated in the different civilizations of Human History, cheating to her in the name of Women-empowerment, equality in all walks of life.
      *After all the comparisons step by step* from Material/Spiritual life of the female gender to this book readers finally the writer express the best position of the Women as awarded by Islam & its beautiful teaching (love & respect) forever in the life of the Female Gender.
      *In view of the above-mentioned* , feel free to recommend the Book PARDA written by Sayed Abu Aala Moududi (forever blessing of Allah on him placed at Jannatulferdous) specially to young stars, school & college students, Gift to home delivery through online purchase.

    • @muhsinkamal9988
      @muhsinkamal9988 4 года назад

      Yes sir. You are right

  • @z.tabassumazeemi4402
    @z.tabassumazeemi4402 2 года назад +4

    یہ وڈیو بہترین ہے
    اس موضوع پر سلمان آصف صاحب کی ورکشاپ بھی بہترین ہے
    Marriage and the meaning of life
    اس میں تقریباً ہر سوال کا جواب موجود ہے

  • @MuhammadSaleem-jj4ev
    @MuhammadSaleem-jj4ev 3 года назад +29

    Wonderful conversation of 23 minutes sir
    Worth billions of expensive n precious minutes 😍😍😍

  • @AhmaDRazA-ir9yo
    @AhmaDRazA-ir9yo 4 года назад +9

    Note to Self,
    1. Don't React
    2. Good Communication
    3. Change your own behavior
    4. Have Petance
    5. Think Positively
    6. Don't Involve Kids
    7. Restoration of Love
    Thanks a lot Professor Sab ❤️

    • @Muhammadameen-hq6su
      @Muhammadameen-hq6su 3 года назад

      Doctor ji Mere Munh per bahut dene Koi HAL to bataen please

    • @AhmaDRazA-ir9yo
      @AhmaDRazA-ir9yo 3 года назад

      @@Muhammadameen-hq6su جی محترم آپ اپنا منہ گردن کے سرے سے کاٹ کر لگ کر دیں اور کوئی دوسرا منہ فٹ کروا لیں.
      سب سے سستا علاج یہی ہے بھائی

    • @adnanmazher2173
      @adnanmazher2173 Год назад

      Husband k rhy

    • @truebeliever3948
      @truebeliever3948 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@Muhammadameen-hq6suphitkiri Pani Mae hilaen, Bahar nikalen phitkiri, abb cotton dip Karen aur face ka thoara hissa saaf Karen , agar suit kia tu baqi face bhi saaf Karen.
      Phitkiri bohot zyada DER ke liey pani Mae Nahin RAKHNI.

  • @mamasbabydolls2543
    @mamasbabydolls2543 3 года назад +22

    When i came to your clinic before almost 8 years ago, i had not enough words to discuss my matters but today you cleared my mind alot

    • @iqrasattar3809
      @iqrasattar3809 3 года назад +1

      Clinic ka address bta den plzzz.m bht mushkil m hn .

    • @farahsharjeel153
      @farahsharjeel153 3 года назад

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    • @aairahimran6385
      @aairahimran6385 3 года назад

      @@iqrasattar3809 of reason they were going the way I will only do like it would work is opening a week and a week ka ki tyariyan to nhi ab exercises and a lot to me or slides and to the right and a week ka kam bheij do q1 results of you guys to come in classroom for her and to be more fun you have received it thank You the areas and a half for Eid parties or library ki on oops I'm sure he is there now to order a new account is there is only do that sign of reason they have to do that chapter 10 test q and I ordered on work is opening on one point perspective is an amazing person to nhi hoi polloi pop out and to avoid point pi for the meeting I have received on work and subscribe and out hoa you are you still in classroom but it is not showing any more than the other ones the areas of you and your little child is there anything I have told u explain to bring the reason why everyone at home for class mei ne class and to the reason why everyone at work and to be on computers are part to avoid with a I post the meeting is an example to my new mob wives club is not in IB diploma frame of reason to nhi hoa you out and a lot more convenient and subscribe my attendance today I can't get my channel on DirecTV channel subscribe of reason to go back in IB students in IB class is there anything I could to avoid point I will ask you about to avoid late for her out hoa on the outside and a half to nhi hoi aj the areas and subscribe and subscribe my channel 👍 to avoid with you down to bring the areas of reason I will send Arhams not sure how to bring a half for class tomorrow I can't of you ❤️✨ to nhi on the other one point I only the areas and to avoid pool for onepoint on work sheets I have only been to bring it be more fun the meeting becoz the meeting or the areas of you guys and a week 3 the reason why you have told you are still interested you down to go over the reason I can't wait till 6 you on computers and a lot to bring it would have received it so it on our o you mam ko on the way back to avoid point of you and subscribe and subscribe my attendance and to the areas that sign in class today I gave her out one more fun the reason IPO stock up the one I will be lock out on work is shown to nhi ab op on computers only do like it will post a half to our o to order the ordered one for the areas and a half of reason I don't think there anything you our love for class 8

    • @aairahimran6385
      @aairahimran6385 3 года назад

      @@iqrasattar3809 you mam I ordered the pool to nhi hoa hai to avoid late to get one for one or library and to open this is not op to our class point perspective and a week 3 ka math or slides for our love

    • @aairahimran6385
      @aairahimran6385 3 года назад

      @@iqrasattar3809 you mam ko bhi kam it so much broo the one or library teacher and to be more convenient to order it out on one side to bring our love is blind of reason they were all the work was done or out hoa of the slide the meeting I only there reason I will be more than enough o of one for me this week 2 to nhi hoi on computers are still in IB students are you Humna you mam I will be more than the reason I can't get information to our class is an amazing job I have told u after I can't wait till 11

  • @shameem1294
    @shameem1294 4 года назад +21

    Ya khuda aapko har Khushi aur sukuun ATA fermaye...

    • @qulsumamuzaffar9308
      @qulsumamuzaffar9308 3 года назад

      My husband loves me much but whenever he sits with his mother his behavior changes and i suffer

  • @umehabiba4156
    @umehabiba4156 4 года назад +22

    This video is much informative n much relaxant for me. I m newly married, I feel n face much complicaties

  • @sanaaslam8622
    @sanaaslam8622 3 года назад +5

    I must say that u r a treasure of knowledge. Thankyou so much for sharing ur insights which are really a help.
    I did marriage with my choice and soon after i realized that my husband has really got himself into a life time challange. My mother in law and his family expectations actually increased so despite of being showing any love or giving any gift to me he started giving all these things to his family to balance his love marriage and taking me as an understanding partner. So now my medical check ups after kids which he afford are a gift. He fullfills my responsibilities and thinks its love. Not every person can realize these talks professor sb. It requires courage and accepatance of new relationships. I must say that yes a woman is behind a real man.i never deny the love of a mother for his son but jealousy for somones daughter can not be neglected. May Allah give us courage to share and balance our relationships 🙏.

    • @okbrostartcoping5835
      @okbrostartcoping5835 2 года назад

      auarat ek naasor hai jo shoahr k liye khuch nhi krti hai, bistar garam krnay ilava biwi ki koi zimmedari nhi hai,
      biwi sirf s3x deti hai shohar ko isska ilava biwi jkessay dou kauri k naasor ka mard ki zindagi mein koi kirdar nhi hai

  • @YogeshSharma-yn5qf
    @YogeshSharma-yn5qf 3 года назад +7

    I am from Delhi, India. I am very much impressed with your video of husband and wife relationship.

  • @asdfghjkl-pm3jo
    @asdfghjkl-pm3jo 4 года назад +20

    We need so many more people like him who talk about husband wife relationship and how to make it better. ❤ JazakAllahu khairan kaseera.

  • @mfaisalfarooq
    @mfaisalfarooq 2 года назад +7

    Thank you so very much for such a thoughtful lecture. May Allah bless us all & may Allah give us hidayah to understand and to implement the things as you said. May Allah give you good health and peace. AMEEN

  • @amberfaisal4888
    @amberfaisal4888 4 года назад +8

    Sir i agree with you my husband do all these things caring,loving,always standing with me.....cooking with me in the kitchen,giving ideas when we go to shopping etc....love ur vd very informative....ALLAH ap ko achi sehat wali zindage dy

  • @hustleandgrow6482
    @hustleandgrow6482 4 года назад +34

    Absolutely hit the nail Professor sahab. In this age, we need more mentors like you who provide guidance with practical solutions. Most of the advice in our culture- even though with good intention, is centred around changing the other person. This is not the correct way to approach the issues in married life.
    What you said about changing oneself instead of changing the other is the best way forward. Communication is imperative. Acceptance of the present and living in the past/resentment can not go hand in hand.
    For a marriage to work, MIND + BODY + SOUL must work in harmony and in peace.

  • @sahherabbas2795
    @sahherabbas2795 3 года назад +15

    Thank you Sir, May Almighty shower His countless bounties upon you in this world and hereafter.

  • @zohaibbadini389
    @zohaibbadini389 4 года назад +9

    I did it before when, i listen you it works really . when, you respect some one in return you will get respect ether its not your fault. Sir. You openned our eyes thanks you.

    • @surgeonjaved1
      @surgeonjaved1  4 года назад

      Well done!

    • @AnwarMasihUddin
      @AnwarMasihUddin 4 года назад +1

      ******************************************* *In the name of Allah most gracious most merciful*
      All & every praises only to Almighty Allah and PBUH to last and final messenger of Allah.
      Assalamualaikum warahmathullahi wabarakatuh,
      *All is well until we follow the guideline of nature* .
      *Failure/problems occurs* , once we start the tuning the things as per our own wishes only.
      *Our life is incomplete* without (Male & Female for each other) in this beautiful world.
      *In the Year 1940* the book PARDA written by Sayed Abu Aala Moududi (forever blessing of Allah on him placed at Jannatulferdoud) very well compiled the life of the female gender in the history of mankind.
      *In his book PARDA* , grab all the analysis of female gender how the female gender treated in the different civilizations of Human History, cheating to her in the name of Women-empowerment, equality in all walks of life.
      *After all the comparisons step by step* from Material/Spiritual life of the female gender to this book readers finally the writer express the best position of the Women as awarded by Islam & its beautiful teaching (love & respect) forever in the life of the Female Gender.
      *In view of the above-mentioned* , feel free to recommend the Book PARDA written by Sayed Abu Aala Moududi (forever blessing of Allah on him placed at Jannatulferdous) specially to young stars, school & college students, Gift to home delivery through online purchase.

    • @malihajunaid5534
      @malihajunaid5534 4 года назад

      @@surgeonjaved1please sir give yours contact number or what'sapp.

  • @nusrathjabeen6232
    @nusrathjabeen6232 3 года назад +6

    Masha Allah Aap Ka samjhane Ka tariqa bahut Accha hai Alhamdulillah.Allah har ek ko isper Amal Karne ki taufeeq Aata farmaye Aameen summa aameen . Allah Hafiz duaon Mey yadrakna.

  • @izzatshah6457
    @izzatshah6457 3 года назад +1

    بہت خوبصورت اور سمجھانے والا سپیچ آج دیکھنے کو ملا اور ہم سب کو ضرور اس پر عمل کرنا ہے اس سے تو ہم اپنے رشتوں کو بچانے اور محبت پیدا کرنے میں مدد ملیگا شکریہ سر

  • @kanwalzaidi3607
    @kanwalzaidi3607 4 года назад +18

    Best suggestions indeed....I say best words to my hubby everyday,no matter that I 'm his wife who should be shy in our set stereotype but I hug him,kiss him n say loving words before waiting he would say first....this is very essential in every pure n loving relation what I believe in,I hug n love my mom in law,my sis in law cuz all are connected to my loved one....so plz don't shy n express your love n care toward everyone,as human being only need it first....we get annoy first n ignor healing best emotions,that is not good....best wishes for everyone here.

    • @tahiraurooj4696
      @tahiraurooj4696 4 года назад

      Excellent Kanwal♥️🥰🥰

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      @user-wx9rm2qf9o 4 года назад

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  • @fasahatfatima
    @fasahatfatima 4 года назад +23

    i literally fall in love with the conversation. realistic approach . doctor sahab stay blessed ... your friendly manner to describe the issues between husband and wife is the best

  • @asmaasa9995
    @asmaasa9995 2 года назад +3

    Jazakallah kharon

  • @saleemgeffr3601
    @saleemgeffr3601 4 года назад +7

    Thanks a lot Dr. Javed sir, I got the solution of my problems by this video. Allah may reward you for this public service. Jazak Allah khair.

  • @sidrascutekitchen5440
    @sidrascutekitchen5440 4 года назад +45

    You are correct sir! I am very happy in my married life. I always tell my husband that if we have to live together so we should seek for happiness and love. Otherwise it would be better to separate. Alhmdulilah my children don't know any thing about hatred, impoliteness. We always talk about our goals and generosity.

    • @khadijafayyaz6184
      @khadijafayyaz6184 4 года назад

      Ma sha Allah !! So So happy for you

    • @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything
      @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything 2 года назад

      very rare.........thing happens

    • @okbrostartcoping5835
      @okbrostartcoping5835 2 года назад

      auarat ek naasor hai jo shoahr k liye khuch nhi krti hai, bistar garam krnay ilava biwi ki koi zimmedari nhi hai,
      biwi sirf s3x deti hai shohar ko isska ilava biwi jkessay dou kauri k naasor ka mard ki zindagi mein koi kirdar nhi hai

    • @Naturelover00915
      @Naturelover00915 2 года назад

      ماشاءاللہ اگر شوہر بیوی بچوں کے ہوتے ہوئے دوسری عورتوں سے افیئرز چلائے اور پوری پوری رات سن سے باتیں کرے تو آپ کیا کریں گئیں؟

    • @okbrostartcoping5835
      @okbrostartcoping5835 2 года назад

      @@Naturelover00915 shohar ka pesa shohar ki marzi

  • @muhammadyarchishti3397
    @muhammadyarchishti3397 3 месяца назад +1

    ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب صورت طریقہ سے سمجھایا آ پ نے اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آ پ کو سلامت رکھے آمین

  • @muhammadrazaqkhan6225
    @muhammadrazaqkhan6225 3 года назад +4

    Highly incisive and judicious comments for mutual healthy marital relationship. Life partners must capitalise on the precious advice of Dr Javed. He is a gifted social Councillor.

  • @mdjawaid427
    @mdjawaid427 3 года назад +5

    I m taking online class to make reconnection with wife in no relationships but i m much thankful that u hv told n focus more than our relationship class. Indeed u hv god gifted knowledge .... May Allah keep u always healthy n rich in knowledge so that lakhs of viewers get best advise n get benefit

  • @Tahniyat100
    @Tahniyat100 3 года назад +1

    You r a beautiful soul... Alhumdulilah... Listebing these videos v.1st time but now it's been almost 4 hours continously... Deep thoughts... Keen analysis and v.positive personality.

  • @arifabbasi8007
    @arifabbasi8007 3 года назад +15

    Sir this video have open up my mind to a brighter side of bad relationship. Thankyou for such a nice video. It is really very helpful.

  • @furqanqureshi7387
    @furqanqureshi7387 4 года назад +9

    ماشاء ڈاکٹر صاحب زبردست اللہ آپ کو اپنی امان میں رکھے آمین.

  • @ahmedsheikh8365
    @ahmedsheikh8365 3 года назад +2

    New generation ke lye bohot sabak aamoz byaan Jazak Allah Khair ♥

  • @afsheensahar8786
    @afsheensahar8786 4 года назад +9

    Dear Professor Sahab Jazakallah khair for making such a lovely video and for pointing out so many main important things that could be the reason of conflicts. Allah bless you and your family. Ameen

  • @rao_doc
    @rao_doc 4 года назад +13

    Respect for you...
    U r among those to whom I can listen for hours!!!
    May Allah bless u ND keep u fruitful for nations ameen.

  • @shamaqureshi8402
    @shamaqureshi8402 3 года назад +11

    So interesting and important topic , thank you for the beautiful advice , truely appreciated 💐 Jazakallah Khair

    • @liaquataliwasti1846
      @liaquataliwasti1846 3 года назад

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  • @tabassumr.17
    @tabassumr.17 4 года назад +13

    Assalam Alaikum sir . Perfect advice for the people who really want to change n be happy . If one will accept what Allah has bestowed upon them life with be beautiful.

  • @mohammedfiaz3658
    @mohammedfiaz3658 4 года назад +20

    Good advice.
    Allah bless you with Health and long life.

    • @rafiabano3660
      @rafiabano3660 4 года назад

      good advice sir.allah bless u with health and long life

  • @shahzarine7072
    @shahzarine7072 3 года назад +1

    Jazakallah..Allah ap jese logo ka saya sabhi par hamesha banaye rakhe..aameen

  • @shanzkhan5169
    @shanzkhan5169 3 года назад +18

    Aslamu Alikum Respected Sir, Masha ALLAH se apka 1, 1 word kisi Gold se km nhi👍👍👍 ALLAH Pak apko seht wali lmbi umr Ataa Frmaye. Ameen

  • @zohrayaseen9790
    @zohrayaseen9790 3 года назад +5

    Awesome lecture...
    Too much informative and beneficial to all...
    Jazak Allahu khayrann...

  • @agworld6428
    @agworld6428 2 года назад +34

    A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together.
    It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
    Happy married life to all the married couples 🎉

  • @fkha2695
    @fkha2695 3 года назад +7

    اللہ تعالی آپ کو لمبی زندگی عطا فرمائے سکون اطمنان چین کے ساتھ

  • @Muslimah-Pakistani
    @Muslimah-Pakistani 4 года назад +24

    MashALLAH Sir...❤
    While listening you,i feel dat a father is communicating wd her daughter.Such a pure person.
    ALLAH apko jazay khair ata frmy...amin sum amin

    • @harismadina1406
      @harismadina1406 4 года назад +1

      Please speak English bc everyone get something from ur speech

    • @truebeliever3948
      @truebeliever3948 11 месяцев назад

      True, he is a sincere person👌

  • @workfromhome2143
    @workfromhome2143 3 года назад +13

    Very impressive advice 👌
    May Allah🤲 help us in strengthening this beautiful relationship 👫

  • @aniqabano1582
    @aniqabano1582 4 года назад +7

    You can talk for hours and we can listen. Thank you for your precious time and advice.
    👏👏👏

    • @nayabnaushad8576
      @nayabnaushad8576 2 года назад

      Wonderful advice sir.. allah apko bohot kamyabi r lambi umar de r aise ap sabko ache advice de sake..it will help alot..

  • @khalidjamal350
    @khalidjamal350 3 года назад +4

    Jzaak Allah.
    Very beautifully explained
    Allah Pak aap ki omar draaz farmaee, or tamam husband and wife ki dillon ko eman mohabato k sath joor kr kukkhay...Ameen suma ameen 🤲

  • @nasirsiddiqui9858
    @nasirsiddiqui9858 3 года назад +3

    ماشاءاللہ
    Sir, you are contributing a lot to make this society better. May Allah SWT bless you.
    جزاکم اللہ خیر

    • @shaistashamim1815
      @shaistashamim1815 Год назад

      Ameen ma sha Allah sir bht behtren may Allah always bless you

  • @bigbossking1298
    @bigbossking1298 3 года назад +4

    بہت خوب ڈاکٹر صاحب اللہ تعالٰی آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے آمین

  • @khizeraftabalikhan9906
    @khizeraftabalikhan9906 4 года назад +4

    Sir I can listen to u for hours without losing my concentration...Allah ne aapko bahut salahiyat de hai..Allah aapko salamat rakhey

  • @ruksanakosar5185
    @ruksanakosar5185 3 года назад +1

    Sir most respect from jammu and kashmir...I m ur big fan.. whenever i've any problem in my life regarding kids, husband, parents etc and I m unable to find solutions to my problems then I watch ur videos and I find all my solutions through ur videos.....aap bilkul parents ki tarah samjaate hai...ur videos are full of positivity...it gives an immense energy....aap rishto ka sahi matlab bahut hi aasan lafzon mein samjaate hain...In Shah Allah....Allah aapko is nek amal mei bahut tarakki farmaye....luv from India

  • @MsAhmedarif
    @MsAhmedarif 3 года назад +7

    Literally, I was unable to find a proper word to praise you. May Allah bless you with all his mercy n happiness and accept your effort. This is immortal earnings, I would love to meet you once in my life if Allah is willing, inshallah.

  • @sadafsheraz9130
    @sadafsheraz9130 4 года назад +5

    Thank you sir for your guideness. Allah tala har mian biwi k darmian mohobbat or aik doosre k liye izzat qaim rakhe. Aameen.

  • @mohdnaved8762
    @mohdnaved8762 3 года назад

    Alhamdulillah sir aapne bht hi naseehat amoz bate btai hn ...aapko warn krne ki zroort nhi thi aap continue krte sir ...koi apna h Jo hme itni acche bate bta rhe hn vo bhi hmare present and future k liye....Allah aapko hmesha khush rkhe sir.aapko her museebat se bachaye ameen summa ameen

  • @ShakeelAhmad-tf6lz
    @ShakeelAhmad-tf6lz 4 года назад +19

    Sir bohat he khooob ! 💗💗 Allah apko slaamt rkhy. Ameen

  • @fouzianawaz5085
    @fouzianawaz5085 4 года назад +5

    May allah keep u healthy and safe u are the hero of our nation .

  • @mohammadpatel7020
    @mohammadpatel7020 2 года назад +2

    Mashallah bahut behtarin Baat Kahi aapane Allah aapko jaza Khair ata farmae aur aapki puri family ko Allah khushiyon se navaje

  • @chersimerci1626
    @chersimerci1626 4 года назад +5

    Love you Sir.
    May Allah bless you with His Rehma

  • @rubabrafique2680
    @rubabrafique2680 3 года назад +9

    this guidance makes me so strong :)

  • @Abu-Hudhud
    @Abu-Hudhud 2 года назад +1

    Ye video sirf 22:30 minutes ka hai lekin itni qeemti baatein Dr. Sahab ne kahi ke agar 22 ghante ka bhi hota main sunta. Jazaak Allah khair

  • @zaimarasheed5203
    @zaimarasheed5203 4 года назад +5

    Aoa zindgi ka safr asan ni is mushkil safr mi thak k jb insan aap ki baatain raat mi sounta hi tu neend bht sakoon ki hoti jesay kuch thakn the he ni jesay sb asan hi God bless you and your family. Thanks

  • @omerfarooq449
    @omerfarooq449 4 года назад +8

    I really appreciate your efforts Prof Dr Javed Iqbal to protect these relationships specially for husbands and wife’s mutual life’s and I really learned from this lesson about myself and life as well

  • @fylogenis
    @fylogenis 2 года назад

    اللہ رب العزت ہمیں اپنے پارٹنر کو سمجھنے، اس کے ساتھ بہترین برتاؤ کرنے والا بنائے. نبی کریم صل اللہ علیہ و آلہ و سلم کی مطہر ازدواجی زندگی ہمارے لئے بہترین نمونہ ہے

  • @zahidhussain254
    @zahidhussain254 4 года назад +4

    MashaAllah best
    Waiting for ur precious lecture for young kidz aged between 20 to 25

  • @nawalpervaizmalik848
    @nawalpervaizmalik848 4 года назад +5

    Sir ur message is very clear and awesome in my case i think that my husband is really batter than me. Difference of opinion which is healthy thing that we have bcoz two different personalities are existing and we enjoy it. Allah said in Quran that men are powerful so they should ignore ladies mistakes.

  • @aneeqahmed495
    @aneeqahmed495 3 года назад +2

    Mashallah ap ki video bhot motivation hoti hn. Allah bless you always

  • @mohammadhasan8774
    @mohammadhasan8774 4 года назад +5

    ma sha Allah, very good. YOU are the good explainer. Or ap job bolty ho to asa lagtahy ki koi apny samja rahy..
    Love YOU From Bangladesh.

  • @MuhammadSaleem-cq3bb
    @MuhammadSaleem-cq3bb 3 года назад +5

    1,2,3 i love this such a nice,intellectual and a very humble person love u from UK Sir.

  • @suchaikitalash6759
    @suchaikitalash6759 10 дней назад

    Thank you so much sir believe me es time both ten's thi but ap ki bt sun k both masly hal ho gy inshallah I will try my best in my life

  • @hopekhushi9938
    @hopekhushi9938 3 года назад +42

    Your videos are mentor for me, unfortunately I am married to narcist, I am never good enough for him nothing is up to his standards. I learnt with time I cant change him, I can only change my own self and self develop myself. I was very depressed but I try and pray to Allah to make me mentally, emotionally and financially strong. What I realized some ppl will never change there attitude until they have to suffer the consequences. I cant communicate with him, he shuts down when I have to talk, its always his way or high way. I made myself strong enough to tell him, either stay or go separate ways. He doesn't want separation but he doesn't want to give up to change me, he keeps telling me I have to do things up to his standards. Sad but its very suffocating, I think I am a Soteli biwi 🙂. I do request sir to talk abt ppl with behaviour issues and how to deal with them.

    • @hopekhushi9938
      @hopekhushi9938 3 года назад +4

      @Makeup by asma yes what i learnt over time is to live my life and do what please me, have my job and kids and live the way I like, he chose not to be happy to complain day in day out, then thats his choice I am not the one who should suffer cause of his mental glitches!, yes he isn't happy with that then that's his problem! ALLAH doesn't tell us to get married to suffer and he gives us right of khula, I dont want that as I have teen age kids but I chose not to suffer cause of him, I told him he is welcome to find any one else which will be up to his standards!

    • @sophiaadil4487
      @sophiaadil4487 3 года назад +1

      It is like my story😢

    • @noorjahan1430
      @noorjahan1430 3 года назад

      Eye opener issues

    • @toallahisourreturn.3528
      @toallahisourreturn.3528 3 года назад +6

      I was in exactly the same marriage.he also used to hit me and my son. I left him after 2 years and I was living my life peacefully after that. Please stand up for yourself and do what u feel u deserve best for yourself. Take care sister.

    • @asifahmed6568
      @asifahmed6568 3 года назад +1

      Allah rahem kare and aapke liye asaani banaaye

  • @SourceofLearning
    @SourceofLearning 4 года назад +7

    Sir Javed sb.. I agree with ur arguments.. 100 true👌👌❤

  • @truebeliever3948
    @truebeliever3948 11 месяцев назад

    Aapki videos 1 hr ki bhi ho tu sabaq aamoaz hoti hain aur dilchasp hoti hain.Masha ALLAH.

  • @hannahvlogs6929
    @hannahvlogs6929 3 года назад +8

    AsSalam Aliekum sir ! Masha Allah excellent wonderful talk about husband and wife many thanks sir. Allah always blessing you and many happiness come to your life (Amine)🤲🤲🤲👍🏼👌👌👌🌹🌹🌹

  • @garimaraiwar4548
    @garimaraiwar4548 4 года назад +4

    Namashkar sir ji..I am from India. your way of teaching and advise is very impressive ... specially related to psychology... thanks for sharing your knowledge .. thanks sir ji

  • @idealtom
    @idealtom 12 дней назад

    If the talk is relevant and not repetitive length does not matter🎉🎉🎉. Jazakallahu Khairan qaseera Professor sahab. Allah aapko iska achchha badla ata farmaye🎉🎉

  • @cargowayslogistics2006
    @cargowayslogistics2006 4 года назад +5

    Wonderful counseling lecture prof. Sb.
    Really appreciated. 👍
    جزاك الله خيرا

  • @muhammadkashifrafique210
    @muhammadkashifrafique210 3 года назад +5

    Amazing tips and thoughts from you Sir .. I can watch this video on repeat.
    Lovely topic delivered by more lovely way Ma Shaa ALLAH.

  • @jazz_noor
    @jazz_noor Год назад

    Behtreen ...ye hamry young bacchon ko btana boht zarori hai....sab k liy ye batein aham hain....sab ko samjhana chahiy .mian biwi ka rishta dunia ka sab sy khobsorat rishta hai...is ky bina kushi or sakon nahi life main...Allah ap ko sehat o slamati ata fermay ameen..ye neik kam kerty rehein ..

  • @mohammadtaimoor4634
    @mohammadtaimoor4634 4 года назад +15

    ماشاءالله تبارك الله
    جس جس کے دل و دماغ سے نفرت اور ناراضگی دور نہیں ہو رہی تو
    اخلاص نیت کے ساتھ
    روزانہ 2 رکات نوافل ادا کریں اور کثرت سے استغفار اور درود شریف پڑھیں. اور اپنے رب سے مانگنا سیکھو.
    بے شک اللہ تعالیٰ ہر شہ پہ قادر ہے
    اور وہی دلوں کو پھیرنے والا ہے

  • @NEETIKASRIVASTAVA15
    @NEETIKASRIVASTAVA15 4 года назад +10

    Thank you so much Sir... Mere pass shabd nhi hain aapki tareef me.. God bless You...

    • @jabeenakousar3548
      @jabeenakousar3548 3 года назад

      Alla ap ko khosh rakhe amin ap ki vja se meri bhanji bhanja smj jaen dhee sal se hm smja ree hen

  • @jahangiralam9848
    @jahangiralam9848 Год назад +1

    Assalamualaikum Dr Javed sahab aapki baaton ne Dil jit liya Allah aapko sahi salamt rakhe

  • @seeya7610
    @seeya7610 4 года назад +21

    I’ve seen people who did everything for their spouse and nothing worked out and ended up in a divorce. I feel major issues like abuse and cheat don’t have a solution and even love and compromise can’t change it. It applies to all psychopaths and frauds. Once you try all and find this out get out.

  • @kirankhan8334
    @kirankhan8334 4 года назад +7

    these 20 mints and 30 seconds are very help full for me.. i want to be good .. plz pray for me...

    • @kaneezfatimafatima5426
      @kaneezfatimafatima5426 3 года назад +2

      U r also a gd person bcz u want to be gd...
      U can do it.....go and achieve

    • @Junaid.A16
      @Junaid.A16 3 года назад

      Inshallah things will be good

  • @queetcat
    @queetcat 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bahut sukoon mila hai mashaallah ❤

  • @mohammadabumazhar6415
    @mohammadabumazhar6415 3 года назад +9

    Sir, the is my second day watched your video, I really have no words to express my gratitude for your messages. I definitely 'll not stop watching your episodes in future InshaAllah. I would also like to request to if you possibly can provide us your topics sub-titled in English for people who were born in abroad 'll be able to understand better, PLEASE!!
    My regards to you and your family.

  • @safiababar9356
    @safiababar9356 3 года назад +34

    اللہ تعالیٰ اجکل کے مردوں کے دلوں میں پیار محبت ڈال دے😭😭😭😭😭

    • @abidqadeer6517
      @abidqadeer6517 3 года назад

      Ameen

    • @samuimran1783
      @samuimran1783 3 года назад +1

      Ameen

    • @sophiaadil4487
      @sophiaadil4487 3 года назад +1

      Ladies too women use husband as sprem doner and ATM card and only cares their immediate family. If you didn’t wanted to leave ur family then why get married.?

    • @anamtasnim8957
      @anamtasnim8957 3 года назад +2

      Getting married should never aims at leaving family from either side. It's all about adding someone in ur life with family's place still preserved.
      If someone wants her wife to leave her family then marry .....then he should first leave his family then think about marriage

    • @anamtasnim8957
      @anamtasnim8957 3 года назад +2

      Ye bt dono pr lagu hoti h. Mard ho ya aurat dono ko apna lahja naram hi rkhna chaiye

  • @ZadUltkwa1
    @ZadUltkwa1 Месяц назад

    Blkl sir aesi mhbt ki batn bht zehni skoon deti hn .hr trah ki preshni dor ho jati ha

  • @osmangilll
    @osmangilll 4 года назад +47

    ڈیر سر آپ کے پیغام کی سماعت شروع کرتے ہیں تو مکمل ہونے تک کا وقت سمٹنے لگتا ہے۔ میں ویڈیو کے اختتام پر اکثر یہ سوچتا ہوں کہ آپ کو دعا میں کیا دوں ۔ آج پہلی بار کمنٹ کر رہا ہوں۔ بس اتنا کہوں گا " آپ کا بے حد شکریہ"
    میری بیوی بہت اچھی ہے اور آپ کا یہ پیغام سماعت کر کہ اور بھی اچھی لگنے لگی ہے 😊

    • @Talibeilm288
      @Talibeilm288 4 года назад

      یہی سب کچھ میں بھی لکھنا چاہ رہا تھا

    • @noorlifestyle4851
      @noorlifestyle4851 3 года назад

      Sbk batain comments or Dr sahb apk lecture bht acha ha it change our thoughts kisi k zindagi perfect nhi hti ha Lakin jb miya biwi Ka relation acha hu tu ap berh poor or sakoon Wali zindagi guzerta hu Allah sb husband wife k relation MA pyar muhabbat sakoon etad da hamra samait acha sb hta ha lakn waqt Insan ko sath sath badal daita ha

  • @rahimsaeed9509
    @rahimsaeed9509 4 года назад +373

    پروفیسر صاحب آپ گھنٹے کے لئے بات کر سکتے ہیں. ہم خوش ہیں ۔

    • @bintefirdous2321
      @bintefirdous2321 4 года назад +4

      Dr agr aap k sath koi maselah btana ho to kis No pr baat kren

    • @rahimsaeed9509
      @rahimsaeed9509 4 года назад +2

      @@bintefirdous2321 براہ مہربانی اسے یہاں لکھیں تو ہم ڈاکٹر کے جواب سے فائدہ اٹھا سکتے ہیں. بس اپنا نام تبدیل کریں

    • @Art_n_craft_123
      @Art_n_craft_123 4 года назад +2

      Bilkul sir ap k bten sunne lagte Hain tw bs dil chta ha sunte rahen

    • @Artist562-67
      @Artist562-67 4 года назад +2

      aap k lectures buht pasand hein.allah ap ko zindagee day.

    • @farhanahussain5258
      @farhanahussain5258 4 года назад +1

      AP apna contact num send kar dai mujhy ap say baat karni hai

  • @rukhsanakouser9715
    @rukhsanakouser9715 3 года назад

    Sir, kaash Allah paak, hum sub ko aap jaisi wisdom atta krdain. You are really asset for our society. God bless you.

    • @rukhsanakouser9715
      @rukhsanakouser9715 3 года назад

      O. sir, aap tou, romantic dialogues bhee bhot khoob bol sagtay han, wow!

  • @sumaiyapavte7222
    @sumaiyapavte7222 3 года назад +3

    Love the way u teach sir ,really alot of respect for u