Narcissism is not a self love ,it is self hatred,it is not is superiority, but inferiority, it is not self confidence, it is insecurity, Narcissim is a defence mechanism, Narcissism in one word is evil in human form.
Deep down self hatred and insecurity but such emotions keep high and low based on external validation. They cope and try to display themselves in the upper hand as compared to others when people normally talk but their twisted listening skills perceived something as we are making them feel low intentionally that is not a case in real, they relate our words with themselves to feel high and low. What a waste on earth these people, Allah!!! Stay away as much as we can.
@@salmankhan-k2l4w aap is ko itni ahmiyat kio deti hn. Esy logo ki mut hoti hy agr un ko ignore kia jay. Jb tk aap us ko ahmyat dn gi wo or ziada aap ko tngkry ga.
summery: Narcissist personality types, 1.gradual type: no empathy 2.Malignant type: they causes harm to others[and also involved in criminal activities] difference b/w psychopath and Malignant ,psychopath never feel pity but Malignant narcissist do feel sometime 3.Coward type: they seems normal but ..they always blame 4.communal type: they do very good deeds to be admired they are socially active and they don't care of people these are psychological disorders precautions: 1. admit they are not gonna change 2. don't take it personally even if they insult you or commend you 3.don;t believe on their words believe on their behavior and actions 4.don't validate yourself your feelings to them and if you are a narcissist : 1. self reflection 2.enhance your capacity 4. consult a psychiatrist ..
jazakAllah Dr Saheb, for very brief but deep talk on Narcissism. Every household is suffering from it and we are seeing it growing in our surroundings and creeping in ourselves😢, it's sooooo subtle in our own elves that we all need self reflection daily as you said Alhumdulilah. Keep talking about it and asking Allah to protect us from sharr of evil people.Ameen
Kiya ye log çhup bhi hojaty Hain jab koi in ka favorite person inko criticize kerta hai to ta k osko pata na chaly is ki haqeeqat please Thora guide kerdain Meri friend hai and I am 100 % sure she is narcissist
@@shaziaali5795 vo bhi damad ya husband ki shakal me hi dekho jata he q k poore family koi b nhi rhte, jab baher ki labour families se rishta krte he…toh fir shadi ke din ya shadi ke disre din Malcom krte he jab tak nek khandani insan ke jaisa drama krte he, after marriage shadi se pahle wala banda kuch or tha or shadi ke bad kuch or hogaya hoga, ekhi din me utna asli chahra dikhadete he q k unlogko izzat deneki koi parwah nhi hogi naa.
I know my husband is Narcissist. It has been 18 years. Short tempered, aggressive. Loves himself. Nothing matters whats going on. What are my needs , how i can breath, where is my happiness burried
I was married to a covert narcissist for 31 years until he died of stage 4 cancer of the brain. He made mine and the children's lives miserable. It wasn't until after he died that I found out he was suffering from a mental illness. All those years I thought I was the problem. I thought it was my fault that I couldn't make him happy. In those 31 years he lied manipulated and cheated on me with women and men. What can you do you have to play the cards Allah Rub-ul Izaat delte you in life 😢.
It is very easy to point out narcissistic personalities. Someone with a narcissistic personality tends to focus excessively on themselves, seeks constant admiration, lacks empathy for others, and may exploit people to achieve their own goals. They often believe they are superior and entitled to special treatment.
It's overt. But it's hard to spot communal and covert/closet narcissist. It's hidden under the care, respect and love but it's actually narcissistic supply.
Don’t believe his words, instead see his behaviour. Never get validation from him. Thanks Doc. For these golden words Got them a bit late 😢 But big thanks 🙏🏻
The definition of narcissism extends beyond just the traits commonly mentioned. In many cultures, including ours, parents and husbands can exhibit narcissistic behaviors. These individuals often present themselves differently in public, appearing charming and considerate, but their true nature can be harmful behind closed doors. Only those who have experienced their true colors can understand the duality of their behavior. They can be loving and angelic at times, but often, their actions reveal a more manipulative and controlling side, akin to devils. This dynamic can be incredibly challenging for those on the receiving end.
I’m married to a narcissist have four kids together it’s been 18 years now I realize what I always felt was not my fault I feel like I can’t handle anymore crap from him but feel like nowhere else to go
They always keep you under pressure so you lose all your confidence, your sense of direction, your decision power. In the end you are left with your confused self.
Same here ... no where to go , nothing I can do just be a victim of his torture day in and day out ... duain kar kar k b thak gai hoon, har waqt sar main takleef rahti hai stress main rah rah k bemar hotti ja rahi hoon... I want to start a common community for us wh9 are suffering from this same issue ... shayad mill k hum log koi solution nikal sakain... Jo Jo b community k haq main hai mujae Facebook pae join karain taak k hum apnay lia kuch kar saqain
Narcissist so much more than that they eat your spirit day and night for decades im narcissistic abuse survivor and I don’t what life is what is respect what is self what is worth nothing I was like a zombie whole life
@@ayeshasalam9416aoa sister. there is no way k ap is tarha theak ho jaeen with therapy you can manage your daily life and get your soul back or shayad life ko jeeny ka perpos dobara dondh len but agar ap bat krti hen k ap is sy cure ho jaeen or life me move on kar len to uska hal sift sepration ha. i would advise k ap apno sy connected raheen friends and family k sath or kbhi bhi khud ko isolate na kreen. wassalam
Dr. Sab mai kafi arsy sy kuch relatives ky narcisist hony ki waja sy takleef mai tha ... Lekin apki tips boht real or practical hain... Or mujhe sunty hi boht sukoon mila or agy jab mai in py amal karu ga to mery liey boht asani hogi... Allah apko boht jzae khair dey.❤
Him, her and them. I've been dealing with whole narcissists family atm Parents and kids are alike. There is no way turn around the narcissists. From spending money to reasoning nothing going to work with them nothing has worked Me me me Pathological liar/cheats Aggression/abuse Zero empathy Manipulation On repeat These are all linked together.
How is this possible? How can a person not love his/her spouse for a few moments? Yes anger may be there, yes there may be aggression but how can it be only that and no love?
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
This topic needs to b addressed more often for awareness purposes as many families n work places suffer in silence in the hands of narcissistic sociopaths among the masses 😢
I used to live with a narcissist room mate. Initially, it was very difficult to deal with the brother on daily basis but as time went by our relationship improved. I used to give him dawah and engaged him in positive discussion on praying, and faith went well Alhamdullelah. One thing i noticed his mood used to often change at one point he was aggressive other time he was jolly. Very unpredictive May Allah give us patience.
Dear sir Iqbal please keep guiding people. We need you and people like you. Many Pakistanis are not going to the right direction due to this Fitna of the this age- Cellphone and Social Media.
@@amnahaque9058 woh inlaws bhi narcissist hi hote hen, Meri saas , 2 nanden, aur husband sab narcissist hen aur susral me Jo narcissist nhi they woh inke supporters they, Meri saas ka narcissism itne extreme level ka tha k unhon ne suicide kar li thi
@@rakhshizafar9610 my father in law is the Head narcissist, followed by my saas and my husband and his sister. It's so stressful. I feel so alone, I lost my mother 2 years ago.
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
Wow!! I have read some of the comments made by the viewers and am boggled by as to how widespread this condition is. Most viewers are pointing to being in bad relationships with the people who they say have narcissistic personality disorder. A lot of times it’s the people who are brought up ( in certain cultures) where preference is given to the males, hence the superiority complex. My word of advice would be to avoid mixing the two traits; being narcissistic and being raised as a superior human. BTW, it’s a great video doctor!
Jazak Allah hu khair sir is topic Pakistan m pahli bar every aspects sa apny dicuss kia ha.... Is topic ko m kab sa western aspects sa sun ree ho.. but mughy apni society k according proper way m khabi knowledge ni mila.... Specialy apny jo handling k ways discuss kia ha.. self analysis kaisy kia jay... Bohat duay sir ap k ly.. aisy laga ha demagh ki guthi sulajh gae ha... Allah apki any wali naslo m khair rakhy or shar sa mehfooz rakhy... Aik beti ki taraf sa bohat duy ha apky lay...
JazakAllah for giving this awareness, actually we all come into contact with such personalities in our lives, but in fact hav no idea of dealing with them, this post of yours is v helpful,may Allah bless u with health and afiat.ameen
Yes they only care for themselves. They used to be happy at your expense without acknowledging that you r paying your own emotions, happiness even material things for their happiness. Cheaters and liars they are. Will gaslight you if you point them out..etc etc. Dr. Sb you explained it very well. But practically survival is very hard in this kind of relationship... Actually thats not a relationship but becomes a situationship where you have to fix all their nasty acts just for the survival of the family.😢
jazakAllah Dr. Sahab. Apne hmari zindgi asaan krdi. Allah apko asaanian ata farmaae. Sehat e kaamila k Sath lambi zindgi ataa farmaae. Salaamat rahain abaad rahain Allah ki amaan main rahain. Ameen sm Ameen 🤲🥀
Very good briefing prof. Sb. I must appreciate that you delivered a good lecture about narcissism. One of my close in-laws relatives is a narcissist. I used to be hurt after meeting her. I prayed to Allah to bestow me with patience. One comment I like the most in your lecture is that a narcissist can never be changed. It is 💯% true. May Allah bless you, ameen.
Excellent educational and therapeutic presentation. Jazak Allah Khair for all of your work. May Allah s. w. t. bless, protect, nourish, enlighten and guide us all. Aameen!
Some people are incredibly successful in their career and life but they fail in marriages. They only show their true colors to their spouses. They show an amazing family to the world but the minute they are behind closed doors they are animals. Can you please do a show on this. How can one survive in such conditions. It is like death before death. Their partners in most of the cases are too empathic and they start to loose their minds. Please I request you again to do a show on it
Narcissist victim start doubting his own existence thinking Am I too bad? Or Am I really the one who is responsible for all this? Even if he cries to the world ,no one will believe his victimization by the narcissist.
Thank you dr javeed , I have seen this video many times , and what to do and how to help myself , it has immensely helped me the situation I am in and how to protect myself , thanks a lot
Its a very worrisome thing to deal thesedays , our lives made hell unfortunately due to such people in closest relations...i feel if they fear Allah , they will have empathy And i feel narcissists have one feature in common deep inside is lack of Allah's fear ! May Allah swt keep us protected from them , aameen Good eyeopening talk mashallah and plz keep spreading awareness.
I am borderline Narc but I only know this because I feel guilt after. This is because My mother and Brother are full Narcs. Living with them had very bad effect on me. I use to get triggered quickly trying to defend my self before it actually happened. But I could feel wrong after and I became independent. I am fully 100% self reliant and independent and I have labelled them as they can never change so I always stay cool and they can't get anything from me. It's so relaxing knowing but it's never ending battle.
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
Bahot bahot shukriya Dr Sahab Allah apko jaza e Khair de Apne Mera bht bada masala hal kardiya Allah apko Khush rakhe Allah ap Jaise aur kayi maushre k masail k hal k liye ata Karen Waqeyi society KO ap jaisaon KO zarurat hi Mere haq me dua Karen plz
Sir ye aesa topic h is per itni awareness huni chahiye ap logo ki zimadari h iska solution btana be q k Pakistan mai har aurat Narcissist husband k sath zindagi guzar rhi h sadky 😢
Solution exists in every drama. Get an education, earn your own money. They are not going to change? What's hope you have internally? Kill the hope. Your own family will push you to stay and label you crazy and act as flying monkey therefore stay away and build your own life.
Some other attributes of narcissists 1. They never never admit their fault 2. Always shift the blame to others 3. Biggest of all: they hate parenting. Never ever marry a narcissist. If you come to know late, never have a child with a narcissist partner, your life will be ruined.
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
I completely agree what you said. It is a bad luck of a person who has to live with such person. I think it is better to ignore them and don't let that person know that you feel guilty. That makes them happy.
Aslam Alikum Dr. Sb I found the entire content insightful, The best takeaway is always to validate your feelings by your own self and contradict your own deed if you find yourself guilty and correct it.
It was too late when I came to know my wife is a narcissist. For 3 years I have waited for her to change behavior but I was unaware of narcissism. I did the laundry, dishes, cooking, cleaning and parenting and even after all this she was always demanding more and more. Cutting the long story short now I am little bit at peace because she is never going to change.
Very nice video in Urdu ...I have seen many videos on NPD but was little confused but that malignant one I heard it first time ..now I can understand what I m going through.. actually I m dealing with family where all 4 members are narsistic and support each other when it comes to me ..and my FIL is malignant one ..he with my MIL damaged many things of mine ..without any regret and many times that now I feel insecure to leave my things outside the almira
Dear Sir, 🎉 really always you do justice to the topics. I learnt a lot many others 19:37 will be. Reminder for hospital violence , primarily plague of mis behaviour , scary for hospitals .
Narcissism is not a self love ,it is self hatred,it is not is superiority, but inferiority, it is not self confidence, it is insecurity, Narcissim is a defence mechanism, Narcissism in one word is evil in human form.
Well described 🙌
Deep down self hatred and insecurity but such emotions keep high and low based on external validation. They cope and try to display themselves in the upper hand as compared to others when people normally talk but their twisted listening skills perceived something as we are making them feel low intentionally that is not a case in real, they relate our words with themselves to feel high and low. What a waste on earth these people, Allah!!! Stay away as much as we can.
@@salmankhan-k2l4w aap is ko itni ahmiyat kio deti hn. Esy logo ki mut hoti hy agr un ko ignore kia jay. Jb tk aap us ko ahmyat dn gi wo or ziada aap ko tngkry ga.
Sahi bola apne
Sir
According to your discription there are so many person arround us .some tme we also behave like this trad very depressive issue !!
summery:
Narcissist personality types,
1.gradual type: no empathy
2.Malignant type: they causes harm to others[and also involved in criminal activities]
difference b/w psychopath and Malignant ,psychopath never feel pity but Malignant narcissist do feel sometime
3.Coward type: they seems normal but ..they always blame
4.communal type: they do very good deeds to be admired they are socially active and they don't care of people
these are psychological disorders
precautions:
1. admit they are not gonna change
2. don't take it personally even if they insult you or commend you
3.don;t believe on their words believe on their behavior and actions
4.don't validate yourself your feelings to them
and if you are a narcissist :
1. self reflection
2.enhance your capacity
4. consult a psychiatrist ..
Bahut ache summary. Little correction 3 is Covert not coward
1 is Grandeur
Yes I noticed exact same mistakes
@@Nishu-zj7wd oh sorry my bad...
@@Drkomalazhar i had no idea of the pronunciation...just wrote it to remind myself......by the way
Narcissist don't accept their faults never change 😢
They make you feel guilty instead, actually it's the other way round😢.
I'm suffering
I'm suffering 😢
You are right
jazakAllah Dr Saheb, for very brief but deep talk on Narcissism. Every household is suffering from it and we are seeing it growing in our surroundings and creeping in ourselves😢, it's sooooo subtle in our own elves that we all need self reflection daily as you said Alhumdulilah. Keep talking about it and asking Allah to protect us from sharr of evil people.Ameen
Plzzz is baray main detail say patain kay asay loogoo say kasay bChay kiyoon kay zada taar ye Pakistani mard walay mard,kaam bi nahi kartay hai.😢😢😢
Elahi Ameen
Pehli dafa kissi ne urdu mein itni jamia wazahat dee hai. Assalam O Alaikum. JazakAllah khair bhai.
@@ia02 indian psychiatrist shriyut anand ki video dekhen buhat help mile gi unki video Urdu me hen
یعنی تکبر غرور اور رعونت۔۔۔۔جو اللہ سبحان و تعالٰی کو سخت ناپسند ہے۔۔۔اللہ سبحان و تعالٰی ہمیں ایسے بندوں میں شامل نہ کرے۔۔۔۔آمین یا رب العالمین۔
Mary husband same thy....mujhy giri hui samjhty thy .....sepretion ho gai
Kiya ye log çhup bhi hojaty Hain jab koi in ka favorite person inko criticize kerta hai to ta k osko pata na chaly is ki haqeeqat please Thora guide kerdain Meri friend hai and I am 100 % sure she is narcissist
@@madihakhan5295please guide kerdain Thora
Sadly, they are in every family
100%
So true
Yes100%
Alhamdulillah, not in my family
@@shaziaali5795 vo bhi damad ya husband ki shakal me hi dekho jata he q k poore family koi b nhi rhte, jab baher ki labour families se rishta krte he…toh fir shadi ke din ya shadi ke disre din Malcom krte he jab tak nek khandani insan ke jaisa drama krte he, after marriage shadi se pahle wala banda kuch or tha or shadi ke bad kuch or hogaya hoga, ekhi din me utna asli chahra dikhadete he q k unlogko izzat deneki koi parwah nhi hogi naa.
Dr sahib pakistan k 70% shohar hazrat narssit hn jo apni maaon ki trbiyat ka nateeja ha
Bilkul theek baat kahi. 100 percent
True
I agree
Unmai ap bhi hai
So true i agree all fault of their mums upbringing
He criticise on my faith , my work , my parents , my actions.Even my sabr my eman. Everything .
It seems i have everything worst.
U r not alone.....every woman....is in this....
May Allah SWT protect u from his bad behavior.Aamen summa aameen 🤲🏻
May Allah protect u.ameen
Count me in,
My partner is also like that.😂
Same here😢
I know my husband is Narcissist. It has been 18 years. Short tempered, aggressive. Loves himself. Nothing matters whats going on. What are my needs , how i can breath, where is my happiness burried
I’m so sorry for you.. my mother in law is a narc. Made my life hell! Still is!
90% are male like this
All love for u... I m living in this environment for 8 years...
I was married to a covert narcissist for 31 years until he died of stage 4 cancer of the brain.
He made mine and the children's lives miserable.
It wasn't until after he died that I found out he was suffering from a mental illness.
All those years I thought I was the problem. I thought it was my fault that I couldn't make him happy.
In those 31 years he lied manipulated and cheated on me with women and men.
What can you do you have to play the cards Allah Rub-ul Izaat delte you in life 😢.
sad...
It is very easy to point out narcissistic personalities.
Someone with a narcissistic personality tends to focus excessively on themselves, seeks constant admiration, lacks empathy for others, and may exploit people to achieve their own goals. They often believe they are superior and entitled to special treatment.
It's overt. But it's hard to spot communal and covert/closet narcissist. It's hidden under the care, respect and love but it's actually narcissistic supply.
Don’t believe his words, instead see his behaviour.
Never get validation from him.
Thanks Doc. For these golden words
Got them a bit late 😢
But big thanks 🙏🏻
May Allah grant you good health. Excellent analysis of narcissism! Looking foto your next lecture
The definition of narcissism extends beyond just the traits commonly mentioned. In many cultures, including ours, parents and husbands can exhibit narcissistic behaviors. These individuals often present themselves differently in public, appearing charming and considerate, but their true nature can be harmful behind closed doors. Only those who have experienced their true colors can understand the duality of their behavior. They can be loving and angelic at times, but often, their actions reveal a more manipulative and controlling side, akin to devils. This dynamic can be incredibly challenging for those on the receiving end.
How to change oneself if he has narcissistic person😢
Sooo true 😢
My mother is a narcissist and she destroyed all her chidren
@@alikhansahab8356
Very sad to hear this, all children should support each other and not let your mother do anything wrong to you or your siblings.
Very True. Master of Manupulation and gas lighters.
I’m married to a narcissist have four kids together it’s been 18 years now I realize what I always felt was not my fault I feel like I can’t handle anymore crap from him but feel like nowhere else to go
They always keep you under pressure so you lose all your confidence, your sense of direction, your decision power. In the end you are left with your confused self.
Which country are you living in
Samehere no where to go just be patience and put everything on ALLAH everything will b ok one day
I am facing the same issue and have no emotional support, no family to help. I'm just looking up to God .
Same here ... no where to go , nothing I can do just be a victim of his torture day in and day out ... duain kar kar k b thak gai hoon, har waqt sar main takleef rahti hai stress main rah rah k bemar hotti ja rahi hoon... I want to start a common community for us wh9 are suffering from this same issue ... shayad mill k hum log koi solution nikal sakain... Jo Jo b community k haq main hai mujae Facebook pae join karain taak k hum apnay lia kuch kar saqain
Narcissist so much more than that they eat your spirit day and night for decades im narcissistic abuse survivor and I don’t what life is what is respect what is self what is worth nothing I was like a zombie whole life
Dear I want you to understand one thing You are loved you are Respected And you have all you worth Please don't be harsh anymore on yourself
How did you get out of abuse? And did you take therapy for the trauma caused?
@@ayeshasalam9416aoa sister. there is no way k ap is tarha theak ho jaeen with therapy you can manage your daily life and get your soul back or shayad life ko jeeny ka perpos dobara dondh len but agar ap bat krti hen k ap is sy cure ho jaeen or life me move on kar len to uska hal sift sepration ha. i would advise k ap apno sy connected raheen friends and family k sath or kbhi bhi khud ko isolate na kreen. wassalam
ye zindagi sirf aek safar ka hisa aek din ham sab ny hisab dena ha
@@ayeshasalam9416yes by reiki
Narcissists r cheap and disgusting at the same time 😅
Please do a full program on covert narcissist husbands or spouse. Please a lot of ppl are going through this
Ovr ap?
Do reiki
Reiki sessions
Dr. Sab mai kafi arsy sy kuch relatives ky narcisist hony ki waja sy takleef mai tha ... Lekin apki tips boht real or practical hain... Or mujhe sunty hi boht sukoon mila or agy jab mai in py amal karu ga to mery liey boht asani hogi... Allah apko boht jzae khair dey.❤
محترم ڈاکٹر صاحب
جو اپنے ہی حسن کا دیوانہ بنا پھرتا ہے
انسان کی کیا بڑای
سدا بادشاہی میرے اللہ کی ہے بڑی صرف میرے اللہ کی ہے
Him, her and them. I've been dealing with whole narcissists family atm
Parents and kids are alike. There is no way turn around the narcissists.
From spending money to reasoning nothing going to work with them nothing has worked
Me me me
Pathological liar/cheats
Aggression/abuse
Zero empathy
Manipulation
On repeat
These are all linked together.
How is this possible?
How can a person not love his/her spouse for a few moments?
Yes anger may be there, yes there may be aggression but how can it be only that and no love?
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
This topic needs to b addressed more often for awareness purposes as many families n work places suffer in silence in the hands of narcissistic sociopaths among the masses 😢
Allah pak apki umar main brkt ata farmae
Dr. Iqbal… you are amazing! Your explanation was so clear and easily understandable. Thank you!
شکریہ ڈاکٹر صاحب، اہم ٹاپک ۔۔
آج کل سوشل میڈیا self importance اور self confidence کے نام پر کافی نرگسیت پھیلا رہا ہے ، اس سے بھی بچنے کی ضرورت ہے۔۔
Dr. Iqbal youre absolutely right. Very well explained
I used to live with a narcissist room mate. Initially, it was very difficult to deal with the brother on daily basis but as time went by our relationship improved. I used to give him dawah and engaged him in positive discussion on praying, and faith went well Alhamdullelah. One thing i noticed his mood used to often change at one point he was aggressive other time he was jolly. Very unpredictive May Allah give us patience.
جزاك الله خيرا، أستاذ محترم.
Dear sir Iqbal please keep guiding people. We need you and people like you. Many Pakistanis are not going to the right direction due to this Fitna of the this age- Cellphone and Social Media.
Infact hamari society me divorce hi narcissism ki wajha se hoti he
But most of people don't understand it
Divorce ki bari wajah inlaws hain
@@amnahaque9058 woh inlaws bhi narcissist hi hote hen, Meri saas , 2 nanden, aur husband sab narcissist hen aur susral me Jo narcissist nhi they woh inke supporters they, Meri saas ka narcissism itne extreme level ka tha k unhon ne suicide kar li thi
@@rakhshizafar9610 my father in law is the Head narcissist, followed by my saas and my husband and his sister.
It's so stressful.
I feel so alone, I lost my mother 2 years ago.
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
Behatrin presentation. Shukriya doctor sahib.
Very useful video thankyou dr. Sahib for increasing knowledge
Inspired from lectures of Dr Ramani Durvasula, an American clinical psychologist and an expert on Narcissistic personality disorder.
Indian phycologist shriyut anand ki video bhi dekhen
Thank you for such a clear explanation of Narcissism 👍🏻
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
Wow!! I have read some of the comments made by the viewers and am boggled by as to how widespread this condition is.
Most viewers are pointing to being in bad relationships with the people who they say have narcissistic personality disorder.
A lot of times it’s the people who are brought up ( in certain cultures) where preference is given to the males, hence the superiority complex.
My word of advice would be to avoid mixing the two traits; being narcissistic and being raised as a superior human.
BTW, it’s a great video doctor!
The story of every Pakistani household
पागल है क्या भारत में ये बीमारी कितनी है तुझे है पता शराबी जितने भी है ये बीमारी है
Good explanation
I worked on it through astrology and wrote in my book
اسلام علیکم
سرجی ، اللّٰہ آپ کے علم میں اضافہ فرمائے آمین ۔
🌙🌹⭐
Yes i know it,.... My mom is a
1. Narcissist
2. Almond mom
3. Trauma centric
But a super mom 😢
Dr javed Iqbal Sahab aap ne meri Zindagi badal di
Jazak Allah hu khair sir is topic Pakistan m pahli bar every aspects sa apny dicuss kia ha.... Is topic ko m kab sa western aspects sa sun ree ho.. but mughy apni society k according proper way m khabi knowledge ni mila.... Specialy apny jo handling k ways discuss kia ha.. self analysis kaisy kia jay... Bohat duay sir ap k ly.. aisy laga ha demagh ki guthi sulajh gae ha... Allah apki any wali naslo m khair rakhy or shar sa mehfooz rakhy... Aik beti ki taraf sa bohat duy ha apky lay...
Listen Dr. Hira Waseem also
Watch videos of psycatrist Dr.Sabir Choudhary. You will get deep knowledge about Narcissam and other human behaviors.
JazakAllah for giving this awareness, actually we all come into contact with such personalities in our lives, but in fact hav no idea of dealing with them, this post of yours is v helpful,may Allah bless u with health and afiat.ameen
Thank you for your honesty & not sugar coating.
Bohot bohot shukriya.
Yes they only care for themselves. They used to be happy at your expense without acknowledging that you r paying your own emotions, happiness even material things for their happiness. Cheaters and liars they are. Will gaslight you if you point them out..etc etc. Dr. Sb you explained it very well. But practically survival is very hard in this kind of relationship... Actually thats not a relationship but becomes a situationship where you have to fix all their nasty acts just for the survival of the family.😢
jazakAllah Dr. Sahab. Apne hmari zindgi asaan krdi. Allah apko asaanian ata farmaae. Sehat e kaamila k Sath lambi zindgi ataa farmaae. Salaamat rahain abaad rahain Allah ki amaan main rahain. Ameen sm Ameen 🤲🥀
Asan alfaz mey bohot achchi wazahat ki hey Dr Sahib ney
Very good briefing prof. Sb. I must appreciate that you delivered a good lecture about narcissism. One of my close in-laws relatives is a narcissist. I used to be hurt after meeting her. I prayed to Allah to bestow me with patience. One comment I like the most in your lecture is that a narcissist can never be changed. It is 💯% true. May Allah bless you, ameen.
بہت خوب معلومات ۔۔۔ جزاکم الله خیرا کثیرا ۔ بارکم اللّٰه فیکم ۔۔۔
Excellent educational and therapeutic presentation. Jazak Allah Khair for all of your work. May Allah s. w. t. bless, protect, nourish, enlighten and guide us all. Aameen!
my parents and sister 1000% + Taya an Chaha and mom side is chor ! I have bean victim of these people and got out of this influence by many therapies.
Some people are incredibly successful in their career and life but they fail in marriages. They only show their true colors to their spouses. They show an amazing family to the world but the minute they are behind closed doors they are animals.
Can you please do a show on this. How can one survive in such conditions. It is like death before death. Their partners in most of the cases are too empathic and they start to loose their minds. Please I request you again to do a show on it
Excellent topic that should be discussed
Narcissist victim start doubting his own existence thinking Am I too bad? Or Am I really the one who is responsible for all this? Even if he cries to the world ,no one will believe his victimization by the narcissist.
Thank you dr javeed , I have seen this video many times , and what to do and how to help myself , it has immensely helped me the situation I am in and how to protect myself , thanks a lot
Jazak Allahu khairan kaseera respected sir
🎉jzk khair brother Javed 🎉
JazakAllah got your point❤
Thank you so much Dr.sahab boohat beneficial tips bataye app nay ..Allah tala app ko boohat jazak e khair atta karay. Ameen
Its a very worrisome thing to deal thesedays , our lives made hell unfortunately due to such people in closest relations...i feel if they fear Allah , they will have empathy
And i feel narcissists have one feature in common deep inside is lack of Allah's fear !
May Allah swt keep us protected from them , aameen
Good eyeopening talk mashallah and plz keep spreading awareness.
That's what I always wonder.
If a person had fear of God , why would he hurt others emotionally
My mother is a narcissist and I'm completely helpless 😢
@@alikhansahab8356 I am sorry.
It's extremely difficult.
Narc destroy your mental health.
This was thoroughly explained doc. Thankyou.
Jazak Allah bless you
JzakAllah upto the Mark analysis & sharing knowledge stay blessed
I am borderline Narc but I only know this because I feel guilt after. This is because My mother and Brother are full Narcs. Living with them had very bad effect on me. I use to get triggered quickly trying to defend my self before it actually happened. But I could feel wrong after and I became independent.
I am fully 100% self reliant and independent and I have labelled them as they can never change so I always stay cool and they can't get anything from me. It's so relaxing knowing but it's never ending battle.
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
Behtreen wazahat ki 👍
Knowledgeable video❤
JAZAK ALLAH Sir for the education, brilliant explanation
بہترین ویڈیو ہے ۔سلامت رہیں ۔
Bahot bahot shukriya Dr Sahab
Allah apko jaza e Khair de Apne Mera bht bada masala hal kardiya
Allah apko Khush rakhe
Allah ap Jaise aur kayi maushre k masail k hal k liye ata Karen
Waqeyi society KO ap jaisaon KO zarurat hi
Mere haq me dua Karen plz
Bahetereen tarike se samjhaya aapne, shukriya
Allah mehfoz rakhy tamam sharoor se
واہ ! بہترین معلومات ۔ ۔۔۔ السلام علیکم!
Sir ye aesa topic h is per itni awareness huni chahiye ap logo ki zimadari h iska solution btana be q k Pakistan mai har aurat Narcissist husband k sath zindagi guzar rhi h sadky 😢
Foreign countries m Pakistan s bh bray narcissist paey jaty h r yaha b aurtein sath rehny pr majboor h just becox of kids
Sb nahi Hain.
Solution exists in every drama. Get an education, earn your own money. They are not going to change? What's hope you have internally? Kill the hope. Your own family will push you to stay and label you crazy and act as flying monkey therefore stay away and build your own life.
Assalam o alaikum, Dr sahab hamesha ki tarha behtareen ur informative video, jazak Allah, mehnaz fatima.
Jazzak Allah for useful information. I have suffered from my elder brother and my younger sister both of them are typical narcissistic behaviour.
Some other attributes of narcissists
1. They never never admit their fault
2. Always shift the blame to others
3. Biggest of all: they hate parenting.
Never ever marry a narcissist. If you come to know late, never have a child with a narcissist partner, your life will be ruined.
Then what to do??? If separation is also not possible.. i m really worried.
@@A.Alam-lg9ry Watch Dr. Ramani videos. DEEP - Don’t defend, don’t engage, don’t personalize, etc.
1 Pakistani serial hai khudgarz (2017) mein aaya tha . Yeh narcissist, dysfunctional household ki kahani thi. Iska main character Hassan hai. Yeh sabko dekhna chahiye. Yeh drama psychologically heavy drama hai and bohot saare life lessons hai
@@ayaansyed9433 ill watch definitely.
بہت عمدہ پیشکش
شکریہ محترم
True it's very informative lecture
Narcisissm. Malignant self love.. a book by Sam Vikkin.
A must read for all
Har koi English language nhi jant isliye Indian phycologist shriyut anand ki video dekhen buhat help mile gi
Excellent 👌
Explanation Masha Allah
Bahut khoob
In qualities ka malik poora pakistan hai
I completely agree what you said. It is a bad luck of a person who has to live with such person. I think it is better to ignore them and don't let that person know that you feel guilty. That makes them happy.
Sir Iqbal thanks very much for this great informative video. Excellent diagnostics and very effective prognosis of this behaviour. 🙏🙏
Wonderful n informative post .
Jzakaallah Dil ki gahri se sukria
MashAallaha JazakAallaha khair sir may Aallaha tala bless you and your family members and your team keep it up ❤❤❤
Aslam Alikum Dr. Sb I found the entire content insightful, The best takeaway is always to validate your feelings by your own self and contradict your own deed if you find yourself guilty and correct it.
Assalamualekum sir I'm from up India 🇮🇳
plzz make a video on nihilism also
U R doing great work Allah aapki umar me barkat farmay ❤
What a perfect explanation, thank you.
It was too late when I came to know my wife is a narcissist. For 3 years I have waited for her to change behavior but I was unaware of narcissism. I did the laundry, dishes, cooking, cleaning and parenting and even after all this she was always demanding more and more. Cutting the long story short now I am little bit at peace because she is never going to change.
بہت ہی اچھی باتیں بتائیں ہیں جناب ❤❤❤
Very nice video in Urdu ...I have seen many videos on NPD but was little confused but that malignant one I heard it first time ..now I can understand what I m going through.. actually I m dealing with family where all 4 members are narsistic and support each other when it comes to me ..and my FIL is malignant one ..he with my MIL damaged many things of mine ..without any regret and many times that now I feel insecure to leave my things outside the almira
Very good points...especially on how to deal with narcissists. Jazakallah kher
Thank you Dr Sahib, very beneficial video.
Very impressive doctor sab
JAZAK ALLAHU KHAIRUN KASEERAH ❤
Jazaka Allah.... Very very informative video.. thank u so much
Good Job Sir ! MashaAllah !
Thank you so much sir
آپ بھت اچھے انسان ھین
Dear Sir, 🎉 really always you do justice to the topics. I learnt a lot many others 19:37 will be.
Reminder for hospital violence , primarily plague of mis behaviour , scary for hospitals .
Thankyou Bilquis Khalil before watching this vlog my check my message