What is Narcissism? Episode 8
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2021
- Sandeep Maheshwari is a name among millions who struggled, failed and surged ahead in search of success, happiness and contentment. Just like any middle class guy, he too had a bunch of unclear dreams and a blurred vision of his goals in life. All he had was an undying learning attitude to hold on to. Rowing through ups and downs, it was time that taught him the true meaning of his life.
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"Nothing is worse than Being in a Narcissistic Relationship"
*~Life experience*
What is the simple meaning of narcissistic
Very very true we are going through it for past 24 yes...
@@shyama5073 thats unbelieveable😯
@@Sarcastic-Boy302 brother if girl side family are not supported n she is fully dependent on husband money then it is believable..
Well said!
No narcissist will see this video because they think that they know more that Sandeep Maheswari without seeing any of his video. Actually they never admit that they have this problem. I saw people like this...
Edit: For those who thinks they are narcissistic and still watching this... If you are watching a learning video instead of some meaningless stupid reels, if you are having self realisation it's really great. There are some levels of this problem. I have seen some extreme cases mainly in elderly persons. We young people have enough time and chances to make ourselves better. Because we are still learning. But some people believe that they have learnt enough and knows everything so they don't need to listen to others. That's what I wanted to mean in this comment.
So true, these people will not watch this video because they're bigger than that...
Yes absolutely... They will never admit.....
Jesus said -
God forgive them because they do not know what they are doing. (This probably fits on a Narcissist)
God save us from these idiots narcisst they r everywhere and hunting humans like animals .
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Narcissistic log family k bahar bahut hi aacha behaviour dikhate hai
You are right same thing happened with me and my kids
I also behan
Narcissistic admi bahut hi bure hote hai aise log khud to badtamiz hai hote hi hain sath hi sath apne bacho ko bhi shanti se jinne nhi dete mere papa narcissistic admi hain khud toh family me sabke sath badtamizi karte hi hain or sath hi sath hm logo bhi badnam karte hai hm log pure apne family member ke samne badnam hona padta hai mere papa ki bajah se
Bilkul sahi baat hai
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I think mr Maheshwari has never come across a narcissist. This is the reason he is downplaying it. Also he is trying to normalize it. Nothing against him. But narcissists destroy lives of those near them. They are very very very dangerous.
Ye bimari muhammad sahab ko thi narcissists kya aapko pata hai
Muheeb16 you are right
@Muheeb U r absolutely right
@@NehaSharma-ij9bk some critics by reading their text draw this conclusion .।।।।।। Rightly said
Ryt
Narcissism is very common now a days. Been there in a relationship for 5 years with a grandiose narcissist. Tolerated everything starting from manipulation,gas lighting, being insecure myself and then finally consulting a psychologist and getting over the relationship. Remember if you figure out this once,DO NOT GIVE A SECOND CHANCE. NEVER, they are living vampires,they will never change.
My parents torture me should I leave them
@@moonkumari4378yahi to question he, jo humare important relationship he unko kaise chhod de hum
@@moonkumari4378obviously I already leave them and living alone and peacefully
True, they will never change
Completely agree
A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people’s true colors.
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Totally agreed with u bro
I seen that type of situation
@@neeshantvats5629 becouse he safe her family and nation by english man❤️🙏
Why it's sound like you describing a woman...😄😄😄
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Narcissist never change, they always find problem in others.
Topic of Narcissism should be discussed among Psychologists, Narcissism specialists who can really go deep down.
The speciality of narcissist....they make u feel guilty even though it is not ur fault... They want the things on their own way... They put up mask.... Selfish..... They make u feel unloved in relationship... They never say sorry.....not matter how much u try to understand them....they eventually hurt u constantly... That's the way they feel powerful....
Really i feel guilty without any mistakes 🥺
@@shubh5621 no need to be dear... To overcome of this guilt which is not at all ur fault...u just need to be distant n set boundaries from these narcissist.. N don't let them play with ur emotions... Just show them u r very strong n u dont care or it won't affect u even if they try to hurt u... I know some narcissist play with other tricks... They gave silent treatment u once they know u r emotionally involved... But u can backfired these silent treatment on them... Being strong...n do not come into their manipulation...eventually they get tired... N ran away😃
@@avantibarve2692 yes she give me silent treatment and when i say i am becoming depressed because of her behaviour she said - deppresion me jaao ya mar jao' she abused me emotionally and cry and i devlop empathy for her 🥺😭 i know she don't love me i took deppresion medicines about 6 months but i think about always her emotional stories and thinking that how she is victim and how can i make her happy she left me but i am still thinking about her happiness and she is fine took foods and chill but i left my food and my self esteem down i don't know why 🥺😭😭😭
I never think bad for anybody in my life but she blames me for no reason
@@shubh5621 I can feel ur pain... I have gone through this...n overcome of it very strongly... U know shubh we made a mistake telling the person how depressed n sad we r without them.... Which is exactly they want.... That's how they know how emotionally we r nvolved with them.. N we can bear anything n we will never left them...n that boost up their ego... N in their ego they disrespect us.. N we tolerate too for the sake of love... But...we should always keep our self respect above love..i also learned....all this happened to us.. Just because we r too good ... U know how he disrespect me he said u r too good... Itna good nahi chahiye... Said everything which broke me n affects my self esteem ... So i can understand in which situation u were going through....but then I suddenly realized that being depressed n sad ,we r disrespecting the life that has God given to us...so i faith in God n shift my attention to God n focus on my growth n slowly overcome of this pain...shubh u need to be so strong emotionally n shift ur attention with the things which u like...n trust on God, God help us to find a way...but do not let the world make u hard n harsh towards people or do not let them change ur good quality n kindness...always believe in love.. N always hopeful... N set ur boundaries for the people for ur betterment so that no one can hurt u....whoever done bad to u God will take care of that... N they will receive karma of their bad behaviour in this lifetime only... N even though we don't wish... Because we loved them by heart, so deeply... But jaruri to nahi na jo accha lage woh accha hi ho...sometimes God keeps us away from such people just to protect ourself... Just have faith in God n learn to enjoy ur own company... When we love ourself we don't need anyone to love us...self love is the best love...just take ur time to heal...n wait for the right person who deserves ur love...but it's hard to believe after going through so much hurt... So it's our choice wether to find someone who truly loves us Or been remain single strongly... With self love... M sorry i have no right to tell u but i like to help people n guide them...through my kindness and generosity....i dont like to see people go thorough the pain which I have gone through...
@@avantibarve2692 aapne itna sab mere liye likhaaa 😭🥺🥺😭💕🥺🥺 mai bhi kisi ko sad nhi dekh sakta or abhi bhi mai apni sadness ki wjh se hurt nhi hu mai bas isliye sad hun ki agar uska behaviour aisa hi raha to wo upset hi rahegi 🥺but i am overcoming it jbki mujhe pta hai maine jitna pain feel kiya usne nhi kiya mera khana choot gaya tha beemaar hone laga tha 6 month medicine chali hai deppresion ki meri 🥺but i am strong or mai jaisa hasta khelta rehta tha hamesha vaisa hi ban jaunga bas kuch 2-3 months or🔥
But thankyou so much aap bohot jaldi theek ho jaao heal ho jaao or hamesha khush raho aap meri wish hai aapke liye 🥺💕🐣 ♥️
Indian society really needs to discuss narcissism. Thank you for this video.
A lot of bullying, abuse and selfish behavior is ignored by us only because we don't understand personality types.
I agree, we are far behind in this field
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@Veenus Yadav In indian society we come to know about narcissism once we are out of that toxic relationship with toxic Narcissist partner...And people don't understand that this kind of men do exist even in India
@@angelinajolie7536 u r living between them
No. Ye log nahi samjhte dusro ki pareshani ko dekh ke bhi. Wo log aese situation mein aapko ditch karte hain jab aapko sabse zyada zarurat hoti hai. They’re an evil a true evil. They will never change jitna bhi reality check de do inko. I have experienced that personally.
Absolutely true
So true.... my husband ditched me when i lost my job because of him
The one major thing i have experienced with narcissists that they never accept their mistakes or behaviour. They are always right according to them hence they never try to learn or observe other people or diffrent possibilities in life.
Sahi baat
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Yes very true
Some Narcissist doesn't want to break the pattern. They are so negative that they over shadow the good things happening around.
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Right
True... They will never admit that something is wrong with them
True
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and is a socciopath I have done a lot of research about it. Comparing, bringing others down, extremely manipulative behaviour and lack of empathy are the main thing about narcissism. They have lack of understanding about life. They make your self esteem low in a relationship. They think they are greater than everyone. Narcissistic abuse is real.
At least someone is talking about the video is comments otherwise everyone is blessing my parents and has a motivational quotes🤦🏻
Oho....
Even my mother is veru manipulative, always puts me down made me insecure for no reason, compare me, and make my life hell
I will cut all. Contact for her in future
I m a narsissist myself.
Everything is true 🤣😂
I have dealt with narcissist.... I have suffered abuse of narcissist.... I went into huge trauma... Almost into mental disorder of ocd... Just because I was extremely submissive never thought once about one self... As he said selfishness which I don't have at all..
इसी तरह से मैं एक Narcissist लड़की के hoovering का शिकार हुआ था।
उसपर trust करके उसे दोबारा मौका दिया तो, वो लड़की कुछ दिन बाद फिर से rough tone में बात करना शुरू कर दी। बार बार ऐसी बातें करती थी, जिससे मेरा मानसिक संतुलन खराब हो। last time वो लड़की जब मिली थी, तब उसको 4 थप्पड़ मार कर उससे contact खत्म कर दिया। इतना कुछ होने के बाद भी वो 6 month बाद unknown number से मुझसे contact करने की कोशिश की, but मैंने ignore किया, उसे block कर दिया।
बहुत time बाद मुझे समझ आया, वो narcissist लड़की मेरे अच्छे education और lifestyle से जलती थी, मेरा mental health खराब करने के लिए उस लड़की का सोंचा समझा plan था।
उससे अलग जब से हुआ, तब से relaxed feel कर रहा हूँ।
आज मैं खुश हूँ।
Same yahi mere sath ho raha hai
Sahi bole aap. Mere sath v same hua hai
My teacher was a narcissist. He had great influence over my life. It took me 2 years to recover from his abuse, without any therapy, on my own, with the help of a friend.
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@@sunidhianand2779 oooo
Sorry to hear that. I knew some teachers in school who were abusive and only targeted shy kids to take out their frustration on. And some teachers were downright headcases. It's like being frustrated around kids but they had to do their jobs for the salary. But few teachers were always kind and sweet.
Love and Hugs ..That is v brave
Um Divya, can we talk more about that narcissist teacher of yours? I wanted to know more about how the narcissists degrade and demean you to show that you're not in line. Plz? Actually I need to answer this whole narcissist thing to someone who's eagerly asking me, I do have my dad like that but I'm not sure if he's fully like that or not. Your help would really mean much to me
When you tell abt solution , there is no solution other than leaving the narcissist. The narcissist person will never go to any therapist, wil never seek for any change bcz he is always right and perfect. If someone is wrong it's always the other person. A narc will never take responsibility but will always control. Whoever tells that he/she is wrong, he/she will cut off from that person. Moreover, they have very nice image upfront , everyone's favorite , center of attraction but they never have any long term friends. So when you discuss abt a narc correcting himself or herself that's never going to happen
Exactly ..... I think both of them don't understand this disorder .... You are very right........ My narc didn't need any treatment , I did .... I had to take therapy....
So true! My narc ex blamed me back nd called me crazy n psycho everytime. They r not to be dealt with 😂
I agree, my own father is a crappy narcissist. I have zero respect for him.
@@Aratrika11 same thing is happening with me
i completely agree . a narcissist might not understand this concept . but what was discussed here was extremely accurate about a narcissist. so if the people around the narcissist understand , its the first step to protect ourselves . and whats better than being able to identify such a person n leave ?
therapy is not a punishment , it means we r open to learning :) . its a boon
Very diluted version of narcissism is discussed here in this video. In reality we should never expect improvement from a narcissist and just leave them for our own sanity and health.
Yes!
So true
100% right in a reality they have more manipulative and more dangrous like a vampire they will suck your energy
Exactly they will never change we should stay away from them
Yes! People should watch Dr. Ramani Durvasula's videos.
दरअसल कहने का भाव ये है कि " देने वाला दिल चाहिए"
बच्चे निर्दौष जन्मते है, बाद में सारा खेल शुरू होता है।
No everyone is not a narcissist. Narcissist lack basic emotional growth and processing. She is right that narcissists are incapable of empathy and self-realization and think themselves as victims. It’s very hard for them to break that cycle. Even after breaking their daily cycle, getting them in an ideal situation, they will come back thinking worse about their life and find someone to compare their spouse instead of finding their own faults.
*SESSION HELPER:*
00:02 What is Narcissism? What is the personality of such person?
00:58 What is it's root cause? When it is diagnosed?
02:30 Since all have a little touch of selfishness, How do we know if a person is narcissist ?
05:30 Why it has become common nowadays? Why more children are turning Narcissistic? Who plays important role? _( Parenting, Genetics, Extreme Narcissism)_
11:08 What is the solution for it?
_( 11:30 If you think that you yourself are narcissist,
12:58 If a person close to you is narcissist)_
15:03 Some more simple solutions and ideas excluding therapies _(Travelling, Exposure, etc.)_
19:05 _If you're not conscious, you can't convert self esteem into self compassion_ How to develop this consciousness?
_( 1. Break the pattern of your daily routine 2. Make others understand your importance 3. New experiences lead to new perspectives of life)_
22:06 Detailed examples and discussions on the above point
26:18 Conditions in Narcissism
27:58 *Origin* of the word *Narcissism*
29:02 A *Different Approach* to look at Narcissism
32:49 Brief Summary of the session _(The most basic need is to understand Life/yourself . Remember You and the life is Same.)_ _Looking from different perspectives by breaking the pattern_
37:57 Topic for Next Session- Trauma
Suggestions are welcome.
*AASAN HAI? AASAN HAI!* 😊
Very good
Thanks 👍
TQ bro
If Sandeep can add this to the description of the video the video will itself create chapters for navigation. Thanks for this!
Thanks
ऐसे लोग अपने आप को बहुत ग्रेट समझते है, उनके लिए सामनेवाले सारे गलतही होते है, और वो खुद, हर चीज़ में परफेक्टही होते है, तो उनको खुदमें कुछ भी बदलाव करने की ज़रुरत ही महसूस नहीं होती है और उन्होंने दूसरों का जीना हराम करके रख्खा होता है सर, हर बार, हर किसी में कमी निकालके उनको बेइज्जत करना ही इनका मनपसंद खेल होता है।
Right
Mai bohat kuch jhel rhi hu mere husband aisa hi krte h pr pehle smjh nhi aaraha tha kya h ye sab bache h 2 chote kya kru smjh nhi aaraha
Same problem koi solution nhi hai bachoo k Karan kuch nhi kar sakte
The lady is calm and wise and talks logically. Maheshwari sir is killing all the good work she has done. Finally, she just said "you are right sir" to get out of his torture. 😂
I agree with you.
actually seeing a narcissist
Right... Maheshwari seems narcissist in this talk
I respect your thoughts..I seriously DISAGREE with you..hahaha
@@bhupendrachouhan8684 😂😂😂😐ohbhai
I feel I'm becoming Narcissist.. Maybe because of my introvert personality and poor parenting...but now I know what I have to do... thank you sir 🙏
Aapki introvert personality aapki wajah se nhi 🙏 aapke genes mai hai jo aapko aapke parents ki wajah se mile
You can't be a narcissist, it's not possible. One, because you're admitting it which a narcissist would never do. Two, you're an introvert which means you must be sensitive to emotions.
If u realise than try to correct it
It's not Narcissism , Narcissist people won't accept that they are Narcissist and would neglect hurt people with different ways
Dude you contact me.
I have been in a relationship with a narcissist and now I am trying to get out of all the abuse and it's worse than hell to the point that i feel suicidal. Narcissism is real and they are toxic, extremely manipulative , they are completely capable of destroying you . They will demand sacrifices from you and will never take responsibility for it and blame you for it .
Bhai i feel also very bad 😥
Yes I feel same
Going through same in my marriage.
Feel like suciding it has been 6 months of marriage and thinking of giving up
Going through the same 😭😭😭😭
@@dikshapandey7993 move on i know this is very frestating they blame us for their own emotion, they Gaslight us, and react angery, they don't know there words hurting some other person
I feel the same 🥺but i am really moving on strongly
Listening to Sandeep, I feel truly blessed that I was a part of a family that had humble beginnings towards a beautiful present. I grew up never in my comfort zone, always one place to another. Experiences have shaped me outside my own social environment. Maine mostly ye cheezein apne aap ko renew krne k liye ki hain, but main samjh skti hoon ki har insaan kuch din akele reh kar khid ko smjhne ki koshish kre ye har kisi ke bass ki nahi hai, aese me iss cheez ke importance ko smjhna bhi mushkil hai. Maine kai baar kaha hai, main pravaah mein hoon. Insaaan ki zindgi inn experiences se hi aur rich hoti hai. Everything Sandeep sir said now I have been deliberately doing because that has how ive wanted to experience life, curiosity ke sath. I loved it.❤️
Mera toh in fact, kitni baar mazak udaya gaya hai inn cheezon ke liye, jbki main har kisi ko encourage krungi ki wo ye krein for personal development. Go solo, meet new people, get out of ur comfort zone.. jab tk life me major setbacks dekhe nhi hain in all aspects, deal nhi kiye, tb tk dekha hi kya hai. Mujhpe ye bhi ilzaamat hain ki ye solo trips pe "krti kya hogi" .. if u knw what I mean. Or the choices, or lifestyle or anything for that matter. Maine react krna hi chhor diya hai. Experience se hi smjh ata hai ki koi kya krta hai, aur kyun. Also, I have a level of understanding about such situations now. Im like, chhoro jaane do.. kya hi hai. Focus khud pe hai. ❤️🙂 Wish personal inner achievements to one & all who take this inner journey. ✨
Your childhood plays the most important role in shaping your personality, character.
2:25
Psychologist:- Ye man me zyada h woman me kam
Sandeep Sir:- aap meri Tarah ishara qu Kr rhi ho.😂😂😂
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Hahahahaha, that makes him exceptional. He's an inspiration not a motivational speaker. He's funny 🤣 and intelligent too
Coz that was a sextsist comment
@@Rosan04 nope it was based on research 😂😂😂
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She is absolutely right kafi logo narcissism se aware nai hai so they failed to recognize narcissist people around them I think maximum awareness should spread about this
Agree
Yes what is extreme
they will abuse u physically emotionally and then apologies but again after few days u will be responsible for pressing their trigger point
True
Agree with you
I wanna add something to this, a narcissists never think that they need any therapy or they lack something. They're always right and they changes their statements according to their benefits. It's very dangerous for a child to manage with a narcissists parent. They're difficult to go with. They're perfect in all sense according to them. Narcissists always blame others they are not in fault. They don't want to change.
Exactly, that's why they need to explore!
they are robot without intelligence....run if you see any narc..
My husband is same.. unhe lagta h unhe change hone ki koi zaroorat nhi h.. wo perfect hain har tarah se .!!!
कोई संदीप सर को करीब जानने वाला है तो कृपया उनतक यह संदेश पहुचाए। सर आप यह व्हिडीओ समाज में पहुंचाकर करोड़ो लोगो की जिंदगी बर्बाद करने का पाप कर रहे हैं। यह लेडी कुछ भी नहीं जानती है नारसिसिज्म के बारे में। मेरे जैसे लोग जो एकसाथ आठ दस नार्सिसिस्ट से घिरे होते हैं उनसे पूछिए। नही तो यूट्यूब पर डॉ रामिनी दुर्वासिला जैसे कई एक्सपर्ट सायकोलॉजिस्ट है उनसे पूछिये। आप कहते हैं कि मैं यूट्यूब पर मॉनिटाइज नही करता क्योंकि वीवर्स से कोई इम्पोर्टेन्ट जानकारी ना छूट जाए। आपको इतनी ही लोगो की फिक्र है तो आप उनके जिंदगी से खिलवाड़ क्यो कर रहे हैं। मैं अपनी अंतरात्मा से बोल रहा हूँ बहुत दर्दनाक होता है यह।
I totally agree with u...my parents also narcissist😭
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
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Are bhai bina video dekhe comment mat kar
Narcissistic person is always a cheater, he feel achievement after cheat some one 😢
Thanks for the detailed information. Most of the points are clearly explained. I would like to share a few thoughts over this.
1. I don't think narcissism can be improved by travelling.
The narcissist have there own way of finding the wrong in everything, there are more chances that person will become more negative rather than accepting the alternate reality.
2. Everybody is not a narcissist, As explained in video A person can only be termed as narcissist if his actions/words are causing harm/pain to others.
3. Understanding the deep love of deeper self could be a cure but a narcissist person cannot see those things otherwise they won't be a narcissist.
True.
Most difficult thing is to make them realize they have problem and then take them to therapy!
I somewhat agree with you as the above can only happen if there is a diagnosis and Narcissists would never find anything wrong with themselves so no chance of diagnosis and hence treatment of the same.
I agree with you Sparsh, Narcissists lack Empathy, if they travel to a village seeing poor people around them, it will make them feel high
Absolutely right
"The Most Dangerous Person is The one who Listen, Thinks & Observes".
-Bruce Lee
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I know I'm
Your videos are owsm bro 😇
It's not always everywhere with evey9ne beo yu rright but also alittle bot of wrong also ji
Why I am an introvert person..so I always do this kind of thing
In one line: Come out of comfort zone at each stage of life and make yourself humble and more humble each day !! 😁😇🥳
😛 live dengerously 😂...
They don't think like that...
@@a_m_q adventures 😂
@@sameersingh2927 that's the point if they are even seeing this line then there is a possibility of them thinking in this way. Point is seed of solution has to go inside the mind... It will take its form one day if told them continuously same thing every day 😃 satisfied with my reply??
@Composition ??
I have been suffered narcissistic relationship for 5 years. He, his family, his friends all were wolves. Its really very scary to survive. Still i am into trauma. Be careful if you feel something is not going right from the 1st day of your relationship. Dont move forward it will ruin you completely. I ignore alot of signs in the beginning and now i am into suffering.
When narcissism goes far, it can cause a very abusive home environment, specially if a parent is narcissitic.
My patents are
इसी तरह से मैं एक Narcissist लड़की के hoovering का शिकार हुआ था।
उसपर trust करके उसे दोबारा मौका दिया तो, वो लड़की कुछ दिन बाद फिर से rough tone में बात करना शुरू कर दी। बार बार ऐसी बातें करती थी, जिससे मेरा मानसिक संतुलन खराब हो। last time वो लड़की जब मिली थी, तब उसको 4 थप्पड़ मार कर उससे contact खत्म कर दिया। इतना कुछ होने के बाद भी वो 6 month बाद unknown number से मुझसे contact करने की कोशिश की, but मैंने ignore किया, उसे block कर दिया।
बहुत time बाद मुझे समझ आया, वो narcissist लड़की मेरे अच्छे education और lifestyle से जलती थी, मेरा mental health खराब करने के लिए उस लड़की का सोंचा समझा plan था।
उससे अलग जब से हुआ, तब से relaxed feel कर रहा हूँ।
आज मैं खुश हूँ।
Narcissists fake crying
Fake tears
Fake empathy
Fake charm
Fake illness
Fake emotions
Fake regret
Fake sensitivity
Fake caring
Fake jobs
Fake education
Fake strength
Fake love
Fake guilt
Fake character
Fake friendship
Fake apeal
Fake friendliness
Fake apology
Fake (place your word here).
Trueeeee
Fake comment
Very true.. they fake life
Fake talks (formalities)
I'm a narcissist plz help me I am suffering from this behaviour 😢😢😢
I came to know about narcissism 6-7 months back , i just felt like someone described my father .also i feel like this narcissism trait is in my grandfather and my sibling brother too not that much as in my father but sometimes i feel like it is.
Even I think that many traits of a Narcissist are genetically inherited, I too have the same story.
Of course there are incidents in our life which trigger one to be Narcissist yet the propensity increases among those who possess that lineage.
My mom like this and lil sis
Dear Sandipji
Good day
Please be informed that Narcissist always wants focus on him at any moments anyhow, for turning attention they do anything, creating drama, acting like victim/Patient, They can never see anybody happy/normal, Any situation should not be normal, there should be chaos/indecisive/never ending process,
Due to childhood trauma, internally they are sad/empty so as to balance their inner feelings they create anything to bag you to their sadness, Narcissist can not be repaired, Doing any efforts are itself is energy for them and results will be zero, They are energy vampires,
In any conflicts weather it's at home/office/wars, there must be 1 Narcissist who never wants to keep situation normal,
Request you to kindly try to understand more about narcissism,
Regards
Agree 100%. Living with one for 30years. Otherwise 65+ years and a practicing doctor. Sandeep ji is on a bit different track.
Sir abhi toh 12th me hu..lekin aapse ek din jarur milunga.... itna confidence aa gya hai..deeply hats off to ur work...Thank u sir ...I feel deeply happy to see a change into our lives because of urselves☺️☺️☺️
We have no infrastructure in India to protect victims from narcissism, infact our dis-functional system producing more and more narcissists. We need majority of people in our society with advance level understanding to slow down narcissistic production but our society is full with people lacking fundamental understanding of life. I also believe that introducing narcissism to underdeveloped society can make the situation worse for example we trying to train somebody to be a car mechanic when he/she doesn't even know how to drive.
Struggle teaches you a lot about life.
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We are here to enjoy life and be happy struggle teaches but what if we were not ready for that , don't justify it please!
I broked up with a narcissist girl. It took 5 years to understand she was narcissistic as she was too manipulative. I can relate to this talks.
I personally think that, this lady is really very matured and intellectual. As the way she is talking to Sandeep sir..
A man and his love can change the world.
Thanks for your contribution
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Thank You Sir When I Choose Wrong Way! I watch Your video then I Choose Right way ....
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So true I also thought the same but on right path
My mother was a narcissist , she sucked soul out of my body for 20 years , I'm healing myself now by staying away from her. , If somebody is stuck in this kind of situation I would suggest to stay away PERMANENTLY , there's no cure.
Exactly true I can feel your problem these people will never improve why to destroy our mental health
Mr Maheshwari is just not letting the guest speak,he is asking her questions,and answering them himself,not letting her speak as an expert....
आपके ही जैसा सच्चा ईमानदार हमारे देश के सभी नेता होते तो आज हमारा भी देश 🇮🇳अमेरिका , जापान और चीन से बहुत आगे होता,,,, 💪💪🙏
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Yes your right
Ofcourse
Pata ni kyu bar bar psychology se shuru karte he or philosophy k station hote hote spirituality tak pouch jate he, and we love it .
😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️
Life ki harr problm ka solution khud ko smjhna yahi sprituality h, bhagwat geeta me v yhi h🕉🙏
🙏
Sandeep’s interpretation of experienced and knowledgeable people being humble n grounded is very right. I have seen people like that. (Ofc that’s possible when a narc gains consciousness about himself n try to improve on it)
I would like to say he actually gives very real n unconventional advices than the bookish knowledge or even professionals with such great articulation - unravelling n simplifying all the things in front of us. I’m a fan
Through meditation, I learnt that when someone abused me physically or emotionally, like parents, I used to hit myself in the heart and stomach regions of my body. I learnt that now when in real life, no one hurts, still then memory patterns of body keep hurting and hitting from inside, whenever that person comes in front of me who had hurt. Now that person has turned very old(my parent). But his voice and face triggers those sensations in my body still. Or if someone shouted at me, I developed a fear of being hit as the next action. Hence, I understood to consciously make my body at ease when this is happening, I try to watch it. But this is very deep and mostly uncontrollable. These things keep my body at an unease. Ultimately, makes me sleep more or try to seek physical body comfort or eat sugary things to cover up. Yet Guru Pooja and Kriya yoga still helps me break these patterns or atleast disrupt these behaviours once in a while. Only kriya yoga and meditation first makes you aware of what you have done to yourself. Through meditation I realised that self abuse in any form is also an abuse to God. Bcoz we are God ourselves so to hurt others or our ownselves is the same thing. We need to become compassion ourselves and spread the same. I heard Mata Amritanandmayi's story why she became a hugging saint in childhood. It touched me. She realised this much before. And started singing bhajans and hugging people.
Emotional independence, financial independence, regular yoga and learning 'who am I' like listening to BK Shivani and Sadguru are very helpful tools to heal and move on. God bless you and be happy that you are a real caring genuine person who can contribute love to the community and family, which narcs can't do or see other than their superego or their limited knowledge.
@@saianihami thank you. To advance on the spiritual journey further, please do Inner Engineering.
Yes..Now I got it...The problem is this that I am being narcissistic.
Now I can do something about it.. thank you so very very much for being there😊
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Read a book named Mindset by Carol Dweck... It will help u
Bro if you are admitting that , you're not actually a Narcissist , they function quite differently , they believe their lies because of their high Egos , they can go lengths to destroy you and believe that they are doing it right , they will try to create drama out of small things and leave you confuse , they may overreact , giving you vague reactions that you didn't expected , create an argumentative tone and blame it all on to you , gaslight you , question your perception and reality , they are very sneaky , they may appear to say things innocently but you mY notice completely different vibes ,you will feel the evilness but for slight a bit .
Ap jo bhi krna bs kisi ki life spoil mt krna
If possible next topic will be how School Students Decide their Career in Young age
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The infinite intelligence of my subconscious mind is constantly showing me the right way n keeping me in right place all the time . I'm expressing my true self , Thank you Almighty
You dont need to decide in young age. Just do what you like.. things would start revealing themselves
@@yashjain4618 okay
Thank you ❤️
@@krishparmar5335 search for the topic before requesting him to make a topic on that. He's discussed about how to choose your career. Just search for it first.
Motivational speaker se psychologist sir AAP to sab kuch jante ho......you r great
The lady interviewer is the only one out of the two who understands narcissism. Mr Maheshwari has never met a covert narcissist and has very less understanding of the subject.
True though!
True. Coverts are the most dangerous of all
True
These kinds of topics are really important for today's generation and upcoming as well 👍
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I wrote it on your birthday on 28Sept this year-
"Happy Birthday to my Guru Sandeep Maheshwari Sir.
Your quote-"Learn from everyone but follow no one" has become my fav
quote & motto of life. Your solution oriented seminars make me
solution oriented rather than problem oriented. When I feel depressed
and isolated, your teachings inspire me. Thank God that I've found you
in my life as a mentor when I was totally aimless. Your question minded
process makes to understand every single topic very clearly.
In a true meaning, you're a real teacher!"
One day while I was searching on RUclips about 'peace', I found your
video(around last month of 2019). I liked it and found all of my
answers.
Take love & respect from Bangladesh, Sandeep Ji!
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I was watching this to understand my husband beeing a victim but I got to know that I am not infact he is also the victim. I think now I can relate more and change our life. Respect to Mr. MAHESHWARI
Covert narcissist are more dangerous than normal narcissist. No one can believe how much painful things are happening with the victims. Even no one can recognize the narcissist but Only the victims can realise it. But at the end its to late for him / her😢
So true 💔
If you are referring to NPD then Agreed that the Covert NPD is more dangerous ... but there is no "normal NPD scenario my friend !!
Narcissism is actually a human trait ... & everyone has it in small manageable proportions ... the problem arises when this proportion get augmented to gigantic levels ... because then it becomes a mental pathology referred to as a Personality Disorder !!
& no disorder is normal by any standards !!
@@Sigma-Enigma well said. Exactly 💯. There are no normal things in narcissism.
Suffered the same
18:32 he is talking about himself which he actually is.
32:49 best line from the podcast
Thanks Sir Sandeep Maheshwari for teaching “The Learning attitude”. It has changed my perception and vision to see life and to learn from anything.
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Right
Thanks
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Sandeep sir always has a perfect answer.. That's too brilliant.. Changing your routine is the first step if you to be free from narccism..
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You are talking theoretical.... practically it is very difficult.
The very first thing is nobody would even accept they are narcissist. .
Bro lekin puri duniya m aisa koi insaan nhi jo hr baar sahi ho
@@incometipss hmm you are right mere bhai.. But some people are so inspired and that's why most of the time they are correct for example sandeep sir😆
Narcissism seems to be a very common cause for relationship problems but the most neglected.
They make a situation difficult. Initially they lure you and then they simply spoil your mental health. No matter how much you try to make them understand but they won't agree.
They simply want to defeat you and simply want to put you down
Best episode, so far of this series..
27:40 OP..
I wana meet this lady
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Narcissism is also a kind of human feeling, but if another person is exploited because of narcissism then it is a tyranny.😊🙏
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I feel thankful to watch this video. I am cursed with Narcissism. It was not my choice to be one. I was very frightened as a child. Some circumstances made it so. I developed very selfish reflexes and defence mechanisms. I had very loving and compassionate parents. I always had problems with understanding my own emotions. Always felt vulnerable. This got replaced by arrogance, self gaslighting, and gaslighting others too. My father could read that something was wrong with me. He desperately wanted me to get out of this habit and tried his best. I drove him nuts. Got thrashing too.I did not understand it then. All my narcissistic mind could remember is my resentment for those beatings. I clung to self gaslighting like someone naked would cling to a torn robe. My low self esteem was the main culprit. I desperately wanted to overcome my innate fear. But I had fallen in the thinking pattern of blaming others .making others feel guilty. Fear is the most dangerous feeling. It makes you react unnecessarily, enlarge things, and your emotions become so unstable. I feel terribly ashamed when I think of all the mess and pain that I have left around me.
I am still struggling to correct my thinking process. I still fall in the same old pattern of thinking and behaviour. This is very painful process but essential if I have to kill my narcissistic self and emerge as a healthy and good human.
Well trained Psychologist and she tolerated all the interference from the other side.
ज्ञान से शब्द समझ में आते हैं और अनुभव से अर्थ!!🙏👏👏📚📚
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Sahi baat hai ma'am...Apke sabhi thoughts achhe hain...aap kya karti hain?
And u can't understand from experience.
Hii my sister
Please help me
Because
Mai kisi kaam ko karne ke liye shuru kar per use adhure me छोड़ देता हूँ
Jaise
Maine kisi kaam ko Monday ko chaalu kiya aur agle monday ko छोड़ diya jabki wah kaam mujhe 2 manth ya 2 years ya puri life karni chahiye
Koi habit bataayiye
एक और खराब आदत है कि मै अलार्म सुबह 5:30 per लगाया हूँ पर उठता 8 बजे हूँ
Meaningful thought
Superb, the true session nd I experiencing from last 13 years, no one can go through it...its only I know whts a real narcissist. Very tough to live with lt just as normal life, no happiness no respect no valve no even caring only dominating nd manipulating person.
Only blessed with devine trust nd belivness so hw m living with breath in nd out ..
Narcissistic person is sometimes really empathetic and helpful but only to pretend others. These people are weird.😅😊 I have met so many times. Just ignore their behavior and speak truth.
How well she is explaining and deducing each point
“To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.”
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जीत निश्चित हो तो कायर भी लड़ सकते है। बहादुर वो कहलाते है जो हार निश्चित हो, फिर भी मैदान नहीं छोड़ते।🙏👍👍📚📚
really? hame toh pata hi nahi tha.
Kya bat kahi sister ...nice..👍🙏
Just like the 21 sikh soldiers of Saragarhi . Salute to them and others like them .
That's suicide
Very nice 👍🏻 pihu
Kash sabhi ye apni life me impliment kre.
“Self-honesty is what you call humility. You have to be aware of your strong points and your weak points. To progress spiritually, one must have awareness, self-honesty and the will to transform.”
-Grand Master Choa Kok Sui
Leave Narcissistic personality on their own responsibility by stopping giving unnecessary support and cooperation for own Needs. Ignore difficulties of life they had .... till they themselves realise meaning of empathy.
_Complaining less and thanking more makes life easier._ 💘💓💘✍️🥀🙏🥀🙏☘️🙏
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We can't live according to quotation. Otherwise all people behave like ancient.
My life could have been a mess without you and your guidance.. Respect ❤️❤️❤️
Sandeep ji's talks are always amazing and gives food for thought.
I came here to understand Sandeep jis view on narcissism. Looking forward from you sir on more clear thoughts on this...
From my understanding, eventhough they know about life, they don't know much about their inner self or they donno why they are like that. But if we go and empathize them or help them correct then we will be in trouble and narcissist makes ourselves confused or mad and make ourselves low. This gives them happiness and energy for their narcissist behaviour . Finally we were nowhere , we have to keep away from such people for our own survival and peace of mind. This toxic behaviour we can't find in common people. Narcissist people are really different, unfortunately we can make out at a point where we will be totally exhausted and these people are unchangeable.
Narcissist person always finds or search negativity in positivities.
Narcissist person comes in positive manner only for some temporary period.
Narcissist person never changes until their death.
Run faraway as you run by seeing a huge crocodile or tiger, when you come to know about this disorder.
What to do if narcissist person is your divorced sister
My take on this is
Narcissism is relate to superiority
Now superiority is true but in a specific thing
Like strength for ep or money
But never in value
No one is superior in value
But narcissistic personality is empty if they don't have money they think they have great brain to make it even i think that way myself but I criticize myself also about present nd this is what makes a difference
हर छोटा बदलाव बड़ी कामयाबी का हिस्सा होता है🙏👍👍📚📚
Hii
You are real motivation
Travelling doesn’t always helps narcissists Sandeep ji… i have had a very close exposure with someone who travelled and settled overseas however narcissism only escalated more and more. 😢😢
Casual explanation and lack of research to bring vast topic like narissism in front of people.I felt like being,presentor and speaker they haven't experienced and speaker in a not so serious approach.
I have learned all of this when I was researching Holy Guru Granth Sahib (Sikh Scripture) and Sikhism. But your way of explanation is also excellent. You are helping many people with your words.
Thanks very much.
31:00 is a point to note everyone is not narcissist.
I have seen a lot of narcissist even it is genetic also....but it's very difficult to hold other personality..they can act according to the situation, they lie alot but the person who have partners with these personality people are suffering alot.
It can even lead to traumatic and mental disorder to other person. But ultimate result is to leave these person and can't continue relationship with them. Because for empathic people it's very easy to understand and chenge them.
But for narcissist it is really difficult.
I have seen alot of people who are narcissist the ultimate thing they don't take responsibility for their own action and they used to avoid situation and with their manipulative tactics they try to repeat their cycle everytime.
So till now there is no solution for narcissist people.
I value Sandeep Sir alot 🙏 thank you for this discussion in your great channel and with this great lady 🙏
@@d.n5198 if you are knowing that he is narcissist please educate yourself more and more about NPD and try to come out of this relationship if it is possible....
It is horrible to be with them I know I was with this type of relationship for more than 11 years but ultimately I have left him last year with fully no contact because I had suicidal attempt thoughts when I was with that person....he used to make situation like I did everything and their love bombing to devaluing..the cycle of abuse uffff.....this type of toxic relationship really sucks energy like a parasite and please before you people marry just leave him...your life is precious don't waste your life...don't harm him but protect yourself....you are precious for your parents and first for yourself....educate youself more and more I must suggest you to view Angie Atkinson video on narcissism and so many other video.....please come out of this....hopefully it will help you All d best for this... 🙏
@@d.n5198 🙂....
Lil girl...you called me di..so feel free to reply if you need any kind of help 🙏......life is beautiful and you too....so live happily..
P.S if you feel uncomfortable in any relationship....it means there is something wrong with the relationship...
So try to correct it think about it...it's not only your responsibility to keep the burden of abusive relationship..just to run it...love yourself and take care of yourself...and take stand for yourself...it's 21st century girls or boys....abuse can't be tolerable because now we have so many sources to know what is righy and what is wrong or..so .take stand and live happily🙂😊💞
@@ridha7662 I am in extreme level of narcissism , I am helpless
@@as09_dishapatel47 hey Lil girl just try to come out of these kind of shitty relationship.....life is more beautiful just remove negative people from your life who just suck your energy and then only you will gonaa find someone who is worth enough for you👌...push yourself and have courage to leave someone who don't value you🙏🙏
इसी तरह से मैं एक Narcissist लड़की के hoovering का शिकार हुआ था।
उसपर trust करके उसे दोबारा मौका दिया तो, वो लड़की कुछ दिन बाद फिर से rough tone में बात करना शुरू कर दी। बार बार ऐसी बातें करती थी, जिससे मेरा मानसिक संतुलन खराब हो। last time वो लड़की जब मिली थी, तब उसको 4 थप्पड़ मार कर उससे contact खत्म कर दिया। इतना कुछ होने के बाद भी वो 6 month बाद unknown number से मुझसे contact करने की कोशिश की, but मैंने ignore किया, उसे block कर दिया।
बहुत time बाद मुझे समझ आया, वो narcissist लड़की मेरे अच्छे education और lifestyle से जलती थी, मेरा mental health खराब करने के लिए उस लड़की का सोंचा समझा plan था।
उससे अलग जब से हुआ, तब से relaxed feel कर रहा हूँ।
आज मैं खुश हूँ।
Narcissit kabhi kisi or ko dekh kar nahi Sikh sakte unke liye agar relationship me ho toh wo kahi ja nahi sakta or wo usse hi criticism karte rahega ..mam is almost right and i agree with her ..
अकेले ही तय करने होते हैं कुछ सफर;
ज़िंदगी के हर सफर में हमसफ़र नहीं मिला करते!🙏🙏👏📚📚
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Akele chlte chlte thk jate he ma'am
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Basic problem with a NPD, Lack of Empathy. Childish behaviour existing in adult age…
I appreciated all his talks so far, but this one either he was not given a right picture or he took very lightly. He has dealt the whole issue on a very superficial levels. It is also common in females.
They’ll use their children to their best interest. Another thing which was not dealt well is CoDependence.
Telling positive about ourselves, but can’t be at someone’s cost.
Probably expert with Sandeep is also not well aware about this issue much.
NPD is defensive mechanism, choosen to protect their emotions and it is at the expense of their partner. Who eventually develops Co-Dependency.
U r right......this session was very superficial.....he didn't talk about many important points
@@monishaverma5738 I agree but atleast he talked about it. Maybe in the future , we get more information on this.
Can you please tell more about this
I think both of them had studied the surface-level information on narcissism before coming to the studio. They never talked about the family systems, family roles, scapegoating, golden child, intergenerational trauma, parental abuse, abandonment issues, and other root causes with devestating impacts of narcissistic abuse.
Mild and even moderate narcissism is almost undetectable. Only people those who are self-satisfied and practicing some kind of yoga, can diagnose mild to moderate disorder because they know what they are as Sandeep has said that know yourself and knowing what is life is side by side.
Severe Narcissism is a really big problem and mostly will be associated with bipolar disorder. And bipolar disorder is definitely having genetic as well as familial association.
In severe narcissism it is very difficult to sperate apart narcissism and bipolar disorder.
I have too closely encountered this disorder in my wife who is a renound cardiologist and three of her first and second degree relatives became frankly psychotic and there are suicidal tendency in some or aggressive behavior in others in nearly 50% of her paternal relationship.
Good show Sandeep..💐
Love this video❤🙏👏 it was much needed I am a product of narcissistic abuse and backward family I have been in depression since 25 years and narcissistic people lack empathy, sensitive, compassion, and the list goes on
Therapy is somehow termed as Stigma among people.
बहुत कम लोग जानते हैं कि वो बहुत कम जानते हैं ।
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कुछ लोग जानते हैं कि वो कुछ जानते हैं ।
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और बाकी सब लोग मानते हैं कि वो सब कुछ जानते हैं ।
इसीलिए वो बाकी सब लोग जिन्दगी भर ख़ाक छानते हैं ।
I disagree with you here Sandeep ji, with everyone being a narcissist. It’s like saying everyone is a sociopath or other mental illness. It’s a serious mental disorder, and living with a narcissistic person is a nightmare. I think much more research is required about this topic before talking about it. The lady is good. She understands this disorder since she is a specialist. So she is talking sense in this video.
I agree with u .I have narcissist brother .He makes all my relatives and parents against me. He mentally abused and put me down from 18 years constantly .My self confidence goes very down. Now i m suffered from depression and anxiety . I m continuously taking anti depression and anxiety pills because whenever i goes to home whole family bullied me and mentally harass me .It's extremely hard and tough life i m facing wright now and i have getting sucidal thoughts now and after all this my narcissist brother did'nt stop here now he call all relatives and telling all relatives and family members that i didn't phone him a single time that's true but all family members are on my narcissist brother side what should i do .
Yes absolutely
Probably this is the only topic I think sandeep has not got right about.
@@akashgoswami2967 Hey listen just be strong enough and search about narcissism and if I tell you......he is jealous of you that's he is doing all these things...just don't be dependent on others emotions of your happiness and if he do things like this just don't respond...because he is distracting you from your goal so just block him and whenever you go home just go for 2 or 3 days.....and live peacefully alone. 🙏
Cut everyone Jo jo fAltu bakwas krte h 🙏
Mr. maheshwari shud listen more, ask the right question and speak less . Shud give due importance to the panelist he has invited.
You didn't get the depth of his talk. He is right because all of human beings have a certain level of ego!
That's the reason it is said "A little learning is a dangerous thing."
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Wow the way sandeep Sir deal any issue with so much empathy 😊more power to him thank you sir
Sandeep sir is 💎
My mind completely absorbing his thoughts