When My Masculine Met My Feminine | Tijana Tamburic | TEDxBucharest

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024

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  • @GalenMelchert
    @GalenMelchert 4 года назад +44

    "A good place to start [Integrating our super powers] is by telling more authentic stories."
    Amen

    • @iraklitsiklauri6828
      @iraklitsiklauri6828 Год назад

      They were not happy to see us with you. No one has thrown me on that road for years.

    • @iraklitsiklauri6828
      @iraklitsiklauri6828 Год назад

      Take out the pirat dagger.

    • @iraklitsiklauri6828
      @iraklitsiklauri6828 Год назад

      Have you heard ინ Bucharest, my friends? Between Georgia and Schengen countries, in the conditions of the existing visa regimes and extortions, What is their relationship with young Georgian girls ?

  • @etherean369
    @etherean369 2 года назад +17

    I keep coming back to this talk. I learned so much about myself and the world through this. The power of these energies needs to be taught to more and more people.

  • @ayusoetopo7821
    @ayusoetopo7821 Месяц назад

    Thanks for sharing your story Tijana. It pretty much resonate to mine. I was raised to be masculine, not physically (I always have long hair), but mentally, because my mom had to take care of my sick dad for more than 10 years (kidney failure). So, we have to independent since very young age (primary school). I'm now mother of 4.. Im in the process to lower my guard, my armour of masculinity. It felt weird in the beginning, because it made me feels vulnerable and weak. But I feel more relax and can enjoy life more. My relationship with my hubby is better than ever. We both re-learn about each other and we are going strong. Your video makes me more convince that Im in the right direction.

  • @ProudMommyWifey
    @ProudMommyWifey 4 года назад +26

    On behalf of myself as a single mom, and my 4 young daughters... You've brought us clarity and so much meaningful knowledge... Thank you

    • @cloudproud729
      @cloudproud729 4 года назад +1

      I’m sorry for you husband.

    • @ProudMommyWifey
      @ProudMommyWifey 4 года назад +7

      Thank you, however I'm not... They're both good men who don't know how to be decent husbands and/or fathers, I learned a lot from each ex-husband, and I got 4 amazing young daughters... Most people don't understand, but my past experiences are invaluable to me, and if I had it all to do all over again I wouldn't change anything, because then my life would be different and I wouldn't be the person I am today 💝💐

    • @cloudproud729
      @cloudproud729 4 года назад

      But dosen’t your kids need a father.

    • @ProudMommyWifey
      @ProudMommyWifey 4 года назад +5

      @@cloudproud729 both fathers choose not to be involved for the most part, and I haven't found anybody suitable to fill that roll, so no

  • @venniedobrosavljevic1299
    @venniedobrosavljevic1299 4 года назад +31

    Brave talk! Also, so proud of your mom

    • @CatGamer-wc2ij
      @CatGamer-wc2ij 2 года назад

      I agree. That is why men are so mad today. We are told to be vulnerable, and women are told to be masculine. It's an impossible world. Yes, she was correct the world is becoming more masculine for her, as all women are encouraged to be manly. But men are demonized.

  • @GuilloRamiro
    @GuilloRamiro 4 года назад +38

    Really inspiring talk. It's so good that we can have access to all these stories and knowledge through the TED Talks, i love them so much.

    • @denasharpe2393
      @denasharpe2393 4 года назад +1

      Me too...l had to find my own way!!

  • @mionadimitrijevic2933
    @mionadimitrijevic2933 4 года назад +8

    Tijana, thank you very much to stimulate my deeper reflexion and above all my introspection.... All your presentations are very inspiring!

  • @lambast_cure1305
    @lambast_cure1305 4 года назад +7

    I am glad there is someone brave enough to emphasise issues that need to be solved in order to help people.

  • @etherean369
    @etherean369 4 года назад +16

    Unseen, unheard, unappreciated..
    This is the history of femininity.
    I hope it changes.
    We are just as good. We just need that to be understood and respected, not told our place is 'naturally to be submissive' and quiet. We need to have equal value, because this is how this issue if sexism and related issues will stop and we will live in peace without either being destroyed.
    We need more respect for the feminine. That is all.
    I must also add that this is a concept that has been taught my Native Americans. Moreso in the existance of the now termed(and sometimes debated) 'two-spirited' individual. Spiritually, this was someone who had both the masculine and feminine energies within them. There is also the esoteric teachings of the first human from whom male and female arose when they were split in half achronomicon, I think...I don't recall the spelling...You can look it up.

  • @TonettaClay
    @TonettaClay 2 года назад +6

    Definitely a very inspiring talk. I can relate to what you're saying about women and my view of them as well. Catty, judging...lately I've been lead to learn more about femininity and masculine energies. This let's me know what's possible in what I'm looking to create. Thank you so much.

  • @davinadaras
    @davinadaras 5 месяцев назад +2

    This talk was absolutely beautiful. I can’t convey enough how deeply I resonate with her experiences and the extent of her beautiful self discovery within the harmony of unionizing the feminine and the masculine 🌹

  • @lonniehendrickson27
    @lonniehendrickson27 Год назад +1

    what an amazing powerful speech full of strength that is not sharp or hard - it is not soft either, it is vulnerable.

  • @bambrew3
    @bambrew3 2 года назад +2

    Goddammit this was such a great speech. Everything from the message to the composition to the delivery was outstanding! 👏

  • @neigeepierrot4694
    @neigeepierrot4694 4 года назад +9

    Wonderful talk exactly what we need right now

  • @artteachermaven
    @artteachermaven Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤ Thank you! I cried towards the end. Well said

  • @melanierosalie
    @melanierosalie 2 года назад +1

    Wow. One of the best Ted talks I have listened to.

  • @jaz9008
    @jaz9008 4 года назад +4

    Absolutely brilliant talk!!

  • @alaynajoline
    @alaynajoline 4 года назад +9

    This is absolutely amazing. Love the reference to Burning Man and the type of people who go. Just good people trying to know the real you.

  • @majella3211
    @majella3211 4 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing the wisdom! LOVE it.

  • @desireequinteros5490
    @desireequinteros5490 Год назад +1

    incredible talk. Thanks so much for this.

  • @mathogre
    @mathogre 4 года назад +4

    Wonderful! Very powerful.

  • @tristanbrady8663
    @tristanbrady8663 2 года назад +1

    I really like the conclusion at the end…what a nice story

  • @donicamcarthur2500
    @donicamcarthur2500 2 года назад +1

    Wow! This was really so powerful! Thank you so much for this. 💖💖💖

  • @sherylhokianga3
    @sherylhokianga3 4 года назад +5

    My Mum Was The Same!..She Had 2 Be!....Bein a Solo Parent!

  • @Yoyoyo-k3k
    @Yoyoyo-k3k Год назад

    Ahhhhh!!!!!! Phenomenonal 💖

  • @missketh9164
    @missketh9164 4 года назад +1

    Thank you !!

  • @elenabelacastre7789
    @elenabelacastre7789 4 года назад +5

    🌈🐬☀🐬🎭OUTSTANDING!!!

  • @thehuskygirl3346
    @thehuskygirl3346 2 года назад

    thank you. I got along with boys , too.

  • @namratak9232
    @namratak9232 Год назад

    Wow this was so wonderful!

  • @claudiawagner9402
    @claudiawagner9402 3 года назад +1

    Great Talk!

  • @melissaestrada3432
    @melissaestrada3432 3 года назад +1

    Omg!! This represents me

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 2 года назад

    This is so amazing.

  • @ChrisWorksCreative
    @ChrisWorksCreative 2 года назад

    Beautiful and inspiring.

  • @er.469
    @er.469 4 года назад +1

    That was powerful

  • @thenkindler001
    @thenkindler001 3 года назад

    Beautiful speech

  • @hch5498
    @hch5498 3 года назад

    Excellent talk.

  • @NerdEmoji1067
    @NerdEmoji1067 3 года назад +4

    I’m a dude who likes purple and some girly things, so what

  • @sarahchornobai
    @sarahchornobai 4 года назад +1

    Yeah 👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @melissaestrada3432
    @melissaestrada3432 3 года назад

    This is soooooooo powerful

  • @YourPledge
    @YourPledge 4 года назад +2

    Bravo!

    • @iraklitsiklauri6828
      @iraklitsiklauri6828 Год назад

      Level 2 Language Book Audio CD - Macmillan English. I can't find CD. Do you have Theron ?

    • @iraklitsiklauri6828
      @iraklitsiklauri6828 Год назад

      Have you heard ინ Bucharest, my friends? Between Georgia and Schengen countries, in the conditions of the existing visa regimes and extortions, What is their relationship with young Georgian girls ?

  • @andrealawitzky
    @andrealawitzky Год назад

    yeah I get this

  • @xoliswacebekhulu6717
    @xoliswacebekhulu6717 3 года назад

    goosebumps

  • @mindymay3
    @mindymay3 2 года назад

    Brava.

  • @chidreamer
    @chidreamer 2 года назад

    Wow 🌅😇

  • @kaowashere
    @kaowashere 2 года назад

    Beautiful!!!

  • @valentinamilanova5256
    @valentinamilanova5256 3 года назад

    Genius 💛

  • @arturarturson385
    @arturarturson385 4 года назад +5

    Is it just me or She talks in verses?

    • @Alex-ou9lb
      @Alex-ou9lb 2 года назад

      Definitely picked up the timed pauses

  • @kevongobiro3459
    @kevongobiro3459 4 года назад

    Eloquent!

  • @dulce.amargada
    @dulce.amargada 4 года назад

    🙌🏼💚

  • @grapesoda3414
    @grapesoda3414 2 года назад

    🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

  • @dblair1258
    @dblair1258 3 года назад

    Interesting. :)

  • @elenekarpa972
    @elenekarpa972 4 года назад +2

    Athina has a mother and a son...

    • @philippine2240
      @philippine2240 4 года назад +2

      In most narratives she spans directly from Zeus's head and she is one of the 3 virgins goddesses with Hestia and Artemis

    • @elenekarpa972
      @elenekarpa972 4 года назад +2

      @@philippine2240 In most nerratives Zeus made her mother water when she was pregnant and drink it. So that how Athina spans from Zeus head.

  • @marksmith1960
    @marksmith1960 2 года назад +1

    Can women not get strength from their feminine side then?

    • @diasroshi4097
      @diasroshi4097 Год назад

      They can. Feminine energy gives a different kind of strength

  • @mionadimitrijevic2933
    @mionadimitrijevic2933 4 года назад

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🥰🤩😍

  • @Cmon_Lets_Learn
    @Cmon_Lets_Learn 4 года назад

    M first here

    • @menemiste
      @menemiste 4 года назад

      No I am

    • @iraklitsiklauri6828
      @iraklitsiklauri6828 Год назад

      Level 2 Language Book Audio CD - Macmillan English. I can't find CD. Do you have ? First i have.

  • @thelmasilas104
    @thelmasilas104 Год назад

    It is your ancestors Eve and Lilith fighting over Adam. that's why women keep breaking each other

  • @anmoweb
    @anmoweb Год назад

    I react to several things yes women can slander but men do it too and can be really bad, I've been working in male jobs most all my life and sitting back listening you see them.
    You say your male side met your female and for the first time you let your self to be vonerable, well that has nothing to do with masculine or feminine because men are vonerable too and they cry they are only afraid to show it because of patriarchy.
    Masculine are the male gender and feminine are the womens gender.
    You were only hurt and hid inside yourself as so many others do and all the sudden you met yourself in the door and got smarter not less male or more woman.

    • @anmoweb
      @anmoweb Год назад

      And the hair; hsir do has altered and changed over the hundreds of years and here patriarchy has a finger in it too, women was put in a box by the church how to be chould wear skirt, long hair, be hime, work at home, have kids, controlled by the family, and if you broke out of it you were a shame and a townboy, everyone was and are so programmed by this norm that girls and women even in modern time suffer from peoples view on how women should be.

    • @anmoweb
      @anmoweb Год назад

      You were not a boysgirl you were a girl in short hair

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 года назад

    😅😃😆😀😁😂❤🌹 ✌

  • @gorgeousnoxy481
    @gorgeousnoxy481 2 года назад +1

    Interesting talk, but I would say you should just be yourself and not worry whether your behavior is masculine or feminine. Just let behavior be and just exist.