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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Suzanne talks with author Carrie Gress about her recent article, "Why Don't We Tell Women What's Making Them Miserable?"
IN THIS EPISODE:
5:30 Feminism has had a long march through our culture, but happiness metrics prove that in spite of this, women are struggling with their happiness
8:30 Feminism is motivated by Marxism
10:40 People are afraid to stand up against women’s so-called empowerment
14:40 Women have been sold a poisonous lifestyle (Ex: Children keep us from being happy)
17:00 Carrie talks about her book The Anti-Mary Exposed: Rescuing the Culture from Toxic Femininity
21:00 Men are not made to fight with women, which is why there's not much pushback
24:40 What should we be telling women if they want happy lives?
30:00 There IS a remedy to feminism
31:30 How Carrie combats the cultural narratives with her own children
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Wrong title. It should be "Why don't WOMEN tell other WOMEN what's making them miserable?" All women tell each other is "You go girl! You're a Queen!"
Right. Women out here lying other women about what men find attractive, and telling men that they're incorrect about what men are supposed to be attracted to. Out here telling other women that strength, independence, promiscuity only occasionally interrupted by a few weeks of solitude, earning power, a life full of competition and stress in the workforce and the dating world is what is going to make them happy.
Women are competing with other women, and this includes a mother and daughter. So ver few women will tell other women things that will help them, unless it help both of them. And the few women who do tell other women the truth, are seen as traitors and will be vilified by the collective.
Why would you tell your competitors how to succeed?
I have. They all think I'm crazy and repressed. I love my family and am happiest looking after their needs my all the single women I know think I have 'missed out.'
what's really sad is that if you asked a man "why are women miserable?", and he gave the same answer as this lady author, no one would listen to him solely because he's a man.
Focused women are not miserable. Yes, some women don't know what they want and therefore they probably won't ever get there. This goes for both genders. The person who fails to identify goals won't reach them. Although, for most individuals, the older we get the more we understand about life and relationships. Most of the people I know who married in their 20s were divorced about 2-8 years later. The earlier is better for marriage works for only a small segment of the population.
@@reginasemenenko148 that’s because the system and culture incentives women to divorce. Men know it. Women keep pretending that isn’t the case.
just gotta keep that restraining order active
Out comes the standby for anything that challenges the f-ist narrative: "Toxic Masculinity".
@@reginasemenenko148 funny how it worked for almost all of recorded history right up until the the late 60s. Hmmmm I wonder what changed then.
In my experience, trying to tell a modern woman she's making a mistake results in accusations of misogyny, sexism, oppression..."who asked for your opinion..."...etc.
who hurt you etc. etc
Amber Heard and women like her are row models for young women of today who often grew up in families with out fathers raised by unhappy and narcissistic mothers .... 2-3 years ago comment like this would get me suspended from FB
Because we aren’t allowed to tell women anything they don’t want to hear without their consent.
They won’t listen anyway. It’s their nature and generations of conditioning
I tried telling a few women the truth back in the '90s, and all I got for my troubles was "You just can't handle a strong, independent woman!".
@S.C. VON GEHL the term that describes that characteristic in women is solipsism
Thats ear grape.
@LIBRÆ ALGIZ VON GEHL
Thats really intresting. Have you any thoughts more about this?
My girlfriend wanted to get married. I took it slow but agreed after she was so sweet and nice. Once married and our house built she turned into a crazy person. Sleeping with her doctors and never coming home to our two children. She filed and the courts gave het the house, land, children, alimony, pets.....everything to her. Men hear my story and thousands just like it. Marriage for a man is just handing over your life savings because she is not happy. Thank goodness young men have youtube. Women need to change the laws or marriage will end as we know it.
Sorry man. I hope you’re back on solid ground
She has always been these things. It's either you never really knew her or she hid them well.
I am afraid now.
Sleeping with her doctors? How did you find out? This is insane. I am a woman. I have never cheated nor would I in the future. I know people can be so selfish & cruel. I just sometimes can’t believe the audacity people have.
Didn't get a pre-up prior to marrying her? Always protect your assets even if you don't have any. I would as a woman.
A smart woman learns from her mistakes. A wise woman learns from the mistakes of others.
never met either
Its absolutely amazing to me how women can never seem to own their decisions but have to find someone or something else to blame: the patriarchy or men in general, feminism. It would be refreshing to hear a woman say, "I made bad life decisions and only blame myself".
You’re 100% spot on. This goes for everyone though too! Yes my choices have led me to where I am in life. I made some choices that were incredibly dumb and that’s an understatement. I also have learned from those idiotic choices and taught my children to do better. Being accountable is huge. Also is having mercy and compassion with yourself and others. No one is perfect. We all do better when we take accountability and responsibility for our own actions and walk in humility. No it’s not always easy because of our egos. We do get to keep trying every day we have breath in our being. No blaming. Which all started in the beginning! 🤠
Women: You're objectifying me. Leave me alone. You're oppressing me.
Men: OK
Also women: Men won't pay any attention to me. They're oppressing me.
Men: (looney)
HAHAHAHA yes that would be amazing, so would winning the lotto. Same odds
I've met one over my 40+ years on earth. I was so shocked at her capacity to accept personal responsibility that I immediately commented on it. Developing it, she said, was "a LOT of work."
Hahahahahhahahaha hahahhahhahahaa! You have a better chance on winning next weeks lottery with last weeks ticket! Women in response... BUt BUT BUT... Who hurt you?... Patriarchy... then they go cry to a man to deal with it.
It’s all a moot point until the court/divorce laws change. Marriage just isn’t worth it for men.
I wanna hear how effective Prenups are. I've heard mixed opinions on them.
If girls were encouraged to accept them (by observation of those that refused and those that signed), the courts could wind up moot since divorce-magnets would have to arbitrate outside of favorable courts.
Women are all of a sudden concerned that the willing workhorse provider men are getting scarce. They should look into marrying each other, then one can play the provider role and see how that goes.
@@somedandy7694 not worth the ink on the paper...
@@somedandy7694 lots of judges throw the prenup out because the woman cries.
Absolutely! Never again.
This society has already collapsed morally.
It is kind of funny listening to middle-aged, upper middle class women chit-chat about their wishes and wants as the world burns before their eyes.
We have raised a generation of people who view themselves as victims. victims don't have to take responsibility for their choices because...of course it isn't their fault! So, they go on making the same mistakes and not learning from them. It always boils down to someone else's fault, whether that is men, employers, husbands, children, society etc. But never her fault. I raised my children to take responsibility for their actions and be willing to evaluate problems. Victimhood is encouraged in education at all levels.
Q: Why don't we tell women what is making them miserable?
A: Because they won't listen, and get angry when they see how their unhappiness is all their own fault.
Wow, you nailed that one! haha
Its social engineering... it isn't just women not listening. Everyone is being nudged and pushed in this society. They have thoughts that aren't even their own. You ever hear of the media?? Your just as clueless as any modern female.
I'm a single successful guy who has dated 100's of what society would describe as "successful women". I would say that about 1% of them were well adjusted and could add any value to my life. All the others exhibited some form of being a Wack-Job. Whether spouting feminist nonsense or just being bossy and/or unhappy at their core, introducing them in any way into my enjoyable life would be a huge liability. Sorry to say that, but that's been my experience.
No offense, but why were you dating "100's" of these women? "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me"
@@luthiengs I’ve dated that many women over many years. Not all at once.
@@shimon1166 But that's exactly my point. Why would you keep dating those kinds of women?
@@luthiengs it’s usually takes a date or two to see how crazy they are. I give them benefit of the doubt.
I’ll echo this stat. I’ve dated 50+ and I’d say 1 maybe 2 were marriage material. 1-2-%
I love that Suzanne never shies away from drawing intentions and conclusions. Without them a person is just bloviating.
Men: Working for a living sucks, but I'll do it for my family.
Women: I wish I could get out of the house and see and do interesting things! Men are so lucky! I wish I worked for a living!
Later...
Women: Working for a living sucks.
The pandemic showed me that staying home sucks far more. I wasn’t made for domesticity at all!
@@Fearlessly91 everything sucks. Somethings more than others.
@@davidhawley1132 I don’t think everything sucks. But even if it did, I’d choose what sucks less.
The. They decide being married sucks and they need a boyfriend/divorce
@@Fearlessly91 Do you have young children and if you do is your husband as skilled or just "different" looking after your young children ?
I worked looking after people with disabilities , their were 28 women ,2 men and myself . Few men are able to do that nor want to , ideally people are able to do they they are good at & also enjoy. We do not always have a choice, that's life . BTW have you done the big five personality test ?
Regardless how women change their mind about marriage; men are walking away from marriage.
Men are now walking away because men for the most part weren't taught how to make a relationship work, they were just expected to know and who taught men that? Women. They taught men what THEY wanted and not what they needed. Women are the teachers but they basically have abused their position. With the internet men are slowly learning the truth and women don't like it because men are just walking away and not playing the game full stop! Is this the right thing to do? Probably not but that's what they're doing and there is nothing women can do about it apart from manipulate the laws and it's only going to become worse for both sides.
'pulling you out of your narcissm'. My god that explains so very much.
I've watched a couple of Suzanne's vids and they are terrific. Excellent points made for sure. But I'm a heterosexual man, and her message needs to be getting to women. The small number of subscribers pretty much points to the fact that few women are listening.
Yes - the people who are subscribed are probably bought in what Suzanne is saying. We need the Only Fans & Kardashians folks to watch this stuff.
1. Because they won't listen and
2. Because we're way past caring.
The not caring part is big. A mans mindset to be ok to walk away is what gives us power and peace of mind
Power doesn't make happiness. But women don't want happiness, they want power.
I LOVE Carrie's books! This collab is so great. Thank you! - Gen Z wife and mom
Have women ever been happy? Feminism started about 100 years ago. Every time they get their demands met they're not satisfied and make new ones and aren't satisfied with those either. How do you make someone happy who can't be satisfied?
It’s a lie. When women take the bait they don’t even realize how miserable it is. Ever since I was a little girl I wanted to be a wife and mother. As I grew up all I heard in my environment is I needed to go to college and get a career-mostly from my dad. I bought the lie. Me. And it’s not natural to live this way at least for me. I stayed home with my kids when they were little and my husband provided them something changed and he didn’t want me home anymore because he bought the lie we needed more. I was happy with less. More is not always better.
That sounds personal. This conversation is in general.
I think everyone agrees that husbands should be present participants in the family unit. We think if we find who to blame it makes us feel better, when in reality we need to see our roles. And how we contributed to the issue of him wanting to be left alone. Like, is it posible you’re miserable to be around?
Victim blaming aside, I know we are trained to think in terms of victim and perpetrator, but we need to learn to ask, what did I do to contribute to this? Am I pushing you away? And I’m sorry, I’ll work on it.
It will save your marriage. Looking in the mirror. It hurts. But it’s so worth it.
I think evertime they get something they want they always take it up another notch. The LGBTQ community is just another wave of feminism.
They are NEVER happy or satisfied. I work with travel nurses that can earn a thousand dollars a day, and they still whine and cry.
@@Dan.50 funny you say that because women nurses are actually some of the most unhappy. Forgot which data statistics I read that from. Lol
If we Men will just stand back and watch, the women will destroy themselves, men, get your popcorn and watch the show! Guys, stop coming to the rescue of the women. Make women clean up the mess they made! Never date a single mother, no man want to raise some other man's kids. If she will leave the child's father, she will leave you. I
Poor Naomi XD
We will still pay. Only men pay,
Let the guest speak. Trying to hear her and you keep paraphrasing it because you have head it but some of us have not. i love your work.
INCREDIBLY underrated channel
Godspeed Ms. Venker
LADIES, organize marches on family court and fight to change the marriage/divorce laws that are so unfair to men... This is what you woman need to do.. You ladies are the only ones who can do this.. This is all on you.
Let's chip in to get them some hats shaped like dongs to put them in the spirit to march on Washington!
I don't disagree, but that's never gonna happen.
Note: most modern womyn are NOT "ladies".
Hehehe, ummm, women have been told what's making them miserable. They are being told it's men.Talk shows, articles, vidoes, tweets, comments, tik toks, all of them have been telling women and affirming women that they are miserable because of men. What men do, what they don't do, what they say, how they say it, how they don't say it, how they act, how they don't act, how they aren't being chivalrous, how they aren't stepping up, how they don't listen, don't undertand, don't care, how they don't treat women like the queens they are to be treated as. Men don't want to get married, men don't want to commit, men don't want a relationship, men don't want to grow up, men are misogynistic. I can go on if you like.
Odd how you are not aware of any of this.
The MSM has wom3n using SIGN language:
Shame
Insults
Guilt
Need to be right
Much of the double X speech consists of at least one of these components. Who wants to come home to such negativity?
Telling a woman something other than what she wants to hear, or is prepared to hear, is to risk accusations of toxicity, mansplaining, harassment, hate-speech, .... the list goes on.
But more specific to the question in the title :- Good luck getting a word in edgeways anyway, because they'll probably be telling you 'why', because there's nothing they enjoy more.
You forgot emotional and psychological ABUSE.
Thank you both for your work.
The way modern women act would serve them well if they never got older than 26 or never had children. That's when it all falls apart. Even after they get older and have kids, many are working with the same playbook. They have to learn it's a whole new ballgame once either of those things occurs.
Excelente observation!
"It just seems we allow women to free fall into truly awful states"
That is what women DEMANDED! The freedom to make their own decisions, the right not to be under anyone's authority, except their own. However freedom isn't free, the price you pay is YOU are responsible for how your life turns out! If anyone doesn't like the results they are getting it's not men's fault, it's not society or the community's fault. The responsible party looks at them in the mirror every day.
ALL ADULTS need to know, noone is coming to rescue you and to live their life accordingly.
95% percent of people both sexes will never 'self actualize'. That's why we had a social system to direct the lives of the majority of people (religion, marriage etc)
"We allow"? Who is we? women to "fall'? How about "women jumped off cliff after fighting for the right to do so and now want to blame others for their choices.?
We do tell women what’s making them miserable. All the time. No one listens to us ever since the government replaced fathers. I know single mothers that are just now parroting my rhetoric back to me ……. as if it was their own epiphany. Too bad it only took their baby boys hitting puberty to teach them the value of a father. But the damage is already done to those poor kids. Naught to do but repeat until blue.
Perhaps, but women don't live in a vacuum, they go through life presented with choices. So she sleeps with a guy, it doesn't work out and she decides to keep the baby despite it all. If she didn't, she'd be called a heartless murderer for aborting the child.
@@TGP109 the first choice was picking the guy. The second choice was to sleep with him without having his commitment. The third choice was whether or not to keep the baby. Before an abortion is on the table, there were several bad decisions. Many of which plutonic men would have overtly disagreed with, especially the woman’s father. Many women are not listening to men, and they are becoming more miserable by the generation. Thus the cycle of fatherlessness grows.
Without abortions, food stamps, welfare, alimony, and child support, women wouldn’t be causing an epidemic of single parent households. Replacing the father with the government was the worst thing for the nuclear family, and women are overwhelmingly driving the bus on this one.
I consider your work to be the truest feminism up to date.thank you for this experience.♥️
I tried to have a conversation about feminism with one of my daughters and I'm ostracised and my wife treats feminism as an "abstract theory" so implicitly isn't something to be bothered about. As a man I'm out.
I don’t know if you read the comments, but... Would you like to go on Academic Agent’s show?
We, in that community, are in the search for a _”BASED”_ philosophy of womanhood. And so far the conversations we’ve had were just shallow, egotistical and downright awful.
It would be very nice to have someone who knows what she’s talking about and with more ‘technical’ knowledge on the matter (due to the amount of autist {in the internet sense} in our ranks).
Because they don't listen.
The saddest part of all this is when these women come to the reality of all this depression is will men, after all they have put up with even be interested in them anymore!
What? We tell women how to have better lives all the time. They just won't do it.
1. Don't be hypergamous. Select good men, not tall, rich and handsome men. Chad is probably not going to settle down.
2. Find a good man while in high school or shortly after.
3. Start a family while young, like 18 - 20.
4. Live with parents to save money while your husband learns a skill and begins a career.
4. If you want a career, wait till the kids are in elementary school. You will still be under 30.
And if you want to know the #1 source of your misery when it comes to dating.... Hypergamy.
You want equality and go to college and earn as much as men. Then you shun men who don't make more than you.
You hook up with a Chad and will only date comparable men even though Chas discarded you like a used tampon. In fact, you
decide all men are pigs because Chad did ths. You fail to realize that when women all chase Chad, Chad is going to sample the buffet and is probably not going to pair off.
The grass is always greener....
Feminism was always bad.
Watch Karen Straughan.
Excellent and timely discussion. Extremely important perspective that both women and men need to hear
In bitterness women will have to unlearn the lies of the last half century. Let it be so!
Suzanne, I was very excited and encouraged to here this short discussion between yourself and Ms. Gress. I am a pastor born in the 50's and many woman, older and younger, discuss these issues that the two of you were so openly discussing today. Unfortunately as I express the truths of the matter, as you have in the past, I receive, expressed by these woman, a noticeable expression of indignation, how dare you as a man express those views, now I do diffuse this usually by leading them to your channel, but then again they may just right that of as a MAN telling them what to do. I have yet to read your new book as it has just come out but plan to get a few copies to share with the woman that come to me. Sorry for the extended text. I was wondering if you have given any thought of writing a book for how men can approach this extremely important topic that would be receptive to the woman of the 21st century.: Because we are talking about the future of our species.
I’m sad to be yet another man here commenting on this video who has tried to point to this very serious pattern among women being an important part of the problem only to have so few women willing to listen, much less take a sober look at their lives and choices and especially at their motives. Feels like what it must’ve been like to be an OT prophet where no one would listen to you while the avoidable judgement came closer and closer. Again, so sad.
How do we fight against every single industry to right the ship?
let it sink and start fresh...
Can’t. Let it sink and swim to shore. You’re rearranging deck chairs on the titanic
Men should never get married - check out new book - Cancel Marriage: No Man Needs Marriage and Smart Men Don't Want It
Great conversation. Thank you both.
even if we tell them.. would they?
Both men and women have the right to live the life they want to live but they also have to live with and take accountability for the decisions they make. I tell my teenage daughters that before they choose their careers and life paths, it's important to first determine what is important in their life and choose their direction based on what's important. The wall will hit in their 30s and it's the point of no return on life decisions between career and family. Their mother (my ex) chose to walk away from the relationship because she no longer felt the tingles. I did not do my homework before getting married (on me) and found out only after we split that she had a very promiscuous life before we met in part because of her depression. After we split, she went back to her promiscuous life until she was no longer wanted. She is now over 50. Even though has her house and a job, she's still not happy and is alone with no prospects. I see my daughters talk about focusing on careers since they believe marriage sucks and I hear them regurgitate left leaning doctrine which makes me worry about their futures. I am trying to get them to listen to Suzanne's podcasts to be informed.
The interesting thing is that this seems to bother men more than women. Having a career is really important for some women, but it isn't super important for all women. I've been working since the age of 17 and I financed my university education and married in my forties. I never felt pressure to marry in my 20s and I always knew that a marriage when I was that young would never last. Most young people in their 20s marry and get divorced and I didn't want that scenario. So, I worked on myself in many ways after graduating not only with my career, but also in many other ways. I dated very rarely and because of my evangelical protestant upbringing, I was never going to sleep with anyone with whom I wasn't married. So the folks out there who assume that every unmarried woman over the age of 30 has slept with the entire football team, soccer team and hockey team is wrong. I began my first serious relationship at 36 and married after 40. I have absolutely no regrets. It took a very long time to find a man who was raised to have Character and Integrity. I would have remained single had I not found someone who didn't expect me to sleep with him before marriage. The college guys expected it, so I ended those relationships quickly and focused on my career because I needed to have a roof over my head, a car to drive and I needed to pay off student loans and save for a house and car. Good parents teach their children how to take care of themselves financially as well as emotionally. I wasn't interested in marrying Mr. 100,000 a year, six pack abs. That man is usually full of himself and may not have much character and integrity. I'm married to a man who loves me and actually has moral and ethical standards that he lives by on a daily basis. He's concerned about my happiness in our relationship, which is quite refreshing! I'll take character over reputation. The luxury car and big house are impressive to very young, materialistic women, but THINGS do not make people happy. THINGS can make ones live easier, but not necessarily happier. I've been married nine years and he was so worth the wait. I saw many of my friends struggle around age 30 and some rushed into marrying the wrong person because they just wanted to get married. That seldom works.
I understand your strategy and agree with you. I think where it gets difficult is if you want children... like it or not we're against the biological clock. I was the same as you, I focused on studies & work instead of relationships and purchased myself my own home before marrying in my late 20s. Having a family is important to me, I'm now expecting my first child any week now aged 30. I probably won't have as many children as I'd like because of my age, but I'm also glad I took the time to build myself a good foundation before rushing to settle down.
I don't think this bothers men more than women. Lots of women just don't know what hit them and once their strategy stops working, are looking for someone (else) to blame. Which is where the notion "where have all the good men gone?" and "man up" comes from.
@@hanswurscht6625 I disagree. What you've described is a woman with NO STRATEGY. My point is that it is primarily men who are commenting on the majority of these marriage and relationship podcasts which turn into "complaint sessions." However, some people love to complain online instead of living their lives. Most adult women realize they have to take charge of what they have because we have only one life. Stoicism helped me to stop focusing on what other people thought about my choices and to put the focus on my goals. The less we care about what others think, they better our lives will become.
@@reginasemenenko148 Its primarily men commenting on anything. Most online conversations, especially on RUclips, are dominated by men. I dont think its about complaining. For me its fun to have those discussions. I like to point out my ideas to clear my thoughts.
I do think those women have a strategy. Its just a bad one. They really thought they'd be the price for the rest of their lives. They thought they could have it all and they could have it on their terms. Thats why they are so surpised when there's a drought of men. They never thought thats possible. Its not all their fault, they have been lied to. But they happily accepted those lies without question.
@@reginasemenenko148 I’m married with two kids and it is clear many women are upset by the conversations in the manosphere because it’s scary for women to hear.
The manosphere in general teaches:
1. Get fit,
2. become successful / find purpose
3. You don’t owe a woman marriage or a relationship.
4. Get a pre-nup
5. Have values, and if anyone, especially women, step on those values get rid of that person.
There are many other discussions going on that put accountability on women and their poor choices including high body counts and single mothers.
Yes, there are a lot of loser men bitching and whining in the comments, but the message has spread everywhere, especially in high earning men’s circles.
The biggest thing I see women complain about is men don’t want marriage or are demanding prenups.
Women don't realize winter is on the horizon and not the season of cold. Susan is trying to save women from what's coming but it is inevitable. O how lovely it will be to witness a true dominance hierchy
You'll probably be dead as it won't or is unlikely to happen in our time but I do agree with you, it is coming!
@@sticks5614 I'd rather be dead at this point than live in purgatory. There's greatness in fighting a righteous war. It will happen before 2030
@@thisgame2 We've been living in purgatory for the last 30 years, probably longer for those of you in the US so you wouldn't really rather be dead would you? Also there's nothing great in fighting a war, I know I've done it but that said it still had to be done so I'll never regret it. I hope you're correct with your prediction though because that I WANT to see.
@@sticks5614 you don't regret it. Neither will I. You are right. The pots been boiling for the amount of time it usually needs to before it collapses. What are you even referring to when saying U.S you obviously want to change the subject so tell me about your war
@@thisgame2 No I don't particularly want to tell you about my war so no, war is war who ever does it. The bit about the US is that in the Western World the US is the worst in it's treatment of men but it's also near the end especially in regards to geocentrism before it all comes falling down. The rest of the Western World will follow with the UK and probably Australasia next, I don't know about Europe but it will come and like I said I would like to see it but I don't know if I will.
Humility would be a great trait to develop for women to find contentment. The fantasy world they are seeking does not exist. It ended in the 1950's.
How much of women's behaviors can be scientifically blamed on hormones?
We know about that
You have to teach the grandkids , or history just repeats itself.
because they dont listen
Four minutes in. No content.
To answer the question: WE have been trying. They don't listen. Women WANT this. Fine. I'm out.
what a loss you are to the female population.
@@kelliejackson3563 Must be. They keep telling me I should date.
@@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 They're just humouring you. Dont inflict yourself on any woman, best you stay single darling.
@@kelliejackson3563 I intend to.
@@graywalkerjoin3rdparty74 and so back to my original comment. No loss.
All the topics they talked about will just keep getting amplified until collapse. Go live your best lives men, no use dealing with nonsensical whamen.
I hate to say it, but women's ministry in a lot of churches can be just as bad. It's all self-esteem, you're a queen, you're enough, you're awesome, etc., with no real accountability.
Carrie Gress sounds like a shockingly clever lady!
You're dead right that the equal dignity of women started with veneration of Christ's mother, which is why you only find it in formerly Christian cultures.
And pointing out the link between Marxism and darkness is spot on.
My problem is motivation. I don't have ambition because I hate people. We all suck. Not one of us is deserving of love and support. Everyday I pray for the ability to love the unlovable. I'm not there yet. Occasionally I feel okay. Usually I just spend five minutes on the internet and want to choke someone for their poisonous outlook and inability to face their own faults. My faults are my lack of charisma, a screwed up childhood that I've blocked out of my memory, and I'm judgmental.
A little at a time, then take a break to lick your wounds and regain purpose and energy.
We all have choices....I don't buy the forced fed. Education is only a click away
Most Important thing in Life here on Earth is to get Right with God, the Rest is Secondary. Please read the Gospel of John, it Explains who Jesus is and what he has done to Set Us Free from Our Sin. In Our Natural State we are Sinners and at Enmity with God, but through the Work of Jesus we can have a Relationship with God. Jesus took Our Rightful Punishment and Suffered and Died on the Cross, Resurrected on the Third Day and Defeated Death. All we have to do is Repent and Believe in Him and what He did with All Our Hearts and We are Forgiven. I was an Atheist for Most my Life so I Know this Might Sound Silly to you, but the Bible is Truth ; All the Correct Prophecy Proves it. Its the Word of God and it Also Shows How Jesus can Set us Free from Demonic Possession / Demonic Oppression. Demons Fear Jesus Christ, and Born Again Believers. Jesus is the Way the Truth and the Life, No One comes to the Father but through Him. God bless
My father claims to be an athiest. I know others who are too and they are very adamant about it. How did you come to faith in Jesus if you don't mind me asking?
@@joolspools777 Please Read Revelation 17, Recognize the Mother of Harlots Dressed in Scarlet and Purple ? Drunken with the Blood of the Saints, BLASPHEMY on her Forehead ( Calling itself God ), Ruling over the Kings of the Earth. In My Earthly Research of the New World Order, I Always Found a Freemason or JESUIT / Knight of Malta Hand Behind the Deceptions, Assassinations and Founding of Globalist Front Organizations. I was Not a Believer Back then, but when I First Read Revelation 17, I Nearly Fell of My Chair. How Could the Bible make an EXACT Description of this Devilish Vatican System and its Actions, About 4 Centuries Before the Vatican System Arose ?? That's when I knew the Bible was something Else, and 6 Months Later I was Born Again. There is also a Great ( Short ) Video by User : BibleorTraditions , Called : Revelation 17 Explained ruclips.net/video/toBOML5W4uQ/видео.html . God bless you and your Research
@@kroikye Thank you for that. I just watched it. I've heard about this before, about the Pope being either the antichrist or the beast.
There are well known bible pastors like Perry Stone and Amir Tsarfati who believe that the antichrist will come from the Middle East..after all, it is a Middle Eastern book and the great tribulation period is called 'the time of Jacob's trouble.'
Personally I don't really know..I think the Pope is trying to bring all 3 faiths together. I have never been a part of the RCC and I never will. I'm non denominational and consider myself to be a born again believer.
Great to hear how you hot saved. Were you brought up with any religious training?
@@joolspools777 ask for forgiveness of your sins. Not just say8ng sorry but turning to a new life and placing Jesus as your boss (Lord). Once you’ve done that team up with others to move ahead, that’s called church. How do you know what he wants? You read his word, the Bible
My mom shipped me off to Lakeside Christian School of Clearwater ZFlorida to put the dear of God in me. Nothing I ever tried made me feel"Saved." I got nothing but paranoia for 27 years. Don't waste my time telling me how it just happens, I should have read more of the Bible, or go to therapy. It just never worked.
That's why I became a hardcore athiest.
excellent
Modern women never shut up, for long enough to listen. They can swipe left on anything that questions them, and have no agency. This is laughable. Focus on yourself, and let modern women be independent.
Excellent discussion
We've been waiting thousands of years for womenzz to figure themselves out. It ain't happening. Time to leave them to their own devices and the chips will fall where they may.
20:10 LGBT always existed, the biggest difference is being allowed to admit it.
However, that feel apart, and gender idealogues decided that children can be forcibly transitioned somehow.
At some point, the "Leave us alone" campaign worked. Somehow it became a "Do everything we say" campaign.
This sucks.
20:30 Not everybody is fit to raise a family anyway. If someone sees that family life is going to suck for them, good thing they left. At one time, the world benefited by having monks and nuns. Besides, people can say that it's a bunch of anti-baby propaganda, but if people meet too many unhappy parents and happy singles, it isn't propaganda anymore.
23:50 Well, don't be too surprised when some people see the misery of families, and decide that having a job is less miserable than having a family.
24:05 Some of those people had depressive genes, and did the next generation a favor by not passing them down. Not everybody gets to be happy just because their life has XYZ going correct with it.
24:53 Ever see a child raised by parents who hate them? Ever see a child raised by forster systems? We are better off if they didn't have to exist. Not everybody is going to have baby rabies, get used to it.
27:59 The mega conglomerates might die off, but they won't make the unmarried stop having sex. BF+GF is the norm and has been for years. Besides, what do you expect when marriage laws suck for men?
30:40 Well, maybe these people should joing the intactivist movement. Baby boys get forcibly circumcised for fraudulent reasons across the USA.
31:20 My mom paid Lakeside Christian School of Clearwater Florida to get stuck in the God bubble. It ruined my childhood. Want to suceed? Let people enter reality, and do a good job backing up your arguments.
Can't tell them Nothing !
Simple. They can’t handle it…. Show over.
25:02 It would be really helpful if you suggested that they should not get random clown tattoos
Hi, Suzanne Venker.
Thank you for the video and for the 'kwestyun'.
I'll HAPPILY tell women what is making them miserable. It has NOTHING to do with ANY of the circumstances or situations in their lives.
Rather, it is about THEIR state of mind.
REAL happiness is NEVER anything to do with circumstances or situations. It IS a personal choice to be content and happy with who and what you are NOW and what you have NOW.
That is not to say that you/they shouldn't aspire to BEING more and/or BETTER than you/they are now at some time in the future.
"There is no glory in being than another. The TRUE glory is in being better than your former self."
WHY bother with material possessions and monetary wealth when the only REAL wealth that you MAY be able to take with at death is SPIRITUAL wealth.
Just a part of my 0.02.
You have a wonderful day. Best wishes. Deas Plant.
I'd like to see the "Choose to be happy" motivational people show us deriving great happiness from having a fortune stolen from them. Not everybody can be happy just because they tell their emotions to do something.
Hi, @@skylinefever.
Your choice.
It will be affected by your attitudes.
Just my 0.02.
You have a wonderful day. Best wishes. Deas Plant.
The 1 down vote is single.
Hmmmm mrs/ms venker Hav you ever met women lol I suppose it’s different if your a women telling women what to do in their own interest, you should hear what happens to men when they try to suggest things to them lol
I'm with you until you mention religion. Just know that there are Atheist who agree with most of what you advocate.
Try ASKING them , Karen
I think you have a lot of good ideas. You are the empowered ones now. We had our turn, now we have to give you the opportunity to establish the matriarchy. Let us know when you have everything resolved. No hurry. Take your time.
The conflation of anti-feminism and Christianity is counterproductive and off-putting. Please keep the focus on healthy marriage.
Just curious, because you are an anti-Christian?
It seems that moral women make better wives. So the intersection is just SO overwhelming that it can’t be ignored. Obviously, one is not the other… but shaved headed purpled haired tattooed participants of “slut culture” are not what masculine man are looking for… maybe I’m wrong. 🤷♀️
I get it. This sad, desperate, unhappy, superficial, confused state of infantile collective depression and Christianity can't exist in the same universe. You can't possibly love the one without having to hate the other.
All I got to hear is Marxism. Sounds like nobody actually read Marx. Really doing yourself a disservice
✏️ @wayneo7220 WROTE:
2 years ago
“Its absolutely amazing to me how women can never seem to own their decisions but have to find someone or something else to blame:
the patriarchy or men in general, feminism.
It would be refreshing to hear a woman say,
"I made bad life decisions and only blame myself".“
2021