Ladies, as a woman, you had some really bad takes. Don't become toxic due to toxicity. If games are being played, just leave. Don't entertain foolishness, don't advocate for it, don't participate in it.
but these are the type of men y'all pick though. its like adopting a pit bull that used to be a fighting dog & being surprised you got bit. women do this all the time.
If you two ladies do not like men so much.. why talk about them ? Just date women and leave men alone… I don’t like liver at all,, so I just never talk about liver ..just saying
Hilarious, cause women like these 2 will still choose the same "Type" Guy and will continue to get the same result. Prepare for more bitterness, anger and disappointment
8:12 Vietnamese guy tries to break into her car. Another man volunteers to pull up at her shows just to make sure she is okay. Why do we keep protecting women who don't appreciate or value men?
So, if I have two phones, it’s not that one is for business use and the other is for personal use; it’s that I’m a cheater. That’s an interesting way to look at it. 😂
@inhumanjoey310 she seems cool from what I have seen. If you have some sources that say otherwise please share. I've only really seen her on Godfrey live.
@LukaDonesnitch lol I actually did watch it. If you believe what she said makes her a bad person then hell we are all evil. Now did they have extremely bad takes of course. But I won't call them bad people.
10:15 The way those men responded to your rejections and non-responses was inappropriate, no doubt. A no, or a no-response, should always just elicit a polite moving on from the situation. You're not wrong for feeling like the way they reacted was too hostile. However, to potentially shed some light from their perspective- most men rarely, if ever, get inbound interest. Also, it takes courage to reach out and break the ice. So it's important to understand that if men never reach out, it's simply never going to happen and they will die alone. So, it isn't "entitlement" on their part. It's disappointment fueled with adrenaline from having had made the first move. Eventually over time they will either learn to react in a more appropriate manner or just give up. Women also have a responsibility to turn men down respectfully (not saying you didn't). If all women do is reject angrily and ghost, then the only men who will end up approaching are manipulative jackasses and socially inept guys that can't read social cues. I understand it's a pain in the ass, but if all women rejected respectfully and maybe as a bonus gave the suitor candid feedback, then the amount of desired approaches would increase as well thanks to a more hospitable environment.
we giving women a license to be rude to men now? women are blatantly rude & then they're surprised when they're rude to an ex convict & end up a victim of a far more heinous crime.
we advocating women being rude to men now? can't be rude to random strangers & then be surprised bad things happened to a girl when she was rude to an ex convict or something. women want the license to be rude to random strangers without potential consequences. thats basically what you're advocating for. you can't tell strangers how to react to your rudeness. thats called accountability. the thing about being rude to strangers is one of them might be crazy. but women seem to not consider that until something bad happens to them.
@@asdfxcvbn746 I don't know how you got that from my comment. I said "Women also have a responsibility to turn men down respectfully" There's nothing rude about rejection, friend. It's not rude to say no.
@@johnmeeker9752 "Women also have a responsibility to turn men down respectfully" --- yes, but they usually don't though... ESPECIALLY urban/black women. more often than not, they go out of their way to embarrass you or make you feel shameful for shooting your shot. and then after they hit age 30-35 they wonder why men don't shoot their shot at them & they wonder why they're the least married & least popular group of women on dating apps. "There's nothing rude about rejection, friend." --- it depends on how you do it. a friendly: "oh I'm married" or "I have a boyfriend" or "i'm spoken for" or "no thank you" or even a polite "sorry i'm busy" or "i'm in a hurry" will suffice... if thats what black women did, nobody would talk about it because it would be a non-issue. flat out ignoring somebody to their face like they don't exists, while not a crime, IS rude asf socially... its just been normalized in the social media generation. before Gen-Z... in late Gen-X & early Millennial generation on into the 80's 90's & early 2000's, that was considered rude to just straight up ignore somebody to their face like they don't exist. before that, in the Boomer generation, it was considered rude to not greet everyone or say hello to people when you enter a room. now because of social media, Gen-Z is completely anti-social where its normal for a woman to ignore you to your face in public when you simply say hello to her, and in a generation where that type of rude behavior is normalized, they hit age 30-35 & wonder why men don't talk to them ,let alone marry or commit to them. "It's not rude to say no." -- like women often tell men... its not what you say but HOW you say it. - go watch the very end of episode 12 of Arlette Amuli's Pop The Balloon show. there was a guy who basically rejected every woman in the lineup & reacted negatively to every rejection he got. he's basically telling them "no" but in an extremely RUDE way. he didn't use profanity, he didn't raise his voice but he was VERY RUDE to those women. this is often how urban/black women reject men. this is why men of other races often don't approach black american women. nobody wants to deal with that attitude. this all comes down to, society being overly gynocentric & feminist & having lots of empathy for women when it comes to "street harassment" but zero empathy for what men have to deal with on the other end. more often i'm hearing from women "men have to step up & do this & that" when it comes to approaching & taking initiative in dating, but women & society have been perhaps a little too critical of men's innocuous interactions with women. to the point where it makes more sense for men to simply not approach women... at all... ever. if men introducing themselves to women is so terrible like women say, then maybe its time for society to be a little bit more feminist & equal & have WOMEN do all the approaching & just let them choose which men they want to hear from & deal with. since men seem to never be able to do anything right in women's eyes or societies' eyes.
You are not single until you're engaged. I don't know where woman got this from or who started it. If I am exclusively dating a woman and I see it going somewhere, but I find out she is seeing other men, I'm out. If you both choose to be exclusive then do that. It takes time (maybe a year, 2 at the most IMHO) to get to the engagement stage. I'm definitely not going to propose if I find out you are/were dating other men.
I’m a 36 y/o faithfully married man of 12 years with my trad wife & 3 children, and this is by far one of the dumbest takes on relationships I have ever heard. NY is one of those places where everyone has a backwards mindset and is proud of it until they are the victim of somebody else’s! There is a reason city girls are called CITY GIRLS! #CountryWomenUp
Ladies, as a woman, you had some really bad takes. Don't become toxic due to toxicity. If games are being played, just leave. Don't entertain foolishness, don't advocate for it, don't participate in it.
but these are the type of men y'all pick though. its like adopting a pit bull that used to be a fighting dog & being surprised you got bit. women do this all the time.
if you don't like the men you chose... CHOOSE BETTER.
If you two ladies do not like men so much.. why talk about them ? Just date women and leave men alone… I don’t like liver at all,, so I just never talk about liver ..just saying
These women are done….if they looking for a man or hoping to get one it’s over for them
Hilarious, cause women like these 2 will still choose the same "Type" Guy and will continue to get the same result. Prepare for more bitterness, anger and disappointment
8:12 Vietnamese guy tries to break into her car. Another man volunteers to pull up at her shows just to make sure she is okay. Why do we keep protecting women who don't appreciate or value men?
Because y’all simps that will do anything for vag y’all put the kitty on a pedestal.
Always assume hostility?
What do you say to the woman with two black eyes? Nothing, you told her twice.
This some crazy work ...🤔
So, if I have two phones, it’s not that one is for business use and the other is for personal use; it’s that I’m a cheater. That’s an interesting way to look at it. 😂
Separate houses are needed in a relationship.
Have fun with there cats.
Professionals in stayin single
Misandrists
you dont understand men
I swear Nina is a baddie
She's a bad person
@inhumanjoey310 she seems cool from what I have seen. If you have some sources that say otherwise please share. I've only really seen her on Godfrey live.
@@jgshaolinterrific5218only this entire video. 🤣 you ignored all that just to thirst
@LukaDonesnitch lol I actually did watch it. If you believe what she said makes her a bad person then hell we are all evil. Now did they have extremely bad takes of course. But I won't call them bad people.
@@jgshaolinterrific5218 a half hour of casual misandry & calling it entertainment probably suggests that they're bad people. you are what you attract.
Absolutely love your podcast🩷🩷
10:15 The way those men responded to your rejections and non-responses was inappropriate, no doubt. A no, or a no-response, should always just elicit a polite moving on from the situation. You're not wrong for feeling like the way they reacted was too hostile.
However, to potentially shed some light from their perspective- most men rarely, if ever, get inbound interest. Also, it takes courage to reach out and break the ice. So it's important to understand that if men never reach out, it's simply never going to happen and they will die alone. So, it isn't "entitlement" on their part. It's disappointment fueled with adrenaline from having had made the first move. Eventually over time they will either learn to react in a more appropriate manner or just give up.
Women also have a responsibility to turn men down respectfully (not saying you didn't). If all women do is reject angrily and ghost, then the only men who will end up approaching are manipulative jackasses and socially inept guys that can't read social cues. I understand it's a pain in the ass, but if all women rejected respectfully and maybe as a bonus gave the suitor candid feedback, then the amount of desired approaches would increase as well thanks to a more hospitable environment.
we giving women a license to be rude to men now? women are blatantly rude & then they're surprised when they're rude to an ex convict & end up a victim of a far more heinous crime.
we advocating women being rude to men now? can't be rude to random strangers & then be surprised bad things happened to a girl when she was rude to an ex convict or something. women want the license to be rude to random strangers without potential consequences. thats basically what you're advocating for. you can't tell strangers how to react to your rudeness. thats called accountability. the thing about being rude to strangers is one of them might be crazy. but women seem to not consider that until something bad happens to them.
@@asdfxcvbn746 I don't know how you got that from my comment. I said "Women also have a responsibility to turn men down respectfully"
There's nothing rude about rejection, friend. It's not rude to say no.
@@johnmeeker9752 "Women also have a responsibility to turn men down respectfully" --- yes, but they usually don't though... ESPECIALLY urban/black women. more often than not, they go out of their way to embarrass you or make you feel shameful for shooting your shot. and then after they hit age 30-35 they wonder why men don't shoot their shot at them & they wonder why they're the least married & least popular group of women on dating apps.
"There's nothing rude about rejection, friend." --- it depends on how you do it. a friendly: "oh I'm married" or "I have a boyfriend" or "i'm spoken for" or "no thank you" or even a polite "sorry i'm busy" or "i'm in a hurry" will suffice... if thats what black women did, nobody would talk about it because it would be a non-issue.
flat out ignoring somebody to their face like they don't exists, while not a crime, IS rude asf socially... its just been normalized in the social media generation. before Gen-Z... in late Gen-X & early Millennial generation on into the 80's 90's & early 2000's, that was considered rude to just straight up ignore somebody to their face like they don't exist. before that, in the Boomer generation, it was considered rude to not greet everyone or say hello to people when you enter a room. now because of social media, Gen-Z is completely anti-social where its normal for a woman to ignore you to your face in public when you simply say hello to her, and in a generation where that type of rude behavior is normalized, they hit age 30-35 & wonder why men don't talk to them ,let alone marry or commit to them.
"It's not rude to say no." -- like women often tell men... its not what you say but HOW you say it. - go watch the very end of episode 12 of Arlette Amuli's Pop The Balloon show. there was a guy who basically rejected every woman in the lineup & reacted negatively to every rejection he got. he's basically telling them "no" but in an extremely RUDE way. he didn't use profanity, he didn't raise his voice but he was VERY RUDE to those women. this is often how urban/black women reject men. this is why men of other races often don't approach black american women. nobody wants to deal with that attitude.
this all comes down to, society being overly gynocentric & feminist & having lots of empathy for women when it comes to "street harassment" but zero empathy for what men have to deal with on the other end. more often i'm hearing from women "men have to step up & do this & that" when it comes to approaching & taking initiative in dating, but women & society have been perhaps a little too critical of men's innocuous interactions with women. to the point where it makes more sense for men to simply not approach women... at all... ever. if men introducing themselves to women is so terrible like women say, then maybe its time for society to be a little bit more feminist & equal & have WOMEN do all the approaching & just let them choose which men they want to hear from & deal with. since men seem to never be able to do anything right in women's eyes or societies' eyes.
Vivica A. Fox
You are not single until you're engaged. I don't know where woman got this from or who started it. If I am exclusively dating a woman and I see it going somewhere, but I find out she is seeing other men, I'm out. If you both choose to be exclusive then do that. It takes time (maybe a year, 2 at the most IMHO) to get to the engagement stage. I'm definitely not going to propose if I find out you are/were dating other men.
I’m a 36 y/o faithfully married man of 12 years with my trad wife & 3 children, and this is by far one of the dumbest takes on relationships I have ever heard. NY is one of those places where everyone has a backwards mindset and is proud of it until they are the victim of somebody else’s! There is a reason city girls are called CITY GIRLS! #CountryWomenUp