If I can't direct you, nor correct you, then I can't protect you. They really don't want to see the modern structure fall. It would be much scarier than what they could ever imagine...
@hasaniali3489 It has been scary for generations. Many men have unalived the women who thought they were protected by them. These men became their judge, jury and executioner. What you predict hasn't happened. Women are freeing themselves from the shackles of servitude called marriage and we no longer care what you choose to do. I used to live for, look for, and love the black men I thought were king's. They were jesters. There are some exceptions, but there are too few. I applaud those good men and the women that win at this game but I side with the women who opted out and are free. I have seen strange behavior in the 'married,' or in relationship, of these 'protected women.' They seem insecure, wary, under another's control and without autonomy. They envy my freedom and are afraid to be around single women. They are uncomfortable bcz they must constantly look over their shoulder at any threat to their marriage. They may have better financial security, but unless they're really lucky... Meanwhile, they miss what may really be going on....I know
Keep telling yourself whatever makes you feel comfortable, so you can accept being single. I’m seeing a LOT of women who are breaking down. They are NOT happy being alone. Just because they’re thriving sometimes and barely surviving at other times, doesn’t mean they’re so incredibly happy. I just saw a video of several BW saying they have been sold a lie by the sisterhood regarding staying single.
Ms. Nneka, you are wise, brilliant, and beautiful. As a Black man, the pressures of being a man can be a daunting situation. At times, I wish to be free of it, but through Christ, I know I can accomplish many things. Believe me, women, I implore you not seek burdens the Lord doesn't desire for you to carry. We were created to compliment each through our diversity. 😊
Congratulations on getting Married beautiful. I pray God covers you both in your union. Thank you always for the wisdom here and teaching modern women✝️
Wow, very eloquently put. I recently thought about un-following you because of some of your videos. But this presented me with a deep perspective I never considered. I might have misunderstood your position. Thank you
I don’t agree with all or nothing! I live with men who care about me. It’s about common sense. Of course, a man in my household would be protective of me as a woman. Just like I’m protective of someone who is 90 years old. I am a feminist who also likes men. But, I do have a right to equal pay for equal work, etc.
sure, you are talking about equal participation in protection. That's fine for you. Most women DONT WANT THAT. MOST women want to keep the benefits of patriarchy while dismantling the responsibilities they have in said patriarchy.
Thanks for letting us know the situation. Keep doing what you do sweetie. You have a successful platform, and these hyenas are jealous and bitter. Your best days are coming. Congratulations again on your nuptial. Keep up the good work
Most women in America are going to need to be in a relationship in order to make it financially. That's just math. Millennial and Gen Zers don't have the money to keep a roof over their heads and America is so expensive that it takes 2 to make it. That's especially true when there are kids involved.
@@utamu777 In America we have an inflated idea of what middle class looks like. Around the world, middle class people are living in multi generational housing. The idea of a middle income family living in a McMansion with 3 cars and a boat is uniquely American.
@@davidowens1424 Agreed. Americans are at the beginning of being humbled, the smart ones will embrace the process and start downsizing and pooling resources with each other before they are forced to do so.
First of all, congratulations on your marriage! Wishing you and your hubby many years of happiness, love, peace and prosperity! Second of all, thank you for showing that a sista can wear her own skin and still be beautiful. I love your locks! Minimal make up, no ridiculous eye lashes and raptaclaws. Most of all, you speak like a lady. Lastly, many will ignore what you say. Some or many women learned from the late and great Kevin Samuels and changed their ways. They ended up with better outcomes. I hope more listen to women who basically send the same sentiment in a PC and kindler gentler manner. However, I don’t expect much change. One of the reasons I want to leave the USA is the dating scene. I love black women! Sadly, the love is not reciprocated. I’m tired of these poor excuse of women. Yes. It’s not all of them but is more than some. It’s most. Most women want equality only when it’s convenient. They can get a dog and cat and die alone. More and more men are leaving and dating outside the race. I’m not looking for women to kiss my azz but I do expect some cooperation, femininity, class, friendly and just pleasant. Sadly, most act almost like men. Why would men tolerate that? They may as well be gay.
Thank you for the compliment, your honesty and you are correct… most BW are too far gone for any of my content to change them. It actually makes a lot of them upset lol.
By this time in history, there are plenty of women who work in male dominated fields who have successful marriages. They just don't bring the same traits that got them their jobs into their marriages. It's tough on these RUclips streets, and there are plenty of male content creators who would prefer women not create. YOU are a successful Black woman entrepreneur and YOU are happily married, right?
Thanks for saving these generation of women of an impending disaster being Fed a lie about living a happy life outside marriage its a generation about to be lost in despair at the end of so many peoples life ,. Peoples keep showing the light ,,.. God bless you my Sister
Protect this woman... no matter the cost.
If I can't direct you, nor correct you, then I can't protect you. They really don't want to see the modern structure fall. It would be much scarier than what they could ever imagine...
@hasaniali3489 It has been scary for generations. Many men have unalived the women who thought they were protected by them. These men became their judge, jury and executioner.
What you predict hasn't happened. Women are freeing themselves from the shackles of servitude called marriage and we no longer care what you choose to do. I used to live for, look for, and love the black men I thought were king's. They were jesters. There are some exceptions, but there are too few.
I applaud those good men and the women that win at this game but I side with the women who opted out and are free. I have seen strange behavior in the 'married,' or in relationship, of these 'protected women.' They seem insecure, wary, under another's control and without autonomy. They envy my freedom and are afraid to be around single women.
They are uncomfortable bcz they must constantly look over their shoulder at any threat to their marriage. They may have better financial security, but unless they're really lucky... Meanwhile, they miss what may really be going on....I know
@@juliatripp2010Imagine a world where men completely checked out..an no longer wanted families
So true
Keep telling yourself whatever makes you feel comfortable, so you can accept being single. I’m seeing a LOT of women who are breaking down. They are NOT happy being alone. Just because they’re thriving sometimes and barely surviving at other times, doesn’t mean they’re so incredibly happy. I just saw a video of several BW saying they have been sold a lie by the sisterhood regarding staying single.
Thank you! Shit is madness out here!
Ms. Nneka, you are wise, brilliant, and beautiful. As a Black man, the pressures of being a man can be a daunting situation. At times, I wish to be free of it, but through Christ, I know I can accomplish many things. Believe me, women, I implore you not seek burdens the Lord doesn't desire for you to carry. We were created to compliment each through our diversity. 😊
Thank you for your insight. 💎
🗣️📢 AMEN 🙏🏾 BROTHER❗
Protect her!!! Always great content. Thank you for sharing.
FACTS! Which one is it ladies?! Respect the benefits that Patriarchy affords us! It's a blessing.
I never saw a woman that wanted to pay when the check came. "Lady" is a title that not all women deserve.
Great conversation as always. Love the channel.❤
That's why you have to be careful about changing things. You can't always control for unintended consequences
I have a handyman business, and I have so called women that act like a man calling me to fix light fixtures and build furniture. It’s funny to me.
I agree thank you for being brave and telling the truth. Love your work
Nneka, keep pushing facts!
congratulations on your wedding
Thank you! 🙏🏾
Cancelled?
Not gonna happen on our watch...😠😠
I had a feeling that this conversation would come full circle. Don’t worry about being cancelled Ms.Nneka… You’re protected by spirit ~ 🌷
Tell em sis
Good channel.....
Protect this Woman!
Good topic
Congratulations on getting Married beautiful. I pray God covers you both in your union. Thank you always for the wisdom here and teaching modern women✝️
Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
You’re welcome 🙏🏽
God bless you and appreciate your content. 👍🏾
Thank you!
She ain't lying
You are so right!
Wow, very eloquently put. I recently thought about un-following you because of some of your videos. But this presented me with a deep perspective I never considered. I might have misunderstood your position. Thank you
Get out of your feelings and you’ll see she’s on point about these Hyenas
@andrewwebster7185 had you read my comment completely you'd see I was thanking her for her message
Being misunderstood is the life of most RUclipsrs. I hope you decide to stick around! 🙏🏾
The truth is of an offense, but not a sin.
Intelligent accomplished men dont waste their integrity on such women.
I don’t agree with all or nothing! I live with men who care about me. It’s about common sense. Of course, a man in my household would be protective of me as a woman. Just like I’m protective of someone who is 90 years old. I am a feminist who also likes men. But, I do have a right to equal pay for equal work, etc.
sure, you are talking about equal participation in protection. That's fine for you. Most women DONT WANT THAT. MOST women want to keep the benefits of patriarchy while dismantling the responsibilities they have in said patriarchy.
Thanks for letting us know the situation. Keep doing what you do sweetie. You have a successful platform, and these hyenas are jealous and bitter. Your best days are coming. Congratulations again on your nuptial. Keep up the good work
Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
Please protect this woman no matter what. She's definitely speaking the truth about modern day women.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾
Most women in America are going to need to be in a relationship in order to make it financially. That's just math. Millennial and Gen Zers don't have the money to keep a roof over their heads and America is so expensive that it takes 2 to make it. That's especially true when there are kids involved.
Or live with family, which is what most of the world does to save money
@@utamu777 In America we have an inflated idea of what middle class looks like. Around the world, middle class people are living in multi generational housing. The idea of a middle income family living in a McMansion with 3 cars and a boat is uniquely American.
@@davidowens1424 Agreed. Americans are at the beginning of being humbled, the smart ones will embrace the process and start downsizing and pooling resources with each other before they are forced to do so.
@@utamu777 💯
Nneka is so very pretty
Thank you!
@@nnekaonyiloforyou are very welcome 😘
I want to rest in my feminine energy!
Amen!
First of all, congratulations on your marriage! Wishing you and your hubby many years of happiness, love, peace and prosperity!
Second of all, thank you for showing that a sista can wear her own skin and still be beautiful. I love your locks! Minimal make up, no ridiculous eye lashes and raptaclaws. Most of all, you speak like a lady.
Lastly, many will ignore what you say. Some or many women learned from the late and great Kevin Samuels and changed their ways. They ended up with better outcomes. I hope more listen to women who basically send the same sentiment in a PC and kindler gentler manner. However, I don’t expect much change.
One of the reasons I want to leave the USA is the dating scene. I love black women! Sadly, the love is not reciprocated. I’m tired of these poor excuse of women. Yes. It’s not all of them but is more than some. It’s most.
Most women want equality only when it’s convenient.
They can get a dog and cat and die alone. More and more men are leaving and dating outside the race. I’m not looking for women to kiss my azz but I do expect some cooperation, femininity, class, friendly and just pleasant. Sadly, most act almost like men. Why would men tolerate that? They may as well be gay.
Thank you for the compliment, your honesty and you are correct… most BW are too far gone for any of my content to change them. It actually makes a lot of them upset lol.
Gal...P.R.E.A.C.H!
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
By this time in history, there are plenty of women who work in male dominated fields who have successful marriages. They just don't bring the same traits that got them their jobs into their marriages.
It's tough on these RUclips streets, and there are plenty of male content creators who would prefer women not create. YOU are a successful Black woman entrepreneur and YOU are happily married, right?
what does this have to do with dismantling patriarchy??? The Bible praises an industrious women. People have problems understanding nuance.
Thanks for saving these generation of women of an impending disaster being Fed a lie about living a happy life outside marriage its a generation about to be lost in despair at the end of so many peoples life ,.
Peoples keep showing the light ,,.. God bless you my Sister
Why don’t you just say it? Why are you beating around the bush men and women or not? “equal” there I said it.😅
😂😂😂😂
Facts! She knows the truth