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  • Parents Promised to Pay for My College, but Gave It to My Golden Child Brother Instead. So I Told My Grandparents, Now They've Lost Their Inheritance and My Collge Getting Paid From That Money.#redditrelationship
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Комментарии • 216

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 8 месяцев назад +400

    OP may not be entitled to a college fund, but she has the right to expect her brother and herself to be treated equally by their parents unless there's a good reason not to, which there isn't.
    They made OP the scapegoat child, so now they must face the consequentes of it.

    • @SadBoysCollectiveCirca96
      @SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 8 месяцев назад +2

      false. you dont have to treat anyone equally. for the same reason as you assume they should be.

    • @MrPhillyGG
      @MrPhillyGG 8 месяцев назад +42

      @@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 you're not special.

    • @mohoejegi4876
      @mohoejegi4876 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 false. you SHOULD treat your CHILDREN equally, this aren't random people, these are their PARENTS and there is no valid reason not to give the fund the PROMISED her, they are just terrible people and so are you.

    • @DragonCastle.107
      @DragonCastle.107 8 месяцев назад

      ​you do realize thats horrible to treat one child better then the other right so yes it is expected to treat them both equally @@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96

    • @scoringbreeze1529
      @scoringbreeze1529 8 месяцев назад +49

      ​@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 don't become a parent if you're not going to be able to provide the best life you can for your own child due to favouritism. Wack.

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake678 8 месяцев назад +165

    jfc, they literally just said, "if you fail to take care of your child it will come out of your inheritance" those people are monsters. "how DARE you take money from our fund just like we took it from our child's!" hypocritical selfish monsters.

  • @zobiaccancercrab29scotty74
    @zobiaccancercrab29scotty74 8 месяцев назад +238

    You can't promise something for all their lives and expect them not to expect you to live up to that promise you promised her that you pay for her college, you can't get mad at that that's not entitlement that's just how it was said. Why should op suffer because her brother is useless

  • @WingsCV
    @WingsCV 8 месяцев назад +95

    I could see why some people would call OP entitled. They only hear the part about demanding a college fund and in a vacuum that would be entitled to hear…BUT THE PARENTS HAD THE MONEY. Not only did they have the money, it was prepared for what they promised OP before then giving it away to her brother for a BRAND NEW CAR. Then they told OP they had to pay their way through college?! Where’s the equal treatment among the siblings? OP may not be entitled to a college fund, but they were blindsided with an expensive bill and no way to cover it. Parents should never put their children in this situation, especially when the other child was responsible for the bill!

    • @vinwaffle7077
      @vinwaffle7077 8 месяцев назад +18

      The thing is, its not even entitled to expect a college fund when they gave one to her brother, too. And this wasn't even an actual emergency.

    • @antiker_Lucifer
      @antiker_Lucifer 6 месяцев назад

      According to @SadBoys.1996, parents shouldn’t treat their children equally (answer to @DarkEinherjar)

  • @potatoAlive_207
    @potatoAlive_207 8 месяцев назад +290

    The mature one here is OP who ironically younger than anybody in her family.

    • @evil5423
      @evil5423 8 месяцев назад +3

      Not really, he's whining a lot

    • @LakeLaird
      @LakeLaird 8 месяцев назад

      Dude she 18 in college her brother is a 21 idiot

    • @TranMikaya
      @TranMikaya 8 месяцев назад

      @@t.dubbya7000i think that i found the parent

    • @Yousef-vr8ro
      @Yousef-vr8ro 8 месяцев назад +41

      @@t.dubbya7000 so you say she should suffer the consequences of her brother actions? They don’t have a good reason to give the money to the brother. HE failed to pay, HE need to face the consequences, but they don’t want that, so they took the money they saved for her college to pay for him. Not mature? Cry baby? Remember you are talking about a 18 years old girl who her parents choose to pay for there son, who failed to pay for the car he bought , and leave her to deal with what will happen next.
      You are saying that she should get a student loan, and pay for it herself, while her brother the cause of the problem has no consequences.

    • @potatoAlive_207
      @potatoAlive_207 8 месяцев назад +29

      @@t.dubbya7000 it is an eighteen years old, give it a break. Imagine being promised for it for so long and when the time is close it is canceled by a childish reason.
      Her parents reap what they sow.

  • @feywildgamingyt
    @feywildgamingyt 8 месяцев назад +87

    Something tells me OP's parents never wanted a girl...

    • @nicholasgutierrez9940
      @nicholasgutierrez9940 7 месяцев назад +3

      Yup. Probably a cultural thing, boys are more important than girls. Happens a lot in Asian families.

    • @Maria-wi1pj
      @Maria-wi1pj 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@nicholasgutierrez9940 If it was a culture thing than the grandparents won't be on op's side. I also think it has to do with gender thought

    • @Florroblox_FR
      @Florroblox_FR 5 месяцев назад

      @@Maria-wi1pj Yes

  • @neca1542
    @neca1542 8 месяцев назад +26

    Ngl, OP should tell their grandparents to leave a small settlement for the parents and brother, so if they contest the will, they automatically get nothing

  • @chung2055
    @chung2055 8 месяцев назад +68

    Did the fact that Ops brother had used his dad’s credit card to buy a car, was the reason why his former family had used Op college fund to pay off the loan of his brother’s car.

    • @DarkEinherjar
      @DarkEinherjar 8 месяцев назад +16

      That's how golden child dynamics work. There's always a scapegoat child who must take the blame and/or pay the price for the golden child's shenanigans while being a complete doormat and accepting everything.

    • @koryano321
      @koryano321 4 месяца назад

      OP needs to grow a spine. Stop crying over your entitled life.

    • @Aidiotononline
      @Aidiotononline 4 месяца назад +1

      @koryano321 blud did you even watch the WHOLE video they made a promise for her WHOLE life until she was able to go to college THAN tried to break it

  • @BloodRawEngine89
    @BloodRawEngine89 8 месяцев назад +32

    Why didn't OP ONCE try to get their side of the story out when their parents made the social media post? It's obvious those parents would only be spewing half-truths at best without any mention of how much they spoiled and enabled OP's brother to the point of treating OP as expendable. That's OP's one big mistake here. Maybe it would have gotten their parents on them again for a while, but I doubt those parents would have continued once OP's grandparents did what they continued to do with the inheritance.

    • @daisyannholland2576
      @daisyannholland2576 8 месяцев назад +4

      Honestly it just depends on what type of person OP is. It was already revealed that some, not all, of OP's family was willing to go against her without hearing her side of the family. So even if they would take her side if she posted it on social media, it isn't safe to say they would believe her. And even if they do, it isn't safe to say they would take her side again. OP figured it was better to just block those who deserved it and move on. She's the type of person who wants to move past the drama. She isn't the type of person to be vindictive or try to get revenge.

    • @cheshireterror624
      @cheshireterror624 5 месяцев назад

      Considering OP stated that she made a fake account to stalk their profiles, I think it’s safe to say she was blocked by them, and/or just wanted the drama to be over. Not everyone is very confrontational.

  • @erejnion
    @erejnion 8 месяцев назад +15

    Her parents literally entitled her to a college fund, then went back on that. And then dare to call her entitled.

  • @hugothibodeau6137
    @hugothibodeau6137 8 месяцев назад +10

    she should get ready for when her grandparents die. i know it is dark but as soon as the will get reveal there is a big chance the parents could go to court to get the money soo if she keep record of her therapy and keep her family as witness (including the one who are against her sice they would prove her parents actively try to degrade her) she will already have a good defense and just need a good lawyer

  • @Panwere36
    @Panwere36 8 месяцев назад +13

    The OP has every right to ask the grandparents help, but the reality is the parents are breaking a promise for a spoiled "golden child" who in reality should have been made to be more responsible. The OP is in no way "entitled", and the grandparents are not wrong for taking the money out of the parents inheritance. The relatives listening to the parents at all screams that the grandparents should disinherit everyone except the OP and the relatives who know what is really getting the truth.

  • @MarmadukeTheCatxX
    @MarmadukeTheCatxX 6 месяцев назад

    "I don't even blame my brother. He's just stupid" 😆 that gave me a good giggle lol

  • @tobiaswolfe152
    @tobiaswolfe152 8 месяцев назад +11

    College v Car .... your parents took YOUR education fund to pay off THEIR son's financial mismanagement... that is all you say... anything else is irrelevant...

  • @JSlay
    @JSlay 8 месяцев назад +11

    Even without the full story they should see that paying off a car that he’s responsible for over her education is wild. SMH!

  • @Akuvistic
    @Akuvistic 7 месяцев назад +3

    Technically the parents would be in a verbal contract and would be forced by the courts to pay if OP were to take it to court. If the agreement was that they would pay for OP’s college as soon as she started college, then they would’ve had to stay true to their word since OP started college already.
    Be careful about making promises people! Anyone over 18 making a verbal agreement can legally be bound to do as they say.

    • @darth3911
      @darth3911 6 месяцев назад

      Difficulty is proving the agreement took place.
      That’s why in most cases verbal agreements are not brought to court.

  • @bosetheboseman
    @bosetheboseman 8 месяцев назад +5

    That’s the kind of parent/ grandparent I want to be, no favorites and their actions will have consequences

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake678 8 месяцев назад +90

    also it's so wEiRd how all the stories with a male OP and college money are totally justified but a girl OP and suddenly she's entitled for wanting to go to college. Reddit's bias is showing.

    • @DarkEinherjar
      @DarkEinherjar 8 месяцев назад +19

      OP's gender is irrelevant in this situation. This is about golden child VS scapegoat child treatment, and age and gender matter very little.
      There's this story from r/EntitledParents where the male OP was forced to let his younger sister blow the candles and receive gifts in his own birthdays until he was 18. It was a bizarre level of favoritism.

    • @Arricov
      @Arricov 8 месяцев назад +1

      You clearly don't listen to any of the cheating ones then. Reddit will rip into males if they are being cheated on and when it's a female they are all supportive.

    • @sirblack1619
      @sirblack1619 8 месяцев назад

      ​@Arricov Of course, she's not going to see that. She sounds like the typical female.

    • @shinoMusic
      @shinoMusic 7 месяцев назад

      Confirmation bias

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад

      @@DarkEinherjar And stories with entitled younger/older brothers and sisters with each combination of the OP's gender. Loads (not all) of cheating wives stories do seem to follow an ever solidifying template of: I'm-so-amazing-and-benevolent + excuse for ever increasing levels of boundary stomping + savoring of revenge porn + with possible excuse for why they are now together with a woman who's been around or conveniently reappeared before the discovery of infidelity + wife on her knees before of after the hammer fell crying for OP back

  • @MrSam2497
    @MrSam2497 8 месяцев назад +5

    Ironic that parents would get mad that college fund is deducted from their inheritance, as if the grandparents had already promised the money to the parents

  • @aquitaineq
    @aquitaineq 8 месяцев назад +5

    no one is owed an inheritance, they can do whatever they want with their money.

  • @goatkiller666
    @goatkiller666 7 месяцев назад

    OP wasn’t sure what advice an 18yr old college student could give to their parents and college graduate brother. Well, for one thing, OP is the only one able to live within his means. That’s a teachable skill.

  • @astridferrera8742
    @astridferrera8742 2 месяца назад +1

    The irony of the parents to be upset that they aren't getting everything from their parents but they won't stand by their word and help their own child. The parents are going back on their word so they can continue spoiling their golden child, which sucks! OP is not entitled, not for asking for equality and calling out parents favoritism

  • @lordlunarios8521
    @lordlunarios8521 8 месяцев назад +12

    How do you get attached to a car you only have for 3 Months? And why did he need a Sportscar? Just no the parents and OPs Brother are insane

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад

      Brother's whims are more important that OP's future security and needs for those parents. Or 'we need to take from scapegoat child to fund golden one's personal luxury item or how else would they learn they are better than them?' Those jealousy comments were too insisting 🤮

  • @girl1213
    @girl1213 8 месяцев назад +12

    Maybe a little entitled, but this an entitlement that was made from years (YEARS) of promises made. It's not like it was expected out of nowhere and just be handed over to her. And we're taught at young ages to uphold promises, otherwise we're a-holes. Her parents made a false promise, but it was still a promise.
    Grandma and Grandpa are simply doing what they, the parents, themselves refuse to do: uphold a promise made.
    So OP is NTA. She deserved equal treatment by her parents, and they made the decision to not treat her as an equal to her brother, and as a result, their parents aren't going to side with them.

    • @caffeinedelusions
      @caffeinedelusions 8 месяцев назад +2

      That's the thing about the word 'entitled'. Taken as its literal meaning, it's not a bad thing. If you're legitimately entitled to something it's not wrong to expect that you will receive that thing.
      The issue arises when you act entitled to something that you AREN'T entitled to.

    • @girl1213
      @girl1213 8 месяцев назад

      @@caffeinedelusions Point taken.
      A false promise is still a promise. The Piped Piper fairy tale teaches us that much

  • @cathyjolivet
    @cathyjolivet 2 месяца назад

    Curiosity, more often than not, gets the worst of us rather than the better.

  • @genderlessweeb
    @genderlessweeb 3 месяца назад

    I feel bad for ppl in these situations where their parents take their college fund that was PROMISED to them, and then thinking that they are entitled just because they expected college to not be to rough on them. It’s not their fault, and they are not being unreasonable for wanting that money.

  • @arianawishart2303
    @arianawishart2303 7 месяцев назад

    Also, I want to note the parent can say their money they can do whatever at the same time it's the grandparents money they can do whatever they want because mom's not entitled to their mom's inheritance. They can use every penny of their money and not leave anything for them if they wanted.

  • @Uufda651
    @Uufda651 7 месяцев назад +1

    OP isn't outraged at having to pay for college, it's that it was sprung on them last minute with no way to do so other than asking grandparents or getting student loans.

  • @callabaxtWr
    @callabaxtWr 6 месяцев назад

    Lesson of the story: Never make a promise you can’t keep or won’t keep

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 4 месяца назад

    They had no right to make a promise that they wouldn’t keep.

  • @chanayplease
    @chanayplease 8 месяцев назад +1

    The poor girl is gonna find out that it's bc he's the eldest AND a son, families usually give special treatment to the eldest sons

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад +1

      Its either eldest son, youngest child, wanted child (has many subtypes), escaped death child, prettiest more extroverted child. First one is just ingrained in a lot of traditions

  • @r9_sekikaro_tv
    @r9_sekikaro_tv 7 месяцев назад

    NTA. when your parents promise you something and then go back on it, it leaves you asking if you can really trust them. Especially when parents raise kids to always be true to their word and never be dishonest. What they did was dishonest.

  • @williambutler8665
    @williambutler8665 6 месяцев назад

    For are fine your Grandparents are on point ,you are so right go NC

  • @TBomb15
    @TBomb15 7 месяцев назад

    parents: we can't pay for your college and it's our money, so tough luck
    grandparents: we'll pay for the college and take it out of your inheritance. it's our money so tough luck.

  • @reduchimaki
    @reduchimaki 7 месяцев назад

    OP should make his own social media post 🤷

  • @TheIronwil
    @TheIronwil 2 месяца назад

    OP was entitled to that money. The parents promised it and then reneged. It wasn't a matter of acting or being entitled. A person IS entitled to what was promised them.

  • @MrMK211516
    @MrMK211516 8 месяцев назад

    Usually, I'd say don't expect anything from anyone. Which is true but this is her parents.

  • @kimsvisualdiary
    @kimsvisualdiary 7 месяцев назад

    It’s not OP’s fault her grandparents decided to cut her parents off. That was their decision and one they were right to do

  • @bluediamond3248
    @bluediamond3248 7 месяцев назад

    So OP is entitled for wanting her parents to keep their promise? It's not about the money it's about how the parents always told her that they will pay her college tuition and when the son did something dumb they used OP's college fund, essentially her future, to bail their golden child out of the hole he dug himself. Glad OP has amazing grandparents that actually care about her future.

  • @wereguy18
    @wereguy18 7 месяцев назад

    lesson; Don't make promises if you cannot keep them. promises are sacred, if you cant keep a promise, you cant be completely trusted.

  • @yadadidyoea
    @yadadidyoea 8 месяцев назад +3

    keep posting plz i cant eat without your posts

  • @KKOPPONG
    @KKOPPONG 5 месяцев назад

    I didn’t know being a good parent was so difficult🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @Gregour-j6u
    @Gregour-j6u 7 месяцев назад

    I cant believe the parents are mad they idint get anything in the will but when OP asked for the college fund they said it's their money but the inheritance is the grandparents money!

  • @jgabrielg
    @jgabrielg 8 месяцев назад +9

    This has to be rage bait because what parent would sacrifice their child’s future for another child’s car???

    • @Chaos_Dragon999
      @Chaos_Dragon999 8 месяцев назад +11

      You would be shocked how shitty some parents can be

    • @tobiaswolfe152
      @tobiaswolfe152 8 месяцев назад +7

      Ummm... my aunt, my best friend's, the editor of the student newspaper my sophomore year...just to name a few

    • @jgabrielg
      @jgabrielg 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@tobiaswolfe152 that is insane. I thought I was jaded and cynical but this is a new low for humanity.

    • @Ligma_Bolzack
      @Ligma_Bolzack 8 месяцев назад

      All these stories are AI generated, that’s why they suck

    • @arcanah02
      @arcanah02 6 месяцев назад

      Not rage bait sadly. I’ve seen worse with my own eyes. Let alone hearing about it or reading it online.

  • @doris4379
    @doris4379 21 день назад

    You don’t deserve all that hatred and you did the right eny asking your grandparents for help

    • @doris4379
      @doris4379 21 день назад

      Sorry wrong spelling I was supposed to say thing😅

  • @BalakireetiDasari
    @BalakireetiDasari 8 месяцев назад

    Worker:- how do you like to pay for this car sir. Tyler:- yeah, by my brother’s college tuition’s money. Worker:-🙄🙄😑😑😐😐😟

  • @arcanah02
    @arcanah02 6 месяцев назад

    Ironically it’s the parents who are entitled.
    The parents promised their daughter that she would be capable of having her college completely paid by them. However, they changed this last second and expected her to be okay, which is an entitled attitude to have. They also got mad that the grandparents took from their inheritance which isn’t even promised as a thing when they could have easily had it if they just kept their word.
    OP randomly gets a gigantic bill sprung on her out of nowhere. That’s not entitled to get mad that this happened.
    I’d suggest that she gets her grandparents to leave them something though. Not because they deserve it but because when they pass, there will be no contesting the will.

  • @cheryljones8875
    @cheryljones8875 8 месяцев назад +2

    I would have told my side of the story to the family on social media or at the very least a group text or something.

  • @031-h7n
    @031-h7n 7 месяцев назад

    you should take them to court

  • @christinebakker3935
    @christinebakker3935 3 месяца назад

    How is the college kid anymore entitled than his parents or brother? Parents assume they are entitled to an inheritance, brother is expecting his parents to cover his loan for a car he can’t afford…so who are the entitled people here? The only one who is using money for a better reason is the kid who wants an education.

  • @nicolec7608
    @nicolec7608 8 месяцев назад +1

    Honestly you go girl

  • @sharksdonteatcake3060
    @sharksdonteatcake3060 7 месяцев назад

    Nah if the parents had had an actual emergency I would have said they were in the right.. but for OP's brother.. heck nah. How cruel.

  • @darkgespielt2.059
    @darkgespielt2.059 8 месяцев назад +2

    i wonder who of reddit said that she's entitled. She got something promised wich was a huge deal, the promise failed and she just wnatet help from her Grandparents, the Grandparents helped her with their choice not hers their Choice, so i dont see any entitlement from her side tho

  • @arianawishart2303
    @arianawishart2303 7 месяцев назад

    I want to say that OP had a college fun. He was using it at the time and they just like took it out from him and gave it to Opie's brother to pay off the car that he couldn't pay on so NTA.

  • @johnadair1495
    @johnadair1495 8 месяцев назад +3

    I would put money on it? that their favoritism comes because the brother is their first born son and she is a girl.

  • @gabrielalmeida6085
    @gabrielalmeida6085 8 месяцев назад +1

    what software generates this voice? feels so good

  • @reillycurran8508
    @reillycurran8508 8 месяцев назад +1

    In what universe can you look like the good guy for paying for one kid's luxury car instead of the other's college education, which the first already got.

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад

      I suspect like in another story they would brag and take full credit if OP turned out to be successful, basking, bragging or expecting funding, omitting that it wasn't their money and she was the only one who had to work where the brother didn't, or if being modest, unsuccessful, or unemployed/part-time because of the marriage choices, parents would make it the thing to point out the wisdom and validity of their shitty past deeds

  • @madisondean1074
    @madisondean1074 7 месяцев назад

    The OP is not being entitled at all! She was promised a college fund by her parents only for them to give it away to her bratty brother. I know other people aren't so lucky and can't even afford to go to college because no one in their family is willing to help. But if you're among those people, I recommend going to a community college first as it's far less expensive than going to university. If you go to a community college for 2 years, then transfer your credits to a university, you can save a ton of money in the long run as you wouldn't have to be at the university for as long as some others who go to university directly. Just to give you a clue, I went to university directly for 3 semesters and one of the loans for a single semester was $8,000! But this usually depends on how many classes you take, which I was taking an average of 5 classes per semester. So, watch how many classes you take per semester. The more classes you take, the more expensive it'll be. Or if you can, try aiming for scholarships as you can still get them even in college. These are just suggestions based off of what I've experienced. I'm no financial expert, but if any of my suggestions appeal to you, please reach out to a financial adviser or your school counselor for further information on what is the best course of action.

  • @GenevaGardner-gg8gs
    @GenevaGardner-gg8gs 8 месяцев назад +4

    Make your own and explain your side

  • @jha.681
    @jha.681 7 месяцев назад

    I understand OP's frustration for the unfair treatment by their parents between siblings, but Its a bit funny that OP kept saying she don't mind working her way thru college if not for that promised college fund yet ended up basically throwing a tantrum and asked the grandparents for financial aid. Nothing wrong with that tho, working while studying is pretty hard and if there are other means to pay for college why not. And yeah, OP's definitely not the ah, I hope OP would return the favor tho to her wonderful grandparents.

  • @madambutterfly1997
    @madambutterfly1997 8 месяцев назад

    How is it entitled to expect people to uphold promises that they made to you?

  • @taylordaenzer4852
    @taylordaenzer4852 20 дней назад

    His parents was the one who started it.

  • @WTC-1990
    @WTC-1990 8 месяцев назад +1

    Collage is not a requirement in my country, so to me, it sounds entitled

    • @sirblack1619
      @sirblack1619 8 месяцев назад +1

      Of course it would until it's done to you.

    • @WTC-1990
      @WTC-1990 8 месяцев назад

      @@sirblack1619 Again, my country doesn't have a requirement to go to college, so a college fund was never saved for me, nor would i save one for any of my children, if they are good enough to get one then they can get a scholarship

    • @bixie0987
      @bixie0987 8 месяцев назад

      No wonder you have such a one dimensional view coz I guess that means you prob didn't go to college. In the country OP lives, college is probably a huge thing considering her parents specifically planned to set aside money for both kids to pay for college. Just because that's not your situation in your country automatically means that OP is entitled. Also, ofc college is not a requirement anywhere, but so many jobs have a higher chance of hiring with college, plus you don't even know what OP wants to do. If OP is going into something that requires high education as the base hiring requirement, they're screwed by not going to college. It's really the ppl with no education that don't have open minds and don't even try thinking in multiple perspectives for analysis and whatnot, hm?

    • @WTC-1990
      @WTC-1990 8 месяцев назад

      @@bixie0987 This is clearly an American entitlement problem (Americans always do things the wrong) it is entitled for you to expect someone else to pay for your education regardless of who that person is, I grew up poor and don't expect an hand out from anyone
      American's always go to college, and them the bulk of them end up working in fast food restaurants

  • @phillipschwoerke8374
    @phillipschwoerke8374 8 месяцев назад +9

    It seems like the OP should have fought Fire with Fire. She never posted her side of the story and seemed to give her parents an easy way to play the victim.

    • @lynettephillip2412
      @lynettephillip2412 8 месяцев назад +1

      They promised her to pay for her college tuition. Then,at the eleventh hour told her that they can't pay for her. But the brother can get it and more. People must try to put themselves in other people's place!
      .

  • @estebanjulioricardomontoya4524
    @estebanjulioricardomontoya4524 8 месяцев назад

    I mean they'd rather keep the car and jeopardize your future OP. It not making sense to me as to how they think that it's better to value the car more than they value your education.

  • @tartlynerdy
    @tartlynerdy 7 месяцев назад

    Op's parents - "I can't believe you're trying to get revenge on us!"
    "Why is that so hard to believe. You guys were the start of my villian arc. I'm just playing my role."
    I'm only joking a tiny bit lol. Op had every reason to be the justified villain here. Golden child vs the black sheep story. Tell me the parents never wanted a daughter without telling me they never wanted a daughter. Op's parents failed both of their children as far as I'm concerned. Op isn't acting entitled. You don't make promises to pay for someone's education through their whole childhood and then get angry at them for expecting you to follow through on that. Op could have worked part time or earned scholarships if they didn't have the money. It's worse they did have the money but decided op wasn't worthy of it. It's even worse they blew that money on a freaking car. Op made the right decision getting the grandparents involved. The grandparents were correcting an injustice giving op's parents a taste of their medicine. It's not even karma.

  • @texxonkix
    @texxonkix 8 месяцев назад +3

    A CAR IS AN EMERGENCY????

  • @taylordaenzer4852
    @taylordaenzer4852 8 месяцев назад +3

    It's not your fault it's your parents fault because they promise to pay for college but they decided to go with their golden brother instead that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done.

  • @anthonyB6922
    @anthonyB6922 8 месяцев назад +3

    Why are people dumb like this, she made an account to stalk the comments of the post but didn’t make her own post with the truth

  • @TheBluePhoenix008
    @TheBluePhoenix008 7 месяцев назад

    Every parent should pay for their child's college. America confuses me.

  • @CorvetteCoonass
    @CorvetteCoonass 6 месяцев назад

    Do it for Dan!!!!!

  • @DylanRosenhan
    @DylanRosenhan 4 месяца назад

    Ich habe das Gefühl, dass das nicht so schlimm war🙃

  • @nasaekeh2527
    @nasaekeh2527 4 месяца назад

    The culture in America is wild.....why are parents not paying for their kid's collage tuition? Or kick their kids out at 18.... In Africa or at least Nigeria, parents are solely responsible for paying their children's education from the beginning to the end, even post graduate studies! You leave the house when get married especially if you are a girl, boys too but the rule is mostly meant for girls.... granted modernization has changed some things but the above is the standard and 99% the remaining 1% is in every culture ie deadbeat parents. Why have kids if you dont plan on taking care of them and do the bare minimum of paying school fees,its not entitlement,you owe your kids that!

  • @itsxaj
    @itsxaj 7 месяцев назад

    Make sure thay leve your mum dad and bro $1 so then thay cant fight the will to try get money.

  • @middi6
    @middi6 7 месяцев назад

    Its not entitled to not want to be punished for your brothers supidity i bet he crashes that car in a year or two.

  • @MARTEY-t2i
    @MARTEY-t2i 15 дней назад

    HEY ITS YOUR GRANDPARENTS MONEY

  • @areszeudion5153
    @areszeudion5153 8 месяцев назад +3

    This sounds similar to that one story but with the cousin

    • @sirblack1619
      @sirblack1619 8 месяцев назад

      I thought it was the same because I literally listened to that story right before this one. And the cousin turned out to be an affair child between OP' father and the uncles wife.

  • @amandaleeclyden9198
    @amandaleeclyden9198 6 месяцев назад

    I know how OP feels

  • @blender4464
    @blender4464 7 месяцев назад

    One reason i have a very hard time believing posts like this is wondering what exactly these vaguely referred to family members think op did wrong and what they are telling her she ought to do. Because as far as i can tell it's the grandparents who have done something. Op has nothing to do with it. The way this is all worded you'd think she was hissing over a chest of gold when actually somebody else entirely has the chest of gold and has only handed some of it to her college, and probably some to her as a stipend. Is she supposed to rob the grandparents and give everything to her parents?
    Also why would her father be in the will. Thats not how it's done. Her parents arent inheriting, her mother is.
    In the real world some of this extended family would have pointed out that its the grandparents they need to be talking to, not op. And this is all a moot point because nothing belongs to anybody except the grandparents. Mom gets no money because grandparents are still alive and well. Nobody inherits anything until both are dead.

  • @thedeath4522
    @thedeath4522 8 месяцев назад

    If this was over a life saving surgery thing instead of a car it would be entitlement but it's over a stupid car that was stupidly purchased so no entitlement

  • @mindylafler3456
    @mindylafler3456 8 месяцев назад

    Sounds like a bit if genuine misogyny here.
    The first born is a male. The 2nd is a daughter. Daughter's don't need educations because they are going to get married, have children, quit working to take care if the home and family, and never use that education again. Males are relied on to provide for their families, future families, and parents in old age. An education will guarantee they earn better, so will have more to go around.
    I understand where this frame of reference comes from.
    It's not necessarily misogynistic. In their culture, this is how it actually happens to work. In more western cultures, both parents work, and pay someone else to care for their children, as making the money is more important. It is a strange thing...paying someone else to raise your kids, clean your house, or cook. Idk. Just makes more sense to raise them yourself.
    I am not saying that education fir females is useless. Absolutely not! It's just that I do think with the emphasis on making things equal, we have forgotten that our children need us to do more than eat dinner with them in the evenings or some such.

  • @moistikal
    @moistikal 8 месяцев назад

    So the brother was constantly getting in trouble in school but he was a good student and he did not get into much trouble in school? Yeah this story is real lol

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад

      Some people seem to get away with amazing amount of crap receiving only vague reprimands, mild slaps on the wrist or gentle cooing, in school included, while others can't do even the mildest thing once (accident, didn't know, doesn't matter) before getting hit back HARD by karma, authority figures or public shaming as soon as possible

    • @moistikal
      @moistikal 7 месяцев назад

      @@FlamesAndShadows I get that. I’ve seen it growing up as well. What I’m commenting on is the inconsistency of the story. Early in the story, OP said that the brother was constantly getting into trouble in school. But then he said he wasn’t getting into much trouble in school. It’s a red flag for a fake story.

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад

      @@moistikal Maybe. I took it as 'he was a misbehaving pest (maybe worse), wasn't going unnoticed, but faced little to no ramifications from adults (for probably X reasons so 'wasn't getting into much trouble' still being valid. But perhaps its just my brain automatically dinged on multiple experiences of where those both statements were technically true, and didn't read the second one as 'but he was an angel of a boy in school who never got in trouble, got a meh grade or did anything bad ever'. But fair enough, sometimes inconsistencies of a different kind grate on my suspense of disbelief as well

    • @moistikal
      @moistikal 7 месяцев назад

      @@FlamesAndShadows here are the time stamps that I’m referencing early in this video to how the inconsistency of what OP is saying. Which is a big red flag for me that this story is fake:
      :50 - he used to constantly get in trouble in school
      1:02 - he was a good student, he did not get into much trouble at school
      If you read or listen to these statements, they are contradictory. There’s no way that both of these can be true.

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад

      @@moistikal Aww, you are so nice, that I don't want to argues with you))) Usually on here people are just being dicks, and getting personal instead of voicing reasons for disagreeing with opinions. ...Although misclicking on the timestamp doesn't really go against my understanding as well.
      0:42 'Everything he does, *he just gets away with it and never has any consequences* for whatever stupid things he tries to do. He used to constantly get in trouble in school for the most ridiculous reasons'
      0:57 '...but I think he was just trying to push everybody's buttons and see how much he could get away with. He was a good student, *he did not get into much trouble in school, given what he had done* and he was just suspended for a couple of days, but this is just a little example of the kind of things that he gets away with.'
      All I see is a person who presumably got decent grades, was fairly active in class or at least excelled in some of them, activities or spots to be named 'a good student'. Academically bright, not a kind considerate classmate who never gets into trouble away from teacher's eyes. If you add him being an apple of his parent's eye who got enough praise and attention with an example of what does not, he had enough practice to appeal, blameshift and manipulate people into forgiving or being charmed by him in a 'lovable scamp, it would be such a shame to ruin his bright future' and actively look for ways to get him off the hook with the most nominal punishment, or 'look at him, the poor boy is clearly innocent, it must be other ruffians!'. He was either a good actor or the kind of person instantly blessed with being liked by most people on first/surface impression.

  • @darthmadeus
    @darthmadeus 8 месяцев назад

    I heard a very similar story. Instead of a car, it was a beach house and the parents were going through a hard time and refused to sell it. Feels like this is just a topic copy of that story. In fact, it is. Golden older brother, living with grandparents, removed from will, didn't pay for college, etc. It's all the same. I can't stand these copy cat stories. MAKE UP YOUR OWN!

  • @megancorpuz1745
    @megancorpuz1745 4 месяца назад

    Your parents are in the wrong here you did nothing wrong the irresponsible people are your mother and father you are not intitaled at all you just needed help and you just had to find another way.

  • @PeterMaximo_007
    @PeterMaximo_007 8 месяцев назад

    "Collge"💀💀

  • @secret-pq1be
    @secret-pq1be 5 месяцев назад

    Can someone tell me full form of aita?

  • @larsthegunslinger
    @larsthegunslinger 8 месяцев назад

    this is so sadly rage bait that im just upset that chatgpt has taken over everything

  • @BunnyTheOverlord
    @BunnyTheOverlord 8 месяцев назад

    So is this the next story thats gonna be repackaged and sold off as a new story?

  • @sthrcnx
    @sthrcnx 8 месяцев назад +2

    I just wish to whoever create this AI story, added some "spicy Karma" in their prompt. This sh*t is lame as f-

  • @reeshs9296
    @reeshs9296 6 месяцев назад

    Your not the one whos inditelide its your parents who are inditeld

  • @marietterose6094
    @marietterose6094 8 месяцев назад

    Why is @telltales changing the names of these stories? Are these stories even real? When I try to search this story on Reddit/Google nothing comes up. Only thing that shows are copies of this video.
    Please link the source and give credit to the original author. I find it frustrating to not fund these sources and it breaks the credibility of these tales to leave them out

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 7 месяцев назад

      Many other reddit channels write at least OP's handle or subrreddit where it was posted or compiled. A lot of articles and videos seem to have sensationalist long attention-grabbing names just to trick people into giving them more hits, instead of original one, so its either that or fake.

  • @brietiernan7101
    @brietiernan7101 8 месяцев назад

    Is it me or do these stories drag on with emotion after emotion instead of getting to the point?!

    • @darth3911
      @darth3911 6 месяцев назад

      The fake ones tend to do so.

  • @CrazyCayson1
    @CrazyCayson1 7 месяцев назад

    Op sounds entitles, but if you listen closely, you cab tell he/she isn't really

  • @Battalionchief_lynn
    @Battalionchief_lynn 8 месяцев назад

    I watched this story on Instagram 😂

    • @TheMainMan364
      @TheMainMan364 8 месяцев назад

      I highly doubt that this is the case. She sounds too much like the good guy.

    • @Battalionchief_lynn
      @Battalionchief_lynn 8 месяцев назад

      @@TheMainMan364 say what?

  • @haroldthompson3007
    @haroldthompson3007 8 месяцев назад +1

    I thought OP was a man.

    • @Yousef-vr8ro
      @Yousef-vr8ro 8 месяцев назад

      She is a woman, she said that in the beginning of the story.

  • @emilioduarte7966
    @emilioduarte7966 8 месяцев назад

    Amerucans are eternal children

  • @patricfriberg2678
    @patricfriberg2678 8 месяцев назад +2

    the fact that OP didnt tell her side of the story on an open facebook post like her parents had done is just stupid to the point of me almost, ALMOST, siding with anyone calling her entitled. the fact that she thinks she is right and thinks everyone should know that without hearing her side is what makes her entitled. the parents and the brother are the biggest of a-holes, but OP really need to publicly tell her side.

  • @stephenthompson7187
    @stephenthompson7187 8 месяцев назад

    Mmmmm delicious Karma!

  • @princefiggy
    @princefiggy 8 месяцев назад

    Yes, you are acting entitled. But, you were wronged by your parents

  • @AveryBrown-tg8wx
    @AveryBrown-tg8wx 8 месяцев назад

    omg