How to Fix a Relationship That is Falling Apart
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- Опубликовано: 11 дек 2018
- The best way to fix a relationship that is falling apart is to stop setting off negative chain reactions while you still can.
From this moment onwards, start setting off positive chain reactions, so both of you can breathe a sigh of relief and feel some hope that you can work things out.
When both of you start to feel happier and more in love, you can see that the relationship is going to get better and better now, so there’s no reason to break up.
That is the most effective, mature way to do it.
Gaining control over the chain reactions is what really stops a break up and makes a woman want to stay.
So, how does it work?
Here’s an example of a negative vs. positive chain reaction…
Negative chain reaction:
Regular arguments - leads to - you and her feeling angry at each other, resentful and possibly blame the other person for the problem - leads to - you and her feeling more and more disconnected from each other - lead to - You and her feel less and less happy in the relationship.
The arguments and the negative chain reactions that flow on from it, eventually become one of the things that leads to a break up.
Positive chain reaction:
Regular laughter - leads to - You and her feeling happy, relaxed and enjoy each other’s company - leads to - You and her feeling close and connected with each other.
The laughter and the positive chain reactions that flow on from it become one of the many things that keeps your relationship happy, in love and together for life.
Which of those is more like your current relationship?
The fact is, you can choose to continue allowing negative chain reactions to be set off in your relationship, which will cause you and her to remain on the brink of a break up, until it actually happens.
Alternatively, you can gain control over your relationship by actively setting off positive chain reaction effects from now on.
When you do that, both you and her will immediately start to feel better about each other and the relationship.
By the way…
What’s important to understand and remember, is that everything you say or do around your girlfriend or wife, either sets off a positive chain reaction effect or a negative one.
You are in control of it.
You can literally begin to steer the relationship into a more loving, relaxed, happy, close and enjoying relationship starting from today.
The more positive chain reaction effects you set off, the happier and more in love both of you will feel.
You can start doing it right now and you can get better and better at it over the coming weeks, months, years and decades.
As the days, months and years go on, your relationship will feel increasingly amazing for both you and her.
Neither of you will ever want to break up with each other because you will feel so good together.
No-one else will be able to replace either one of you and be able to set off the high level of positive chain reactions that happen in your relationship.
It makes your relationship practically unbreakable.
By the way…
If you’d like to learn more, then I recommend that you watch or listen to my relationship program, Make Her Love You For Life:
www.themodernman.com/blog/mak...
When you watch or listen to the program, you will learn all of my best techniques and methods for creating and maintaining an easy, enjoyable, attracted, in love relationship with a woman that lasts for life.
It’s very easy to do.
You can literally create a relationship dynamic that makes both you and her fall more and more in love with each other over time and become increasingly happy together.
Okay, see you in the next video!
Cheers
Dan 
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I’m a girl watching for advice to fix my relationship with my boyfriend. Like if you’re doing the same
I'm a boy watching for advice to save my relationship too😓
Same I've been crying for over 2 days
Hope you guys rebuild
And I’m a boy trying hard to fix my relationship.
did it work?
If you're watching this, you really care about about your relationship.
here to bring the love back into my relationship
How'd it go
For real
purple lace me too.. me too with my girl.. i love her sooo much
Hey, checking in. Did it worked? Did you saved your relationship?
did it work
Who’s here trying to figure out how to fix his/her relationship with someone that is now falling apart because of this pandemic? Lol
My girl openly said she doesn't know about our future so here I am, praying this works
I want to save my relationship , I don't want to lose her but we're fighting on daily basis. I'm about to complete my college. Life is going to take a new curve . I need her the most. Hope it will work. " May you all be successful in Saving your relationship"
I'm here fighting.. and honestly.. I'm not going to let this lady go.. I love her too much.. I'm going to fight for this..
I thank you
Note to self. Take out the garbage!
😂👍
and tell her to get in the kitchen :P
Your videos not only made my relationship better than ever Also im having so much confidence around people and Im making every person happy around me. Im feeling great! Thanks alot.
I am here to solve my daily arguments with my boyfriend i really love him but always arguing with him on small things that really doesn't matter i don't know how can i control my anger...i really love him and wants to make him happy but..don't know how can i make him happy again..and get his trust back
anna cristina this is me right now 😩 I don’t know what to do
anna cristina I’m having the same problem all the bickering and arguments hurt him and I hate arguing as well over non important things
I am in the same situation rn... Please tell me what you did..
Most men are very simple. If you want to make a man happy show him that he makes you happy.
Have you tried not being a bitch about everything?
Man it’s somewhat comforting to see so many people going through similar situations as I currently am. Fiancé and I are walking on egg shells but there is a huge elephant in the room. She doesn’t like talking about things and I can’t move on from conflict without trying to resolve it first. We’re complete opposites. I fear she will tell me that she doesn’t want to get married because our relationship is becoming really hard, at times overbearing. I hope that things get better when I apply this advice.
I’m mostly positive but the moment I have an issue that I bring up in a conversation all hell breaks loose 😞
My goodness gold advice mate, i keep falling short on conversation cause im always stressed so it’s hard to think of things to say it’s like my mind is numb and blank
Thanks Matt 👍 Get used to being relaxed around her, knowing that you are in the dominant position and don't have to quickly try to beat her in an argument or discussion. As a confident, dominant, loving man, you can take your time and reply to what she is saying when you want to. You are in no rush. If she can see that you aren't panicking, worried or trying hard to impress her by answering quickly, she will naturally respect you, feel attracted to you and feel sparks of love for you. Cheers, Dan
Dan Bacon Thanks for the reply, very good advice for lots of things in life there, makes sense, I think if i can practice the attitude of taking my own time to reply and not being paniced then I’ll probably respond faster and smoother due to clearer thinking it’s other people stressing me out most, but then im panicked because of that affecting how i talk to her
Thanks Dan
Dan Bacon Dan xmas date alert! she offered to meet on xmas day i will have hotel and everything need some advice if you’re around I know its a shot in the dark, would really help
The flow and ex back ss really works good, hopefully i get to test the last part of super system
Thanks regardless for helping me get this far
I can relate to the fullest. Im going thru this at the moment. So I do understand.
I love this man and im no woman! 😂😂
All I can say is thank you, from the bottom of my heart. My relationship has just been saved as a result of your incredible, readily available knowledge, and I couldn't be more excited to create a new bond with my dream woman. Thank you, Dan. You're a true legend!
I am ready to separate but my husband insists in working things out but I am tired, however, I am trying to work with him. I am going to try to change my perspective.
Im here for help. I love my fiancé, but there has been so many dramas throughout our relationship. Both of us brought our toxic traits from our past relationships into ours and ultimately it has created so many "break up" moments. All I truly want to do is to love and care for her and to treat her how she deserves to be treated, its just hard when there's no reciprocation which creates more drama.
I really need this to work because we both still evidently still love eachother so much and we want to try, we just don't know where to start. Thankyou for a few tips . Hearts hurting right now. Wish me luck
We broke up yesterday 11pm approx date 17th of June. 21st June will mark out 6th month. I'm very devoted to her, loyal and trustworthy. Never have I questioned or judged her about her past life. I accepted her as she was and is. I comforted her when she broke down. And I was always ready to do my best for her. She was my first girlfriend. Due to her family problem she told me she wanted to cut ties with everyone she knows including me ( idk if thats an excuse ). But I told her we could make it work. I cried so hard I'm still reading up as I'm writing this. Her name is Amanda . Lovely girl . I love her to death. Please pray we get back together I really love her. 🙏
1:45 ....this is what I'm going through...im insecure cuz I know she's losing interest and I get more insecure cuz of it...and i dont want her to leave...ive been alone for to long...i can't handle being alone for a long time again....i love her so much
I wish i found this channel a month ago
I advice everyone to watch one of these types of videos once a week. They act as corrective steps as we sway out of line, we start to take our partners for granted.
My relationship is falling apart men, we far away and I’m trying to do everything possible but sometimes I don’t even know what to do and it sucks...
guys i pray all of u can fix ur rs because im losing hope but still fighting God Bless
as a girl watcbing this video- i want to learn how to treat my significant other better. i've seen just how much of an effect i have on them and i cant stand ever hurting them so im here to be better.
This would be awesome if more guys would actually look into this and do as this man says. all of the examples he gave would totally make me calm down, laugh, and not get so frustrated with my boyfriend. I literally send videos to my boyfriend hinting this and it just does not seem to ring a bell to him.
I'm here baby 💋
Omg this guys needs to be famous
I learned so much just from watching 3 videos. Now i know what I’m doing wrong and Im gonna start giving positive chain
Been giving negative chains for almost 2 years and shes starting not to love me anymore. Now i really know where I’ve gone wrong
How's it going now?
how did it work out? did this really help?
Did this work
Sure, the negative chain reaction makes it worse.
But did it work out?
Thank you Dan. I have watched most of your videos and helped me to be my self. Not only with girls just as a person with my self. My purpose goals and desire. When I imagine about my future I feel excited. I wish people start developing themselves first before they enter relationship. Everybody deserves love and respect.
BRUH Ive tried out all your advice on my relationship and now she the one apologizing 😂these are cheat codes bro 💪
Im here to get some advice .. I want to fix my relationship with my gf 😢
Same
Hoewd it turn out?
Same😢😢😢
Basically...the answer is always "yes dear"
What did you do bad
Were all here because we don't want to lose someone we love.
Honestly dude God bless you!!🙏🏻 I need this kind of hope.
Sorry for posting this on an unrelated video. I watched some of your videos before a date with a girl that shouldn't even look at a guy like me. The nerves were killing me. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now. You're the man Dan. Thank you.
Awesome! Congrats on your success! Enjoy the great times ahead 👍
Tried watching this with my fiancé and his response was “Do they make these videos for women?” We didn’t even get all the way thru the video. :(
I feel your pain. Stay strong ❤
Cut him off sis
With that occurrence respond in a way that will set off a positive chain reaction 🙂
Just be truthful tho
Rachel York I know, how you feel. It’s frustrating to see when you’re the only one really trying to help and fix your relationships problems :/ it happens for men and women
I understand what I’ve been doing wrong... I just think it might be to late😖
I’m here to try to fix the relationship with my boyfriend I’m fighting so hard for him, really don’t wanna lose him 😔
Love the way you explained this Dan!
dude you make so much sense havent even tried anything yet but i feel the confidence that i know what to do and how to do it i know that i can make things work now thank you so freaking much!!!!!!!
Im here to fix a relationship wit my girl
rafael cachutt yeah me too, I need help mines a huge issue, it’s mainly just about religion she’s baptist and I’m Jewish and ive told her I’ll always support her religion and give her tolerance and respect and I love her because her religion has made her an amazing person, but she’s been pressured by her church to break up with me because of our differing beliefs and she wants me to accept Jesus and I just haven’t been getting tolerance.
Same
rafael cachutt I am too 🤧
On the brink of losing my girl for good, definitely gonna try this and go through your vids. Thanks
My girl acting like she dont care abaut me help
My girl said she dont love me anymore
Thank you Dan me and my girlfriend officially broken up today but after watching this video starting next month or in a few months I’ll use your advice and start going back to treating her like the queen she is when I first met her in 2015 and began making her my girlfriend in 2016 I’m definitely going to make sure to fix my relationship before someone else move on to her
Literally just came across this and it couldn’t have been at a better time because my truest love is keeping me awake because our relationship is crumbling.💔
Thanks Dan for all the help you provide!
👍 You're welcome. More videos on the way.
I want to fix my relationship because I love my boyfriend so much
I just don’t trust her anymore, but she’s telling me to trust her but I don’t know :(
I’m watching this because my friend wants to still be in a relationship with his partner, but needs help and advice.
I’m here because I’m seeing her for the first time in almost two months tomorrow, and I’m doing everything I can to fix things for us, I’d give the world to see her smile, things are looking up for us I just want to make sure she feels heard
One of the best video ever ,great job dan👏🏻
Dan, you`ve gotta be by far one of the best dating/relationship gurus(for men) out there. Most, who are usually PUA`s, only look at these things from an ideal and theoretical standpoint. But your advice is 24 carat realist. Keep going, brother
Thanks Bill 👍 I really appreciate that. More videos on the way.
How should you behave if you are accused of not doing something properly constantly?
You saved my relationship. Thank you!
Seriously good advice, as always. Thx!
I realize I am late to this video and likely have lost my relationship already as I attempt to break out of the shell I have been in. I found this video in search of looking for something to see if your partner is looking for a reason to exit the relationship.
Watching this video to fix my relationship with my boyfriend. We will be together a year in 2 weeks !!
Very technical ( as in only requires certain key things ) and very well put together. Nice video man.
Hi Dan. First off, I'm really grateful for what you are doing here- thank you. I was wondering your take on "mini relationships" or "crushes" where there was some strong attraction at first where there was some affection like a kiss but the "relationship" never progressed to sex, dating, or a real relationship. In my case, this was someone from work and eventually I bumble-fucked it up so bad, that I was asked not to message her. I'm wondering if Ex-back videos make more sense, or your videos on attracting a woman. It seems like Ex-back is the right approach, and just knowing that I don't have the luxury of having her as invested as she might be if a real relationship had occured. Your thoughts?
Here to fix my 💔 relationship
I’m here to fix my relationship with my husband that we have a family together
how can I hint at this for my boyfriend to see
Thank you for these tips We want more!!!
I am seeing this for the first time and I am here to fix my relationship.
Here trying to save the girl of my dreams I want to marry her but I’ve messed up so much hopefully it works out
Here to fix the things ive done i just pray its not to late
Here to try and fix my relationship but he wants a time off. I'm just scared he'll lose the love he has for me in the process.
I learned it’s very difficult to have witty, humorous responses when I was high and/or drinking. I’ve finally got my shite together, going on month 2 of being sober and feel there is hope again.
Here for round two😊glad your helping me Dan i need to not stop watching this videos fellas treat your woman right😉
I need advice from someone. I have been with this guy for over a year now and he says he loves me but recently he has said he is getting a little bored but he wants to fix it, I don't know how to though... Does anyone have any ideas?
Where are marriage counselors like you!!!! I go and they just sit and listen.... Thank you..
If u see this(impossible), i was trying to fix our relationship:’)
Im watching this bcs i want to fix our relationship, and i don’t want to lose him. I mean i already see my future with him, i planned our future and i want to be in his life.. if it’s not him then it’s no one, i am willing to sacrifice anything i could and can to fix this.
Thanks. You have such a great sense of humour.
My relationship is over watching this out of regret.. it’s too late..
Great tips man. 🔥🙌
My lad is so stressed and frustrated all the time and takes everything out on me. I just want to fix us but it seems like he hates me because he shouts at me all the time and there's so much miscommunication when I bring it up to him. I struggle with anxiety and this is just making everything so much worse and I just want us to be healthy and work towards our future
Thank you this was very helpful
Thank you so so much this one video explained me I was so bad and didn’t even think so till I watched this and I guarantee you just saved my relationship
My wife is glued to her phone, has no sense of humor. She's mad a lot, and not just at me...i think she's crazy
This is literally the issue I’m having with my partner, even doe we’ve only been together for a few months.
I won’t what’s next
Love the advice
Im here to fix my relationship with my girlfriend 😭💔😍
Great advice!
Thank You for this.
Thank you for opening my eyes after hiding behind my self pity for too long. All these new sporadic things that keep slamming me down in life block my vision from the tender love I gave initially from the start. The love didn’t change but when the distance of self depression builds, you over shadow you’re companions lust for that very same love you have that made them love you. Even though it’s just taking out the trash you are talking about, I can see how that compellingly applies to other situations. Again thank you for allowing me to see again. It’s hard to remember these ideals when stress and life take your eyes from it. I will be better and take our true love we have for each other back selflessly
Omg this is exactly what is happening to me, thank god I found this. Luckily my girlfriend still loves me and wants to try
You are a legend.
Thanks dan. This helped me to understand my fault. I am greatful.
Here because i love her
It pains me a lot watching him losing interest in me
i wish my boyfriend was willing to respect me more, and stop being so rude and selfish
Thanks I really needed this
Love your video brother 😭😭😭
Thanks for the help 🙏🙏☺️
I'm here to fix me and my girlfriend's relationship
Here to fix my relationship and make my boyfriend feel appreciated and special 😩
Here to save my life "her", I love her so much!
Have to say you talk alot of sense, almost feel stupid for not looking at it like this years ago 😂 keep up the videos! 👍
Im here to save my dying relationship
I have serious trust issues and my girl is getting tired of it we got 1 year 8 months together separated several times but still together but it’s not the same as it used to be and I need help
I love You man!
I came here because my girlfriend, and I want to spend with her more, and I hope it will settle our relationship soon. And I had a lot of regrets by saying to her with negative thoughts.
Helped me a ton