I still come across this as an adult. Some I thought that were friends or someone who I thought we could be close friends. Distance is the key...I just tried to be extra nice and friendly recently and it doesn't work...it appears to an opportunity for them to be even more rude and mean... The best solution seems to be distance, and bring books and happy music at social gatherings in case they use the opportunity for exclusion..and you find yourself alone..Find the people who are genuine and friendly and kind, stick with them.
I don’t agree with tip 3. That person mistreating you didn’t see you as a person when they decided to continue taking digs at you. They don’t respect you so why should I give them the grace that I’m not receiving. That only makes excuses for their behavior and their behavior isn’t ok. They have a problem and that’s their issue to fix. Not mine.
It started with my mother and oldest sister bullying me to strengthen their bond. The ones I'm dealing with are neighbors well over 50. (At this point I am hating on women.)
I understand girls can be mean sometimes. But it is really sad to see that they're only mean to me not people around me, making me wonder if sth is wrong with me.
I used to think this ALL the time. I used to feel so bad about myself until one day I realized wait there must actually be something special about me. Maybe they can tell I don’t have to fake my way through this life and something about that fascinates them with envy.
Bertilla's Music Thank you!! 😊 I hope the tips help. Sometimes even knowing that you’re not the only one dealing with a mean girl can go a long way to feeling a bit better about it all xx
So this is a bit backwards i'm afraid. I just watched your video about getting blue ray blocking glasses which you got as non-prescription glasses. Before I go any further I must tell you that i'm a retired optician. So as such I was wondering if you maybe already had prescription glasses as well so here I am after coming across this one.. This video also appears to be the first time you filmed a video wearing glasses. So i'm curious if you maybe had only recently been prescribed glasses. I was able to peek through the sides of your glasses and you're clearly a little shortsighted (nearsighted) Much like your blue light blocking glasses they look very nice on you and glasses really do suite you very well. But I only found one more video of you wearing glasses and none since then. Shortsightedness never goes away so i'm sure that you still need your glasses but you're still able to see well enough without them that you don't wear them all that often. Just because you're able to see okay without your glasses doen't mean you can't wear them for fashion or to just give yourself a bit of a different look. Haven't you noticed that wearing glasses has become very popular with many young ladies in recent years. Many are even wearing glasses with perfect eyesight just for the "look". You must have gotten your glasses with an AR coating because i don't notice any sign of reflections or glare coming from your glasses. Just so you know it, in case you don't, it's okay to wear your glasses as much as you wish to, even full time, with no danger of doing any harm to your eyes. Nothing wrong with your glasses being both functional as well as fashionable.
Hi Jim! I actually wear contact lenses usually when filming because I have to tilt the lights at a certain angle or I get too much of a glare. I find that it’s hard to see if I’m in focus in the camera if I don’t have lenses or glasses on. Non filming days I tend to alternate between both of them.. whatever I’m feeling at the time 😊 thanks for watching!
I still come across this as an adult. Some I thought that were friends or someone who I thought we could be close friends. Distance is the key...I just tried to be extra nice and friendly recently and it doesn't work...it appears to an opportunity for them to be even more rude and mean... The best solution seems to be distance, and bring books and happy music at social gatherings in case they use the opportunity for exclusion..and you find yourself alone..Find the people who are genuine and friendly and kind, stick with them.
I don’t agree with tip 3. That person mistreating you didn’t see you as a person when they decided to continue taking digs at you. They don’t respect you so why should I give them the grace that I’m not receiving. That only makes excuses for their behavior and their behavior isn’t ok. They have a problem and that’s their issue to fix. Not mine.
It started with my mother and oldest sister bullying me to strengthen their bond. The ones I'm dealing with are neighbors well over 50. (At this point I am hating on women.)
How about for dealing with over 60 mean girls? Not enough to be bullied by my mother and sister. The saga continues in my life.
There is nothing you can do. They won't stop. Get away, if possible.
I understand girls can be mean sometimes. But it is really sad to see that they're only mean to me not people around me, making me wonder if sth is wrong with me.
Mean girls often just pick on one person. It’s never about you… it’s all their stuff and a reflection on them and their character!
I used to think this ALL the time. I used to feel so bad about myself until one day I realized wait there must actually be something special about me. Maybe they can tell I don’t have to fake my way through this life and something about that fascinates them with envy.
And bitchy too don't forget that
Thank you, you uploaded this video just when I needed advice on this :)
Bertilla's Music Thank you!! 😊 I hope the tips help. Sometimes even knowing that you’re not the only one dealing with a mean girl can go a long way to feeling a bit better about it all xx
As a man, thank you for your video
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So this is a bit backwards i'm afraid. I just watched your video about getting blue ray blocking glasses which you got as non-prescription glasses. Before I go any further I must tell you that i'm a retired optician. So as such I was wondering if you maybe already had prescription glasses as well so here I am after coming across this one.. This video also appears to be the first time you filmed a video wearing glasses. So i'm curious if you maybe had only recently been prescribed glasses. I was able to peek through the sides of your glasses and you're clearly a little shortsighted (nearsighted) Much like your blue light blocking glasses they look very nice on you and glasses really do suite you very well. But I only found one more video of you wearing glasses and none since then. Shortsightedness never goes away so i'm sure that you still need your glasses but you're still able to see well enough without them that you don't wear them all that often. Just because you're able to see okay without your glasses doen't mean you can't wear them for fashion or to just give yourself a bit of a different look. Haven't you noticed that wearing glasses has become very popular with many young ladies in recent years. Many are even wearing glasses with perfect eyesight just for the "look". You must have gotten your glasses with an AR coating because i don't notice any sign of reflections or glare coming from your glasses. Just so you know it, in case you don't, it's okay to wear your glasses as much as you wish to, even full time, with no danger of doing any harm to your eyes. Nothing wrong with your glasses being both functional as well as fashionable.
Hi Jim! I actually wear contact lenses usually when filming because I have to tilt the lights at a certain angle or I get too much of a glare. I find that it’s hard to see if I’m in focus in the camera if I don’t have lenses or glasses on. Non filming days I tend to alternate between both of them.. whatever I’m feeling at the time 😊 thanks for watching!
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Most girls are nice! But some are mean
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