@@jbb8261 eh, idk about "exploited" they just share to fans their updates and how they feel. I wouldn't call it "exploit". Mom and dads do it Facebook and insta all the time. Them making a video ver of it isn't really different
Normalize a mother needing a break. We don't see their full life. She could be feeling like she's having a mental break without saying it. Hell who knows. Everyone will make opinions and assumptions but when it's all said and done we only watch... we're not experiencing anything she nor Brett is going through.
@@shik4488all I wanted him to do is get the baby. He needed to take the time and comfort his son instead of sitting there looking annoyed and useless. Ijs
I swear I was going to come at the same thing I was scrolling through to see if anybody else did like okay you're saying that this is why you're separating but being a single parent isn't going to fix any of that!!!
She’s already a single mom she’ll just have one less big baby to take care of. You don’t get here without asking for help many a time and being ignored.
Idk these people but being a “single mom” with a fully capable husband that just won’t help seems so much more overwhelming than being a single mom period… it’s exhausting relying on someone that doesn’t show up consistently especially when it’s with something you should both share the responsibilities for. It’s kind of like having a slacker as a project partner at some point you realize it’s better you just do it alone than getting stressed over having to make sure they do their part, confronting them when they don’t, not having peace of mind all while having to do your own part.
What?… you’re moving in and out of homes.. get a nanny.. a few weeks later decide to move to Hawaii and leave everything behind…get dreadlocks.. cut them off a few weeks later.. now you’re separating from your husband that you dragged to Hawaii… what is going on… you need to see a doctor for postpartum depression. That man truly loves you and you’re destroying him Smdh
You expecting a person who like you said has ppd to not destroy ppl when she is feeling destroyed herself! Yall in these comments gotta think logical verse emotional. Yall need help too! Rose is hurting and she can't be good to anyone right now. You really think she wants this! Hurt people hurt ppl!
@@aneshiadarling She needs to get help and not post videos on the internet cause that’s not helping her either. I don’t like seeing self destructive videos on my timeline. Get yourself together then come back.
I came straight to the comments because I wanted to see who was laughing about their funny joke. There weren't any laughing emojis. I hate that I saw this coming. Too much feeling out loud! I'm sorry for all this and the haters who added to the anxiety. I feel like y'all need to connect with some honest open couples in their later years of marriage. Life as a married person is like this, but it passes as long as you keep going through it. My opininon since it's on my timeline is wait six months before you seperate.
As soon as she said "shoot your shot" I'm like girl get a divorce cause neither of you are mature enough for marriage or kids. cause even airing this out on the internet is CRAZY!!
Well, you can also look it from another perspective. Airing this out, can hopefully help another young lady not making the same decisions, and making them see the reality of marriage and having kids. It’s very vital to see it first hand.
Too busy putting on a show, airs, being disgraceful occasionally at times, unnecessarily in public (otherwise, do your thing)...idk cuz after catching a couple of glimpses, I stopped following... but this stood out. Hope they get help, chill out, etc.
I get your point but I disagree. These people give me a lot of insight as to how relationships work, what to do, and what not to do in a relationship. I do appreciate their contribution to the community. I would have never known certain narratives because I am single and do not socialize that much with others if not for RUclips
@@Champ-tt5id Majority of men today can't handle the responsibility of family. There are no 'right men' to pick. Most women have no choice but to go with the best of the worst.
That’s actually not true. People don’t understand that single mothers only struggle when they don’t have an involved father. But if you’re co-parenting, it will be easier. Like for instance, my son stays at his dad house every other week. That means I get an entire week to myself. When we were together, I got no time to myself because I was the default partner.
Rose is sabotaging her own marriage. I get she’s probably overwhelmed but when you want to take a break from your marriage just remember your giving your husband time to think too and he might not want you after you had your time to “think”.
@@kimmylou3230 yall it's DEFINITELY ONLY FOR THE VIEWS.... EVERYTIME their views go down good golly they're divorcing and seperating.... SMH it's sad, but literally look the views go down to 12k or 16k and then here we go (she is starting to remind me of that "Peach Patch" mom of 30 lol bc everytime their views go down her & Wood R splitting up, she's filing or divorce) it's crazy.... but they moved away from all their family to a small place away from everyone so it happens.... Brett is a damngood man,dad and she needs to fix herself ASAP....
Absolutely, breaks apart from husband and marriage do not always work in Favor of the marriage especially with answering to social media chimed in. Too much of a huge audience. Social media become the influencer. You need each other as husband, wife (to work it out) and you remain parents. Facts! So heartbreaking to see this happening. To see Rose sad painful face and Brett sad eyes. You all need alone time together, to get that love going again. NO SOCIAL MEDIA. TRY IT IF ALL POSSIBLE.
@@totallynotthat1360you're 100% correct. When my friends started getting married I was miserable and crying for my turn. Time went on and most of them are divorce, unhappy, bursted and worn out. I'm 36 and look 10 years younger than my age, I have a great balancing job, nice house, all the travelling and good stuff. Lot of women envy me but, that was their choice 😂😂😂😂. I'm dating though but with no stress at all.
@@merarimartinez612 I agree. I see so much of myself in her, but I have one child and I’m 40. I learned LATE! I’ve always read/heard that when a woman CUTS her HAIR, she is going through some deep pain and transformation. She talks about her EX so much, she probably never healed from that relationship and just carried it over to this one. 👩🦲
Rose! Woman to woman no disrespect.....i'm 42 years of age with 5 kids.. so I understand how you feel....but trust me on this....get on your knees and talk to God, you have a great man at your side, which we all know they are rare....sis, get on some praying grounds....its gonna work out🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Great advice. She need something better than social media. She need Jesus! Cry out to Him...He definitely will bring Peace that Surpasses all understanding. Work with your husband. Rose don't push him away and tell him to get on his own channel. DO YOU REALLY WANT THAT, ROSE?? BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR! Manifest Goodness!!! Brett has a solid family and good foundation they Love you Rose. Praying parents. That believe in solidarity and true bonds. We need that in more marriages, role models. We know sweetheart it is not easy but Love do conquer all. Try shutting down for a while. Your little face look so bewildered. By the way you had 2 kids meaning your husband not 4 total difference. Go to God Hebis your Refuge. Peace and Love
I’ve been watching for a lil while. I’m a mom. It’s hard but it seems like she’s using this as a manipulation tactic. There are millions of single mothers and stay at home moms. She’s immature she impulsive and very manipulative. You can see it in her face, She knows he’s not leaving and will do anything for her. The man moved and left his life for her “health”. Girl grow up and Brett get a back bone with her or she will drain the heck out of you and your a good man and father!
I am leaning towards this mind set as well. I am a proud stay at home mom! I successful stayed at home and raised 3 VERY successful (adult) children now. It was the toughest job I’ve ever had! Yes you have to place your family before your desires. Once they are raised is when your hearts desires on steroids! I love being a driven woman in the second half of my life and no responsibilities!!!
Why is this on RUclips? This should be private. I feel violated, and it’s not even my family or my private business. Please take this down and focus on your family.
Especially❤ when you let money change you. "It is said. "Set not your heart on Riches. Be Humble, Greatful And Thankful. In these Evil And Wicked times. We live in. "Now. "Let 🙏 Pray. Y'all for the family. Amen.
That’s it…they can’t replace YT money with a ‘regular’ job. It’s awful. I feel most for the kids. Schoolmates will be ruthless. Kids are brutal. Kids are not content. These poor kiddos have to suffer because of the horrible choices their parents made.
Totally agree! I get it it’s hard but how hard can it be with such a supportive compassionate companion? I bet it has everything to do with her wanting darker meat deliveries 🚚 😅 anywho girl grow up! And take care the family you wanted bragged about and created, before you regret loosing that meal ticket to another deserving woman!
Also take into consideration that we dont see everything unfold on the camera, there is no perfect person and never will be. They most definitely have other issues we dont see. Let us encourage them she is doing her best and he is doing his best.
She’s prideful, arrogant, disrespectful, and wants to call all the shots. It’s a reason why her family doesn’t deal with her. Keep taking him for granted and you will be by yourself.
The fact that she went from thinking he was leaving her, to weeks later, now okay with him leaving.... speaks volumes. He looked like he knew he fkd up. She has been trying to be heard by him for a while. He did what he wanted. She got tired. He's back pedaling. Simple. Why are women not seeing this when we've all been through it... oh yes, because we are used to blaming the black woman. She must've done it. 😅😅😅😅 never mind. I remember now. ❤
@@SonorousSilenceit has nothing to do with being a black woman. I’m a black woman and I recognize the immaturity, arrogance, and selfishness. She is going to end up alone.
he looks hurt and defeated. She is just grinning and seems happy that its finally ''over''. I don't know those people but she gives off ''i'm too good for him'' but in reality he is too good for her. Let her go! You deserve better!
Come on You know chicks like this , you seen chicks like this . She aint coming back until some one smack reality in to her and that usually takes a while . My homie who is a straight up out and proud womanizer , has a black single mother of 5 mixed kids who got a mid life crisis and wanted to be a City girl at 42 years old . She left her white husband after several arguments over her antics and finally asked for a divorce because she was not happy ...no real reason just was unhappy with daily life as the man wife . Now my homie is hitting the bottom of her box on the regular , got her screaming in his apartment , I walked in one day hearing that man break her back out . This is going to be Rose future ... because that is what is happening to alot of single mothers who up and leave in their late 30s early 40s for the streets and they will meet guys who all they want is their peace and some p-sleeve on the side from time to time nothing more .
I had post pardum 3 times but I didn’t rip my husbands balls off and degrade him. Zero excuse. If u need medication the then what u waiting on, the world to change for u
I've been a Single Mother with two Son's and I haven't had any time to myself since 2012! This is 2024. I have was taking care of my Parent's while they we're sick. My Son's we're little, I was diagnosed with Cardiomyopathy and Multiple Sclerosis in 2011. Then in 2012 I had to have my Defibrillator/Pacemaker put in my hearr. So I can stay alive for my Son's. I have almost died twice. The first time I lost my first born Son and my Fiancé at the same time 12/24/2004. I woke up without my family. I have fought my whole life to stay alive. I have never thought for one second to leave my Son's for nothing. That will never happen! My Son's are 19 and 17. I still struggle with shit in my life and I will never give up. 💯
Sorry it’s been so hard for you - Rose chose to have 4 kids and they come first and it’s hard even if you have health. I too have been chronically ill for 3 years - no choice but to carry on!
It don’t hurt for the baby to cry some these new moms I swear I have six kids and I have postpartum just about all of six and I will never let my husband leave me or I’m leaving him to get a mental break. If anything ask your husband to get the children for a couple of hours a day, just up and leave because you still have a baby that depending on the boob or whatever case maybe
She maybe listening to her single girl friends but she will find out ain’t nothing out there she about to find out with the body counts and mileages about to run up on her.
I believe they were in activities before she had the youngest. It simply got harder because they have a new baby right now. That PPD really hitting hard.
In no way should it be hard on your children there should be challenges but as a parent you should never put your child in a compromising position. Socialization is key true, but thrusting them into socialization is not ok.
She messing up a good thing. What is she gonna do? She always speaks on what the comments say or what a blog say ...stay off the internet! If she has time to be on here how are you so exhausted tending to the kids? This is mom life.
Lmao that’s easy for them when he’s white… we already know how it goes when it’s a brother.
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@@Hiphopmusicprofessor LOL...I was thinking the same thing. If this was a brother they would be blaming him saying , "He dont love his momma" or calling him a Dusty or whatever. The truth is I actually feel sorry for the husband. He really loves her but he is being manipulated. It is easier for black women to see and admit how dysfunctional they are when they see the mess towards a white man vs. a black man.
Please DONT put your relationship on the Internet like this is very harmful for your family and for your children they need peace of mind. It’s not fair for them
@@brendarobinson76 Please tell me you didn't address grammatical errors. It's clear the person intentionally spelled those words in a short hand form, with the exception of 'spit.' That was probably autocorrect.
@@brendarobinson76 Well, it should have been *spells and *used. I won't even address the errors in your second reply. Enjoy your day with your husband. I'll enjoy my day with my husband as well. I don't usually announce that to strangers, but I want to meet you where you're at. 😉
This guy was trying to be a big knight in shining armour and save Rose from her previous unhappiness. However, he is slowly realizing that no matter what he does, he can't save Rose.
This is called postpartum, lack of sleep, physical exhaustion hormones a mess, you need medical care, and hire some help. Your husband loves you but when you feel like this I’ve been there you can’t think clearly. Praying you get the help you both need.
Stop blaming arrogant behavior on postpartum, Rose needs to get help before she destroys her family. In a marriage it's not one person who has the say, both should agree on whatever it is, and both should be able to air their views without the other crying to control the situation. Bret is a grown man with more maturity than Rose, he should not let a giddy-headed girl disrupt his life, living, and family. It should be, what's best for the family, not what's best for popularity.
@@atcellewe don’t know these people, we only see what we see! And I see a woman who has a young baby, with no family/friend support near by to help, if you’ve never had postpartum you would not understand. It makes you crazy. I’m just trying to give her love so don’t come me online lol.
@atcelle, I'm sure you're only saying that because she's black. But black women get tired too. White women are allowed to have breakdowns and depression and anxiety, and everybody understands. She is very much postpartum and it has her mentally and emotionally all over the place.
@@Monica-hg8rnYou are absolutely right. But people don't show compassion for black people and mental health. When the white girls are depressed and suffering from anxiety and postpartum everybody is so understanding. The main problem is she's a black woman with a white man and they don't like that, so anything she does is scrutinized. No room for error.
Rose, you chose to have four children. Rose, you chose to be a stay at home mother, and wife, while your husband works outside of the home. Rose you chose to move your family away from extended family, etc. Rose, you chose social media as a platform. I am not blaming you, but holding you accountable for the choses you did play a part in.
PSA - Unless you are her mother, kin, Best friend, coach, or accountability partner - it’s kind of impossible to hold a perfect stranger “accountable” especially when another grown adult never asked you to do that for them. Adults can only hold one person accountable - themselves.
@@getreal4real169she didn’t prevent those kids either though and do don’t think they were forced. So by omission or commission she participated in them being here.
I’m 36… and I’ll tell you Rose. You’re going to regret this. The grass IS NOT greener. Make it right because since women see that he’s a good man he can replace you faster than you can replace him realistically.
Rose is domineering and until she learns to submit and respects her man she'll just keep trading out husbands. When I see the jokes she make to her husband I would always think she shredding on ice. Because joke or not you never should disrespect your husband.
I agree 100%. I find that more of the women in their 30s to 40s cheer on separations so I truly appreciate your take. More people should realize what they have before they burn it to the ground.
Being a full time stay at home parent is the hardest work in the world. You constantly need to monitor the kids, cooking, cleaning, washing laundry, crying, screaming, running around, getting into everything, no breaks, no space, no change of scenery, no different people to converse with, and you don’t get paid. It’s stressful, and overwhelming. I do hope that you both work things out and come as one with your family
One who feels this way might be smart to have one or two and see how it goes............. *anyone* is going to have a hard time with FOUR. Especially if they're all under ten.
This is not post partum behavior.. she is narcissistic and he is a victim of narcissistic abuse. She removed her mask after they got married and had this baby, then she hit him the okie doke by isolating him from his loving and supportive family in the US. This is typical narc behavior and it’s escalating because the power dynamic has changed between them. He’s finding out what the other baby daddies BEEN found out about her. She has been spiraling way before the baby arrived. She is also displaying manic behaviors that are aligned with bi-polar disorder. Yes, she needs help, but it’s not the help you think she needs. She is possessed by the narcissistic demon that can only be exorcised through deliverance. Anything outside of that, God help them all. I feel more sorry for him and those helpless kids - not her.
No she's not she's tired and you know what he knows that she's not a narcissist she knows that this woman is tired. She looks like she's tired she don't look like her same self
@@lisa196409 Narcs get tired too.. and he’s tired of her narcissistic shenanigans. Both of them are toxic, but she’s more toxic than him, that’s for sure. She antagonized him the entire video, no matter how respectful and peaceful he tried to be towards her. She’s more concerned with views than the welfare and future reputation of her children. She’s unhinged.
It may be Unhealthy Attachment Style too. They present the same. but at least style is fixable. She seems Disorganized which the push-pull dynamic is playing out. iMHO. It’s like an intimacy pendulum…Get close/get away. She has swung to the Avoidant side… hyper independent… testing his love because she doesn’t trust love, usually from childhood or previous bad relationship trauma.
No that's what happens when you don't get the mental help you need and blame things on the past men in your life. Her making a video talking about the money for the house, him being a deadbeat and all this other nonsense is ghetto behavior. No self respecting person wants to deal with a woman who has the mental capacity of an emotionally unstable child who can't control their emotions. In their big ole age.
I was a stay at home mom and a daycare in my own home. 5:30 to 5:30 when you decide to have kids you give give your life till they grow and get older. Put the baby down. get him some toys. She probably get a sugar daddy. She wants materialistic things. Not get what you can afford. That is very sad that she can't see what a goof man she has.
@@IcantwithYoupeople In her own words she decided she wanted to stay. Brett did eventually agree to it. Watch the previous videos. They were only going to Hawaii for vacation initially. Not to live.
@IcantwithYoupeople She literally said she made the decision after going there on holiday and decided she didn’t want to go back. Anything to avoid accountability.
1. We meet you guys in apartment 2. Vacation w/ex inlaws & new hubby. 3. You guys buy beautiful home. 4. You make home Air BNB - wise move to make money. 5. Move in another apartment. 6. She falls out with ex inlaws 7. Vacay in Hawaii 8. $2000 on locs 9. Rose shaves her head bald, knowing Brett likes hair. 10. Prank fans with breakup rumor. 11. Decides not to go back home moves to Hawaii 12. Brett goes home, cleans up lose ends and gave up his job. 13. Brett comes to Hawaii 14. Rose says she needs a break & they separate.
She full of shit she won't last a week like he said we saw video when he was home tying up lose ends she claim he wasn't coming back bih don't look dumb when she send u packin
She gonna learn; hopefully, it's not too late😮I watched a friend leave her husband and then call me every day crying because he moved on. 11 years later, she is still crying about her ex-husband. 😢
So all I hear is you are having a hard time because you are stuck in a tiny apartment with 4 children because YOU decided to uproot your family and move to Hawaii. You left your home and stuck your active children in tiny apartments when you have enough income to provide them with a nice home. Anybody will be frustrated and tired in this situation. Kids should be in summer activities if they are too much for you. Children need routines and schedules…not randomly moving to Hawaii. Edit: I feel like I’m being too harsh but please do not ruin your marriage girl. I hope you can recover I’m not an actual subscriber but I always get your shorts on my feed. Wishing you the best.
Yeah I think it’s time to put the cameras down and go within guys ! I hope you guys understand this message, I really love you guys and I hope you guys come from this
@@taliagoodwomanmannYet here you are again commenting. I’m not defending her I feel bad for Brett at the same time I’ve felt like a lot she does is for Likes and/or subscribers. She has lost several supporters show her she’s not winning and stay away.🙄🤔😏 *No offense to you* 🌹
1. Rose is a woman not a girl. 2. There are “men and women“ who are willing to do the hard work to keep their families together. If you can’t love someone through the hard times then you will never experience the fullness of love.
The children do not listen, especially Rayce. They also don't have a schedule and have moved around alot. It's more than just "children have a lot of energy."
They need structure, goals, hobbies and outlets. Get them in a sport, get them and instrument or something and give them a place to put passion. They need a schedule where they know what is happening everyday. They know when the meals are coming, when dad's coming home, when school is, when they are coming and going. She seems to like chaos under the guise of spontaneity. That's terrible for children. She also seems highly combative. She puts out that argumentive energy. She can't let anything lie, she can't be at peace, everything is personal to her. She's chaotic, erratic, spiteful, moody and combative. No wonder the children don't know how to act. They only know what they see and they are giving that energy back.
@@sharonp9462I definitely agree! I love this family and want to see them prosper, but Rose seems to be a little scattered, there needs to be some type of structure! She’s all over the place atp. They’re all feeding from her energy.
@@earthstar7534 Yes! Those boys need to be enrolled in activities, camps, sports, etc not just lounging around the house bored and clueless. Like does Rose and Brett not know this stuff? Rose needs to step up her game cuz she is slacking big time.
Watching a sister destroying her relationship. Someone said she is giving him “Im too good for him vibe” you can tell she is ready to use the baby as a weapon to destroy that man. sister you will regret this sooner than rather. Stand up for your child and man. Yes you can
Stop sharing everything with the world! Something’s keep it between you and your partner. It’s not good to announce everything! You have a great man, girl! You better work it out. Stop the BS! A man investing in you with all his efforts, loves you, accepted you as you were and made you better today…Come on?! You have a gem of a man! These are the types of men woman are looking for! You have him right next to you. Stay with your man! Just change things around and stop allowing funny ideas to enter your mind.
I agree. I fully understand being on social media to make money but I personally feel that your personal life should not be on social media especially if you cannot handle the criticism from others. If it were me I would take a break from social media and get into counseling. Society loves seeing people fail so this should have been kept private.
Telling women to shoot their shot at her husband, singing “don’t save her, she don’t want to be saved”, even when he attempts to defend her and accept accountability, her energy and body language is off. She has checked out. Rose wants to be outside but my goodness, there is nothing out there. She will regret this years later. Brett, listen to her.. she dont wanna be saved. Her words😢
I have been here with my husband. We had a special needs child and I had postpartum bad. He didn't and still doesn't understand sometimes that I need a life of my own. Please try couples therapy. It saved my marriage. Go on dates, be forced to learn how to listen to one another. She is crying for help and I don't think he knows what she is going through
Its called being a Mom. Put your kids in activities, get on a schedule. Sitting all day will cause you to be depressed. Rose, you're very entitled and need to grow up. The moves you make to benefit you, and only you.
YOU TWO ARE IN IT TO WIN IT!!!! DON’T GIVE UP ON LOVE!!! Love, TRUE Love doesn’t EVER end. It’s an infinite measure of the heart. Petty nonsense and pride with a sprinkle of stubbornness is the life long contract for giving up. Write out ALL of your own cons that you see in yourself. Then write out all of the pros you see in yourself. NOW write out your positive heart feelings about your spouse then write out your negative feelings about your spouse. What stands out? In comparison, does theirs seem petty or outweigh your worst? Can you forgive and accept it? Discuss it with reasoning and see if it’s something that can be changed together. Then work it out! Accept the unchangeable! Embrace the positives and mount them everywhere. Now forgive and let’s get back to those fun loving times that we’re making memories with 🥰🥰🥰
So instead of working things out as a family and husband and wife… you really screw yourself doing it all alone. Which is your main complaint? Make that make sense. Good luck.
@@lolafairchild88 there was no hate or "Karen" behavior in her comment, just confusion.... I see why you and your husband have to live separately to make it work lol...
This wasn’t a Karen comment. It actually makes sense. If your overwhelmed how does taking it all on by yourself help? Something else has to be the problem here.
@@tanishanightingalenah she chooses everything she built a story about herself being left with no help and then get with a man and brags because he’s white obviously and it backfired. This was best for him he needed to see the truth and she did also
The answer is NO to a separation. It’s a hurdle that you will look back at and be glad you got over it… it’s life. It’s being parents. It’s being married through thick & thin. This is what you call a partnership. I’m with the person that said turn off the camera at this point. I love y’all… y’all are a beautiful couple. Dance together when the babies are asleep, and if they don’t go to sleep… dance with them too. YOU CAN DO THIS!!!! ♥️ everybody quits. Hang in there. And COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS. instead of complaining or finding fault. Trust me… counting your blessings really does work.
She is selfish.. You can't "have a life"- party, go out, have privacy, etc. When you have kids. You made your bed, lady!! Lay in it... Stop complaining 😒 and mature.
@@NIKnakNIKKI she sold out not me thought things would be better on that side come to find out she the problem and his big goofy dumb ass can’t even run his household
@@Ma.atMelanin absolutely no excuse. That’s merely an explanation. There’s people who been thru the same trauma as her and do not conduct themselves in such a way. My point exactly, she needs to be evaluated by a doctor. The human brain finishes development at age 25!! So any time after that , your prefrontal cortex is done developing and you’re still acting CHAOTIC . Somethings wrong fam
@@luckyygrasshopper9508 You white girls suffer from depression and anxiety all the time, and everybody is so understanding. Some of the biggest pill poopers known to man. But when you see a black woman in that state, there's "no excuse." She is definitely postpartum and she needs some support. She needs family. Her family. She is isolated with four kids. Two of which she's not allowed to discipline the way she needs too so now she is being disrespected. On top of a newborn that needs all of her attention and time. Its a difficult time for her.
Unhibged is a strong strong word.. like serial killer.. werid choice of words for a blk women. When white women go through it's they are over whelmed. Having kids is a lot.
They need a community. My haitian culture we live aroubd cousibs aunties lother sister in law. We go and babysit fora week for one another. Why idns everything in the us a do it all alone mindset?
If she doesn’t want it then is she supposed to suck it up? Idk these ppl just heard they’re finally doing something about family RUclips channels and I got excited they are super weird. But not knowing anything about someone’s relationship is how it should be imo call me crazy but their business
You guys likely are better without the cameras rolling, find a way to reconcile privately, don't allow comments of total strangers whom might not fully understand the dynamics of your relationship vector / influence your final choices. Rooting for you both to reconcile, privately then if you choose return to share the end result. Perhaps take some time to recharge your family, evaluate what works and a arrive at an amicable solution for the unit. There is clearly a deep concern for one another, use this care as an anchor and chart a different course in the near term that involves you both rebuilding , recharging privately. If you must ornmiss sharing your private family matters, perhaps consider sharing less details - not as often, with updates after major milestones
I totally agree!!!! You should not be putting your personal business out like that. Work on the issues in private not for the whole world see at all!!!!! Big mistake!!!!! Why would you want to bring total strangers into your lives and you don't even know these people at all???? And they are giving you advice??? Really that makes no sense at all!!!!! Deal with what is going between you to, in your marriage and talk to each other, support one another and be understanding towards one another in this difficult time and also think about how this is going to affect the children when their mom leaves the home
Don't EVER give a man time to get used to you not being around. He will have PEACE that he hasn't had in a while, and he will have time to think about things as well. Be VERY, VERY careful about separating from your man.
Not everything needs to be on social media I didn’t even watch all of it, I was like I don’t need to be the 3rd wheel in this, none of us do. They need to handle this away from the cameras.
Sooooooo mf uncomfortable!!! I know they are real people but it’s like watching someone take a shit!😞I love them both and I just hate to see this! I have 7 kids postpartum manifests itself in so many ways
She doesn’t have enough of a community of other married women. It’s better for everyone’s sanity to have a supportive community more than just you and husband.
These two do not need to be separating, especially as Rose has clearly been struggling to manage for months now. Brett is right, she’s going to struggle without him. Brett leaving is not fair on the kids. I said the following on a previous video after Rose shaved her hair off - Rose appears to be suffering from Post Natal Depression/Post Partum Disorder. Brett - stay with her and those kids, take a break from posting content and get Rose some professional help ASAP! This was so disappointing to watch. I really thought that things were going to improve once Brett returned to Hawaii and the moderators joined the team to manage the trolls in the comments. Rose needs help, she does not need to be left alone to struggle with four kids! How is that going to help? Those poor kids.
He needs to take full custody of his kids and let her take care of her own kids from her baby daddies. She could get visitation rights but that’s it. She seems mentally unstable
It is sad to hear that you guys separated. I just want you to know you all are loved and you will probably work things out to stay together forever & day till death do you part. I wish all of you comfort and peace with love! ❤❤❤❤☮️☮️☮️☮️
Remember cases like Andrea Yates where the mom unalived the children? The father didn't want to upset the mom by admitting her to a psychiatric hospital and then he comes home to all his children dead. Happens too many times unfortunately. Postpartum psychosis and depression is common and she cant see the severity because of her mental state. Someone needs to step in now.
I said this, adding people into your marriage does that. Not only that social media gets into people's head how it should be, vs what they think it should be...
He’s really trying to communicate with her and relate to her and it’s all about her! She’s not trying to relate with him at all! It goes back to her all the time. This man looks emotionally drained and tapped out. You both need to really be there for each other!!!!! Please.
Suggestion: hire a part-time nanny... a nanny who will stay with the kids 9 hours a day 3 days a week and Mommy and daddy can go out away from the kids and do whatever while the nanny is in effect. I'm sorry your going through this stress.
He needs to get tf away from her they do not fit as a couple AT ALL. I'm SORRY. Those kids were to keep the money around 1 million percent and I'm sorry but it's true and no matter how much you try to denie it I keep seeing it and saying nothing but since you wanna make it so public imma tell you my opinion someone being in dysfunctional relationships in the past.... this is NOT IT. He needs to find someone he needs and you trapped his money with those kids.... on purpose you knew it. And now your fkd. She's using it as an excuse like you did her wrong or she can't take it and it's cause you left her with babies. She wanted the dam kids so she doesn't ever have to go back to broke. SORRY BUT ITS TRUE. FAMILY UNIT MY ASS. YOUR JUST USED TO EACH OTHER NOW BUT THIS SHIT AINT HEALTHY AT ALL.
It's not insane. You get your fulfillment and happiness from God not from your spouse. Yes marriage and parenthood is hard. This too shall pass. Please don't give up on your marriage. No we don't get a break as mom's. You will regret separating trust me. How is that going to give you more time for yourself? We all make our choices. We need to live with them. They are not bad decisions. This is just life. Please don't give up!!!
Rose please seek help, with 30 approaching I think you are entering a crisis. I've seen it plenty of times. I don't like the way you are treating Brett. This all seems very self centered and narcissistic. Those boys need stability not chaos, they don't deserve this level of constant ridiculousness. I loved watching your family but you seem to be turning evil. You literally are so blessed and have the whole world in your hands and you're about to lose it. I pray that you get the help you need♥️
Honestly Roes you do need some type of psychological help. This will help you with your marriage and your kids.From what I can see from the outside of marriage Brett's trying to help. I PRAY that the LORD will help you Both the Kids🙏💞🙏.
You say youre trying to wean the baby off the boob yet in your last video you say you're still breastfeeding the 3yr old. You change your stories constantly.
Children mirror behavior. If you're chaotic, erratic, argumentative and combative thats the energy your children give back. If you want peaceful obedient children, then you need to be peaceful and obedient to the rules of civilized lifestyles. I didn't learn this until my kids were about 6. You cant manage your kids until you can manage yourself. Its not the kids fault, they are still learning how to be humans and you're shaping the kind of adults they will be with your behavior, actions and most of all reactions.
Black men are the problem. Her black ex husband destroyed a beautiful you black girl and now she cant even properly function in a healthy relationship with a better male demographic due to the trauma. If she met Brett before she entertained black men we wouldnt be in this situation💔
People she is experiencing a quiet nervous breakdown. Stay positive on the feed. She is too focused on the comments. Rose we hear you. Please Join a support group.
Putting your relationship on social media is a curse! Stop doing this people ! 🤦🏽♀️
A dabble between blessing and a curse, some people make millions🤷
@@delete9090but at the cost of exploiting their family. Soulless. No thanks!!!
Agreed.
@@jbb8261 eh, idk about "exploited" they just share to fans their updates and how they feel. I wouldn't call it "exploit". Mom and dads do it Facebook and insta all the time. Them making a video ver of it isn't really different
Ruined my last relationship. Never again!
This is an easy fix. If you are overwhelmed turn off the cameras. Break from this RUclips is a must. A break from the hubby and babies is a NO
And hire some help. Why us that not an option? Are there no nannies in Hawaii?
No he needs to help more and they could get a nanny so Rose doesn't burn out.
Normalize a mother needing a break. We don't see their full life. She could be feeling like she's having a mental break without saying it. Hell who knows. Everyone will make opinions and assumptions but when it's all said and done we only watch... we're not experiencing anything she nor Brett is going through.
Very well said 👏👏👏👏❤
@@shik4488all I wanted him to do is get the baby. He needed to take the time and comfort his son instead of sitting there looking annoyed and useless. Ijs
This is strange. Y’all didn’t owe anyone this explanation. Please turn the cameras off and work on your family. Kids are not props . This is insane.
they are in interracial relationships... don't act like you don't already know
@@honeybee7197 agree!
Girl no it’s content 😂that’s the point of the video, they want their business out there.
She used them kids as props from day one.
Madness honestly
Since she's overwhelmed now, just imagine how it will be, being a single mom of four kids.
Right
I swear I was going to come at the same thing I was scrolling through to see if anybody else did like okay you're saying that this is why you're separating but being a single parent isn't going to fix any of that!!!
Look at how he's sitting. Next to her. Not even helping with the baby.
She’s already a single mom she’ll just have one less big baby to take care of. You don’t get here without asking for help many a time and being ignored.
Idk these people but being a “single mom” with a fully capable husband that just won’t help seems so much more overwhelming than being a single mom period… it’s exhausting relying on someone that doesn’t show up consistently especially when it’s with something you should both share the responsibilities for.
It’s kind of like having a slacker as a project partner at some point you realize it’s better you just do it alone than getting stressed over having to make sure they do their part, confronting them when they don’t, not having peace of mind all while having to do your own part.
Take a break for social media- NOT your marriage!!
May be there outlet. Like journaling.
I agree
I concur with you !
Exactly
That marriage is doomed
What?… you’re moving in and out of homes.. get a nanny.. a few weeks later decide to move to Hawaii and leave everything behind…get dreadlocks.. cut them off a few weeks later.. now you’re separating from your husband that you dragged to Hawaii… what is going on… you need to see a doctor for postpartum depression. That man truly loves you and you’re destroying him Smdh
Forreal , that ppd hitting hard right now
You expecting a person who like you said has ppd to not destroy ppl when she is feeling destroyed herself!
Yall in these comments gotta think logical verse emotional. Yall need help too!
Rose is hurting and she can't be good to anyone right now. You really think she wants this!
Hurt people hurt ppl!
@@aneshiadarlingYESSS, it’s heartbreaking to watch this family crumble before our very eyes 😢.
@@aneshiadarling She needs to get help and not post videos on the internet cause that’s not helping her either. I don’t like seeing self destructive videos on my timeline. Get yourself together then come back.
I came straight to the comments because I wanted to see who was laughing about their funny joke. There weren't any laughing emojis. I hate that I saw this coming. Too much feeling out loud! I'm sorry for all this and the haters who added to the anxiety. I feel like y'all need to connect with some honest open couples in their later years of marriage. Life as a married person is like this, but it passes as long as you keep going through it. My opininon since it's on my timeline is wait six months before you seperate.
As soon as she said "shoot your shot" I'm like girl get a divorce cause neither of you are mature enough for marriage or kids. cause even airing this out on the internet is CRAZY!!
Well, you can also look it from another perspective. Airing this out, can hopefully help another young lady not making the same decisions, and making them see the reality of marriage and having kids. It’s very vital to see it first hand.
Right shoot your shot 😂😂 she was ready to dip .
Too busy putting on a show, airs, being disgraceful occasionally at times, unnecessarily in public (otherwise, do your thing)...idk cuz after catching a couple of glimpses, I stopped following... but this stood out. Hope they get help, chill out, etc.
Right this is insane to put all of this out on social media. Like, they are their own "TMZ" I sometimes don't even think its real smh.
I get your point but I disagree. These people give me a lot of insight as to how relationships work, what to do, and what not to do in a relationship.
I do appreciate their contribution to the community. I would have never known certain narratives because I am single and do not socialize that much with others if not for RUclips
Try being a single mom. You NEVER get a "break".
Then the wrong dad was picked. Try being a married parent. They never leave the house 😂
@@Champ-tt5id Majority of men today can't handle the responsibility of family. There are no 'right men' to pick. Most women have no choice but to go with the best of the worst.
Exactly
Tell her!!!!
That’s actually not true. People don’t understand that single mothers only struggle when they don’t have an involved father. But if you’re co-parenting, it will be easier. Like for instance, my son stays at his dad house every other week. That means I get an entire week to myself. When we were together, I got no time to myself because I was the default partner.
Rose is sabotaging her own marriage. I get she’s probably overwhelmed but when you want to take a break from your marriage just remember your giving your husband time to think too and he might not want you after you had your time to “think”.
So true, I hope they just doing this for views. I wouldn't be pushing a good loving man away. I pray I find a man that loves me the way he loves her.
Yes she is honestly
Very true!
@@kimmylou3230 yall it's DEFINITELY ONLY FOR THE VIEWS.... EVERYTIME their views go down good golly they're divorcing and seperating.... SMH it's sad, but literally look the views go down to 12k or 16k and then here we go (she is starting to remind me of that "Peach Patch" mom of 30 lol bc everytime their views go down her & Wood R splitting up, she's filing or divorce) it's crazy.... but they moved away from all their family to a small place away from everyone so it happens.... Brett is a damngood man,dad and she needs to fix herself ASAP....
Absolutely, breaks apart from husband and marriage do not always work in Favor of the marriage especially with answering to social media chimed in. Too much of a huge audience. Social media become the influencer. You need each other as husband, wife (to work it out) and you remain parents. Facts!
So heartbreaking to see this happening. To see Rose sad painful face and Brett sad eyes. You all need alone time together, to get that love going again. NO SOCIAL MEDIA. TRY IT IF ALL POSSIBLE.
There’s no break in a marriage. Start attending church, pray together, and stop the foolishness on RUclips.
Marriage counseling is a better option 😢
Amen to that 🙏🏽❤
@@outofmanyweareone6429counseling and prayer go hand in hand. Don't discount what God can do.
Who better to fix this than the Holy Ghost. Give it to Jesus!
Best advice I've read.
I feel like everything would have been better without being online with the relationship
Exactly! There are plenty of examples, but people never listen!
It’s the whole life social media. She got sugar daddy’s etc she for the streets and bro basically white pookie
@@totallynotthat1360you're 100% correct. When my friends started getting married I was miserable and crying for my turn. Time went on and most of them are divorce, unhappy, bursted and worn out.
I'm 36 and look 10 years younger than my age, I have a great balancing job, nice house, all the travelling and good stuff. Lot of women envy me but, that was their choice 😂😂😂😂. I'm dating though but with no stress at all.
That part 💯
This would have happened anyway! Social media is just added stress
Do these people ever get overwhelmed with filming their fake lives.
I think it’s there outlet.
She literally said her marriage was better than others because her man is white. It was doomed then.
So many couples and families pretend they are happy but it is different behind closed doors.
That man has moved and followed this woman everywhere she wanted to go and took care of her children like his own, and she is still unhappy.
BINGO
It isn't her husband and all that he does that she is unhappy with🤦🏻♀️. The woman probably just needs to work on herself.
And NOTHING will ever be good enough. It’s all for show and social media. GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA AND WORK ON YOUR MARRIAGE!
She has healing to do. It isn’t him.
@@merarimartinez612 I agree. I see so much of myself in her, but I have one child and I’m 40. I learned LATE! I’ve always read/heard that when a woman CUTS her HAIR, she is going through some deep pain and transformation. She talks about her EX so much, she probably never healed from that relationship and just carried it over to this one. 👩🦲
Rose! Woman to woman no disrespect.....i'm 42 years of age with 5 kids.. so I understand how you feel....but trust me on this....get on your knees and talk to God, you have a great man at your side, which we all know they are rare....sis, get on some praying grounds....its gonna work out🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Great advice. She need something better than social media. She need Jesus! Cry out to Him...He definitely will bring Peace that Surpasses all understanding.
Work with your husband. Rose don't push him away and tell him to get on his own channel. DO YOU REALLY WANT THAT, ROSE?? BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR! Manifest Goodness!!! Brett has a solid family and good foundation they Love you Rose. Praying parents. That believe in solidarity and true bonds. We need that in more marriages, role models. We know sweetheart it is not easy but Love do conquer all. Try shutting down for a while. Your little face look so bewildered. By the way you had 2 kids meaning your husband not 4 total difference.
Go to God Hebis your Refuge.
Peace and Love
@@tudyfrudydarkchcolate9264 of course your post won’t be highlighted. Only the ones that agree with her crap is highlighted
@@reggiesmith6196 That’s a lie he’s white.
Totally agree
Amen! She’s going to lose a good man being selfish and manipulative.
I’ve been watching for a lil while. I’m a mom. It’s hard but it seems like she’s using this as a manipulation tactic. There are millions of single mothers and stay at home moms. She’s immature she impulsive and very manipulative. You can see it in her face, She knows he’s not leaving and will do anything for her. The man moved and left his life for her “health”. Girl grow up and Brett get a back bone with her or she will drain the heck out of you and your a good man and father!
Exactly, she wants freedom to get with other men
@@queencleo8308😯
I am leaning towards this mind set as well. I am a proud stay at home mom! I successful stayed at home and raised 3 VERY successful (adult) children now. It was the toughest job I’ve ever had! Yes you have to place your family before your desires. Once they are raised is when your hearts desires on steroids! I love being a driven woman in the second half of my life and no responsibilities!!!
She seems like a narcissist
AMEN💯💯💯
Why is this on RUclips? This should be private. I feel violated, and it’s not even my family or my private business. Please take this down and focus on your family.
RUclips money is a serious addiction..
There are a lot of divorces on RUclips.
Prime example: P M. She loves mulah!!
Especially❤ when you let money change you. "It is said. "Set not your heart on Riches. Be Humble, Greatful And Thankful. In these Evil And Wicked times. We live in. "Now. "Let 🙏 Pray. Y'all for the family. Amen.
That’s it…they can’t replace YT money with a ‘regular’ job. It’s awful. I feel most for the kids. Schoolmates will be ruthless. Kids are brutal. Kids are not content. These poor kiddos have to suffer because of the horrible choices their parents made.
Any fast or good money is. I’m
Not RUclipsr but I can relate
You know how many women wants a good men like him. She’s gonna regret it!! You supposed to be there in good and bad. She doesn’t deserved you.
💯
Totally agree! I get it it’s hard but how hard can it be with such a supportive compassionate companion? I bet it has everything to do with her wanting darker meat deliveries 🚚 😅 anywho girl grow up! And take care the family you wanted bragged about and created, before you regret loosing that meal ticket to another deserving woman!
Also take into consideration that we dont see everything unfold on the camera, there is no perfect person and never will be. They most definitely have other issues we dont see. Let us encourage them she is doing her best and he is doing his best.
Amen
@@Keshia2KrazyKashtrust me dark meat 🍆 is the last thing anybody should want
She’s prideful, arrogant, disrespectful, and wants to call all the shots. It’s a reason why her family doesn’t deal with her. Keep taking him for granted and you will be by yourself.
I've always said she takes this man for granted rose is full of shit
She’s a witch 🧙
She is my husband in a nutshell
The fact that she went from thinking he was leaving her, to weeks later, now okay with him leaving.... speaks volumes.
He looked like he knew he fkd up. She has been trying to be heard by him for a while. He did what he wanted. She got tired. He's back pedaling. Simple.
Why are women not seeing this when we've all been through it... oh yes, because we are used to blaming the black woman. She must've done it. 😅😅😅😅 never mind. I remember now. ❤
@@SonorousSilenceit has nothing to do with being a black woman. I’m a black woman and I recognize the immaturity, arrogance, and selfishness. She is going to end up alone.
he looks hurt and defeated. She is just grinning and seems happy that its finally ''over''. I don't know those people but she gives off ''i'm too good for him'' but in reality he is too good for her. Let her go! You deserve better!
This was your choice, Rose, and the consequences are yours. Don't leave your man out there too long. You will regret it!!!
Yep
Come on
You know chicks like this , you seen chicks like this .
She aint coming back until some one smack reality in to her and that usually takes a while .
My homie who is a straight up out and proud womanizer , has a black single mother of 5 mixed kids who got a mid life crisis and wanted to be a City girl at 42 years old .
She left her white husband after several arguments over her antics and finally asked for a divorce because she was not happy ...no real reason just was unhappy with daily life as the man wife .
Now my homie is hitting the bottom of her box on the regular , got her screaming in his apartment , I walked in one day hearing that man break her back out .
This is going to be Rose future ... because that is what is happening to alot of single mothers who up and leave in their late 30s early 40s for the streets and they will meet guys who all they want is their peace and some p-sleeve on the side from time to time nothing more .
Big facts
Y’all do this to bm all the time.
@antwangordon6918 Omg, the nerve!! what does race have to do with anything!!!
Life as a couple is to be lived and not to be exposed.😮😮😮
Words of WISDOM
Thank you
#Facts
That man saying what the hell I mess with this for😅😅
⛳🏌️♀️
That’s why family channels are wrong
Mental Health is REAL. Mom make sure you get some help & continued support ❤️
I had post pardum 3 times but I didn’t rip my husbands balls off and degrade him. Zero excuse. If u need medication the then what u waiting on, the world to change for u
Babies can sense tension too ! That’s why he’s jittery ! If the mother isn’t happy then the baby is irritated
I've been a Single Mother with two Son's and I haven't had any time to myself since 2012! This is 2024. I have was taking care of my Parent's while they we're sick. My Son's we're little, I was diagnosed with Cardiomyopathy and Multiple Sclerosis in 2011. Then in 2012 I had to have my Defibrillator/Pacemaker put in my hearr. So I can stay alive for my Son's. I have almost died twice. The first time I lost my first born Son and my Fiancé at the same time 12/24/2004. I woke up without my family. I have fought my whole life to stay alive. I have never thought for one second to leave my Son's for nothing. That will never happen! My Son's are 19 and 17. I still struggle with shit in my life and I will never give up. 💯
Sorry it’s been so hard for you - Rose chose to have 4 kids and they come first and it’s hard even if you have health. I too have been chronically ill for 3 years - no choice but to carry on!
A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.
It don’t hurt for the baby to cry some these new moms I swear I have six kids and I have postpartum just about all of six and I will never let my husband leave me or I’m leaving him to get a mental break. If anything ask your husband to get the children for a couple of hours a day, just up and leave because you still have a baby that depending on the boob or whatever case maybe
She maybe listening to her single girl friends but she will find out ain’t nothing out there she about to find out with the body counts and mileages about to run up on her.
😂 dude is broke; pookie would have let you pay all the bills too! Jump ship again 😂
Say it!!
Amen 🙌🏿🙏🏿
Enroll your kids in extracurricular activities to get them out and socializing. It has to be hard on them too!
I believe they were in activities before she had the youngest. It simply got harder because they have a new baby right now. That PPD really hitting hard.
Exactly put them in programs
In no way should it be hard on your children there should be challenges but as a parent you should never put your child in a compromising position. Socialization is key true, but thrusting them into socialization is not ok.
@@ljsteam602Do you have kids? Do you have any experience in childcare/youth?
Yes!They need get them out bike riding n it might be time to bring back butt woopins.
The hubby seems to want to work things out!!!! Thats an effort and admirable
This is an example of When you don't realize just how blessed you are.
Omggg....SO well put
This is an example of when you don’t realize that this is a reality tel-lie-vision show.
@@Truthisstrangerthanfiction8 thats so true too. But these ppl actually do ruin themselves behind these shows
@@Curious.JenJen I agree. 👍🏾
She’s too worried about defending herself she doesn’t care about others, it’s all about her.
U were just crying a month ago when u thought he wasn't going to come back to Hawaii, now you're telling him to leave. You're all over the place
You know that was a skit right??
My thoughts exactly!! She's really all over the place..
She messing up a good thing. What is she gonna do? She always speaks on what the comments say or what a blog say ...stay off the internet! If she has time to be on here how are you so exhausted tending to the kids? This is mom life.
I just pray it real and not for the likes that would be horrible . But with Brett with being older he more mature
She’s probably going through postpartum
All jokes aside shout out to all the women in the comments holding another women accountable
Yeah when dealing with a white man
❤❤❤
Lmao that’s easy for them when he’s white… we already know how it goes when it’s a brother.
@@Hiphopmusicprofessor LOL...I was thinking the same thing. If this was a brother they would be blaming him saying , "He dont love his momma" or calling him a Dusty or whatever. The truth is I actually feel sorry for the husband. He really loves her but he is being manipulated. It is easier for black women to see and admit how dysfunctional they are when they see the mess towards a white man vs. a black man.
Nah they giving the YT man a pass it’s sad .
Please DONT put your relationship on the Internet like this is very harmful for your family and for your children they need peace of mind. It’s not fair for them
U messing up lil Sista. Check urself before u wreck urself. Life without Christ ain't spit.
@@brendarobinson76 Please tell me you didn't address grammatical errors. It's clear the person intentionally spelled those words in a short hand form, with the exception of 'spit.' That was probably autocorrect.
I think you meant “And?”
Since we’re being grammatically correct. You forgot the question mark. Stay on topic, Sir!
@@brendarobinson76 Your reply is filled with grammatical errors. I correct ppl online, but only after they've been rude in some capacity.
@@brendarobinson76 Well, it should have been *spells and *used. I won't even address the errors in your second reply. Enjoy your day with your husband. I'll enjoy my day with my husband as well. I don't usually announce that to strangers, but I want to meet you where you're at. 😉
@@brendarobinson76if you're not use to how people express themselves on social media, maybe social media isn't for you.
This guy was trying to be a big knight in shining armour and save Rose from her previous unhappiness. However, he is slowly realizing that no matter what he does, he can't save Rose.
Rose don’t wanna be saved! Don’t save her!
Women like her are completely incapable of happiness.
Rose is the epitome of her own problems. She have a lot of mental madness to get through!
Rose has to save Rose
@@brianreed7145I love this comment
This is called postpartum, lack of sleep, physical exhaustion hormones a mess, you need medical care, and hire some help. Your husband loves you but when you feel like this I’ve been there you can’t think clearly. Praying you get the help you both need.
Stop blaming arrogant behavior on postpartum, Rose needs to get help before she destroys her family. In a marriage it's not one person who has the say, both should agree on whatever it is, and both should be able to air their views without the other crying to control the situation. Bret is a grown man with more maturity than Rose, he should not let a giddy-headed girl disrupt his life, living, and family. It should be, what's best for the family, not what's best for popularity.
@@atcellewe don’t know these people, we only see what we see! And I see a woman who has a young baby, with no family/friend support near by to help, if you’ve never had postpartum you would not understand. It makes you crazy. I’m just trying to give her love so don’t come me online lol.
@atcelle, I'm sure you're only saying that because she's black. But black women get tired too. White women are allowed to have breakdowns and depression and anxiety, and everybody understands. She is very much postpartum and it has her mentally and emotionally all over the place.
@@Monica-hg8rnYou are absolutely right. But people don't show compassion for black people and mental health. When the white girls are depressed and suffering from anxiety and postpartum everybody is so understanding. The main problem is she's a black woman with a white man and they don't like that, so anything she does is scrutinized. No room for error.
@@Monica-hg8rnappreciate your approach here.
Lack of gratitude will land you here
Rose, you chose to have four children. Rose, you chose to be a stay at home mother, and wife, while your husband works outside of the home. Rose you chose to move your family away from extended family, etc. Rose, you chose social media as a platform. I am not blaming you, but holding you accountable for the choses you did play a part in.
Agreed
Are you saying he didn't want four kids? This is my first time watching this show.
Takes two. She didn’t have kids on her own.
PSA - Unless you are her mother, kin, Best friend, coach, or accountability partner - it’s kind of impossible to hold a perfect stranger “accountable” especially when another grown adult never asked you to do that for them.
Adults can only hold one person accountable - themselves.
@@getreal4real169she didn’t prevent those kids either though and do don’t think they were forced. So by omission or commission she participated in them being here.
I’m 36… and I’ll tell you Rose. You’re going to regret this. The grass IS NOT greener. Make it right because since women see that he’s a good man he can replace you faster than you can replace him realistically.
😂😂😂😂
Rose is domineering and until she learns to submit and respects her man she'll just keep trading out husbands. When I see the jokes she make to her husband I would always think she shredding on ice. Because joke or not you never should disrespect your husband.
How do yoi know he's a good man? Lol do you know him personally? These comments are hilarious
I agree 100%. I find that more of the women in their 30s to 40s cheer on separations so I truly appreciate your take. More people should realize what they have before they burn it to the ground.
Ur a pick me go sit down
You can see the hurt in Brett’s eyes… it’s so sad. I loved this family more than most and the fact it’s slowly fading breaks my heart..
@@SENSEISHYPEMAN I kind of feel sorry for only watching the video
Same I just don’t understand. I pray they stay together ❤🙏🏽
@@ShevetteJackson😂
Never take social media couples seriously.
He should’ve gotten a mentally stable woman with no kids. That’s what happens when you set the bar low.
Being a full time stay at home parent is the hardest work in the world. You constantly need to monitor the kids, cooking, cleaning, washing laundry, crying, screaming, running around, getting into everything, no breaks, no space, no change of scenery, no different people to converse with, and you don’t get paid. It’s stressful, and overwhelming. I do hope that you both work things out and come as one with your family
Hardest fr
One who feels this way might be smart to have one or two and see how it goes............. *anyone* is going to have a hard time with FOUR. Especially if they're all under ten.
@@ViragoRiver
…But yet people make the choice to do this. This doesn’t just “happen” to anyone.
@@StrawberryJam806exactly! Birth control for both, vasectomy…other contraceptives 🤷🏽♀️
Making your relationship public will lead to break up. %100 garuntee no bs.
Keep your private stuff private. It’s essential for being sane. Please. You can do this.
Yep the evil eye 🧿 is real
This is not post partum behavior.. she is narcissistic and he is a victim of narcissistic abuse. She removed her mask after they got married and had this baby, then she hit him the okie doke by isolating him from his loving and supportive family in the US. This is typical narc behavior and it’s escalating because the power dynamic has changed between them. He’s finding out what the other baby daddies BEEN found out about her. She has been spiraling way before the baby arrived. She is also displaying manic behaviors that are aligned with bi-polar disorder. Yes, she needs help, but it’s not the help you think she needs. She is possessed by the narcissistic demon that can only be exorcised through deliverance. Anything outside of that, God help them all. I feel more sorry for him and those helpless kids - not her.
No she's not she's tired and you know what he knows that she's not a narcissist she knows that this woman is tired. She looks like she's tired she don't look like her same self
@@lisa196409 Narcs get tired too.. and he’s tired of her narcissistic shenanigans. Both of them are toxic, but she’s more toxic than him, that’s for sure. She antagonized him the entire video, no matter how respectful and peaceful he tried to be towards her. She’s more concerned with views than the welfare and future reputation of her children. She’s unhinged.
Totally agree with you.
Lol Hawaii is in the US😂
It may be Unhealthy Attachment Style too. They present the same. but at least style is fixable. She seems Disorganized which the push-pull dynamic is playing out. iMHO. It’s like an intimacy pendulum…Get close/get away. She has swung to the Avoidant side… hyper independent… testing his love because she doesn’t trust love, usually from childhood or previous bad relationship trauma.
This is exactly what happens when you make your life a spectacle.
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No that's what happens when you don't get the mental help you need and blame things on the past men in your life. Her making a video talking about the money for the house, him being a deadbeat and all this other nonsense is ghetto behavior. No self respecting person wants to deal with a woman who has the mental capacity of an emotionally unstable child who can't control their emotions. In their big ole age.
I was a stay at home mom and a daycare in my own home. 5:30 to 5:30 when you decide to have kids you give give your life till they grow and get older. Put the baby down. get him some toys. She probably get a sugar daddy. She wants materialistic things. Not get what you can afford. That is very sad that she can't see what a goof man she has.
You comment doesn’t make any sense nor has any relevance to anything they said. Just keep your nasty mouth shut
I think this man desrves better than her as a wife she pudhrd a good man away.
Watch out for signs of postpartum, it's range can last up to 5 years.
Wow really
Rose made the decision to move. Impulsive behavior lead to this. Mental health is the issue.
How did she make the decision when she has a husband YALL want to blame her so bad
@@IcantwithYoupeople In her own words she decided she wanted to stay. Brett did eventually agree to it. Watch the previous videos. They were only going to Hawaii for vacation initially. Not to live.
@IcantwithYoupeople She literally said she made the decision after going there on holiday and decided she didn’t want to go back. Anything to avoid accountability.
I said this same thing
1. We meet you guys in apartment
2. Vacation w/ex inlaws & new hubby.
3. You guys buy beautiful home.
4. You make home Air BNB - wise move to make money.
5. Move in another apartment.
6. She falls out with ex inlaws
7. Vacay in Hawaii
8. $2000 on locs
9. Rose shaves her head bald, knowing Brett likes hair.
10. Prank fans with breakup rumor.
11. Decides not to go back home moves to Hawaii
12. Brett goes home, cleans up lose ends and gave up his job.
13. Brett comes to Hawaii
14. Rose says she needs a break & they separate.
I'm sorry she manipulate him cause she kno he will do whatever she wants when she loose him she be looking dumb
She full of shit she won't last a week like he said we saw video when he was home tying up lose ends she claim he wasn't coming back bih don't look dumb when she send u packin
SMH just sad 🤦🏾♀️
@@BelovedFlower1 thet about says it all she is unstable if she doesn’t get help it’s divorce
@@chocolitbar for now
Brett has helped you with kids that ARENT his. Cmon rose
She gonna learn; hopefully, it's not too late😮I watched a friend leave her husband and then call me every day crying because he moved on. 11 years later, she is still crying about her ex-husband. 😢
How you gonna emphasize KIDS ARENT HIS… if he say they are your thoughts and opinions don’t matter
They became his when she married him... Y'all have low standards
@@chanelcampbell3032Honey, most men aren't going to take care of another man like they are his. When you got something good hold on to it
@@chanelcampbell3032 Oh stop the cap😒. Those older boys aint his blood and he didn't adopt them either.
Someone out there waiting patiently to get that man an gonna be the best Stepmom Ever. Keep playing sis
❤❤❤❤ yessir I have a couple good strong caring black women for you Brett 🍯
Why are you taking the blame Brett???
@@nanilani28oh please that big ass man can never be a victim unless a weapon is involved😂
Cause he doesn’t have a backbone
So all I hear is you are having a hard time because you are stuck in a tiny apartment with 4 children because YOU decided to uproot your family and move to Hawaii. You left your home and stuck your active children in tiny apartments when you have enough income to provide them with a nice home. Anybody will be frustrated and tired in this situation. Kids should be in summer activities if they are too much for you. Children need routines and schedules…not randomly moving to Hawaii. Edit: I feel like I’m being too harsh but please do not ruin your marriage girl. I hope you can recover I’m not an actual subscriber but I always get your shorts on my feed. Wishing you the best.
@@jae2780 🎯💯🤌SHE chose this lifestyle!
Facts. Not harsh. They need to hear the honest truth re. the situation.
Don’t worry. They are playing y’all for views as usual.
I think so to@@SunnnySkies
I agree 💯💯💯then she gets upset with the comments, like you put ur life on there.
No offense, but i think Brett is looking forward to the break as well
Lol 😮
If not, he should 😮
😅😂🤣🥲
As he should
Ladies, time to slide in his dms
Yeah I think it’s time to put the cameras down and go within guys ! I hope you guys understand this message, I really love you guys and I hope you guys come from this
Unsubscribing, I feel like this is all for likes and views and for Gods sake if it’s not take it off the internet!!
Bye
I thought so too..
I agree
I unsubscribed from her last year. I saw beyond the smoke screens.
@@taliagoodwomanmannYet here you are again commenting. I’m not defending her I feel bad for Brett at the same time I’ve felt like a lot she does is for Likes and/or subscribers. She has lost several supporters show her she’s not winning and stay away.🙄🤔😏 *No offense to you* 🌹
Brett my brother SAVE YOURSELF! You been too good to this girl to deserve this kind of treatment my guy. You’re being unappreciated!
Unappreciated, disrespected and taken for granted. BOUNCE
1. Rose is a woman not a girl.
2. There are “men and women“ who are willing to do the hard work to keep their families together. If you can’t love someone through the hard times then you will never experience the fullness of love.
Facts!!! Run!
@@truphat2daylook up definition of woman and girl.. she isn't a woman
Absolutely! This is the highest level of disrespect I’ve seen from a woman to a man in a long time. Just wow
The children do not listen, especially Rayce. They also don't have a schedule and have moved around alot. It's more than just "children have a lot of energy."
They need structure, goals, hobbies and outlets. Get them in a sport, get them and instrument or something and give them a place to put passion. They need a schedule where they know what is happening everyday. They know when the meals are coming, when dad's coming home, when school is, when they are coming and going. She seems to like chaos under the guise of spontaneity. That's terrible for children.
She also seems highly combative. She puts out that argumentive energy. She can't let anything lie, she can't be at peace, everything is personal to her. She's chaotic, erratic, spiteful, moody and combative. No wonder the children don't know how to act. They only know what they see and they are giving that energy back.
They need a schedule and structure
@@sharonp9462I definitely agree! I love this family and want to see them prosper, but Rose seems to be a little scattered, there needs to be some type of structure! She’s all over the place atp. They’re all feeding from her energy.
Why do you watch this family? Just to criticize? Bye
@@earthstar7534 Yes! Those boys need to be enrolled in activities, camps, sports, etc not just lounging around the house bored and clueless. Like does Rose and Brett not know this stuff? Rose needs to step up her game cuz she is slacking big time.
Watching a sister destroying her relationship. Someone said she is giving him “Im too good for him vibe” you can tell she is ready to use the baby as a weapon to destroy that man. sister you will regret this sooner than rather. Stand up for your child and man. Yes you can
Stop sharing everything with the world! Something’s keep it between you and your partner. It’s not good to announce everything!
You have a great man, girl! You better work it out. Stop the BS! A man investing in you with all his efforts, loves you, accepted you as you were and made you better today…Come on?! You have a gem of a man! These are the types of men woman are looking for! You have him right next to you.
Stay with your man! Just change things around and stop allowing funny ideas to enter your mind.
You should of stayed where you were!!!
I agree. I fully understand being on social media to make money but I personally feel that your personal life should not be on social media especially if you cannot handle the criticism from others. If it were me I would take a break from social media and get into counseling. Society loves seeing people fail so this should have been kept private.
That is definitely the problem and then her own personal problem.. I pray that she considers help.
Amen
She would have no money if she stops. This is her job
Telling women to shoot their shot at her husband, singing “don’t save her, she don’t want to be saved”, even when he attempts to defend her and accept accountability, her energy and body language is off.
She has checked out. Rose wants to be outside but my goodness, there is nothing out there. She will regret this years later.
Brett, listen to her.. she dont wanna be saved. Her words😢
@@JTaylor88IKR!!🔫🔫😂
Right I was like what in the world 🤦🏾♀️
Insecure.
Brett is the most patient man, Rose is spoiled and taking advantage of your kindness
How. Everyone needs a break . She just needs a break
She absolutely is.
I have been here with my husband. We had a special needs child and I had postpartum bad. He didn't and still doesn't understand sometimes that I need a life of my own. Please try couples therapy. It saved my marriage. Go on dates, be forced to learn how to listen to one another. She is crying for help and I don't think he knows what she is going through
She is not right…… messy and full of issues for any man ….. run!
Baby so cite 😊
Its called being a Mom. Put your kids in activities, get on a schedule. Sitting all day will cause you to be depressed. Rose, you're very entitled and need to grow up. The moves you make to benefit you, and only you.
Yea she need a schedule and organization
Rose have ruined this man's life
I agree
@@doraluciaobandoramirez5337Calm down jezebel.
Bret looks beat down
Being around her is draining and exhausting for anyone
@@user-mp4pn3rl4mthen leave 🤷🏻♀️
Basically he got the same blaq woman that blaq men get 😂😂
@@pinkskincanthandlethesunlight 😂
THE BOTH LOOK " BEAT DOWN"
YOU TWO ARE IN IT TO WIN IT!!!! DON’T GIVE UP ON LOVE!!! Love, TRUE Love doesn’t EVER end. It’s an infinite measure of the heart. Petty nonsense and pride with a sprinkle of stubbornness is the life long contract for giving up. Write out ALL of your own cons that you see in yourself. Then write out all of the pros you see in yourself. NOW write out your positive heart feelings about your spouse then write out your negative feelings about your spouse. What stands out? In comparison, does theirs seem petty or outweigh your worst? Can you forgive and accept it? Discuss it with reasoning and see if it’s something that can be changed together. Then work it out! Accept the unchangeable! Embrace the positives and mount them everywhere. Now forgive and let’s get back to those fun loving times that we’re making memories with 🥰🥰🥰
So instead of working things out as a family and husband and wife… you really screw yourself doing it all alone. Which is your main complaint? Make that make sense. Good luck.
@@lolafairchild88 there was no hate or "Karen" behavior in her comment, just confusion.... I see why you and your husband have to live separately to make it work lol...
@@shanajoelle facts.
@@lolafairchild88 it's people like you that encourage Rose's foolishness. Nothing was wrong with her comment
She better hope he doesn't enjoy his weeks of peace and quiet and decide not to come back.
This wasn’t a Karen comment. It actually makes sense. If your overwhelmed how does taking it all on by yourself help? Something else has to be the problem here.
Postpartum depression is something you should look into because that’s what it’s giving ..❤
I really think so too. I pray she gets the help she needs. She is a lovely funny young lady and deserves to be happy.
@@tanishanightingalenah she chooses everything she built a story about herself being left with no help and then get with a man and brags because he’s white obviously and it backfired. This was best for him he needed to see the truth and she did also
That woman just wants to be free and party
No! Bipolar mania, stop blaming it on ppd.
I totally agree
The answer is NO to a separation. It’s a hurdle that you will look back at and be glad you got over it… it’s life. It’s being parents. It’s being married through thick & thin. This is what you call a partnership. I’m with the person that said turn off the camera at this point. I love y’all… y’all are a beautiful couple. Dance together when the babies are asleep, and if they don’t go to sleep… dance with them too. YOU CAN DO THIS!!!! ♥️ everybody quits. Hang in there. And COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS. instead of complaining or finding fault. Trust me… counting your blessings really does work.
💯. I hope they take this to heart
Yes your blessings you have a lot on the way❤
She is selfish.. You can't "have a life"- party, go out, have privacy, etc. When you have kids. You made your bed, lady!! Lay in it... Stop complaining 😒 and mature.
This was weird. AF
The whole mixed relationship was
@stinkreezy2791 That doesn't matter and the fact that you're focused on that part is, weird AF! Go be better.
Do you think this is just for youtube views?
@@stinkreezy2791 Nah you are
@@NIKnakNIKKI she sold out not me thought things would be better on that side come to find out she the problem and his big goofy dumb ass can’t even run his household
Singing “don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved” is crazy. And is a clear message I hope he picked up.
He didn’t 💔
One thing I will say for white men that date black women, they aren’t usually hip to how black women manipulate and disrespect in relationships
Girl that made me sick to my stomach hearing her sing that‼️🤯
@@shuquanwalters8551Why? That’s their life.
A calm and peaceful mother gives calm and peaceful babies
He seems like a serious sincere man. She is a fool. He seems like a respectable man
She needs help badly, I don’t even think she realizes how unhinged she’s become :/ she needs to see a doctor
💯 but also she’s young shes only 29 with a lot of responsibility. She need her mom helping her or something
@@Ma.atMelanin absolutely no excuse. That’s merely an explanation. There’s people who been thru the same trauma as her and do not conduct themselves in such a way. My point exactly, she needs to be evaluated by a doctor. The human brain finishes development at age 25!!
So any time after that , your prefrontal cortex is done developing and you’re still acting CHAOTIC . Somethings wrong fam
@@luckyygrasshopper9508 You white girls suffer from depression and anxiety all the time, and everybody is so understanding. Some of the biggest pill poopers known to man. But when you see a black woman in that state, there's "no excuse." She is definitely postpartum and she needs some support. She needs family. Her family. She is isolated with four kids. Two of which she's not allowed to discipline the way she needs too so now she is being disrespected. On top of a newborn that needs all of her attention and time. Its a difficult time for her.
Unhibged is a strong strong word.. like serial killer.. werid choice of words for a blk women. When white women go through it's they are over whelmed.
Having kids is a lot.
They need a community.
My haitian culture we live aroubd cousibs aunties lother sister in law.
We go and babysit fora week for one another.
Why idns everything in the us a do it all alone mindset?
Rose, calm down. This man loves you. He wants to be with you. Stop pushing him away. He is trying everything to accommodate and help you.
She can't see it
If she doesn’t want it then is she supposed to suck it up? Idk these ppl just heard they’re finally doing something about family RUclips channels and I got excited they are super weird. But not knowing anything about someone’s relationship is how it should be imo call me crazy but their business
You guys likely are better without the cameras rolling, find a way to reconcile privately, don't allow comments of total strangers whom might not fully understand the dynamics of your relationship vector / influence your final choices.
Rooting for you both to reconcile, privately then if you choose return to share the end result.
Perhaps take some time to recharge your family, evaluate what works and a arrive at an amicable solution for the unit.
There is clearly a deep concern for one another, use this care as an anchor and chart a different course in the near term that involves you both rebuilding , recharging privately.
If you must ornmiss sharing your private family matters, perhaps consider sharing less details - not as often, with updates after major milestones
I agree❤❤❤
I totally agree!!!! You should not be putting your personal business out like that.
Work on the issues in private not for the whole world see at all!!!!! Big mistake!!!!! Why would you want to bring total strangers into your lives and you don't even know these people at all???? And they are giving you advice??? Really that makes no sense at all!!!!! Deal with what is going between you to, in your marriage and talk to each other, support one another and be understanding towards one another in this difficult time and also think about how this is going to affect the children when their mom leaves the home
Wise advice
Now, he can see why she alone with 2 kids when he met her!!
Rose is the only problem in her life right now 🎬
She is THE problem
@bebitalindaa naw this is most of bw mentality she really want a pookie lol
Don't EVER give a man time to get used to you not being around. He will have PEACE that he hasn't had in a while, and he will have time to think about things as well. Be VERY, VERY careful about separating from your man.
Whew, this comment is full of wisdom. And something a lot of women need to hear…
I agree but it’s also the other way around.
@chrisc1896 You're right it does go both ways. 😉
@@CherelleJaCole94Thank you! ❤
@@chrisc1896 she got all dem kids....where she going!
This was so uncomfortable to watch smh
Because it's none of our business. Get off camera!
Fr. This should've been a private session with a couples therapist instead of a RUclips video.
I agree
Not everything needs to be on social media I didn’t even watch all of it, I was like I don’t need to be the 3rd wheel in this, none of us do. They need to handle this away from the cameras.
Sooooooo mf uncomfortable!!! I know they are real people but it’s like watching someone take a shit!😞I love them both and I just hate to see this! I have 7 kids postpartum manifests itself in so many ways
This great man is so about you! You don't realize how lucky you are. He is dedicated to you.
She doesn’t have enough of a community of other married women. It’s better for everyone’s sanity to have a supportive community more than just you and husband.
These two do not need to be separating, especially as Rose has clearly been struggling to manage for months now. Brett is right, she’s going to struggle without him. Brett leaving is not fair on the kids. I said the following on a previous video after Rose shaved her hair off - Rose appears to be suffering from Post Natal Depression/Post Partum Disorder.
Brett - stay with her and those kids, take a break from posting content and get Rose some professional help ASAP!
This was so disappointing to watch. I really thought that things were going to improve once Brett returned to Hawaii and the moderators joined the team to manage the trolls in the comments.
Rose needs help, she does not need to be left alone to struggle with four kids! How is that going to help? Those poor kids.
He needs to take full custody of his kids and let her take care of her own kids from her baby daddies. She could get visitation rights but that’s it. She seems mentally unstable
@@doninewallace1488 They both seem unstable.
Agree .
I agree
Brett rejection is God protection if it’s meant it will be heal brother
It is sad to hear that you guys separated. I just want you to know you all are loved and you will probably work things out to stay together forever & day till death do you part. I wish all of you comfort and peace with love! ❤❤❤❤☮️☮️☮️☮️
Remember cases like Andrea Yates where the mom unalived the children? The father didn't want to upset the mom by admitting her to a psychiatric hospital and then he comes home to all his children dead. Happens too many times unfortunately. Postpartum psychosis and depression is common and she cant see the severity because of her mental state. Someone needs to step in now.
I think social media is actually destroying their relationship … this always happens! They get so big on social Media then spilt 😓 hope they work out
It’s her fault she seems to enjoy the attention and the camera a lot
I said this, adding people into your marriage does that. Not only that social media gets into people's head how it should be, vs what they think it should be...
fr bc the love was apparent i. the way they looked at each other; I think postpartum doing a number
He’s really trying to communicate with her and relate to her and it’s all about her!
She’s not trying to relate with him at all! It goes back to her all the time. This man looks emotionally drained and tapped out. You both need to really be there for each other!!!!! Please.
Suggestion: hire a part-time nanny... a nanny who will stay with the kids 9 hours a day 3 days a week and Mommy and daddy can go out away from the kids and do whatever while the nanny is in effect. I'm sorry your going through this stress.
This man is very mature! God protect him. I’m praying for y’all’s marriage
No he s not if I were married and my wife said she needed to leave as a. break. I would make sure the break was permanent.
@@user-cv7no8bj9v that’s your opinion
He mature but she's not
He's a mature simp 😂😂
He needs to get tf away from her they do not fit as a couple AT ALL. I'm SORRY. Those kids were to keep the money around 1 million percent and I'm sorry but it's true and no matter how much you try to denie it I keep seeing it and saying nothing but since you wanna make it so public imma tell you my opinion someone being in dysfunctional relationships in the past.... this is NOT IT. He needs to find someone he needs and you trapped his money with those kids.... on purpose you knew it. And now your fkd. She's using it as an excuse like you did her wrong or she can't take it and it's cause you left her with babies. She wanted the dam kids so she doesn't ever have to go back to broke. SORRY BUT ITS TRUE. FAMILY UNIT MY ASS. YOUR JUST USED TO EACH OTHER NOW BUT THIS SHIT AINT HEALTHY AT ALL.
She is manipulating this man. Its sad.
@@DannieAtTheParknope definitely not all
How she is manipulating him with four children cleaning, YouTubing etc. maybe if you were on her shoes you would probably use that.
This is terrible.
Rose I hope you don’t regret your decision.
Brett I feel for you
It's not insane. You get your fulfillment and happiness from God not from your spouse. Yes marriage and parenthood is hard. This too shall pass. Please don't give up on your marriage. No we don't get a break as mom's. You will regret separating trust me. How is that going to give you more time for yourself? We all make our choices. We need to live with them. They are not bad decisions. This is just life. Please don't give up!!!
Rose please seek help, with 30 approaching I think you are entering a crisis. I've seen it plenty of times. I don't like the way you are treating Brett. This all seems very self centered and narcissistic. Those boys need stability not chaos, they don't deserve this level of constant ridiculousness. I loved watching your family but you seem to be turning evil. You literally are so blessed and have the whole world in your hands and you're about to lose it. I pray that you get the help you need♥️
Honestly Roes you do need some type of psychological help. This will help you with your marriage and your kids.From what I can see from the outside of marriage Brett's trying to help. I PRAY that the LORD will help you Both the Kids🙏💞🙏.
I don't like the way she is treating herself. It starts with herself
After their channel blew up and they became famous she changed. She became ratchet
This! 💯
Postpartum
He's in love with her smh his heart is breaking in this video😢he's trying to hold it together.
Who asked for 4 children? It’s a time and season. Did you expect them to be toys. Grow up !
Rambunctious boys too!
@@sharonhale3385So true!!!
@user-of2co3ke5p right! They don't listen and take her for a joke
❤😊 stop complaining and be grateful you asked for that marriage and them kids.
You say youre trying to wean the baby off the boob yet in your last video you say you're still breastfeeding the 3yr old. You change your stories constantly.
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Maybe breastfeed them only a night time.. Dont call people liars when you haven't asked direct questions
😂
That’s what these creatures do 😂
@@jamescollier7360what creatures ?
Children mirror behavior. If you're chaotic, erratic, argumentative and combative thats the energy your children give back. If you want peaceful obedient children, then you need to be peaceful and obedient to the rules of civilized lifestyles.
I didn't learn this until my kids were about 6. You cant manage your kids until you can manage yourself.
Its not the kids fault, they are still learning how to be humans and you're shaping the kind of adults they will be with your behavior, actions and most of all reactions.
Pearls of Wisdom to ponder and utilize going forward 💥💥💥
It’s very clear who is the problem here.
Dont say it brotha .
We both know who the problem was from the jump .
Yep. Friends and family tried to warn him…
@@RighteousReg718 I guess swirling isn't working
He got the same blaq woman that blaq men get 😂😂
Black men are the problem. Her black ex husband destroyed a beautiful you black girl and now she cant even properly function in a healthy relationship with a better male demographic due to the trauma.
If she met Brett before she entertained black men we wouldnt be in this situation💔
People she is experiencing a quiet nervous breakdown. Stay positive on the feed. She is too focused on the comments. Rose we hear you. Please Join a support group.