Amen. You need to ugly cry, scream and punch a pillow, it’s all apart of healing. Pushing it down and acting like you’re fine is the worst thing you can do
I don't really know how to thank you Dr Oluwaseun for your great spell you're great at your work I thank you for bringing my lover back with your love spell Dr Oluwaseun….😇
Everything feels so different without her in my life now, she made me feel happy..until she wouldn't answer my texts or calls and didnt really talk to me much and even through that..she was using me for my body and would gaslight me ..i don't understand why i didnt leave at least 6 months ago. She took my heart and stomped on it and handed it back to me.
Stop falling in love with the potential and not the reality. You cannot force change, and you shouldn't try to manipulate someone into changing. Sure you see how great things could be but it may not be that yet. Sometimes holding on is worse than letting go. Hope keeps you staying. Your heart wars with your mind. But you have to learn to let go. You're only hurting yourself. Acknowledge that you love them and that you care, and wish them well, pray they eat just now at a different table. Move forward and heal.
Thank you I have been fighting my feelings. It's been a year since my divorce after 21yrs married. I wish I could forget him and move on. He's cheated and moved on so fast. I'm tired of being sad.
Leaving is never an easy decision, been there! Be true to who you are for your own Self Love & Self preservation! Question to ask yourself....can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person with the way things are? If you cannot, there is the answer! Tough but true!🙏🙏🙏
Just recently got out of a 7 year relationship d this really helps a lot man , fighting the urge to call her and speak to her .. feeling like she still wants this and wants me .. its a battle
Current update , we’ve been dealing with each other and she’s been trying to string me along , she hung up on and and I decided to not call back .. I’m currently feeling free and al most better than ever .. I’ll never let her get close to me again no matter how hard she tries or “claims” she’ll work on something .. actions speak louder than words people !! Release that old energy so that you can accept in the new !
Current update , we’ve been back together since march and we’ve found ways to make everything better now she’s moving like the love of my life and I love it
Accept how you feel, where you are at the moment (which is not the best place but it is the fact), allow emotions circulate but don't let them take you too far. It comes a point where sadness, loss or disappointment can quickly turn into self blaming, resentment or even desire for revenge. And that's very slippy road to go. I've been there and there's no fun. Suddenly bad thinking becomes a habit, that baggage feel so heavy that you can barely live day after day, these thought cycles takes away all the joy and gratefulness for what we have right now. Unfortunately, or actually, fortunately, only option is to process and forgive. Yourself at first, then other person. We thrive. We then open and create space for new. Even for ex. It's a mature approach and we feel more power and control within. This is very encouraging and other people can feel it.
💔💔 I'm so sad. Day 2. I did contact him and he's no longer responding. I feel like a piece of trash he just easily discarded. Building up to the break up he was gaslighting me. What a cowardly way to end things.
I hope you can find peace in all of this. I'm not asking you to be understanding of them. Just want to say that it's a strong possibility that they just DON'T KNOW HOW TO end a relationship. I pray that you can find a way to eventually be gracious towards them. They just might learn a thing or two from you on how to end things with respect. 😔
Going thru this now, barely could work yesterday I was crying. Today I couldn't barely eat, had 2 cups of coffee, water, and almost a half a crumbl cookie. I just wanted to keep pacing and stay distracted. I went outside and walked and talked to my friend, it made me feel better. I needed to focus on the stuff that made us not work.
@stevie-lynnhearl5168 it gets better. A month after we ended he started liking my post, this month which makes 2 months he followed me on instagram and inbox me. I went into no contact after we ended. It was hard but I'm a different woman. I've learned my lesson and finally understand that I just have to leave a man alone if he can't treat me how I deserve to be treated. He wasn't a bad guy just other things that pulled us a part. I hope you feel better soon.
Just last night my gf (the one in my profile pic) decided it was best if we weren’t together, I don’t know if she’s telling the truth or not but she says she believes it will better me if I’m with someone who isn’t as busy as her. We’ve been dating for a year and a half and I thought she was my soulmate. This video helps me a lot but I still miss her so much.
Try ten years and engaged. I thought she was my soul mate too. But the way she ended things is kinda hard for me to forgive at the moment. And my breakup was around the same time as yours. So I feel you man. 💩 hurts badly. And knowing we could have made it work is one of the hardest parts to deal with. I’m in so much pain. Ten years……..Gone. Just like that! 😢
@@threepiecewithasidebiscuit3527you shouldn’t compare your time to someone else’s. It doesn’t matter if it was just a year it still hurt them. 1 year or 10 years the pain is still there. Smh
I've been fighting in isolation since the summer of 2022. I have acted liked I moved on. I have ignored it. I have even prayed to God to help me forget about them. I have cried and went through so many emotions because I was fighting how I really felt and not understanding. I was angry with myself because I couldn't stop caring or loving someone that I don't have communication with. I felt so low, because I felt like that to someone that didn't want to be with me. What sane person would still have feelings for someone like that? But when I started focusing on God, reading my Bible, and praying more I've learned to not fight it and let it be, but allow time to heal. Letting my feelings be is apart of the healing process. God wants us to forgive, yet love others regardless of who they are. Doesn't always mean you have to be with them, but love them. I noticed that the more I Iet my feelings be, the less emotions I go through. I am happier and the feelings are slowly going away.❤
Yes, I took this advice and started to, speak the reasons and true desires for that person. Then declared gratitude for the opportunity while it lasted! I begin to feel better & heal. Thank You Steven for the advice!
We know that we have broken up with the person, but yet we are still hoping deep down that it’s gonna get sorted and be okay one day… and that, in turn, leaves you stuck into the emotions and leaves you locked in the heartbreak for longer ❤❤
Thankfully, I am already more than aware that I haven't been in love with my soon to be exhusband. I'm nothing more than a convenience for him. My intuition allows me to see through his honeywords.
That's absolutely true Steph. This is what I am coming from. U know when in read ur book love after heartbreak I could go thru the feeling. It wasn't easy but am gradually getting better. After accepting those feelings n letting it weights out while praying to be free from it as well.
Feel the Emotions Self Reflection Is Key and evaluate the relationship was it more harmful then it was healthy and if it was more harmful that was something that you needed to move out the way so God can do better things in your life and send you a better person and put you in your purpose.
Thank you … we just broke up today on mutual agreement we both need our own time to focus on ourselves for improvement while there’s the distance between us , so not easy for us to see each other as much as we use to . We both decided to improve a ourselves through work & finance . If future brings us together again then great. we decided to be friends to support each other during this tough time
Watching your videos for several months and at that time I was in a mess but listening and learning and putting in to practice with your life lessons ive started to let go.....i started looking after me doing stuff i gave up on things i loved to do before marriage and i realise i was just doing what he wanted.....and i went to myself and just woke up to my reality now its easier for letting go..... I only remember him when someone asks for him or see me alone....but i am in a better place than i was .....and i realise i am a strong woman and he was the weak one...... Yes i will always care about him but he has to do him and grow in his way..... Just as ive grown in my way....life lesson
My mind is racing. I feel like a fool, again. It took me 6yrs to try to date again. I’m a single mom. Thank the Lord my kids are at their dads tonight! And yes, my sons have 2 different dads. Maybe I’m the problem. I give up. No use to keep trying and keep on being a dumbass through life.
It is not your fault. There's nothing wrong with you. Relationships are hard. There's no easy way. Otherwise there wouldn't be so much expert advice . I wish you the best going forward. Put your trust in God not man and realize you're a good human being, good mother.❤❤❤
I find myself crying a lot because I told myself it was okay to cry!! So I allow myself to feel the emotions and cry because it’s apart of my healing. I am beautiful but forgot what it’s like to be a feminine woman, and I just want to feel that again and be that. My relationship angered me smh 😢
"I could never just watch you walk by maybe because your eyes remind me of the nights we spent together i cant look in the eyes i once saw a future together in and pretend to see nothing."
Just ended a 12yr relationship with a girl. We first started dating at age 12. Shes been around for nearly almost half my life 😴 kinda sad thinking the way things ended. I pray we may cross paths later down the line. I miss n love her so much 💔
Yep agree I didn’t fight it but it’s hard as I don’t want to vulnerable with him and make him see as if I want us to get back together time heals he does still care for me and misses me he is affectionate and is a caring person but when I let my emotions flow it’s brought him back into my life but I’m doing so much better healed and done things for me that I can’t deal with his mixed signals and Houdini ways however I have seen the changes in him I’m just letting God decide whether we should give it a second chance
My engagement recently ended found out she was getting high and cheating behind my back I now have full custody of my son and she has supervised visits 3 days a week but I still LOVE her I’m having a really hard time thank the lord for my son being safe with me but I still miss her
Some of it never comes from those in the relationship but, from those connected to it. Sometimes, those that had the relationship just want to move on with their live while, others stay stuck on dwelling on what was and is now completely over. It’s delusional thinking sometimes ❤✌🏾
YES True...I wish I would have NEVER met him though. I'm trying to be free and I feel I can't be free because he has his people spying on me when we're not even a couple anymore. I can't do this anymore.
Almost to the point of acceptance....i feel a great loss because we madebplans that were important to use both amd will never come to fruition.i miss her bery much but can't go back to the past qnd fix it
It’s been a month already since I ended it & I can’t stop thinking about her .. I just don’t have the energy to talk to anyone else. All I see is her .. and it sucks cause when I get time to myself my mind thinks of her again
Don't trust someone who you don't know , i fell in love with this new girl in school we've been dating for a year now , the next day she broke up with me in front of the whole class i never spoke to her agian , she texted me every night but i don't reply ,i never even looked at her , i was so embarrassed and she even laughed when she said it
There is nothing better to move on too my life is empty and meaningless. I loved you with everything in my being i put everything i was and had into this relationship with you and i knew in my heart we were supposed to be together forever and you abandoned me. Im all alone. Im lost without you my love. I will always be here waiting for you. You have my heart and my soul forever. I don't want anything or anyone else in this world but you and me and our lives we planned together. I will be here carrying my heavy heart. If you want to talk to me i will be here to listen. 💗🐇🧸💗 😭💔💔
Yall if they show signs of not even wanting to call or even talk to you ditch you for their friends and fight with you for stupid things make sure they actually like/love you me and my bf of 1 yr broke up today because of it but it might not be for everyone If u don’t know how to deal with a break up before u go further with “okay but I still love you and do you hate me and I want to keep dating you etc” DONT TAKE IT FURTHER say “okay but can we try to be friends? “ only If u we’re friends before or just say “okay” bc then if u keep going they will get mad and things will get worse if u do go further say this “i like abt you as friends bc your …..” then you say what makes it nice about having eachother company and why you would miss not doing these things etc that’s what my mom told me and it helped me heal in 1-2 hrs ❤ ur not alone (this was my experience)
It ended abruptly & bad. And I wasn’t happy with the way I dealt with it & the things I said. Just feel so off. I wonder if I’ll ever heal from that relationship
PERSONALLY OF COURSE CARING , IS RESPECT THATS FOR YOUR SELF AS WELL AS THE INDIVIDUAL JUST BECAUSE YOU CARE DOES NOT MEAN OPENING THE DOOR FEELING YOU HAVE TO BE WITH THE INDIVIDUAL IF SO THEN RESPECT WHAT CAUSE THE PROBLEM IN THE BEGINNING FOR THE SEPARATION , DEPART , THE BIG QUESTION IS THEIR TRUST AND FORGIVENESS ARE JUST THE THOUGHTS OF BEING HURT AGAIN NO 🙏🏽✝️🕊 I SPEAK TO SAY ADULT ‘s ARE ADULTS SUPPOSED TO BE CARING IS DEFINITELY FOR I MYSELF TOTALLY TWO DIFFERENT THINGS I DO NOT BELIEVED IN LOVE AS THAT I SAY FOR MY SELF I WILL KEEP FORWARD NOT BACKWARDS. IF SO ITS NOT ✝️ HEALTHY AND THE THING About The Whole situation The Individual Know They Are Not In Your Best Interest Of Course Caring Might Be And Maybe Not So Sincere Just Doing It Because They Feel The Individual Will Allow It This Both Ways Men And Women s Move On Leave All That Unnecessary Alone Just ✝️Move On I Am Always Enjoying Your Sit Down ‘ Mr Stephan God Blessed 🙏🏽✝️🕊
Girl just broke up with me and I’m broken. She won’t even answer any of my calls. Told me she’ll drop off my stuff in front of my building tomorrow and leave. Doesn’t even want to sit next to me in class (we’re in grad school together). I’m so lost. I keep crying.
Don’t fight it let the emotions flow it’s the only way you can heal.
Don’t do what I did I stabed my self and now I have a scare for life
Never has that helped me
😅😅
Amen. You need to ugly cry, scream and punch a pillow, it’s all apart of healing. Pushing it down and acting like you’re fine is the worst thing you can do
@@musicwithj1759that's what I did bro now look where I am 😭😭
You can care about someone you break up with but still know leaving was the right thing to do
Right on!❤
That was my first big break up. This one’s harder because I don’t think leaving them is the right thing to do but it’s not my choice this time
@@John_Adams1775were in this together brother, dont lose hope
@John_Adams1775 I'm in you're position rn 😴 shit is tough
BS
I don't really know how to thank you Dr Oluwaseun for your great spell you're great at your work I thank you for bringing my lover back with your love spell Dr Oluwaseun….😇
He’s on Facebook page….
Everything feels so different without her in my life now, she made me feel happy..until she wouldn't answer my texts or calls and didnt really talk to me much and even through that..she was using me for my body and would gaslight me ..i don't understand why i didnt leave at least 6 months ago. She took my heart and stomped on it and handed it back to me.
My ex just did the same thing to me and no apology. 10 years wasted🙏🏾💔
Stop falling in love with the potential and not the reality. You cannot force change, and you shouldn't try to manipulate someone into changing. Sure you see how great things could be but it may not be that yet. Sometimes holding on is worse than letting go. Hope keeps you staying. Your heart wars with your mind. But you have to learn to let go. You're only hurting yourself. Acknowledge that you love them and that you care, and wish them well, pray they eat just now at a different table. Move forward and heal.
Whew I needed that message
❤
“Let the emotions flow” honestly that’s something I’ve never done but this video actually inspired me
This is why I wrote my No Contact book Silence is your Superpower … no contact HAS to be done right ♥️
Just ended a two year relationship, its hard but it needed to happen. Im uncontrollably sobbing even though i did the right thing, this really helps
🙏🙏🙏🙏👍
@@vlj1601 im doing a lot better, thanks for asking! Its still hard but its getting better and im really healing from it
Me too sis.
God will heal us
I'm going to end it on Monday if he picks the other girl.
Thank you I have been fighting my feelings. It's been a year since my divorce after 21yrs married. I wish I could forget him and move on. He's cheated and moved on so fast. I'm tired of being sad.
Going thru it too. It takes a long time to heal but it will get better. Try to enjoy your new feedom & go out find friends, travel. Stay strong.
21 years may take longer to heal
I pray you are in a better place.
Going through a bad break up currently..7years just lost like that.im in so much pain,i can't explain it.im broken.
You okay now ?
I'm okay thanks for asking
❤ sending you healing hugs
How are you Managing it?
I wish you so much peace and healing…I’m goin thru a breakup as well….13 yrs of hell and I’m so hurt…I know what you’re going thru…Keep Ya Head Up ❤❤
Leaving is never an easy decision, been there! Be true to who you are for your own Self Love & Self preservation! Question to ask yourself....can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person with the way things are? If you cannot, there is the answer! Tough but true!🙏🙏🙏
Just recently got out of a 7 year relationship d this really helps a lot man , fighting the urge to call her and speak to her .. feeling like she still wants this and wants me .. its a battle
Current update , we’ve been dealing with each other and she’s been trying to string me along , she hung up on and and I decided to not call back .. I’m currently feeling free and al most better than ever .. I’ll never let her get close to me again no matter how hard she tries or “claims” she’ll work on something .. actions speak louder than words people !! Release that old energy so that you can accept in the new !
Current update , we’ve been back together since march and we’ve found ways to make everything better now she’s moving like the love of my life and I love it
@@ricardoblackett6718 be playful ..dont take her seriously..treat like a child..thank me later..
@@ricardoblackett6718😂😂😂😂 I hope this time it last 🙏
@@ricardoblackett6718nice to hear that, hope u both can love each other stronger than before
Accept how you feel, where you are at the moment (which is not the best place but it is the fact), allow emotions circulate but don't let them take you too far. It comes a point where sadness, loss or disappointment can quickly turn into self blaming, resentment or even desire for revenge. And that's very slippy road to go. I've been there and there's no fun. Suddenly bad thinking becomes a habit, that baggage feel so heavy that you can barely live day after day, these thought cycles takes away all the joy and gratefulness for what we have right now. Unfortunately, or actually, fortunately, only option is to process and forgive. Yourself at first, then other person. We thrive. We then open and create space for new. Even for ex. It's a mature approach and we feel more power and control within. This is very encouraging and other people can feel it.
so true and wonderfully written
@@tameka5356 Thank You
💔💔 I'm so sad. Day 2. I did contact him and he's no longer responding. I feel like a piece of trash he just easily discarded. Building up to the break up he was gaslighting me. What a cowardly way to end things.
He will get his Karma
Hang in there. I’ve experienced that when they are doing something hurtful they gaslight u to make it easier for them
I hope you can find peace in all of this. I'm not asking you to be understanding of them. Just want to say that it's a strong possibility that they just DON'T KNOW HOW TO end a relationship. I pray that you can find a way to eventually be gracious towards them. They just might learn a thing or two from you on how to end things with respect. 😔
I’m going through the exact same thing he broke up with me just yesterday 😢
Going thru this now!!!!
I felt this to my core. I wish it was a Manual on how to keep my heart from continuously shattering into pieces
Going thru this now, barely could work yesterday I was crying. Today I couldn't barely eat, had 2 cups of coffee, water, and almost a half a crumbl cookie. I just wanted to keep pacing and stay distracted. I went outside and walked and talked to my friend, it made me feel better. I needed to focus on the stuff that made us not work.
I hope you’re feeling better ❤️❤️
@@Smoking_Lofi yep
Going through this now. I don’t know what to do anymore or who to turn to. I feel so alone.
@stevie-lynnhearl5168 it gets better. A month after we ended he started liking my post, this month which makes 2 months he followed me on instagram and inbox me. I went into no contact after we ended. It was hard but I'm a different woman. I've learned my lesson and finally understand that I just have to leave a man alone if he can't treat me how I deserve to be treated. He wasn't a bad guy just other things that pulled us a part. I hope you feel better soon.
Hey how are you doing now? I’m going through a break up myself and wanted to see how you’re dealing with it after 2 months
Just last night my gf (the one in my profile pic) decided it was best if we weren’t together, I don’t know if she’s telling the truth or not but she says she believes it will better me if I’m with someone who isn’t as busy as her. We’ve been dating for a year and a half and I thought she was my soulmate. This video helps me a lot but I still miss her so much.
Try ten years and engaged. I thought she was my soul mate too. But the way she ended things is kinda hard for me to forgive at the moment. And my breakup was around the same time as yours. So I feel you man. 💩 hurts badly. And knowing we could have made it work is one of the hardest parts to deal with. I’m in so much pain. Ten years……..Gone. Just like that! 😢
@@threepiecewithasidebiscuit3527you shouldn’t compare your time to someone else’s. It doesn’t matter if it was just a year it still hurt them. 1 year or 10 years the pain is still there. Smh
She just broke up with me and i found out she was cheating on me thesee emotions i am feeling are over whelming me
start working out
I've been fighting in isolation since the summer of 2022. I have acted liked I moved on. I have ignored it. I have even prayed to God to help me forget about them. I have cried and went through so many emotions because I was fighting how I really felt and not understanding. I was angry with myself because I couldn't stop caring or loving someone that I don't have communication with. I felt so low, because I felt like that to someone that didn't want to be with me. What sane person would still have feelings for someone like that? But when I started focusing on God, reading my Bible, and praying more I've learned to not fight it and let it be, but allow time to heal. Letting my feelings be is apart of the healing process. God wants us to forgive, yet love others regardless of who they are. Doesn't always mean you have to be with them, but love them. I noticed that the more I Iet my feelings be, the less emotions I go through. I am happier and the feelings are slowly going away.❤
Tell the truth the truth will set you free
If you’re going through something, just remember that millions of othrs have done it before you and made it out fine.
Thank you for this ❤
Walked completely away, went No Contact before i knew what it was. No I’m happier and Blessed by the Best! 😊TGBTG
Yes, I took this advice and started to, speak the reasons and true desires for that person. Then declared gratitude for the opportunity while it lasted! I begin to feel better & heal. Thank You Steven for the advice!
My current situation 🙏🏾
We know that we have broken up with the person, but yet we are still hoping deep down that it’s gonna get sorted and be okay one day… and that, in turn, leaves you stuck into the emotions and leaves you locked in the heartbreak for longer ❤❤
I just broke up today and I’m thinking of making myself a better person
I just keep feeling like I made a big mistake and can’t shake it
Thankfully, I am already more than aware that I haven't been in love with my soon to be exhusband. I'm nothing more than a convenience for him. My intuition allows me to see through his honeywords.
But damn it’s been like a year feeling like this I’m ready to let this shit go
Amen 🙌 let it flow naturally god is still good and our help through hardships❤
I have blocked all his contacts, I will be better. Please be brave to move on.
That's absolutely true Steph. This is what I am coming from. U know when in read ur book love after heartbreak I could go thru the feeling. It wasn't easy but am gradually getting better. After accepting those feelings n letting it weights out while praying to be free from it as well.
Feel the Emotions Self Reflection Is Key and evaluate the relationship was it more harmful then it was healthy and if it was more harmful that was something that you needed to move out the way so God can do better things in your life and send you a better person and put you in your purpose.
I kept lots of things to myself. It did not pay to fight with them especially when they are drunk.
I felt that
Thank you … we just broke up today on mutual agreement we both need our own time to focus on ourselves for improvement while there’s the distance between us , so not easy for us to see each other as much as we use to . We both decided to improve a ourselves through work & finance . If future brings us together again then great. we decided to be friends to support each other during this tough time
Watching your videos for several months and at that time I was in a mess but listening and learning and putting in to practice with your life lessons ive started to let go.....i started looking after me doing stuff i gave up on things i loved to do before marriage and i realise i was just doing what he wanted.....and i went to myself and just woke up to my reality now its easier for letting go..... I only remember him when someone asks for him or see me alone....but i am in a better place than i was .....and i realise i am a strong woman and he was the weak one...... Yes i will always care about him but he has to do him and grow in his way..... Just as ive grown in my way....life lesson
My mind is racing. I feel like a fool, again. It took me 6yrs to try to date again. I’m a single mom. Thank the Lord my kids are at their dads tonight! And yes, my sons have 2 different dads. Maybe I’m the problem. I give up. No use to keep trying and keep on being a dumbass through life.
It is not your fault. There's nothing wrong with you. Relationships are hard. There's no easy way. Otherwise there wouldn't be so much expert advice .
I wish you the best going forward.
Put your trust in God not man and realize you're a good human being, good mother.❤❤❤
How are you doing now?
I find myself crying a lot because I told myself it was okay to cry!! So I allow myself to feel the emotions and cry because it’s apart of my healing. I am beautiful but forgot what it’s like to be a feminine woman, and I just want to feel that again and be that. My relationship angered me smh 😢
This is one of the best advices i ever heard!
❤Yes, go with the Flow...I don't look back
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"I could never just watch you walk by
maybe because your eyes
remind me of the nights we spent together
i cant look in the eyes i once saw a future together in and pretend to see nothing."
Yep.. flow with how you feel!! That’s how you heal actually
Just ended a 12yr relationship with a girl. We first started dating at age 12. Shes been around for nearly almost half my life 😴 kinda sad thinking the way things ended. I pray we may cross paths later down the line. I miss n love her so much 💔
Ty I needed this king. It’s tough but I got this!!
So absolutely true ❤
Wow I definitely need to hear that because that is something I need to think about for my own peace.
Thank you! You have helped me more than you will ever know... there are no words! 🌻🦋💚 other then Gratitude Abounds!
Yep agree I didn’t fight it but it’s hard as I don’t want to vulnerable with him and make him see as if I want us to get back together time heals he does still care for me and misses me he is affectionate and is a caring person but when I let my emotions flow it’s brought him back into my life but I’m doing so much better healed and done things for me that I can’t deal with his mixed signals and Houdini ways however I have seen the changes in him I’m just letting God decide whether we should give it a second chance
Yes
My engagement recently ended found out she was getting high and cheating behind my back I now have full custody of my son and she has supervised visits 3 days a week but I still LOVE her I’m having a really hard time thank the lord for my son being safe with me but I still miss her
Yes is best to let it flow. When you try to fight bcse the worst you make it , when you have a break up.
Great Advice!
Some of it never comes from those in the relationship but, from those connected to it. Sometimes, those that had the relationship just want to move on with their live while, others stay stuck on dwelling on what was and is now completely over. It’s delusional thinking sometimes ❤✌🏾
I care so much that I cry every night and day I can’t stop thinking about hime and wished i was still with him he makes me so happy 😭😭😭😭
YES True...I wish I would have NEVER met him though. I'm trying to be free and I feel I can't be free because he has his people spying on me when we're not even a couple anymore. I can't do this anymore.
Same thought
Some ppl deal with breakups in different ways. Some take breakups hard n some get over it quick etc.
Good morning 🌄🌅 I going to flow . Thanks again 🙏🏼🙏🏼 smen
This really helped me
GOD gave u a great amount of wisdom
Totally helped!!!
Almost to the point of acceptance....i feel a great loss because we madebplans that were important to use both amd will never come to fruition.i miss her bery much but can't go back to the past qnd fix it
She said she can't continue anymore,after 4 years of relationship,it hurts more because she was also my best friend
It’s been a month already since I ended it & I can’t stop thinking about her .. I just don’t have the energy to talk to anyone else. All I see is her .. and it sucks cause when I get time to myself my mind thinks of her again
Don't trust someone who you don't know , i fell in love with this new girl in school we've been dating for a year now , the next day she broke up with me in front of the whole class i never spoke to her agian , she texted me every night but i don't reply ,i never even looked at her , i was so embarrassed and she even laughed when she said it
If i flow with how i feel i will literally go back crawling to him begging for one last try
This is last breakup for me I’m 46 and I can’t do this shit no more😩😩😩 all my relationships these men break my heart. I’m done ✅
I didn't go through a breakup. But, the person that I fell in love with, has a girlfriend, and that hurts just as bad.
Yeah
I’m really burning right now. This hurts so bad. She had to let me go. 😢🔥
Thank you I just got a through a really tuff break up and trying my hardest to get my heart out
So true! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Dont fight it ' heal it 👍
How I wish I can find a way to heal so fast
Yk its gonna be good when you tap on the video and see a muscular guy with 🔥 hair spitting facts with his hands like 🙏
Thank you for sharing ❤️ It hard
I’d love to follow this advice, but I don’t want love anymore, it hurts too much after she did the things to me that she blamed me for.
Hit the gym hard💪🏽
I pray ☺️
Healing amen
There is nothing better to move on too my life is empty and meaningless. I loved you with everything in my being i put everything i was and had into this relationship with you and i knew in my heart we were supposed to be together forever and you abandoned me. Im all alone. Im lost without you my love. I will always be here waiting for you. You have my heart and my soul forever. I don't want anything or anyone else in this world but you and me and our lives we planned together. I will be here carrying my heavy heart. If you want to talk to me i will be here to listen. 💗🐇🧸💗 😭💔💔
How are you doing now?
@@diamondsngunns88 Im doing very well thank you for asking. 🩵 It is very kind of you to think about me
@@diamondsngunns88 I am better still homeless living in my car with my dog but I'm over that shit
Thank you bro i just went throw a break up today in the morning when i just woke up 😢
True 🙏❤️
Listen to this dude....Flow with how you feel that's great advice for a violent person ..
Thank you ❤
I miss her and never wanted this but I had to respect myself. It got that bad. I still want to be with her too
this is truth
Yall if they show signs of not even wanting to call or even talk to you ditch you for their friends and fight with you for stupid things make sure they actually like/love you me and my bf of 1 yr broke up today because of it but it might not be for everyone
If u don’t know how to deal with a break up before u go further with “okay but I still love you and do you hate me and I want to keep dating you etc” DONT TAKE IT FURTHER say “okay but can we try to be friends? “ only If u we’re friends before or just say “okay” bc then if u keep going they will get mad and things will get worse if u do go further say this “i like abt you as friends bc your …..” then you say what makes it nice about having eachother company and why you would miss not doing these things etc that’s what my mom told me and it helped me heal in 1-2 hrs ❤ ur not alone (this was my experience)
It ended abruptly & bad. And I wasn’t happy with the way I dealt with it & the things I said. Just feel so off. I wonder if I’ll ever heal from that relationship
What does it mean to let it flow
To give yourself permission to feel your feelings. Talk it out. Cry it out.
I need to hear this tonight
Thank you brother
I left I had my reasons ❤
Yes thank you ❤
😢😢 i loved truly
PERSONALLY OF COURSE CARING , IS RESPECT THATS FOR YOUR SELF AS WELL AS THE INDIVIDUAL JUST BECAUSE YOU CARE DOES NOT MEAN OPENING THE DOOR FEELING YOU HAVE TO BE WITH THE INDIVIDUAL IF SO THEN RESPECT WHAT CAUSE THE PROBLEM IN THE BEGINNING FOR THE SEPARATION , DEPART , THE BIG QUESTION IS THEIR TRUST AND FORGIVENESS ARE JUST THE THOUGHTS OF BEING HURT AGAIN NO 🙏🏽✝️🕊 I SPEAK TO SAY ADULT ‘s ARE ADULTS SUPPOSED TO BE CARING IS DEFINITELY FOR I MYSELF TOTALLY TWO DIFFERENT THINGS I DO NOT BELIEVED IN LOVE AS THAT I SAY FOR MY SELF I WILL KEEP FORWARD NOT BACKWARDS. IF SO ITS NOT ✝️ HEALTHY AND THE THING About The Whole situation The Individual Know They Are Not In Your Best Interest Of Course Caring Might Be And Maybe Not So Sincere Just Doing It Because They Feel The Individual Will Allow It This Both Ways Men And Women s Move On Leave All That Unnecessary Alone Just ✝️Move On I Am Always Enjoying Your Sit Down ‘ Mr Stephan God Blessed 🙏🏽✝️🕊
I just broke up with my girl,this vid helped me man
Thank you so much I’m only 10 and going through a breakup
Ugh i still love and miss my ex a lot. He was my best friend and i considered him family. However I left him and won't go back due to his betrayl
Girl just broke up with me and I’m broken. She won’t even answer any of my calls. Told me she’ll drop off my stuff in front of my building tomorrow and leave. Doesn’t even want to sit next to me in class (we’re in grad school together). I’m so lost. I keep crying.
Right
It’s been 2 weeks since my break up and it’s so hard because I am depressed and I feel
like I can’t move on 😢
rosary spotted let goooooooooo
Yes God Cristina Castro please help me please amen ♥️
Amen 🙏